Divorce at Altitude: A Podcast on Colorado Family Law

Parental Relocation in Divorce: Legal and Social Science InsightsIn this episode of Divorce at Altitude, Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha explore the complex and high-stakes world of parental relocation after separation or divorce. Joined by Dr. Kate McNamara, a child and family evaluator, they dive into the legal framework in Colorado, social science research, and practical strategies for navigating relocation cases—where children’s stability, parental rights, and family dynamics intersect.Guest InformationDr. Kate McNamara, PhD is a licensed psychologist and child/family evaluator with decades of experience in parental responsibility evaluations, long-distance parenting coordination, and therapy. She provides expert insight on social capital, risk factors, and protective factors that influence children’s adjustment to relocation.Episode HighlightsLegal framework for relocation – Understanding Colorado statutes (C.R.S. 14-10-124 & 129), pre-decree vs. post-decree relocation, and burden-shifting standards from key cases like Cheslick, Spawner, and In re Dale. Social capital and children’s outcomes – How the web of relationships with family, friends, teachers, and community supports affects adjustment to relocation. Age-specific risks – Young children, adolescents, and children with special needs face unique challenges in maintaining relationships and routines. Gatekeeping and parental involvement – Restrictive behaviors that limit access to the non-relocating parent can significantly impact relocation outcomes. Practical planning – Designing parenting plans, summer schedules, and decision-making protocols to mitigate stress and preserve relationships. Evidence-based evaluation – Using tools like PREs, CFIs, and risk assessment models to forecast potential impacts on children and guide informed judicial decisions. Why Listen? Whether you are a parent, attorney, or family law professional, this episode equips you with the knowledge to understand relocation risks, legal requirements, and strategies to support children through high-stakes transitions. Learn how to balance parental rights, child stability, and long-term well-being in complex relocation scenarios.What is Divorce at Altitude? Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha provide tips and recommendations on issues related to divorce, separation, and co-parenting in Colorado. Ryan and Amy are the founding partners of an innovative and ambitious law firm, Kalamaya | Goscha, that pushes the boundaries to discover new frontiers in family law, personal injuries, and criminal defense in Colorado. To subscribe to Divorce at Altitude, click here and select your favorite podcast player. To subscribe to Kalamaya | Goscha's YouTube channel where many of the episodes will be posted as videos, click here.  If you have additional questions or would like to speak to one of our attorneys, give us a call at 970-429-5784 or email us at [email protected].************************************************************************DISCLAIMER: THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS ON THIS PODCAST IS FOR ENTERTAINMENT AND INFORMATIONAL PURPOSES AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL ADVICE. CONTACT AN ATTORNEY IN YOUR STATE OR AREA TO OBTAIN LEGAL ADVICE ON ANY OF THESE ISSUES.

Divorce Technology and Onward.life: Simplifying Financial, Legal, and Emotional ChallengesIn this episode of Divorce at Altitude, Ryan Kalamaya is joined by Alexa and Jason, the founders of Onward.life, a legal tech platform designed to help individuals navigate the complexities of divorce. From financial disclosures to co-parenting plans and emotional wellness, this conversation explores how technology is streamlining divorce processes and providing holistic support for families.Guest InformationAlexa experienced the frustrations of divorce firsthand, inspiring her to create Onward.life to support others through financial, legal, and emotional aspects. Jason Weiss co-founded the company, bringing deep experience in technology and product development to ensure the platform is practical, secure, and user-friendly. Together, they provide a holistic solution for those navigating divorce, whether self-represented or working with attorneys.Episode HighlightsOrigin story – How Alexa’s personal divorce experience led to the creation of Onward.life. Financial transparency and automation – Using open banking and AI tools to import and organize assets, debts, income, and expenses for accurate disclosure and planning. Legal guidance – Helping users prepare for state-specific financial statements and co-parenting plans, with ongoing support throughout the process. Emotional wellness – Interactive tools like the Feelings Wheel, journaling, and daily check-ins to address mental health during divorce. AI in divorce tech – Supporting tasks in the background without replacing human judgment or legal counsel. Community and resources – Access to peer forums, educational content, and therapist-led support groups. Why Listen? Whether you’re navigating divorce personally or professionally, this episode offers insights into how technology can reduce stress, save time, and empower families. Learn how Onward.life integrates legal, financial, and emotional support into a single, accessible platform.What is Divorce at Altitude? Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha provide tips and recommendations on issues related to divorce, separation, and co-parenting in Colorado. Ryan and Amy are the founding partners of an innovative and ambitious law firm, Kalamaya | Goscha, that pushes the boundaries to discover new frontiers in family law, personal injuries, and criminal defense in Colorado. To subscribe to Divorce at Altitude, click here and select your favorite podcast player. To subscribe to Kalamaya | Goscha's YouTube channel where many of the episodes will be posted as videos, click here.  If you have additional questions or would like to speak to one of our attorneys, give us a call at 970-429-5784 or email us at [email protected].************************************************************************DISCLAIMER: THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS ON THIS PODCAST IS FOR ENTERTAINMENT AND INFORMATIONAL PURPOSES AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL ADVICE. CONTACT AN ATTORNEY IN YOUR STATE OR AREA TO OBTAIN LEGAL ADVICE ON ANY OF THESE ISSUES.

Digital Assets, Cryptocurrency & Privacy in DivorceIn this episode of Divorce at Altitude, Ryan Kalamaya is joined by Chicago-based family law attorney Jonathan Steele to explore the rapidly evolving world of digital assets, cryptocurrency, and privacy in divorce cases. As technology continues to shape financial and personal lives, this episode breaks down how crypto works in divorce, common misconceptions, and practical strategies for uncovering hidden assets while protecting client privacy.Guest InformationJonathan Steele is a family law attorney based in Chicago with a unique background that combines divorce law with cybersecurity and digital privacy expertise. During the COVID era, he developed a deep focus on digital assets, authentication of evidence, and privacy issues—particularly in high-asset divorce and stalking-related cases. In addition to practicing family law, Jonathan consults on cybersecurity and digital privacy matters, helping attorneys and clients navigate complex issues involving cryptocurrency, digital tracking, and online data.Episode HighlightsWhat counts as a digital asset in divorce Jonathan explains that digital assets go beyond cryptocurrency. They can include domain names, software, online businesses, and other digital property.The biggest misconception about cryptocurrency A key myth is that crypto is completely anonymous. Jonathan clarifies that it is actually “pseudonymous,” meaning transactions are permanently recorded on a blockchain.Understanding exchanges vs. cold storage Ryan and Jonathan break down how crypto is held. Exchanges like Coinbase function similarly to brokerage accounts, while cold storage wallets (offline devices) act more like a private safe.Why subpoenas aren’t always enough Many attorneys default to subpoenaing exchanges, but Jonathan notes that this often misses the bigger picture. The “on-ramp and off-ramp” strategy Instead of starting with exchanges, Jonathan recommends looking at bank statements.Cold wallets and the seed phrase problem Cold storage wallets require a private “seed phrase” (often 12 words) to access funds.What is Divorce at Altitude? Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha provide tips and recommendations on issues related to divorce, separation, and co-parenting in Colorado. Ryan and Amy are the founding partners of an innovative and ambitious law firm, Kalamaya | Goscha, that pushes the boundaries to discover new frontiers in family law, personal injuries, and criminal defense in Colorado. To subscribe to Divorce at Altitude, click here and select your favorite podcast player. To subscribe to Kalamaya | Goscha's YouTube channel where many of the episodes will be posted as videos, click here.  If you have additional questions or would like to speak to one of our attorneys, give us a call at 970-429-5784 or email us at [email protected].************************************************************************DISCLAIMER: THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS ON THIS PODCAST IS FOR ENTERTAINMENT AND INFORMATIONAL PURPOSES AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL ADVICE. CONTACT AN ATTORNEY IN YOUR STATE OR AREA TO OBTAIN LEGAL ADVICE ON ANY OF THESE ISSUES.

Forensic Accounting in Divorce: Following the Money with Doug CashIn this episode of Divorce at Altitude, Amy Goscha is joined by forensic accountant Doug Cash to discuss how forensic accounting fits into divorce cases, especially when one spouse knows far more about the finances than the other. Doug explains the difference between tracing and following money, how forensic accountants differ from business valuation experts, and why getting a forensic accountant involved early can make a major difference in a divorce case.Guest InformationDoug Cash is a forensic accountant with Eide Bailly whose background is unusually rooted in law enforcement and financial investigations. He spent nearly three decades in law enforcement in New Mexico and Arizona, including work as a fraud detective with the City of Mesa, as a special agent for the State of Arizona investigating insurance fraud, and in anti-money laundering and anti-terrorist financing investigations for JPMorgan Chase.Episode HighlightsWhy forensic accounting matters in divorce Amy and Doug discuss how many divorce cases involve a major imbalance in financial knowledge. One spouse may have managed the business, accounts, and records, while the other has little idea where the money went or what the actual financial picture looks like.Doug’s unusual path into forensic accounting Doug shares that his professional background began in law enforcement, not accounting. He started as a police officer at 18 later moved into fraud investigations, worked insurance fraud and anti-money laundering cases and eventually transitioned into forensic accounting.The difference between a forensic accountant and a business valuation expert Doug explains that a business valuation expert is usually working from financial statements profit and loss statements, tax returns, and other summarized documents to form an opinion about what a business is worth.Why source documents matter A recurring theme in the episode is that source documents are critical. Doug explains that tax returns and sworn financial statements are only numbers on a page unless someone checks the documents underneath them.How forensic accountants can help shape discovery Doug notes that forensic accountants can be useful before discovery is even served. By helping attorneys identify the right documents and requests early they can make the process more efficient and targeted.What is Divorce at Altitude? Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha provide tips and recommendations on issues related to divorce, separation, and co-parenting in Colorado. Ryan and Amy are the founding partners of an innovative and ambitious law firm, Kalamaya | Goscha, that pushes the boundaries to discover new frontiers in family law, personal injuries, and criminal defense in Colorado. To subscribe to Divorce at Altitude, click here and select your favorite podcast player. To subscribe to Kalamaya | Goscha's YouTube channel where many of the episodes will be posted as videos, click here.  If you have additional questions or would like to speak to one of our attorneys, give us a call at 970-429-5784 or email us at [email protected].************************************************************************DISCLAIMER: THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS ON THIS PODCAST IS FOR ENTERTAINMENT AND INFORMATIONAL PURPOSES AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL ADVICE. CONTACT AN ATTORNEY IN YOUR STATE OR AREA TO OBTAIN LEGAL ADVICE ON ANY OF THESE ISSUES.

Discretionary Trusts in Divorce: What Is Actually Protected?In this episode of Divorce at Altitude, Ryan Kalamaya is joined by associate attorney McKenzie Ralston to discuss discretionary trusts and how they are treated in Colorado divorce cases. Many people believe that assets held in a trust are “bulletproof” and completely protected from division—but as Ryan and McKenzie explain, that is not always the case. The episode explores when trusts are protected, when they may be considered property, and how trust distributions can still impact child support and spousal maintenance.Guest InformationMcKenzie Ralston is an associate attorney at Kalamaya Goscha with a background in estate planning and tax law. She earned both her Juris Doctor and a Master’s in Tax from the University of Denver Sturm College of Law. McKenzie brings a unique perspective to family law by focusing on the intersection of divorce, trusts, and estate planning, helping clients understand how wealth structures like trusts are treated in divorce proceedings.Episode HighlightsWhy people think trusts are “bulletproof” Ryan explains that many clients come into divorce believing that if assets are in a trust, they are automatically protected. While this is sometimes true, it depends heavily on the type of trust and how it is structured.What is a discretionary trust? McKenzie breaks down discretionary trusts as trusts where the trustee has full discretion over whether to make distributions to the beneficiary. This means the beneficiary does not have a guaranteed right to receive money.Revocable vs. irrevocable trusts Revocable trusts can be changed or revoked by the person who created them and are generally not considered property in divorce. Irrevocable trusts, on the other hand, cannot be changed and may raise more complex issues.When a trust becomes property in divorce The episode highlights that not all trusts are protected. If a beneficiary has a guaranteed right to receive assets—such as in certain remainder interests—those assets may be considered property under Colorado law.The Balanson case and why it matters Ryan and McKenzie discuss In re Marriage of Balanson, a key Colorado case that established that even a future interest in a trust can be considered property if it cannot be withheld.What is Divorce at Altitude? Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha provide tips and recommendations on issues related to divorce, separation, and co-parenting in Colorado. Ryan and Amy are the founding partners of an innovative and ambitious law firm, Kalamaya | Goscha, that pushes the boundaries to discover new frontiers in family law, personal injuries, and criminal defense in Colorado. To subscribe to Divorce at Altitude, click here and select your favorite podcast player. To subscribe to Kalamaya | Goscha's YouTube channel where many of the episodes will be posted as videos, click here.  If you have additional questions or would like to speak to one of our attorneys, give us a call at 970-429-5784 or email us at [email protected].************************************************************************DISCLAIMER: THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS ON THIS PODCAST IS FOR ENTERTAINMENT AND INFORMATIONAL PURPOSES AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL ADVICE. CONTACT AN ATTORNEY IN YOUR STATE OR AREA TO OBTAIN LEGAL ADVICE ON ANY OF THESE ISSUES.

Colorado Child Support Statute Updates: What Changes in 2025 and 2026 Mean for FamiliesIn this episode of Divorce at Altitude, Amy Goscha and associate attorney Kate Mulholland break down major updates to Colorado’s child support statute. They explain how House Bill 25-1159 changes the treatment of extraordinary medical expenses, tax credits, retroactive child support, low-income calculations, and parenting-time credits. The conversation focuses on what family law practitioners and parents need to know as the new rules take effect in phases across 2025 and 2026.Guest InformationKate Mulholland is an associate attorney at Kalamaya Goscha, where she practices primarily family law and also handles criminal defense and civil protection order matters. She joined the firm in August 2024 and works on contested family law issues, post-decree disputes, motions practice, and cases involving the overlap between family law and criminal law.Episode HighlightsWhy Colorado overhauled its child support framework Kate explains that House Bill 25-1159 is the most significant child support update in more than a decade. The goal is to modernize the statute to reflect current cost-of-living realities, address low-income situations more fairly, clarify medical expense handling, and align state practice with IRS guidance on tax benefits.Medical expense changes effective May 31, 2025 One of the first major updates eliminated the old $250 threshold that each parent had to meet before being reimbursed for extraordinary medical expenses.Ordinary vs. extraordinary medical expenses are now defined The statute now clearly distinguishes between ordinary and extraordinary medical expenses. Extraordinary expenses include co-pays, deductibles, uninsured out-of-pocket expenses, prescription medication, medical equipment, orthodontia, and dental treatment.Why this matters in real life Amy and Kate use Eric and Melanie Wolf as an example. Before the update, Melanie might have had to spend $250 of her own money on the children’s extraordinary medical expenses before she could seek reimbursement.The statute now creates more predictability for reimbursement Kate notes that the updated law also gives structure to reimbursement timing. A parent seeking reimbursement must provide proof within a reasonable time, and if proof is not provided by July 1 of the following year.What is Divorce at Altitude? Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha provide tips and recommendations on issues related to divorce, separation, and co-parenting in Colorado. Ryan and Amy are the founding partners of an innovative and ambitious law firm, Kalamaya | Goscha, that pushes the boundaries to discover new frontiers in family law, personal injuries, and criminal defense in Colorado. To subscribe to Divorce at Altitude, click here and select your favorite podcast player. To subscribe to Kalamaya | Goscha's YouTube channel where many of the episodes will be posted as videos, click here.  If you have additional questions or would like to speak to one of our attorneys, give us a call at 970-429-5784 or email us at [email protected].************************************************************************DISCLAIMER: THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS ON THIS PODCAST IS FOR ENTERTAINMENT AND INFORMATIONAL PURPOSES AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL ADVICE. CONTACT AN ATTORNEY IN YOUR STATE OR AREA TO OBTAIN LEGAL ADVICE ON ANY OF THESE ISSUES.

