Ellis Ever After

The oldest Ellis king is going to high school! And everything is about to change. In this episode, The Ellises discuss with the crew what that should prepare for as their son goes into high school. Dead Ass. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Our parents harped on the idea of going to college as a means to success. But is college really worth the debt these days? In this episode, Khadeen, Devale, Matt, Josh and Tribble discuss the pros and cons. Dead Ass.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

As our parents age, we have to teach them the new things that we've learned as adults. Like how to leverage your retirement, how to stay fit and healthy, and how to spot AI scams! Dead Ass. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

The grands are moving out! In this episode, Khadeen & Devale discuss their decision to get Khadeen's parents their own crib. Dead Ass.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

You already know what time it is! The Ellises and the crew give their best advice to listener questions. Dead Ass. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

2026 has been nothing short of eventful. In this episode, Khadeen, Devale, Matt, Josh and Tribble discuss their favorite pop culture moments of 2026 so far. Dead Ass.  Watch the full video version early on Patreon! Go to https://Patreon.com/EllisEverAfter to see the After Show and more exclusive Ellis Ever After video content. And find us on social media at @EllisEverAfterPodcast, @khadeeniam and @iamdevale, @joshua_dwain @_matt.ellis, @tribbzthecool. And if you’re listening on Apple podcasts, be sure to rate, review and subscribe. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

When it comes to having a career that you love, it doesn't always come easy. In this epsiode, the Ellises and the crew discuss how they got it out the mud to get where they are. Dead Ass.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

The kids are growing up with more technology than we did. How do we teach them how to be good people with all of the outside influence they have access to? In this episode, the Ellises and the crew talk about teaching their kids beyond the classroom. Dead Ass! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

It's been a while since the Ellises talked about sex. In this episode, Khadeen, Devale and the crew discuss how their sex lives have changed with age and experience. Dead Ass. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

When Khadeen's father was diagnosed with cancer, the Ellises didn't know what to expect. In this episode, Khadeen and Devale discuss what they thought, how they felt and what they did to help Papa beat cancer. Dead Ass.  Watch the full video version early on Patreon! Go to https://Patreon.com/EllisEverAfter to see the After Show and more exclusive Ellis Ever After video content. And find us on social media at @EllisEverAfterPodcast, @khadeeniam and @iamdevale, @joshua_dwain @_matt.ellis, @tribbzthecool. And if you’re listening on Apple podcasts, be sure to rate, review and subscribe. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Your favorite podcast is back! In this episode, the Ellises and the crew discuss why this 6 week hiatus was much needed for everyone. Dead Ass.  Watch the full video version early on Patreon! Go to https://Patreon.com/EllisEverAfter to see the After Show and more exclusive Ellis Ever After video content. And find us on social media at @EllisEverAfterPodcast, @khadeniam and @iamdevale, @joshua_dwain @_matt.ellis, @tribbzthecool. And if you’re listening on Apple podcasts, be sure to rate, review and subscribe. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Beyonce is the latest to reach billionaire status and the people have mixed feelings. In this episode, The Ellises and the crew discuss what they would do if they had a billy. Dead Ass. Watch the full video version early on Patreon! Go to https://Patreon.com/EllisEverAfter to see the After Show and more exclusive Ellis Ever After video content. And find us on social media at @EllisEverAfterPodcast, @khadeeniam and @iamdevale, @joshua_dwain @_matt.ellis, @tribbzthecool. And if you’re listening on Apple podcasts, be sure to rate, review and subscribe. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

When you love someone, the measure isn't how much you fight, but how well you fight. Conflict is inevitable, how you handle it is impactful. Dead Ass. Watch the full video version early on Patreon! Go to https://Patreon.com/EllisEverAfter to see the After Show and more exclusive Ellis Ever After video content. And find us on social media at @EllisEverAfterPodcast, @khadeeniam and @iamdevale, @joshua_dwain @_matt.ellis, @tribbzthecool. And if you’re listening on Apple podcasts, be sure to rate, review and subscribe. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

The future is here! And the sentiments around AI are varied. In this episode, the Ellises and the crew discuss their thoughts on AI, technology and what's next. Dead Ass.  Watch the full video version early on Patreon! Go to https://Patreon.com/EllisEverAfter to see the After Show and more exclusive Ellis Ever After video content. And find us on social media at @EllisEverAfterPodcast, @khadeeniam and @iamdevale, @joshua_dwain @_matt.ellis, @tribbzthecool. And if you’re listening on Apple podcasts, be sure to rate, review and subscribe. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

