Enneagram Five

The holidays are supposed to be joyful. For a lot of Fives, they’re also complicated.In this final live episode of the year, Josiah and Cody check back in after a break, reflect on what the holidays stir up for Fives, and look honestly at where they’ve grown and where they still default to comfort. From gift-giving anxiety to nostalgia, grief, creativity, and energy management, this episode is a wide-ranging, deeply Five conversation about endings, transitions, and what we want to carry forward.They also wrap up the year by naming what 2025 taught them and what they’re intentionally leaving behind as they head into the next chapter.IN THIS EPISODE:• Red, Yellow, Green Check-In – How Josiah and Cody are actually doing heading into the holidays, and why “yellow” doesn’t always mean bad• Current Curiosities – From radio frequencies and in-ear monitors to electric K-trucks and engine swaps, the latest Five rabbit holes• Do Fives Hate the Holidays? – Why the answer is “it depends,” and how nostalgia, grief, expectations, and sensory overload all play a role• Would You Rather: Holiday Edition – Hosting vs intrusive questions, decorating vs shopping, travel chaos vs zero alone time, and more• Growth vs Comfort in 2025 – Where each of them chose vulnerability, presence, and connection, and where withdrawal still shows up• Looking Ahead to 2026 – Creative goals, renewed energy, physical health, and shedding old expectations that no longer serveLINKS & RESOURCES:📩 Join the weekly newsletter: enneagramfive.com/newsletter💬 Join the community: enneagramfive.com/community🗒️ Full transcript and show notes: enneagramfive.com/59JOIN THE CONVERSATION:How do the holidays land for you as a Five? What do you want to carry into next year, and what are you ready to leave behind? Drop a comment in the community and keep the conversation going.TAKE THE FULLY FIVE QUIZ:A 5-minute clarity check-in for Enneagram Fives that gives you a precise snapshot of your inner landscape so you can track where you are and choose your next move intentionally.• Fast & free – 5 minute quiz, instant results.• Personalized for you – No generic advice.• Actionable & practical – Clear next steps.➡️ Tap here to take the quiz nowRECOMMENDED NEXT EPISODE:➡️ #27: Subtypes***CONNECT:📷 Connect on Instagram🧵 Connect on Threads💼 Connect on LinkedIn📹 Subscribe on YouTube***SAY THANKS:💜 Leave a review on Apple Podcasts🟢 Leave a rating on Spotify

Fives grow up believing self-reliance is safety, but what happens when that belief turns into a voice that's constantly whispering you’re better off alone?In this episode, we go deep into the tension between independence and connection, the pain of carrying unmet childhood needs into adulthood, and what happens when life forces you to confront the stories you’ve been living inside without even knowing it. Josiah opens up about one of the hardest seasons of his life: marriage struggles, identity unraveling, and the terrifying question of whether he’s built a life he actually chose.We explore what happens when a Five’s inner narrative collides with real relationships, why “being alone” feels like the solution even when it isn’t, and how to move forward when there’s no clear answer.IN THIS EPISODE:• The Voice That Says “You’re Better Off Alone” – Where it comes from, why it feels so true, and how childhood patterns shape it. • Transparency vs Vulnerability – The difference between talking about what you’ve been through and sharing what you’re in right now. • When Healing Creates New Tension – How growth can surface problems you’ve been avoiding for years. • Positive vs Negative Sentiment Override – Why the same situation can feel totally different depending on your internal state. • Marriage, Identity, and the Fear of Choosing Wrong – What happens when you’re 40 and forced to question everything you built. • Loneliness vs Aloneness – The difference between feeling isolated and actually being on your own for the first time. • Writing Your Own Story – Learning when to stop calculating and start living.LINKS & RESOURCES:📊 Take the Fully Five Quiz: enneagramfive.com/quiz📩 Join the weekly newsletter: enneagramfive.com/newsletter💬 Join the community: enneagramfive.com/community🗒️ Full transcript and show notes: enneagramfive.com/58JOIN THE CONVERSATION:📢 Do you ever feel like you’re “better off alone”? How does that voice show up for you as a Five? Share your story inside the community—we’d love to hear it.TAKE THE FULLY FIVE QUIZ:A 5-minute clarity check-in for Enneagram Fives that gives you a precise snapshot of your inner landscape so you can track where you are and choose your next move intentionally.• Fast & free – 5 minute quiz, instant results.• Personalized for you – No generic advice.• Actionable & practical – Clear next steps.➡️ Tap here to take the quiz nowRECOMMENDED NEXT EPISODE:➡️ #27: Subtypes***CONNECT:📷 Connect on Instagram🧵 Connect on Threads💼 Connect on LinkedIn📹 Subscribe on YouTube***SAY THANKS:💜 Leave a review on Apple Podcasts🟢 Leave a rating on Spotify

Has anyone ever told you that you’re not really a Five?In this episode, Cody stages an intervention (armed with four years of transcripts, Enneagram books, and a surprising analysis from ChatGPT) to settle an ongoing debate: Is Josiah actually a Five… or a Three in disguise?What starts as a lighthearted experiment turns into one of the most personal and revealing conversations we’ve ever had about identity, burnout, belonging, and what it really means to grow beyond your type.IN THIS EPISODE:• The “ChatGPT Experiment” – Cody feeds 35 episodes into AI to find out what type Josiah really is. • Public Speculation – Why some in the Enneagram community doubt Josiah’s Five-ness. • The Case for Type Three – Guest Corey joins to make his argument and share what he sees from the outside. • Josiah’s Turning Point – How getting demoted, hiring a life coach, and confronting his inner critic reshaped everything. • Social Fives vs. Threes – What looks similar on the surface but feels completely different underneath. • The Fully Five Origin Story – How years of burnout led Josiah to create a community for Fives who want more from life. • The Real Motivation – Why freedom, not recognition, drives Josiah, and how that might be the most Five thing of all.LINKS & RESOURCES:📩 Join the newsletter: enneagramfive.com/newsletter 💬 Join the community: enneagramfive.com/community 🗒️ Full transcript & show notes: enneagramfive.com/57JOIN THE CONVERSATION:📢 Do you think Josiah is really a Five, or could he be a Three in disguise? Let us know in the community!TAKE THE FULLY FIVE QUIZ:A 5-minute clarity check-in for Enneagram Fives that gives you a precise snapshot of your inner landscape so you can track where you are and choose your next move intentionally.• Fast & free – 5 minute quiz, instant results.• Personalized for you – No generic advice.• Actionable & practical – Clear next steps.➡️ Tap here to take the quiz nowRECOMMENDED NEXT EPISODE:➡️ #27: Subtypes***CONNECT:📷 Connect on Instagram🧵 Connect on Threads💼 Connect on LinkedIn📹 Subscribe on YouTube***SAY THANKS:💜 Leave a review on Apple Podcasts🟢 Leave a rating on Spotify

