Done With Dating: Matchmaking, Dating Advice, and Self Improvement

Episodes

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   Episode 44 - Matchmaking - Arielle Leavitt - Florida

   Can you find real chemistry through a podcast date? Ariel Levitt is dating beyond the apps, trusting her instincts, and taking an unconventional approach to finding a lasting relationship. Ariel shares how a friend’s dare inspired her to date on a podcast—and why she believes hearing someone…

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   Oct 17, 2026

   29m
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   Episode 43 - Matchmaking - Sunny - Florida

   Sunny is ready to date again—but she’s looking for something real. After losing her husband in 2020 and building a new chapter of life across Maine and Florida, Sunny knows what matters to her: honesty, trust, emotional availability, and a partner who’s genuinely ready for a lasting relationship.…

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   Oct 12, 2026

   32m
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   Episode 42 - Anil Gupta - The Love Doctor

   Anil Gupta, internationally known as the Love Doctor, breaks down why swiping, guessing, and “hoping it works out” can keep people stuck—and what to do instead if you want a relationship that lasts. Anil explore the hidden dangers of the “dating facade” and shares a practical framework for...

   Oct 8, 2026

   34m
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   Episode 41 - Matchmaking -Katie - Boston - MA

   Katie is a 45-year-old human resources professional from Massachusetts who loves travel, fitness, food, and meaningful connection. She brings honesty, warmth, and a clear sense of what she wants to the matchmaking process in hopes of finding a female match. Katie gets personal about the things…

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   Oct 3, 2026

   20m
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   Episode 40 - Debbie Engle - The Real Runaway Bride

   This is one of the most powerful episodes I've recorded. This episode will give you hope. What do you do when a wedding engagement no longer feels right, even when everyone else thinks you should go through with it? Debbie Engel—the real runaway bride—shares the gut-level warning signs she…

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   Sep 29, 2026

   38m
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   Episode 39 - Kori Strobl - Overcoming People Pleasing

   Kori Strobl shares her journey of overcoming people pleasing, drawing from her experiences as a coach and her personal battles with authenticity. She emphasizes the importance of understanding the internal motivations behind our behaviors and encourages listeners to embrace discomfort as a…

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   Sep 24, 2026

   34m
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   Episode 38 - Dating Coach Jonathan Aslay

   Jonathan Aslay is an authentic and experienced dating coach with over 200,000 followers on YouTube. He is also a contrarian in places and has some unorthodox advice compared to some of his contemporaries. This is a great listen with a lot of depth. This conversation focuses on how to date with…

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   Sep 19, 2026

   43m
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   Episode 37 - Matchmaking - Eva - South Carolina

   Eva is an author, world traveler, and former competitive dancer who loves dancing Salsa and Bachata. She adopted two rescue birds and has given them a great home in South Carolina. She is a brilliant woman who has authored multiple books, likes to trade stocks and options, and leads a full and...

   Sep 17, 2026

   29m
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   Episode 36 - When the Bar is in Hell -NK Navarro

   I laughed throughout this episode when recording and when listening again. After years of grief, divorce, motherhood, financial stress, and emotional survival, N.K. reluctantly enters the world of dating apps hoping love still exists somewhere beyond shirtless bathroom selfies and emotionally...

   Sep 15, 2026

   37m
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    Episode 35 -Shang Olson - Metacognitive Therapy and Dating

    What do you do with the negative or overwhelming thoughts you might have while swiping or dating? Shang Olson can help. Shang practices something called metacognitive therapy (MCT), which in a nutshell is to help clients reduce the amount of time they spend in their minds thinking, overthinking,...

    Sep 12, 2026

    34m
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    Episode 34 - The Co-Parent Collective -Hallie Strauss and Kate Alcomo

    Parents who are dealing with divorce or separation don't want to miss this one. Dr. Hallie Strauss and Kate Alcomo provide invaluable insights on Helping to keep kids at the center, not in the middle. We cover many important topics and discuss their resources for parents. I wish I had them when I...

