Donuts & Divorce: A Family Law Podcast

In this episode, Attorneys Dorothy O'Neil and Aleksandra Kocelko take a closer look at child support and answer 3 main questions: (1) what counts as income in calculating child support, (2) what expenses are considered in calculating child support, and (3) what deviations or arguments are available to adjust the basic child support amount.Dorothy O'Neil, Esq. is a Partner and Founding Member of BOK Law & Mediation Services, PLLC.  She is a Family Law Mediator, Collaborative Divorce Practitioner, and Certified Divorce Financial Analyst.  If you have any questions, please contact Dorothy O'Neil at [email protected], or visit our website at www.boklawfirm.com.The Donuts & Divorce podcast is intended as a general reference, and is considered general advertising.  Any listener should check for changes in any applicable laws, and should consult with an attorney on any legal issues.  No attorney-client relationship is formed by listening to, or participating in, this podcast.  The information provided in this podcast does not constitute legal advice, and any thoughts or commentary by the podcasting lawyers and/or guests is provided as a service to the community, and does not constitute solicitation or legal advice.  Any information is provided on an "as is" basis, and the lawyer/law firm makes no warranties and disclaims all liabilities for damages resulting from its use.  Nothing provided in the podcast should be considered a substitute for advice of competent counsel.  In the event the podcast receives emails about the subject matter, no attorney-client relationship is created via that email communication.

In this episode, Dorothy O'Neil interviews Stephanie Wijkstrom, MS, LPC, NBCC, who is the CEO and founder of The Counseling and Wellness Center of Pittsburgh.  In this episode, they discuss what high conflict co-parenting looks like, the effect it can have on children, how to implement resources and boundaries, and habits to reduce conflict over time.Find out more about Stephanie and The Counseling and Wellness Center of Pittsburgh here:  https://counselingwellnesspgh.com/team/marriage-counseling/Dorothy O'Neil, Esq. is a Partner and Founding Member of BOK Law & Mediation Services, PLLC.  She is a Family Law Mediator, Collaborative Divorce Practitioner, and Certified Divorce Financial Analyst.  If you have any questions, please contact Dorothy O'Neil at [email protected], or visit our website at www.boklawfirm.com.The Donuts & Divorce podcast is intended as a general reference, and is considered general advertising.  Any listener should check for changes in any applicable laws, and should consult with an attorney on any legal issues.  No attorney-client relationship is formed by listening to, or participating in, this podcast.  The information provided in this podcast does not constitute legal advice, and any thoughts or commentary by the podcasting lawyers and/or guests is provided as a service to the community, and does not constitute solicitation or legal advice.  Any information is provided on an "as is" basis, and the lawyer/law firm makes no warranties and disclaims all liabilities for damages resulting from its use.  Nothing provided in the podcast should be considered a substitute for advice of competent counsel.  In the event the podcast receives emails about the subject matter, no attorney-client relationship is created via that email communication.

In this episode, Dorothy O'Neil and Donna Cheswick discuss the post-divorce checklist items that you do not want to forget once you are officially divorced!Since 2008, Donna Cheswick has been a Certified Divorce Financial Analyst® and assists clients, couples and their attorneys to better understand the financial complexities surrounding divorce and to forecast the long-term effects of alternative settlement proposals. She is also a trained divorce mediator, a financial neutral in Collaborative Divorce and a Certified QDRO Specialist.https://cheswickdivorcesolutions.com/about-us/Dorothy O'Neil, Esq. is a Partner and Founding Member of BOK Law & Mediation Services, PLLC.  She is a Family Law Mediator, Collaborative Divorce Practitioner, and Certified Divorce Financial Analyst.  If you have any questions, please contact Dorothy O'Neil at [email protected], or visit our website at www.boklawfirm.com.The Donuts & Divorce podcast is intended as a general reference, and is considered general advertising.  Any listener should check for changes in any applicable laws, and should consult with an attorney on any legal issues.  No attorney-client relationship is formed by listening to, or participating in, this podcast.  The information provided in this podcast does not constitute legal advice, and any thoughts or commentary by the podcasting lawyers and/or guests is provided as a service to the community, and does not constitute solicitation or legal advice.  Any information is provided on an "as is" basis, and the lawyer/law firm makes no warranties and disclaims all liabilities for damages resulting from its use.  Nothing provided in the podcast should be considered a substitute for advice of competent counsel.  In the event the podcast receives emails about the subject matter, no attorney-client relationship is created via that email communication.

In this episode, Dorothy addresses a newer concept of Mediation: Blended Family Mediation.  Blended Family Mediation is when co-parents and potentially their significant others sit with a mediator to go through a parenting plan that is all encompassing for all parties and all children’s schedules and needs.  It focuses on the bigger picture as a whole, as opposed to just the two co-parents' schedules.  Check out this latest episode to see if Blended Family Mediation is a fit for you!Dorothy O'Neil, Esq. is a Partner and Founding Member of BOK Law & Mediation Services, PLLC.  She is a Family Law Mediator, Collaborative Divorce Practitioner, and Certified Divorce Financial Analyst.  If you have any questions, please contact Dorothy O'Neil at [email protected], or visit our website at www.boklawfirm.com.The Donuts & Divorce podcast is intended as a general reference, and is considered general advertising.  Any listener should check for changes in any applicable laws, and should consult with an attorney on any legal issues.  No attorney-client relationship is formed by listening to, or participating in, this podcast.  The information provided in this podcast does not constitute legal advice, and any thoughts or commentary by the podcasting lawyers and/or guests is provided as a service to the community, and does not constitute solicitation or legal advice.  Any information is provided on an "as is" basis, and the lawyer/law firm makes no warranties and disclaims all liabilities for damages resulting from its use.  Nothing provided in the podcast should be considered a substitute for advice of competent counsel.  In the event the podcast receives emails about the subject matter, no attorney-client relationship is created via that email communication.

In this episode, Attorney Dorothy O'Neil discusses the rise of Premarital Mediation, and how couples can mediate the terms of a Premarital Agreement.  Many couples are choosing this process as a means of "marriage planning" so that they are on the same page when it comes to finances, responsibilities, and combining households.  Check it out!Dorothy O'Neil, Esq. is a Partner and Founding Member of BOK Law & Mediation Services, PLLC.  She is a Family Law Mediator, Collaborative Divorce Practitioner, and Certified Divorce Financial Analyst.  If you have any questions, please contact Dorothy O'Neil at [email protected], or visit our website at www.boklawfirm.com.The Donuts & Divorce podcast is intended as a general reference, and is considered general advertising.  Any listener should check for changes in any applicable laws, and should consult with an attorney on any legal issues.  No attorney-client relationship is formed by listening to, or participating in, this podcast.  The information provided in this podcast does not constitute legal advice, and any thoughts or commentary by the podcasting lawyers and/or guests is provided as a service to the community, and does not constitute solicitation or legal advice.  Any information is provided on an "as is" basis, and the lawyer/law firm makes no warranties and disclaims all liabilities for damages resulting from its use.  Nothing provided in the podcast should be considered a substitute for advice of competent counsel.  In the event the podcast receives emails about the subject matter, no attorney-client relationship is created via that email communication.

In this episode, Attorneys Dorothy O'Neil and Aleksandra Kocelko tackle the subject of shared custody, and what that really means under Pennsylvania law.  The address shared legal custody, as well as shared physical custody, along with the varying schedules parents can choose from.  Dorothy O'Neil, Esq. is a Partner and Founding Member of BOK Law & Mediation Services, PLLC.  She is a Family Law Mediator, Collaborative Divorce Practitioner, and Certified Divorce Financial Analyst.  If you have any questions, please contact Dorothy O'Neil at [email protected], or visit our website at www.boklawfirm.com.The Donuts & Divorce podcast is intended as a general reference, and is considered general advertising.  Any listener should check for changes in any applicable laws, and should consult with an attorney on any legal issues.  No attorney-client relationship is formed by listening to, or participating in, this podcast.  The information provided in this podcast does not constitute legal advice, and any thoughts or commentary by the podcasting lawyers and/or guests is provided as a service to the community, and does not constitute solicitation or legal advice.  Any information is provided on an "as is" basis, and the lawyer/law firm makes no warranties and disclaims all liabilities for damages resulting from its use.  Nothing provided in the podcast should be considered a substitute for advice of competent counsel.  In the event the podcast receives emails about the subject matter, no attorney-client relationship is created via that email communication.

