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Is anybody still dating? Nearly half of U.S. adults are unpartnered, but that doesn't mean they're all out there swiping. On this episode, Jessica, Ariele, and cultural chatteress Kathleen sit down to talk about what's actually happening in the current dating landscape — the stats, the shifts, and the very online terms (looking at you, "alpine divorce") that are shaping how people feel about putting themselves out there. We go there on the hard parts first: red pill manipulation tactics, dating app burnout, and what it means to build felt safety with someone new — including an honest conversation about how race and fetishization show up in dating for women of color. But we don't stop in the bad. We flip it and talk about what's genuinely good about dating: what it teaches you about yourself, why dating yourself matters just as much as dating anyone else, and why long-term partners need to keep dating each other, too. And because we can't be serious the whole time, we close it out with a new segment — What Kind of Dater Are You? — to help you figure out your dating type once and for all. This one's for the folks actively swiping, the folks who took a step back, the folks who are happily partnered and want to keep the spark alive, and the folks who are just here for the tea. In this episode: What the current dating statistics actually say about who's out there — and who's opted out Red pill tactics and how manipulation shows up in early dating "Alpine divorce" — the viral term behind the trend, and what it signals about safety Dating app fatigue and the pull back toward in-person, community-based connection Race, fetishization, and the dating experience for women of color Felt safety: what to notice about how someone shows up when things get inconvenient The upside of dating: what it teaches you about yourself Dating yourself: pleasure, self-compassion, and enjoying your own company Keeping the romance alive when you're already partnered New segment: What Kind of Dater Are You? (coffee house, fancy restaurant, diner, brunch, or activity dater)   🌧️ Jessica's Cozy Book Nook "After the Rain: Gentle Reminders for Healing, Courage, and Self-Love" by Alexandra Elle Whether you're dating yourself this season or working on staying present with a long-term partner, this one's a gentle companion either way — its short chapters and end-of-chapter meditations make it easy to dip into for a few minutes of reflection on self-love and self-forgiveness, no matter where you are in your dating journey.   🪞 Reflection What kind of dating season are you in right now: dating others, dating yourself, dating your partner, taking a pause, or redefining what connection means for you?   💛 Support the Show If this episode resonated with you, subscribe to Emboldened with Jessica, leave a review, and share it with someone navigating dating, relationships, self-discovery, or personal growth. Every share and review helps more people find their way to this table — and keeps this community growing. ☕ Support the podcast: https://buymeacoffee.com/emboldenedwithjessica   This podcast is for educational and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for therapy, counseling, or other mental health services provided by a licensed professional.   🎙️ Show Credits Host: Jessica Jackson Cohost: Ariele Produced by: Ariele & Jessica Edited by: Ariele Cultural Chatterist: Kathleen Onyejekwe   Sources: Dating and partnership statistics referenced in this episode draw on Pew Research Center's ongoing analysis of unpartnered U.S. adults.

In this milestone 25th episode of Emboldened with Jessica, Jessica, Ariele, special guests Bri and Monse explore the viral phrase "Delulu is the Solulu" through the lens of psychology, nervous system science, identity, and radical self-belief.  Together, we unpack why confidence sometimes feels uncomfortable, how internal validation changes the way we move through the world, and what happens when we stop waiting for permission before building the lives we want. This conversation explores entrepreneurship, life transitions, self-trust, relationships, identity shifts, and the science behind believing in yourself before external validation catches up. Because sometimes the thing that looks "delusional" is simply believing you deserve more.   The group explores: why self-belief changes the way we move through the world the neuroscience behind confidence and internal validation navigating fear, visibility, and imposter syndrome identity shifts and becoming the version of yourself you imagine the difference between fantasy, manifestation, and grounded self-trust why community matters when building a new life Through humor, storytelling, and honest reflection, this episode invites listeners to examine the narratives shaping their lives—and what becomes possible when we stop waiting for permission to believe in ourselves. 💛 Support the Show If this episode resonated with you, there are a few meaningful ways you can support Emboldened with Jessica: 🎧 Subscribe to the podcast on your favorite listening platform so you never miss an episode ⭐ Rate and review the show—this helps more people find these conversations 💌 Share this episode with someone you think would appreciate it ☕ Support the podcast financially by leaving a tip to help cover production costs: 👉 https://buymeacoffee.com/emboldenedwithjessica Your listening, sharing, and support help sustain this space—thank you for being here.   🎙️ Show Credits Host: Jessica Jackson Cohost: Ariele Cultural Chatterist: Kathleen Onyejekwe Special Guest: Bri & Monse Produced by: Ariele & Jessica  Edited by: Ariele    

We were taught that if we followed the steps — work hard, get the degree, build the career — life would fall into place. For many people, that hasn't happened. In this episode, Jessica, Ariele, and Kathleen explore what it means to outgrow the timelines and expectations we were given before we even knew ourselves — and how deeply those expectations are tied to productivity, work, and identity. Drawing from current labor statistics, cultural shifts, and lived experience, this conversation names a reality many are quietly navigating: the path we were promised has changed — and for some, it was never built for us to begin with.   In this episode, we explore: Why traditional life timelines no longer match today's economic and social realities The impact of job instability, layoffs, and shifting labor markets How productivity and career became central to identity Decentering work and asking: who am I outside of what I do? The pressure to "prove yourself" in your 20s — and the cost of that mindset Releasing inherited expectations around success, relationships, and adulthood The rise of "micro-retirements" and rethinking rest Why success doesn't have a fixed timeline — and often happens later than we're told How comparison (especially through social media) distorts our sense of progress 💛 Support the Show If this episode resonated with you, there are a few meaningful ways you can support Emboldened with Jessica: 🎧 Subscribe to the podcast on your favorite listening platform so you never miss an episode ⭐ Rate and review the show—this helps more people find these conversations 💌 Share this episode with someone you think would appreciate it ☕ Support the podcast financially by leaving a tip to help cover production costs: 👉 https://buymeacoffee.com/emboldenedwithjessica Your listening, sharing, and support help sustain this space—thank you for being here.     🎙️ Show Credits Host: Jessica Jackson Produced by: Ariele & Jessica  Edited by: Ariele Cultural Chatterist: Kathleen Onyejekwe