Fives are proud of being “smart.” But what if that thing we trust most is also the thing holding us back?In this episode, we talk about the difference between intellect and intelligence, and why Fives tend to obsess over one while ignoring the other. We get into why being analytical can make you feel powerful but also isolated, emotionally numb, disconnected from your body, and limited in real life. We also share how we’ve been building other forms of intelligence like emotional awareness, body awareness, social intuition, and even a sense of connection to the world around us.We look at how these other kinds of intelligence change creativity, connection, confidence, and energy. And why, as Fives, learning to trust them can be a bigger unlock than getting “smarter.”IN THIS EPISODE:• Intellect vs. Intelligence — We break down why intellect (analysis, logic, problem-solving) is just one slice of a much bigger system of intelligence. We talk about how Fives overuse that one tool and what it costs us.• “I’m a Genius… and an Idiot” — Josiah shares how his high IQ scores gave him confidence but also blinded him to other ways of knowing. We explore why being clever can actually hold us back from growing wiser.• Emotional, Body, and Social Intelligence — We explore what it means to reconnect with our emotions, tune into our bodies, and build social intuition — and how those neglected forms of intelligence help us feel more alive and connected.• Overthinking, Intuition, and Letting Go — We look at how over-analysis kills momentum, why intuition deserves more trust, and what happens when you stop trying to think your way through everything and start experiencing your way forward.LINKS & RESOURCES:📩 Join the weekly newsletter: enneagramfive.com/newsletter💬 Join the community: enneagramfive.com/community🗒️ Full transcript and show notes: enneagramfive.com/56🎬 The Princess Bride (1987) – “Battle of Wits” scene referenceJOIN THE CONVERSATION:What kind of intelligence have you undervalued in yourself because it didn’t feel “smart enough”? Has that cost you anything in your real life (energy, relationships, confidence, or momentum)? Tell us in the community.TAKE THE FULLY FIVE QUIZ:A 5-minute clarity check-in for Enneagram Fives that gives you a precise snapshot of your inner landscape so you can track where you are and choose your next move intentionally.• Fast & free – 5 minute quiz, instant results.• Personalized for you – No generic advice.• Actionable & practical – Clear next steps.➡️ Tap here to take the quiz nowRECOMMENDED NEXT EPISODE:➡️ #27: Subtypes***CONNECT:📷 Connect on Instagram🧵 Connect on Threads💼 Connect on LinkedIn📹 Subscribe on YouTube***SAY THANKS:💜 Leave a review on Apple Podcasts🟢 Leave a rating on Spotify

Hard work is a virtue… until it becomes a trap.In this episode, we explore how Fives relate to hard work, motivation, and the stories we’ve inherited about what effort should look like. We unpack our personal histories (lazy labels, blue-collar expectations, engineering hacks, and chronic fatigue) and how all of that shaped our relationship to discipline and purpose.We also dive deep into the myth of "working smarter not harder,” the allure of flow state, and the surprising ways hard work can become a source of love, not just labor.IN THIS EPISODE:• Strategic Laziness — How Fives use systems, automation, and over-engineering to avoid work… and why that’s not always a bad thing. • Hard Work as Avoidance — Why we sidestep tasks that feel like a grind, and how that resistance often masks deeper fears. • The Flow State Trap — How chasing peak performance can become its own form of procrastination. • Redefining Discipline — Moving from obligation to alignment, and why discipline matters even when inspiration doesn't show up. • Motivation Through Meaning — How caring for others (and ourselves) gives effort a new purpose, from parenting to partnership to podcasting. • The Work of Love — What diapers, depression, and doing the laundry taught us about what love actually is. • From Avoidance to Integration — How doing the hard emotional work helped us stop running and start liking ourselves.LINKS & RESOURCES:📩 Join the weekly newsletter: enneagramfive.com/newsletter 💬 Join the community: enneagramfive.com/community 🗒️ Full transcript and show notes: enneagramfive.com/55 📚 Books mentioned: • The War of Art by Steven Pressfield • The Creative Way by Seth HainesJOIN THE CONVERSATION:📢 What’s your relationship to hard work as a Five? Do you avoid it? Chase flow state? Redefine it? Share your story with us in the community!TAKE THE FULLY FIVE QUIZ:A 5-minute clarity check-in for Enneagram Fives that gives you a precise snapshot of your inner landscape so you can track where you are and choose your next move intentionally.• Fast & free – 5 minute quiz, instant results.• Personalized for you – No generic advice.• Actionable & practical – Clear next steps.➡️ Tap here to take the quiz nowRECOMMENDED NEXT EPISODE:➡️ #27: Subtypes***CONNECT:📷 Connect on Instagram🧵 Connect on Threads💼 Connect on LinkedIn📹 Subscribe on YouTube***SAY THANKS:💜 Leave a review on Apple Podcasts🟢 Leave a rating on Spotify

Fives crave clarity, but expectations make everything fuzzy.In this episode, we wrestle with how expectations shape our creative process, our friendships, and our self‑story—often without us noticing. We start with the behind‑the‑scenes saga of trying (for the third time!) to record this conversation, then follow the thread into dread before hitting “record,” unspoken agreements in friendship, and how TV taught many of us what relationships “should” look like. Along the way, we share small shifts that reduce spiral time and increase real connection.IN THIS EPISODE:When Expectations Jam Creativity – How pre‑loading a conversation with “it has to be great” creates dread, stalls energy, and makes us over‑analyze instead of talk.Friendship Without Guesswork – The cost of unspoken expectations (e.g., slow replies, differing communication rhythms) and the relief of naming needs directly.Seeing Yourself Through Someone Else’s Eyes – How imagining others’ perceptions fuels spirals—and simple checks to return to reality.Independence Isn’t the Goal – Moving from “don’t burden anyone” to chosen interdependence: sharing burdens to build connection, not to outsource regulation.TV-Trained Expectations – The West Wing, Friends, Scrubs, The O.C.—how pop culture scripts set unrealistic standards for friendship, family, and community.Proximity and Belonging – Why neighbors and repeated contact create the “just walk in” ease so many Fives want—and how to cultivate it on purpose.Comparison, Career, and Age – Spotting the Instagram version of other people’s lives, reframing late starts, and noticing what you actually prioritized.LINKS & RESOURCES:📩 Join the weekly newsletter: enneagramfive.com/newsletter💬 Join the community: enneagramfive.com/community🗒️ Full transcript and show notes: enneagramfive.com/54JOIN THE CONVERSATION:What expectation are you ready to drop this week, of yourself or someone else? Tell us what shifts when you name it in the community.TAKE THE FULLY FIVE QUIZ:A 5-minute clarity check-in for Enneagram Fives that gives you a precise snapshot of your inner landscape so you can track where you are and choose your next move intentionally.• Fast & free – 5 minute quiz, instant results.• Personalized for you – No generic advice.• Actionable & practical – Clear next steps.➡️ Tap here to take the quiz nowRECOMMENDED NEXT EPISODE:➡️ #27: Subtypes***CONNECT:📷 Connect on Instagram🧵 Connect on Threads💼 Connect on LinkedIn📹 Subscribe on YouTube***SAY THANKS:💜 Leave a review on Apple Podcasts🟢 Leave a rating on Spotify

