Empower Evolution

My grandmother is using my story and my brother Bryant story plagiarize our life stories and the struggles we been through growing up was rough and not easy we didn’t come from a loving home it was a nightmare living with my mother at the time my grandmother knew everything that happen so what she does is she had my story to try to act like she went through hardships that I did when she was grow up in a house in St. Louis with a mother and father had a easy going life was spoiled by your grandmother and your mother you didn’t grow up poor and homeless like me where the streets raise me you didn’t get abuse or face money problems or face challenges in life growing dealing with suicidal tendencies and Violence tendencies and mental health problems as being the golden child my mother lost custody with two boys had which she no longer have that in her care anymore because of the irresponsible she was by not living up to her expectations or means and I didn’t come from a loving home i grew up in a toxic environment dealing with men around she had were drug dealers and ex convict men in and out of the house. My mother was robbed by the men she was laid up with he stole everything in the house including the laptop and my psp and her credit cards information was used as well too her money was stolen too. 

I take ownership for the things that I did that was wrong to my brother Bryant I will say this though I am not sorry for speaking my truth and telling the world of my story that happen to me behind closed doors with these two horrible human beings who been lying about a lot of things that went on in the house for years. 

I realizes towards the end of the year 2025 that the relationship me and her had wasn’t real it was based on transactional that when I had to cut loose from her and end the relationship because I don’t think she knows what a relationship supposed to to look like you shouldn’t be with somebody just for money because that not genuine. I want a connection she wanted money and that not what I want

The roles that my brother Bryant and I which it is not an amazing feeling to fulfill those roles because both roles are really bad it something that you can’t undone or it not an universal fix where she can say I’m sorry it’s a little too late for that my grandmother and my mother had every opportunity to make things right with me and my brother but both of chose to continue with the lies and the bullshit they was pulling behind the scenes 

Ladies and gentlemen to all you beautiful people out there in the universe the title being the golden child is not something you should be embracing that at all because it has negative consequences when it came to me being the golden child 

I had to remove myself from that situation with my mother and my narcissistic grandmother they are not the type of people who will uplift you or guide you in the positive direction they do portray themselves in the public that they just angel they are like they can never do wrong and put on this front line like they good amazing people which it is totally opposite from what I saw from them behind close doors. Them two being so called amazing person that an understatement. 

I was her puppet master I was the guy she was pulling all the strings in this toxic relationship I was easily to influence she saw me as a weak person according to her I was listening to everything she was saying there was times I almost went to jail for the bad decisions that I made on my behalf because I was under influence of her master plan. That what it came with being the golden child which it not a very good thing to be at all. 

I was the favored in the family as being looked as oh he perfect in my eyes oh he a good child that how they views me as even though I was the potential target later on as being easily influenced being manipulated too. 

Everything that I have said about my grandmother and my mother is not a lie it’s all documented on my life I do this to bring light to the situation because I couldn’t do it back then they were preventing me to go public with it because they knew if this gets out their reputation would be ruined 

She always harassing me even when we were in Puerto Rico me and my brother always have a game plan it just seem like she gets jealous when we do our own thing and we come up with our ideas of what we want to do in life. My narcissistic grandmother always interrupted our plans like you have your own friends go hang out with them you don’t need to be around me and my brother 24/7 

I recognized the things that I have done that was wrong to my brother which I apologize to confess up for it it was never excuse for my action to did what I did to that man because he didn’t deserve he wasn’t the problem my anger was mostly towards my narcissistic grandmother and my mother because they are the reason why a lot of things has happen behind closed doors 

The truth will set you free back then I couldn’t tell my story they were keep me in the dark from preventing that I am no longer protecting them anymore now they on their own and I’m telling the world my story because my voice needs to be heard.

I look beyond the Money Part it Not even About the Money it much more to my creativity and the grind that I’m being consistent with my content and spreading love and awareness when I tell my story with real raw truth and facts to back it up because it documented on my life story. 