Loneliness is rising worldwide. In this episode, Jessica explores why connection feels harder today and how intentional gathering can rebuild community. In this conversation, Jessica explores the growing loneliness epidemic and the role community plays in helping people process stress, uncertainty, and collective change. Drawing inspiration from The Art of Gathering, Jessica reflects on how hosting and gathering have evolved in a world shaped by chronic stress, chronic illness awareness, neurodivergence visibility, and shifting social energy. Rather than focusing on perfect events, this episode invites listeners to think about gatherings as spaces where people can feel supported, seen, and able to show up as they are. The episode also welcomes back Kathleen Onyejekwe, who helped launch the podcast alongside Jessica and Ariele and now returns as Creative Strategist, helping guide the next chapter of Emboldened with Jessica. If you've been craving deeper connection or wondering how to build meaningful community right now, this conversation offers thoughtful reflection and practical ways to gather with care and intention.   In This Episode We Discuss • the loneliness epidemic and why connection feels harder today • how intentional gatherings can strengthen community • hosting in ways that support neurodivergent and sensory-sensitive guests • creating welcoming spaces for immunocompromised or cautious attendees • how gathering can help people process uncertainty and reconnect   Jessica's Cozy Book Nook 📚 The Art of Gathering — Priya Parker Practical and thoughtful guidance on how intentional gatherings create belonging, depth, and shared meaning — far beyond just getting people in the same room. Find it here: https://bookshop.org/shop/Emboldenedwithjessica You can also explore it through your local library.   💛 Support the Show If this episode resonated with you, there are a few meaningful ways you can support Emboldened with Jessica: 🎧 Subscribe to the podcast on your favorite listening platform so you never miss an episode ⭐ Rate and review the show—this helps more people find these conversations 💌 Share this episode with someone you think would appreciate it ☕ Support the podcast financially by leaving a tip to help cover production costs: 👉 https://buymeacoffee.com/emboldenedwithjessica Your listening, sharing, and support help sustain this space—thank you for being here.   🎙️ Show Credits Host: Jessica Jackson Produced by: Ariele & Jessica  Edited by: Ariele Cultural Chatterist: Kathleen Onyejekwe  

Personal growth often begins when we decide to choose ourselves. In this Season 3 reflection, Jessica explores healing, life transitions, and the courage it takes to redefine your path. Jessica and Ariele take time to look back on the conversations, lessons, and moments that shaped Season 3—a season centered on healing, boundaries, identity, and choosing ourselves with more honesty and care. From exploring softness as a foundational human need to unpacking family estrangement, modern dating, purity culture, child-free living, entrepreneurship, friendship dynamics, and major life transitions, this season held space for the real, the tender, and the complicated parts of being human. Jessica reflects on what it means to choose yourself in a world that often asks us to abandon our needs, bodies, and boundaries—and how this season invited listeners to move toward more presence, more honesty, and more agency in their lives and relationships. This episode is both a celebration and a pause—a chance to honor the growth that's happened, the conversations that lingered, and the community that continues to make this podcast what it is. We also share a few behind-the-scenes reflections, listener-favorite moments, and a sneak peek at what's coming in Season 4, where we'll dive into conversations about how being delulu has its benefits, the loneliness epidemic, belonging, and how we rebuild connection in a disconnected world. This season reminded us that healing isn't linear, growth doesn't need to be externally dictated, and choosing yourself is a daily, gentle self-embrace. Thank you for walking alongside us this season. Until next season—stay Emboldened.   We appreciate you!  Thank you for listening, sharing episodes, leaving reviews, and being part of this growing community. This podcast continues because of you.     Let's Stay Connected ⭐ Rate and review the podcast on your favorite platform 📲 Follow the new Instagram page: @EmboldenedwithJessica 💌 Share an episode with someone who will enjoy it     ☕ Support the Podcast If you'd like to support the show and help cover production costs, you can leave a tip here: 👉 https://buymeacoffee.com/emboldenedwithjessica

Choosing a child-free life is becoming a more visible path in modern adulthood. In this episode, Jessica, Ariele, and Kathleen Onyejekwe explore identity, legacy, and fulfillment beyond parenthood. In this episode of Emboldened with Jessica, Jessica Jackson and Ariele sit down with Kathleen Onyejekwe to explore what it means to live child-free—by choice, by circumstance, or simply for now. Together they discuss cultural expectations around motherhood, the unique pressures often placed on Black women, and how fulfillment, partnership, and legacy can be defined outside of parenting. This conversation holds space for both the freedom and the grief that can accompany different reproductive paths, while inviting listeners to imagine lives rooted in intention, joy, and self-defined success.   In This Episode We Discuss • what it means to live child-free by choice or circumstance • cultural expectations around motherhood and caregiving • the pressure placed on women—especially Black women—to nurture others • grief and healing when life timelines shift • redefining legacy, fulfillment, and womanhood   Connect with Our Guest Kathleen Onyejekwe Leader, strategist, and advocate for living with intention, joy, and self-defined success.   Reflection How do cultural expectations shape the way we imagine adulthood, legacy, and fulfillment?   💛 Support the Show 📲 Follow @EmboldenedWithJessica on IG, TikTok & YouTube ⭐ Rate and review the show—this helps more people find these conversations 💗 Want to support the show? Leave a review or drop a tip here:  Buy Me A Coffee   🎙️ Show Credits Host: Jessica Jackson Produced by: Ariele & Jessica  Edited by: Ariele Special Guest: Kathleen Onyejekwe  