In this episode, Partners and Founding Members Dorothy O'Neil and Rachael Bowe discuss the "Discovery" Phase of Divorce, which can also be called the "Information Gathering" Phase of Divorce.  They dive into the various discovery options, such as Interrogatories and Requests for Production of Documents, as well as Requests for Admissions, Depositions and Subpoenas, all with an aim of gathering financial information to assist with the settlement of the divorce.  Dorothy O'Neil, Esq. is a Partner and Founding Member of BOK Law & Mediation Services, PLLC.  She is a Family Law Mediator, Collaborative Divorce Practitioner, and Certified Divorce Financial Analyst.  If you have any questions, please contact Dorothy O'Neil at [email protected], or visit our website at www.boklawfirm.com.The Donuts & Divorce podcast is intended as a general reference, and is considered general advertising.  Any listener should check for changes in any applicable laws, and should consult with an attorney on any legal issues.  No attorney-client relationship is formed by listening to, or participating in, this podcast.  The information provided in this podcast does not constitute legal advice, and any thoughts or commentary by the podcasting lawyers and/or guests is provided as a service to the community, and does not constitute solicitation or legal advice.  Any information is provided on an "as is" basis, and the lawyer/law firm makes no warranties and disclaims all liabilities for damages resulting from its use.  Nothing provided in the podcast should be considered a substitute for advice of competent counsel.  In the event the podcast receives emails about the subject matter, no attorney-client relationship is created via that email communication.

In this episode, Mediator Dorothy O'Neil discusses the five types of family mediation: (1) Divorce Mediation, (2) Co-Parenting Mediation, (3) Premarital Mediation, (4) Blended Family Mediation, and (5) Couples/Marital Mediation.Dorothy O'Neil, Esq. is a Partner and Founding Member of BOK Law & Mediation Services, PLLC.  She is a Family Law Mediator, Collaborative Divorce Practitioner, and Certified Divorce Financial Analyst.  If you have any questions, please contact Dorothy O'Neil at [email protected], or visit our website at www.boklawfirm.com.The Donuts & Divorce podcast is intended as a general reference, and is considered general advertising.  Any listener should check for changes in any applicable laws, and should consult with an attorney on any legal issues.  No attorney-client relationship is formed by listening to, or participating in, this podcast.  The information provided in this podcast does not constitute legal advice, and any thoughts or commentary by the podcasting lawyers and/or guests is provided as a service to the community, and does not constitute solicitation or legal advice.  Any information is provided on an "as is" basis, and the lawyer/law firm makes no warranties and disclaims all liabilities for damages resulting from its use.  Nothing provided in the podcast should be considered a substitute for advice of competent counsel.  In the event the podcast receives emails about the subject matter, no attorney-client relationship is created via that email communication.

In this episode, Attorneys Dorothy O'Neil and Aleksandra Kocelko discuss how to change adult names (often as a by-product of a divorce), as well as how to change children's names in PA.  Dorothy O'Neil, Esq. is a Partner and Founding Member of BOK Law & Mediation Services, PLLC.  She is a Family Law Mediator, Collaborative Divorce Practitioner, and Certified Divorce Financial Analyst.  If you have any questions, please contact Dorothy O'Neil at [email protected], or visit our website at www.boklawfirm.com.The Donuts & Divorce podcast is intended as a general reference, and is considered general advertising.  Any listener should check for changes in any applicable laws, and should consult with an attorney on any legal issues.  No attorney-client relationship is formed by listening to, or participating in, this podcast.  The information provided in this podcast does not constitute legal advice, and any thoughts or commentary by the podcasting lawyers and/or guests is provided as a service to the community, and does not constitute solicitation or legal advice.  Any information is provided on an "as is" basis, and the lawyer/law firm makes no warranties and disclaims all liabilities for damages resulting from its use.  Nothing provided in the podcast should be considered a substitute for advice of competent counsel.  In the event the podcast receives emails about the subject matter, no attorney-client relationship is created via that email communication.

In this episode, Attorneys Dorothy O'Neil and Aleksandra Kocelko address how personal property is divided in a divorce/separation.  This can include anything from the pots and pans, personal belongings, and you guessed it, PETS!Dorothy O'Neil, Esq. is a Partner and Founding Member of BOK Law & Mediation Services, PLLC.  She is a Family Law Mediator, Collaborative Divorce Practitioner, and Certified Divorce Financial Analyst.  If you have any questions, please contact Dorothy O'Neil at [email protected], or visit our website at www.boklawfirm.com.The Donuts & Divorce podcast is intended as a general reference, and is considered general advertising.  Any listener should check for changes in any applicable laws, and should consult with an attorney on any legal issues.  No attorney-client relationship is formed by listening to, or participating in, this podcast.  The information provided in this podcast does not constitute legal advice, and any thoughts or commentary by the podcasting lawyers and/or guests is provided as a service to the community, and does not constitute solicitation or legal advice.  Any information is provided on an "as is" basis, and the lawyer/law firm makes no warranties and disclaims all liabilities for damages resulting from its use.  Nothing provided in the podcast should be considered a substitute for advice of competent counsel.  In the event the podcast receives emails about the subject matter, no attorney-client relationship is created via that email communication.

In this episode, Dorothy discusses the differences between proceeding as a fault divorce versus a no-fault divorce in PA.Dorothy O'Neil, Esq. is a Partner and Founding Member of BOK Law & Mediation Services, PLLC.  She is a Family Law Mediator, Collaborative Divorce Practitioner, and Certified Divorce Financial Analyst.  If you have any questions, please contact Dorothy O'Neil at [email protected], or visit our website at www.boklawfirm.com.The Donuts & Divorce podcast is intended as a general reference, and is considered general advertising.  Any listener should check for changes in any applicable laws, and should consult with an attorney on any legal issues.  No attorney-client relationship is formed by listening to, or participating in, this podcast.  The information provided in this podcast does not constitute legal advice, and any thoughts or commentary by the podcasting lawyers and/or guests is provided as a service to the community, and does not constitute solicitation or legal advice.  Any information is provided on an "as is" basis, and the lawyer/law firm makes no warranties and disclaims all liabilities for damages resulting from its use.  Nothing provided in the podcast should be considered a substitute for advice of competent counsel.  In the event the podcast receives emails about the subject matter, no attorney-client relationship is created via that email communication.

In this episode, Attorney Dorothy O'Neil interviews Natalie Frazier regarding the post-COVID trends for refinancing your mortgage, loan assumptions, and where to be cautious.Natalie Corsello Frazier is a licensed Pennsylvania Loan Officer and Title Agent working in the real estate industry for more than 30 years.  Natalie's expertise lies in mortgage loans for Pennsylvania residents, including but not limited to Conventional, USDA, FHA, and VA Loans.  She also assists clients with investment properties, short sales, and construction loans.First Choice Mortgage Services, Inc. NMLS #101840 is an Equal Housing Opportunity Lender, licensed by the Pennsylvania Department of Banking and Securities.  Natalie Frazier is a licensed Loan Originator, NMLS #134243.  This podcast is not a commitment to lend.  For a more individualized consultation, please call (724) 772-2022.Dorothy O'Neil, Esq. is a Partner and Founding Member of BOK Law & Mediation Services, PLLC.  She is a Family Law Mediator, Collaborative Divorce Practitioner, and Certified Divorce Financial Analyst.  If you have any questions, please contact Dorothy O'Neil at [email protected], or visit our website at www.boklawfirm.com.The Donuts & Divorce podcast is intended as a general reference, and is considered general advertising.  Any listener should check for changes in any applicable laws, and should consult with an attorney on any legal issues.  No attorney-client relationship is formed by listening to, or participating in, this podcast.  The information provided in this podcast does not constitute legal advice, and any thoughts or commentary by the podcasting lawyers and/or guests is provided as a service to the community, and does not constitute solicitation or legal advice.  Any information is provided on an "as is" basis, and the lawyer/law firm makes no warranties and disclaims all liabilities for damages resulting from its use.  Nothing provided in the podcast should be considered a substitute for advice of competent counsel.  In the event the podcast receives emails about the subject matter, no attorney-client relationship is created via that email communication.