Meet Associate Kate Mulholland: Family Law, Criminal Defense, and Supporting Clients Through CrisisIn this episode of Divorce at Altitude, Amy Goscha introduces associate attorney Kate Mulholland and discusses her background, her path into law, and the perspective she brings to family law cases. They explore her experience in divorce, parenting disputes, civil protection orders, and criminal defense, along with the importance of communication, managing expectations, and supporting clients through high-stress situations.Guest InformationKate Mulholland is an associate attorney at Kalamaya Goscha, focusing primarily on family law while also handling criminal defense and civil protection order matters. Originally from Ohio, Kate moved to Colorado for law school and gained extensive early experience through internships, trial work, and clinical programs. Her practice includes contested divorce issues, post-decree modifications, mediation, and cases involving the intersection of family law and criminal law.Episode HighlightsKate’s path into family law Kate shares that personal experiences with family members going through divorce inspired her to pursue family law, where she can make a meaningful impact during critical moments in clients’ lives.Early hands-on legal experience From working with the Denver Municipal Public Defender to participating in DU’s criminal defense clinic, Kate gained trial and appellate experience early in her career, shaping her litigation skills.The firm’s team-based approach Amy and Kate discuss the partner-associate-paralegal model, emphasizing how collaboration improves strategy, efficiency, and client outcomes.How Kate supports clients in high-stress situations Kate focuses on meeting clients where they are emotionally while ensuring they have a full support system, including therapists, financial professionals, and co-parenting coaches.The importance of early intervention Addressing issues early in a case especially those involving children and finances can prevent escalation and lead to better long-term outcomes.Managing client expectations realistically Kate emphasizes transparency from the beginning, helping clients understand both the strengths and limitations of their case and the realities of the legal system.What is Divorce at Altitude? Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha provide tips and recommendations on issues related to divorce, separation, and co-parenting in Colorado. Ryan and Amy are the founding partners of an innovative and ambitious law firm, Kalamaya | Goscha, that pushes the boundaries to discover new frontiers in family law, personal injuries, and criminal defense in Colorado. To subscribe to Divorce at Altitude, click here and select your favorite podcast player. To subscribe to Kalamaya | Goscha's YouTube channel where many of the episodes will be posted as videos, click here.  If you have additional questions or would like to speak to one of our attorneys, give us a call at 970-429-5784 or email us at [email protected].************************************************************************DISCLAIMER: THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS ON THIS PODCAST IS FOR ENTERTAINMENT AND INFORMATIONAL PURPOSES AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL ADVICE. CONTACT AN ATTORNEY IN YOUR STATE OR AREA TO OBTAIN LEGAL ADVICE ON ANY OF THESE ISSUES.

Youth Sports and Divorce: How Parents Can Keep Kids Out of the ConflictIn this episode of Divorce at Altitude, Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha discuss how youth sports can become a major source of conflict in divorce and co-parenting cases. They explain why sports can be incredibly positive for children, how parental pressure and competing households can complicate things, and what parents should address in a parenting plan to avoid turning sports into another battleground.Episode HighlightsWhy youth sports matter so much in divorce cases Sports are often a huge part of a child’s life and identity. They provide physical activity, structure, resilience, teamwork, leadership, friendships, and an emotional outlet. For children going through divorce, sports can also be a stabilizing force and a break from family stress.The benefits of youth sports for kids Ryan and Amy highlight that sports teach children how to fail safely, recover from setbacks, and commit to something bigger than themselves. They also emphasize the mental health benefits, physical movement, and social belonging that sports can provide during a difficult family transition.How youth sports have become much more intense Both Ryan and Amy note that youth sports today are far more intense than when they were growing up. Seasons now run year-round, travel teams start younger, and the pressure to specialize early has increased dramatically.The different developmental stages matter Ryan explains that younger children should usually be in a “sampling” phase, trying different sports and activities rather than specializing too early. As kids get older, one or two sports may emerge more naturally, but parents should be careful not to force specialization before the child is ready.The danger of parental pressure One of the biggest themes of the episode is how easy it is for parents to make sports about themselves. Parents may project their own hopes, identity, or fears onto the child. That can lead to too much pressure, burnout, and conflict both with the child and with the other parent.Why divorced parents often clash over sports Sports can create disputes over schedules, practices, tournaments, coaching roles, costs, travel, and how much commitment is too much. One parent may view a sport as an important developmental opportunity, while the other sees it as an expensive, disruptive, or unnecessary burden.What is Divorce at Altitude? Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha provide tips and recommendations on issues related to divorce, separation, and co-parenting in Colorado. Ryan and Amy are the founding partners of an innovative and ambitious law firm, Kalamaya | Goscha, that pushes the boundaries to discover new frontiers in family law, personal injuries, and criminal defense in Colorado. To subscribe to Divorce at Altitude, click here and select your favorite podcast player. To subscribe to Kalamaya | Goscha's YouTube channel where many of the episodes will be posted as videos, click here.  If you have additional questions or would like to speak to one of our attorneys, give us a call at 970-429-5784 or email us at [email protected].************************************************************************DISCLAIMER: THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS ON THIS PODCAST IS FOR ENTERTAINMENT AND INFORMATIONAL PURPOSES AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL ADVICE. CONTACT AN ATTORNEY IN YOUR STATE OR AREA TO OBTAIN LEGAL ADVICE ON ANY OF THESE ISSUES.

Sleepaway Summer Camps and Divorce: How Parents Can Plan AheadIn this episode of Divorce at Altitude, Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha discuss how sleepaway summer camps can become a major issue in divorce and co-parenting cases. They explain why camps can be valuable for kids, why they often create conflict between parents, and how careful planning in a parenting plan can prevent unnecessary disputes.Episode HighlightsWhy sleepaway camp becomes a divorce issue Summer camp is not just about fun. For divorced parents, it often means lost parenting time, extra expenses, travel logistics, and disagreements over whether camp is even a good idea. Ryan and Amy explain that this becomes especially important when parents already feel like they are losing time with their children.The emotional side of camp for parents One of the biggest drivers of conflict is emotional. A parent may feel that a sleepaway camp takes away precious summer time with their child, especially when parenting time is already divided. That emotional reaction can turn camp into a bigger fight than it might otherwise be.History and family tradition matter If a child has gone to the same camp for years, or if one parent has a personal connection to that camp from childhood, that history can make the issue more complicated. A legacy camp may feel deeply meaningful to one parent while the other sees it as unnecessary or one-sided.Why early planning is critical Many sleepaway camps fill up months in advance. Ryan and Amy stress that if parents wait too long to discuss camp, the issue can become a crisis. They recommend addressing summer camp deadlines early in the year and putting specific planning deadlines into parenting agreements.Why judges are not the best solution for camp disputes If parents wait until there is a fight and then try to get a judge to decide, it may be too late. Courts are unlikely to treat a summer camp disagreement as an emergency, which means the timing often makes litigation impractical.What “nesting” means and why it matters Although the main focus is summer camp, Ryan and Amy touch on nesting as another example of creative parenting solutions. In a nesting arrangement, the children stay in one home while the parents rotate in and out. They note that families in mountain communities may have housing setups, such as lock-offs, that make these arrangements more realistic.What is Divorce at Altitude? Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha provide tips and recommendations on issues related to divorce, separation, and co-parenting in Colorado. Ryan and Amy are the founding partners of an innovative and ambitious law firm, Kalamaya | Goscha, that pushes the boundaries to discover new frontiers in family law, personal injuries, and criminal defense in Colorado. To subscribe to Divorce at Altitude, click here and select your favorite podcast player. To subscribe to Kalamaya | Goscha's YouTube channel where many of the episodes will be posted as videos, click here.  If you have additional questions or would like to speak to one of our attorneys, give us a call at 970-429-5784 or email us at [email protected].************************************************************************DISCLAIMER: THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS ON THIS PODCAST IS FOR ENTERTAINMENT AND INFORMATIONAL PURPOSES AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL ADVICE. CONTACT AN ATTORNEY IN YOUR STATE OR AREA TO OBTAIN LEGAL ADVICE ON ANY OF THESE ISSUES.

The holiday season can amplify both the joy and the stress for divorced or separated parents. In this re-broadcasted episode of Divorce at Altitude, Ryan and Amy revisit one of the most common challenges families face this time of year: creating a holiday parenting plan that works for everyone—especially your kids.We break down the key differences between regular parenting schedules and holiday-specific schedules, and why courts often treat them separately. Ryan and Amy also walk through important considerations such as your child’s age, travel logistics, extended family involvement, and how your existing custody arrangement interacts with holiday time.You’ll also learn practical strategies for minimizing holiday conflict, including when a parenting coordinator may help, how to approach scheduling conversations proactively, and ways to reduce last-minute surprises.Because every family is unique, the episode highlights an online tool designed to help you thoughtfully plan both regular and holiday parenting schedules.What is Divorce at Altitude? Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha provide tips and recommendations on issues related to divorce, separation, and co-parenting in Colorado. Ryan and Amy are the founding partners of an innovative and ambitious law firm, Kalamaya | Goscha, that pushes the boundaries to discover new frontiers in family law, personal injuries, and criminal defense in Colorado. To subscribe to Divorce at Altitude, click here and select your favorite podcast player. To subscribe to Kalamaya | Goscha's YouTube channel where many of the episodes will be posted as videos, click here.  If you have additional questions or would like to speak to one of our attorneys, give us a call at 970-429-5784 or email us at [email protected].************************************************************************DISCLAIMER: THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS ON THIS PODCAST IS FOR ENTERTAINMENT AND INFORMATIONAL PURPOSES AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL ADVICE. CONTACT AN ATTORNEY IN YOUR STATE OR AREA TO OBTAIN LEGAL ADVICE ON ANY OF THESE ISSUES.

Spousal Maintenance and Domestic Violence: A New Factor in Colorado DivorceIn this episode of Divorce at Altitude, Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha explore how spousal maintenance (alimony) is evolving in Colorado specifically with the introduction of new considerations around coercive control, domestic violence, and financial abuse. They explain how these factors may now influence whether maintenance is awarded, how much, and for how long.Episode HighlightsWhat is spousal maintenance and when does it apply Spousal maintenance comes into play when one spouse cannot meet their reasonable financial needs after divorce through property division and their own income. Amy explains that Colorado uses an advisory guideline based on income and length of marriage, but courts still retain discretion.How maintenance law has evolved in Colorado Ryan walks through how the maintenance statute has changed over time—from discretionary factors to guideline formulas, tax law changes, and now the addition of new behavioral considerations like coercive control and abuse.The new factor: coercive control and domestic violence Courts are now required to consider whether there was domestic violence, emotional abuse, financial control, or litigation abuse when determining maintenance. This marks a shift from focusing purely on financial need to also considering the dynamics of the relationship.Financial abuse as part of the analysis Amy highlights real-world examples of financial abuse, such as one spouse controlling all accounts, limiting access to money, or placing debt in the other spouse’s name. These behaviors may now directly impact maintenance outcomes.How this could change outcomes in divorce cases The new factor could increase maintenance for a victim spouse or potentially prevent a perpetrator from receiving maintenance. Judges may weigh these dynamics when deciding fairness and equity between the parties.Challenges in applying the new law Ryan notes that courts historically avoided examining why a marriage ended. Now, judges must navigate sensitive and often complex allegations of abuse, which may be difficult to prove and evaluate.What is Divorce at Altitude? Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha provide tips and recommendations on issues related to divorce, separation, and co-parenting in Colorado. Ryan and Amy are the founding partners of an innovative and ambitious law firm, Kalamaya | Goscha, that pushes the boundaries to discover new frontiers in family law, personal injuries, and criminal defense in Colorado. To subscribe to Divorce at Altitude, click here and select your favorite podcast player. To subscribe to Kalamaya | Goscha's YouTube channel where many of the episodes will be posted as videos, click here.  If you have additional questions or would like to speak to one of our attorneys, give us a call at 970-429-5784 or email us at [email protected].************************************************************************DISCLAIMER: THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS ON THIS PODCAST IS FOR ENTERTAINMENT AND INFORMATIONAL PURPOSES AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL ADVICE. CONTACT AN ATTORNEY IN YOUR STATE OR AREA TO OBTAIN LEGAL ADVICE ON ANY OF THESE ISSUES.

Complex Assets in Divorce: RSUs, Stock Options, and Valuation StrategiesIn this episode of Divorce at Altitude, Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha break down one of the most complicated areas in modern divorce cases: how to identify, value, and divide complex assets like restricted stock units (RSUs), stock options, and deferred compensation. As compensation structures evolve—especially in tech and finance—these assets are showing up more frequently and creating significant challenges for both attorneys and clients.Episode HighlightsWhy complex assets matter more than ever With the rise of equity-based compensation like RSUs and stock options, more divorces involve assets that are not straightforward cash or property. These assets can be highly valuable but also difficult to understand, classify, and divide.Understanding RSUs and stock options Ryan explains that RSUs and stock options are common forms of compensation, particularly in tech companies. While stock options give an employee the right to buy shares at a set price, RSUs are shares granted subject to restrictions, often tied to time or performance.The importance of vesting A key issue is vesting—when the employee actually gains the right to access or sell the asset. Many clients assume that unvested assets are not divisible, but Amy emphasizes that even unvested portions may still be partially marital depending on the circumstances.Marital vs. separate property analysis Determining whether these assets are marital or separate requires analyzing employment agreements, grant documents, and case law. Courts often look at whether the asset was earned during the marriage or tied to future performance after the divorce.The time rule formula Amy explains the commonly used “time rule,” which helps allocate the marital portion of an asset. This involves comparing the time worked during the marriage to the total vesting period to determine what percentage is marital.Valuation challenges and expert involvement Valuing these assets can be complex, especially when dealing with private companies or performance-based vesting. Experts—such as business valuation professionals—are often necessary to determine fair market value and apply appropriate discounts or models.What is Divorce at Altitude? Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha provide tips and recommendations on issues related to divorce, separation, and co-parenting in Colorado. Ryan and Amy are the founding partners of an innovative and ambitious law firm, Kalamaya | Goscha, that pushes the boundaries to discover new frontiers in family law, personal injuries, and criminal defense in Colorado. To subscribe to Divorce at Altitude, click here and select your favorite podcast player. To subscribe to Kalamaya | Goscha's YouTube channel where many of the episodes will be posted as videos, click here.  If you have additional questions or would like to speak to one of our attorneys, give us a call at 970-429-5784 or email us at [email protected].************************************************************************DISCLAIMER: THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS ON THIS PODCAST IS FOR ENTERTAINMENT AND INFORMATIONAL PURPOSES AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL ADVICE. CONTACT AN ATTORNEY IN YOUR STATE OR AREA TO OBTAIN LEGAL ADVICE ON ANY OF THESE ISSUES.

Should I Stay or Should I Go? Moving Out During DivorceIn this episode of Divorce at Altitude, Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha discuss one of the most common and difficult early decisions in divorce: whether one spouse should move out of the shared home. They break down the legal, emotional, financial, and strategic factors that go into this decision, emphasizing that there is no one-size-fits-all answer.Episode HighlightsWhy this is such a common questionWhen couples begin the process of separation, they are often still living under the same roof. This creates tension and uncertainty, leading many people to ask whether they should leave, stay, or try to make the other person move out.Safety should always come firstRyan explains that the number one consideration is safety. If there are escalating arguments, substance use, or any risk of domestic violence, continuing to live together can be dangerous. In those cases, creating physical separation can significantly reduce risk.The impact on childrenEven when there is no physical conflict, a toxic or tense environment can negatively affect children. Amy highlights that parents need to consider whether the home environment is emotionally stable enough for kids during this transition.When moving out may make senseMoving out can help reduce conflict, especially in high-tension situations or when one party has started a new relationship. It can also create space for both parties to begin adjusting to a new routine.Reasons to consider staying in the homeRyan notes that financial realities—especially high housing costs—can make moving out difficult. Some couples are able to live separately within the same home, which can reduce immediate disruption and allow for a smoother transition for children.Understanding nesting arrangementsAmy explains “nesting,” where children remain in the home and parents rotate in and out. This can be a creative short-term solution, especially in homes with separate living spaces like lock-offs or guest units.Moving out does not mean losing your rightsA key myth addressed is that leaving the home means giving up legal rights to it. Both Ryan and Amy emphasize that there is no automatic legal disadvantage to moving out when it comes to property division or custody.What is Divorce at Altitude? Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha provide tips and recommendations on issues related to divorce, separation, and co-parenting in Colorado. Ryan and Amy are the founding partners of an innovative and ambitious law firm, Kalamaya | Goscha, that pushes the boundaries to discover new frontiers in family law, personal injuries, and criminal defense in Colorado. To subscribe to Divorce at Altitude, click here and select your favorite podcast player. To subscribe to Kalamaya | Goscha's YouTube channel where many of the episodes will be posted as videos, click here.  If you have additional questions or would like to speak to one of our attorneys, give us a call at 970-429-5784 or email us at [email protected].************************************************************************DISCLAIMER: THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS ON THIS PODCAST IS FOR ENTERTAINMENT AND INFORMATIONAL PURPOSES AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL ADVICE. CONTACT AN ATTORNEY IN YOUR STATE OR AREA TO OBTAIN LEGAL ADVICE ON ANY OF THESE ISSUES.

