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Emotional Intelligence Developer
by Emotional Intelligence Developer
Helping people improve wellbeing through practical tools for reflection, resilience and growth. Become a Member: https://members.emotionalintelligencedeveloper.com/ Medical Disclaimer: The information on this channel is for general educational and informational purposes only. It is not a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your physician or a qualified mental health provider with any questions you have regarding a medical or psychological condition.
Episodes
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Why the African Mind Is in Shambles and Will Become Worse Because of Artificial Intelligence. Here's What You Should Do
What happens when an African asks artificial intelligence to explain their culture, their faith, their relationships and their future, only to discover that the machine may understand another part of the world better than their own? Africa is entering an age in which AI can influence how we…
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Why a 'f*ck you' is completely warranted in certain encounters: Is it okay to care less about a specific person, situation, or outcome?
For open messages visit the community This is a no under 18 podcast message. We’re about to talk grown folks’ business... something young people haven’t truly experienced. You’re listening to the emotional intelligence developerpodcast. Have you tried the concept of turning the other cheek...
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RJ Mitte: Why pain shouldn’t be silent but loud
RJ Mitte on Why We Need to Make Our Pain Loud. RJ Mitte died on October 12, 2026, at age 34. His reps confirmed his death by suicide in Texas. Wikipedia. The clever people will say why didn’t he say anything before this happened? How can it happen to him? Why didn’t people see it? But only RJ…
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Our Community, We Need You. Help Us Keep the Lights On
You can become a community member for just five or fifteen dollars, or make a donation through our website. Visit the links on our profile to get started. You can also visit emotionalintelligencedeveloper.com and look for the Become a Member button in the website footer for more payment options....
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If Soldiers Can Get PTSD From War, What Happens to the People Who Never Leave the War Zone?
A soldier drops to the floor when a plate breaks at the dinner table. Far away, a mother carries her child down the stairs in the dark for the ninth night in a row. One has come home from war. The other never left. We know about post traumatic stress disorder, or PTSD. It can develop after…
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What America Teaches the World When an Execution Is Streamed Live
What happens when a country that tells the world to stand against violence decides to broadcast an execution? And what does the rest of the world learn when the decision comes from one of the most powerful nations on earth? The planned livestream of Nidal Malik Hasan's execution has raised...
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The Shame People Cannot See Inside You. Here's How to Start Healing It.
A man laughs the loudest at a family gathering. Everyone sees the jokes, the smile, the person who seems completely fine. But later, sitting alone in his car, the smile disappears. A woman is praised in front of her entire team. She hears how valuable she is, how good her work has been, and...
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The Benefits of One Parent Having Full Custody When You're Coparenting. Here's How It Protects the Kids
The school form needs a signature. The phone isn't being answered. One parent is frustrated, the other feels disrespected, and somewhere nearby, a child is listening to adults turn one simple decision into another argument. After a breakup, coparenting can become complicated when every permission...
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Don't Stop Being You Because Someone Wants You to Be Something Else. Here's How to Tell Growth From Pleasing Someone
You are telling a story, laughing, talking with your hands, and being completely yourself when someone quietly says, "You sound aggressive." So you lower your voice. Then they tell you that you talk too fast. Then you explain too much. Then you're too direct. Then you're too sensitive. None of…
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Why are you allowing AI to take my job?
What happens when the human capital that AI is disrupting cannot pay bills, mortgages, and rent that governments need from us to survive? You’re listening to the emotional intelligence developer podcast. Click Here: Follow the Show You created jobs. You made us go to school and learn a vocation...
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Why don’t you just quit right now? A message from Clive.
Here’s a message that’s going to rock your mind and make you think twice about things. Don’t ever give a writer a pen or a keyboard when he’s angry, because how do I take back this message once I’ve shared it. And this thought will rock your mind later. Did Clive share it knowingly? You’re...
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The Group Chat Left Me Out On Purpose. What To Do When Your Friends Exclude You Online And Make You Feel Like You Don't Belong
Her phone is quiet. Too quiet. Then she notices everyone else's phones lighting up. Someone asks, "Did you see what Jordan sent last night?" She asks, "Sent where?" And the answer is the look on her friend's face. There is another group chat. Everyone is in it. Except her. That discovery can turn...