In this episode, Attorney Dorothy O'Neil interviews Attorney Lisa Standish, owner of the Law Offices of Lisa Standish, regarding why it may actually benefit parties to hire attorneys who actually get along.  Attorney Lisa Standish works work with a vast array of individuals, young and old, whether they are married or single, as they face a broad array of family law issues, including contemplating a marriage or domestic partnership and ending these relationships. She offers traditional litigation services, as well as mediation and the Collaborative Process.  https://www.lsfamilylaw.com/Dorothy O'Neil, Esq. is a Partner and Founding Member of BOK Law & Mediation Services, PLLC.  She is a Family Law Mediator, Collaborative Divorce Practitioner, and Certified Divorce Financial Analyst.  If you have any questions, please contact Dorothy O'Neil at [email protected], or visit our website at www.boklawfirm.com.The Donuts & Divorce podcast is intended as a general reference, and is considered general advertising.  Any listener should check for changes in any applicable laws, and should consult with an attorney on any legal issues.  No attorney-client relationship is formed by listening to, or participating in, this podcast.  The information provided in this podcast does not constitute legal advice, and any thoughts or commentary by the podcasting lawyers and/or guests is provided as a service to the community, and does not constitute solicitation or legal advice.  Any information is provided on an "as is" basis, and the lawyer/law firm makes no warranties and disclaims all liabilities for damages resulting from its use.  Nothing provided in the podcast should be considered a substitute for advice of competent counsel.  In the event the podcast receives emails about the subject matter, no attorney-client relationship is created via that email communication.

In this episode, Attorney Dorothy O'Neil interviews Erin Troup, LPC, NCC, CT, IMH-E IV®, owner of Sprout Center for Emotional Growth and Development, LLC.  Together, they discuss the unique issues with co-parenting teenagers in both healthy co-parenting relationships and volatile co-parenting relationships.Dorothy O'Neil, Esq. is a Partner and Founding Member of BOK Law & Mediation Services, PLLC.  She is a Family Law Mediator, Collaborative Divorce Practitioner, and Certified Divorce Financial Analyst.  If you have any questions, please contact Dorothy O'Neil at [email protected], or visit our website at www.boklawfirm.com.The Donuts & Divorce podcast is intended as a general reference, and is considered general advertising.  Any listener should check for changes in any applicable laws, and should consult with an attorney on any legal issues.  No attorney-client relationship is formed by listening to, or participating in, this podcast.  The information provided in this podcast does not constitute legal advice, and any thoughts or commentary by the podcasting lawyers and/or guests is provided as a service to the community, and does not constitute solicitation or legal advice.  Any information is provided on an "as is" basis, and the lawyer/law firm makes no warranties and disclaims all liabilities for damages resulting from its use.  Nothing provided in the podcast should be considered a substitute for advice of competent counsel.  In the event the podcast receives emails about the subject matter, no attorney-client relationship is created via that email communication.

In this episode, Attorneys Dorothy O'Neil and Aleksandra Kocelko discuss the issue of school choice, including where a child should go to school after separation or divorce.  Dorothy O'Neil, Esq. is a Partner and Founding Member of BOK Law & Mediation Services, PLLC.  She is a Family Law Mediator, Collaborative Divorce Practitioner, and Certified Divorce Financial Analyst.  If you have any questions, please contact Dorothy O'Neil at [email protected], or visit our website at www.boklawfirm.com.The Donuts & Divorce podcast is intended as a general reference, and is considered general advertising.  Any listener should check for changes in any applicable laws, and should consult with an attorney on any legal issues.  No attorney-client relationship is formed by listening to, or participating in, this podcast.  The information provided in this podcast does not constitute legal advice, and any thoughts or commentary by the podcasting lawyers and/or guests is provided as a service to the community, and does not constitute solicitation or legal advice.  Any information is provided on an "as is" basis, and the lawyer/law firm makes no warranties and disclaims all liabilities for damages resulting from its use.  Nothing provided in the podcast should be considered a substitute for advice of competent counsel.  In the event the podcast receives emails about the subject matter, no attorney-client relationship is created via that email communication.

In this episode, Attorneys Dorothy O'Neil and Aleksandra Kocelko discuss traveling and vacationing with minor children after separation from your ex.  Can you cross state lines with your children without your ex's permission?  Can you take children on vacation without your ex's permission?  Can you fly with your children without your ex's permission.  Dorothy and Aleks answer these questions and many more!Dorothy O'Neil, Esq. is a Partner and Founding Member of BOK Law & Mediation Services, PLLC.  She is a Family Law Mediator, Collaborative Divorce Practitioner, and Certified Divorce Financial Analyst.  If you have any questions, please contact Dorothy O'Neil at [email protected], or visit our website at www.boklawfirm.com.The Donuts & Divorce podcast is intended as a general reference, and is considered general advertising.  Any listener should check for changes in any applicable laws, and should consult with an attorney on any legal issues.  No attorney-client relationship is formed by listening to, or participating in, this podcast.  The information provided in this podcast does not constitute legal advice, and any thoughts or commentary by the podcasting lawyers and/or guests is provided as a service to the community, and does not constitute solicitation or legal advice.  Any information is provided on an "as is" basis, and the lawyer/law firm makes no warranties and disclaims all liabilities for damages resulting from its use.  Nothing provided in the podcast should be considered a substitute for advice of competent counsel.  In the event the podcast receives emails about the subject matter, no attorney-client relationship is created via that email communication.

In this episode, Attorneys Dorothy O'Neil and Aleksandra Kocelko tackle the Do's and the Don'ts in custody cases, including the behaviors to really avoid, and why it is important to set healthy co-parenting practices as soon as you separate.Dorothy O'Neil, Esq. is a Partner and Founding Member of BOK Law & Mediation Services, PLLC.  She is a Family Law Mediator, Collaborative Divorce Practitioner, and Certified Divorce Financial Analyst.  If you have any questions, please contact Dorothy O'Neil at [email protected], or visit our website at www.boklawfirm.com.The Donuts & Divorce podcast is intended as a general reference, and is considered general advertising.  Any listener should check for changes in any applicable laws, and should consult with an attorney on any legal issues.  No attorney-client relationship is formed by listening to, or participating in, this podcast.  The information provided in this podcast does not constitute legal advice, and any thoughts or commentary by the podcasting lawyers and/or guests is provided as a service to the community, and does not constitute solicitation or legal advice.  Any information is provided on an "as is" basis, and the lawyer/law firm makes no warranties and disclaims all liabilities for damages resulting from its use.  Nothing provided in the podcast should be considered a substitute for advice of competent counsel.  In the event the podcast receives emails about the subject matter, no attorney-client relationship is created via that email communication.

In this episode, Attorneys Aleksandra Kocelko and Dorothy O'Neil discuss step-parent adoption in Pennsylvania, including the procedure, what is needed, and the law surrounding step-parent adoptions.Dorothy O'Neil, Esq. is a Partner and Founding Member of BOK Law & Mediation Services, PLLC.  She is a Family Law Mediator, Collaborative Divorce Practitioner, and Certified Divorce Financial Analyst.  If you have any questions, please contact Dorothy O'Neil at [email protected], or visit our website at www.boklawfirm.com.The Donuts & Divorce podcast is intended as a general reference, and is considered general advertising.  Any listener should check for changes in any applicable laws, and should consult with an attorney on any legal issues.  No attorney-client relationship is formed by listening to, or participating in, this podcast.  The information provided in this podcast does not constitute legal advice, and any thoughts or commentary by the podcasting lawyers and/or guests is provided as a service to the community, and does not constitute solicitation or legal advice.  Any information is provided on an "as is" basis, and the lawyer/law firm makes no warranties and disclaims all liabilities for damages resulting from its use.  Nothing provided in the podcast should be considered a substitute for advice of competent counsel.  In the event the podcast receives emails about the subject matter, no attorney-client relationship is created via that email communication.

Happy New Year and Welcome to 2024!  In this episode, Attorney Dorothy O'Neil discusses hiring an attorney, and what to expect at an Initial Consultation, including what to bring, what to ask, and what to avoid.Dorothy O'Neil, Esq. is a Partner and Founding Member of BOK Law & Mediation Services, PLLC.  She is a Family Law Mediator, Collaborative Divorce Practitioner, and Certified Divorce Financial Analyst.  If you have any questions, please contact Dorothy O'Neil at [email protected], or visit our website at www.boklawfirm.com.The Donuts & Divorce podcast is intended as a general reference, and is considered general advertising.  Any listener should check for changes in any applicable laws, and should consult with an attorney on any legal issues.  No attorney-client relationship is formed by listening to, or participating in, this podcast.  The information provided in this podcast does not constitute legal advice, and any thoughts or commentary by the podcasting lawyers and/or guests is provided as a service to the community, and does not constitute solicitation or legal advice.  Any information is provided on an "as is" basis, and the lawyer/law firm makes no warranties and disclaims all liabilities for damages resulting from its use.  Nothing provided in the podcast should be considered a substitute for advice of competent counsel.  In the event the podcast receives emails about the subject matter, no attorney-client relationship is created via that email communication.

