Dr. Wyatt Marriage Podcast

Did you know that how well you handle your conflicts will influence how likely you may divorce? It's true. In the new episode today on the Dr. Wyatt Show I interview couples therapy Esin Pinarli, LCSW on tips and strategies she recommends to help couples better navigate the turbulant waters of conflict. To learn more about Esin, visit her website here. 💡Get my FREE 7 Day Challenge For Effective Conflict Resolution here.🥳Get my FREE Training on How To Rebuild Your Marriage In 90 Days here. 🟢For my most COMPREHENSIVE resource to resolve your resentments and rekindle your love, join my ER Marriage Intensive here. 🟢To help me lower the divorce rate one marriage at a time, join my FRCA program to become a Certified Relationship Coach here. Support the showFOLLOW me on social for FREE daily tips!FacebookInstagramYouTubeTikTok

Pornography is often a topic not discussed in marriage. However, it's important to address it because discovering your partner has been regularly viewing porn can often create a deep sense of betrayal. The challenge is most high drive partners are sexually frustrated and therefore turn to porn for a release. In this new episode on the Dr. Wyatt Marriage Podcast I address the top two times you should eliminate porn addiction. 💡Get my FREE 7 Day Challenge For Effective Conflict Resolution here.🥳Get my FREE Training on How To Rebuild Your Marriage In 90 Days here. 🟢For my most COMPREHENSIVE resource to resolve your resentments and rekindle your love, join my ER Marriage Intensive here. 🟢To help me lower the divorce rate one marriage at a time, join my FRCA program to become a Certified Relationship Coach here. 📚Read the article version of this episode on quitting porn addiction here.👉Access the free worksheet of this episode for the Dr. Wyatt Marriage Podcast here!Support the showFOLLOW me on social for FREE daily tips!FacebookInstagramYouTubeTikTok

What's the number one thing couples say they need help with......communication! I hear it all the time, "We need help with our communication." The truth is communication is a very broad category. When couples say they need help with their communication, what they're really saying is we can't discuss what bothers us without things escalating. In today's episode on the Dr. Wyatt Marriage Podcast, I discuss this trend and how to fix it. 💡Get my FREE 7 Day Challenge For Effective Conflict Resolution here.🥳Get my FREE Training on How To Rebuild Your Marriage In 90 Days here. 🟢For my most COMPREHENSIVE resource to resolve your resentments and rekindle your love, join my ER Marriage Intensive here. 🟢To help me lower the divorce rate one marriage at a time, become a Certified Relationship Coach here. 🚀If you enjoyed the episode, please leave a review on Apple Podcasts here! 📚Read the article version of this episode on communication problems here!👉Access the free worksheets for the marriage podcast here!You can now renew your vows at Dr. Wyatt's Colorado Wedding Venue here! Check out services better than marriage counseling in Santa Monica, CA here.Check out services better than marriage counseling in Cary, NC here. Check out services better than marriage counseling in Lower Merion Township, PA here.Check out services better than marriage counseling in Brookhaven, NY here. Support the showFOLLOW me on social for FREE daily tips!FacebookInstagramYouTubeTikTok

Have you ever thought you would never cheat? If you have, that belief actually increases your risk of cheating. In this new episode on the Dr. Wyatt Marriage Podcast I cover the top 7 behaviors that will increase your affair risk. See how many you're guilty of!💡Get my FREE 7 Day Challenge For Effective Conflict Resolution here.🥳Get my FREE Training on How To Rebuild Your Marriage In 90 Days here. 🟢For my most COMPREHENSIVE resource to resolve your resentments and rekindle your love, join my ER Marriage Intensive here. ☎️Leave a message at 303-578-0618 with your question and I'll respond to it on a future episode!🚀If you enjoyed the episode, please leave a review on Apple Podcasts here! 📚Read the article version of the podcast on how to avoid an affair here!Support the showFOLLOW me on social for FREE daily tips!FacebookInstagramYouTubeTikTok

Have you ever wondered if your partner is gaslighting you? You're not alone. Many people wonder this, especially during conflicts. In this new episode on the Dr. Wyatt Marriage Podcast I unpack what gaslighting is, when it's occurring, and when it's not occurring. You definitely want to listen to the end so you become more informed on this hot topic.💡Get my FREE 7 Day Challenge For Effective Conflict Resolution here.🥳Get my FREE Training on How To Rebuild Your Marriage In 90 Days here. 🟢For my most COMPREHENSIVE resource to resolve your resentments and rekindle your love, join my ER Marriage Intensive here. ☎️Leave a message at 303-578-0618 with your question and I'll respond to it on a future episode!🚀If you enjoyed the episode, please leave a review on Apple Podcasts here! 📚Read the article version of this episode on gaslighting in relationships here. 📚Read my new article on the top 6 marriage podcasts here!Support the showFOLLOW me on social for FREE daily tips!FacebookInstagramYouTubeTikTok

Many couples think if they go to therapy it's going to solve everything. However, what they don't realize is how they show up and participate in therapy greatly impacts the success of it. In the Dr. Wyatt Show podcast this week I interviewed Gordon Brewer, who has been a couples therapist for years. He shares his insights on how to make therapy effective for couples. You can learn more about Gordan here.💡Get my FREE 7 Day Challenge For Effective Conflict Resolution here.🥳Get my FREE Training on How To Rebuild Your Marriage In 90 Days here. 🟢For my most COMPREHENSIVE resource to resolve your resentments and rekindle your love, join my ER Marriage Intensive here. ☎️Leave a message at 303-578-0618 with your question and I'll respond to it on a future episode!🚀If you enjoyed the episode, please leave a review on Apple Podcasts here! Support the showFOLLOW me on social for FREE daily tips!FacebookInstagramYouTubeTikTok

Narcissism is thrown around often. She's just narcissistic or he's a narcissist. But do you really know what it means? The term is often over used. In this new episode on the Dr. Wyatt Marriage Podcast I break down what exactly is narcissism, what causes narcissism, and what to do if you're married to a narcissist. Buckle up and enjoy the ride! 💡Get my FREE 7 Day Challenge For Effective Conflict Resolution here.🥳Get my FREE Training on How To Rebuild Your Marriage In 90 Days here. 🟢For my most COMPREHENSIVE resource to resolve your resentments and rekindle your love, join my ER Marriage Intensive here. 📢For my most AFFORDABLE resource to learn tools for a healthy marriage, join my ​TOOLS Marriage Class here. 🚀If you enjoyed the episode, please leave a review on Apple Podcasts here! 📚Read the article version of this podcast on what is narcissism here! Send your question and comments to [email protected] the showFOLLOW me on social for FREE daily tips!FacebookInstagramYouTubeTikTok