Mental Mindsets and Client Management in DivorceIn this episode of Divorce at Altitude, Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha discuss the human side of divorce representation: client management, emotional bandwidth, expectations, and how mindset affects decision-making throughout a divorce or custody case. Drawing on both legal experience and Amy’s perspective as a divorce client herself, they explain why good outcomes often depend as much on emotional management as legal strategy.Episode HighlightsWhy client management matters so much in family lawDivorce clients are often dealing with fear, grief, anger, uncertainty, and life-changing decisions all at once. Ryan and Amy explain that family law attorneys are not just handling legal issues they are helping clients move through a process that can feel like their whole life is falling apart.When clients want the lawyer to do everythingMany clients feel so overwhelmed that they want their attorney to completely take over. Amy notes that this is understandable, but there are limits: the lawyer can guide, advise, and help organize, but the client still has to make certain decisions and participate in the process.The “divorce fog” is realA major theme of the episode is that clients in crisis often cannot process information the same way they normally would. Something that might take an hour in ordinary life can take two hours or more during divorce because of emotional overload, anxiety, trauma, or uncertainty.Why responsiveness matters so muchRyan and Amy stress that when a client emails and does not hear back, they can quickly feel unimportant, ignored, or abandoned. Communication is a huge part of effective representation because silence often fuels anxiety and spiraling.Why clients sometimes just want to “do something”When a case reaches a lull, clients can feel like nothing is happening and become reactive. Ryan compares this to walking around on an airplane during a long flight: movement feels productive, even when it is not. That can lead to impulsive requests for motions, subpoenas, or other legal actions that may not actually help.What is Divorce at Altitude? Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha provide tips and recommendations on issues related to divorce, separation, and co-parenting in Colorado. Ryan and Amy are the founding partners of an innovative and ambitious law firm, Kalamaya | Goscha, that pushes the boundaries to discover new frontiers in family law, personal injuries, and criminal defense in Colorado. To subscribe to Divorce at Altitude, click here and select your favorite podcast player. To subscribe to Kalamaya | Goscha's YouTube channel where many of the episodes will be posted as videos, click here.  If you have additional questions or would like to speak to one of our attorneys, give us a call at 970-429-5784 or email us at [email protected].************************************************************************DISCLAIMER: THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS ON THIS PODCAST IS FOR ENTERTAINMENT AND INFORMATIONAL PURPOSES AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL ADVICE. CONTACT AN ATTORNEY IN YOUR STATE OR AREA TO OBTAIN LEGAL ADVICE ON ANY OF THESE ISSUES.

The Double Dip in Colorado Divorce: Business Valuation and SupportIn this episode of Divorce at Altitude, Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha tackle a technical but important issue in Colorado divorce law: the “double dip.” The discussion focuses on what happens when a business owner’s future earnings are used both to value a business for property division and again to calculate support, such as child support or spousal maintenance.Ryan and Amy explain that Colorado includes personal goodwill in business valuations, which can create tension when those same earnings are later counted as income for support. They walk through the difference between personal goodwill and enterprise goodwill, how business valuation experts use the excess earnings method, and why Colorado’s current case law can produce outcomes that feel unfair to the business-owning spouse.Episode HighlightsWhat the “Double Dip” MeansThe “double dip” happens when the same stream of earnings is counted twice: first in valuing a business for property division, and again when calculating support.Personal Goodwill vs. Enterprise GoodwillA central part of the episode is the distinction between personal goodwill and enterprise goodwill. Personal goodwill is tied to the owner’s reputation, relationships, and skills.Why Colorado Stands OutRyan notes that Colorado is in the minority of states that include personal goodwill as a divisible marital asset. Other states either exclude it entirely or take a more complicated approach.How the Excess Earnings Method WorksAmy and Ryan explain that business valuation experts often use the excess earnings method to value personal goodwill. The expert determines what a “normal” professional in that field would earn, compares it to what the owner actually earns, and capitalizes the difference to produce a goodwill value.Why Future Earnings Are at the Center of the ProblemThe concern with the excess earnings method is that it effectively values future earnings. If those future earnings are then also used as income for child support or spousal maintenance, the business owner may feel like the same dollars are being counted twice.What is Divorce at Altitude? Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha provide tips and recommendations on issues related to divorce, separation, and co-parenting in Colorado. Ryan and Amy are the founding partners of an innovative and ambitious law firm, Kalamaya | Goscha, that pushes the boundaries to discover new frontiers in family law, personal injuries, and criminal defense in Colorado. To subscribe to Divorce at Altitude, click here and select your favorite podcast player. To subscribe to Kalamaya | Goscha's YouTube channel where many of the episodes will be posted as videos, click here.  If you have additional questions or would like to speak to one of our attorneys, give us a call at 970-429-5784 or email us at [email protected].************************************************************************DISCLAIMER: THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS ON THIS PODCAST IS FOR ENTERTAINMENT AND INFORMATIONAL PURPOSES AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL ADVICE. CONTACT AN ATTORNEY IN YOUR STATE OR AREA TO OBTAIN LEGAL ADVICE ON ANY OF THESE ISSUES.

Divorce and Real Estate: What Your Attorney May Not Tell YouIn this episode of Divorce at Altitude, Ryan Kalamaya is joined by Karla Kyte, a Certified Divorce Lending Professional, to discuss one of the most overlooked parts of divorce: real estate and mortgage planning. They break down the costly mistakes people make when they assume keeping or buying a home will be simple after divorce, and why involving a divorce mortgage expert during settlement negotiations can make a major difference.Karla explains how child support, spousal maintenance, temporary orders, refinancing, equity buyouts, and loan assumptions can all impact whether a divorcing spouse will actually qualify for a mortgage.Guest InformationKarla Kyte is a Denver-area lender with more than 27 years of experience and has been a Certified Divorce Lending Professional (CDLP) since 2017. In addition to her lending work, she now runs a fee-based divorce mortgage planning business focused on helping divorcing individuals and attorneys structure settlements that can actually be executed after decree.Episode HighlightsWhy Real Estate Is So Often Mishandled in Divorce Karla explains that many divorcing spouses ask, “Why didn’t my attorney tell me this?” The reason is not that attorneys are doing something wrong, but that mortgage planning is its own specialty.How Child Support and Maintenance Affect Mortgage Qualification One of the biggest issues is timing. To use support income for mortgage qualification, the receiving party must usually have both a court order and a documented payment history.Why the Length of Support Matters More Than People Realize Karla points out that if support ends too soon, it may not count at all for mortgage qualification. That means even a person receiving significant monthly support might not be able to use it if the support term is too short.The Importance of Temporary Orders Temporary support orders can start the clock for mortgage qualification. If support is being paid during the divorce and documented correctly, it can later help a spouse qualify once permanent orders are entered.Why Payments Must Be Set Up Properly Support payments must be traceable. Karla explains that support should be paid from one spouse’s individual account into the other spouse’s individual account. If parties simply move money around informally or through joint accounts.What is Divorce at Altitude? Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha provide tips and recommendations on issues related to divorce, separation, and co-parenting in Colorado. Ryan and Amy are the founding partners of an innovative and ambitious law firm, Kalamaya | Goscha, that pushes the boundaries to discover new frontiers in family law, personal injuries, and criminal defense in Colorado. To subscribe to Divorce at Altitude, click here and select your favorite podcast player. To subscribe to Kalamaya | Goscha's YouTube channel where many of the episodes will be posted as videos, click here.  If you have additional questions or would like to speak to one of our attorneys, give us a call at 970-429-5784 or email us at [email protected].************************************************************************DISCLAIMER: THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS ON THIS PODCAST IS FOR ENTERTAINMENT AND INFORMATIONAL PURPOSES AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL ADVICE. CONTACT AN ATTORNEY IN YOUR STATE OR AREA TO OBTAIN LEGAL ADVICE ON ANY OF THESE ISSUES.

Property Division and Spousal Maintenance in Colorado: How They Work TogetherIn this episode of Divorce at Altitude, Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha break down an issue that confuses many people going through divorce: how property division affects spousal maintenance in Colorado. They explain that there is no bright-line rule saying a spouse automatically receives or does not receive maintenance based on a certain amount of property. Instead, courts look at the full picture, including the size and nature of the marital estate, the parties’ incomes, their lifestyle during the marriage, and whether the spouse receiving property can use that property to meet their reasonable needs.Ryan and Amy also discuss why the type of asset matters just as much as the value. A spouse receiving liquid, income-producing assets is in a very different position than one receiving a business interest, retirement funds, or a house with substantial equity but no immediate cash flow. The conversation highlights why divorce negotiations involving both property and maintenance require careful planning and often financial expertise.Episode HighlightsColorado Is an Equitable Distribution State, Not a Strict 50/50 State Ryan and Amy explain that Colorado divides marital property equitably, which often starts near a 50/50 framework, but not always.There Is No Set Dollar Amount That Eliminates Maintenance One of the biggest misconceptions is that if a spouse receives a certain amount of property, they automatically lose any claim to maintenance. Ryan and Amy make clear that Colorado law does not set a threshold where maintenance automatically disappears.Property Is Divided Before Maintenance Is Awarded A major theme in the episode is that courts first determine how property is divided, and only then decide whether maintenance is appropriate.Liquid Assets Versus Illiquid Assets Matter a Great Deal Amy and Ryan explain that not all assets are equal. A spouse receiving stocks, bonds, or other income-producing assets may be in a stronger financial position than one receiving a house or a share of a business that cannot easily be converted into income.A Business Interest Can Complicate Maintenance If one spouse keeps a closely held business that makes up most of the marital estate, the other spouse may need to be paid through a promissory note over time.What is Divorce at Altitude? Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha provide tips and recommendations on issues related to divorce, separation, and co-parenting in Colorado. Ryan and Amy are the founding partners of an innovative and ambitious law firm, Kalamaya | Goscha, that pushes the boundaries to discover new frontiers in family law, personal injuries, and criminal defense in Colorado. To subscribe to Divorce at Altitude, click here and select your favorite podcast player. To subscribe to Kalamaya | Goscha's YouTube channel where many of the episodes will be posted as videos, click here.  If you have additional questions or would like to speak to one of our attorneys, give us a call at 970-429-5784 or email us at [email protected].************************************************************************DISCLAIMER: THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS ON THIS PODCAST IS FOR ENTERTAINMENT AND INFORMATIONAL PURPOSES AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL ADVICE. CONTACT AN ATTORNEY IN YOUR STATE OR AREA TO OBTAIN LEGAL ADVICE ON ANY OF THESE ISSUES.

Colorado Family Law Rule Changes: What Divorcing Families Need to KnowIn this episode of Divorce at Altitude, Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha discuss major proposed changes to Colorado’s family law procedural rules. Amy shares insight from her two years of work on the project, explaining why Colorado is moving toward a more family-specific set of court procedures and how these changes could affect divorcing parents, attorneys, self-represented parties, and other family law professionals.Ryan and Amy break down why the current civil rules often do not fit family law cases well, especially when children are involved, and how the proposed rules aim to make the system more efficient, more understandable, and more responsive to the realities of divorce and parenting disputes.Episode HighlightsWhy Colorado Is Updating Family Law Rules Amy explains that the main motivation behind the project is recognition that families entering the court system have different needs than parties in general civil litigation.The Problem With Using General Civil Rules in Family Law Cases Colorado currently relies heavily on broader civil procedure rules, even though family law disputes are fundamentally different from construction, business, or personal injury cases.How Other States Influenced the Project The committee looked closely at states like Arizona, which has had separate family law procedural rules in place since 2006. Those rules have been well received and helped inform Colorado’s proposed reforms.The Large Number of Self-Represented Litigants A major driver of the changes is the fact that a very high percentage of people in family court do not have lawyers. The new rules are intended to make the process easier to understand and navigate for those individuals while also helping courts manage cases more effectively.A Broad and Diverse Committee Worked on the Changes Amy describes how the project involved judges, attorneys, court facilitators, dispute resolution professionals, and others. The goal was to include multiple perspectives so the rules would be practical for everyone who works in or relies on the family court system.What is Divorce at Altitude? Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha provide tips and recommendations on issues related to divorce, separation, and co-parenting in Colorado. Ryan and Amy are the founding partners of an innovative and ambitious law firm, Kalamaya | Goscha, that pushes the boundaries to discover new frontiers in family law, personal injuries, and criminal defense in Colorado. To subscribe to Divorce at Altitude, click here and select your favorite podcast player. To subscribe to Kalamaya | Goscha's YouTube channel where many of the episodes will be posted as videos, click here.  If you have additional questions or would like to speak to one of our attorneys, give us a call at 970-429-5784 or email us at [email protected].************************************************************************DISCLAIMER: THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS ON THIS PODCAST IS FOR ENTERTAINMENT AND INFORMATIONAL PURPOSES AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL ADVICE. CONTACT AN ATTORNEY IN YOUR STATE OR AREA TO OBTAIN LEGAL ADVICE ON ANY OF THESE ISSUES.

High Conflict Divorce: How to Navigate Conflict Without Making It WorseIn this episode of Divorce at Altitude, Amy Goscha is joined by divorce mediator and coach Liz Merrill to discuss one of the most challenging areas in family law: high conflict divorce. Liz shares both her professional experience and her personal perspective after going through a high conflict divorce herself, explaining why these cases are so difficult and why traditional divorce processes often fail to address the real dynamics at play.Amy and Liz explore what “high conflict” actually means, how it differs from ordinary divorce conflict, and why understanding the psychological patterns behind a high conflict spouse is so important. They also discuss practical tools for people dealing with an abusive or escalated partner, including boundary-setting, de-escalation techniques, and how to decide whether mediation is realistic or whether litigation and legal support are necessary.Guest InformationLiz Merrill is a divorce mediator and divorce coach based in the Fort Collins area. She specializes in high conflict divorce cases and helps clients navigate separation in a way that reduces escalation and protects their long-term ability to co-parent.Episode HighlightsWhat High Conflict Divorce Really Means Liz explains that high conflict divorce can look different depending on the couple. Sometimes both spouses are escalated and difficult, but often one spouse is the true high conflict individual while the other is reacting to years of dysfunction, abuse, or control.Traits of a High Conflict Person High conflict individuals often show patterns such as extreme self-focus, black-and-white thinking, emotional reasoning, dishonesty, rule-breaking, and a willingness to use children as pawns.Why Mediation Is Not Always the Right Fit Many people, especially those leaving abusive or high conflict marriages, want mediation because they are afraid of litigation and want to avoid a battle.How a Divorce Coach Helps Before the Divorce Is Filed For clients like “Melanie,” Liz helps create a plan before announcing the divorce. That can include gathering financial documents, locating passports and Social Security cards, preparing for possible retaliation.The Importance of Safety Planning If there is any threat of physical violence or severe emotional abuse, Liz says the first priority is safety.What is Divorce at Altitude? Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha provide tips and recommendations on issues related to divorce, separation, and co-parenting in Colorado. Ryan and Amy are the founding partners of an innovative and ambitious law firm, Kalamaya | Goscha, that pushes the boundaries to discover new frontiers in family law, personal injuries, and criminal defense in Colorado. To subscribe to Divorce at Altitude, click here and select your favorite podcast player. To subscribe to Kalamaya | Goscha's YouTube channel where many of the episodes will be posted as videos, click here.  If you have additional questions or would like to speak to one of our attorneys, give us a call at 970-429-5784 or email us at [email protected].************************************************************************DISCLAIMER: THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS ON THIS PODCAST IS FOR ENTERTAINMENT AND INFORMATIONAL PURPOSES AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL ADVICE. CONTACT AN ATTORNEY IN YOUR STATE OR AREA TO OBTAIN LEGAL ADVICE ON ANY OF THESE ISSUES.