In this Episode, Dorothy interviews Erin Troup, who is a Licensed Professional Counselor specializing in early childhood social emotional needs, particularly attachment, grief & loss, trauma and anxiety.  Erin is also the owner of Sprout Center for Emotional Growth and Development, LLC.  Erin and Dorothy discuss the impact of divorce particularly on infants and toddlers, and what parents should be paying attention to.Dorothy O'Neil, Esq. is a Partner and Founding Member of BOK Law & Mediation Services, PLLC.  She is a Family Law Mediator, Collaborative Divorce Practitioner, and Certified Divorce Financial Analyst.  If you have any questions, please contact Dorothy O'Neil at [email protected], or visit our website at www.boklawfirm.com.The Donuts & Divorce podcast is intended as a general reference, and is considered general advertising.  Any listener should check for changes in any applicable laws, and should consult with an attorney on any legal issues.  No attorney-client relationship is formed by listening to, or participating in, this podcast.  The information provided in this podcast does not constitute legal advice, and any thoughts or commentary by the podcasting lawyers and/or guests is provided as a service to the community, and does not constitute solicitation or legal advice.  Any information is provided on an "as is" basis, and the lawyer/law firm makes no warranties and disclaims all liabilities for damages resulting from its use.  Nothing provided in the podcast should be considered a substitute for advice of competent counsel.  In the event the podcast receives emails about the subject matter, no attorney-client relationship is created via that email communication.

We have been busy the last couple of months forming our brand new law firm, BOK Law & Mediation Services, PLLC!  But we are back and ready to tackle the difficult issues surrounding divorce and separation in PA!  In this introductory episode, we address who we are, what services we provide, and how we stand out!If you are in need of any family law or estate-related services, feel free to contact us for a free 1-hour initial consultation.  The link below allows you to submit a Contact Us form.https://www.boklawfirm.com/contactDorothy O'Neil, Esq. is a Partner and Founding Member of BOK Law & Mediation Services, PLLC.  She is a Family Law Mediator, Collaborative Divorce Practitioner, and Certified Divorce Financial Analyst.  If you have any questions, please contact Dorothy O'Neil at [email protected], or visit our website at www.boklawfirm.com.The Donuts & Divorce podcast is intended as a general reference, and is considered general advertising.  Any listener should check for changes in any applicable laws, and should consult with an attorney on any legal issues.  No attorney-client relationship is formed by listening to, or participating in, this podcast.  The information provided in this podcast does not constitute legal advice, and any thoughts or commentary by the podcasting lawyers and/or guests is provided as a service to the community, and does not constitute solicitation or legal advice.  Any information is provided on an "as is" basis, and the lawyer/law firm makes no warranties and disclaims all liabilities for damages resulting from its use.  Nothing provided in the podcast should be considered a substitute for advice of competent counsel.  In the event the podcast receives emails about the subject matter, no attorney-client relationship is created via that email communication.

In this episode, Dorothy discusses and dispels 14 common myths, misconceptions, and rumors about family law cases.Dorothy O'Neil, Esq. is a Partner and Founding Member of BOK Law & Mediation Services, PLLC.  She is a Family Law Mediator, Collaborative Divorce Practitioner, and Certified Divorce Financial Analyst.  If you have any questions, please contact Dorothy O'Neil at [email protected], or visit our website at www.boklawfirm.com.The Donuts & Divorce podcast is intended as a general reference, and is considered general advertising.  Any listener should check for changes in any applicable laws, and should consult with an attorney on any legal issues.  No attorney-client relationship is formed by listening to, or participating in, this podcast.  The information provided in this podcast does not constitute legal advice, and any thoughts or commentary by the podcasting lawyers and/or guests is provided as a service to the community, and does not constitute solicitation or legal advice.  Any information is provided on an "as is" basis, and the lawyer/law firm makes no warranties and disclaims all liabilities for damages resulting from its use.  Nothing provided in the podcast should be considered a substitute for advice of competent counsel.  In the event the podcast receives emails about the subject matter, no attorney-client relationship is created via that email communication.

Dorothy is back!  In this episode, Dorothy explains online mediation, its benefits, and how Dorothy has revamped her online mediation program.  Learn about the "Four C's and the E: Communication, Convenience, Comfort, Cost, and Efficiency."  Dorothy also explains how many more clients can mediate their entire divorce case, without even leaving the comforts of their homes.Dorothy O'Neil, Esq. is a Partner and Founding Member of BOK Law & Mediation Services, PLLC.  She is a Family Law Mediator, Collaborative Divorce Practitioner, and Certified Divorce Financial Analyst.  If you have any questions, please contact Dorothy O'Neil at [email protected], or visit our website at www.boklawfirm.com.The Donuts & Divorce podcast is intended as a general reference, and is considered general advertising.  Any listener should check for changes in any applicable laws, and should consult with an attorney on any legal issues.  No attorney-client relationship is formed by listening to, or participating in, this podcast.  The information provided in this podcast does not constitute legal advice, and any thoughts or commentary by the podcasting lawyers and/or guests is provided as a service to the community, and does not constitute solicitation or legal advice.  Any information is provided on an "as is" basis, and the lawyer/law firm makes no warranties and disclaims all liabilities for damages resulting from its use.  Nothing provided in the podcast should be considered a substitute for advice of competent counsel.  In the event the podcast receives emails about the subject matter, no attorney-client relationship is created via that email communication.

In this episode, Dorothy interviews Michell Butcher, MA, LPC, regarding how to recover after a divorce or separation is finalized.  Often attorneys can get clients over the finish line, but there is still work to be done.Michelle Butcher, MA, LPC, is a Licensed Professional Counselor and Divorce Mediator with Cognitive Behavior Institute.  Michelle's specific population of interest includes Adults, Couples, Families, LGBTQ, Gender Identity, Gender Questioning, as well as those individuals struggling with Women's Centered Issues (i.e. Infertility, Post-Partum, Parenting, etc).  Dorothy O'Neil, Esq. is a Partner and Founding Member of BOK Law & Mediation Services, PLLC.  She is a Family Law Mediator, Collaborative Divorce Practitioner, and Certified Divorce Financial Analyst.  If you have any questions, please contact Dorothy O'Neil at [email protected], or visit our website at www.boklawfirm.com.The Donuts & Divorce podcast is intended as a general reference, and is considered general advertising.  Any listener should check for changes in any applicable laws, and should consult with an attorney on any legal issues.  No attorney-client relationship is formed by listening to, or participating in, this podcast.  The information provided in this podcast does not constitute legal advice, and any thoughts or commentary by the podcasting lawyers and/or guests is provided as a service to the community, and does not constitute solicitation or legal advice.  Any information is provided on an "as is" basis, and the lawyer/law firm makes no warranties and disclaims all liabilities for damages resulting from its use.  Nothing provided in the podcast should be considered a substitute for advice of competent counsel.  In the event the podcast receives emails about the subject matter, no attorney-client relationship is created via that email communication.

In this episode, Attorneys Dorothy O'Neil and Aleksandra Kocelko discuss relocation in PA: what it is, whether parents can easily move out of state with children, and what the legal requirements are for relocation.  Dorothy O'Neil, Esq. is a Partner and Founding Member of BOK Law & Mediation Services, PLLC.  She is a Family Law Mediator, Collaborative Divorce Practitioner, and Certified Divorce Financial Analyst.  If you have any questions, please contact Dorothy O'Neil at [email protected], or visit our website at www.boklawfirm.com.The Donuts & Divorce podcast is intended as a general reference, and is considered general advertising.  Any listener should check for changes in any applicable laws, and should consult with an attorney on any legal issues.  No attorney-client relationship is formed by listening to, or participating in, this podcast.  The information provided in this podcast does not constitute legal advice, and any thoughts or commentary by the podcasting lawyers and/or guests is provided as a service to the community, and does not constitute solicitation or legal advice.  Any information is provided on an "as is" basis, and the lawyer/law firm makes no warranties and disclaims all liabilities for damages resulting from its use.  Nothing provided in the podcast should be considered a substitute for advice of competent counsel.  In the event the podcast receives emails about the subject matter, no attorney-client relationship is created via that email communication.