Want to save your marriage and stop divorce? This new episode on the Dr. Wyatt Marriage Podcast will show you how. Many partners start feeling like their life would be better off without their spouse. Therefore, to prevent divorce you must become a value-added partner. The type of partner that adds so much value to the relationship that your partner would never want to leave you. Hope you find the episode helpful and it gives you ideas for improvement!💡Get my FREE 7 Day Challenge For Effective Conflict Resolution here.🥳Get my FREE Training on How To Rebuild Your Marriage In 90 Days here. 🟢For my most COMPREHENSIVE resource to resolve your resentments and rekindle your love, join my ER Marriage Intensive here. 📢For my most AFFORDABLE resource to learn tools for a healthy marriage, join my ​TOOLS Marriage Class here. 🚀If you enjoyed the episode, please leave a review on Apple Podcasts here! 📚Read the article version of this podcast on how to stop divorce and save your marriage here!Send your question and comments to [email protected] the showFOLLOW me on social for FREE daily tips!FacebookInstagramYouTubeTikTok

If you're thinking about divorce, you need to listen to this first. In this new episode, I discuss the four times you should not get a divorce and the four times you should consider separation and possibly divorce. Take a listen and see which points apply to you most!📢Get my FREE 7 Day Challenge For Effective Conflict Resolution here.🥳Get my FREE Training on How To Rebuild Your Marriage In 90 Days here. 🟢For my most COMPREHENSIVE resource to resolve your resentments and rekindle your love, join my ER Marriage Intensive here. 🚀If you enjoyed the episode, please leave a review on Apple Podcasts here! 📚Read the article version of this podcast on when to get a divorce here. Send your question and comments to [email protected] the showFOLLOW me on social for FREE daily tips!FacebookInstagramYouTubeTikTok

Wish you had more emotional intimacy in your marriage? Not sure where to begin? Emotional intimacy is a core ingredient for couples because it nurtures your friendship and is often needed before physical intimacy can occur. In this new episode on the Dr. Wyatt Marriage Podcast I cover practical ideas to start building more emotional intimacy in your relationship this week.📢Get my FREE Guide on 4 Steps To Transform Your Marriage here.🥳Get my FREE Training on How To Rebuild Your Marriage In 90 Days here. 🟢For my most COMPREHENSIVE resource to resolve your resentments and rekindle your love, join my ER Marriage Intensive here. 🚀If you enjoyed the episode, please leave a review on Apple Podcasts here! 📚Here's the blog post version of the episode on how to nurture daily emotional intimacy. Support the showFOLLOW me on social for FREE daily tips!FacebookInstagramYouTubeTikTok

Marriage can be tough work. Pressure from jobs, kids, and finances makes it easy to put our relationship on the back burner. Once our marriage gets put on the back burner, it starts to deteriorate because marriages are alive and require constant attention. In this new episode on the Dr. Wyatt Marriage Podcast, I discuss the top 8 pain points married couples face. As you listen, discern which pain points you're experiencing the most right now and why. 📢Get my FREE Guide on 4 Steps To Transform Your Marriage here.🥳Get my FREE Training on How To Rebuild Your Marriage In 90 Days here. 🟢For my most COMPREHENSIVE resource to resolve your resentments and rekindle your love, join my ER Marriage Intensive here. 🚀If you enjoyed the episode, please leave a review on Apple Podcasts here! 📖Here's the blog post version of this episode on marriage pain points. Support the showFOLLOW me on social for FREE daily tips!FacebookInstagramYouTubeTikTok

The #1 thing keeping you from an amazing marriage are walls. Walls that you have toward your partner and walls they have toward you. You won't be able to nurture emotional and physical closeness when one or both of you have walls. In this new episode on the Dr. Wyatt Marriage Podcast, I discuss how walls are build and how to slowly bring them down to save your marriage.📢Get my FREE Guide on 4 Steps To Transform Your Marriage here.🥳Get my FREE Training on How To Rebuild Your Marriage In 90 Days here. 🟢For my most COMPREHENSIVE resource to resolve your resentments and rekindle your love, join my ER Marriage Intensive here. 🚀If you enjoyed the episode, please leave a review on Apple Podcasts here! ☎️ Call me live on the podcast Tuesday mornings with your questions from 8am-11am MST at 303-578-0618. 📖Read the article from this podcast episode on tearing down walls to save your marriage. Want something faster than marriage counseling in Philadelphia, PA, click here.Want something faster than marriage counseling in Raleigh, NC, click here.Want something faster than marriage counseling in New York City, NY, click here.Want something faster than marriage counseling in Los Angeles, CA, click hereWant something faster than marriage counseling in Hamburg, Germany, click here.Support the showFOLLOW me on social for FREE daily tips!FacebookInstagramYouTubeTikTok

Got trauma in your past? Welcome to the club. Many people have trauma from their past and they bring it into their relationship. Unfortunately, past trauma can create relationship problems today, which can lead to more trauma. In this episode of the Dr. Wyatt Marriage Podcast, I discuss this tendency and specific marriage advice tips to take so your past trauma doesn't sabotage your relationship today. 📢Get my FREE Guide on 4 Steps To Transform Your Marriage here.🥳Get my FREE Training on How To Rebuild Your Marriage In 90 Days here. 🟢For my most COMPREHENSIVE resource to resolve your resentments and rekindle your love, join my ER Marriage Intensive here. 🚀If you enjoyed the episode, please leave a review on Apple Podcasts here! ☎️ Call me live on the podcast Tuesday mornings with your questions from 8am-11am MST at 303-578-0618. Here's the page to the episode as an article covering marriage advice when there's past trauma. Support the showFOLLOW me on social for FREE daily tips!FacebookInstagramYouTubeTikTok

