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Don't Ask

Don't Ask with Jess and Tommy is a weekly podcast with two content creators, best friends, and soon to be married partners navigating life together in real time. From how we first met to working side by side every day, training together, traveling the world, and building a family. We talk relationships, pop culture, internet life, books, fitness, and the honest ups and downs of spending 24/7 together, usually while being interrupted by our four cats. We didn't wait for anyone to ask. We're just telling you.

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    We Got Stuck On An Airplane... Don't Ask Ep. 30

    Welcome back to Don't Ask episode 30!! We are officially back from the honeymoon and back to our usual podcast studio so it's good to be home! Today we talked about Tommy's birthday, our crazy flight back home from Cancun where we got stuck on our plane for hours, the new Michael Jackson documentary, Tommy's upcoming surgery, Olivia Rodrigo's new album, Love Island, and much more! We appreciate you guys always tuning in! We post every Wednesday and Saturday!

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    Our Honeymoon Episode... Don't Ask Ep. 29

    Welcome back to episode 29 of Don't Ask!! We are officially back from our few week break and we appreciate you guys waiting for us! We are back home now but we filmed this episode on our honeymoon in Cancun! Today we talked about our wedding a little bit, what we did on our honeymoon, documentaries we've watched recently and lots more! We post every Wednesday and Saturday so stay tuned for more!!

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    Our Wedding Episode... Don't Ask Ep. 28

    Welcome back to Don't Ask episode 28!! We are officially married!! In today's episode we only talked about our wedding and everything that went into it starting with the rehearsal dinner day! We explained and broke down literally everything that happened at the wedding so hopefully you guys can feel like you were there with us! We will be taking another break this week while we are on our honeymoon but we will be back on June 10!

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    Our First Gardening Episode... Don't Ask Ep. 27

    Welcome back to Don't Ask episode 27!! We had a funny episode today where we talked about our wedding in a week, melatonin and NyQuil, Would You Rather questions, no knees, yellow fedoras, the cats, and more bizarre stories for our new segment Askhole Hotline (shoutout to Rex for our new Askhole Hotline logo)! We post every Wednesday and Saturday so stay tuned for more episodes and follow us!!

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    Our Wedding Vows...Don't Ask Ep. 26

    Welcome back to episode 26 of Don't Ask!! Today we talked about our wedding of course, our unhealthy (?) relationship habits, stadium hotdogs, food poisoning, Switzerland, nightmares, cars, public speaking, our vows, cats, and more! We post every Wednesday and Saturday so stay tuned for more and follow us!

  6. 24

    We Started An Askhole Hotline... Don't Ask Ep. 25

    Welcome back to episode 25 of Don't Ask!! We are so happy for you to join us today! Today we talked about our wedding of course, TikTok trends, Tommy's old TikTok videos, jealousy, high school reunions, some more crazy relationship stories in our new segment called Askhole Hotline! If you guys have any crazy stories or have heard from friends/family crazy relationship stories please send them in! We post every Wednesday and Saturday so tune in again and follow us!

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    We Got Matching Tattoos... Don't Ask Ep. 24

    Welcome back to episode 24 of Don't Ask!! Today we talked about our new matching tattoos, Jess's wedding dress, James Charles again, the risk of going into lockdown again, birthday dinners, insane/creepy relationship stories, Askhole Hotline, and lots more! We appreciate you guys so much for tuning in every week! We post every Wednesday and Saturday so stay tuned for more and subscribe!

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    Is There Another Pandemic?... Don't Ask Ep. 23

    Welcome back to episode 23 of Don't Ask!! Thank you for being patient with us posting a day late! Today we had a lot to get off our chests. We talked about our friends' wedding, hantavirus, James Charles, our bridal party's injuries, Tommy's torn meniscus, Spirit airlines, cruise ships, Inside The Manosphere, and some more ridiculous relationship stories! Send us some relationship stories that are entertaining or if you want advice! We post every Wednesday and Saturday so stay tuned for more and follow us!

  9. 21

    Things Got MESSY... Don't Ask Ep. 22

    Welcome back to episode 22 of Don't Ask!! Today we talked about our cats of course, talking to people at the gym, sunburns, Jess's speech impediment, hate comments, some WILD relationship stories we got sent, wedding nails, crazy MIL's, and lots of other topics! We post every Wednesday and Saturday so stay tuned for more!

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    Relationships Gone Wrong... Don't Ask Ep. 21

    Welcome back to episode 21 of Don't Ask!1 We officially in the 20's of this podcast and we are only getting started! Today we talked about our marriage license, our wedding dress and suit, Zara Larsson, Love on The Spectrum, Disney, our character lookalikes, insane relationship stories, and unhinged questions. We post every Wednesday and Saturday so stay tuned for more!

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    Our Wedding Is In One Month... Don't Ask Ep. 20

    Welcome back to episode 20 of Don't Ask!! Today we are talking about Tommy's injured knee, 7 Brew, our wedding, The False Prophet, cults, grandparents, hobbies, volleyball, and lots of other topics! We really enjoy making these podcasts and we hope you guys enjoy listening! We post every Wednesday and Saturday!

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ABOUT THIS SHOW

Don't Ask with Jess and Tommy is a weekly podcast with two content creators, best friends, and soon to be married partners navigating life together in real time. From how we first met to working side by side every day, training together, traveling the world, and building a family. We talk relationships, pop culture, internet life, books, fitness, and the honest ups and downs of spending 24/7 together, usually while being interrupted by our four cats. We didn't wait for anyone to ask. We're just telling you.

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Jess and Tommy

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Don't Ask with Jess and Tommy is a weekly podcast with two content creators, best friends, and soon to be married partners navigating life together in real time. From how we first met to working side by side every day, training together, traveling the world, and building a family. We talk...

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Don't Ask is created and hosted by Jess and Tommy.
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