Purity culture has shaped how many people experience shame, sexuality, and body autonomy—especially within religious environments. In this episode, Jessica explores the lasting harms of purity culture and how healing, pleasure, and self-trust can be reclaimed. Purity culture has left deep scars—especially for people of the global majority, women, queer folks, and those navigating the intersections of religion, culture, and colonialism.  Jessica breaks down how purity culture isn't just a 1990s evangelical trend—it has roots in colonial control, patriarchy, and the policing of marginalized bodies.   You'll hear trauma-informed insights, somatic healing practices, and compassionate tools to help you release shame, reconnect with desire, and reclaim your pleasure. ✨ If you've struggled with shame around your body, desire, or relationships, or you're supporting someone who has, this episode offers resources, reflection prompts, and hope for a more embodied, liberated life.   ✨ Topics we cover: What purity culture is and how it extends beyond white evangelicalism How it uniquely impacts BIPOC, Asian, and Latine communities through colonialism The hidden harms: shame, sexual disconnection, and silencing of desire Somatic + body-based practices for healing How caregivers can teach consent to protect kids from purity culture's harm Steps toward reclaiming pleasure, autonomy, and embodied freedom   📚 Jessica's Cozy Book Nook Books referenced in this episode are thoughtfully curated to support healing, sexual health education, and reclaiming bodily autonomy. You can explore these titles through Emboldened with Jessica's Bookshop, or access them through your local library. Recovering from Purity Culture: Dismantle the Myths, Reject Shame-Based Sexuality, and Move Forward in Your Faith by Camden Morgante A compassionate and practical guide for unpacking purity culture, releasing shame, and rebuilding a healthier relationship with faith, sexuality, and self-trust. The Vagina Bible by Dr. Jen Gunter A science-based, myth-busting resource that offers clear, affirming information about vulvovaginal health and bodily literacy. Becoming Cliterate by Laurie Mintz An accessible and affirming exploration of pleasure, desire, and closing the pleasure gap through education and self-awareness. Sex Talks: The Five Conversations That Will Transform Your Love Life by Vanessa Marin A practical framework for building intimacy, communication, and clarity in relationships—without shame or performative vulnerability. Come As You Are by Emily Nagoski A foundational text on desire, arousal, and sexual well-being that centers context, nervous system regulation, and self-compassion. Come Together by Emily Nagoski A follow-up guide focused on cultivating intimacy, pleasure, and connection within relationships through curiosity and attunement. 🔗 Browse these and more in Jessica's Cozy Book Nook: 👉 https://bookshop.org/shop/Emboldenedwithjessica   📢 Call to Action: 📲 Follow @EmboldenedWithJessica on IG, TikTok & YouTube 💗 Want to support the show? Leave a review or drop a tip here: buymeacoffee.com/emboldenedwithjessica   🎙️ Show Credits Host: Jessica Jackson Produced by: Ariele & Jessica Edited by: Ariele

Moving to a new place can shift more than your address—it can reshape friendships, identity, and community. In this episode, Jessica and Ariele explore long-distance friendships, life transitions, and how we maintain connection across the miles. What happens to friendships when life shifts—when one of you enters a new season, or simply grows in a different direction? Jessica and Ariele talk candidly about the grief that can come with transitions, and how we can still maintain intimacy and connection across the miles. From virtual watch parties to scheduled check-ins and somatic tools for navigating change, this conversation reminds us that distance doesn't have to mean disconnection—but it requires intention. Whether you're navigating a recent move, preparing for one, or simply feeling the ache of evolving relationships, this episode offers warmth, wisdom, and practical tools for staying rooted in community—even when you're far from home.   💛 Support the Show If this episode resonated with you, there are a few meaningful ways you can support Emboldened with Jessica: 🎧 Subscribe to the podcast on your favorite listening platform so you never miss an episode ⭐ Rate and review the show—this helps more people find these conversations 💌 Share this episode with someone you think would appreciate it ☕ Support the podcast financially by leaving a tip to help cover production costs: 👉 https://buymeacoffee.com/emboldenedwithjessica Your listening, sharing, and support help sustain this space—thank you for being here.   Show Credits: Host: Jessica Jackson Produced by: Ariele Edited by: Ariele  

Burnout recovery often begins with something simple but difficult: rest. Jessica and Ariele explore nervous system regulation, presence, and choosing a softer pace of life. This week on Emboldened with Jessica, we're inviting you into the soft summer era—a season of saying no to overcommitment, yes to rest without guilt, and embracing joy as a radical act of healing. In this soothing, insightful conversation, Jessica and Ariele unpack what living softly in a world that rewards burnout means. From nervous system regulation and pleasure practices to reclaiming your time and energy, this episode is your permission slip to rest and not feel bad about it.   ✨ You'll hear: What the "soft life" looks like in real-time How nervous system care supports emotional well-being The myth of multitasking and the truth about presence Why saying no is a love language A fun quiz to discover your soft summer score Somatic tools for tuning in to your breath and honoring your rhythm   💛 Support the Show If this episode resonated with you, there are a few meaningful ways you can support Emboldened with Jessica: 🎧 Subscribe to the podcast on your favorite listening platform so you never miss an episode ⭐ Rate and review the show—this helps more people find these conversations 💌 Share this episode with someone you think would appreciate it ☕ Support the podcast financially by leaving a tip to help cover production costs: 👉 https://buymeacoffee.com/emboldenedwithjessica Your listening, sharing, and support help sustain this space—thank you for being here.   Show Credits: Host: Jessica Jackson Produced by: Ariele Edited by: Ariele    

In this episode of Emboldened with Jessica, Jessica sits down with trauma-focused somatic bodyworker Cortenay Crosson to unpack the realities of modern dating. Together they explore how online dating, relationship dynamics, and personal history influence the way we connect today. In This Episode We Discuss • how modern dating culture has evolved • navigating online dating and dating apps • relationship dynamics and genuine connection • setting healthy boundaries in dating • self-awareness and dealing with rejection   What would it look like to approach dating with curiosity instead of pressure?    🌿 Connect with Our Guest: Cortenay Crosson If this conversation resonated with you, you can learn more about Cortenay Crosson and the work she does through The Healing Collective, LLC. Website www.CortenayCrosson.com Follow The Healing Collective, LLC Instagram | TikTok | Facebook @TheHealingCollectiveLLC   💛 Support the Show If this episode resonated with you, there are a few meaningful ways you can support Emboldened with Jessica: 🎧 Subscribe to the podcast on your favorite listening platform so you never miss an episode ⭐ Rate and review the show—this helps more people find these conversations 💌 Share this episode with someone you think would appreciate it ☕ Support the podcast financially by leaving a tip to help cover production costs: 👉 https://buymeacoffee.com/emboldenedwithjessica Your listening, sharing, and support help sustain this space—thank you for being here.   Show Credits: Host: Jessica Jackson Guest: Cortenay Crosson Produced by: Ariele Edited by: Ariele  