If you're an OG listener, you've definitely hear Devale say that it takes one thousand muscle movements to become muscle memory. In this episode, the Ellises and the crew talk about what moves they made to become experts in their fields. Dead Ass.  Watch the full video version early on Patreon! Go to https://Patreon.com/EllisEverAfter to see the After Show and more exclusive Ellis Ever After video content. And find us on social media at @EllisEverAfterPodcast, @khadeeniam and @iamdevale, @joshua_dwain @_matt.ellis, @tribbzthecool. And if you’re listening on Apple podcasts, be sure to rate, review and subscribe. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

The best way to ensure your own happiness? Gratitude. In this episode, the Ellises and the crew discuss what role gratitude plays in their success. Dead Ass.  Watch the full video version early on Patreon! Go to https://Patreon.com/EllisEverAfter to see the After Show and more exclusive Ellis Ever After video content. And find us on social media at @EllisEverAfterPodcast, @khadeeniam and @iamdevale, @joshua_dwain @_matt.ellis, @tribbzthecool. And if you’re listening on Apple podcasts, be sure to rate, review and subscribe. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

The kids are growing up! And those teenage years are not for the weak! In this episode, The Ellises and the crew discuss the thrills and chills of teenage hormones. Dead Ass. Watch the full video version early on Patreon! Go to https://Patreon.com/EllisEverAfter to see the After Show and more exclusive Ellis Ever After video content. And find us on social media at @EllisEverAfterPodcast, @khadeeniam and @iamdevale, @joshua_dwain, @_matt.ellis, @tribbzthecool. And if you’re listening on Apple podcasts, be sure to rate, review and subscribe. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

When you're the person that everyone comes to when they need help, who do you go to? In this episode, the Ellises and the crew discuss how it feels to be strong for everyone else. Dead Ass.  Watch the full video version early on Patreon! Go to https://Patreon.com/EllisEverAfter to see the After Show and more exclusive Ellis Ever After video content. And find us on social media at @EllisEverAfterPodcast, @khadeeniam and @iamdevale, @joshua_dwain , @_matt.ellis , @tribbzthecool. And if you’re listening on Apple podcasts, be sure to rate, review and subscribe.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

2025 is coming to a close and we're proud of all the things we accomplished and survived this year. It wasn't an easy year, but we made it. In this episode, the Ellises and the crew review their 2025. Dead Ass. Watch the full video version early on Patreon! Go to https://Patreon.com/EllisEverAfter to see the After Show and more exclusive Ellis Ever After video content. And find us on social media at @EllisEverAfterPodcast, @khadeniam and @iamdevale, @joshua_dwain @_matt.ellis, @tribbzthecool. And if you’re listening on Apple podcasts, be sure to rate, review and subscribe. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

It's our last episode of 2025 and you already know we had to get in y'alls business once again! In this episode, Khadeen, Devale, Matt, Josh and Tribble answer your questions and give some unhinged advice. Dead Ass.  Watch the full video version early on Patreon! Go to https://Patreon.com/EllisEverAfter to see the After Show and more exclusive Ellis Ever After video content. And find us on social media at @EllisEverAfterPodcast, @khadeeniam and @iamdevale, @joshua_dwain @_matt.ellis, @tribbzthecool. And if you’re listening on Apple podcasts, be sure to rate, review and subscribe.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Hurricane Melissa devastated the island of Jamaica beyond belief. And while the people on the island are struggling to rebuild, leaning on community for aid and support is more important than ever. The Ellises and the Crew discuss what they've been doing to support Jamaica. Dedicated to the memory of Jamaica's Consul General to New York, Lady Alsion Marie Wilson.   Watch the full video version early on Patreon! Go to https://Patreon.com/EllisEverAfter to see the After Show and more exclusive Ellis Ever After video content. And find us on social media at @EllisEverAfterPodcast, @khadeeniam and @iamdevale, @joshua_dwain @_matt.ellis, @tribbzthecool. And if you’re listening on Apple podcasts, be sure to rate, review and subscribe.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Ellis Ever After InfoWe all have hormones. But do we know how they affect us? And most importantly, do we know how they affect our spouses? The Ellises and the crew talk about hormones, peri-menopause and how to live through it all. Dead Ass.   Watch the full video version early on Patreon! Go to https://Patreon.com/EllisEverAfter to see the After Show and more exclusive Ellis Ever After video content. And find us on social media at @EllisEverAfterPodcast, @khadeeniam and @iamdevale, @joshua_dwain @_matt.ellis, @tribbzthecool. And if you’re listening on Apple podcasts, be sure to rate, review and subscribe.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Tragedy struck the Ellis family when Papa suddenly had a stroke. The Ellises and the crew discuss what saved his life. Dead Ass. Watch the full video version early on Patreon! Go to https://Patreon.com/EllisEverAfter to see the After Show and more exclusive Ellis Ever After video content. And find us on social media at @EllisEverAfterPodcast, @khadeeniam and @iamdevale, @joshua_dwain @_matt.ellis, @tribbzthecool. And if you’re listening on Apple podcasts, be sure to rate, review and subscribe.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