Financial Abuse in Divorce: Recognizing the Signs and Protecting YourselfIn this episode of Divorce at Altitude, Ryan Kalamaya is joined by New York matrimonial attorney Lisa Zeiderman to discuss the often overlooked but highly damaging issue of financial abuse in marriage and divorce. Lisa explains how financial abuse is rooted in control and can take many forms, from withholding access to money and financial information to restricting credit, hiding tax returns, and forcing one spouse into complete financial dependence.Ryan and Lisa explore how financial abuse can affect both lower-earning and higher-earning spouses, why many victims do not recognize it until they are deep into a divorce, and what practical steps people can take to protect themselves. The episode focuses on empowering listeners to understand the warning signs, seek support, and take action before or during a divorce proceeding.Guest InformationLisa Zeiderman is the Managing Partner of Miller Zeiderman LLP in New York. She regularly handles complex financial and custody matters for high-net-worth individuals and is widely recognized for her work in matrimonial law. In addition to her legal practice, Lisa writes on legal and psychological issues, contributes to financial publications.Episode HighlightsWhat Financial Abuse Really Means Lisa defines financial abuse as a form of control. It happens when one spouse is denied access to money, credit, financial records, tax returns, or decision-making power, leaving them dependent and disempowered.The Difference Between Disinterest and Abuse Ryan and Lisa discuss the distinction between a spouse who simply chooses not to engage in the family finances and a spouse who is actively excluded from them.Warning Signs to Watch For The episode identifies key red flags, including not being allowed to see tax returns, being told to “just sign here,” not having access to bank accounts or credit cards, having passwords changed, being unable to pay for basics.Financial Abuse Can Affect Breadwinners Too Lisa points out that financial abuse is not limited to the lower-earning spouse. In some relationships, even the primary breadwinner can be manipulated into surrendering control of their income and finances.Why Transparency Matters in Marriage Ryan and Lisa emphasize that both spouses should understand the financial picture of the household.What is Divorce at Altitude? Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha provide tips and recommendations on issues related to divorce, separation, and co-parenting in Colorado. Ryan and Amy are the founding partners of an innovative and ambitious law firm, Kalamaya | Goscha, that pushes the boundaries to discover new frontiers in family law, personal injuries, and criminal defense in Colorado. To subscribe to Divorce at Altitude, click here and select your favorite podcast player. To subscribe to Kalamaya | Goscha's YouTube channel where many of the episodes will be posted as videos, click here.  If you have additional questions or would like to speak to one of our attorneys, give us a call at 970-429-5784 or email us at [email protected].************************************************************************DISCLAIMER: THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS ON THIS PODCAST IS FOR ENTERTAINMENT AND INFORMATIONAL PURPOSES AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL ADVICE. CONTACT AN ATTORNEY IN YOUR STATE OR AREA TO OBTAIN LEGAL ADVICE ON ANY OF THESE ISSUES.

New Relationships and Divorcegasmic: Navigating Love After DivorceIn this episode of Divorce at Altitude, Ryan Kalamaya is joined by mediator, therapist, divorce coach, and podcast host Karen McNaney to talk about one of the most emotionally charged and often overlooked parts of divorce: new relationships. Karen introduces the concept of “Divorcegasmic,” the exhilarating phase when someone begins rediscovering themselves, dating again, and imagining a new life after divorce.Karen shares insights from her own divorce and her work helping families move through separation with less destruction and more intention. Together, she and Ryan explore how new partners can complicate the divorce process, especially when children are involved.Guest InformationKaren McNaney is a mediator, divorce coach, therapist, and the founder of the Good Divorce Experience. She is also the host of The Good Divorce Show, where she shares stories and strategies for helping families navigate divorce in healthier ways. Karen focuses on co-parenting, financial planning, and relationship literacy, and has spent more than 25 years helping people improve how they relate to one another in work, family, and divorce.Episode HighlightsWhat “Divorcegasmic” Means Karen explains Divorcegasmic as the phase when someone starts to emerge from the pain of divorce and rediscover excitement, attraction, sex, possibility, and freedom.Why Timing Matters in New Relationships Ryan and Karen discuss the importance of agreeing on a “starting gate” for dating during divorce. One spouse may feel ready to date as soon as divorce is mentioned, while the other may believe dating should wait until the divorce is final.Discretion vs. Deception Karen makes an important distinction between being deceptive and being discreet. She encourages people not to flaunt a new relationship during the divorce process, especially on social media or in front of the children.Why New Partners Should Not Be Introduced Too Soon Karen recommends waiting at least six months before introducing a serious new partner to children.How to Introduce a New Partner to Children If a relationship becomes serious, Karen advises telling the co-parent first, then gradually introducing the new partner to the children in a casual, low-pressure setting like a park, school event, or volunteer activity.What is Divorce at Altitude? Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha provide tips and recommendations on issues related to divorce, separation, and co-parenting in Colorado. Ryan and Amy are the founding partners of an innovative and ambitious law firm, Kalamaya | Goscha, that pushes the boundaries to discover new frontiers in family law, personal injuries, and criminal defense in Colorado. To subscribe to Divorce at Altitude, click here and select your favorite podcast player. To subscribe to Kalamaya | Goscha's YouTube channel where many of the episodes will be posted as videos, click here.  If you have additional questions or would like to speak to one of our attorneys, give us a call at 970-429-5784 or email us at [email protected].************************************************************************DISCLAIMER: THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS ON THIS PODCAST IS FOR ENTERTAINMENT AND INFORMATIONAL PURPOSES AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL ADVICE. CONTACT AN ATTORNEY IN YOUR STATE OR AREA TO OBTAIN LEGAL ADVICE ON ANY OF THESE ISSUES.

First Divorce Consultation: The Questions Everyone AsksIn this episode of Divorce at Altitude, Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha walk through the most common questions people ask in an initial divorce consultation. Using their hypothetical client Eric Wolf, they break down what someone should expect when they first meet with a divorce attorney after learning their marriage is ending.Ryan and Amy explain that the first meeting is often a form of triage. Clients are usually scared, overwhelmed, and unsure what matters legally versus emotionally. This episode covers the questions that almost everyone asks at the beginning, from whether the reason for the divorce matters, to parenting time, dating, moving out, property division, and spousal maintenance. The goal is to help listeners understand the process and leave that first consultation with more clarity and less fear.Episode HighlightsDoes the Reason for the Divorce Matter? Ryan and Amy explain that Colorado is a no-fault divorce state, so affairs and other marital misconduct generally do not determine the legal outcome. However, the reason for the divorce can still matter emotionally and can influence the tone of negotiations.Does It Matter Who Files First? In most Colorado divorces, filing first does not create a major legal advantage. Ryan and Amy discuss how the more important issue is often how the case begins.How Is Custody Decided in Colorado? Amy explains that Colorado no longer uses the term custody, but instead refers to allocation of parental responsibilities, which includes both parenting time and decision-making.What About Equal Parenting Time? Ryan and Amy note that there has been a growing trend in Colorado toward equal parenting time, especially when both parents are actively involved and there are no serious concerns affecting the children’s best interests.When Can You Start Dating? The answer is that there is no legal rule prohibiting dating during a divorce, but Ryan and Amy caution that it can create emotional, practical, and parenting complications.What is Divorce at Altitude? Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha provide tips and recommendations on issues related to divorce, separation, and co-parenting in Colorado. Ryan and Amy are the founding partners of an innovative and ambitious law firm, Kalamaya | Goscha, that pushes the boundaries to discover new frontiers in family law, personal injuries, and criminal defense in Colorado. To subscribe to Divorce at Altitude, click here and select your favorite podcast player. To subscribe to Kalamaya | Goscha's YouTube channel where many of the episodes will be posted as videos, click here.  If you have additional questions or would like to speak to one of our attorneys, give us a call at 970-429-5784 or email us at [email protected].************************************************************************DISCLAIMER: THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS ON THIS PODCAST IS FOR ENTERTAINMENT AND INFORMATIONAL PURPOSES AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL ADVICE. CONTACT AN ATTORNEY IN YOUR STATE OR AREA TO OBTAIN LEGAL ADVICE ON ANY OF THESE ISSUES.

Personal Growth and Financial Resilience During DivorceIn this episode of Divorce at Altitude, Ryan Kalamaya welcomes back Karen McMahon, a seasoned divorce coach and host of the Journey Beyond Divorce podcast, to discuss the intersection of personal growth, productivity, and financial resilience during divorce. Together, they focus on how executives, business owners, and other high-achieving professionals can stay grounded and effective while navigating one of the most disruptive periods of their lives.Guest InformationKaren McMahon is a veteran divorce coach with more than 14 years of experience helping clients navigate complex, high-conflict, and high-net-worth divorces. She leads a team of coaches across the country and is also the host of the Journey Beyond Divorce podcast. Karen specializes in helping people manage the emotional and strategic challenges of divorce so they can make clear, values-based decisions during a highly stressful time.Episode HighlightsWhy Divorce Disrupts Productivity So Deeply Karen explains that divorce acts like a massive new program running in the brain, slowing down everything else. Even high-performing executives can struggle to focus, make decisions, and stay productive when divorce stress takes over.How to Set Clear Boundaries Early Ryan and Karen discuss the importance of creating practical agreements early in the process, especially when couples are still sharing a home. Boundaries around sleeping arrangements, shared spaces, chores, and parenting responsibilities can reduce conflict and create stability.Why Temporary Parenting Schedules Can Be Helpful Karen encourages couples to consider temporary shared parenting plans early in the divorce. These temporary arrangements can provide valuable information about what is realistic, what works for the children, and what each parent can truly handle.The Importance of Financial Clarity from the Start Karen stresses that clients need a financial expert early in the process, especially in complex or high-net-worth divorces.Building the Right Divorce Team The episode breaks down the roles of the different professionals in a divorce. Attorneys handle legal strategy and negotiation, financial experts help with numbers and long-term planning, and coaches support decision-making, communication, emotional regulation, and day-to-day strategy.What is Divorce at Altitude? Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha provide tips and recommendations on issues related to divorce, separation, and co-parenting in Colorado. Ryan and Amy are the founding partners of an innovative and ambitious law firm, Kalamaya | Goscha, that pushes the boundaries to discover new frontiers in family law, personal injuries, and criminal defense in Colorado. To subscribe to Divorce at Altitude, click here and select your favorite podcast player. To subscribe to Kalamaya | Goscha's YouTube channel where many of the episodes will be posted as videos, click here.  If you have additional questions or would like to speak to one of our attorneys, give us a call at 970-429-5784 or email us at [email protected].************************************************************************DISCLAIMER: THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS ON THIS PODCAST IS FOR ENTERTAINMENT AND INFORMATIONAL PURPOSES AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL ADVICE. CONTACT AN ATTORNEY IN YOUR STATE OR AREA TO OBTAIN LEGAL ADVICE ON ANY OF THESE ISSUES.

Marriage and Money: Are You Financially Compatible?In this episode of Divorce at Altitude, Ryan Kalamaya is joined again by financial expert and Certified Divorce Financial Analyst Nikki Tucker for the third installment of their three-part series on marriage and money. This conversation focuses on a question many couples overlook until it is too late: are you financially compatible? Ryan and Nikki explore how money habits, values, risk tolerance, debt philosophies, and long-term goals can shape not only a marriage, but also the chances of future conflict or divorce.Guest InformationNikki Tucker is a financial professional with more than 20 years of experience and a Certified Divorce Financial Analyst. She is the founder of The FIIRM Approach, where she helps primarily female breadwinners protect their financial security before, during, and after divorce. Nikki focuses on strategy, education, and practical guidance so clients can better understand their money, make informed decisions, and move forward with confidence.Episode HighlightsWhat Financial Compatibility Really Means Ryan and Nikki discuss how financial compatibility is not about being identical with money, but about having enough alignment in values, goals, and habits to reduce ongoing conflict.Why Money Differences Create Relationship Stress Different approaches to spending, saving, debt, investing, and risk can create friction in a marriage, especially when couples do not understand the reasons behind each other’s behavior.The Connection Between Money Story and Compatibility Nikki explains that financial compatibility starts with understanding your own money story and your partner’s money story, including how upbringing and past experiences influence present decisions.How Emotional Compatibility and Financial Compatibility Overlap Money may seem practical, but Nikki points out that financial decisions are often tied to emotions, values, identity, and fear, making money one of the most emotionally charged issues in a relationship.Debt, Risk, and Investing as Common Flashpoints Couples may clash over credit card use, home buying, investing, crypto, saving for retirement, or how much financial risk is acceptable. These differences often reveal deeper incompatibilities.What is Divorce at Altitude? Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha provide tips and recommendations on issues related to divorce, separation, and co-parenting in Colorado. Ryan and Amy are the founding partners of an innovative and ambitious law firm, Kalamaya | Goscha, that pushes the boundaries to discover new frontiers in family law, personal injuries, and criminal defense in Colorado. To subscribe to Divorce at Altitude, click here and select your favorite podcast player. To subscribe to Kalamaya | Goscha's YouTube channel where many of the episodes will be posted as videos, click here.  If you have additional questions or would like to speak to one of our attorneys, give us a call at 970-429-5784 or email us at [email protected].************************************************************************DISCLAIMER: THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS ON THIS PODCAST IS FOR ENTERTAINMENT AND INFORMATIONAL PURPOSES AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL ADVICE. CONTACT AN ATTORNEY IN YOUR STATE OR AREA TO OBTAIN LEGAL ADVICE ON ANY OF THESE ISSUES.

Why Prenups Aren’t Popular EnoughIn this episode of Divorce at Altitude, Ryan Kalamaya continues his three-part series on marriage and money with financial expert and Certified Divorce Financial Analyst Nikki Tucker. This conversation focuses on a topic that often makes couples uncomfortable but can provide significant clarity and protection: prenuptial agreements. Ryan and Nikki explore why prenups still carry stigma, why they are often misunderstood, and how they can actually strengthen communication and financial transparency in a relationship.Nikki explains that many people avoid prenups because they associate them with distrust, pessimism, or planning for divorce before the marriage even begins. But in reality, she sees them as a tool for openness, honesty, and shared expectations. Rather than being a sign that a marriage is doomed, a prenup can help couples better understand each other’s financial values, assets, goals, and concerns before they merge their lives.Episode HighlightsWhy Prenups Still Carry a Stigma Many people view prenups as unromantic or as a signal that one partner is already planning for divorce. Nikki explains how cultural expectations around marriage and weddings often discourage couples from having practical financial conversations.Prenups Can Build Trust, Not Undermine It Nikki emphasizes that the prenup process requires financial disclosure and vulnerability. When done properly, it can increase trust by giving both partners more information and a clearer understanding of each other’s values and expectations.Why Later Marriages Make Prenups More Relevant As more people marry later in life, they often enter marriage with established careers, savings, real estate, retirement accounts, children, or inheritances. A prenup can help clarify how those existing assets should be treated.What Makes a Prenup More Likely to Hold Up Ryan and Nikki note that the strongest prenups are not one-sided. They are more likely to be enforceable when both parties have appropriate representation, full disclosure, and terms that are fair and thoughtfully negotiated.Why Prenups Matter for Stay-at-Home Spouses Too Prenups are not just for the higher earner. Nikki points out that stay-at-home spouses or spouses planning to leave the workforce may be especially vulnerable without a clear financial agreement in place.What is Divorce at Altitude? Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha provide tips and recommendations on issues related to divorce, separation, and co-parenting in Colorado. Ryan and Amy are the founding partners of an innovative and ambitious law firm, Kalamaya | Goscha, that pushes the boundaries to discover new frontiers in family law, personal injuries, and criminal defense in Colorado. To subscribe to Divorce at Altitude, click here and select your favorite podcast player. To subscribe to Kalamaya | Goscha's YouTube channel where many of the episodes will be posted as videos, click here.  If you have additional questions or would like to speak to one of our attorneys, give us a call at 970-429-5784 or email us at [email protected].************************************************************************DISCLAIMER: THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS ON THIS PODCAST IS FOR ENTERTAINMENT AND INFORMATIONAL PURPOSES AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL ADVICE. CONTACT AN ATTORNEY IN YOUR STATE OR AREA TO OBTAIN LEGAL ADVICE ON ANY OF THESE ISSUES.