In this live episode, we dig into a common belief about Fives that seems flattering on the surface but gets more complicated the deeper you go. We talk about what listening actually looks like for us, why presence is harder than it seems, and how emotional bandwidth plays into the equation.We also share what’s been lighting up our curiosity lately (spoiler: it includes alien documentaries, tornado footage, and an obsessive dive into Pokémon Emerald), and debate a Would You Rather that pits emotional exposure against slow internet. It got intense.To wrap things up, we reflect on where we’ve been growing (and where we’ve been hiding) and what happens when we stop waiting for the perfect conditions and just show up.IN THIS EPISODE:• Red, Yellow, Green – COVID recovery, job burnout, and existential aging• Current Curiosities – Pokémon stats, weather disasters, and the nerdy joys of lighting setups• Myth Busting – The difference between appearing to listen and actually being present • Would You Rather – Hourly emotional check-ins or research with throttled internet? You have to pick. • Growth vs. Comfort – Hosting with no agenda, launching without overthinking, and saying yes before everything feels safeLINKS & RESOURCES:🚀 Join the Fully Five Accelerator: enneagramfive.com/ffa📩 Join the weekly newsletter: enneagramfive.com/newsletter 💬 Join the community: enneagramfive.com/community 🗒️ Full transcript and show notes: enneagramfive.com/53JOIN THE CONVERSATION: Do you consider yourself a good listener as a Five? What makes it easier (or harder) for you to stay present in conversation? Come share your experience in the community.TAKE THE FULLY FIVE QUIZ:A 5-minute clarity check-in for Enneagram Fives that gives you a precise snapshot of your inner landscape so you can track where you are and choose your next move intentionally.• Fast & free – 5 minute quiz, instant results.• Personalized for you – No generic advice.• Actionable & practical – Clear next steps.➡️ Tap here to take the quiz nowRECOMMENDED NEXT EPISODE:➡️ #27: Subtypes***CONNECT:📷 Connect on Instagram🧵 Connect on Threads💼 Connect on LinkedIn📹 Subscribe on YouTube***SAY THANKS:💜 Leave a review on Apple Podcasts🟢 Leave a rating on Spotify

Fives often imagine themselves outside of time, but aging has a way of forcing us back into reality.In this episode, we explore how Fives experience getting older—from bodies that don’t bounce back the way they used to, to the existential weight of midlife, to the surprising hope that comes with perspective. We share stories about family, health, autonomy, and regret, but also about the freedom, wisdom, and community that emerge when you stop trying to outrun time.IN THIS EPISODE:• The Rift Between Mind and Body – Why our inner age often feels younger than our actual age, and how the body reminds us otherwise. • Facing Mortality – From fears of losing parents to confronting our own decline, what aging stirs up for Fives. • Autonomy and Midlife Crisis – How delayed gratification can turn into foregone gratification, and why midlife forces us to re-evaluate. • Regrets and Religious Conditioning – How past choices shaped our thirties, and what it means to soften instead of harden as we grow older. • Community and Connection – Why relationships, novelty, and shared experiences keep us alive and vibrant. • Hope for the Future – Stories of resilience, learning to take care of ourselves, and what we’re actually looking forward to in our forties and beyond.LINKS & RESOURCES:📩 Join the weekly newsletter: enneagramfive.com/newsletter 💬 Join the community: enneagramfive.com/community 🗒️ Full transcript and show notes: enneagramfive.com/52JOIN THE CONVERSATION:📢 What’s your experience of getting older as a Five? Do you feel younger in your mind than in your body, or the other way around? Drop a comment in the community!TAKE THE FULLY FIVE QUIZ:A 5-minute clarity check-in for Enneagram Fives that gives you a precise snapshot of your inner landscape so you can track where you are and choose your next move intentionally.• Fast & free – 5 minute quiz, instant results.• Personalized for you – No generic advice.• Actionable & practical – Clear next steps.➡️ Tap here to take the quiz nowRECOMMENDED NEXT EPISODE:➡️ #27: Subtypes***CONNECT:📷 Connect on Instagram🧵 Connect on Threads💼 Connect on LinkedIn📹 Subscribe on YouTube***SAY THANKS:💜 Leave a review on Apple Podcasts🟢 Leave a rating on Spotify

Some people think procrastination is just poor time management, but for Fives it’s often much deeper.In this episode, we explore how procrastination shows up for us in uniquely Five ways, from building things up in our heads until they feel impossible, to putting off the projects we care about most because they expose our deepest fears and insecurities. We swap ridiculous (and relatable) stories, dig into the hidden reasons we delay, and share the mindset shifts and habits that have actually helped us follow through.We also talk about the surprising role of friction, how “just five minutes” can break the cycle, and why sometimes the best way to beat procrastination is to take the focus off yourself.IN THIS EPISODE:• Ridiculous Procrastination Stories – From expired tags to year-long delays on a two-minute phone call, and what these moments reveal about our thinking. • Layers of Delay – How fear, insecurity, and perfectionism intertwine to keep us from starting (especially on the things that matter most). • The Inconvenience Factor – Why even tiny deviations from our plan can feel like massive obstacles. • Facing the Gap – The discomfort of starting when your current skills don’t match your vision—and how to move through it. • Removing Friction – The power of shaping your environment so starting feels effortless. • Raising the Stakes – Using public deadlines and external accountability to get things done. • Shifting the Focus – How putting attention on helping others can quiet the inner critic. • The “Five-Minute Rule” – The small, simple commitment that can break the spiral of inaction.LINKS & RESOURCES:📩 Join the weekly newsletter: enneagramfive.com/newsletter💬 Join the community: enneagramfive.com/community🗒️ Full transcript and show notes: enneagramfive.com/51JOIN THE CONVERSATION:📢 What’s your most absurd example of procrastination as a Five? And what helps you finally take action? Share your story in the community!TAKE THE FULLY FIVE QUIZ:A 5-minute clarity check-in for Enneagram Fives that gives you a precise snapshot of your inner landscape so you can track where you are and choose your next move intentionally.• Fast & free – 5 minute quiz, instant results.• Personalized for you – No generic advice.• Actionable & practical – Clear next steps.➡️ Tap here to take the quiz nowRECOMMENDED NEXT EPISODE:➡️ #27: Subtypes***CONNECT:📷 Connect on Instagram🧵 Connect on Threads💼 Connect on LinkedIn📹 Subscribe on YouTube***SAY THANKS:💜 Leave a review on Apple Podcasts🟢 Leave a rating on Spotify

Fives are known for their sharp minds, but does that mean we think we’re smarter than everyone else?In this live episode, we take on a common misconception about Fives—arrogance—and explore where it comes from, why it isn’t the whole story, and what’s really going on beneath the surface. Along the way we share personal updates, talk about growth edges, and wrestle with a brutally hard “Would You Rather?”IN THIS EPISODE:Red, Yellow, Green Check-in – Why both of us are finally feeling green again (after months of chaos) and what’s been shifting behind the scenes.Current Curiosities – Cody’s deep dive into Call of Duty loadouts, Josiah’s obsession with Bitcoin tech (and Cody’s honest boredom about it).Myth Busting – Do Fives really think they’re smarter than everyone else? How pattern recognition, fear of incompetence, and over-reliance on intellect fuel this stereotype.Would You Rather – Speak every thought out loud in real time, or never be allowed to explain your reasoning ever again?Growth vs. Comfort – How we’re leaning into emotional vulnerability, building physical fitness habits, and still avoiding certain growth edges.LINKS & RESOURCES:📩 Join the weekly newsletter: enneagramfive.com/newsletter💬 Join the community: enneagramfive.com/community🗒️ Full transcript and show notes: enneagramfive.com/50JOIN THE CONVERSATION:Do you ever feel like people assume you think you’re smarter than they are? How do you handle that tension? Share your experience in the community!TAKE THE FULLY FIVE QUIZ:A 5-minute clarity check-in for Enneagram Fives that gives you a precise snapshot of your inner landscape so you can track where you are and choose your next move intentionally.• Fast & free – 5 minute quiz, instant results.• Personalized for you – No generic advice.• Actionable & practical – Clear next steps.➡️ Tap here to take the quiz nowRECOMMENDED NEXT EPISODE:➡️ #27: Subtypes***CONNECT:📷 Connect on Instagram🧵 Connect on Threads💼 Connect on LinkedIn📹 Subscribe on YouTube***SAY THANKS:💜 Leave a review on Apple Podcasts🟢 Leave a rating on Spotify