Are you in a sexless marriage and wondering how to hit reset? You're not alone. Many couples drift from lovers to roommates through the years and wake up feeling like strangers. In this episode of the Dr. Wyatt Marriage Podcast I cover what causes the dry spell, how the dry spells of intimacy can create trauma, how the dry spells create risk, and how to fix the dry spells. Hope you find it helpful!📢For my FREE Guide on 4 Steps To Transform Your Marriage click here.🥳For my FREE Training on How To Rebuild Your Marriage In 90 Days click here. 🟢For my most COMPREHENSIVE resource to resolve your resentments and rekindle your love, join my ER Marriage Intensive here. 🚀If you enjoyed the episode, please leave a review on Apple Podcasts here! ☎️ Call me live on the podcast Tuesday mornings with your questions from 8am-11am MST at 303-578-0618. Here's the article of this episode including my YouTube video on Sexless Marriage? Here's What's Really HappeningHere's a new page for one of my students who is offering services that are faster than couples therapy in Hamburg, Germany.Support the showFOLLOW me on social for FREE daily tips!FacebookInstagramYouTubeTikTok

Does your wife stiffen each time you touch her? Does she pull away each time you reach out? Are you tired of feeling physically rejected? If you answered yes then this episode is a must listen. In it, I'll cover the causes for this pattern and marriage advice that will solve it. Be sure to listen to it with your wife to see if she would make any edits. 📢For my FREE Guide on 4 Steps To Transform Your Marriage click here.🥳For my FREE Training on How To Rebuild Your Marriage In 90 Days click here. 🟢For my most COMPREHENSIVE resource to resolve your resentments and rekindle your love, join my ER Marriage Intensive here. 🚀If you enjoyed the episode, please leave a review on Apple Podcasts here! ☎️ Have questions you would like me to answer about your marriage? You can reach me live on the podcast Tuesday mornings from 8am-11am MST at 303-578-0618. Here's the article of this episode on marriage advice to stop pushing her away. Support the showFOLLOW me on social for FREE daily tips!FacebookInstagramYouTubeTikTok

In this episode I cover the standoff most couples find themselves in where both partners are unhappy but neither will take the first step to improve the relationship. I discuss who should take the first step, why they should take the first step, and what it looks like to take the first step. If you need marriage help, this is an essential episode to move your marriage forward. 📢For my FREE Guide on 4 Steps To Transform Your Marriage click here.🥳For my FREE Training on How To Rebuild Your Marriage In 90 Days click here. 🎉For my most AFFORDABLE resource to learn all my tools to build a healthy relationship, join my TOOLS Marriage Course here.🟢For my most COMPREHENSIVE resource to resolve your resentments and rekindle your love, join my ER Marriage Intensive here. 🚀If you enjoyed the episode, please leave a review on Apple Podcasts here! ☎️ Have questions you would like me to answer about your marriage? You can reach me live on the podcast Tuesday mornings from 8am-11am MST at 303-578-0618. 📚Here's the blog post of this episode on marriage help for husbands. New page for those looking for help that's faster than couples therapy in Los Angeles, CA. New page for those looking for help that's faster than couples therapy in Washington, D.C.New page for those looking for help that's faster than couples therapy in Raleigh, NCNew page for those looking for help that's faster than couples therapy in Philadelphia, PA New page for those looking for help that's faster than couples therapy in New York City, NYSupport the showFOLLOW me on social for FREE daily tips!FacebookInstagramYouTubeTikTok

Do you feel more like adversaries than allies with your partner? Do you feel more like opponents than teammates? If you answered yes you're going to appreciate this episode as I discuss this pattern, what causes it, what it feels like, and how to fix it. 📢For my free guide on 4 Steps To Transform Your Marriage click here!📢For my most comprehensive resource to resolve your resentments and rekindle your love, join my ER Marriage Intensive here. 🚀If you enjoyed the episode, please leave me a review on Apple Podcasts here! 🎤 Have questions you would like me to answer about your marriage? You can reach me live on the podcast Saturday mornings from 9am-12noon MST at 303-578-0618. Here's the article version of the podcast on how to save your marriage. Support the showFOLLOW me on social for FREE daily tips!FacebookInstagramYouTubeTikTok

Have problems in the bedroom? Not sure how to get unstuck? Well, you're in good hands. In this episode I discuss the difference between spontaneous and responsive desire and how to optimize intimacy in your relationship. Hope you find it helpful! Send your questions to [email protected].🏋️To learn more about my program starting 11/26/25 to help you become a Certified Relationship Coach click here!📢For my most comprehensive resource to resolve your resentments and rekindle your love in 30 days, join my ER Marriage Intensive here. 🚀If you enjoyed the episode, please leave a review on Apple Podcasts here! 🎤Leave a voicemail with your questions at 303-578-0618 and I'll respond to them on a future episode!Here's an article of the episode covering responsive desire. Support the showFOLLOW me on social for FREE daily tips!FacebookInstagramYouTubeTikTok

How often do you observe your partner's nonverbal communication? Their facial expressions, their tone, their body language. Believe it or not, more is often said through nonverbal communication than through verbal communication. In this episode on the Dr. Wyatt Marriage Podcast I break down the top things to watch for and what it may mean about your partner. 🏋️For my FREE Training on How To Rebuild Your Marriage In 90 Days click here! 📢For my most comprehensive resource to resolve your resentments and rekindle your love in 30 days, join my ER Marriage Intensive here. 📣For my most affordable resource to learn all my tools to build a healthy marriage, join my TOOLS marriage course here.🚀If you enjoyed the episode, please leave a review on Apple Podcasts here! 🎤Leave a voicemail with your questions at 303-578-0618 and I'll respond to them on a future episode!Check out my next marriage workshop here on 3 Steps To Pressure Free IntimacyCheck out my next couples workshop here on 3 Steps To Resolving Your Conflicts PeaceablySupport the showFOLLOW me on social for FREE daily tips!FacebookInstagramYouTubeTikTok