In this episode, Attorney Dorothy O'Neil is joined by Michelle Butcher, LPC, to discuss how family and friends can be a support system for those going through a separation or divorce.  More importantly, they discuss what family and friends SHOULD NOT do or say to loved ones going through a divorce.Michelle Butcher, MA, LPC, is a Licensed Professional Counselor and Divorce Mediator with Cognitive Behavior Institute.  Michelle's specific population of interest includes adults, couples, families, LGBTQ, gender identity, gender questioning, as well as those individuals struggling with women's centered issues (infertility, post-partum, parenting, etc.)Dorothy O'Neil, Esq. is a Partner and Founding Member of BOK Law & Mediation Services, PLLC.  She is a Family Law Mediator, Collaborative Divorce Practitioner, and Certified Divorce Financial Analyst.  If you have any questions, please contact Dorothy O'Neil at [email protected], or visit our website at www.boklawfirm.com.The Donuts & Divorce podcast is intended as a general reference, and is considered general advertising.  Any listener should check for changes in any applicable laws, and should consult with an attorney on any legal issues.  No attorney-client relationship is formed by listening to, or participating in, this podcast.  The information provided in this podcast does not constitute legal advice, and any thoughts or commentary by the podcasting lawyers and/or guests is provided as a service to the community, and does not constitute solicitation or legal advice.  Any information is provided on an "as is" basis, and the lawyer/law firm makes no warranties and disclaims all liabilities for damages resulting from its use.  Nothing provided in the podcast should be considered a substitute for advice of competent counsel.  In the event the podcast receives emails about the subject matter, no attorney-client relationship is created via that email communication.

In this episode, Dorothy interviews Attorney Michelle (Elle) Barr regarding the benefits of using the well-known resource and app, OurFamilyWizard.  This resource has been used in and out of courts to assist families transitioning to a co-parenting relationship post-separation.  Attorney Michelle (Elle) Barr is an experienced Court Attorney with a demonstrated history of working in the legal services industry with a deep commitment to children and families.  Elle also serves as a Judicial Education Coordinator for OurFamilyWizard.Dorothy O'Neil, Esq. is a Partner and Founding Member of BOK Law & Mediation Services, PLLC.  She is a Family Law Mediator, Collaborative Divorce Practitioner, and Certified Divorce Financial Analyst.  If you have any questions, please contact Dorothy O'Neil at [email protected], or visit our website at www.boklawfirm.com.The Donuts & Divorce podcast is intended as a general reference, and is considered general advertising.  Any listener should check for changes in any applicable laws, and should consult with an attorney on any legal issues.  No attorney-client relationship is formed by listening to, or participating in, this podcast.  The information provided in this podcast does not constitute legal advice, and any thoughts or commentary by the podcasting lawyers and/or guests is provided as a service to the community, and does not constitute solicitation or legal advice.  Any information is provided on an "as is" basis, and the lawyer/law firm makes no warranties and disclaims all liabilities for damages resulting from its use.  Nothing provided in the podcast should be considered a substitute for advice of competent counsel.  In the event the podcast receives emails about the subject matter, no attorney-client relationship is created via that email communication.

In this episode, Dorothy interviews Dr. Eric Bernstein to discuss Parental Alienation, and the impact on custody case.  Dr. Eric Bernstein was previously interviewed in our Custody Evaluations episode.Dr. Bernstein is a Licensed Psychologist and he is most widely recognized for his work as an evaluator in child custody, child dependency, and juvenile delinquency cases.  Dorothy O'Neil, Esq. is a Partner and Founding Member of BOK Law & Mediation Services, PLLC.  She is a Family Law Mediator, Collaborative Divorce Practitioner, and Certified Divorce Financial Analyst.  If you have any questions, please contact Dorothy O'Neil at [email protected], or visit our website at www.boklawfirm.com.The Donuts & Divorce podcast is intended as a general reference, and is considered general advertising.  Any listener should check for changes in any applicable laws, and should consult with an attorney on any legal issues.  No attorney-client relationship is formed by listening to, or participating in, this podcast.  The information provided in this podcast does not constitute legal advice, and any thoughts or commentary by the podcasting lawyers and/or guests is provided as a service to the community, and does not constitute solicitation or legal advice.  Any information is provided on an "as is" basis, and the lawyer/law firm makes no warranties and disclaims all liabilities for damages resulting from its use.  Nothing provided in the podcast should be considered a substitute for advice of competent counsel.  In the event the podcast receives emails about the subject matter, no attorney-client relationship is created via that email communication.

In this episode, Dorothy discussed cheating/infidelity/adultery, and its impact on divorces and separation.Dorothy O'Neil, Esq. is a Partner and Founding Member of BOK Law & Mediation Services, PLLC.  She is a Family Law Mediator, Collaborative Divorce Practitioner, and Certified Divorce Financial Analyst.  If you have any questions, please contact Dorothy O'Neil at [email protected], or visit our website at www.boklawfirm.com.The Donuts & Divorce podcast is intended as a general reference, and is considered general advertising.  Any listener should check for changes in any applicable laws, and should consult with an attorney on any legal issues.  No attorney-client relationship is formed by listening to, or participating in, this podcast.  The information provided in this podcast does not constitute legal advice, and any thoughts or commentary by the podcasting lawyers and/or guests is provided as a service to the community, and does not constitute solicitation or legal advice.  Any information is provided on an "as is" basis, and the lawyer/law firm makes no warranties and disclaims all liabilities for damages resulting from its use.  Nothing provided in the podcast should be considered a substitute for advice of competent counsel.  In the event the podcast receives emails about the subject matter, no attorney-client relationship is created via that email communication.

In this episode Dorothy is joined by Co-Founding Partner, Attorney Aleksandra Kocelko to discuss cohabitation and living with someone with whom you are in a relationship, but not married.  There are legal ramifications that people often don't consider in entering into this relationship, especially when they choose to purchase a house together, without being married.Dorothy O'Neil, Esq. is a Partner and Founding Member of BOK Law & Mediation Services, PLLC.  She is a Family Law Mediator, Collaborative Divorce Practitioner, and Certified Divorce Financial Analyst.  If you have any questions, please contact Dorothy O'Neil at [email protected], or visit our website at www.boklawfirm.com.The Donuts & Divorce podcast is intended as a general reference, and is considered general advertising.  Any listener should check for changes in any applicable laws, and should consult with an attorney on any legal issues.  No attorney-client relationship is formed by listening to, or participating in, this podcast.  The information provided in this podcast does not constitute legal advice, and any thoughts or commentary by the podcasting lawyers and/or guests is provided as a service to the community, and does not constitute solicitation or legal advice.  Any information is provided on an "as is" basis, and the lawyer/law firm makes no warranties and disclaims all liabilities for damages resulting from its use.  Nothing provided in the podcast should be considered a substitute for advice of competent counsel.  In the event the podcast receives emails about the subject matter, no attorney-client relationship is created via that email communication.

In this episode, Dorothy interviews Tanya Bashor to discuss narcissism, and the impact of narcissism on divorce cases.  Tanya Bashor is a Certified Narcissistic Trauma Informed Coach, Hypnotherapist & Brainspotting Practitioner, and the owner of Impart Clarity, LLC.  Tanya offers information, education, strategies for those who have been emotionally abused by narcissistic personalities.  Dorothy O'Neil, Esq. is a Partner and Founding Member of BOK Law & Mediation Services, PLLC.  She is a Family Law Mediator, Collaborative Divorce Practitioner, and Certified Divorce Financial Analyst.  If you have any questions, please contact Dorothy O'Neil at [email protected], or visit our website at www.boklawfirm.com.The Donuts & Divorce podcast is intended as a general reference, and is considered general advertising.  Any listener should check for changes in any applicable laws, and should consult with an attorney on any legal issues.  No attorney-client relationship is formed by listening to, or participating in, this podcast.  The information provided in this podcast does not constitute legal advice, and any thoughts or commentary by the podcasting lawyers and/or guests is provided as a service to the community, and does not constitute solicitation or legal advice.  Any information is provided on an "as is" basis, and the lawyer/law firm makes no warranties and disclaims all liabilities for damages resulting from its use.  Nothing provided in the podcast should be considered a substitute for advice of competent counsel.  In the event the podcast receives emails about the subject matter, no attorney-client relationship is created via that email communication.