What happens when you're a Five and a mom?This week’s episode is a special podcast takeover by Enneagram experts Sam E. Greenberg, PhD and Melissa Kircher—both Fives and both moms. They swap stories, laugh about their quirks, and get painfully honest about the challenges and strengths of navigating motherhood as a Five. Whether you’re a Five parent yourself or trying to understand one, this conversation pulls back the curtain on what it’s really like to raise kids as a deeply introspective, energy-conscious, intellectually driven Five.IN THIS EPISODE:🔹 Default Parent Syndrome – Why being a Five mom often means being the default parent—and how that impacts your energy, identity, and sanity. 🔹 Sensory Overload & Rage – The lesser-known side of Fives: what happens when you can’t escape and everything’s too much. 🔹 Guilt, Shame, and Nontraditional Roles – From not cooking to setting hard boundaries, the tension between how we parent and how we think we “should.” 🔹 What Fives Bring to the Table – The gifts of deep listening, strong memories, curiosity, and the refusal to parent based on trends. 🔹 Partner Dynamics – Navigating life with assertive kids and extroverted spouses, and learning to advocate for your needs. 🔹 Community & Complexity – Why finding parenting community can be hard for Fives—and why it’s still worth it.LINKS & RESOURCES:🌀 Sam’s work: https://enneagramsexpert.com/ 🌱 Melissa’s coaching: https://enneagrampaths.com/ 📩 Join the weekly newsletter: https://enneagramfive.com/newsletter 💬 Join the community: https://enneagramfive.com/community 🗒 Full transcript and show notes: https://enneagramfive.com/49JOIN THE CONVERSATION:📢 Are you a Five mom, or parenting with one? What parts of this conversation resonated with you? Come share your thoughts in the community!TAKE THE FULLY FIVE QUIZ:A 5-minute clarity check-in for Enneagram Fives that gives you a precise snapshot of your inner landscape so you can track where you are and choose your next move intentionally.• Fast & free – 5 minute quiz, instant results.• Personalized for you – No generic advice.• Actionable & practical – Clear next steps.➡️ Tap here to take the quiz nowRECOMMENDED NEXT EPISODE:➡️ #27: Subtypes***CONNECT:📷 Connect on Instagram🧵 Connect on Threads💼 Connect on LinkedIn📹 Subscribe on YouTube***SAY THANKS:💜 Leave a review on Apple Podcasts🟢 Leave a rating on Spotify

Some rabbit holes are deeper than others, and as Fives we often fall in headfirst.In this episode, we explore the obsessive way Fives pursue information: how it starts, what fuels it, and what happens when it spirals out of control. We share personal stories of late-night research binges, conspiracy rabbit holes, and the paradox of being both empowered and paralyzed by too much knowledge. We also look at what pulls us out—how connection, embodiment, and purpose help break the loop.IN THIS EPISODE:🔹 Obsession as a Coping Mechanism – How fear, curiosity, or meaning-seeking can launch Fives into obsessive research. 🔹 Personal Rabbit Holes – From sharks and UFOs to ancient civilizations and gorilla sexuality, we share some of our most intense information obsessions. 🔹 Productivity vs. Paralysis – When does research become a tool for action—and when is it just a distraction? 🔹 The Cost of Obsession – How our informational fixations can isolate us, disrupt relationships, and interfere with real life. 🔹 Recovery Tactics – What helps us stop the spiral: embodiment, social anchors, and learning to trust gut feelings. 🔹 Using Our Powers for Good – The surprising ways our research has helped others and even landed us jobs. 🔹 Knowing When to Stop – Why learning to pause is just as important as learning to dig deep.LINKS & RESOURCES:📩 Join the weekly newsletter: enneagramfive.com/newsletter 💬 Join the community: enneagramfive.com/community 🗒️ Full transcript and show notes: enneagramfive.com/48JOIN THE CONVERSATION:📢 What’s your favorite informational rabbit hole you’ve gone down? Did it help or hurt? Share your story in the community!TAKE THE FULLY FIVE QUIZ:A 5-minute clarity check-in for Enneagram Fives that gives you a precise snapshot of your inner landscape so you can track where you are and choose your next move intentionally.• Fast & free – 5 minute quiz, instant results.• Personalized for you – No generic advice.• Actionable & practical – Clear next steps.➡️ Tap here to take the quiz nowRECOMMENDED NEXT EPISODE:➡️ #27: Subtypes***CONNECT:📷 Connect on Instagram🧵 Connect on Threads💼 Connect on LinkedIn📹 Subscribe on YouTube***SAY THANKS:💜 Leave a review on Apple Podcasts🟢 Leave a rating on Spotify

We Fives often pride ourselves on intellect, but emotional intelligence is a whole different skill set.In this episode, Sam E. Greenberg, PhD. joins us to explore what emotional intelligence actually means, why it's challenging for Fives, and how our relationships have pushed us to grow. We share real-life stories about misreading emotions, struggling to stay in our bodies, and the surprising benefits we've discovered from learning to feel more deeply.We also dig into the shadow side of emotional intelligence, the ways different types approach emotions, and practical advice for Fives who want to build this vital skill.IN THIS EPISODE:🔹 Defining Emotional Intelligence – What it really means and why it's not just about understanding feelings intellectually. 🔹 Relationships as Teachers – How close relationships with Fours, Twos, and Sixes have accelerated our emotional growth (sometimes painfully). 🔹 Emotional Blind Spots – Real stories about misreading cues, confusing neutrality with happiness, and accidentally sending the wrong signals. 🔹 Building Emotional Intelligence – Why somatic work, creativity, and tolerating discomfort are critical for Fives—and what’s helped us the most. 🔹 Emotional Manipulation – How emotionally intelligent people can sometimes use their skills for manipulation, and how to spot it. 🔹 Moving from Intellectualizing to Feeling – Why staying in our bodies instead of our heads opens a deeper, richer emotional world.LINKS & RESOURCES:📩 Join the weekly newsletter: enneagramfive.com/newsletter 💬 Join the community: enneagramfive.com/community 🗒️ Full transcript and show notes: enneagramfive.com/47JOIN THE CONVERSATION:📢 How has emotional intelligence shown up in your life as a Five? Have you found ways to grow it? Share your stories in the community!TAKE THE FULLY FIVE QUIZ:A 5-minute clarity check-in for Enneagram Fives that gives you a precise snapshot of your inner landscape so you can track where you are and choose your next move intentionally.• Fast & free – 5 minute quiz, instant results.• Personalized for you – No generic advice.• Actionable & practical – Clear next steps.➡️ Tap here to take the quiz nowRECOMMENDED NEXT EPISODE:➡️ #27: Subtypes***CONNECT:📷 Connect on Instagram🧵 Connect on Threads💼 Connect on LinkedIn📹 Subscribe on YouTube***SAY THANKS:💜 Leave a review on Apple Podcasts🟢 Leave a rating on Spotify