There's lots of marriage advice available on the internet but which advice is helpful and which advice is not. On the podcast this week, I discuss a perspective to marriage advice you may have not heard before but can probably definitely relate to. Give it a listen and see if it applies to your relationship. 🏋️Want my FREE Training on How To Rebuild Your Marriage In 90 Days?  Get it here! 📢For my most comprehensive resource to resolve your resentments and rekindle your love in 30 days, join my ER Marriage Intensive here. 🎤Leave a voicemail with your questions at 303-578-0618 and I'll respond to them on a future episode!Check out my blog post covering marriage advice that actually works. Support the showFOLLOW me on social for FREE daily tips!FacebookInstagramYouTubeTikTok

What takes a couple from "I do" to "I want a divorce?" What moves a couple from "I can't get enough of you" to "I can't wait to get away from you?" It's a sad unfolding for many relationships and in this new episode I unpack the top five reasons marriages fail and how to stop it. 🏋️Want my FREE Training on How To Rebuild Your Marriage In 90 Days?  Get it here! 📢For my most comprehensive resource to resolve your resentments and rekindle your love in 30 days, join my ER Marriage Intensive here. 🎤Call me live on the podcast Tuesdays from 2-5pm MST to get your questions answered at 303-578-0618.Here's the blog post for this episode on why marriages fail. Support the showFOLLOW me on social for FREE daily tips!FacebookInstagramYouTubeTikTok

Learning to communicate well is the cornerstone to a healthy relationship. Unfortunately, we're not taught how to communicate well and therefore make many mistakes, often without realizing it. In this new episode I discuss the top 8 communication mistakes to avoid. Here's the article version for you to read on communication in relationships🕊️Want my FREE Training on How To Rebuild Your Marriage In 90 Days?  Get it here! 📢For my most comprehensive resource to resolve your resentments, join my ER Marriage Intensive here. 🎤Join me Saturday mornings on YouTube Live here to submit your marriage questions and I'll respond to them!Check out the new page of one of my students for relationship coaching in Washington, D.C.Support the showFOLLOW me on social for FREE daily tips!FacebookInstagramYouTubeTikTok

In this call in podcast I respond to two fellas who were calling in for different reasons. The first one wanted help with how to work through the trauma their relationship went through. The second just wanted some guidance on how to keep learning about marriage and relationships. 🕊️Want my FREE Training on How To Rebuild Your Marriage In 90 Days?  Get it here! 📢For my most comprehensive resource to resolve your resentments, join my ER Marriage Intensive here. 🚨Call me Saturday mornings from 8am-10am MST at 303-578-0618 to reach me live on the podcast to answer your questions! If you don't reach me leave a voicemail with your question and I'll respond to it on a future episode. Support the showFOLLOW me on social for FREE daily tips!FacebookInstagramYouTubeTikTok

Are you the higher drive partner and wish you could help your spouse get in the mood? If you answered yes you're going to enjoy this episode where I cover 4 things you can do and 4 things your partner can do. Be sure to listen to this one together and discuss further! Check out the article version on how to ger her in the mood here!🕊️Want my FREE Training on How To Rebuild Your Marriage In 90 Days?  Get it here! 📢For my most comprehensive resource to resolve your resentments, join my ER Marriage Intensive here. 🚨Call me Saturday mornings from 8am-10am MST at 303-578-0618 to reach me live on the podcast to answer your questions! If you don't reach me leave a voicemail with your question and I'll respond to it on a future episode. Support the showFOLLOW me on social for FREE daily tips!FacebookInstagramYouTubeTikTok

Listen to three listeners as they ask me questions about how to handle their relationship! The theme is they all are facing infidelity or separation. 🕊️Want my FREE Training on How To Rebuild Your Marriage In 90 Days?  Get it here! 📢For my most comprehensive resource to resolve your resentments, join my ER Marriage Intensive here. 🚨Call me Saturday mornings from 8am-10am MST at 303-578-0618 to reach me live on the podcast to answer your questions! If you don't reach me leave a voicemail with your question and I'll respond to it on a future episode. Support the showFOLLOW me on social for FREE daily tips!FacebookInstagramYouTubeTikTok

Wish you had more romance in your relationship? Do you often feel more like roommates and business associates than lovers? You're not alone if you answered yes. Most couples lose the romance over time. In this new episode I'm going to show you some practical steps to bring it back! 🕊️Want my FREE Training on How To Rebuild Your Marriage In 90 Days?  Get it here! 📢For my most comprehensive resource to resolve your resentments, join my ER Marriage Intensive here. 🚨Call me Saturday mornings from 8am-10am MST to reach me live on the podcast to answer your questions! If you don't reach me leave a voicemail with your question and I'll respond to it on a future episode. Find relationship coaching in Phoenix AZ hereFind relationship coaching in Columbia SC hereSupport the showFOLLOW me on social for FREE daily tips!FacebookInstagramYouTubeTikTok

Did you know that how you handle conflict is one of the biggest predictors of divorce? It's true. Dr. Gottman found multiple behaviors couples have in conflict that predict divorce. In this episode I discuss what those are and the top 4 conflict resolution mistakes to avoid.Check out my new article on conflict resolution mistakes to avoid here!🚨Want my FREE Training on How To Rebuild Your Marriage In 90 Days?  Get it here! 🚨For my most comprehensive resource to resolve your resentments, join my ER Marriage Intensive here. Leave a voicemail at 303-578-0618 and I'll address it on the next episode!Support the showFOLLOW me on social for FREE daily tips!FacebookInstagramYouTubeTikTok

Are you wondering if your partner is drinking too much? Are they telling you it's their choice how much they drink? If so, you're going to have some marital problems. Any addictive behavior that impairs your relationship is a marital topic. In this episode I walk you through some steps on what to do about it. Here's an article on when to separate from an addict. 🚨Want my FREE Guide on How To Improve Your Communication In 4 Steps?  Get it here! 🚨For my most comprehensive resource to resolve your resentments, join my ER Marriage Intensive here. Check out my new page for relationship coaching in Phoenix, AZSupport the showFOLLOW me on social for FREE daily tips!FacebookInstagramYouTubeTikTok

No one gets married to eventually be in a sexless marriage. However, that happens to many couples. In the episode today I discuss five steps to reverse engineer a sexless marriage to have more intimacy in your relationship!  🚨Want my FREE Training on How To Rebuild Your Marriage In 90 Days? Get it here! 🚨For my most comprehensive resource to resolve your resentments, join my ER Marriage Intensive here. Support the showFOLLOW me on social for FREE daily tips!FacebookInstagramYouTubeTikTok