Starting a business requires more than a great idea. In this episode, Jessica and entrepreneur Jason Jackson explore practical strategies for aspiring entrepreneurs. In celebration of Black History Month, Emboldened with Jessica highlights entrepreneurship as a powerful pathway to agency, sustainability, and community investment. Jessica is joined by Jason Jackson, entrepreneur, partner at Futaleufu Partners, and co-founder of The Black Search Network—a growing community supporting Black entrepreneurs at every stage of business ownership. Together they explore what it takes to move from vision to viability. Jason shares insights from his own entrepreneurial journey, offering practical strategies around mentorship, partnership, resilience, and building a business when traditional safety nets may not exist. This conversation also reflects on how entrepreneurship can create ripple effects—strengthening families, reinvesting in communities, and expanding opportunity for future generations. Whether you're developing your first business idea or growing something you've already started, this episode offers grounded perspective and practical guidance for building a business with purpose.   In This Episode We Discuss • practical strategies for starting a business • the realities of entrepreneurship and resilience • the importance of mentorship and support systems • building businesses rooted in values and community investment • how entrepreneurship can create generational opportunity   💛 Support the Show If this episode resonated with you, there are a few meaningful ways you can support Emboldened with Jessica: 🎧 Subscribe to the podcast on your favorite listening platform so you never miss an episode ⭐ Rate and review the show—this helps more people find these conversations 💌 Share this episode with someone you think would appreciate it ☕ Support the podcast financially by leaving a tip to help cover production costs: 👉 https://buymeacoffee.com/emboldenedwithjessica Your listening, sharing, and support help sustain this space—thank you for being here.     🎙️ Show Credits Host: Jessica Jackson Guest: Jason Jackson  Produced by: Ariele & Jessica  Edited by: Ariele  

Personal rebranding can help align who you are becoming with how you show up in the world. Jessica and Ariele explore how to reinvent your story with intention. Reinvention is often part of growth. In this episode of Emboldened with Jessica, Jessica Jackson and Ariele explore the concept of personal rebranding and why aligning your internal identity with how you present yourself to the world can be transformative. They discuss how intentional self-reflection can help people clarify their goals, reshape their narrative, and step more fully into the life they want to create. Rather than viewing rebranding as superficial image management, this conversation reframes it as a process of alignment—bringing your values, identity, and aspirations into clearer focus. Jessica shares creative and practical tools that can help listeners move through a personal rebrand, including vision boards, bingo cards, intention boxes, and even hosting a personal "rebrand party" to mark a new chapter. Whether you're navigating a career shift, redefining your identity, or simply feeling called toward something new, this episode offers thoughtful reflection and practical ideas for stepping into the next version of yourself.   In This Episode We Discuss • what personal rebranding really means • aligning your internal identity with external perception • tools like vision boards, intention boxes, and reflection prompts • how to intentionally mark the beginning of a new chapter • embracing change while staying grounded in your values   If you were to intentionally rebrand your life right now, what would you want the next chapter to represent?   📚 Jessica's Cozy Book Nook The book referenced in this episode was curated to support reflection, self-trust, and taking up space with intention. You can explore this title through Emboldened with Jessica's Bookshop, or borrow it from your local library. More Than Enough: Claiming Space for Who You Are by Elaine Welteroth A powerful memoir and reflection on identity, worth, and choosing yourself—especially in spaces that were never designed to hold all of who you are. 🔗 Browse this and other carefully curated books in Jessica's Cozy Book Nook: 👉 https://bookshop.org/shop/Emboldenedwithjessica   💛 Support the Show If this episode resonated with you, there are a few meaningful ways you can support Emboldened with Jessica: 🎧 Subscribe to the podcast on your favorite listening platform so you never miss an episode ⭐ Rate and review the show—this helps more people find these conversations 💌 Share this episode with someone you think would appreciate it ☕ Support the podcast financially by leaving a tip to help cover production costs: 👉 https://buymeacoffee.com/emboldenedwithjessica Your listening, sharing, and support help sustain this space—thank you for being here.   🎙️ Show Credits Host: Jessica Jackson Produced by: Ariele & Jessica  Edited by: Ariele

Family estrangement is more common than many people realize. In this episode, Jessica explores boundaries, grief, and how people navigate going no contact with family. In this episode of Emboldened with Jessica, Jessica sits down with Somatic therapist Madeline Ammar, to explore the complex realities of family estrangement. Together they discuss boundaries, grief, and protecting your mental health when family relationships become harmful.   In This Episode We Discuss • what family estrangement and "no contact" really mean • common reasons families experience long-term conflict • cultural expectations around family loyalty and respect • the grief that can come with stepping away from family • protecting your peace during holidays and family gatherings • ways to reconnect or test the waters after estrangement   Reflection What would protecting your peace with family look like right now? 📚 Jessica's Cozy Book Nook Mother Hunger — Kelly McDaniel Children of the Self-Absorbed — Nina W. Brown Drama Free — Nedra Glover Tawwab Find these and more recommendations here: Jessica's Cozy Book Nook: https://bookshop.org/shop/Emboldenedwithjessica   💛 Support the Show If this episode resonated with you, there are a few meaningful ways you can support Emboldened with Jessica: 🎧 Subscribe to the podcast on your favorite listening platform so you never miss an episode ⭐ Rate and review the show—this helps more people find these conversations 💌 Share this episode with someone you think would appreciate it ☕ Support the podcast financially by leaving a tip to help cover production costs: 👉 https://buymeacoffee.com/emboldenedwithjessica   Show Credits: Host: Jessica Jackson, LCPC, ASDCS Guest: Madeline Ammar, LCSW  Produced by: Jessica & Ariele Edited by: Ariele  