Marriage and Money: Understanding Your Partner’s Money StoryIn this episode of Divorce at Altitude, Ryan Kalamaya begins a three-part series on marriage and money with financial expert and Certified Divorce Financial Analyst Nikki Tucker. While the podcast often focuses on divorce, Ryan and Nikki explore a fundamental topic that affects every relationship long before divorce becomes a possibility: understanding each partner’s money story.Nikki explains that a “money story” is the collection of experiences, cultural influences, family habits, and emotional associations that shape how a person thinks about earning, spending, saving, and managing money. These stories often develop in childhood through family dynamics, economic circumstances, and societal influences. When two people enter a marriage with different money stories such as one partner being a saver and the other a spender those differences can influence everything from daily budgeting decisions to major financial milestones.Episode HighlightsWhat Is a Money Story? Nikki explains that a money story is the set of beliefs, emotions, and experiences that shape how individuals view and manage money. These beliefs often originate in childhood and continue evolving throughout adulthood.Creating Safe and Productive Money Conversations Nikki shares strategies for having better financial discussions, including setting aside dedicated time to talk about money in a calm and comfortable environment rather than waiting until a financial crisis forces the conversation.The “Five Whys” Strategy for Deeper Understanding To truly understand a partner’s financial motivations, Nikki recommends repeatedly asking “why” in a supportive way. This helps uncover the deeper emotional or experiential reasons behind financial behaviors.Why Money Stories Matter in Divorce Financial habits and perspectives that exist during marriage often reappear during divorce negotiations. Understanding a partner’s financial mindset can help anticipate negotiation challenges and lead to more productive settlement discussions.Applying Money Awareness to Negotiations and Settlement Ryan and Nikki discuss how understanding motivations—such as a preference for financial stability, a home, or predictable support payments—can help divorcing couples find practical solutions that align with each person’s priorities.What is Divorce at Altitude? Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha provide tips and recommendations on issues related to divorce, separation, and co-parenting in Colorado. Ryan and Amy are the founding partners of an innovative and ambitious law firm, Kalamaya | Goscha, that pushes the boundaries to discover new frontiers in family law, personal injuries, and criminal defense in Colorado. To subscribe to Divorce at Altitude, click here and select your favorite podcast player. To subscribe to Kalamaya | Goscha's YouTube channel where many of the episodes will be posted as videos, click here.  If you have additional questions or would like to speak to one of our attorneys, give us a call at 970-429-5784 or email us at [email protected].************************************************************************DISCLAIMER: THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS ON THIS PODCAST IS FOR ENTERTAINMENT AND INFORMATIONAL PURPOSES AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL ADVICE. CONTACT AN ATTORNEY IN YOUR STATE OR AREA TO OBTAIN LEGAL ADVICE ON ANY OF THESE ISSUES.

Modifying Decision-Making in Colorado: Understanding the Humphreys CaseIn this episode of Divorce at Altitude, Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha break down one of the most confusing areas of Colorado family law: the legal standards for modifying decision-making. Using the recent Humphreys Court of Appeals case as a guide, they explain the difference between the best interest standard and the much higher endangerment standard, and why that distinction can completely change the outcome of a post-decree parenting dispute.Ryan and Amy walk listeners through how parenting-time enforcement and decision-making modification are treated differently under Colorado law. They explain that even when parents are back in court over serious allegations such as parenting-time interference, alienation, or ongoing conflict, a court cannot simply use an enforcement motion to make a long-term change to decision-making without applying the proper statute and legal standard.Episode HighlightsWhy Decision-Making Standards Are So Confusing Ryan and Amy explain why decision-making is one of the most technically difficult areas of Colorado family law, especially when parents are already divorced and conflict continues after final orders.The Difference Between Best Interest and Endangerment The episode outlines the two main standards courts consider when modifying decision-making. The best interest standard is easier to meet, while the endangerment standard requires proof that a child’s emotional or physical health is at risk.What Happened in the Humphreys Case Ryan and Amy discuss how the Humphreys case arose from repeated post-decree disputes, including allegations involving parenting-time violations and parental alienation, and why the trial court’s decision was reversed by the Court of Appeals.Why Enforcement Motions Have Limits A major takeaway from the episode is that a motion to enforce parenting time under Colorado law is designed to address parenting-time problems, not to permanently modify decision-making without a separate motion and proper findings.Why Procedure Matters in Post-Decree Cases The episode highlights how important it is for lawyers and parents to ask for the correct relief under the correct statute. Even when a parent feels deeply wronged, using the wrong procedural path can derail the outcome.What is Divorce at Altitude? Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha provide tips and recommendations on issues related to divorce, separation, and co-parenting in Colorado. Ryan and Amy are the founding partners of an innovative and ambitious law firm, Kalamaya | Goscha, that pushes the boundaries to discover new frontiers in family law, personal injuries, and criminal defense in Colorado. To subscribe to Divorce at Altitude, click here and select your favorite podcast player. To subscribe to Kalamaya | Goscha's YouTube channel where many of the episodes will be posted as videos, click here.  If you have additional questions or would like to speak to one of our attorneys, give us a call at 970-429-5784 or email us at [email protected].************************************************************************DISCLAIMER: THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS ON THIS PODCAST IS FOR ENTERTAINMENT AND INFORMATIONAL PURPOSES AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL ADVICE. CONTACT AN ATTORNEY IN YOUR STATE OR AREA TO OBTAIN LEGAL ADVICE ON ANY OF THESE ISSUES.

Intangible Property in Divorce: Business Goodwill, NIL, and Hidden ValueIn this episode of Divorce at Altitude, Ryan Kalamaya is joined by Denver family law attorney Raj Kukreja to break down one of the more complex issues in Colorado divorce cases: intangible property. While most people understand how to divide tangible assets like houses, cars, and bank accounts, this episode focuses on the assets that are harder to see and even harder to value things like business goodwill, intellectual property, and name, image, and likeness (NIL).Ryan and Raj explain how intangible assets can play a major role in high-net-worth and ultra-high-net-worth divorce cases, especially when one spouse owns a business, professional practice, or valuable personal brand. They discuss how Colorado courts have historically treated professional goodwill, why business owners often underestimate what their company is worth in divorce.Guest InformationRaj Kukreja is a shareholder at Buckhalter who represents individuals in high-net-worth and ultra-high-net-worth divorce cases. His practice often involves complex property division, business valuation, and financial issues arising from closely held companies and other sophisticated marital estates.Episode HighlightsWhat Intangible Property Means in Divorce Ryan and Raj explain the difference between tangible assets, like real estate and investment accounts, and intangible assets, like intellectual property, goodwill, and NIL rights.How Colorado Treats Business Goodwill The episode explores how Colorado law recognizes goodwill in businesses and professional practices, including law firms, medical practices, and other closely held entities.Why Professional Practices May Be Worth More Than Owners Think Raj explains why lawyers, doctors, and other professionals often say “I am the business,” while Colorado courts still recognize additional value beyond hard assets.Understanding NIL and Personal Brand Value Ryan and Raj discuss how name, image, and likeness rights work, why they have become more visible in the college sports era, and how they could be treated in future Colorado divorce cases.How Experts Value Intangible Assets The conversation covers common valuation methods, including the market approach, income approach, and cost approach, and why expert analysis is often critical in high-asset cases.What is Divorce at Altitude? Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha provide tips and recommendations on issues related to divorce, separation, and co-parenting in Colorado. Ryan and Amy are the founding partners of an innovative and ambitious law firm, Kalamaya | Goscha, that pushes the boundaries to discover new frontiers in family law, personal injuries, and criminal defense in Colorado. To subscribe to Divorce at Altitude, click here and select your favorite podcast player. To subscribe to Kalamaya | Goscha's YouTube channel where many of the episodes will be posted as videos, click here.  If you have additional questions or would like to speak to one of our attorneys, give us a call at 970-429-5784 or email us at [email protected].************************************************************************DISCLAIMER: THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS ON THIS PODCAST IS FOR ENTERTAINMENT AND INFORMATIONAL PURPOSES AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL ADVICE. CONTACT AN ATTORNEY IN YOUR STATE OR AREA TO OBTAIN LEGAL ADVICE ON ANY OF THESE ISSUES.

In this "how-to" episode, Ryan dives into high-income scenarios and how they impact child support in Colorado. Using the case of hypothetical clients, Eric and Melanie Wolf, Ryan breaks down what happens when combined incomes exceed $30,000 per month, the legal floor for child support. Drawing on the Colorado Supreme Court case of In re Marriage of Boettcher, Ryan explains how courts determine child support in high-income cases, focusing on lifestyle disparities between parents and the needs of the children.Episode Highlights:Income & Child Support: How high incomes, such as Eric’s million-dollar salary, affect child support calculations.The Boettcher Case: Insights from the In re Marriage of Boettcher decision, establishing that the $30,000 monthly income guideline is a floor, not a cap, for child support.Lifestyle Considerations: The court's role in ensuring children maintain a similar lifestyle with both parents, including covering expenses like private school, vacations, and extracurricular activities.Disparity in Incomes: How income disparity between parents influences child support, and what courts consider when determining fair support in above-guideline situations.📞  Connect with us: • Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/kalamayagoscha  • LinkedIn:  https://www.linkedin.com/company/kalamaya-goscha/  • Phone: 970.315.2365 • Email: [email protected] If you found this episode helpful, please share it with someone who may benefit from the insights. Be sure to follow us on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or YouTube for more episodes on navigating divorce and child support in Colorado.What is Divorce at Altitude? Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha provide tips and recommendations on issues related to divorce, separation, and co-parenting in Colorado. Ryan and Amy are the founding partners of an innovative and ambitious law firm, Kalamaya | Goscha, that pushes the boundaries to discover new frontiers in family law, personal injuries, and criminal defense in Colorado. To subscribe to Divorce at Altitude, click here and select your favorite podcast player. To subscribe to Kalamaya | Goscha's YouTube channel where many of the episodes will be posted as videos, click here.  If you have additional questions or would like to speak to one of our attorneys, give us a call at 970-429-5784 or email us at [email protected].************************************************************************DISCLAIMER: THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS ON THIS PODCAST IS FOR ENTERTAINMENT AND INFORMATIONAL PURPOSES AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL ADVICE. CONTACT AN ATTORNEY IN YOUR STATE OR AREA TO OBTAIN LEGAL ADVICE ON ANY OF THESE ISSUES.

Divorce 2.0: When a Divorce Settlement Gets ReopenedIn this episode of Divorce at Altitude, Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha explore what happens when a finalized divorce is reopened—something Ryan refers to as “Divorce 2.0” or “Divorce Remorse.” Using their hypothetical clients Eric and Melanie Wolf, they discuss situations where one spouse later believes they received an unfair deal, discovers undisclosed assets, or believes financial information was not properly shared during the divorce process.Ryan and Amy explain that Colorado law requires mandatory financial disclosures in every divorce case under Rule 16.2. These disclosures are designed to ensure transparency between spouses who may have handled different aspects of the household finances during the marriage. The episode also covers major Colorado court cases that clarify when a divorce settlement can be revisited—particularly when one party fails to disclose important financial documents or assets.Episode HighlightsWhat “Divorce 2.0” Means Ryan introduces the concept of reopening a finalized divorce when one spouse later believes the settlement was unfair or incomplete due to undisclosed financial information.Mandatory Financial Disclosures in Colorado Divorces Amy explains Colorado’s Rule 16.2 disclosure requirements, which include sworn financial statements, tax returns, bank statements, business records, and other key financial documents.The Hunt Case and Business Valuation Disputes Ryan and Amy review the landmark In re Marriage of Hunt case, where a divorce agreement was reopened because required financial documents related to a business were never disclosed.Material Misstatements and the Five-Year Rule Colorado courts can reallocate property for up to five years after a divorce if one party omitted or misstated significant assets or debts.When Courts Allow Discovery After Divorce The episode also covers the Durie case, which clarified when courts may allow additional discovery if a spouse suspects undisclosed information after the divorce.Avoiding Divorce Remorse Ryan emphasizes that the best way to prevent reopening a divorce is by ensuring thorough financial disclosures and clear documentation during the initial divorce process.What is Divorce at Altitude? Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha provide tips and recommendations on issues related to divorce, separation, and co-parenting in Colorado. Ryan and Amy are the founding partners of an innovative and ambitious law firm, Kalamaya | Goscha, that pushes the boundaries to discover new frontiers in family law, personal injuries, and criminal defense in Colorado. To subscribe to Divorce at Altitude, click here and select your favorite podcast player. To subscribe to Kalamaya | Goscha's YouTube channel where many of the episodes will be posted as videos, click here.  If you have additional questions or would like to speak to one of our attorneys, give us a call at 970-429-5784 or email us at [email protected].************************************************************************DISCLAIMER: THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS ON THIS PODCAST IS FOR ENTERTAINMENT AND INFORMATIONAL PURPOSES AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL ADVICE. CONTACT AN ATTORNEY IN YOUR STATE OR AREA TO OBTAIN LEGAL ADVICE ON ANY OF THESE ISSUES.

Extraordinary Medical and Extracurricular Expenses in Colorado Child SupportIn this “how-to” episode of Divorce at Altitude, Ryan Kalamaya explains how extraordinary medical expenses and extracurricular costs for children can impact child support in a Colorado divorce or custody case. While Colorado’s child support guidelines already account for the basic costs of raising children—such as food, housing, and routine medical care—certain expenses fall outside the standard calculation. These include significant medical costs like braces, surgeries, therapy, or emergency care, as well as extracurricular activities such as private school, competitive sports, or specialized training programs.Ryan walks listeners through how these additional expenses are typically shared between parents in proportion to their income, often based on the same percentage split used in the child support calculation. Using the hypothetical example of Eric and Melanie Wolf, he explains how courts evaluate whether expenses like private school or travel sports are reasonable and appropriate based on the child’s needs, the family’s financial resources, and the standard of living the child would have enjoyed if the marriage had not ended.Episode HighlightsWhat Counts as Extraordinary Medical Expenses Ryan explains how costs beyond routine medical care—such as braces, surgeries, therapy, or emergency treatment—are typically shared between parents based on their percentage of income.How These Costs Are Divided Between Parents Extraordinary medical expenses are usually split proportionally, meaning each parent pays a share based on their income or child support percentage.Extracurricular Activities and Competitive Sports Ryan explores how expensive activities like travel sports, music lessons, or specialized coaching may be treated as extraordinary expenses depending on the child’s involvement and the family’s financial resources.Using the Child Support Worksheet Extraordinary expenses can be added directly to the child support worksheet, which can significantly increase or decrease the final child support payment.Handling Disagreements Between Parents Ryan explains how parenting plans often require parents to agree before enrolling a child in expensive activities and how disputes may be resolved through a judge, parenting coordinator, or arbitrator.What is Divorce at Altitude? Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha provide tips and recommendations on issues related to divorce, separation, and co-parenting in Colorado. Ryan and Amy are the founding partners of an innovative and ambitious law firm, Kalamaya | Goscha, that pushes the boundaries to discover new frontiers in family law, personal injuries, and criminal defense in Colorado. To subscribe to Divorce at Altitude, click here and select your favorite podcast player. To subscribe to Kalamaya | Goscha's YouTube channel where many of the episodes will be posted as videos, click here.  If you have additional questions or would like to speak to one of our attorneys, give us a call at 970-429-5784 or email us at [email protected].************************************************************************DISCLAIMER: THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS ON THIS PODCAST IS FOR ENTERTAINMENT AND INFORMATIONAL PURPOSES AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL ADVICE. CONTACT AN ATTORNEY IN YOUR STATE OR AREA TO OBTAIN LEGAL ADVICE ON ANY OF THESE ISSUES.