🚨Want my FREE Training on How To Rebuild Your Marriage In 90 Days? Get it here! https://unique-maker-1596.kit.com/857eb921a4Recognizing whether your partner is gaslighting you is crucial because gaslighting can deeply distort your sense of reality, self-worth, and emotional safety. Gaslighting is a form of emotional manipulation where one partner denies your experiences, blames you unfairly, or twists facts to make you question your memory or judgment. Over time, this can lead to confusion, self-doubt, anxiety, and even depression. If you don’t identify the behavior, you may continue to internalize blame and feel powerless in the relationship. On the other hand, knowing it’s happening allows you to protect your emotional health, set boundaries, and seek support. It also helps you distinguish between normal relationship conflict and psychological abuse. Not all disagreements are gaslighting—but if it is occurring, it’s a serious issue that needs to be addressed. Gaining clarity is the first step toward healing, whether that means having hard conversations, getting professional help, or making a change.Have a question? Leave a voicemail at 303-578-0618 and I'll respond to it on the next podcast episode! 🚨For my most comprehensive resource to resolve your resentments, join my ER Marriage Intensive here. 🚀READ MY GOOGLE REVIEWS HERE!👀WHO IS DR. WYATT? I'm a licensed psychologist specializing in couples therapy. I've been in private practice since 2004 and I've helped thousands of couples save their marriage and prevent divorce. I look forward to interacting with you in the comments! You can learn more about me here.  #gaslighting #savemymarriage #marriagehelpSupport the showFOLLOW me on social for FREE daily tips!FacebookInstagramYouTubeTikTok

The Coldplay "cheaters" situation has captured public attention—not just because of the betrayal itself, but because it highlights deeper truths about modern relationships. As a therapist, one key lesson is that emotional disconnection often precedes infidelity. When couples stop sharing, stop listening, or stop prioritizing one another, vulnerability to temptation increases. Another takeaway is that cheating rarely happens in a vacuum—it’s often a symptom of unresolved conflict, unmet needs, or poor boundaries. Public scandals like this remind us that no one is immune to relationship breakdown, no matter how successful or famous. They also teach the importance of rebuilding trust through accountability and open dialogue. Whether you’re healing from betrayal or trying to prevent it, this story is a wake-up call: prioritize emotional intimacy, communicate honestly, and don’t let your relationship run on autopilot. What happened with Coldplay isn’t just gossip—it’s a mirror many couples should look into.Have a question? Leave a voicemail at 303-578-0618 and I'll respond to it on the next podcast episode! 🚨For my most comprehensive resource to resolve your resentments, join my ER Marriage Intensive here. 🛠️For my most cost effective resource to learn skills for a healthy marriage, join my TOOLS Marriage Course here. 🚀READ MY GOOGLE REVIEWS HERE!👀WHO IS DR. WYATT? I'm a licensed psychologist specializing in couples therapy. I've been in private practice since 2004 and I've helped thousands of couples save their marriage and prevent divorce. I look forward to interacting with you in the comments! You can learn more about me here.  #Coldplay #savemymarriage #cheatingSupport the showFOLLOW me on social for FREE daily tips!FacebookInstagramYouTubeTikTok

Emotional intimacy is the foundation of a strong, lasting relationship. It’s what allows partners to feel safe, seen, and deeply connected. When emotional intimacy is present, couples can be vulnerable without fear of judgment, express needs honestly, and support each other through life’s ups and downs. This kind of closeness builds trust and deepens love over time. Without it, couples may feel like strangers living under the same roof—disconnected, misunderstood, and emotionally alone. Emotional intimacy doesn’t happen by accident; it’s built through consistent communication, empathy, and shared experiences. It grows when couples make time for each other, listen without defensiveness, and show affection beyond just physical touch. When emotional intimacy is strong, it naturally strengthens physical intimacy, conflict resolution, and overall satisfaction. It becomes the safe harbor where both partners can recharge, reconnect, and rediscover each other. In short, emotional intimacy is the glue that holds a relationship together.Have a question? Leave a voicemail at 303-578-0618 and I'll respond to it on the next podcast episode! 🚨For my most comprehensive resource to resolve your resentments, join my ER Marriage Intensive here. 🛠️For my most cost effective resource to learn skills for a healthy marriage, join my TOOLS Marriage Course here. 🚀READ MY GOOGLE REVIEWS HERE!👀WHO IS DR. WYATT? I'm a licensed psychologist specializing in couples therapy. I've been in private practice since 2004 and I've helped thousands of couples save their marriage and prevent divorce. I look forward to interacting with you in the comments! You can learn more about me here.  #marriagehelp #savemymarriage #emotionalintimacyHere's an article on why emotional intimacy is key to a healthy relationship.Support the showFOLLOW me on social for FREE daily tips!FacebookInstagramYouTubeTikTok

Stopping divorce often begins with a willingness to pause, reflect, and reconnect. Many couples drift apart not from a lack of love, but from unresolved hurt, unmet needs, or poor communication. To stop divorce, both partners must commit to rebuilding trust and emotional safety. That means listening with empathy, owning mistakes without defensiveness, and learning how to speak each other’s emotional language. Seek help—through counseling or coaching—to break harmful patterns and learn new tools. Reignite connection by spending intentional time together, even if it feels awkward at first. Small acts of kindness, appreciation, and physical touch can slowly rebuild the bond. Most importantly, shift from blame to teamwork. Instead of seeing each other as opponents, unite around the goal of healing the relationship. With effort, humility, and support, many couples discover a new chapter of love they never thought possible. Divorce isn't always inevitable—change is.Have a question? Leave a voicemail at 303-578-0618 and I'll respond to it on the next podcast episode! 💑To learn more about my Colorado Marriage Retreat click here.🛠️For my most cost effective resource to learn skills for a healthy marriage, join my TOOLS Marriage Course here. 🚀READ MY GOOGLE REVIEWS HERE!👀WHO IS DR. WYATT? I'm a licensed psychologist specializing in couples therapy. I've been in private practice since 2004 and I've helped thousands of couples save their marriage and prevent divorce. I look forward to interacting with you in the comments! You can learn more about me here.  New article on how to save your marriage and stop divorce.#marriagehelp #stopdivorce #savemymarriageSupport the showFOLLOW me on social for FREE daily tips!FacebookInstagramYouTubeTikTok