In this episode, Dorothy interviews Dr. Jonathan Impellizzeri, or "Dr. J" to discuss "marital purgatory" and what options or resources are available to married persons whose marriages are at the brink of "Do I Stay or Do I Go?"Dr. Jonathan Impellizzeri, PhD, LPC, LMFT, ACS, BC-TMH, also knows as "Dr. J" is the first Certified Gottman Couple Therapist (CGT) in Western Pennsylvania.  CGTs have specialized training in a research-based approach to treating distressed couple relationships.  Click here to read more about Dr. J.Dorothy O'Neil, Esq. is a Partner and Founding Member of BOK Law & Mediation Services, PLLC.  She is a Family Law Mediator, Collaborative Divorce Practitioner, and Certified Divorce Financial Analyst.  If you have any questions, please contact Dorothy O'Neil at [email protected], or visit our website at www.boklawfirm.com.The Donuts & Divorce podcast is intended as a general reference, and is considered general advertising.  Any listener should check for changes in any applicable laws, and should consult with an attorney on any legal issues.  No attorney-client relationship is formed by listening to, or participating in, this podcast.  The information provided in this podcast does not constitute legal advice, and any thoughts or commentary by the podcasting lawyers and/or guests is provided as a service to the community, and does not constitute solicitation or legal advice.  Any information is provided on an "as is" basis, and the lawyer/law firm makes no warranties and disclaims all liabilities for damages resulting from its use.  Nothing provided in the podcast should be considered a substitute for advice of competent counsel.  In the event the podcast receives emails about the subject matter, no attorney-client relationship is created via that email communication.

In this Episode, Dorothy is joined by Co-Founder of BOK Law & Mediation Services, Attorney Aleksandra Kocelko, to discuss dating after your separation, when it is appropriate to notify your ex, and when it is appropriate to introduce your significant other to your children.Dorothy O'Neil, Esq. is a Partner and Founding Member of BOK Law & Mediation Services, PLLC.  She is a Family Law Mediator, Collaborative Divorce Practitioner, and Certified Divorce Financial Analyst.  If you have any questions, please contact Dorothy O'Neil at [email protected], or visit our website at www.boklawfirm.com.The Donuts & Divorce podcast is intended as a general reference, and is considered general advertising.  Any listener should check for changes in any applicable laws, and should consult with an attorney on any legal issues.  No attorney-client relationship is formed by listening to, or participating in, this podcast.  The information provided in this podcast does not constitute legal advice, and any thoughts or commentary by the podcasting lawyers and/or guests is provided as a service to the community, and does not constitute solicitation or legal advice.  Any information is provided on an "as is" basis, and the lawyer/law firm makes no warranties and disclaims all liabilities for damages resulting from its use.  Nothing provided in the podcast should be considered a substitute for advice of competent counsel.  In the event the podcast receives emails about the subject matter, no attorney-client relationship is created via that email communication.

In this episode, Attorneys Dorothy O'Neil and Aleksandra Kocelko outline what you should do, and what you should avoiding doing during your initial separation from your ex.Dorothy O'Neil, Esq. is a Partner and Founding Member of BOK Law & Mediation Services, PLLC.  She is a Family Law Mediator, Collaborative Divorce Practitioner, and Certified Divorce Financial Analyst.  If you have any questions, please contact Dorothy O'Neil at [email protected], or visit our website at www.boklawfirm.com.The Donuts & Divorce podcast is intended as a general reference, and is considered general advertising.  Any listener should check for changes in any applicable laws, and should consult with an attorney on any legal issues.  No attorney-client relationship is formed by listening to, or participating in, this podcast.  The information provided in this podcast does not constitute legal advice, and any thoughts or commentary by the podcasting lawyers and/or guests is provided as a service to the community, and does not constitute solicitation or legal advice.  Any information is provided on an "as is" basis, and the lawyer/law firm makes no warranties and disclaims all liabilities for damages resulting from its use.  Nothing provided in the podcast should be considered a substitute for advice of competent counsel.  In the event the podcast receives emails about the subject matter, no attorney-client relationship is created via that email communication.

It's 2022 and a New Year!  If your New Year's resolution involves finalizing that separation, or initiating that divorce, Dorothy suggested pursuing this as you would a New Year's resolution, and breaks down how to do that!Dorothy O'Neil, Esq. is a Partner and Founding Member of BOK Law & Mediation Services, PLLC.  She is a Family Law Mediator, Collaborative Divorce Practitioner, and Certified Divorce Financial Analyst.  If you have any questions, please contact Dorothy O'Neil at [email protected], or visit our website at www.boklawfirm.com.The Donuts & Divorce podcast is intended as a general reference, and is considered general advertising.  Any listener should check for changes in any applicable laws, and should consult with an attorney on any legal issues.  No attorney-client relationship is formed by listening to, or participating in, this podcast.  The information provided in this podcast does not constitute legal advice, and any thoughts or commentary by the podcasting lawyers and/or guests is provided as a service to the community, and does not constitute solicitation or legal advice.  Any information is provided on an "as is" basis, and the lawyer/law firm makes no warranties and disclaims all liabilities for damages resulting from its use.  Nothing provided in the podcast should be considered a substitute for advice of competent counsel.  In the event the podcast receives emails about the subject matter, no attorney-client relationship is created via that email communication.

In this episode, Dorothy is joined by Lynn MacBeth to discuss the impact divorce or separation can have on children, including how children can interpret the divorce or separation.Lynn MacBeth is recognized both locally and nationally as a leading conflict mediator.  Her practice focuses on workplace, family, business, and liability cases.  She holds the designation of Advanced Practitioner and is a provider of Basic Family Mediation Training approved by the Association for Conflict Resolution.  To say that Lynn MacBeth is a powerhouse in her field, is an understatement!Dorothy O'Neil, Esq. is a Partner and Founding Member of BOK Law & Mediation Services, PLLC.  She is a Family Law Mediator, Collaborative Divorce Practitioner, and Certified Divorce Financial Analyst.  If you have any questions, please contact Dorothy O'Neil at [email protected], or visit our website at www.boklawfirm.com.The Donuts & Divorce podcast is intended as a general reference, and is considered general advertising.  Any listener should check for changes in any applicable laws, and should consult with an attorney on any legal issues.  No attorney-client relationship is formed by listening to, or participating in, this podcast.  The information provided in this podcast does not constitute legal advice, and any thoughts or commentary by the podcasting lawyers and/or guests is provided as a service to the community, and does not constitute solicitation or legal advice.  Any information is provided on an "as is" basis, and the lawyer/law firm makes no warranties and disclaims all liabilities for damages resulting from its use.  Nothing provided in the podcast should be considered a substitute for advice of competent counsel.  In the event the podcast receives emails about the subject matter, no attorney-client relationship is created via that email communication.

In this Episode, Dorothy is joined by Donna Cheswick, owner of Cheswick Divorce Solutions, to discuss the financial impact of divorce on parties.  Dorothy O'Neil, Esq. is a Partner and Founding Member of BOK Law & Mediation Services, PLLC.  She is a Family Law Mediator, Collaborative Divorce Practitioner, and Certified Divorce Financial Analyst.  If you have any questions, please contact Dorothy O'Neil at [email protected], or visit our website at www.boklawfirm.com.The Donuts & Divorce podcast is intended as a general reference, and is considered general advertising.  Any listener should check for changes in any applicable laws, and should consult with an attorney on any legal issues.  No attorney-client relationship is formed by listening to, or participating in, this podcast.  The information provided in this podcast does not constitute legal advice, and any thoughts or commentary by the podcasting lawyers and/or guests is provided as a service to the community, and does not constitute solicitation or legal advice.  Any information is provided on an "as is" basis, and the lawyer/law firm makes no warranties and disclaims all liabilities for damages resulting from its use.  Nothing provided in the podcast should be considered a substitute for advice of competent counsel.  In the event the podcast receives emails about the subject matter, no attorney-client relationship is created via that email communication.