In this episode of 'Emboldened with Jessica', the conversation explores the intricate relationship between fashion and personal style, emphasizing how they shape identity and self-expression. The hosts discuss the evolving definitions of fashion and style, the societal implications of clothing choices, and the importance of comfort and confidence in personal expression. The episode also features an insightful interview with Justin Michael Hendricks, who discusses the intersection of fashion, community, and social justice, particularly within the context of ballroom culture and empowerment.   We explore the intersection of fashion and personal identity. Our wardrobe choices serve as a visual representation of who we are, conveying messages of confidence and individuality.   Wearing what makes us feel good can significantly enhance our mental well-being. We'll also discuss the evolving nature of personal style in the context of social media and inclusivity, focusing on the stories behind trends rather than just the trends themselves.   Joining us is special guest Justin Michael Hendricks, a prominent figure and advocate for social justice, and bringing ballroom culture to central Illinois. Together, we'll examine how fashion can act as a tool for activism and community empowerment.   So, grab your drink and join us as we delve into dressing with purpose and the profound impact it can have on our lives. Remember, style reflects who you are, and feeling good in your skin is paramount. Let's get started!   💜 Love the show? Support Emboldened with Jessica! 💜 Your donation helps cover production costs and improve audio quality. Click here to donate and keep the bold conversations coming! Thank you for your support! 🙌✨   Chapters: 00:00 Introduction to Fashion and Personal Style 03:00 Defining Fashion vs. Style 06:09 The Impact of Style on Identity and Perception 09:00 Fashion, Gender, and Social Norms 11:49 Sustainability and Accessibility in Fashion 15:14 The Role of Alter Egos in Personal Expression 18:09 Interview with Justin Michael Hendricks 25:01 Community and Fashion as a Tool for Empowerment 32:01 The Be Yourself Ball and Ballroom Culture To follow Justin Michael Hendrix's  grassroots organization HitNHomeBoy   Food can be donated to 102 N. Neil St. Champaign IL. 61820 Government Municipality Building Venmo: @HitNHomeboy88 CashApp: $HitNHomeboy88 Instagram: HITNHOMEBOY  Facebook: HITNHOMEBOY Twitter: HITNHOMEBOY Jessica's Cozy Book Nook - Bookshop  Julián Is a Mermaid by Jessica Love - Bookshop     Stay Connected:  Instagram: @EmboldenedwithJessica Facebook: @EmboldenedwithJessica TikTok: @EmboldenedwithJessica  Youtube: @EmboldenedwithJessica   Credits: Host: Jessica Jackson, LCPC, ASDCS Guest: Justin Michael Hendricks Produced by: Ariele & Jessica Edited by: Ariele

In Part 2 of this two-part series, Jessica and Ariele move from becoming "that girl" to living it—daily, imperfectly, and in real relationships. This episode explores how confidence shows up in practice: in the boundaries we set, the relationships we choose, and the ways we stop over-explaining our needs. Jessica reflects on what it means to protect your energy, prioritize yourself without guilt, and recognize when connection feels mutual—or when it's time to recalibrate. The conversation also touches on: Letting go of people-pleasing and over-functioning Choosing relationships that feel supportive, not draining Navigating visibility, self-trust, and being seen How gratitude, discernment, and rest support confidence over time This episode is for anyone who is: Practicing boundaries in friendships, work, or dating Learning to choose themselves consistently—not just conceptually Rethinking what confidence looks like beyond performance Building a life that feels grounded, spacious, and aligned ✨ Part 1 focused on identity and internal shifts. ✨ Part 2 brings those insights into the relational and day-to-day world.   📚 Jessica's Cozy Book Nook Books referenced in this episode were thoughtfully chosen to support reflection, confidence, and belonging. You can explore these titles through Emboldened with Jessica's Bookshop, or borrow them from your local library. You're That Bitch by Bretman Rock A candid, humorous, and affirming reflection on confidence, self-expression, and becoming more yourself—on your own terms. Girl Gurl Grrrl: On Womanhood and Belonging in the Age of Black Girl Magic by Kenya Hunt A powerful exploration of identity, belonging, and the complexity of Black womanhood in a world that often flattens it. 🔗 Browse these and more in Jessica's Cozy Book Nook:       Emboldened with Jessica Bookshop   Let's Stay Connected ⭐ Rate and review the podcast on your favorite platform 📲 Follow the new Instagram page: @EmboldenedwithJessica 💌 Share an episode with someone who will enjoy it   ☕ Support the Podcast If you'd like to support the show and help cover production costs, you can leave a tip here: 👉 https://buymeacoffee.com/emboldenedwithjessica 🎙️ Show Credits Host: Jessica Jackson Produced by: Ariele & Jessica Edited by: Ariele  

In Part 1 of this two-part conversation, Jessica, Ariele and returning special guest Lisa Holmes unpack what it really means to be "that girl"—beyond aesthetics, trends, or social media personas. This episode explores confidence as something rooted in self-trust, self-worth, and embodied presence, not productivity or external validation. Together, they reflect on how many of us were taught to dim ourselves, shrink our desires, or perform likability—and what it looks like to gently unlearn those patterns. Jessica shares reflections on identity, self-esteem, and the quiet work of becoming more at home in yourself. The conversation also touches on gratitude, celebrating personal wins, and surrounding yourself with people who recognize your value—not just your output. This episode is for anyone who is: Redefining confidence on their own terms Letting go of comparison and external validation Learning to take up space without apology Curious about what "being that girl" could mean for them ✨ Part 1 focuses on mindset, identity, and internal shifts. ✨ Part 2 will dive deeper into boundaries, relationships, and living this work out loud.   High 5 Strength Test - https://high5test.com/   Let's Stay Connected ⭐ Rate and review the podcast on your favorite platform 📲 Follow the new Instagram page: @EmboldenedwithJessica 💌 Share an episode with someone who will enjoy it ☕ Support the Podcast If you'd like to support the show and help cover production costs, you can leave a tip here: 👉 https://buymeacoffee.com/emboldenedwithjessica   🎙️ Show Credits Special Guest: Lisa Holmes Produced by: Ariele & Jessica Edited by: Ariele    