Fives often feel like outsiders, but what if the group we’ve always longed for already exists?In this episode, we invite two longtime friends to join us for a candid conversation about what it’s really like to be friends with a Five. From hilarious stories to hard truths, we explore the highs and lows of maintaining deep, long-term friendships—especially when you tend to live in your head.We reflect on shared histories, missed connections, and the emotional work required to sustain meaningful relationships over time. If you've ever struggled with investing in friendships, drifting apart from people you care about, or wondering whether you're too much (or not enough), this one is for you.IN THIS EPISODE:🔹 Friendship from the Outside In — What it’s like to be friends with a Five, from the perspective of a Seven and a Two.🔹 Drifting, Reconnecting, and Reconstructing — Why friendships with Fives often fade and rekindle, and what holds them together long-term.🔹 Anxiety, Energy, and Avoidance — How social anxiety, overthinking, and energy management affect how Fives show up in friendships.🔹 From Judgement to Acceptance — How shared religious backgrounds shaped our self-righteousness, shame, and eventual emotional growth.🔹 The Power of Being Seen — Why honest feedback from close friends is vital—and how it can transform your relationship with yourself.LINKS & RESOURCES:📩 Join the weekly newsletter: enneagramfive.com/newsletter 💬 Join the community: enneagramfive.com/community 🗒️ Full transcript and show notes: enneagramfive.com/46JOIN THE CONVERSATION:📣 What has your experience been like maintaining friendships as a Five? Do you relate to the cycles of connection and withdrawal we talked about? Share your story in the community!TAKE THE FULLY FIVE QUIZ:A 5-minute clarity check-in for Enneagram Fives that gives you a precise snapshot of your inner landscape so you can track where you are and choose your next move intentionally.• Fast & free – 5 minute quiz, instant results.• Personalized for you – No generic advice.• Actionable & practical – Clear next steps.➡️ Tap here to take the quiz nowRECOMMENDED NEXT EPISODE:➡️ #27: Subtypes***CONNECT:📷 Connect on Instagram🧵 Connect on Threads💼 Connect on LinkedIn📹 Subscribe on YouTube***SAY THANKS:💜 Leave a review on Apple Podcasts🟢 Leave a rating on Spotify

In this live episode, we explore a surprising tension many Fives feel: the deep desire to be known and understood, and the equally strong instinct to hide. We unpack what’s really behind our aversion to vulnerability, how our subtypes shape this dynamic, and what it takes to show up even when we’d rather stay in our heads.We also check in on how we’re actually doing, share what we’ve been researching lately (spoiler: lots of ChatGPT experiments), and talk about our current areas of growth. Plus, a tough “Would You Rather?” question that gets right to the heart of the Five dilemma.IN THIS EPISODE:🔹 Red, Yellow, Green Check-In – Why Cody’s been low-key overwhelmed and Josiah spiraled from a simple question at breakfast.🔹 Current Curiosities – Both hosts have been down the ChatGPT rabbit hole, from building home servers to creating custom action figures.🔹 Debunking the Myth – Do Fives really hate vulnerability, or are we just afraid of being misunderstood and depleted?🔹 Subtypes and Being Seen – How self-pres and social instincts shape our comfort (or discomfort) with vulnerability.🔹 Would You Rather – Constant curiosity with anxiety… or total peace with no drive to explore?🔹 Growth vs Comfort – Josiah talks about adult kickball and the challenge of showing up without overpreparing. Cody shares his reluctant quest to get good at sales—and why he still tears up at award shows.LINKS & RESOURCES:💻 Join the Beyond the Mind beta group: enneagramfive.com/beyondthemind 📩 Get the weekly newsletter: enneagramfive.com/newsletter 💬 Join the community: enneagramfive.com/community 🗒️ Full transcript and show notes: enneagramfive.com/45JOIN THE CONVERSATION:📢 Do you want to be known—but find it hard to be vulnerable? What does that look like for you as a Five? Share your thoughts in the community!TAKE THE FULLY FIVE QUIZ:A 5-minute clarity check-in for Enneagram Fives that gives you a precise snapshot of your inner landscape so you can track where you are and choose your next move intentionally.• Fast & free – 5 minute quiz, instant results.• Personalized for you – No generic advice.• Actionable & practical – Clear next steps.➡️ Tap here to take the quiz nowRECOMMENDED NEXT EPISODE:➡️ #27: Subtypes***CONNECT:📷 Connect on Instagram🧵 Connect on Threads💼 Connect on LinkedIn📹 Subscribe on YouTube***SAY THANKS:💜 Leave a review on Apple Podcasts🟢 Leave a rating on Spotify

Fives pride ourselves on independence, but friendship requires letting people in.In this honest and deeply personal episode, we explore what friendship means to us as Fives—and why it’s so complicated. We share stories of how our personalities have made friendship harder, how we’ve grown to value it more, and the unexpected ways we’re learning to show up more authentically and connect more deeply.From childhood loneliness to cold plunges and community-building, we dive into the vulnerabilities, narratives, and patterns that shape our relationships, and what it looks like to break through them.IN THIS EPISODE:🔹 What Is Friendship? — Redefining friendship as a commitment to grow together, even on different paths.🔹 Growing Apart (and Together) — Why outgrowing people is normal—and how we’ve navigated seasons of distance and reconnection in our own friendship.🔹 Inner Circle Criteria — Cody’s candid process for moving people from acquaintance to close friend (including the role of "not annoying him").🔹 The Five’s Castle — Why we’ve built walls around ourselves and what finally helped us start letting people in.🔹 Loneliness and Belonging — The pain of feeling like we don’t fit anywhere—and how showing up as our full selves changed everything.🔹 The Power of Ritual — How a weekly ice plunge ritual (yes, seriously) gave Josiah a real-life model for consistent, embodied friendship.🔹 Letting People Love Us — From church wounds to substance use to old narratives about being “too much,” we explore what’s kept us from connection—and what’s finally helping us open up.🔹 Practical Steps for Building Friendships — What’s working for us now, from simple check-ins to shared interests to just being a little more brave.LINKS & RESOURCES:📩 Join the weekly newsletter: enneagramfive.com/newsletter 💬 Join the community: enneagramfive.com/community 🗒️ Full transcript and show notes: enneagramfive.com/44JOIN THE CONVERSATION: 📢 What’s your experience with friendship as a Five? Has it come easily, or has it felt like a mystery you’re still trying to solve? Come share your story in the community.TAKE THE FULLY FIVE QUIZ:A 5-minute clarity check-in for Enneagram Fives that gives you a precise snapshot of your inner landscape so you can track where you are and choose your next move intentionally.• Fast & free – 5 minute quiz, instant results.• Personalized for you – No generic advice.• Actionable & practical – Clear next steps.➡️ Tap here to take the quiz nowRECOMMENDED NEXT EPISODE:➡️ #27: Subtypes***CONNECT:📷 Connect on Instagram🧵 Connect on Threads💼 Connect on LinkedIn📹 Subscribe on YouTube***SAY THANKS:💜 Leave a review on Apple Podcasts🟢 Leave a rating on Spotify