Find the strength within yourself to remove yourself from the chaos and toxic situations that do not benefit you anymore find a happy medium and a peaceful balance in your life. Always remember protect your peace and energy at all times 

Follow your dreams you have the power and the mind of your own to do it nobody can’t dictate that for you only you have the high ground to be able to make it happen so whatever goals and dreams you want to accomplish go after and do it get a jumpstart on it go out there and make that happen for yourself. Only you can do it nobody not going to do it for you 

Protect that at all times because not everybody deserve you as a person or deserve to be in your space or deserve your time, energy and love not everybody do because the moment they in your space the moment everything messes up because you never know what their true intentions are so always be on your guard at all times. 

Be aware who you share your personal information with or your lifetime stories one day if something happen between you and this compliance they might end up telling your business in the streets the word will get out on the street and eventually you going to have to heard all this stuff from what was said about you that why it hard out here to trust anybody nowadays. 

I was filled by everything she told me this whole I love you thing is so overrated for me at this point if I had to choose between loyalty and love I rather go with loyalty because without loyalty there no connection, bond or relationship that will have a foundation to stand on. 

I was able to be free from the situation and not look back I’m glad I felt the weight lift off my shoulders that I don’t have to deal with the abuse anymore and no-more outside noises and distractions which I don’t need any negativity in my life I found peace and happiness at last.

We go toe and toe a lot of times because of what happen and til this day we are still doing that so this whole thing being the chosen one is not clear say that it is accurate of what he saying because their no evidence to back up that claim he just made about him being the chosen one that his beliefs of that how he feels like him feel that way. 

The moment we enter a new year in 2025 as it ended it in January to 2026 I knew the relationship was in trouble in paradise so the best thing for my brother Bryant and I is to remove ourselves from this situation and move across town and never look back by forgetting everybody els including my narcissistic grandmother. 

My health was taking a toll on me I had to find my way to escape this situation I was in because being the golden child really took a toll on me and it wasn’t healthy for me or my brother. A lot of those arguments that me and my brother had was because of my narcissistic grandmother she had her role in this which she played it very well by trying to pretend to be a concern grandmother and tears were so dry it wasn’t even falling from her face she was such a good actor.

The backstory was a lot of lies been build on between my brother Bryant and I and rumors that aren’t even significant true or never had happened so two women who were pathological liars which are my mother and my narcissistic grandmother they been lying for years about me and my brother Bryant both of you told my god sister Kiersten and her mother who I known for a while that use to live 130 prospect street east orange at the time saying that me and my brother were making this whole story up about my mother ? Why would I go through these length lying on a woman who I seen and witnessed everything she was doing behind close doors. 

I Promise you if I had stayed in that relationship I wouldn’t have gotten this far in life that I am accomplishing all my goals if I was still maintaining that broken relationship with this narcissist grandmother who is a lost soul who is all about her and never about anybody els around her everything all had to be about her and her wellbeing’s. My feelings didn’t matter and my wellbeing didn’t matter I don’t see what the point staying in the relationship when I’m not getting the love and respect that I deserved. 

The relationship that I had with her mother was real it was never upcoming battles when it came to her mother bc it was smooth sailing between us we never fight or argue so when it came to my grandmother it was sense of control and finance it was never about the relationship we had or about building a foundation to stand on it was about money and greed which she wanted to have control over of so I realized after 35 years of this relationship been nothing but a waste it was transactional and I didn’t want that at all so I plan my escape to leave the relationship without telling her I was done with you . 

I invested in this relationship so much of my time have been wasted on someone who didn’t reciprocate the mercy that I was giving her. I couldn’t believe I wasted 35 years of my life just to put my life and everything on hold to please this woman I felt trapped I couldn’t do anything. Now I wouldn’t be able to accomplish the things I’m accomplishing now if I was still in that situation I don’t think I wouldn’t gotten this far. 

Smear campaign and flying monkey spreading rumors and lies about things that not even happening she been doing this for years she had nothing better els to do she had destroyed a lot of relationships including her own daughter. Instead of her worrying about what my brother Bryant and I got going she needs to focus on how she going to repair the relationship she had with her own daughter 

No Matter how hard you put your energy into that relationship no matter how much you try to love them more and love them more guess what anything you tried to do it is not good enough for that person.

I was in a very dark place where I was battling my own demons I wasn’t happy with the relationship that I was in I was very unhappy for a long time I felt trapped I was finding my way to get out of this situation before it gets worst. 

Everything is documented in my life story that everything that happen is nothing but the truth. I had to tell my truth there no reason for me to lie about any of this not even about my narcissistic grandmother and not even about my mother as well. 