It's game night! Khadeen, Devale, Matt, Josh and Tribble get down and dirty with some fun games that reveal some big secrets! Dead Ass. Watch the full video version early on Patreon! Go to https://Patreon.com/EllisEverAfter to see the After Show and more exclusive Ellis Ever After video content. And find us on social media at @EllisEverAfterPodcast, @khadeeniam and @iamdevale, @joshua_dwain @_matt.ellis, @tribbzthecool. And if you’re listening on Apple podcasts, be sure to rate, review and subscribe.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

What steps do you take to keep your creativity alive? In this episode, the Ellises and the crew discuss their own practices. Dead Ass. Watch the full video version early on Patreon! Go to https://Patreon.com/EllisEverAfter to see the After Show and more exclusive Ellis Ever After video content. And find us on social media at @EllisEverAfterPodcast, @khadeeniam and @iamdevale, @joshua_dwain @_matt.ellis, @tribbzthecool. And if you’re listening on Apple podcasts, be sure to rate, review and subscribe.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

What does it take to be hot all around? The Ellises and the crew define Hot 360. Dead Ass. Watch the full video version early on Patreon! Go to https://Patreon.com/EllisEverAfter to see the After Show and more exclusive Ellis Ever After video content. And find us on social media at @EllisEverAfterPodcast, @khadeeniam and @iamdevale, @joshua_dwain @_matt.ellis, @tribbzthecool. And if you’re listening on Apple podcasts, be sure to rate, review and subscribe.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

You can't truly know the world, if you haven't seen the world. In this episode, Khadeen, Devale, Matt, Josh and Tribble discuss the importance of travel. Because nothing beats a jet 2 holiday. Dead Ass.  Watch the full video version early on Patreon! Go to https://Patreon.com/EllisEverAfter to see the After Show and more exclusive Ellis Ever After video content. And find us on social media at @EllisEverAfterPodcast, @khadeeniam and @iamdevale, @joshua_dwain @_matt.ellis, @tribbzthecool. And if you’re listening on Apple podcasts, be sure to rate, review and subscribe.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

The old saying goes, you are the company you keep. So if the people around you aren't growing, how can you grow too? In this episode, the Ellises and the crew talk about how to change the people around you, if you can't change the people around you.  Watch the full video version early on Patreon! Go to https://Patreon.com/EllisEverAfter to see the After Show and more exclusive Ellis Ever After video content. And find us on social media at @EllisEverAfterPodcast, @khadeeniam and @iamdevale, @joshua_dwain @_matt.ellis, @tribbzthecool. And if you’re listening on Apple podcasts, be sure to rate, review and subscribe.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

After turning 40, Khadeen and Devale have put extra attention on their physical health. In this episode, the Ellises discuss the 5 small changes they made that have made them feel their best. Dead Ass. Watch the full video version early on Patreon!  Go to https://Patreon.com/EllisEverAfter to see the After Show and more exclusive Ellis Ever After video content. And find us on social media at @EllisEverAfterPodcast, @khadeeniam and @iamdevale, @joshua_dwain @_matt.ellis, @tribbzthecool. And if you’re listening on Apple podcasts, be sure to rate, review and subscribe.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Breaking generational curses just means not doing what our parents did. That can be as big as how we reprimand our kids. And as small as how we spend time together. In this episode, the Ellises and the crew discuss hwo they are changing traditions for their families. Dead Ass.  Watch the full video version early on Patreon! Go to https://Patreon.com/EllisEverAfter to see the After Show and more exclusive Ellis Ever After video content. And find us on social media at @EllisEverAfterPodcast, @khadeeniam and @iamdevale, @joshua_dwain @_matt.ellis, @tribbzthecool. And if you’re listening on Apple podcasts, be sure to rate, review and subscribe.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

We all need a little help sometimes. The trouble comes when we don't ask for it. In this episode, the Ellises and the crew talk about how to ask for help when we need it. Dead Ass. Watch the full video version early on Patreon! Go to https://Patreon.com/EllisEverAfter to see the After Show and more exclusive Ellis Ever After video content. And find us on social media at @EllisEverAfterPodcast, @khadeeniam and @iamdevale, @joshua_dwain @_matt.ellis, @tribbzthecool. And if you’re listening on Apple podcasts, be sure to rate, review and subscribe.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