This is an After Thoughts episode, an unstructured, unedited debrief of everything we didn't say in the last episode—this time unpacking our conversation on intuition. And boy, does this one take some turns...We get into how our Five wings shape the way we approach intuition, with Josiah leaning more into the mystical side while Cody stays grounded in practicality. That leads us into a discussion on how our worldviews have shifted over time, especially in relation to religion, belief, and questioning what’s "real."Somehow, we also end up talking about remote viewing, telepathic kids, quantum entanglement, and whether intuition is just a hidden ability we’ve ignored. Plus, there's a completely ridiculous moment where we somehow guess each other’s thoughts—twice in a row.If you've ever wondered whether intuition is legit or just pattern-seeking run amok, this episode might give you something new to think about. Or at the very least, you’ll get to hear us blow our own minds in real time.LINKS & RESOURCES:📩 Join the weekly newsletter: enneagramfive.com/newsletter💬 Join the community: enneagramfive.com/community🗒️ Full transcript and show notes: enneagramfive.com/43JOIN THE CONVERSATION:📢 How do you experience intuition as a Five? Have you learned to trust it, or does logic still win out? Drop a comment in the community!TAKE THE FULLY FIVE QUIZ:A 5-minute clarity check-in for Enneagram Fives that gives you a precise snapshot of your inner landscape so you can track where you are and choose your next move intentionally.• Fast & free – 5 minute quiz, instant results.• Personalized for you – No generic advice.• Actionable & practical – Clear next steps.➡️ Tap here to take the quiz nowRECOMMENDED NEXT EPISODE:➡️ #27: Subtypes***CONNECT:📷 Connect on Instagram🧵 Connect on Threads💼 Connect on LinkedIn📹 Subscribe on YouTube***SAY THANKS:💜 Leave a review on Apple Podcasts🟢 Leave a rating on Spotify

Fives rely on analysis and clarity, but intuition offers something logic can't: a deeper wisdom that defies explanation.In this episode, we explore what intuition is, why Fives struggle to trust it, and how embracing it can positively influence our lives. We share our personal experiences with intuition, examine how it's different from emotional decision-making, and discuss unconventional theories that stretch our understanding of time and consciousness.We also dive into the tension between intuition and logic, the creative insights intuition can unlock, and practical ways Fives can learn to tune in and trust themselves more deeply.IN THIS EPISODE:🔹 Struggling to Trust Intuition – Why recognizing and trusting intuition is challenging for Fives who value logic and clarity.🔹 Intuition vs. Rationality – How intuition often feels irrational, causing internal conflict and doubt about decisions.🔹 Fear of the Unexplainable – How the inability to logically explain intuitive decisions can lead to shame and self-criticism.🔹 Creativity and Intuition – How intuition fuels creativity, flow states, and spontaneous inspiration.🔹 Retrocausality & Intuition – A mind-bending theory suggesting intuition might be insights sent from our future selves.🔹 Practical Intuition – Examples of intuition guiding career decisions and creative endeavors, along with strategies to strengthen intuitive awareness.🔹 Learning to Listen – Why practicing intuition in small, low-risk situations helps build trust and reduces anxiety over intuitive choices.LINKS & RESOURCES:📩 Join the weekly newsletter: enneagramfive.com/newsletter 💬 Join the community: enneagramfive.com/community 🗒️ Full transcript and show notes: enneagramfive.com/42JOIN THE CONVERSATION:📢 How do you experience intuition as a Five? Have you learned to trust it, or does logic still win out? Drop a comment in the community!TAKE THE FULLY FIVE QUIZ:A 5-minute clarity check-in for Enneagram Fives that gives you a precise snapshot of your inner landscape so you can track where you are and choose your next move intentionally.• Fast & free – 5 minute quiz, instant results.• Personalized for you – No generic advice.• Actionable & practical – Clear next steps.➡️ Tap here to take the quiz nowRECOMMENDED NEXT EPISODE:➡️ #27: Subtypes***CONNECT:📷 Connect on Instagram🧵 Connect on Threads💼 Connect on LinkedIn📹 Subscribe on YouTube***SAY THANKS:💜 Leave a review on Apple Podcasts🟢 Leave a rating on Spotify

Can Fives really be expressive and outgoing? The stereotype says no—but we’re here to challenge that idea. In this episode, we unpack the myth that Fives are always quiet, reserved, and withdrawn, and we share our own experiences of learning to express ourselves in the world. Plus, we introduce a new structure for our live episodes, featuring a mix of community engagement, deep dives, and a little bit of fun.We also announce huge changes to the podcast, including moving to a weekly format, merging our live episodes into the main show, and shifting our focus toward personal growth strategies for Fives—because understanding yourself is only the beginning.IN THIS EPISODE:🔹 Big Changes! Josiah is now full-time with Enneagram Five, the podcast is going weekly, and we’ve revamped our format.🔹 Red, Yellow, Green Check-in – How are we feeling this week? (Spoiler: Job transitions bring clarity.)🔹 Current Curiosities – Cody goes deep on Birkenstock clogs (yes, really), while Josiah dives into growing a newsletter and internet marketing strategies.🔹 Debunking the Five Stereotype – Why Fives can be expressive and outgoing, and how personal growth expands what’s possible.🔹 Would You Rather? – Unlimited knowledge with no one to share it with, or deep relationships but struggle to learn new things? (We’ve got thoughts.)🔹 Growth vs. Comfort – The hard but necessary work of feeling emotions in the moment and breaking old Five patterns.LINKS & RESOURCES: 📩 Join the weekly newsletter: enneagramfive.com/newsletter💬 Join the community: enneagramfive.com/community🗒️ Full transcript and show notes: enneagramfive.com/41JOIN THE CONVERSATION: 📢 What’s your take—can Fives really be expressive and outgoing? Have you ever surprised yourself (or others) by stepping outside the stereotype? Drop a comment in the community!***TAKE THE FULLY FIVE QUIZ:A 5-minute clarity check-in for Enneagram Fives that gives you a precise snapshot of your inner landscape so you can track where you are and choose your next move intentionally.• Fast & free – 5 minute quiz, instant results.• Personalized for you – No generic advice.• Actionable & practical – Clear next steps.➡️ Tap here to take the quiz nowRECOMMENDED NEXT EPISODE:➡️ #27: Subtypes***CONNECT:📷 Connect on Instagram🧵 Connect on Threads💼 Connect on LinkedIn📹 Subscribe on YouTube***SAY THANKS:💜 Leave a review on Apple Podcasts🟢 Leave a rating on Spotify

Fives value logic and control, but anxiety challenges both. In this episode, we explore how Fives experience anxiety, why we often rationalize instead of feeling it, and how avoiding it can make things worse. We share personal stories, unexpected ways anxiety manifests in the body, and strategies that have helped us manage it—including some unconventional ones.We also dive into the tension between self-reliance and vulnerability, the impact of anxiety on relationships, and the surprising power of learning to let go. IN THIS EPISODE:🔹 Recognizing Anxiety as a Five – How we’ve unknowingly lived with anxiety for years without acknowledging it. 🔹 Anxiety and the Body – Why Fives often disconnect from physical sensations, and how anxiety forces us back in. 🔹 The Anticipation Trap – How Fives can get stuck in anxious loops about things that never actually happen. 🔹 Coping Strategies – From breathwork to cold plunges to medication, what’s helped us and why. 🔹 The Power of Letting Go – The surprising link between disintegration to Seven and finding freedom from anxiety. LINKS & RESOURCES: 📩 Join the weekly newsletter: enneagramfive.com/newsletter 💬 Join the community: enneagramfive.com/community 🗒️ Full transcript and show notes: enneagramfive.com/40JOIN THE CONVERSATION: 📢 What’s your experience with anxiety as a Five? Have you found ways to manage it effectively? Drop a comment in the community!*** TAKE THE FULLY FIVE QUIZ:A 5-minute clarity check-in for Enneagram Fives that gives you a precise snapshot of your inner landscape so you can track where you are and choose your next move intentionally.• Fast & free – 5 minute quiz, instant results.• Personalized for you – No generic advice.• Actionable & practical – Clear next steps.➡️ Tap here to take the quiz nowRECOMMENDED NEXT EPISODE:➡️ #27: Subtypes***CONNECT:📷 Connect on Instagram🧵 Connect on Threads💼 Connect on LinkedIn📹 Subscribe on YouTube***SAY THANKS:💜 Leave a review on Apple Podcasts🟢 Leave a rating on Spotify

