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Engaging Walk
by Drake and Rubie Martinez
Rubie and Drake are a married couple from San Diego, California who plan Engaging Walks to keep their marriage interesting and refreshing. Stay connected with your significant other by joining them on their Engaging Walks, as they discuss topics like communication, conflict, connection, children, faith, and responsibilities.
Episodes
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Episode 65: Compromise
In this week's episode, Drake and Rubie discuss the importance of compromise in the relationship. How do we compromise? When is it appropriate to "give-in" to your partner? What is actually happening when we compromise?
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Episode 64: Communication
In this week's episode, Drake and Rubie are back after a bit of a sabbatical while they cared for their first baby. We continue on with communication as part of the five c's of connection. Drake will address issues like growing in your capacity for open dialogue, important topics to discuss, and...
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Episode 63: Chemistry
Is Chemistry important in a relationship? Is it more important than compatibility, shared values, and a shared vision? What is chemistry in a relationship? Can the relationship be successful without it? Tune in to this week's episode, as Drake discusses these ideas and more.
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Episode 62: Family Culture
In this week's episode, Drake discusses the importance of developing, maintaining, and protecting your family culture.
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Episode 61: Motherhood
This weeks episode features the return of Rubie! She is back to discuss her perspective on motherhood. We will resume the five c's of connection next week. Rubie is back and discusses all the things she learned from pregnancy, child birth, and raising a little human being as a first time mom. You...
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Episode 60: Compatibility
In our first episode of the Five C's of Connection series, Drake discusses "Compatibility" and provides an in-depth analysis of the different and essential aspects of what makes couples compatible and how they can maintain their compatibility over the course of their relationship.
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Episode 59: The Five C's of Connection
In this week's episode, Drake discusses the Five C's of Connection:
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Episode 58: How Do We Forgive Our Parents?
In this week's episode, Drake discusses the process of coming to an understanding, forgiving, and reconciling with our parents in order to have a healthy relationship with boundaries as adults.
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Episode 57: Why Parenting is So Difficult and How We Can Make it Easier
We're back! In this week's episode, Drake covers some of the leading research on the challenges of being a parent, and some strategies and tactics to be the best parent you can be. www.engagingwalk.com
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Episode 56: The Greatest Benefit of Marriage
On today's episode, Drake discusses the greatest benefit of marriage. Out of the many advantages, benefits, and blessings that come with marriage, nothing beats this one! www.engagingwalk,com
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Episode 55: Why Should Men Get Married in Today's Society When it Seems Like They Shouldn't
Many of the social media influencers have a cult-of-personality celebrating a life of hedonism and a playboy lifestyle. While these men may have pleasure in the moment, they are missing out on the spiritual and emotional growth and healing that occurs when a man takes a woman to be his lawfully...
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Episode 54: What Makes a Healthy Family?
May 8, 2024. In today's episode, Drake discusses the importance and composition of a healthy family. What makes up a healthy family? Why is it important that our families are healthy? How have perspectives changed over the recent generations in terms of developing a healthy family?...
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Episode 53: Common Problems in Marriage
In this week's episode, Drake has recently gone spelunking into marriage Facebook groups and identified some of the most common issues according to the group members and how these problems can be corrected with a shift in perspective. You won't want to miss out on this week's conversation.
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Episode 52: Who Should Apologize First?
In this week's episode, Drake discusses the importance of identifying who should apologize first in the relationship when there is a conflict, misunderstanding, or miscommunication. Make sure you tune in! www.engagingwalk.com
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Episode 51: What it Has Been Like to Become Parents
Drake and Rubie now have a newborn at home - their first child. In this week's episode, Drake discusses what it has been like to transition into parenthood. You'll hear some of the challenges, joys, and new perspectives on life that he has gained by becoming a parent for the first time....
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Episode 50: Gottman 7 Principles of Marriage - Principle 7: Create Shared Meaning
In this week's episode, Drake covers the final of the seven principles for making marriage work by Gottman. www.engagingwalk.com www.gottman.com
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Episode 49: Gottman 7 Principles of Marriage - Principle 6: Overcome Gridlock
In this week's episode, Drake gives an overview and commentary of the sixth principle for Gottman: overcome gridlock. Drake talks about the most relevant and important aspects of this chapter and gives his own insights to the significance of recognizing your spouse's dreams in order to maintain...