Work-Related Childcare and Child Support in ColoradoIn this “how-to” episode of Divorce at Altitude, Ryan Kalamaya explains how work-related daycare or childcare costs can affect the amount of child support in a Colorado divorce or parenting dispute. Using the podcast’s hypothetical clients, Eric and Melanie Wolf, Ryan walks listeners through the Colorado child support worksheet and shows how expenses such as preschool, daycare, after-school programs, or a nanny can significantly change the final child support calculation. Because many working parents rely on childcare to maintain employment, Colorado law allows these expenses to be factored into the child support formula.Ryan also explains how childcare costs can be handled in two ways: they can either be included directly on the child support worksheet or divided separately based on each parent’s share of income. He highlights why these costs must be work-related, meaning they are necessary for a parent to work or earn income. The episode also explores common disputes that arise in practice, including whether summer camps qualify as childcare, how nanny or au pair costs are divided, and why personal babysitting expenses usually do not count toward the child support calculation.Episode HighlightsHow Work-Related Childcare Affects Child Support Ryan explains how daycare, preschool, or after-school programs can change the child support calculation because these expenses are included in Colorado’s child support worksheet.Using the Child Support Worksheet The episode walks through an example using Eric and Melanie Wolf’s incomes to show how adding childcare expenses can significantly reduce or shift the amount of child support owed.Two Ways to Divide Childcare Costs Parents can either include childcare expenses directly on the worksheet or divide them separately based on each parent’s percentage share of income.What Counts as Work-Related Childcare Ryan clarifies that childcare must be necessary for a parent to work or generate income to be included in the calculation.Common Disputes About Childcare Expenses The episode discusses gray areas such as summer camps, sleepaway camps, nannies, and au pairs, and explains why personal babysitting for social events generally does not qualify.What is Divorce at Altitude? Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha provide tips and recommendations on issues related to divorce, separation, and co-parenting in Colorado. Ryan and Amy are the founding partners of an innovative and ambitious law firm, Kalamaya | Goscha, that pushes the boundaries to discover new frontiers in family law, personal injuries, and criminal defense in Colorado. To subscribe to Divorce at Altitude, click here and select your favorite podcast player. To subscribe to Kalamaya | Goscha's YouTube channel where many of the episodes will be posted as videos, click here.  If you have additional questions or would like to speak to one of our attorneys, give us a call at 970-429-5784 or email us at [email protected].************************************************************************DISCLAIMER: THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS ON THIS PODCAST IS FOR ENTERTAINMENT AND INFORMATIONAL PURPOSES AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL ADVICE. CONTACT AN ATTORNEY IN YOUR STATE OR AREA TO OBTAIN LEGAL ADVICE ON ANY OF THESE ISSUES.

Reintegration Therapy in Divorce: Helping Children and Parents Rebuild RelationshipsIn this episode of Divorce at Altitude, Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha discuss the complicated and timely topic of reintegration therapy in Colorado family law. When a child resists or refuses time with one parent, courts and professionals are often left trying to determine what is causing the breakdown and what kind of intervention may actually help. Ryan and Amy explain how reintegration therapy fits into divorce and post-decree parenting disputes, why these cases are so difficult, and how the issue has received increased national attention through recent media coverage and changes in the law.The episode also explores the difference between child therapy, family therapy, and reintegration therapy, along with the challenges courts face when allegations of abuse, alienation, or coercive control are involved. Ryan and Amy discuss Colorado’s evolving legal framework, the requirement that therapeutic interventions be evidence-based, and the reality that there is no quick fix in these high-conflict cases. Instead, the focus is on finding safe, appropriate ways to support children while helping families reduce conflict and improve strained parent-child relationships.Episode HighlightsWhat Reintegration Therapy Means Ryan and Amy explain reintegration therapy as a tool used when a child has a strained, damaged, or nonexistent relationship with one parent and may be refusing parenting time.How It Differs From Other Therapy The episode breaks down the difference between therapy for the child, family therapy, and reintegration therapy, and why each serves a different purpose in divorce cases.Why These Cases Are So Difficult Ryan and Amy discuss how issues like substance abuse, trauma, parental conflict, emotional abuse, and allegations of alienation can all contribute to a child resisting contact with a parent.Colorado’s New Legal Framework They review Colorado’s recent law changes, including the push for scientifically valid, evidence-based therapeutic approaches and the limits on certain court-ordered interventions.Why There Is No Quick Fix The conversation highlights that these are often extreme, high-conflict cases and that rebuilding trust between a child and parent can take time, structure, and the right professional support.What is Divorce at Altitude? Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha provide tips and recommendations on issues related to divorce, separation, and co-parenting in Colorado. Ryan and Amy are the founding partners of an innovative and ambitious law firm, Kalamaya | Goscha, that pushes the boundaries to discover new frontiers in family law, personal injuries, and criminal defense in Colorado. To subscribe to Divorce at Altitude, click here and select your favorite podcast player. To subscribe to Kalamaya | Goscha's YouTube channel where many of the episodes will be posted as videos, click here.  If you have additional questions or would like to speak to one of our attorneys, give us a call at 970-429-5784 or email us at [email protected].************************************************************************DISCLAIMER: THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS ON THIS PODCAST IS FOR ENTERTAINMENT AND INFORMATIONAL PURPOSES AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL ADVICE. CONTACT AN ATTORNEY IN YOUR STATE OR AREA TO OBTAIN LEGAL ADVICE ON ANY OF THESE ISSUES.

Separate Property in Divorce: Understanding Tracing and Appreciation in ColoradoIn this episode of Divorce at Altitude, Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha tackle the complicated but incredibly important topic of separate property in a Colorado divorce. Using lessons from recent trials and real-world family law disputes, they walk through how Colorado courts distinguish between marital property and separate property, why that distinction matters, and how issues like tracing, appreciation, and commingling can dramatically affect the outcome of a divorce. They also explain why Colorado takes a more expansive view of marital property than many other states, especially when it comes to the increase in value of separate assets during the marriage.Ryan and Amy also break down some of the most difficult categories of separate property cases, including real estate, retirement accounts, brokerage accounts, trust interests, and business ownership. They discuss key Colorado cases like Burford and Powell, the difference between active and passive appreciation, how jointly titling an asset can convert separate property into marital property, and why good documentation is critical.Episode HighlightsWhat Counts as Separate Property in Colorado Ryan and Amy explain how Colorado defines separate property, including assets owned before marriage, gifts, and inheritances, and why property acquired during the marriage is generally presumed marital.Why Colorado Is Different From Other States The episode explores how Colorado treats the appreciation of separate property and why its approach is often considered more expansive than states that distinguish between active and passive appreciation.Burford vs. Powell Ryan and Amy discuss two major approaches to tracing separate property in Colorado and why the method used by an expert can significantly change the financial result in a divorce.How Separate Property Becomes Marital Property They explain how commingling, withdrawals, paying marital expenses, and jointly titling assets can convert separate property into marital property.Why Documentation Matters Ryan and Amy emphasize the importance of bank statements, tax returns, appraisals, trust records, gift tax returns, and financial statements in proving a separate property claim.What is Divorce at Altitude? Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha provide tips and recommendations on issues related to divorce, separation, and co-parenting in Colorado. Ryan and Amy are the founding partners of an innovative and ambitious law firm, Kalamaya | Goscha, that pushes the boundaries to discover new frontiers in family law, personal injuries, and criminal defense in Colorado. To subscribe to Divorce at Altitude, click here and select your favorite podcast player. To subscribe to Kalamaya | Goscha's YouTube channel where many of the episodes will be posted as videos, click here.  If you have additional questions or would like to speak to one of our attorneys, give us a call at 970-429-5784 or email us at [email protected].************************************************************************DISCLAIMER: THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS ON THIS PODCAST IS FOR ENTERTAINMENT AND INFORMATIONAL PURPOSES AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL ADVICE. CONTACT AN ATTORNEY IN YOUR STATE OR AREA TO OBTAIN LEGAL ADVICE ON ANY OF THESE ISSUES.

Reintegration Therapy in Divorce: Helping Rebuild Parent-Child RelationshipsIn this episode of Divorce at Altitude, Amy Goscha is joined by Dr. Kathleen McNamara, a licensed psychologist with more than 30 years of experience working with separated and divorced families, to discuss reintegration therapy and its role in family law cases. Dr. McNamara explains that reintegration therapy, also referred to in Colorado’s updated statute as reunification therapy, is aimed at re-establishing a relationship between a child and an estranged or rejected parent. The conversation explores how therapy can be a valuable tool in two-home family situations, especially when a child is struggling with parenting time, resisting contact with a parent, or having difficulty adjusting to the changes that come with separation and divorce. Amy and Dr. McNamara also discuss the impact of Colorado’s 2023 law change, including how allegations of domestic violence or child abuse affect when reintegration therapy may be appropriate.Guest InformationDr. Kathleen McNamara is a licensed psychologist in private practice in Fort Collins, Colorado. For more than three decades, she has worked with families navigating separation, divorce, and two-home parenting, helping parents and children address relationship challenges and adjust to major family transitions.Episode HighlightsWhat Reintegration Therapy Is Dr. McNamara explains the statutory definition of reintegration therapy and how it is used to help rebuild relationships between children and estranged or rejected parents.How It Differs from Family Therapy The episode explores how reintegration therapy is a specific type of family therapy focused on parent-child contact problems, rather than broader family functioning issues.How Colorado’s New Law Affects Therapy Amy and Dr. McNamara discuss the implications of Colorado’s updated law, especially in cases involving allegations of abuse, domestic violence, or child sexual abuse.Why Parent-Child Contact Problems Are Complex Dr. McNamara emphasizes that children may resist contact with a parent for many reasons, and therapy must be matched to the real causes rather than oversimplified labels.The Role of Child Legal Representatives Dr. McNamara explains how CLRs can be especially helpful in high-conflict cases by helping structure orders, reduce roadblocks, and support progress in therapy.What is Divorce at Altitude? Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha provide tips and recommendations on issues related to divorce, separation, and co-parenting in Colorado. Ryan and Amy are the founding partners of an innovative and ambitious law firm, Kalamaya | Goscha, that pushes the boundaries to discover new frontiers in family law, personal injuries, and criminal defense in Colorado. To subscribe to Divorce at Altitude, click here and select your favorite podcast player. To subscribe to Kalamaya | Goscha's YouTube channel where many of the episodes will be posted as videos, click here.  If you have additional questions or would like to speak to one of our attorneys, give us a call at 970-429-5784 or email us at [email protected].************************************************************************DISCLAIMER: THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS ON THIS PODCAST IS FOR ENTERTAINMENT AND INFORMATIONAL PURPOSES AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL ADVICE. CONTACT AN ATTORNEY IN YOUR STATE OR AREA TO OBTAIN LEGAL ADVICE ON ANY OF THESE ISSUES.

Relocation in Divorce: Understanding the Legal LandscapeIn this episode of Divorce at Altitude, Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha dive into the complexities of parental relocation in Colorado family law. Whether you're a parent considering a move or an attorney navigating these waters, this episode covers the ins and outs of relocation cases, specifically how they affect parenting time and the child's best interests.Ryan and Amy share their insights from real-life divorce cases, including their recent experiences with Eric and Melanie Wolf, hypothetical clients, as they explore the intricacies of relocating with children during and after a divorce. From understanding the legal framework to strategies for presenting relocation cases, they provide practical tips for professionals and families going through these high-stakes situations.Episode HighlightsWhy Relocation Cases Are ChallengingRelocation cases are some of the most emotionally charged and difficult divorce cases to navigate. Ryan and Amy share their experience with Eric and Melanie Wolf and how the decision to relocate can fundamentally change the parent-child relationship.Legal Considerations for Relocating ParentsRyan and Amy delve into the constitutional right to relocate, and how judges weigh this right against the best interests of the child. They provide guidance on how to build a compelling argument based on parenting time and child's adjustment to their current life.Practical Advice for Parents Considering RelocationIf you are considering relocation during or after a divorce, this episode offers valuable advice on what you should think about, including the long-term impact on your relationship with your children and the financial costs of moving.What is Divorce at Altitude? Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha provide tips and recommendations on issues related to divorce, separation, and co-parenting in Colorado. Ryan and Amy are the founding partners of an innovative and ambitious law firm, Kalamaya | Goscha, that pushes the boundaries to discover new frontiers in family law, personal injuries, and criminal defense in Colorado. To subscribe to Divorce at Altitude, click here and select your favorite podcast player. To subscribe to Kalamaya | Goscha's YouTube channel where many of the episodes will be posted as videos, click here.  If you have additional questions or would like to speak to one of our attorneys, give us a call at 970-429-5784 or email us at [email protected].************************************************************************DISCLAIMER: THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS ON THIS PODCAST IS FOR ENTERTAINMENT AND INFORMATIONAL PURPOSES AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL ADVICE. CONTACT AN ATTORNEY IN YOUR STATE OR AREA TO OBTAIN LEGAL ADVICE ON ANY OF THESE ISSUES.

Summiting the Financial Slopes: Seven Key Strategies to Master Divorce EconomicsIn this episode of Divorce at Altitude, Ryan Kalamaya is joined by Brett Hirsch, a wealth management expert, to discuss the financial strategies divorce professionals should consider during divorce proceedings. Brett and Ryan will be presenting these strategies at the upcoming Family Law Institute, a conference that gathers hundreds of divorce professionals, judges, and experts to discuss the most important financial aspects of divorce cases.In this conversation, Brett and Ryan highlight the importance of the marital balance sheet, tax implications, illiquid assets, and retirement accounts, and how to properly divide them in a divorce to ensure both parties have a clear understanding of their financial futures.Guest InformationBrett Hirsch is the founder of Obermeyer Wealth Management in Colorado, where he specializes in wealth management and financial advisory services. With extensive experience in private equity and hedge funds, Brett helps clients navigate the complexities of their financial lives, from capital allocation to tax and estate planning.Episode HighlightsMarital Balance Sheet: The Key to Financial ClarityBrett explains the importance of the marital balance sheet in divorce, which allows professionals to track down all financial assets and liabilities, and provides the foundation for decision-making.Understanding Pre and Post-Tax ImplicationsRyan and Brett discuss how pre-tax and post-tax considerations should be a key part of dividing assets. Brett shares how understanding the net value of assets, such as retirement accounts or brokerage accounts, can make a huge difference in financial planning during divorce.The Challenge of Illiquid AssetsBrett covers the issue of illiquid assets, like real estate or business ownership, which can be hard to value and harder to divide. He talks about how financial advisors can assist in navigating these complex assets and ensure that both parties have a fair deal.Retirement Accounts and Business ValuationsRyan and Brett address how retirement accounts and closely held businesses are treated in a divorce. They highlight the challenges of dividing these assets and how a business valuation expert can help ensure the assets are accurately valued and fairly distributed.What is Divorce at Altitude? Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha provide tips and recommendations on issues related to divorce, separation, and co-parenting in Colorado. Ryan and Amy are the founding partners of an innovative and ambitious law firm, Kalamaya | Goscha, that pushes the boundaries to discover new frontiers in family law, personal injuries, and criminal defense in Colorado. To subscribe to Divorce at Altitude, click here and select your favorite podcast player. To subscribe to Kalamaya | Goscha's YouTube channel where many of the episodes will be posted as videos, click here.  If you have additional questions or would like to speak to one of our attorneys, give us a call at 970-429-5784 or email us at [email protected].************************************************************************DISCLAIMER: THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS ON THIS PODCAST IS FOR ENTERTAINMENT AND INFORMATIONAL PURPOSES AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL ADVICE. CONTACT AN ATTORNEY IN YOUR STATE OR AREA TO OBTAIN LEGAL ADVICE ON ANY OF THESE ISSUES.

