Dressed Up Mess

I never understood why finances, or lack thereof could cause people to take some of the actions they do...until now.

Processing the death of a beloved TV character and what that show meant to my life.

I have strong opinions about the sanctity of marriage and this situation with Will and Jada. The opinions expressed are my own.

Did I fumble the bag or was I practicing self-preservation? There have been plenty of opportunities to be in relationships with men I was interested in, but for some reason I would always run. Lately, I've been trying to dig deep and figure out why. Come along as I talk through it. Maybe you can offer some insight.

I just finished watching The Best Man: The Final Chapters and I have to give my honest opinion.

Today, I'm sharing a little more about the "mess" behind my "dress." Stephen 'tWITCH' Boss' suicide triggered me and I'm sharing my thoughts about it. Share yours.

I always knew I would be devastated when I lost my mom, but I had no idea the grief would be so overwhelming...

This episode recounts my recent experience with a Black man that brought up emotions from the past of being manipulated, targeted, not prioritized, taken for a fool and just plain lied to because he thought he could get away with it. Thank God for decent men and please note my disclaimer at the beginning of the episode.

Two things everyone has – a butt crack and an opinion. Just because someone else's business is none if our business is no reason to stop us from having, and voicing our opinions. And this hot topic right here is no exception. The hot topic of Lori Harvey and Michael B. Jordan ending their relationship has social up in arms and who even knows if the information is correct? Anyway, that makes it a dressed up mess for me...and we sip...or in this case...talk.

There are billions of people in this world to date. What circumstances would make it okay to date your friend's ex?

Don't insult my intelligence. Be honest, forthright and accountable. It's the only way.

#PresidentBiden had a decision to make and he made it. Whether you agree or not, something had to be done. Now hopefully we can focus on home and take better care of ourselves.

We lost an American icon in Chadwick Boseman. During his time here, one of the main subjects that he discussed in interviews and acceptance speeches was "purpose." Let's talk about it.

The mess of the week is Tim Norman, son of Sweetie Pies mogul Robbie Montgomery, who was arrested on August 11, 2020 for allegedly conspiring in a murder-for-hire scheme that resulted in the death of his nephew.

Independence day for our white counterparts hits different since the murder of George Floyd and Minister Louis Farrakhan help bring that message home in what felt like the last message he will deliver before he dies.

I'm peeling back the layers, I'm drilling down baby! Where on earth does this need for validation come from? What makes this a part of 'love language'?