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Episode 48: Gottman 7 Principles of Marriage - Principle 5: Solve Your Solvable Problems
In this week's episode, Drake discusses the significance of Gottman's fifth principle of making marriage work: solve your solvable problems. For Gottman, this includes a discussion around the solvable and unsolvable problems in marriage, as well as a discussion around solving the solvable…
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Episode 47: Gottman 7 Principles of Marriage - Principle 4: Let Your Partner Influence You
In this week's episode, Drake and Rubie discuss the significance of Gottman's fourth principle: letting your partner influence you. They also give some commentary about how this relates to conflict resolution, being present in the relationship, and give some concrete examples. You won't want to...
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Episode 46: Gottman 7 Principles of Marriage - Principle 3: Turn Towards Each Other
In this week's episode, Drake gives us a review of Gottman's third principle: turn towards each other. He also provides his insight as to why this is so important in marriage and in relationships. You won't want to miss this episode! Engaging Walk is not affiliated with Gottman in any way....
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Episode 45: Gottman 7 Principles of Marriage - Principle 2: Nurturing Your Fondness and Admiration
In this week's episode, Drake and Rubie have a discussion about the second principle of Gottman: nurturing your fondness and admiration in the relationship. Drake and Rubie also give their reaction to how this principle can be implemented in the marriage and why they believe it is so important.…
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Episode 44: Gottman 7 Principles of Marriage - Principle 1: Love Maps
I this week's Friday episode, Rubie is back! She and Drake give an in-depth analysis and have a conversation about the first of seven principles in Gottman's research into marriage. One year ago, Drake and Rubie were first introduced to Gottman's research during a marriage retreat. This time…
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Episode 43: Is Jealousy Healthy in the Relationship?
In this week's episode, Drake discusses the significance of jealousy in the relationship. When is it justified to feel jealous? Is jealousy innately bad? How can we use the feeling of jealousy to strengthen the relationship?
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Episode 42: Dating and Politics
In this week's Friday special, Drake discusses the importance of discussing political leanings in dating in order to determine compatibility.
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Episode 41: Do's and Don'ts of the First Date
In this week's episode, Drake discusses the importance of the do's and don'ts of the first date for men and women. This includes leading up the first date, the first date itself, and how to determine if the relationship is worth pursuing. www.engagingwalk.com
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Episode 40: The Art of Charm - Command Appeal in the Conversation
In this week's episode, Drake and Rubie discuss how to approach the conversation in dating. Join in as they discuss topics like being authentic in the conversation, maintaining appeal, and driving at deeper understanding while elevating how others perceive you. These topics work for dating,...
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Episode 39: Comparing Modern and Traditional Dating
In this week's episode, Drake and Rubie continue with their dating series. As we are in the season of Valentine's Day, let's take a moment to compare how dating used to work, versus how works now - particularly in the west. Is a more traditional approach better in terms of long-term stability?…
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Episode 38: Supporting Your Wife Through Pregnancy
In this week's Friday Special, Drake discusses the importance of providing your wife or partner with the support they need through pregnancy. Pregnancy can be really challenging for mom and dad. But, as men, we have a different set of challenges and expectations in supporting our woman as she…
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Episode 37: Is Online Dating Worth the Trouble?
In this week's episode, Drake and Rubie discuss all things online dating. Is online dating stigmatized? Is it a good way to find a long-term partner? What does the latest data show about online dating? Join in on the conversation!
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Episode 36: I.S.S. Movie Reaction
In this week's Friday Special, Drake gives a reaction of the I.S.S. movie released on January 19, 2024. Engaging Walk Podcast is all about relationships, marriage, and maintaining connection. Drake and Rubie go on weekly date nights to ensure they never stop dating, even in marriage. During a...
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Episode 35: How to Grow Closer to Each Other
In this week's episode, Drake and Rubie discuss the fourth part of their vision series, which highlights of importance of growing together - not apart. Couples need to ensure that their plans, vision, and goals for the future take each other into account.
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Episode 34: Overcoming Obstacles and Staying Motivated on the Path to Your Goals
In this week's episode, Drake and Rubie discuss how to overcome obstacles and stay motivated on the path to your goals, particularly by celebrating small successes on your path. This is a relationship and marriage podcast, so it wouldn't be complete without discussing how we accomplish our goals…
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Episode 33: The Power of Goal Setting: How to Make Your Dreams a Reality and Aligning Your Goals With Your Vision
In this week's episode, Drake and Rubie discuss the second part of four in their vision series. Having a vision and goals for your life can change when you're in a relationship. How do we grow together without growing apart? Drake and Rubie are a married couple from San Diego, California. Join…
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Episode 32: Strategies for Success and Visualizing Your Dreams - Reflecting on the Past Year: Lessons Learned and New Goals for the Future
In this week's episode, the first of 2024, Drake and Rubie discuss meaningful ways in which couples can establish a shared and individual vision and act in ways to accomplish your goals. You won't want to miss this new episode of the New Year!