As aging millennials, we're all getting to the midlife point where we start to question the rigidity of our lives.The choices we've made because other people said we should. The people and things we've prioritized over our own joy. But before we breakdown, maybe we should break up with people's expectations and live the way we truly want to. In this episode, the Ellises and the crew discuss why midlife ain't a crisis. Dead ass. Watch the full video version early on Patreon! Go to https://Patreon.com/EllisEverAfter to see the After Show and more exclusive Ellis Ever After video content. And find us on social media at @EllisEverAfterPodcast, @khadeeniam and @iamdevale, @joshua_dwain @_matt.ellis, @tribbzthecool. And if you’re listening on Apple podcasts, be sure to rate, review and subscribe.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Sometimes it takes more than just the routine with your kids. Time well spent can really change things for the better. In this episode, the Ellises and the crew discuss how they've leveled up their parenting with intent. Dead Ass. Watch the full video version early on Patreon! Go to https://Patreon.com/EllisEverAfter to see the After Show and more exclusive Ellis Ever After video content. And find us on social media at @EllisEverAfterPodcast, @khadeniam and @iamdevale, @joshua_dwain @_matt.ellis, @tribbzthecool. And if you’re listening on Apple podcasts, be sure to rate, review and subscribe.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

What is your purpose? Can you say with certainty what you are here to do? Without talking about your career or what makes you money? The Ellises and the crew talk purpose, passion and living well in this episode. Dead Ass.  Watch the full video version early on Patreon! Go to https://Patreon.com/EllisEverAfter to see the After Show and more exclusive Ellis Ever After video content. And find us on social media at @EllisEverAfterPodcast, @khadeniam and @iamdevale, @joshua_dwain @_matt.ellis, @tribbzthecool. And if you’re listening on Apple podcasts, be sure to rate, review and subscribe. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

It's time for our favorite part of the show...Listener Letters! And this time we've got more noses all up in your business. Dead Ass. Watch the full video version early on Patreon! Go to https://Patreon.com/EllisEverAfter to see the After Show and more exclusive Ellis Ever After video content. And find us on social media at @EllisEverAfterPodcast, @khadeniam and @iamdevale, @joshua_dwain @_matt.ellis, @tribbzthecool. And if you’re listening on Apple podcasts, be sure to rate, review and subscribe. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Growing up Black, no matter where you're from, it seems like we all had the same experiences. In this episode, the Ellises and the crew talk about the Blackisms we grew up with. Dead Ass. Watch the full video version early on Patreon! Go to https://Patreon.com/EllisEverAfter to see the After Show and more exclusive Ellis Ever After video content. And find us on social media at @EllisEverAfterPodcast, @khadeniam and @iamdevale, @joshua_dwain @_matt.ellis, @tribbzthecool. And if you’re listening on Apple podcasts, be sure to rate, review and subscribe. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

What makes you feel wanted? The answer can be different for men and women. Khadeen, Devale, Matt, Josh and Tribble discuss desire in this episode. Dead Ass. Watch the full video version early on Patreon! Go to https://Patreon.com/EllisEverAfter to see the After Show and more exclusive Ellis Ever After video content. And find us on social media at @EllisEverAfterPodcast, @khadeniam and @iamdevale, @joshua_dwain @_matt.ellis, @tribbzthecool. And if you’re listening on Apple podcasts, be sure to rate, review and subscribe. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

When it comes to the 50/50 conversation, we know that nothing in life or relationships is truly equal. So how do you manage power dynamics in love, work and relationships, so that nobody feels like they're getting the short end of the stick? The Ellises and the crew talk about how to make things truly fair in love and war. Dead Ass. Watch the full video version early on Patreon! Go to https://Patreon.com/EllisEverAfter to see the After Show and more exclusive Ellis Ever After video content. And find us on social media at @EllisEverAfterPodcast, @khadeniam and @iamdevale, @joshua_dwain @_matt.ellis, @tribbzthecool. And if you’re listening on Apple podcasts, be sure to rate, review and subscribe. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

All money ain't good money, so how do you make yours? And when you got it, what you do with it says a lot about your values. In this episode, the Ellises and the crew talk about what they think it means to be rich and ethical. Like my girl Diamond from The Player's Club said "make the money, don't let it make you." Dead Ass. Watch the full video version early on Patreon! Go to https://Patreon.com/EllisEverAfter to see the After Show and more exclusive Ellis Ever After video content. And find us on social media at @EllisEverAfterPodcast, @khadeniam and @iamdevale, @joshua_dwain @_matt.ellis, @tribbzthecool. And if you’re listening on Apple podcasts, be sure to rate, review and subscribe. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