What's your attachment style as a Type 5?In this season finale episode, Sam E. Greenberg joins us again to walk us through Attachment Theory and what we can learn about being a Five by studying the different Attachment Styles.If the Enneagram has helped you as a Five and you're curious about another framework you can use to better understand yourself, then this episode is for you.Want to know what other Fives are saying about this episode? Visit enneagramfive.com/39 to join the conversation!TAKE THE FULLY FIVE QUIZ:A 5-minute clarity check-in for Enneagram Fives that gives you a precise snapshot of your inner landscape so you can track where you are and choose your next move intentionally.• Fast & free – 5 minute quiz, instant results.• Personalized for you – No generic advice.• Actionable & practical – Clear next steps.➡️ Tap here to take the quiz nowRECOMMENDED NEXT EPISODE:➡️ #27: Subtypes***CONNECT:📷 Connect on Instagram🧵 Connect on Threads💼 Connect on LinkedIn📹 Subscribe on YouTube***SAY THANKS:💜 Leave a review on Apple Podcasts🟢 Leave a rating on Spotify

What keeps Type 5s from connecting?In this episode, we delve into Josiah's experience of identifying and dismantling the things that were holding him back from connecting with others, and why connection is so important for Fives.If you've ever found it difficult to connect with others as a Five, then this episode is for you.Want to know what other Fives are saying about this episode? Visit enneagramfive.com/38 to join the conversation!TAKE THE FULLY FIVE QUIZ:A 5-minute clarity check-in for Enneagram Fives that gives you a precise snapshot of your inner landscape so you can track where you are and choose your next move intentionally.• Fast & free – 5 minute quiz, instant results.• Personalized for you – No generic advice.• Actionable & practical – Clear next steps.➡️ Tap here to take the quiz nowRECOMMENDED NEXT EPISODE:➡️ #27: Subtypes***CONNECT:📷 Connect on Instagram🧵 Connect on Threads💼 Connect on LinkedIn📹 Subscribe on YouTube***SAY THANKS:💜 Leave a review on Apple Podcasts🟢 Leave a rating on Spotify

Are you on the spectrum or are you a Type 5?In this episode, we join Sam E. Greenberg to explore the overlap of traits between being a Five and being on the autism spectrum. We also talk through Cody's experience of being diagnosed with Asperger's and how that shows up for him as a Five.If you've ever wondered about the difference between being a Five and being on the spectrum, then this episode is for you.Want to know what other Fives are saying about this episode? Visit enneagramfive.com/37 to join the conversation!TAKE THE FULLY FIVE QUIZ:A 5-minute clarity check-in for Enneagram Fives that gives you a precise snapshot of your inner landscape so you can track where you are and choose your next move intentionally.• Fast & free – 5 minute quiz, instant results.• Personalized for you – No generic advice.• Actionable & practical – Clear next steps.➡️ Tap here to take the quiz nowRECOMMENDED NEXT EPISODE:➡️ #27: Subtypes***CONNECT:📷 Connect on Instagram🧵 Connect on Threads💼 Connect on LinkedIn📹 Subscribe on YouTube***SAY THANKS:💜 Leave a review on Apple Podcasts🟢 Leave a rating on Spotify

How do Type 5's feel about commitment?In this episode we share how we've handled various types of commitment as Fives and how we might approach commitment in a way that doesn't burn us out.If you've ever struggled with commitment as a Five, this episode is for you.Want to know what other Fives are saying about this episode? Visit enneagramfive.com/36 to join the conversation!TAKE THE FULLY FIVE QUIZ:A 5-minute clarity check-in for Enneagram Fives that gives you a precise snapshot of your inner landscape so you can track where you are and choose your next move intentionally.• Fast & free – 5 minute quiz, instant results.• Personalized for you – No generic advice.• Actionable & practical – Clear next steps.➡️ Tap here to take the quiz nowRECOMMENDED NEXT EPISODE:➡️ #27: Subtypes***CONNECT:📷 Connect on Instagram🧵 Connect on Threads💼 Connect on LinkedIn📹 Subscribe on YouTube***SAY THANKS:💜 Leave a review on Apple Podcasts🟢 Leave a rating on Spotify

How do Type 5s feel about incompetance?In this episode, we delve into why we get so triggered when people around us are incompatent, why Fives have a fear of incompetance, and what steps we can take to start overcoming this fear.If feeling incompatent has ever held you back as a Five, then this episode is definitely for you.Want to know what other Fives are saying about this episode? Visit enneagramfive.com/35 to join the conversation!TAKE THE FULLY FIVE QUIZ:A 5-minute clarity check-in for Enneagram Fives that gives you a precise snapshot of your inner landscape so you can track where you are and choose your next move intentionally.• Fast & free – 5 minute quiz, instant results.• Personalized for you – No generic advice.• Actionable & practical – Clear next steps.➡️ Tap here to take the quiz nowRECOMMENDED NEXT EPISODE:➡️ #27: Subtypes***CONNECT:📷 Connect on Instagram🧵 Connect on Threads💼 Connect on LinkedIn📹 Subscribe on YouTube***SAY THANKS:💜 Leave a review on Apple Podcasts🟢 Leave a rating on Spotify

How do Type 5s handle being part of a family?In this episode, we delve into what family life was like growing up as Fives, how useful the internal family systems framework is, and what we want our own family dynamics to be.And we talk about Josiah's hair for like 20 full minutes for some reason.Want to know what other Fives are saying about this episode? Visit enneagramfive.com/34 to join the conversation!TAKE THE FULLY FIVE QUIZ:A 5-minute clarity check-in for Enneagram Fives that gives you a precise snapshot of your inner landscape so you can track where you are and choose your next move intentionally.• Fast & free – 5 minute quiz, instant results.• Personalized for you – No generic advice.• Actionable & practical – Clear next steps.➡️ Tap here to take the quiz nowRECOMMENDED NEXT EPISODE:➡️ #27: Subtypes***CONNECT:📷 Connect on Instagram🧵 Connect on Threads💼 Connect on LinkedIn📹 Subscribe on YouTube***SAY THANKS:💜 Leave a review on Apple Podcasts🟢 Leave a rating on Spotify

What do Type 5s think about therapy?In this episode, we sit down with Liz Landry, friend of the show and licensed therapist, to talk through what to expect from therapy as a Five, what has held us back from going to therapy in the past, and how to find a therapist that works for you.If you've ever considered therapy as a Five but have been on the fence about it, then this episode is for you.Note: You can follow Liz on Instagram at @yourhonesttherapist.Want to know what other Fives are saying about this episode? Visit enneagramfive.com/33 to join the conversation!TAKE THE FULLY FIVE QUIZ:A 5-minute clarity check-in for Enneagram Fives that gives you a precise snapshot of your inner landscape so you can track where you are and choose your next move intentionally.• Fast & free – 5 minute quiz, instant results.• Personalized for you – No generic advice.• Actionable & practical – Clear next steps.➡️ Tap here to take the quiz nowRECOMMENDED NEXT EPISODE:➡️ #27: Subtypes***CONNECT:📷 Connect on Instagram🧵 Connect on Threads💼 Connect on LinkedIn📹 Subscribe on YouTube***SAY THANKS:💜 Leave a review on Apple Podcasts🟢 Leave a rating on Spotify