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Episode 31: Reflecting on 2023 and Getting Ready for 2024
In this week's episode, Drake and Rubie reflect on 2023, which was a huge year for them. They talk about the importance of reflecting on the year, taking note of the positive notes and learning from the lows. They also put this into the context of being a married couple and growing together...
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Episode 30: Managing Stress and Being Present During the Holidays
The holidays can be a stressful time for many. For some, we have too many people to see, gifts to buy, and parties to attend. For others, they're lonely transplants, on deployment, or don't have family or friends to see during the holidays. On this Friday special, Drake and Rubie discuss ways in...
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Episode 29: Fathers and the Role of Men in the Family
In this week's episode, Drake takes on the topic of what it means to be a father. With a newborn on the way, he discusses the importance of sacrifice, discovering who you are as a man, and how imperative it is to put your old self aside and embrace your new role as the head of the family.
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Episode 28: Special Addition: Pregnancy!
In this week's episode, Rubie and Drake discuss exciting news: a new addition to their family!
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Episode 27: Navigating "The One" Part III: Seeking Advice and Counsel from Mentors and Role Models
In this week's episode, Rubie and Drake further discuss how you can identify a suitable romantic partner by seeking advice from an outside perspective. It's necessary to seek counsel from role models and mentors to make sure your heart and your mind are both making an informed decision.
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Episode 26: Navigating "The One" Part II: Asking Your Partner Deep Questions
In this week's episode, Drake and Rubie go further into their "Navigating the One" series by discussing what it means to ask your partner deep questions. Asking deep questions in the dating stage can save you a lot of heartache in the future. Make sure that the person you are investing your time...
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Episode 25: Navigating "The One" by Investing in Yourself
In this week's episode, Drake and Rubie discuss the idea of finding the person who is "The One" for you. Before you know who is right for you, you have to really know who you are and what you bring to the table. You won't want to miss this week's episode and the new series from Engaging Walk...
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Episode 24: Protecting Your Family Norms Through Boundaries and Maintaining Standards
Drake and Rubie go into their third part of the family norms series. First episode (Episode 22) discusses the importance of establishing and cultivating your family norms. The Second episode (Episode 23) discusses the importance of implementing your family norms into action. In this week's…
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Episode 23: Implementing Family Norms
In this week's episode, Drake and Rubie are back with a discussion of family culture and norms. They discuss how to implement steps into your routine to establish a positive and connection-based culture in your household.
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Episode 22: Cultivating Family Norms
In this week's episode, Rubie and Drake go into the important topic of how and why you should set up your family norms!www.engagingwalk.com
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Episode 21: Marriage Milestones
In this week's episode, Drake and Rubie discuss new and exciting milestones in their relationship, and how these milestones will shape their relationship.
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Episode 20: Boba the Corgi
Drake and Rubie have now had the immense pleasure of raising up their dog named Boba. Boba is a Corgi who absolutely loves to play, hang out with mom and dad, go to dog parks, and brings so much love and joy to everyone she meets. Drake and Rubie discuss what it has been like to introduce a dog...
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Episode 19: Intimacy Part 4
In this week's episode, Drake and Rubie discuss the importance of spending quality time together. www.engagingwalk.com
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Episode 18: Intimacy Part 3
In this week's episode, Drake and Rubie discuss the importance of providing our loved ones with gratitude and recognition for what they bring to the table in our relationships. www.engagingwalk.com
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Episode 17: Intimacy Part 2
This week, Drake and Rubie discuss the benefits of small gestures and how these actions can deepen intimacy in your relationship.
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Episode 16: Intimacy
In this week's episode, Rubie and Drake discuss the important topic of intimacy in the relationship. You won't want to miss this!
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ABOUT THIS SHOW
Rubie and Drake are a married couple from San Diego, California who plan Engaging Walks to keep their marriage interesting and refreshing. Stay connected with your significant other by joining them on their Engaging Walks, as they discuss topics like communication, conflict, connection, children, faith, and responsibilities.
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Rubie and Drake are a married couple from San Diego, California who plan Engaging Walks to keep their marriage interesting and refreshing. Stay connected with your significant other by joining them on their Engaging Walks, as they discuss topics like communication, conflict, connection, children,...
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