Witness Preparation in Divorce: How to Present Your Best SelfIn this episode of Divorce at Altitude, Ryan Kalamaya is joined by Jessica Brylo, a litigation consultant and expert in witness preparation, to discuss the importance of how witnesses present themselves in divorce cases. Jessica has a unique specialization in family law cases, particularly in divorce and custody battles, where emotions can run high, and how a person presents themselves can significantly affect the outcome.Jessica explains that the way a person comes across in these settings is crucial, as judges and evaluators are humans, too, and they are influenced by unconscious biases. The goal, she says, is to reframe the client's story and emotional triggers to help them come across as credible and likable, which ultimately makes their testimony more effective.Guest InformationJessica Brylo is the owner and lead consultant at Trial Dynamics, a national trial consulting firm that specializes in witness preparation. With both a Juris Doctor and a Master's degree, Jessica is one of the few experts in the field to apply her extensive knowledge of human behavior to family law cases, specifically in helping clients navigate the emotional and behavioral aspects of divorce and custody proceedings.Episode HighlightsWhy Presenting Yourself Matters in DivorceJessica explains why judges and parenting evaluators are influenced by the way a person comes across and how emotional triggers can impact the credibility of a case.Common Pitfalls for Divorce PartiesRyan and Jessica discuss how anger, anxiety, and over-explaining can hurt a case and how these emotional reactions can affect a person's credibility during testimony or evaluations.How to Reframe Emotions for Better TestimonyJessica shares how she works with clients to reframe their emotions and internal narratives, helping them present a calm, collected, and more credible image during their case.The Importance of First ImpressionsThe episode explores first impressions and how even small verbal cues, like saying "my child" instead of "our child," can drastically affect how the court perceives you.What is Divorce at Altitude? Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha provide tips and recommendations on issues related to divorce, separation, and co-parenting in Colorado. Ryan and Amy are the founding partners of an innovative and ambitious law firm, Kalamaya | Goscha, that pushes the boundaries to discover new frontiers in family law, personal injuries, and criminal defense in Colorado. To subscribe to Divorce at Altitude, click here and select your favorite podcast player. To subscribe to Kalamaya | Goscha's YouTube channel where many of the episodes will be posted as videos, click here.  If you have additional questions or would like to speak to one of our attorneys, give us a call at 970-429-5784 or email us at [email protected].************************************************************************DISCLAIMER: THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS ON THIS PODCAST IS FOR ENTERTAINMENT AND INFORMATIONAL PURPOSES AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL ADVICE. CONTACT AN ATTORNEY IN YOUR STATE OR AREA TO OBTAIN LEGAL ADVICE ON ANY OF THESE ISSUES.

How Child Support is Calculated in Colorado DivorceIn this episode of Divorce at Altitude, Ryan Kalamaya walks through the detailed process of child support calculation in Colorado divorce cases, using a hypothetical example with Eric and Melanie Wolfe. Ryan breaks down the various factors that impact child support, with a focus on the Child Support Worksheet that is used in Colorado courts to determine the amount of child support owed.Ryan begins by explaining the key inputs that drive child support determinations: income and parenting time. With an example of Eric earning $120,000 per year and Melanie earning $70,000, he demonstrates how these numbers are plugged into the Child Support Worksheet to calculate support obligations. The worksheet factors in various elements such as spousal maintenance (alimony) and health insurance payments for the children, as well as the number of overnights each parent has with the children.In this episode, Ryan provides concrete examples showing how even small changes in parenting time (such as increasing the number of overnights for one parent) can significantly affect the amount of child support. He also highlights how removing spousal maintenance from the equation can increase the child support amount owed. Through these examples, Ryan illustrates how each input in the worksheet plays a critical role in the final child support calculation.Episode HighlightsKey Inputs to Child Support CalculationRyan explains that income and parenting time are the primary drivers of child support in Colorado divorce cases, and discusses how these elements impact the final support amount.The Role of the Child Support WorksheetRyan dives into the Child Support Worksheet, which is used by Colorado courts to calculate child support. He provides a step-by-step breakdown of how the worksheet is completed, factoring in elements like spousal maintenance and health insurance payments.Impact of Parenting Time on Child SupportThe episode shows how changing the number of overnights for each parent can affect the child support calculation, with examples showing how increasing or decreasing parenting time alters the final amount owed.Spousal Maintenance and Child SupportRyan discusses the interaction between spousal maintenance and child support, showing how changes in maintenance payments can either increase or decrease the amount of child support owed.What is Divorce at Altitude? Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha provide tips and recommendations on issues related to divorce, separation, and co-parenting in Colorado. Ryan and Amy are the founding partners of an innovative and ambitious law firm, Kalamaya | Goscha, that pushes the boundaries to discover new frontiers in family law, personal injuries, and criminal defense in Colorado. To subscribe to Divorce at Altitude, click here and select your favorite podcast player. To subscribe to Kalamaya | Goscha's YouTube channel where many of the episodes will be posted as videos, click here.  If you have additional questions or would like to speak to one of our attorneys, give us a call at 970-429-5784 or email us at [email protected].************************************************************************DISCLAIMER: THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS ON THIS PODCAST IS FOR ENTERTAINMENT AND INFORMATIONAL PURPOSES AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL ADVICE. CONTACT AN ATTORNEY IN YOUR STATE OR AREA TO OBTAIN LEGAL ADVICE ON ANY OF THESE ISSUES.

Business Valuations in Divorce: Understanding Discounts and MethodsIn this episode of Divorce at Altitude, Ryan Kalamaya is joined by business valuation expert Ron Seigneur, who dives deep into the world of business valuations during a divorce. Using the example of Eric and Melanie Wolfe, Ron explores the different valuation methods that can be applied when valuing a closely held business in a divorce, including the key distinctions between fair market value and investment value.Ron explains the complexities surrounding business valuation, including how the date of valuation and the premise of value can influence the final result. In Colorado divorce cases, the two main valuation standards are fair market value and investment value. Guest InformationRon Seigneur is the founding partner of Seigneur Gustafson, a firm specializing in business and intellectual property valuations, financial forensics, and exit planning services. With over 30 years of experience, Ron has become a trusted expert in business valuations, particularly in complex divorce cases. He also co-authored the upcoming Financial Expert Guide for Family Law Professionals and serves as an adjunct professor at the University of Denver’s Daniels College of Business. Ron is an expert in cannabis industry valuations and works across various sectors, providing valuable insights to family law attorneys and judges.Episode HighlightsUnderstanding Business Valuations in DivorceRon explains the different standards of value used in divorce, specifically fair market value and investment value, and how these impact the final valuation of a business.The Impact of Discounts on Business ValuationsRyan and Ron discuss discounts for lack of control and lack of marketability, which can significantly affect the valuation of a minority interest in a closely held business.The Thornhill Case and Its Impact on Business ValuationRon outlines the Thornhill case, which changed how courts approach business valuations in divorce cases, particularly with respect to fair market value and investment value.Investment Value vs. Fair Market ValueRon breaks down the differences between investment value (value to the owner) and fair market value (value to a hypothetical buyer), and how this plays out in divorce cases where a closely held business is involved.What is Divorce at Altitude? Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha provide tips and recommendations on issues related to divorce, separation, and co-parenting in Colorado. Ryan and Amy are the founding partners of an innovative and ambitious law firm, Kalamaya | Goscha, that pushes the boundaries to discover new frontiers in family law, personal injuries, and criminal defense in Colorado. To subscribe to Divorce at Altitude, click here and select your favorite podcast player. To subscribe to Kalamaya | Goscha's YouTube channel where many of the episodes will be posted as videos, click here.  If you have additional questions or would like to speak to one of our attorneys, give us a call at 970-429-5784 or email us at [email protected].************************************************************************DISCLAIMER: THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS ON THIS PODCAST IS FOR ENTERTAINMENT AND INFORMATIONAL PURPOSES AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL ADVICE. CONTACT AN ATTORNEY IN YOUR STATE OR AREA TO OBTAIN LEGAL ADVICE ON ANY OF THESE ISSUES.

When Does Child Support Begin and Temporary Child Support in Colorado DivorceIn this how-to episode of Divorce at Altitude, Ryan Kalamaya explains when child support begins in Colorado divorce cases and the intricacies of temporary child support. Using the example of Eric and Melanie Wolfe, who are filing for divorce but still living together, Ryan breaks down the key legal points regarding child support obligations and when they start to accrue.Ryan walks through the legal framework provided in Colorado Revised Statutes § 14-10-115, which states that child support obligations begin on the later of two events: either the filing of the divorce petition or physical separation of the parties. In the scenario of Eric and Melanie, if they are still living together, neither would owe child support until they physically separate. However, once they separate or file for divorce, child support will begin to accrue, and the court may take any temporary payments or arrangements (like Eric paying the mortgage or giving Melanie money for groceries) into account when determining back support. The episode also explains the concept of temporary child support, which is determined during the divorce process and can be subject to change as circumstances evolve.Episode HighlightsWhen Does Child Support Start?Ryan explains how child support obligations in Colorado begin either upon the filing of a divorce petition or physical separation of the parties, and why these two key events determine when support starts to accrue.Temporary Child SupportThe episode dives into the concept of temporary child support, which is determined during the divorce process before a final court order is issued. Ryan explains how temporary arrangements can be adjusted based on changing circumstances.Back Support and Temporary PaymentsRyan clarifies how temporary support arrangements or voluntary payments, such as paying the mortgage or groceries, may be considered by the court when determining back support.Changes in Parenting Time and IncomeAs the divorce progresses, the parenting schedule and financial situations can change, which may affect the amount of temporary child support. Ryan explains how these changes can impact the final determination of support.What is Divorce at Altitude? Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha provide tips and recommendations on issues related to divorce, separation, and co-parenting in Colorado. Ryan and Amy are the founding partners of an innovative and ambitious law firm, Kalamaya | Goscha, that pushes the boundaries to discover new frontiers in family law, personal injuries, and criminal defense in Colorado. To subscribe to Divorce at Altitude, click here and select your favorite podcast player. To subscribe to Kalamaya | Goscha's YouTube channel where many of the episodes will be posted as videos, click here.  If you have additional questions or would like to speak to one of our attorneys, give us a call at 970-429-5784 or email us at [email protected].************************************************************************DISCLAIMER: THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS ON THIS PODCAST IS FOR ENTERTAINMENT AND INFORMATIONAL PURPOSES AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL ADVICE. CONTACT AN ATTORNEY IN YOUR STATE OR AREA TO OBTAIN LEGAL ADVICE ON ANY OF THESE ISSUES.

Alternative Dispute Resolution in Colorado Family LawIn this episode of Divorce at Altitude, Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha delve into the world of alternative dispute resolution (ADR) in Colorado, focusing on how professionals are trained and the innovative changes emerging in the family law landscape. With divorce and custody disputes, many people are seeking ways to resolve their issues without going to court, and ADR offers an effective pathway. The episode explores various ADR methods, including mediation, arbitration, and the roles of professionals such as special masters, parenting coordinators, and private judges.Amy and Ryan highlight a trend where the Colorado Supreme Court has increasingly recognized the need for tailored solutions in family disputes, noting how the dynamics of family law differ from civil or criminal cases. This recognition has led to a greater focus on mediation and other ADR methods to resolve disputes faster and more amicably, particularly as 75% of people involved in family law cases in Colorado are still unrepresented by attorneys. The episode also discusses recent changes in the legal system designed to improve the process, such as new regulations for judges, parental responsibility evaluators, and domestic violence education.Episode HighlightsWhat is Alternative Dispute Resolution (ADR)?Ryan and Amy discuss the various forms of ADR, with a focus on mediation as the most common method, and explore other options like arbitration, parenting coordinators, and private judges.Recent Trends in ADR for Family LawThe episode explores the growing emphasis on ADR in Colorado family law, driven by the recognition that family disputes are unique and require different approaches than traditional litigation.The Role of Professionals in ADRAmy explains the roles of special masters and arbitrators, who can help resolve issues like discovery disputes and premarital agreements before mediation begins.Changes in the Legal SystemThe episode covers recent legislative changes aimed at improving the training for judges and experts in family law, particularly in domestic violence and child abuse cases. These changes are designed to make the process more accessible and effective for families.What is Divorce at Altitude? Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha provide tips and recommendations on issues related to divorce, separation, and co-parenting in Colorado. Ryan and Amy are the founding partners of an innovative and ambitious law firm, Kalamaya | Goscha, that pushes the boundaries to discover new frontiers in family law, personal injuries, and criminal defense in Colorado. To subscribe to Divorce at Altitude, click here and select your favorite podcast player. To subscribe to Kalamaya | Goscha's YouTube channel where many of the episodes will be posted as videos, click here.  If you have additional questions or would like to speak to one of our attorneys, give us a call at 970-429-5784 or email us at [email protected].************************************************************************DISCLAIMER: THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS ON THIS PODCAST IS FOR ENTERTAINMENT AND INFORMATIONAL PURPOSES AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL ADVICE. CONTACT AN ATTORNEY IN YOUR STATE OR AREA TO OBTAIN LEGAL ADVICE ON ANY OF THESE ISSUES.

When Does Child Support Begin and Temporary Child Support in Colorado DivorceIn this episode of Divorce at Altitude, Ryan Kalamaya dives into the essential topic of child support in Colorado divorce cases, providing a clear understanding of when the child support obligation begins and the intricacies of temporary child support. Ryan breaks down the legal framework, specifically focusing on when child support starts based on either the filing of a divorce petition or the physical separation of the parties. He uses the example of Eric and Melanie Wolfe, who are in the midst of a divorce but still living together, to illustrate how child support works when couples haven’t yet separated their finances or homes.Ryan also discusses the concept of temporary child support, which comes into play during the divorce process before a final support order is made by the court. This temporary support is determined by temporary orders or agreements between the parties and can differ from the final child support calculation, taking into account factors such as income disparity and the amount of time each parent spends with the children.Episode HighlightsWhen Does Child Support Start?Ryan explains that child support in Colorado starts either when the petition for divorce or legal separation is filed or when the parties physically separate. In the case of Eric and Melanie Wolfe, no child support will be owed until they physically separate.Temporary Child SupportRyan discusses temporary child support, which is support provided during the divorce proceedings before a final court order is made. This can be determined by temporary orders or a temporary agreement and may differ from the final support calculation.Factors Affecting Child SupportRyan covers the key factors in child support determinations, including income disparity, the amount of time each parent spends with the children, and any maintenance (alimony) obligations. These factors can all affect the amount of temporary child support.Changes in the Divorce ProcessAs the divorce progresses, the parenting schedule and the financial situation may change, which can impact the amount of temporary child support. Ryan explains how this is taken into account in the divorce proceedings.What is Divorce at Altitude? Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha provide tips and recommendations on issues related to divorce, separation, and co-parenting in Colorado. Ryan and Amy are the founding partners of an innovative and ambitious law firm, Kalamaya | Goscha, that pushes the boundaries to discover new frontiers in family law, personal injuries, and criminal defense in Colorado. To subscribe to Divorce at Altitude, click here and select your favorite podcast player. To subscribe to Kalamaya | Goscha's YouTube channel where many of the episodes will be posted as videos, click here.  If you have additional questions or would like to speak to one of our attorneys, give us a call at 970-429-5784 or email us at [email protected].************************************************************************DISCLAIMER: THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS ON THIS PODCAST IS FOR ENTERTAINMENT AND INFORMATIONAL PURPOSES AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL ADVICE. CONTACT AN ATTORNEY IN YOUR STATE OR AREA TO OBTAIN LEGAL ADVICE ON ANY OF THESE ISSUES.