    Sep 9, 2026

    45m
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    Episode 33 - Gaylen Wilson - The Monument Method

    This was a fascinating conversation with Gaylen Wilson, who has had a crazy journey through bankruptcy, addiction, career collapse, congestive heart failure, a transplant, and a marriage that survived it all. What if the fastest way to stop a fight is a single word and a 30-second reset? Gaylen...

    Sep 5, 2026

    37m
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    Episode 32 - Suman Smith - Stop Cockblocking Your Dating Life

    This episode of choc full of good content. Suman Smith, a Jeweler and Author of Stop Cockblocking Your Dating Life, starts with a funny story about the worst engagement ring client she ever had. The first half of the episode we talk about interracial dating and Suman's experiences limiting…

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    Aug 31, 2026

    33m
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    Episode 31 - Chris Fields - Infidelity, Rebuilding & Divorce Recovery

    Chris breaks down the psychology behind attraction, self-sabotage, and the non-negotiables people slowly abandon when they feel lonely or rushed. He also explains how his background in Neuro Linguistic Programming (NLP) and investigative work helps him trace relationship problems back to their…

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    Aug 29, 2026

    22m
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    Episode 30 - Virginia McConnell - Former PI - Narcissistic Abuse Recovery

    Virginia McConnell is a dating and relationship pattern coach specializing in narcissistic abuse recovery, who shares practical first date vetting steps, red-flag patterns, and boundary checks that can save you from wasting time, energy, and emotional damage. Virginia breaks down how to spot...

    Aug 25, 2026

    30m
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    Episode 29 Violet Lange - Cosmic Matchmaking

    Violet Lange describes the cosmic magic that happens when you stop chasing perfect paper chemistry and start looking at values, nervous system safety, and energetic alignment. She blends engineering, business, astrology, and energy work into a matchmaking process that helps people get unstuck…

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    Aug 17, 2026

    33m
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    Episode 28 Allison Brenner - How Other See You

    Allison Brenner breaks down how InnerVue uses a modern 360-style assessment to reveal not only critical blind spots and also hidden strengths, helping you see not just what you think of yourself, but how you land with friends, coworkers, partners, and dates. This can also work for couples! We…

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    Aug 10, 2026

    33m
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    Episode 27 - Recovering from a Breakup - Sarah Curnoles

    Sarah Curnoles, a seasoned breakup coach and life strategist, shares a transformative process that turns heartbreak into a powerful rebirth. In this episode, discover the surprising truth about grief, triggers, and how to reclaim your identity after loss — even when numbness or self-doubt hit...

    Aug 5, 2026

    36m
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    Episode 26 - Motherhood and Intimacy - Caroline Hood

    Caroline Hood and I discuss motherhood and the importance of mothers making themselves a priority. The pressure to be “selfless” can make women feel like they have to give up their identity, their desire, and even their sense of self. But the truth is: you can be a mother and still be a full…

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    Jul 31, 2026

    44m
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    Episode 25 - Steven Goodwin - Full Disclosure Conversations - Men and Fatherhood

    I enjoyed recording this conversation with Steven. It is the first of two episodes on parenthood. In this conversation, Steven and I speak about our journeys through life and what we would tell young men and our younger selves. We weave that into fatherhood. Find Steven Goodwin at:...

    Jul 28, 2026

    40m
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    Episode 24 - Matchmaking - Dan - Boston Area

    Meet Dan, a 34-year-old librarian with a passion for music, drag culture, and honest conversations, shares his courageous journey through trauma, self-discovery, and finding love on his own terms. He is a gay male looking for a man. After surviving a life-altering accident and navigating complex...

    Jul 20, 2026

    35m
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    Episode 23 - Lunch Dates and Allure Matchmaking - Jill Vandor

    I had a really great conversation with Jill Vandor, a seasoned matchmaker with over 25 years of experience at Lunch Dates and Allure Matchmaking. Jill finds success through meticulous vetting, intuitive matchmaking, and a deep commitment to understanding what truly makes two people click. I could...