You can go beyond and try to please someone all that pleasing and going so hard for somebody starts to fade away overtime because their nothing you do for them will be good enough to that person they still won’t be happy. 

We are all responsible for the role we play it takes guts to come out and say you know what I was wrong I messed up I shouldn’t never done that to you and you don’t deserve to be treated like this I never once heard my grandmother told me to my face Brandon I’m wrong I fucked up for what I did she very invasive and unapologetic she not the type to take ownership of anything that she done wrong well that what a narcissistic person does.

A lot of Things Happen Behind Closed doors in my grandmother house at 15 Edgar road west orange New Jersey the house number 15. A lot of those fight happens was because of her and I just couldn’t quite understand why it would happen the way it did because she was being dishonest with the information that was giving to me she wanted to see how much I care about her by flipping out on somebody els. I was under her influence and possession by the demon because I was battling my demons a lot of those times even though I’m still struggling with it til this day. 

Have you ever been in a situation where you call somebody out on their behavior that they were doing ? Because you was there and witnessed everything that went down and they still want to say it not me nah uh it not my fault it your fault ?. Accountability is kryptonite to these two women that was in my life I never not once heard them say I’m sorry it was fault I messed up so bad I’ll take full responsibility they only apologized whenever they feel like it they will wait until the situation dies down or a month later than it turns to a year that when they apologize. By the time by then that apology will be too late because your apology won’t be accepted because the damage is done. 

Facing financial abuse as being the golden child it really came with the price it was never about the relationship where it’s two people connecting to each other where they build that bond with one another to have that foundation it was never about that with my narcissistic grandmother it was based on money everything was money when it came to her she was very self centered like the world involved around here she made the situation to be about her all the time it was always me me me me it was never about anybody els that was important to her. She a pathological liar she was not always honest when situations take a dark turn she never take accountability for what she did wrong for example she will apologize than she will backtrack on her apology by taking it back so that not coming from a genuine place when a person do that. 

The lies she told my older brother Bryant and the lies she told other people I learned over the years of knowning this woman she not a very good liar that for sure she not very good at covering her tracks she put the blame game on other people like it everybody fault and not hers. She a type of woman who thinks she perfect in everybody eyes like she could do no wrong to nobody and not understanding her actions come with a consequences and a price of losing relationships especially several failed marriages she definitely couldn’t keep that man at the table when the person  who is the problem is really in the mirror.

The golden child may be the favorite in the family where they are treated as royalty like they can never do no wrong they are easily to be influenced into doing something that they wouldn’t normally do until they realizes later on they were just being used by their manipulation games where they become the target where both these women my mother and my grandmother do not take ownership or responsibility for their actions of hurting others they didn’t care who they hurt it was all about their wellbeing’s and their needs matters more to them than family to them. 

It Wasn’t Love anymore when I realized later on it was nothing but a transactional relationship it may be genuine on my end but it wasn’t genuine on that person end it was more with what I can do for that person by using me as an source of supply and if something ever happen to her she will have me be a caregiver to pay for her expense and wants and needs by putting my life on holds of the things that I want to accomplish which she didn’t care about at all.

Your not alone you don’t have to go through what I went through plan your escape plan while you can find peace and happiness in your life. Go somewhere where you feel wanted and love you should have to stay in something where you don’t feel love or welcome. 

The second chapter of my life where it explains in details from the very beginning it explain everything that had happen to me and what was it like to be that golden child and why I had that status and why I became the potential target through everybody including the family dynamics. 

The long term trauma I endured on from the situation was dealing with my narcissistic grandmother and my mother and her best friend have her involvement as well because in this situation nobody an angel or innocent at all and now I have my brother doing exact same thing by praying on my downfall when I was the golden child I’m the survivor throughout the whole ordeal since I was sixteen he didn’t endured on anything because he was the scapegoat. Scapegoat didn’t really go through what the golden child went through I went through war and have too many target on my back they targeted me by telling my brother Bryant that I was the weak one and he was the chosen one when they have it all backwards he wasn’t the chosen one I am this year I became very successful on YouTube I made it my career my empire by reaching 100,000 subscribers on YouTube now everybody knows me it more to the story about everything that happen to me.