When it comes to conflict, crashing out may not always be the best way to handle it. But when is crashing out necessary? Or is it ever? The Ellises and the crew discuss. Watch the full video version early on Patreon! Go to https://Patreon.com/EllisEverAfter to see the After Show and more exclusive Ellis Ever After video content. And find us on social media at @EllisEverAfterPodcast, @khadeniam and @iamdevale, @joshua_dwain @_matt.ellis, @tribbzthecool. And if you’re listening on Apple podcasts, be sure to rate, review and subscribe. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Trying to do your best is always a good thing. Until it keeps you from doing anything at all. The Ellises and the crew discuss when perfectionism is low key self-doubt. Watch the full video version early on Patreon! Go to https://Patreon.com/EllisEverAfter to see the After Show and more exclusive Ellis Ever After video content. And find us on social media at @EllisEverAfterPodcast, @khadeniam and @iamdevale, @joshua_dwain @_matt.ellis, @tribbzthecool. And if you’re listening on Apple podcasts, be sure to rate, review and subscribe. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

We've all heard the terms "Black excellence" and "Black power", but what is the difference between the two? In this episode, Khadeen, Devale, Josh, Matt and Tribble discuss it. What do you think? Watch the full video version early on Patreon! Go to https://Patreon.com/EllisEverAfter to see the After Show and more exclusive Ellis Ever After video content. And find us on social media at @EllisEverAfterPodcast, @khadeniam and @iamdevale, @joshua_dwain @_matt.ellis, @tribbzthecool. And if you’re listening on Apple podcasts, be sure to rate, review and subscribe. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

When it comes to being Black in America, the hoops we have to jump through just to be recognized as worthy are ever changing. But do you think code switching is harmful or necessary for Black excellence? The Ellises and the crew give their opinions in this episode, Dead Ass. Watch the full video version early on Patreon! Go to https://Patreon.com/EllisEverAfter to see the After Show and more exclusive Ellis Ever After video content. And find us on social media at @EllisEverAfterPodcast, @khadeniam and @iamdevale, @joshua_dwain @_matt.ellis, @tribbzthecool. And if you’re listening on Apple podcasts, be sure to rate, review and subscribe. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Watch the full video version early on Patreon! Go to https://Patreon.com/EllisEverAfter to see the After Show and more exclusive Ellis Ever After video content. And find us on social media at @EllisEverAfterPodcast, @khadeniam and @iamdevale, @joshua_dwain @_matt.ellis, @tribbzthecool. And if you’re listening on Apple podcasts, be sure to rate, review and subscribe. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

What do you do when you're tired, worn out, at your max? Do you keep pushing through the stress? Do you take a break to recharge? Or do you even notice when you're on the verge of burnout? In this episode, The Ellises and the gang talk about burnout. How it feels to be tired and ambitious. Dead Ass. Watch the full video version early on Patreon! Go to https://Patreon.com/EllisEverAfter to see the After Show and more exclusive Ellis Ever After video content. And find us on social media at @EllisEverAfterPodcast, @khadeniam and @iamdevale, @joshua_dwain @_matt.ellis, @tribbzthecool. And if you’re listening on Apple podcasts, be sure to rate, review and subscribe.   See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

We always talk about legacy and what we want to leave behind in. But beyond generational wealth, what does legacy really mean? In this episde, the Ellises talk about what wisdom they hope to impart on their four boys, and the crew joins in on the conversation. #DeadAss.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

The old saying goes, you cannot receive with a closed fist. And when we hold onto the people, habits, and feelings that are no longer serving us, we miss out on the blessings that are meant for us. In this episode, Khadeen and Devale chat with the crew about being on their Queen Elsa ish...letting go. #DeadAssSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

As we get older and our lives change, so do our relationships and the requirements we have for them. In this episode, the Ellises chat with the crew about what friendship looks like for them at their big big ages. #DeadAssSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

We're baaaaaaacckkkk! And things are a little different. A new name, a new look, and a few new voices. But it's always and forever #DeadAss! In this episode, Khadeen, Devale and the crew talk about the changes ahead for the podcast, and what they're looking forward to in this new season.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

The podcast formerly known as Dead Ass with Khadeen and Devale Ellis is now Ellis Ever After. The same great conversations with more knowledge, more opinions and more voices. Listen to full episodes of Ellis Ever After starting April 16th. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.