Forgiveness in marriage can be blocked by several powerful emotional and psychological barriers. Deep hurt, betrayal, and unresolved pain often create walls that are hard to tear down. Pride and ego can keep someone from admitting fault or extending grace. Holding onto anger or resentment can feel like self-protection, especially when trust has been broken. A lack of empathy or understanding for the other person's perspective makes forgiveness harder. Sometimes, the offense feels too great or repeated, making reconciliation seem impossible. Finally, fear of being hurt again can keep people stuck in cycles of bitterness, preventing the healing that forgiveness brings. In this episode I discuss the three steps needed for forgiveness in marriage to occur. Here's the article to learn more on forgiveness in marriage🧱For my FREE Training on 90 Days To Rebuild Your Marriage, click here.💑To learn more about my Colorado Marriage Retreat click here.🛠️For my most cost effective resource to learn skills for a healthy marriage, join my TOOLS Marriage Course here. 🚀READ MY GOOGLE REVIEWS HERE!👀WHO IS DR. WYATT? I'm a licensed psychologist specializing in couples therapy. I've been in private practice since 2004 and I've helped thousands of couples save their marriage and prevent divorce. I look forward to interacting with you in the comments! You can learn more about me here.  New article on the best marriage courses here!#forgiveness #marriagehelp #savemymarriageSupport the showFOLLOW me on social for FREE daily tips!FacebookInstagramYouTubeTikTok

🎉SHARE This With A Friend! Call 303-578-0618 and leave a voicemail with your question and I'll respond to it on a future episode!A sexless marriage can deeply affect a man’s emotional, psychological, and even physical well-being. For many men, sexual intimacy is a primary way of expressing love and feeling connected to their partner. When that connection disappears, it can lead to feelings of rejection, inadequacy, and loneliness. Over time, this may erode his self-esteem and create emotional distance in the relationship. A lack of intimacy can also fuel frustration, irritability, or even resentment—especially if efforts to address the issue are met with resistance or silence. Some men may withdraw emotionally or seek validation elsewhere, which can further damage the marriage. Physically, the lack of sexual release may contribute to stress, tension, or sleep problems. While every individual and relationship is different, many men in sexless marriages report feeling more like roommates than lovers, longing not just for sex, but for the emotional closeness and affirmation that intimacy provides.🚨For my most comprehensive resource to resolve your resentments, join my ER Marriage Intensive here. 🛠️For my most cost effective resource to learn skills for a healthy marriage, join my TOOLS Marriage Course here. 🚀READ MY GOOGLE REVIEWS HERE!👀WHO IS DR. WYATT? I'm a licensed psychologist specializing in couples therapy. I've been in private practice since 2004 and I've helped thousands of couples save their marriage and prevent divorce. I look forward to interacting with you in the comments! You can learn more about me here.  Check out my new articles below!   expectations in a relationship to quit nowhow to build emotional safety in marriagehow to heal your resentments in marriage how to fight fair in marriagehow to fix a sexless marriageSupport the showFOLLOW me on social for FREE daily tips!FacebookInstagramYouTubeTikTok

✏️PLEASE LEAVE A REVIEW & Call 303-578-0618 and leave a voicemail with your questions and I'll respond to them on a future episode!Fixing an unhappy marriage is possible if both partners are willing. The first step is to consider what's caused the drift in your marriage in the first place. Second, you must be willing to address your resentments because nothing will go well when there's active resentments. Third, you must nurture your friendship through emotional intimacy, dates, and affection. Fourth, you must re-integrate sensual and sexual time together to bond with one another physically. Finally, if you're unable to achieve these steps on your own reach out for professional help instead of suffering in silence. 🚨To learn more about my Total Marriage Refresh 7/27 in Denver, CO, click the following link about the marriage retreat! 🛠️For my most cost effective resource to learn skills for a healthy marriage, join my TOOLS Marriage Course here. 🚀READ MY GOOGLE REVIEWS HERE!👀WHO IS DR. WYATT? I'm a licensed psychologist specializing in couples therapy. I've been in private practice since 2004 and I've helped thousands of couples save their marriage and prevent divorce. I look forward to interacting with you in the comments! You can learn more about me here.  Check out my new directory for couples coaching here!Support the showFOLLOW me on social for FREE daily tips!FacebookInstagramYouTubeTikTok

🎉SHARE This With A Friend! Call 303-578-0618 and leave a voicemail with your question and I'll respond to it on a future episode!Developing emotional safety in you relationship is essential. When we don't feel safe, we pull back, we build walls, we shut down. In contrast, when we feel emotionally safe, we open up. Think of emotional safety as the sun and you're a flower. The more sun you receive, the more your peddles open up naturally and vice versa. In this episode, I cover the top five ways to promote emotional safety in your relationship. Let me know which one would help your relationship the most. #marriagehelp #saveyourmarriage #emotionalsafety🚨For my most comprehensive resource to resolve your resentments, join my ER Marriage Intensive here. 🛠️For my most cost effective resource to learn skills for a healthy marriage, join my TOOLS Marriage Course here. 🚀READ MY GOOGLE REVIEWS HERE! 👀WHO IS DR. WYATT? I'm a licensed psychologist specializing in couples therapy. I've been in private practice since 2004 and I've helped thousands of couples save their marriage and prevent divorce. I look forward to interacting with you in the comments! You can learn more about me here.  Support the showFOLLOW me on social for FREE daily tips!FacebookInstagramYouTubeTikTok

✏️PLEASE LEAVE A REVIEW & Call 303-578-0618 and leave a voicemail with your questions and I'll respond to them on a future episode!Learning to fight fair in marriage is a growth area for many couples. Instead of fighting fair, many spouses fight unfair and doing so eventually destroys their relationship. How you handle conflict often impacts your entire relationship. In this episode, I discuss two examples on how to fight fair from my marriage.🚨For my most comprehensive resource to resolve your resentments, join my ER Marriage Intensive here. 🛠️For my most cost effective resource to learn skills for a healthy marriage, join my TOOLS Marriage Course here. Support the showFOLLOW me on social for FREE daily tips!FacebookInstagramYouTubeTikTok