The phrase "summer body" trends every year — alongside viral phrases like "unbig your back," body transformation challenges, and seasonal pressure to get in shape. In this summer mini episode of Emboldened with Jessica, Jessica and Ariele unpack body image culture, diet culture messaging, and the mental health impact of "summer body" expectations. They explore how body shame can hide behind humor, how social media amplifies appearance-based pressure, and why sustainable wellness matters more than seasonal reinvention. The conversation also includes a personal health scare involving high blood pressure, health anxiety, and the millennial wake-up call many people experience around preventative health. Instead of crash dieting or extreme fitness resets, this episode focuses on sustainable healthy habits — including walking, nervous system regulation, mindful movement, and increasing fruits and vegetables without moralizing food. From "hot girl walks" to bilateral movement and the mental health benefits of walking in nature, this episode reframes wellness as nervous-system friendly, accessible, and grounded in long-term health rather than body punishment. Because every body is a summer body — and real health includes mental health.   In this episode, we explore: The viral "unbig your back" trend and how body shame gets disguised as humor Why "every body is a summer body" still matters Health anxiety and the wake-up call of thinking something might be wrong Blood pressure, millennial health shifts, and lifestyle awareness Sustainable changes vs. extreme summer resets Why walking (including "hot girl walks") supports both mental and physical health Bilateral movement, nature sounds, and nervous system regulation Adding fruits, vegetables, and movement without moralizing food Health as wealth — without body punishment   💛 Support the Show If this episode resonated with you, there are a few meaningful ways you can support Emboldened with Jessica: 🎧 Subscribe to the podcast on your favorite listening platform so you never miss an episode ⭐ Rate and review the show—this helps more people find these conversations 💌 Share this episode with someone you think would appreciate it ☕ Support the podcast financially by leaving a tip to help cover production costs: 👉 https://buymeacoffee.com/emboldenedwithjessica 🎙️ Show Credits Host: Jessica Jackson Produced by: Ariele & Jessica  Edited by: Ariele  

Summer is here, and after years of isolation because of the pandemic, many of us feel ready to be outside — socially, romantically, and energetically. But being "outside" doesn't have to mean being ungrounded. In this summer mini episode of Emboldened with Jessica, Jessica and Ariele explore modern dating culture, intentional dating, and how to clarify your relationship goals before stepping into the streets. Whether you're dating for fun, companionship, long-term partnership, or marriage, this conversation centers self-awareness, boundaries, and emotional clarity. This episode invites you to ask: What do I actually want right now? Am I dating from clarity or from pressure? Do my actions match my intentions? Intentional dating isn't about rigidity — it's about alignment between your values, your goals, and your behavior.   In this episode, we discuss: "We outside" culture and post-pandemic social energy Dating intentionally vs. dating impulsively Dating for marriage vs. dating for fun Clarifying your relationship goals before you start dating Setting dating boundaries and protecting your emotional health Being single without being "for the streets" Self-awareness in romantic relationships Knowing your purpose in dating Summer dating advice for adults How cultural expectations shape modern relationships   💛 Support the Show If this episode resonated with you, there are a few meaningful ways you can support Emboldened with Jessica: 🎧 Subscribe to the podcast on your favorite listening platform so you never miss an episode ⭐ Rate and review the show—this helps more people find these conversations 💌 Share this episode with someone you think would appreciate it ☕ Support the podcast financially by leaving a tip to help cover production costs: 👉 https://buymeacoffee.com/emboldenedwithjessica 🎙️ Show Credits Host: Jessica Jackson Produced by: Ariele & Jessica  Edited by: Ariele

Adult friendships are powerful, healing, complicated, and constantly evolving. In this episode of Emboldened with Jessica, Jessica and Producer Ariele unpack the psychology of friendships, the different tiers of connection, and how friendships support mental wellness and emotional resilience across life stages. Together, they explore research showing that strong friendships are directly linked to improved mental health, reduced stress, and increased longevity. The conversation breaks down how friendships naturally exist on different levels — from acquaintances and activity-based friendships to deeply intimate, chosen-family relationships — and why understanding these distinctions helps us create healthier expectations and stronger bonds. Jessica and Ariele introduce the concept of social fitness, highlighting that friendships require intentional nurturing, emotional awareness, and flexibility over time. They also discuss how neurodivergent individuals may experience unique challenges navigating friendship dynamics and offer affirming, accessible insights for building connection in ways that honor individual needs. Throughout the episode, they share candid personal stories and professional insight about: ✨ Navigating friendship changes during major life transitions ✨ Understanding the difference between trauma bonding and authentic connection ✨ Balancing romantic relationships without deprioritizing friendships ✨ Communicating needs, boundaries, and expectations clearly ✨ Practicing self-compassion when friendships shift, deepen, or end This conversation invites listeners to reflect on their current friendship ecosystem, celebrate the ways they already show up for others, and consider how they want to cultivate deeper, more intentional connections moving forward. 💌 Support the Show If this episode resonated with you: ⭐ Rate and review Emboldened with Jessica 📲 Share this episode with someone who values friendship and connection ☕ Support the show here: https://buymeacoffee.com/emboldenedwithjessica   🎙️ Credits Host: Jessica Jackson Produced by: Ariele & Jessica Edited by: Ariele