In this Episode, Dorothy is joined by co-founder Aleksandra Kocelko to discuss how to navigate the holidays during a divorce or separation.  Whether it is your first time navigating the holidays after separation, or you've been doing it for years, we offer some tips and tricks on how to get through the holidays with some optimism!Dorothy O'Neil, Esq. is a Partner and Founding Member of BOK Law & Mediation Services, PLLC.  She is a Family Law Mediator, Collaborative Divorce Practitioner, and Certified Divorce Financial Analyst.  If you have any questions, please contact Dorothy O'Neil at [email protected], or visit our website at www.boklawfirm.com.The Donuts & Divorce podcast is intended as a general reference, and is considered general advertising.  Any listener should check for changes in any applicable laws, and should consult with an attorney on any legal issues.  No attorney-client relationship is formed by listening to, or participating in, this podcast.  The information provided in this podcast does not constitute legal advice, and any thoughts or commentary by the podcasting lawyers and/or guests is provided as a service to the community, and does not constitute solicitation or legal advice.  Any information is provided on an "as is" basis, and the lawyer/law firm makes no warranties and disclaims all liabilities for damages resulting from its use.  Nothing provided in the podcast should be considered a substitute for advice of competent counsel.  In the event the podcast receives emails about the subject matter, no attorney-client relationship is created via that email communication.

In this episode, Attorney O'Neil is joined by Theresa Hutchinson to navigate the complex world of social security.  Over the last several years, there has been a significant increase in divorces of couples aged 55 years and older, which can have an impact on retirement and social security.Theresa Hutchinson is the Vice President of Medallion Wealth Management with more than 35 years of financial services experience, providing financial guidance to individual and institutional investors, as well as acting as the firm's head fixed income trader.  Theresa has achieved the National Social Security Advisor Certificate Holder (NSSA®) designation, which uniquely qualifies her to navigate clients through the complexity of the Social Security system, and guide them on the variety of claiming strategies available. The NSSA program is the gold standard of Social Security certification and training in the nation.Dorothy O'Neil, Esq. is a Partner and Founding Member of BOK Law & Mediation Services, PLLC.  She is a Family Law Mediator, Collaborative Divorce Practitioner, and Certified Divorce Financial Analyst.  If you have any questions, please contact Dorothy O'Neil at [email protected], or visit our website at www.boklawfirm.com.The Donuts & Divorce podcast is intended as a general reference, and is considered general advertising.  Any listener should check for changes in any applicable laws, and should consult with an attorney on any legal issues.  No attorney-client relationship is formed by listening to, or participating in, this podcast.  The information provided in this podcast does not constitute legal advice, and any thoughts or commentary by the podcasting lawyers and/or guests is provided as a service to the community, and does not constitute solicitation or legal advice.  Any information is provided on an "as is" basis, and the lawyer/law firm makes no warranties and disclaims all liabilities for damages resulting from its use.  Nothing provided in the podcast should be considered a substitute for advice of competent counsel.  In the event the podcast receives emails about the subject matter, no attorney-client relationship is created via that email communication.

In this episode, Dorothy explains what the Collaborative Process is, and why it could be a better out-of-court option for your family.  Dorothy O'Neil, Esq. is a Partner and Founding Member of BOK Law & Mediation Services, PLLC.  She is a Family Law Mediator, Collaborative Divorce Practitioner, and Certified Divorce Financial Analyst.  If you have any questions, please contact Dorothy O'Neil at [email protected], or visit our website at www.boklawfirm.com.The Donuts & Divorce podcast is intended as a general reference, and is considered general advertising.  Any listener should check for changes in any applicable laws, and should consult with an attorney on any legal issues.  No attorney-client relationship is formed by listening to, or participating in, this podcast.  The information provided in this podcast does not constitute legal advice, and any thoughts or commentary by the podcasting lawyers and/or guests is provided as a service to the community, and does not constitute solicitation or legal advice.  Any information is provided on an "as is" basis, and the lawyer/law firm makes no warranties and disclaims all liabilities for damages resulting from its use.  Nothing provided in the podcast should be considered a substitute for advice of competent counsel.  In the event the podcast receives emails about the subject matter, no attorney-client relationship is created via that email communication.

In this episode, Dorothy is joined by Attorney Aleksandra Kocelko to discuss the intersection of divorces with estate planning, including wills, powers of attorney, and healthcare directives.Dorothy O'Neil, Esq. is a Partner and Founding Member of BOK Law & Mediation Services, PLLC.  She is a Family Law Mediator, Collaborative Divorce Practitioner, and Certified Divorce Financial Analyst.  If you have any questions, please contact Dorothy O'Neil at [email protected], or visit our website at www.boklawfirm.com.The Donuts & Divorce podcast is intended as a general reference, and is considered general advertising.  Any listener should check for changes in any applicable laws, and should consult with an attorney on any legal issues.  No attorney-client relationship is formed by listening to, or participating in, this podcast.  The information provided in this podcast does not constitute legal advice, and any thoughts or commentary by the podcasting lawyers and/or guests is provided as a service to the community, and does not constitute solicitation or legal advice.  Any information is provided on an "as is" basis, and the lawyer/law firm makes no warranties and disclaims all liabilities for damages resulting from its use.  Nothing provided in the podcast should be considered a substitute for advice of competent counsel.  In the event the podcast receives emails about the subject matter, no attorney-client relationship is created via that email communication.

In this episode, Dorothy is joined by Attorney Margaret "Maggie" Prescott from the Women's Center and Shelter of Greater Pittsburgh to discuss intimate partner violence and Protection from Abuse actions.Dorothy O'Neil, Esq. is a Partner and Founding Member of BOK Law & Mediation Services, PLLC.  She is a Family Law Mediator, Collaborative Divorce Practitioner, and Certified Divorce Financial Analyst.  If you have any questions, please contact Dorothy O'Neil at [email protected], or visit our website at www.boklawfirm.com.The Donuts & Divorce podcast is intended as a general reference, and is considered general advertising.  Any listener should check for changes in any applicable laws, and should consult with an attorney on any legal issues.  No attorney-client relationship is formed by listening to, or participating in, this podcast.  The information provided in this podcast does not constitute legal advice, and any thoughts or commentary by the podcasting lawyers and/or guests is provided as a service to the community, and does not constitute solicitation or legal advice.  Any information is provided on an "as is" basis, and the lawyer/law firm makes no warranties and disclaims all liabilities for damages resulting from its use.  Nothing provided in the podcast should be considered a substitute for advice of competent counsel.  In the event the podcast receives emails about the subject matter, no attorney-client relationship is created via that email communication.

In this Episode, Attorney Dorothy O'Neil reviews the growing trend of parties using Mediation to settle their divorce.  Dorothy O'Neil, Esq. is a Partner and Founding Member of BOK Law & Mediation Services, PLLC.  She is a Family Law Mediator, Collaborative Divorce Practitioner, and Certified Divorce Financial Analyst.  If you have any questions, please contact Dorothy O'Neil at [email protected], or visit our website at www.boklawfirm.com.The Donuts & Divorce podcast is intended as a general reference, and is considered general advertising.  Any listener should check for changes in any applicable laws, and should consult with an attorney on any legal issues.  No attorney-client relationship is formed by listening to, or participating in, this podcast.  The information provided in this podcast does not constitute legal advice, and any thoughts or commentary by the podcasting lawyers and/or guests is provided as a service to the community, and does not constitute solicitation or legal advice.  Any information is provided on an "as is" basis, and the lawyer/law firm makes no warranties and disclaims all liabilities for damages resulting from its use.  Nothing provided in the podcast should be considered a substitute for advice of competent counsel.  In the event the podcast receives emails about the subject matter, no attorney-client relationship is created via that email communication.

In this episode, Dorothy is joined by fellow Founding Partner Attorney Rachael Bowe to discuss spousal support in divorce cases.  Dorothy and Rachael explain the three forms of spousal support in PA (spousal support, APL, and alimony) and the differences between them.  Dorothy O'Neil, Esq. is a Partner and Founding Member of BOK Law & Mediation Services, PLLC.  She is a Family Law Mediator, Collaborative Divorce Practitioner, and Certified Divorce Financial Analyst.  If you have any questions, please contact Dorothy O'Neil at [email protected], or visit our website at www.boklawfirm.com.The Donuts & Divorce podcast is intended as a general reference, and is considered general advertising.  Any listener should check for changes in any applicable laws, and should consult with an attorney on any legal issues.  No attorney-client relationship is formed by listening to, or participating in, this podcast.  The information provided in this podcast does not constitute legal advice, and any thoughts or commentary by the podcasting lawyers and/or guests is provided as a service to the community, and does not constitute solicitation or legal advice.  Any information is provided on an "as is" basis, and the lawyer/law firm makes no warranties and disclaims all liabilities for damages resulting from its use.  Nothing provided in the podcast should be considered a substitute for advice of competent counsel.  In the event the podcast receives emails about the subject matter, no attorney-client relationship is created via that email communication.