🎉PLEASE SHARE WITH OTHERS! Call 303-578-0618 and leave a voicemail with your question and I'll respond to it on a future episode!An uneven workload can create a troubled marriage. An uneven workload creates emotional distance, and a sense of imbalance in the partnership. When one partner consistently bears more responsibilities—whether in parenting, household tasks, or emotional labor—it can lead to feelings of being undervalued and overwhelmed. The other partner may become complacent or unaware of the imbalance, further deepening the disconnect. Over time, this dynamic erodes trust and intimacy, as the relationship feels less like a team effort and more like a burden for one person. Mutual respect and shared effort are essential for a healthy, lasting marriage built on equality and support. So, to improve your troubled marriage, balance out the workload!#marriagehelp #saveyourmarriage #marriageadvice🚨For my most comprehensive resource to resolve your resentments, join my ER Marriage Intensive here. 🛠️For my most cost effective resource to learn skills for a healthy marriage, join my TOOLS Marriage Course here. Support the showFOLLOW me on social for FREE daily tips!FacebookInstagramYouTubeTikTok

✏️PLEASE LEAVE A REVIEW & Call 303-578-0618 and leave a voicemail with your questions and I'll respond to them on a future episode!🚨For my most comprehensive resource to resolve your resentments, join my ER Marriage Intensive here. 🛠️For my most cost effective resource to learn skills for a healthy marriage, join my TOOLS Marriage Course here. There are many tips to fight less with your partner. However, this is one you may not have heard of. It's called "sharing your tender underbelly." Anger is a secondary emotion. Therefore, what's underneath your anger is called the tender underbelly. Identifying what that is and sharing it instead of your anger can be a game changer. For starters, it's the core of what you're really feeling. Second, your partner is much more likely to respond with empathy when they hear it compared to when they feel your anger. Try it! Here's a new page for my relationship coach in Jersey City, NJAlso, check out my new resource on how to become a relationship coachSupport the showFOLLOW me on social for FREE daily tips!FacebookInstagramYouTubeTikTok

🎉PLEASE SHARE WITH OTHERS! Call 303-578-0618 and leave a voicemail with your question and I'll respond to it on a future episode!To learn more about my FRCA program to become a Certified Relationship Coach click here!🛠️For my most cost effective resource to learn skills for a healthy marriage, join my TOOLS Marriage Course here. Saving your marriage begins with open, honest communication. Take time to really listen to your partner without interrupting or judging. Rebuild trust by being consistent, keeping promises, and showing appreciation for each other daily. Address conflicts calmly and respectfully—focus on resolving issues, not assigning blame. Prioritize quality time together: date nights, shared hobbies, or even simple daily check-ins can reignite intimacy. Practice forgiveness and patience; every relationship faces challenges, but how you respond to them makes the difference. Reflect on what brought you together in the first place, and focus on nurturing that bond. With effort, vulnerability, and mutual commitment, it’s possible to rebuild and even strengthen your relationship. Saving a marriage takes work, but the rewards of love and partnership are worth it. In this new episode, I discuss the top three ways to save your marriage.Support the showFOLLOW me on social for FREE daily tips!FacebookInstagramYouTubeTikTok

✏️PLEASE LEAVE A REVIEW! Call 303-578-0618 and leave a voicemail with your questions and I'll respond to them on a future episode!To learn more about my FRCA program to become a Certified Relationship Coach click here!🚨For my most comprehensive resource to resolve your resentments, join my ER Marriage Intensive here. 🛠️For my most cost effective resource to learn skills for a healthy marriage, join my TOOLS Marriage Course here. Compatibility is often romanticized as the cornerstone of successful relationships, but it's frequently overrated. While having shared interests or similar personalities can make things easier, true connection thrives on effort, communication, and mutual growth—not just matching traits. Obsessing over compatibility can lead people to dismiss potentially great relationships just because someone doesn’t fit a checklist. In reality, no two people are perfectly aligned. Disagreements, differences, and challenges are inevitable. What matters more is how partners navigate those moments, not whether they see eye-to-eye on every issue. Growth often comes from contrast, not similarity. Compatibility might get people through the good times, but commitment, empathy, and adaptability carry them through the hard ones. Relying too heavily on the idea of compatibility can be a convenient way to avoid doing the work that real relationships demand. It’s not about finding the “right” person, but building something real with someone willing.Support the showFOLLOW me on social for FREE daily tips!FacebookInstagramYouTubeTikTok

✋PLEASE SHARE WITH OTHERS! Call 303-578-0618 and leave a voicemail with your question and I'll respond to it on a future episode!🚨For my most comprehensive resource to resolve your resentments, join my ER Marriage Intensive here. 🛠️For my most cost effective resource to learn skills for a healthy marriage, join my TOOLS Marriage Course here. Marriage, like any meaningful relationship, needs the right ingredients to truly thrive. At its core, successful marriage is built on a foundation of love, trust, and communication. Without trust, even the strongest love can falter under the weight of doubt and insecurity. Communication allows couples to navigate challenges, share goals, and express their feelings honestly. Respect, too, is essential—valuing each other as equals fosters a partnership where both people feel heard and appreciated. Patience and compromise help couples adapt to change and work through disagreements. Shared values and emotional support strengthen the bond, while laughter and joy keep the connection alive. Just as a great cocktail depends on the right ingredients, your marriage needs the right ingredients to thrive too. In this podcast, I give you an example from my marriage.  Support the showFOLLOW me on social for FREE daily tips!FacebookInstagramYouTubeTikTok

✏️PLEASE LEAVE A REVIEW! Call 303-578-0618 and leave a voicemail with your questions and I'll respond to them on a future episode!To resolve your resentments and get your marriage back on track, learn more about my ER Marriage Intensive in Dallas, TX 4/27 here!Assuming negative intent in your partner can quickly erode trust and damage the foundation of a healthy relationship. When we automatically jump to conclusions or believe the worst about our partner’s words or actions, we shift from curiosity and understanding to defensiveness and blame. This mindset turns small miscommunications into larger conflicts and prevents genuine connection.Most people act from a place of their own experiences, stress, or misunderstandings—not from a desire to hurt. Giving your partner the benefit of the doubt encourages open, honest communication and fosters emotional safety. It shows respect for their intentions and reinforces that you're on the same team, not opposing sides.Choosing to assume positive or neutral intent allows space for empathy. Instead of reacting, you can pause, ask questions, and gain clarity. This approach builds emotional resilience and deepens mutual respect. Even in moments of disagreement, you're more likely to find common ground and move forward together.Ultimately, not assuming negative intent is an act of love, patience, and maturity. It keeps your relationship rooted in trust, allowing it to grow stronger—even through challenges. It’s not about ignoring problems but approaching them with grace rather than suspicion.Support the showFOLLOW me on social for FREE daily tips!FacebookInstagramYouTubeTikTok