What does it mean to design a life on your own terms? This conversation explores independence, identity, and redefining fulfillment. In this episode of Emboldened with Jessica, Jessica sits down with guest Lisa Holmes for a candid conversation. Together they explore the cultural energy of "Hot Auntie Summer" — a playful yet powerful idea that celebrates self-definition, joy, and autonomy outside traditional expectations. Some seasons of life call for rebuilding after hardship. Others invite bold ambition, creativity, or the courage to pursue new opportunities. This conversation reflects on how healing, boundaries, supportive relationships, and self-trust can guide us as we transition between these phases. Jessica and Ariele also discuss the cultural language of "eras"—a concept many people are using to describe moments of transformation and identity shifts—and how honoring these transitions can help us design lives that feel more aligned. Whether you are in a period of reflection, rebuilding, ambition, or reinvention, this episode invites you to consider: What era of life are you currently in? And what might your next era look like?   In This Episode We Discuss • How life transitions often happen in recognizable "eras" • Healing seasons after periods of burnout, loss, or major change • When hustle and ambition have a place—and when softness and rest are    needed • The role of boundaries, relationships, and community support during life transitions • How to recognize when it's time to shift into a new chapter of life • Why self-trust is essential when redefining your identity and direction   Jessica's Cozy Book Nook 📚 This episode's book recommendation: Year of Yes by Shonda Rhimes In Year of Yes, television creator Shonda Rhimes shares her personal journey of saying "yes" to opportunities that challenged her fears and expanded her life. Her story explores how stepping outside of comfort zones can lead to profound personal growth, confidence, and transformation. If you enjoy the themes of stepping into new life eras and embracing change, this book offers a powerful companion to today's conversation. You can support local bookstores by purchasing through Jessica's Cozy Book Nook on Bookshop, or by checking the book out from your local library—many libraries also offer digital copies through apps like Libby or Hoopla. 👉 Jessica's Cozy Book Nook: https://bookshop.org/lists/jessica-s-cozy-book-nook   💛 Support the Show If this episode resonated with you, there are a few meaningful ways you can support Emboldened with Jessica: 🎧 Subscribe to the podcast on your favorite listening platform so you never miss an episode ⭐ Rate and review the show—this helps more people find these conversations 💌 Share this episode with someone you think would appreciate it ☕ Support the podcast financially by leaving a tip to help cover production costs: 👉 https://buymeacoffee.com/emboldenedwithjessica   Show Credits: Host: Jessica Jackson Produced by: Jessica & Ariele Edited by: Ariele  

  What does it really mean to pursue your passion — especially in a world that often prioritizes productivity over purpose? In this episode of Emboldened with Jessica, we explore the emotional, practical, and psychological layers of following what lights you up. Rather than offering a rigid blueprint, this conversation invites reflection on how passion connects to identity, fulfillment, and mental health. Jessica and Ariele discuss the internal barriers that keep many people from pursuing what they love — fear, self-doubt, time constraints, financial pressure, comparison — and the quiet voice that still asks for more meaning. They explore how clarifying your values, setting aligned goals, and building supportive community can transform passion from fantasy into lived experience. This episode is a reminder that pursuing what you love isn't indulgent — it's often deeply regulating, confidence-building, and life-giving.   In This Episode, We Explore: What passion really means beyond hustle culture The connection between purpose and mental health Internal blocks: fear, perfectionism, imposter feelings External barriers: time, money, responsibility Visualization and intention-setting as clarity tools Why accountability and supportive relationships matter The difference between dreaming and taking aligned action How doing what you love strengthens confidence and identity   📚 Jessica's Cozy Book Nook  The Alchemist: A Fable About Following Your Dream by Paulo Coelho A timeless story about listening to your inner calling, trusting your path, and recognizing that fulfillment often requires courage and faith. Find it here: https://bookshop.org/shop/Emboldenedwithjessica   💛 Support the Show If this episode resonated with you, there are a few meaningful ways you can support Emboldened with Jessica: 🎧 Subscribe to the podcast on your favorite listening platform so you never miss an episode ⭐ Rate and review the show—this helps more people find these conversations 💌 Share this episode with someone you think would appreciate it ☕ Support the podcast financially by leaving a tip to help cover production costs: 👉 https://buymeacoffee.com/emboldenedwithjessica Show Credits: Host: Jessica Jackson Produced by: Ariele Edited by: Ariele Marketing: Kathleen Onyjekwe

Modern dating is shifting. More people are "soft launching" relationships to protect privacy, set boundaries, and navigate love in the age of social media.  In this episode of Emboldened with Jessica, Jessica sits down with guest Jae Johnson to explore the growing trend of soft launching relationships and what it reveals about modern dating culture, privacy, and emotional boundaries. In an era where social media often invites public commentary on our personal lives, many people are choosing to protect their relationships by sharing less. Jessica and Jae unpack the cultural shift toward privacy in relationships and why some couples prefer to build a foundation offline before introducing their partner to the internet. Together they discuss how social media expectations can influence dating dynamics, the pressure to publicly define relationships, and the importance of boundaries when navigating intimacy in a highly visible digital world. This conversation also explores how soft launching can create space for relationships to develop more intentionally—without outside opinions shaping the early stages of connection. Whether you're navigating modern dating, reflecting on how much of your relationship you share publicly, or thinking about the role of boundaries in protecting your peace, this episode offers thoughtful insight into a trend many people are quietly practicing.   📚 Jessica's Cozy Book Nook This episode explores themes of privacy, boundaries, and navigating relationships in today's dating culture. If this conversation resonated with you, here are two thoughtful books that expand on these ideas: Polysecure: Attachment, Trauma and Consensual Nonmonogamy by Jessica Fern A nuanced exploration of attachment theory and how trauma and relational patterns influence the ways we build connections. Fern offers insight into creating secure, intentional relationships—whether monogamous or nonmonogamous—while honoring emotional safety and autonomy. Set Boundaries, Find Peace by Nedra Glover Tawwab A practical guide to understanding and communicating healthy boundaries in relationships, work, and everyday life. Tawwab offers clear tools to help readers build self-respect, protect their time and energy, and cultivate healthier connections. You can find both titles in Jessica's Cozy Book Nook on Bookshop: 👉 https://bookshop.org/lists/jessica-s-cozy-book-nook You can also support your local library by checking out these titles in print, ebook, or audiobook formats—many libraries offer digital borrowing through apps like Libby or Hoopla.   💛 Support the Show If this episode resonated with you, there are a few meaningful ways you can support Emboldened with Jessica: 🎧 Subscribe to the podcast on your favorite listening platform so you never miss an episode ⭐ Rate and review the show—this helps more people find these conversations 💌 Share this episode with someone you think would appreciate it ☕ Support the podcast financially by leaving a tip to help cover production costs: 👉 https://buymeacoffee.com/emboldenedwithjessica Your listening, sharing, and support help sustain this space—thank you for being here.   🎙️ Show Credits Host: Jessica Jackson Special Guest: Jae Johnson Produced by: Ariele Edited by: Ariele Marketing: Afia Digital Solutions