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My Accent Is Not A Joke: Why Being Mocked For The Way You Speak Should Never Make You Ashamed Of Your Voice
She knows the answer. Her hand almost goes up. Then someone copies the way she speaks, the class laughs, and suddenly she would rather stay quiet than risk saying another word. Being mocked for your accent can start with a few laughs in a classroom, but the damage can follow you long after the...
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Has Anyone Gotten Facebook to Take Down Bad Content After Filing an Appeal?
Last night, while I was doom scrolling, a video popped up showing a man eating a burnt monkey that had been thrown into a flame, with a charred body and spaghetti on top of its head. There was no AI warning. It appeared to be real content being pushed for views, likes, comments, and addictive...
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New Kid, New Target. Why Being The Outsider Isn't Your Fault, and How To Find Your Place At A New School
You walk into the cafeteria holding a tray, and every table already seems to have a place for everyone except you. You find an empty seat. "Sorry, that's taken." You look at the chair. There's nothing on it. Later, your teacher introduces you as the new student. Someone repeats your name in a…
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They Called Me Slow. Why Learning Differently Doesn't Mean You're Not Smart, and What To Do When School Makes You Feel Stupid
Somebody says "slow" from the back of the room, just loud enough for you to hear. A girl takes the pen out of your hand because "you're too slow." The teacher says there are ten minutes left, and you're still on question three. You read the same page again, trying to make the words stay in your...
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Are You Too Tall, Too Short, or Too Loud? Understanding Why You Don't Need to Make Yourself Smaller
Somebody says, "Giraffe," from the back of the room. Somebody else asks, "Did you forget your booster seat?" And a boy who only answered a question in class hears, "Do you ever turn it down?" Three sentences. Three people. And by the end of the day, all three are wondering whether they should…
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The Boy or Girl With The So-called Weird Lunch: Why Cultural Food Shaming Says More About The Bully Than The Food
It starts with a container opening at a lunch table. A smell. A face scrunched up. "OMG, what's that?" Then somebody laughs, somebody else joins in, and suddenly the food you've eaten at home your whole life has become the joke of the table. Nobody claps. Nobody has to. The next day, you look at...
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Why I Love My Braces On My Teeth and Why Your Words Don't Bully Me
Why I Love My Braces On My Teeth and Why Your Words Don't Bully Me. Metal mouth. Brace face. Tin grin. Three shouts in a hallway, and by the time the last class of the day starts, someone has stopped smiling in photos. This episode follows that walk through school, the moment a joke turns into a...
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Girl, You're Not Nice! You're Just Acting.
Girl, You're Not Nice! You're Acting. "Sure." You didn't even think about it. Someone asks you for a favour, asks you to take something on, or asks whether you're okay with something, and the answer is already out of your mouth before you've worked out what you actually want. "Sure, no problem."...
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Why I Believe in You.
Me, Clive, the founder of emotional intelligence developer, I believe in you. Regardless of others out there telling you something else, I, the founder of emotional intelligence developer, I believe in you. Take this and keep it, one day you’ll reach out to me and tell me how this message touched...
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Why tomorrow is not today and reasons why it’s the key to success
Why did this title catch your eye? Why did it motivate you to listen in? No matter where you are in the world we’re all driven to make something of our lives. Unfortunately, we do not have the same upbringing leading a lot of us to give up because of our circumstances. I wasn’t born rich. I…
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Emotional Dependency in Relationships. When Their Mood Starts Controlling Yours.
You send a message. No reply. So you check your phone again. Then again. You start replaying the last conversation, wondering whether you said something wrong, whether they're upset, or whether something has changed. Then the phone lights up. "Hey." And suddenly, you're okay again. This episode...
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Nobody Asked How You're Actually Doing. Why Men Learn to Say They're Fine.
"How are you?" "Good." That exchange happens all the time, but sometimes the answer tells you almost nothing. This episode sits inside the gap between being asked how you're doing and actually being given enough space to answer. It’s the conversation at the gym where nobody mentions what’s really...