✋PLEASE SHARE WITH OTHERS! Call 303-578-0618 and leave a voicemail with your question and I'll respond to it on a future episode!🚨For my most comprehensive resource to resolve your resentments, join my ER Marriage Intensive here. 🛠️For my most cost effective resource to learn skills for a healthy marriage, join my TOOLS Marriage Course here. Learning from someone with more experience is a smart decision because it accelerates personal and professional growth. Experienced individuals have already navigated challenges, made mistakes, and found solutions, allowing you to benefit from their wisdom without repeating the same errors. Their insights provide valuable shortcuts, helping you progress more efficiently.Additionally, mentors can offer guidance tailored to real-world situations, bridging the gap between theory and practice. Learning from their successes and failures helps you develop a well-rounded perspective, improving your decision-making skills.Their knowledge saves you time, effort, and unnecessary frustration, making your learning process more strategic and effective. By tapping into their expertise, you gain a competitive advantage and increase your chances of success in any field.In the podcast today I interview Rhoda Sommer, who has been a couples therapist for 45 years and married for 52 years. Listen to her wisdom!Support the showFOLLOW me on social for FREE daily tips!FacebookInstagramYouTubeTikTok

✏️PLEASE LEAVE A REVIEW! Call 303-578-0618 and leave a voicemail with your questions and I'll respond to them on a future episode!To learn more about my CO Marriage Retreat 3/29 click here!Want to learn more about my most cost effective resource no matter where you live? Read about my Tools Marriage Course!Discerning whether your perception of your partner is true or false requires self-awareness, open communication, and a willingness to challenge assumptions. Emotions, past experiences, and personal biases can distort how you see them, leading to either idealization or unwarranted criticism. To gain clarity, observe their actions over time—consistent behavior is a stronger indicator of character than occasional words or gestures. Reflect on whether your expectations are realistic or shaped by personal fears, insecurities, or societal influences. Engaging in honest conversations about feelings, needs, and concerns can reveal whether your assumptions align with their true intentions. Seeking input from trusted friends or a counselor can also provide an objective perspective. In this episode, I cover the tendency for people to either project onto their partner things that are untrue or for the receiving partner to have blind spots about how they really are. Listen in as I discuss this tendency and what to do about it. Support the showFOLLOW me on social for FREE daily tips!FacebookInstagramYouTubeTikTok

✋PLEASE SHARE WITH OTHERS!Defensiveness is a normal human impulse. When we are blamed, we instinctually want to justify our intent. We can't stand the idea of our partner thinking we did something that we don't feel like we did. However, the more we defend, the more it makes our partner feel invalidated. In this new episode. I discuss the top steps I take in my marriage to avoid becoming defensive.Call 303-578-0618 and leave a voicemail with your questions!🚨ER MARRIAGE INTENSIVE- My best program to resolve your resentments quickly. Learn more about my ER Marriage Intensive here!🎉COLORADO MARRIAGE RETREAT- If you want to get away and spend some quality time together while learning from me all day, attend my marriage retreat in Colorado 3/29/25. Learn more here!Check out my new marriage course Tools!Support the showFOLLOW me on social for FREE daily tips!FacebookInstagramYouTubeTikTok

📢PLEASE LEAVE A REVIEW!Learning how to resolve conflicts effectively is essential if you want a heathy marriage. Feelings are going to get hurt. Actions are going to be frustrating. Needs are going to be unmet. When those things occur, we need to know how to respond properly or else things will get worse. We aren't trained on how to handle conflict well so inevitably we handle it poorly. In this new episode on the Dr. Wyatt Show I discuss how I handle conflicts in my marriage. Listen in to see if any of these ideas could work for you. 🚨ER MARRIAGE INTENSIVE- My best program to resolve your resentments quickly. Learn more about my ER Marriage Intensive here!🎉COLORADO MARRIAGE RETREAT- If you want to get away and spend some quality time together while learning from me all day, attend my marriage retreat in Colorado 3/29/25. Learn more here!Here's the article referenced in the episode on my tool for conflict resolution. Support the showFOLLOW me on social for FREE daily tips!FacebookInstagramYouTubeTikTok

📢SHARE WITH OTHERS!Interested in my marriage conference in Florida on 2/23/25 to resolve your resentments and rekindle your love? Learn more about the marriage retreat here to sign-up!Emotional intimacy is a mysterious topic for many partners.What is it?Why do you need it?How do you provide it?If this topic has interested or confused you in the past, you're going to appreciate this new episode on the Dr. Wyatt Show Podcast. In it, I explore what it is, why you need it, and how to get more of it. I also share how it's a top need for my wife and how I've had to work at providing it because it doesn't come natural to me. Email your comments and questions to [email protected] out some other resources below!Best Marriage IntensivesER Marriage IntensiveRelationship Coach Los AngelesRelationship Coach CertificationSupport the showFOLLOW me on social for FREE daily tips!FacebookInstagramYouTubeTikTok

✏️PLEASE LEAVE A REVIEW!Ready to move your marriage from roommates back to lovers? Join my most comprehensive resource to rebuild your relationship in 90 days. Learn more about my ER Marriage Intensive here!Thinking about couples therapy but not sure what to expect?Heard both good things and negative things about couples therapy?Need support but feel apprehensive?You're not alone.Many couples need help but aren't sure what to think about couples therapy.The truth is that couples therapy often includes the good, the bad, and the ugly. In this new episode on the Dr. Wyatt Show podcast I discuss all three. That way, you can get a full picture of what to expect. Support the showFOLLOW me on social for FREE daily tips!FacebookInstagramYouTubeTikTok