    Jul 16, 2026

    31m
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    Episode 22: Matchmaking: Michael D. Andelman - Boston (Open to travel)

    In this matchmaking episode, you will meet Michael. He has a vibrant personality and loves cycling, travel, music, and quality time. Michael is proof that the best connections start with shared energy—not a perfect checklist. He currently lives in Boston but is willing to move for the right lady....

    Jul 10, 2026

    27m
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    Episode 21 - Lilli Bewley - Unlocking Female Magnetism - Four Dating Archetypes - Part II

    In part two of our discussion, Lilli reveals the transformative feminine dating archetypes that can unlock your perfect match and inner freedom. Whether you're single, dating, or in a relationship, understanding your archetype is the first step toward lasting attraction and self-love. In this...

    Jul 6, 2026

    25m
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    Episode 20 - Lilli Bewley - Unlocking Female Magnetism - Four Dating Archetypes - Part I

    I learned a lot from these next two episodes! Lilli Bewley, a trauma-informed feminine dating coach, reveals how deep inner work and understanding feminine archetypes can rewrite your love story. In this episode, part I, you'll discover the real reason "just be yourself" falls flat when it comes…

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    Jun 30, 2026

    29m
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    Episode 19 - Mingle Mayhem Science Backed Dating - Audie Olivia

    What better way to extend human interaction than to sit together. Although this recording was posted out of order, this was our first in person interview. Audie from Mingle Mayhem joined me to discuss their science backed matchmaking and in person dating events in the Boston area. You can find…

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    Jun 22, 2026

    35m
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    Episode 18 - Matt Ciccone - Walking Talking Men - Male Camaraderie

    Are you a guy who is crushing life but doing it alone? Maybe you have some struggles but don't have men to discuss them with? Enter Matt Ciccone and Walk Talking Men. They support male comraderie with their free events. These serve at least two purposes: 1. To give men a non-judgmental space to...

    Jun 15, 2026

    28m
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    Episode 17 - Financial Coaching for Women - Victoria Steward

    I really enjoyed this sitdown with Victoria Stuart. Stu Ward. She has a great podcast of her own and came on today to discuss the financial concerns. Primarily women have in weighing a determination to retire. My key takeaways: the dollar figure doesn't matter. You could have 500,000 or $1…

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    Jun 1, 2026

    35m
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    Episode 16 - Sabrina Martinez- Men's Coaching

    Most successful men struggle most with their relationships — and Sabrina, a renowned men's coach, reveals the counterintuitive secret that transforms high-achieving men into magnetic lovers. With her unique approach, she uncovers how mastering a single, simple word can dramatically increase...

    May 29, 2026

    28m
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    Episode 15 - Dr. Stephen Paul Edwards - The Venus Fly Trap: Sex, Lies and Repercussions

    Today's podcast is a wild ride. I learned a lot, including that when someone tells you who they are, you have to listen. Dr.Stephen Paul Edwards brings us through his journey of self improvement, working with Tony Robbins, to becoming a very successful entrepreneur. Although he had years of self...

    May 26, 2026

    34m
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    Episode 14 - Touch Grass Meet irl Events - Isabel Calder

    Touch Grass https://partiful.com/e/zuexTZg4Zu3sPdP6vdz0 Do you feel like the dating apps are just too artificial? Do you want to meet people in the Boston area? Enter Isabel Calder and Touch Grass Meet irl. Most of us underestimate the power of small, low-stakes gatherings to create real…

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    May 23, 2026

    19m
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    Episode 13 - Trinity Higgs - Soul Liberation Lab

    In today's episode, Trinity Higgs joins me to discuss her incredible life journey, which led her to create a 12 week high touch coaching immersion inside her Soul Liberation Lab, which helps high functioning women who looks strong on the outside but feels numb on the inside release the silent...

    May 18, 2026

    27m
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    Episode 12 - Matchmaking - Date a Guest - Isabel - Boston, MA

    Isabel is a designer, animal lover, museum enthusiast, and creative spirit living in Boston. She's a brilliant woman known for her ingenuity, British humor, and charming personality. She's looking for a man who can match her wit and be a good "plus one" while experiencing everything the world has...