Building community and making friends as an adult can feel harder than it used to. In this episode, Jessica and Ariele explore how meaningful friendships and supportive communities are created. In this episode of Emboldened with Jessica, Jessica Jackson and Ariele explore what it takes to build genuine friendships and cultivate supportive communities. From navigating new social spaces to strengthening existing relationships, they unpack how connection grows through shared experiences, intention, and mutual care. Jessica also shares practical insights for meeting new people, reading social cues, and nurturing friendships over time—including how understanding love languages can strengthen relationships and deepen bonds.   In This Episode We Discuss • why building community matters for mental health and belonging • how to make friends and meet new people as an adult • mixing friend groups and navigating social dynamics • reading body language and being approachable • the role of love languages in maintaining friendships • addressing conflict and unhealthy dynamics in relationships 📚 Jessica's Cozy Book Nook How to Win Friends and Influence People- Dale Carnegie  Find Jessica's book recommendations here: https://bookshop.org/shop/Emboldenedwithjessica You can also explore these titles through your local library.   Show Credits: Host: Jessica Jackson, LCPC, ASDCS Produced by: Ariele & Jessica Jackson Edited by: Ariele Marketing: Afia Digital Solutions  

Negotiation isn't just for boardrooms — it's a life skill. Self-advocacy, clear communication, and strategic negotiation shape our careers, finances, relationships, and everyday decisions. In a world shaped by inflation, shifting workplace expectations, and evolving power dynamics, the ability to advocate for yourself matters more than ever. In this episode of Emboldened with Jessica, we explore negotiation as self-advocacy, strategic communication, and professional growth — not confrontation.   In This Episode, We Explore: Why negotiation is an essential life and leadership skill Real-world examples of negotiation tactics and how to respond The role of preparation and emotional regulation in high-pressure moments How community support strengthens confidence Self-advocacy in salary, purchases, and professional settings Why adaptability is a competitive advantage in today's economy Negotiating boundaries and expectations beyond money     📚 Jessica's Cozy Book Nook This episode references: Never Split the Difference: Negotiating As If Your Life Depended On It By Chris Voss & Tahl Raz 👉 Jessica's Cozy Book Nook (Bookshop): https://bookshop.org/lists/jessica-s-cozy-book-nook      Support the Show If this episode resonated with you, there are a few meaningful ways you can support Emboldened with Jessica: Subscribe to the podcast on your favorite listening platform so you never miss an episode Rate and review the show—this helps more people find these conversations Share this episode with someone you think would appreciate it ☕ Support the podcast financially by leaving a tip to help cover production costs: 👉 https://buymeacoffee.com/emboldenedwithjessica     Show Credits: Host: Jessica Jackson, LCPC, ASDCS Produced by: Ariele & Jessica Jackson Edited by: Ariele Marketing: Afia Digital Solutions

  What does it mean to design a life that truly reflects who you are? In this episode of Emboldened with Jessica, Jessica sits down with guest Lisa Holmes for a candid conversation about independence, identity, and the freedom to live life on your own terms. Together they explore the cultural energy of "Hot Auntie Summer" — a playful yet powerful idea that celebrates self-definition, joy, and autonomy outside traditional expectations. The conversation reflects on how many people move through periods of self-discovery and life transitions, questioning the roles they were taught to follow and instead creating lives rooted in intention, community, and personal freedom. Jessica and Lisa discuss the value of embracing different seasons of life—whether that means focusing on personal growth, nurturing friendships, pursuing meaningful work, or redefining what fulfillment looks like beyond societal scripts. This episode invites listeners to consider how independence, identity, and self-trust shape the way we design our lives and relationships. Whether you're entering a new chapter or simply reflecting on the life you want to create, this conversation encourages you to imagine what your own version of "Hot Auntie Summer" might look like. In This Episode We Discuss • What "Hot Auntie Summer" represents culturally and personally • The importance of independence and self-defined living • Navigating life transitions and identity shifts • Building fulfilling lives beyond traditional expectations • The role of community, joy, and autonomy in personal growth   💛 Support the Show If this episode resonated with you, there are a few meaningful ways you can support Emboldened with Jessica: 🎧 Subscribe to the podcast on your favorite listening platform so you never miss an episode ⭐ Rate and review the show—this helps more people find these conversations 💌 Share this episode with someone you think would appreciate it ☕ Support the podcast financially by leaving a tip to help cover production costs: 👉 https://buymeacoffee.com/emboldenedwithjessica   Show Credits: Host: Jessica Jackson, LCPC, ASDCS Guest: Lisa Holmes Produced by: Ariele & Jessica Jackson  Edited by: Ariele Marketing: Afia Digital Solutions  

Emboldened with Jessica is a mental health and wellness podcast exploring identity, relationships, burnout recovery, nervous system healing, belonging, embodiment, and personal growth in an increasingly isolating world. Hosted by somatic and neuroaffirming therapist Jessica Jackson, alongside producer and co-host Ariele and Cultural Chatterist Kathleen Onyejekwe, the podcast blends psychology, lived experience, nervous system awareness, and cultural analysis into thoughtful conversations about healing, connection, self-trust, and sustainable wellbeing. Episodes explore topics including: • mental health and emotional wellness • burnout and nervous system regulation • adult friendships and loneliness • relationships, boundaries, and modern dating • neurodivergence and masking • trauma, shame, and healing • entrepreneurship and sustainable success • identity, belonging, and visibility • decolonizing mental health and culturally informed wellbeing Streamed in 68+ countries, Emboldened with Jessica offers emotionally intelligent, globally resonant conversations designed to help listeners feel more connected, reflective, and grounded in their everyday lives. A space where complexity is welcome, curiosity is encouraged, and your worth is not up for debate.   💛 Support the Show If this episode resonated with you, there are a few meaningful ways you can support Emboldened with Jessica: 🎧 Subscribe to the podcast on your favorite listening platform so you never miss an episode ⭐ Rate and review the show—this helps more people find these conversations 💌 Share this episode with someone you think would appreciate it ☕ Support the podcast financially by leaving a tip to help cover production costs: 👉 https://buymeacoffee.com/emboldenedwithjessica Your listening, sharing, and support help sustain this space—thank you for being here.   🎙️ Show Credits Host: Jessica Jackson Cohost: Ariele Cultural Chatterist: Kathleen Onyejekwe Produced by: Ariele & Jessica  Edited by: Ariele