Grandparent Rights in Colorado Family LawIn this episode of Divorce at Altitude, Ryan Kalamaya is joined by Joel Pratt, a Colorado Springs-based family law attorney, to discuss the complexities of grandparent rights in Colorado family law. As more families face challenges during divorces or custody disputes, grandparents often seek to maintain or increase their involvement in their grandchildren's lives. This episode explores the legal landscape of grandparent visitation and parental responsibilities, touching on issues like standing, constitutional rights, and jurisdictional complexities.Joel explains the legal doctrine of standing, which determines who has the legal right to intervene in family law cases. In grandparent cases, standing is crucial because parents hold constitutional rights to make decisions about their children's upbringing. Joel walks through examples of when a grandparent can intervene, including situations where a grandparent has played a significant caretaking role or when the parents are unfit due to drug abuse, domestic violence, or other concerns.Guest InformationJoel Pratt is a partner at Daly and Pratt Law in Colorado Springs, specializing in family law and appellate cases. With extensive experience in complex legal issues, including constitutional law and grandparent rights, Joel has represented numerous grandparents in family and juvenile court, focusing on helping them secure their rightful place in the lives of their grandchildren.Episode HighlightsStanding in Grandparent Cases Joel explains how a grandparent must demonstrate a significant relationship with their grandchildren to intervene in custody matters.Constitutional Presumptions The episode covers how parents' constitutional rights are central to family law cases, making it difficult for grandparents to challenge parental decisions like healthcare or vaccination.Practical Applications of Grandparent Rights Joel discusses how grandparent rights come into play in various real-world situations, such as dependency and neglect cases or when parents are unfit to care for their children.Jurisdictional Challenges Ryan and Joel examine the complexities of interstate jurisdiction and how courts handle cases involving children living in different states.What is Divorce at Altitude? Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha provide tips and recommendations on issues related to divorce, separation, and co-parenting in Colorado. Ryan and Amy are the founding partners of an innovative and ambitious law firm, Kalamaya | Goscha, that pushes the boundaries to discover new frontiers in family law, personal injuries, and criminal defense in Colorado. To subscribe to Divorce at Altitude, click here and select your favorite podcast player. To subscribe to Kalamaya | Goscha's YouTube channel where many of the episodes will be posted as videos, click here.  If you have additional questions or would like to speak to one of our attorneys, give us a call at 970-429-5784 or email us at [email protected].************************************************************************DISCLAIMER: THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS ON THIS PODCAST IS FOR ENTERTAINMENT AND INFORMATIONAL PURPOSES AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL ADVICE. CONTACT AN ATTORNEY IN YOUR STATE OR AREA TO OBTAIN LEGAL ADVICE ON ANY OF THESE ISSUES.

Child Support in Colorado DivorceIn this episode of Divorce at Altitude, Ryan Kalamaya provides an overview of child support in Colorado divorce cases, explaining its purpose, how it's calculated, and the key factors that influence child support determinations. Using the example of Eric and Melanie Wolf, two hypothetical divorce clients, Ryan breaks down the essential elements of child support, focusing on how income and parenting time (overnights) directly affect the support amount.Child support ensures children's needs are met after parents separate or divorce, covering basic expenses like food, housing, clothing, and educational costs. Ryan explains how Colorado has specific guidelines that courts must follow when determining the child support amount, emphasizing that the primary drivers are both income and parenting time. For example, if Melanie spends more time with the children than Eric, this will result in a different child support arrangement than if they share equal parenting time.Episode HighlightsWhat is Child Support? Ryan explains the purpose of child support, which ensures that children's basic needs are met after divorce and outlines the two primary factors: income and parenting time.How is Child Support Calculated? Learn how Colorado uses a formula to determine child support, factoring in both parents' incomes and the amount of time the children spend with each parent.Factors That Affect Child Support Ryan discusses how various factors, such as extracurricular expenses, medical needs, and childcare costs, can impact the child support calculation.Common Child Support Issues The episode delves into more complex issues, like voluntary unemployment and variable income, that can influence child support determinations.What is Divorce at Altitude? Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha provide tips and recommendations on issues related to divorce, separation, and co-parenting in Colorado. Ryan and Amy are the founding partners of an innovative and ambitious law firm, Kalamaya | Goscha, that pushes the boundaries to discover new frontiers in family law, personal injuries, and criminal defense in Colorado. To subscribe to Divorce at Altitude, click here and select your favorite podcast player. To subscribe to Kalamaya | Goscha's YouTube channel where many of the episodes will be posted as videos, click here.  If you have additional questions or would like to speak to one of our attorneys, give us a call at 970-429-5784 or email us at [email protected].************************************************************************DISCLAIMER: THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS ON THIS PODCAST IS FOR ENTERTAINMENT AND INFORMATIONAL PURPOSES AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL ADVICE. CONTACT AN ATTORNEY IN YOUR STATE OR AREA TO OBTAIN LEGAL ADVICE ON ANY OF THESE ISSUES.

Personal Injury and Workers Compensation in a Colorado DivorceIn this episode of Divorce at Altitude, Ryan Kalamaya and guest Philip Goldberg, a seasoned divorce attorney in Denver, delve into the complex issues of personal injury and workers' compensation claims in Colorado divorces. These claims can have significant implications for the financial division of assets, especially when large settlements or awards are involved.Ryan and Philip discuss how personal injury awards—whether from car accidents, workplace injuries, or other accidents—are treated in divorce cases, particularly under Colorado law. The episode explores Colorado’s unique stance on personal injury awards, explaining how the classification of these funds is influenced by when the injury occurred during the marriage.Guest InformationPhilip Goldberg is a divorce attorney based in Denver with a wealth of experience in handling complex family law matters. An AV-rated trial lawyer, he has tried multiple cases before the Colorado Supreme Court and the Court of Appeals, and he is licensed to practice in both Colorado and Georgia. Philip's practice includes probate and estate litigation, real estate, and appellate work, and he has been recognized in the Best Lawyers in America.Episode HighlightsPersonal Injury Awards and Divorce Ryan and Philip explain how Colorado classifies personal injury awards as marital or separate property depending on the timing of the injury and the nature of the compensation.How Workers' Compensation is Treated in Divorce The discussion explores the analytic approach in Colorado for dividing workers' compensation benefits, particularly when lump sum settlements or ongoing payments are involved.The Mechanistic Approach to Personal Injury Awards Philip explains why Colorado takes a mechanistic approach to classifying personal injury awards, where all funds received from injuries during the marriage are considered marital property.Disproportionate Allocations of Injury Proceeds Ryan and Philip discuss how courts have the discretion to allocate personal injury and workers' compensation funds unequally based on the circumstances of the divorce.What is Divorce at Altitude? Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha provide tips and recommendations on issues related to divorce, separation, and co-parenting in Colorado. Ryan and Amy are the founding partners of an innovative and ambitious law firm, Kalamaya | Goscha, that pushes the boundaries to discover new frontiers in family law, personal injuries, and criminal defense in Colorado. To subscribe to Divorce at Altitude, click here and select your favorite podcast player. To subscribe to Kalamaya | Goscha's YouTube channel where many of the episodes will be posted as videos, click here.  If you have additional questions or would like to speak to one of our attorneys, give us a call at 970-429-5784 or email us at [email protected].************************************************************************DISCLAIMER: THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS ON THIS PODCAST IS FOR ENTERTAINMENT AND INFORMATIONAL PURPOSES AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL ADVICE. CONTACT AN ATTORNEY IN YOUR STATE OR AREA TO OBTAIN LEGAL ADVICE ON ANY OF THESE ISSUES.

Child Support in a Colorado DivorceIn this episode of Divorce at Altitude, Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha break down how child support works in Colorado divorce and custody cases. They explain that child support is designed to help cover the real costs of raising children, from housing, utilities, and groceries to transportation, medical care, and activities.Ryan and Amy walk through the core factors used in the Colorado child support worksheet, including each parent’s gross income, the number of overnights, the children’s health insurance costs, and certain credits such as support for a non-joint child. They also explain how spousal maintenance affects child support, why equal parenting time does not always mean zero support, and how child care, extraordinary medical expenses, and extracurricular costs may be handled either on or off the worksheet.The episode also highlights why income disputes are one of the biggest issues in child support cases. For self-employed parents, income is not always as simple as a W-2. Courts may need to evaluate business expenses, overtime, trust income, gifts, and potential income when a parent is unemployed or underemployed.Key TakeawaysWhat child support is for Child support helps cover the everyday and long-term costs of raising children in two households.Main worksheet factors Colorado child support is based on gross income, parenting time overnights, health insurance, and certain credits or adjustments.Maintenance affects child support If one parent pays spousal maintenance, that amount is deducted from the payor’s income and added to the recipient’s income for child support purposes.Income disputes are common Self-employment, overtime, trust income, gifts, and imputed income can all create disputes over the correct support amount.High-income cases are different When income exceeds the worksheet cap, courts may consider the children’s lifestyle and other factors beyond the formula.Child support can be modified A 10% change in the support obligation may justify modification, but usually only from the date a motion is filed.Enforcement matters Colorado parents can enforce child support through contempt, wage assignments, judgments, and child support enforcement services.What is Divorce at Altitude? Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha provide tips and recommendations on issues related to divorce, separation, and co-parenting in Colorado. Ryan and Amy are the founding partners of an innovative and ambitious law firm, Kalamaya | Goscha, that pushes the boundaries to discover new frontiers in family law, personal injuries, and criminal defense in Colorado. To subscribe to Divorce at Altitude, click here and select your favorite podcast player. To subscribe to Kalamaya | Goscha's YouTube channel where many of the episodes will be posted as videos, click here.  If you have additional questions or would like to speak to one of our attorneys, give us a call at 970-429-5784 or email us at [email protected].************************************************************************DISCLAIMER: THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS ON THIS PODCAST IS FOR ENTERTAINMENT AND INFORMATIONAL PURPOSES AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL ADVICE. CONTACT AN ATTORNEY IN YOUR STATE OR AREA TO OBTAIN LEGAL ADVICE ON ANY OF THESE ISSUES.

Variable Income and Spousal Support in a Colorado DivorceIn this how-to episode of Divorce at Altitude, Ryan Kalamaya explains how Colorado courts and divorce lawyers approach variable income when determining spousal support, also called maintenance or alimony. This issue often comes up when one spouse does not earn a predictable salary each month or each year.Ryan uses the podcast’s hypothetical divorce clients, Eric and Melanie Wolfe, to walk through the problem. Imagine Eric owns a real estate business or works in a commission-based industry. Some months he may earn nothing, while in another month he could earn a very large commission. On top of that, his yearly income may swing dramatically as well—earning $250,000 one year and $1 million the next. When maintenance depends in part on income, that kind of inconsistency creates real challenges.Key TakeawaysWhat is variable income? Income that changes significantly month to month or year to year, such as commissions, business profits, or real estate earnings.Why does it matter? Because spousal support is based in part on income, and unstable earnings make support harder to calculate fairly.Common solution: averaging income Lawyers and courts may use a three-year or five-year average to smooth out irregular earnings.Weighted averages may apply If income has been rising or falling, a weighted average may place more value on recent years.Another option: percentage of future bonuses or commissions Parties can agree to a base level of support plus a share of future variable income.Taxes still matter If a spouse receives a large commission, not all of it is truly available cash because tax obligations must be considered.No universal formula fits every case Colorado courts look at the facts, the type of income, and the overall fairness of the result.What is Divorce at Altitude? Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha provide tips and recommendations on issues related to divorce, separation, and co-parenting in Colorado. Ryan and Amy are the founding partners of an innovative and ambitious law firm, Kalamaya | Goscha, that pushes the boundaries to discover new frontiers in family law, personal injuries, and criminal defense in Colorado. To subscribe to Divorce at Altitude, click here and select your favorite podcast player. To subscribe to Kalamaya | Goscha's YouTube channel where many of the episodes will be posted as videos, click here.  If you have additional questions or would like to speak to one of our attorneys, give us a call at 970-429-5784 or email us at [email protected].************************************************************************DISCLAIMER: THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS ON THIS PODCAST IS FOR ENTERTAINMENT AND INFORMATIONAL PURPOSES AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL ADVICE. CONTACT AN ATTORNEY IN YOUR STATE OR AREA TO OBTAIN LEGAL ADVICE ON ANY OF THESE ISSUES.

Decision-Making for Children After Divorce in ColoradoIn this episode of Divorce at Altitude, Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha break down one of the most important parenting issues in a Colorado divorce: how parents make major decisions for their children after separation. While many people still use the word “custody,” Colorado law separates parenting issues into two categories: parenting time and decision-making. Parenting time refers to when the children are with each parent, while decision-making concerns the major choices that shape a child’s life.Ryan and Amy explain that decision-making covers the big issues, not everyday matters. Day-to-day choices—like what a child wears to school or what they eat for breakfast—are made by the parent who has the child at that time. Decision-making, by contrast, includes major areas such as medical care, education, extracurricular activities, and sometimes religion. Education disputes may include whether a child should attend private or public school, or which school district the child should attend. Medical disputes can involve more significant healthcare decisions, including vaccinations or treatment plans. Extracurricular activities can become especially contentious because they often involve both time and money.Episode HighlightsWhat “Decision-Making” Means in Colorado Colorado uses the term decision-making instead of legal custody and separates it from parenting time.Major Decisions vs. Daily Choices Decision-making covers education, medical care, extracurriculars, and sometimes religion—not routine day-to-day parenting.Joint vs. Sole Decision-Making Courts can order joint decision-making, sole decision-making, or even split decision-making by category.Best Interests of the Child Standard Colorado courts focus on what arrangement best serves the child’s welfare, stability, and long-term needs.Domestic Violence Matters A history of abuse, coercion, or control can strongly affect whether joint decision-making is appropriate.Past Involvement Still Counts Judges may consider which parent historically handled school, medical, and extracurricular decisions—but parents can also grow into bigger roles after separation.What is Divorce at Altitude? Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha provide tips and recommendations on issues related to divorce, separation, and co-parenting in Colorado. Ryan and Amy are the founding partners of an innovative and ambitious law firm, Kalamaya | Goscha, that pushes the boundaries to discover new frontiers in family law, personal injuries, and criminal defense in Colorado. To subscribe to Divorce at Altitude, click here and select your favorite podcast player. To subscribe to Kalamaya | Goscha's YouTube channel where many of the episodes will be posted as videos, click here.  If you have additional questions or would like to speak to one of our attorneys, give us a call at 970-429-5784 or email us at [email protected].************************************************************************DISCLAIMER: THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS ON THIS PODCAST IS FOR ENTERTAINMENT AND INFORMATIONAL PURPOSES AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL ADVICE. CONTACT AN ATTORNEY IN YOUR STATE OR AREA TO OBTAIN LEGAL ADVICE ON ANY OF THESE ISSUES.

Voluntary Unemployment, Underemployment, and Imputed IncomeIn this How-To episode of Divorce at Altitude, Ryan Kalamaya explains the legal concepts of voluntary unemployment, underemployment, and imputed income in Colorado divorce cases. These issues frequently arise when courts determine spousal maintenance (alimony) and child support, because both forms of support rely heavily on each party’s income.Ryan begins by illustrating common scenarios using the hypothetical divorce clients Eric and Melanie Wolf. For example, Melanie may have been a stay-at-home parent who previously earned a significant income before having children. Once their child starts school, Eric might argue that Melanie is capable of returning to work and earning income again. In another situation, Melanie may be working part-time despite having the education and experience to earn much more. On the other hand, Eric might intentionally reduce his earnings—perhaps by quitting a high-paying job to take a much lower-paying position—simply to reduce the amount of support he must pay.Episode HighlightsWhat Voluntary Unemployment Means A party intentionally stops working or reduces income in a way that affects support obligations.Understanding Underemployment A person may still be working but earning significantly less than they reasonably could based on their skills and experience.What Is Imputed Income Courts may assign a potential income level to a party when calculating maintenance or child support.Why Income Matters in Divorce Support calculations depend heavily on each spouse’s income and earning capacity.Examples of Imputed Income Situations Quitting a high-paying job, working part-time despite higher earning potential, or avoiding employment altogether.Exceptions to Imputed Income Courts may decline to impute income if someone is pursuing education, training, or a legitimate career change.Young Child Exception Parents caring for children under 30 months (maintenance) or 24 months (child support) may not be required to work.What is Divorce at Altitude? Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha provide tips and recommendations on issues related to divorce, separation, and co-parenting in Colorado. Ryan and Amy are the founding partners of an innovative and ambitious law firm, Kalamaya | Goscha, that pushes the boundaries to discover new frontiers in family law, personal injuries, and criminal defense in Colorado. To subscribe to Divorce at Altitude, click here and select your favorite podcast player. To subscribe to Kalamaya | Goscha's YouTube channel where many of the episodes will be posted as videos, click here.  If you have additional questions or would like to speak to one of our attorneys, give us a call at 970-429-5784 or email us at [email protected].************************************************************************DISCLAIMER: THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS ON THIS PODCAST IS FOR ENTERTAINMENT AND INFORMATIONAL PURPOSES AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL ADVICE. CONTACT AN ATTORNEY IN YOUR STATE OR AREA TO OBTAIN LEGAL ADVICE ON ANY OF THESE ISSUES.