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Who didn’t believe in you?
There’s that one person who didn’t believe. They listened and they brush you aside. They said OKAY, try it and let’s see where this goes, but deep down you knew they weren’t convinced. Then, one day, you heard someone speak about how the person you told spoke about you and what you told them in…
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Why being a dreamer is an intimate journey where only a few find successes.
I have a dream, that is mine and I see where I want to be and how I want to achieve it. The only problem with a dream is that it is intimate. How I feel about it, and what I see when I envision it can look different in someone’s eyes. When you tell people that you’re attracted to a certain person...
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You're Always There for Them. Why Aren't They There for You?
Your phone buzzes at 11pm. It's your friend. Something has happened. They need to talk. Right now. So you answer. You listen for an hour. You hear the whole story. You give advice. You reassure them. You tell them they'll get through it. They feel better. You hang up. And then you lie there...
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When Your Partner Stops Talking to You. Here's What You Should Do.
One second you're mid conversation. The next, nothing. Not a slammed door. Not raised voices. Just quiet, and somehow the quiet is louder than any argument. You ask, "Are you okay?" Nothing. "Did I say something?" Nothing. Later, you're standing in the kitchen while your partner pours coffee two...
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My Child Doesn't Respect Me Anymore. What Do I Do? | Parents & Disrespectful Teenagers
You ask for one small thing and get silence. An eye roll. A muttered "nothing." Or a bedroom door that closes just a little too carefully. It's not always loud. That's what makes it so difficult to name. You remember when your child used to tell you everything. What happened at school. Who said...
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I’m Working Hard But Still Can’t Afford My Life
You wake up and check your account before you check your messages. Not because you’re expecting good news. Because you need to know if you can make it through the day. Can you afford bread and milk? Can you afford transport to work? If you spend that money getting there, will you have enough to…
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Your Boss Keeps Humiliating You. What Are You Supposed to Do?
If your boss puts you down in front of others, corrects you like you're stupid, threatens you with warnings, or brings up your mistakes to embarrass you, this episode is for you. This isn't about having a demanding boss or receiving legitimate criticism. It's about what happens when someone uses...
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Should You Have Sex as a Boy Before 18? The Real Talk About Pressure, STIs, and Respect
What if you're not actually ready for sex, but you're afraid your friends will think you're less of a man if you say no? Let's talk about it. Boys can face serious pressure around sex. Friends, group chats, social media, relationships and the fear of being the only one who hasn't "done it" can…
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Real Life Situations That Require Emotional Intelligence
Emotional intelligence isn't something you only need in theory. It shows up when someone embarrasses you in front of other people. When a friend cancels on you for the third time. When your partner suddenly shuts down during an argument. When someone else gets the promotion you thought was yours....
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Should You Have Sex as a Girl Before 18? The Real Talk About STIs, HIV, and Why Waiting Is Okay
No filters. No pretending. No talking down to girls. Let's have the conversation that too many young girls are already having in their heads, but don't always have with someone they trust. Should I have sex before I'm 18? With social media, relationships, music, television and conversations with...
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5 Emotional Intelligence Activities Every College Student Should Try
Starting college brings a wave of change most people are not emotionally prepared for. New city. New people. New freedom. New pressure. And suddenly, you're expected to manage your studies, relationships, money, friendships, emotions, and future while you're still figuring yourself out. This...
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How to Stop Reacting Emotionally to Everything
You get the message. You feel disrespected. You get angry. And before you've even had time to think, you've already reacted. But what if the real problem isn't the emotion? What if it's what happens between the emotion and your response? In this episode of the Emotional Intelligence Developer...
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Superintelligence Is Here. Emotional Intelligence Is Your Advantage in an AI World.
Superintelligence is becoming one of the biggest words in the conversation about where artificial intelligence is heading. AI is already changing how we work, communicate, create, consume information, and spend our attention. But while businesses race to build increasingly intelligent machines,...