    May 15, 2026

    18m
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    Episode 11 - Brainmapping & Attachment Styles - Dating Coach Sophia Bloom

    Many high-achieving men are great on paper but struggle to turn chemistry into connection. Sophia Bloom, a dating coach for intellectual professionals, reveals the hidden patterns behind attraction—especially for logical, science-minded men who find dating emotionally intimidating. Sophia breaks...

    May 11, 2026

    28m
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    Episode 10 - Matchmaking - Date a Guest - Rhys - Kansas City

    Most people overlook one of the most important keys to modern dating: authenticity and emotional maturity. Rhys Loring reveals how her decade of self-work reshaped her approach to relationships—and what she truly needs from a partner to build something meaningful. In this candid episode, Rhys...

    May 5, 2026

    22m
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    Episode 9 - Matchmaking - Date a Guest - Adam Washington DC

    Most people struggle to find authentic love without sacrificing their true selves — but what if your ideal match isn’t just looking for perfect, they’re searching for someone real? In this candid episode, Adam Dickinson shares how his blend of analytical thinking and spiritual insight is guiding...

    May 1, 2026

    14m
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    Episode 8 - Rhys Loring - Intimacy, Love Languages, and Divorce

    Most people don’t realize that the root of many relationship struggles is a silent language of emotional disconnect and unmet needs. Rhys Loring, a seasoned divorce recovery coach, reveals the critical signs that your marriage is unraveling before your eyes—and how to intervene before it’s too...

    Apr 29, 2026

    29m
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    Episode 7 - Adam Dickinson - Blending Logic and Intuition with Modern Dating Culture

    A fascinating blend of logic and intuition, this episode dives deep into how high-functioning adults can navigate life's big transitions with clarity and confidence. Adam Dickinson, a former FBI analyst turned future self strategist, shares his groundbreaking method for integrating inner signals...

    Apr 24, 2026

    30m
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    Episode 6 - Modern Dating Culture From the Male Perspective Part Two

    In a follow-up discussion regarding the perspective on modern dating, previous guest Alex Most is back. He's a seasoned dating veteran based in San Francisco, known for insights on relationship deal breakers, navigating modern dating pitfalls, and turning vulnerability into strength. Alex shares...

    Apr 20, 2026

    23m
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    Episode 5 Matchmaking and Modern Dating Culture

    Discover the revolutionary approach to meaningful connections—beyond swipes and small talk—hidden in the secrets of expert matchmakers. Are you tired of endless dating apps that feel more like auditions than actual connections? What if authenticity, emotional maturity, and shared values could be...

    Apr 15, 2026

    23m
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    Episode 4 The Women's Perspective Part Two Modern Dating Culture

    Are dating apps killing organic connections? Here's what two women in their 20s and 40s really think... 🔥Drop a 🔥 if you've felt this fatigue too — it's more common than you think.So many of us have been stuck swiping, hoping for something real, but feeling exhausted instead. Sierra, 28, shares...

    Apr 9, 2026

    22m
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    Episode 3 The Women's Perspective Part One

    In this Episode discover how real conversations and intentional dating can transform your love life. Two women, Christina and Sierra share insights on how dating fatigue and societal changes have impacted face-to-face interactions, revealing the limitations of traditional apps. Explore the rise…

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    Apr 8, 2026

    18m
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    Episode 2 The Male Perspective On Modern Dating Culture

    The conversation covers the Male perspective on modern dating and relationships. Alex Most has been on 250 first dates. Alex discussed his dating experiences, using dating apps, and the transition to meaningful relationships. It also explores the importance of authenticity, self-awareness, and...

    Mar 31, 2026

    26m
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    Episode 1 What is Done With Dating

    The conversation covers the creation of an interactive dating podcast, the pillars of the dream listener, personal experiences and self-improvement, dating stories and generational background, the format and content of the podcast, and the goal of destroying dating myths and inspiring hope....

    Mar 27, 2026

    17m