In this episode, Dorothy is joined by her Partner and fellow Founding Member Attorney Rachael Bowe to discuss the basics of child support.  This is Part 1 of a two-part episode series featuring Rachael Bowe.Dorothy O'Neil, Esq. is a Partner and Founding Member of BOK Law & Mediation Services, PLLC.  She is a Family Law Mediator, Collaborative Divorce Practitioner, and Certified Divorce Financial Analyst.  If you have any questions, please contact Dorothy O'Neil at [email protected], or visit our website at www.boklawfirm.com.The Donuts & Divorce podcast is intended as a general reference, and is considered general advertising.  Any listener should check for changes in any applicable laws, and should consult with an attorney on any legal issues.  No attorney-client relationship is formed by listening to, or participating in, this podcast.  The information provided in this podcast does not constitute legal advice, and any thoughts or commentary by the podcasting lawyers and/or guests is provided as a service to the community, and does not constitute solicitation or legal advice.  Any information is provided on an "as is" basis, and the lawyer/law firm makes no warranties and disclaims all liabilities for damages resulting from its use.  Nothing provided in the podcast should be considered a substitute for advice of competent counsel.  In the event the podcast receives emails about the subject matter, no attorney-client relationship is created via that email communication.

In this episode, Dorothy interviews Dr. Paul Herman regarding the impact of drug and alcohol addiction in divorce cases, and how drug and alcohol evaluations can be used.Dr. Paul Herman is a Psychotherapist and Clinical Evaluator at Allegheny Psychological and Counseling Services in Pittsburgh, PA.  He specializes in treating anxiety and depression, addictive disorders, codependency, and other relationship concerns.  He has additional training in chemical dependency assessments and treatments, family systems, and treating dual-diagnoses.Dorothy O'Neil, Esq. is a Partner and Founding Member of BOK Law & Mediation Services, PLLC.  She is a Family Law Mediator, Collaborative Divorce Practitioner, and Certified Divorce Financial Analyst.  If you have any questions, please contact Dorothy O'Neil at [email protected], or visit our website at www.boklawfirm.com.The Donuts & Divorce podcast is intended as a general reference, and is considered general advertising.  Any listener should check for changes in any applicable laws, and should consult with an attorney on any legal issues.  No attorney-client relationship is formed by listening to, or participating in, this podcast.  The information provided in this podcast does not constitute legal advice, and any thoughts or commentary by the podcasting lawyers and/or guests is provided as a service to the community, and does not constitute solicitation or legal advice.  Any information is provided on an "as is" basis, and the lawyer/law firm makes no warranties and disclaims all liabilities for damages resulting from its use.  Nothing provided in the podcast should be considered a substitute for advice of competent counsel.  In the event the podcast receives emails about the subject matter, no attorney-client relationship is created via that email communication.

In this episode, Attorney Dorothy O'Neil discusses Premarital Agreements and how they can be an important tool in managing your marriage.  Learn what they are, what terms can be included, what stigmas are attached to them, and how premarital mediation can be a great option for implementing a Premarital Agreement.Dorothy O'Neil, Esq. is a Partner and Founding Member of BOK Law & Mediation Services, PLLC.  She is a Family Law Mediator, Collaborative Divorce Practitioner, and Certified Divorce Financial Analyst.  If you have any questions, please contact Dorothy O'Neil at [email protected], or visit our website at www.boklawfirm.com.The Donuts & Divorce podcast is intended as a general reference, and is considered general advertising.  Any listener should check for changes in any applicable laws, and should consult with an attorney on any legal issues.  No attorney-client relationship is formed by listening to, or participating in, this podcast.  The information provided in this podcast does not constitute legal advice, and any thoughts or commentary by the podcasting lawyers and/or guests is provided as a service to the community, and does not constitute solicitation or legal advice.  Any information is provided on an "as is" basis, and the lawyer/law firm makes no warranties and disclaims all liabilities for damages resulting from its use.  Nothing provided in the podcast should be considered a substitute for advice of competent counsel.  In the event the podcast receives emails about the subject matter, no attorney-client relationship is created via that email communication.

Taking control of your divorce narrative is perhaps the most important part of your divorce or separation.  In this episode, Dorothy explains the importance of developing your divorce story, including what a divorce story is, and what you will tell family/friends versus what you will tell your children.  Dorothy O'Neil, Esq. is a Partner and Founding Member of BOK Law & Mediation Services, PLLC.  She is a Family Law Mediator, Collaborative Divorce Practitioner, and Certified Divorce Financial Analyst.  If you have any questions, please contact Dorothy O'Neil at [email protected], or visit our website at www.boklawfirm.com.The Donuts & Divorce podcast is intended as a general reference, and is considered general advertising.  Any listener should check for changes in any applicable laws, and should consult with an attorney on any legal issues.  No attorney-client relationship is formed by listening to, or participating in, this podcast.  The information provided in this podcast does not constitute legal advice, and any thoughts or commentary by the podcasting lawyers and/or guests is provided as a service to the community, and does not constitute solicitation or legal advice.  Any information is provided on an "as is" basis, and the lawyer/law firm makes no warranties and disclaims all liabilities for damages resulting from its use.  Nothing provided in the podcast should be considered a substitute for advice of competent counsel.  In the event the podcast receives emails about the subject matter, no attorney-client relationship is created via that email communication.

In this episode, Dorothy is joined by Private Wealth Advisor, Kiersten McCort, to talk about how budgets are used in divorces, and what you can do with the settlement proceeds in a divorce or separation.Kiersten McCort has more than 22 years of experience as a Private Wealth Advisor and Chartered Retirement Planning Counselor with The McCort Baker Group, a private wealth advisory practice of Ameriprise Financial Services.  Kiersten has won various awards, such as the Five Star Wealth Manager, the Ameriprise Client Experience Award, and the Ameriprise Circle of Success. Dorothy O'Neil, Esq. is a Partner and Founding Member of BOK Law & Mediation Services, PLLC.  She is a Family Law Mediator, Collaborative Divorce Practitioner, and Certified Divorce Financial Analyst.  If you have any questions, please contact Dorothy O'Neil at [email protected], or visit our website at www.boklawfirm.com.The Donuts & Divorce podcast is intended as a general reference, and is considered general advertising.  Any listener should check for changes in any applicable laws, and should consult with an attorney on any legal issues.  No attorney-client relationship is formed by listening to, or participating in, this podcast.  The information provided in this podcast does not constitute legal advice, and any thoughts or commentary by the podcasting lawyers and/or guests is provided as a service to the community, and does not constitute solicitation or legal advice.  Any information is provided on an "as is" basis, and the lawyer/law firm makes no warranties and disclaims all liabilities for damages resulting from its use.  Nothing provided in the podcast should be considered a substitute for advice of competent counsel.  In the event the podcast receives emails about the subject matter, no attorney-client relationship is created via that email communication.

In this episode, Dorothy interviews fellow Founding Partner of BOK Law & Mediation Services, Attorney Aleksandra Kocelko regarding the general aspects of custody law in Pennsylvania.  Learn about the types of custody in PA, the custody procedure, what is included in custody agreements and orders, and how children may be involved in custody.Dorothy O'Neil, Esq. is a Partner and Founding Member of BOK Law & Mediation Services, PLLC.  She is a Family Law Mediator, Collaborative Divorce Practitioner, and Certified Divorce Financial Analyst.  If you have any questions, please contact Dorothy O'Neil at [email protected], or visit our website at www.boklawfirm.com.The Donuts & Divorce podcast is intended as a general reference, and is considered general advertising.  Any listener should check for changes in any applicable laws, and should consult with an attorney on any legal issues.  No attorney-client relationship is formed by listening to, or participating in, this podcast.  The information provided in this podcast does not constitute legal advice, and any thoughts or commentary by the podcasting lawyers and/or guests is provided as a service to the community, and does not constitute solicitation or legal advice.  Any information is provided on an "as is" basis, and the lawyer/law firm makes no warranties and disclaims all liabilities for damages resulting from its use.  Nothing provided in the podcast should be considered a substitute for advice of competent counsel.  In the event the podcast receives emails about the subject matter, no attorney-client relationship is created via that email communication.