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Stop Explaining Yourself to People Who Already Understand You
Have you ever explained yourself over and over again, hoping someone would finally understand? You explain what happened. You explain how you feel. You explain why you made your decision. And somehow, you're still defending yourself. But what if they understood you the first time? In this episode...
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Can Being Too Nice Hurt Your Relationships? When Kindness Becomes People-Pleasing
Can being too nice actually hurt your relationships? We’re constantly told to be kind, patient, generous and understanding. But what happens when being nice means you can’t say no, you avoid conflict, tolerate disrespect, or constantly put other people’s needs before your own? In this episode of...
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You Are Not Always The Victim In Your Own Story
Almost every story about being wronged has a missing middle, the part where the storyteller played a role too. That doesn't mean you caused everything that happened to you. It doesn't mean the other person was innocent. And it certainly doesn't mean you deserved to be mistreated. But sometimes,...
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How to Stay Calm When Someone Is Trying to Provoke You
Somebody says something disrespectful, pushes the right button, and suddenly you can feel yourself getting angry. You know they're trying to provoke you. You know you shouldn't react. But in that moment, staying calm can be much harder than it sounds. In this episode, I talk honestly about that...
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Why People Pull Away When You Get Too Close
Everything seems to be going well. You're getting closer, the connection feels real, and then suddenly the other person starts creating distance. Why does that happen? Sometimes people pull away because they've lost interest. Sometimes life gets complicated. And sometimes emotional closeness…
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Forgiveness Is Not Something Everyone Has Earned
You’re constantly told to forgive. Forgive them and you’ll heal. Let go of the anger. Stop holding onto the past. Move on. But what if forgiveness isn’t something you owe everyone who hurt you? This episode takes a different look at forgiveness, especially when someone has caused real damage and...
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AI Can Give You Advice. Should You Actually Take It?
AI can give you advice about relationships, work, emotions, arguments, money, career decisions and almost anything else you can think of. But should you actually take that advice? In this episode of the Emotional Intelligence Developer Podcast, we explore what happens when we start using AI not...
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Church, Religion and Emotional Intelligence: When Christians Forget How to Read the Room
What happens when becoming more religious makes you less aware of the people around you? This episode looks at the connection between Christianity, church, religion, and emotional intelligence, especially when strong religious beliefs start affecting how someone treats other people. Going to...
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Why You Keep Chasing People Who Keep Pulling Away
Why is it that sometimes the person who gives you the least certainty becomes the person you think about the most? They message you, disappear, come back, and pull away again. You tell yourself you’re going to stop chasing them, but the moment they show interest, you’re emotionally invested all...
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Therapy Speak Is Being Weaponized
Boundaries. Gaslighting. Triggered. Trauma. These words were created to help people understand real psychological harm. But what happens when psychological language becomes a weapon in everyday arguments? Sometimes a boundary protects you. Sometimes it's used to shut down accountability.…
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Why Some People Shut Down During Difficult Conversations
You’re trying to have an important conversation, and suddenly the other person goes quiet. They stop answering. They leave the room. They say they don’t want to talk about it. Does that mean they don’t care? Not necessarily. Sometimes people shut down because they’re overwhelmed by the emotional...
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Look At You Now: You Laughed at Me, Talked Behind My Back, and Tried to Break Me
They laughed at you. They talked behind your back. They used your life as entertainment, turned your struggles into jokes, and sometimes tried to separate you from people because they didn't want to see you doing well. But what happens when you refuse to react? You stay calm. You stay quiet. You...
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How Emotionally Intelligent People Handle Disrespect
What do you do when someone disrespects you? Do you fight back, stay silent, walk away, or say exactly what you think? In this episode of the Emotional Intelligence Developer Podcast, we look at what emotional intelligence actually looks like when somebody pushes your buttons. Being emotionally...
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Helping people improve wellbeing through practical tools for reflection, resilience and growth. Become a Member: https://members.emotionalintelligencedeveloper.com/ Medical Disclaimer: The information on this channel is for general educational and informational purposes only. It is not a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your physician or a qualified mental health provider with any questions you have regarding a medical or psychological condition.
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