This is is our most requested episode to date, so we gave the crowd what they wanted.And it's a bunch of nonsense, so you're welcome :-)TAKE THE FULLY FIVE QUIZ:A 5-minute clarity check-in for Enneagram Fives that gives you a precise snapshot of your inner landscape so you can track where you are and choose your next move intentionally.• Fast & free – 5 minute quiz, instant results.• Personalized for you – No generic advice.• Actionable & practical – Clear next steps.➡️ Tap here to take the quiz nowRECOMMENDED NEXT EPISODE:➡️ #27: Subtypes***CONNECT:📷 Connect on Instagram🧵 Connect on Threads💼 Connect on LinkedIn📹 Subscribe on YouTube***SAY THANKS:💜 Leave a review on Apple Podcasts🟢 Leave a rating on Spotify

How do Type 5s deal with feeling down?In this episode, we dive into what it feels like to be depressed as a Five, various triggers that cause us to feel down, and some techniques we've used to climb back out of the abyss.If you've ever struggled with depression as a Five, then this episode is for you.Want to know what other Fives are saying about this episode? Visit enneagramfive.com/31 to join the conversation!TAKE THE FULLY FIVE QUIZ:A 5-minute clarity check-in for Enneagram Fives that gives you a precise snapshot of your inner landscape so you can track where you are and choose your next move intentionally.• Fast & free – 5 minute quiz, instant results.• Personalized for you – No generic advice.• Actionable & practical – Clear next steps.➡️ Tap here to take the quiz nowRECOMMENDED NEXT EPISODE:➡️ #27: Subtypes***CONNECT:📷 Connect on Instagram🧵 Connect on Threads💼 Connect on LinkedIn📹 Subscribe on YouTube***SAY THANKS:💜 Leave a review on Apple Podcasts🟢 Leave a rating on Spotify

What are the nine levels of health for a Type 5?In this episode, we join once again with our good friend Sam E. Greenberg, PhD (a.k.a the Enneagram Sexpert) to deep dive on the levels of health and what they mean for Fives.If you've ever wondered why one moment you feel like a sage and the next moment like a schizoid, then this episode is for you.PS. Go follow Sam on Instagram at @ennea_gasm!Want to know what other Fives are saying about this episode? Visitenneagramfive.com/30 to join the conversation!TAKE THE FULLY FIVE QUIZ:A 5-minute clarity check-in for Enneagram Fives that gives you a precise snapshot of your inner landscape so you can track where you are and choose your next move intentionally.• Fast & free – 5 minute quiz, instant results.• Personalized for you – No generic advice.• Actionable & practical – Clear next steps.➡️ Tap here to take the quiz nowRECOMMENDED NEXT EPISODE:➡️ #27: Subtypes***CONNECT:📷 Connect on Instagram🧵 Connect on Threads💼 Connect on LinkedIn📹 Subscribe on YouTube***SAY THANKS:💜 Leave a review on Apple Podcasts🟢 Leave a rating on Spotify

What do Type 5's think of conspiracy theories?In this episode, we dig into Josiah's philosophy of conspiracy theories and why they're so important for Fives (and everyone, according to him).So grab your tin foil hat and join us as we see how far down the rabbit hole goes.Note: For more info on this topic, check out Wendigoon's Conspiracy Theory Iceberg seriesWant to know what other Fives are saying about this episode? Visit enneagramfive.com/29 to join the conversation!TAKE THE FULLY FIVE QUIZ:A 5-minute clarity check-in for Enneagram Fives that gives you a precise snapshot of your inner landscape so you can track where you are and choose your next move intentionally.• Fast & free – 5 minute quiz, instant results.• Personalized for you – No generic advice.• Actionable & practical – Clear next steps.➡️ Tap here to take the quiz nowRECOMMENDED NEXT EPISODE:➡️ #27: Subtypes***CONNECT:📷 Connect on Instagram🧵 Connect on Threads💼 Connect on LinkedIn📹 Subscribe on YouTube***SAY THANKS:💜 Leave a review on Apple Podcasts🟢 Leave a rating on Spotify

How do Fives feel about Politics?To kick off Season 4, we unleash our inner anarchists and share our own political journeys, as we resist the urge to burn the system down and instead focus on building something new.If you have political opinions but never share them because you feel like it's pointless, then this episode is for you.Note: For a deeper dive on some of these topics, Josiah recommends the book The Crash Course by Chris Martenson.Want to know what other Fives are saying about this episode? Visit enneagramfive.com/28 to join the conversation!TAKE THE FULLY FIVE QUIZ:A 5-minute clarity check-in for Enneagram Fives that gives you a precise snapshot of your inner landscape so you can track where you are and choose your next move intentionally.• Fast & free – 5 minute quiz, instant results.• Personalized for you – No generic advice.• Actionable & practical – Clear next steps.➡️ Tap here to take the quiz nowRECOMMENDED NEXT EPISODE:➡️ #27: Subtypes***CONNECT:📷 Connect on Instagram🧵 Connect on Threads💼 Connect on LinkedIn📹 Subscribe on YouTube***SAY THANKS:💜 Leave a review on Apple Podcasts🟢 Leave a rating on Spotify

Why are some Type 5's so different from others?In this season finale episode, we bring back Sam Greenberg, aka the Enneagram Sexpert, to deep dive on the Social, Sexual, and Self-Preservation subtypes of Type 5 and how instinctual stacking works. You also get to listen in as we attempt to figure out our own subtype stackings in real time.If you're looking to gain better clarity on the wide variation in the different types of Fives, you'll definitely want to listen to this whole episode. You won't find a Fives Subtypes deep dive like this anywhere else. Note: The excerpt quoted about Sexual Fives is from “The Instinctual Drives and the Enneagram” by John Luckovich.Want to know what other Fives are saying about this episode? Visit enneagramfive.com/27 to join the conversation!TAKE THE FULLY FIVE QUIZ:A 5-minute clarity check-in for Enneagram Fives that gives you a precise snapshot of your inner landscape so you can track where you are and choose your next move intentionally.• Fast & free – 5 minute quiz, instant results.• Personalized for you – No generic advice.• Actionable & practical – Clear next steps.➡️ Tap here to take the quiz nowRECOMMENDED NEXT EPISODE:➡️ #27: Subtypes***CONNECT:📷 Connect on Instagram🧵 Connect on Threads💼 Connect on LinkedIn📹 Subscribe on YouTube***SAY THANKS:💜 Leave a review on Apple Podcasts🟢 Leave a rating on Spotify

How do Type 5's deal with uncertainty?In this episode, we talk about how we handle uncertain times as fives and what we can do to thrive rather than spiral.Want to know what other Fives are saying about this episode? Visit enneagramfive.com/26 to join the conversation!TAKE THE FULLY FIVE QUIZ:A 5-minute clarity check-in for Enneagram Fives that gives you a precise snapshot of your inner landscape so you can track where you are and choose your next move intentionally.• Fast & free – 5 minute quiz, instant results.• Personalized for you – No generic advice.• Actionable & practical – Clear next steps.➡️ Tap here to take the quiz nowRECOMMENDED NEXT EPISODE:➡️ #27: Subtypes***CONNECT:📷 Connect on Instagram🧵 Connect on Threads💼 Connect on LinkedIn📹 Subscribe on YouTube***SAY THANKS:💜 Leave a review on Apple Podcasts🟢 Leave a rating on Spotify

Want to know what life is like as a female Type 5?In this episode, we interview 3 female Fives from our community about their unique experiences, what motherhood is like as a Five, and what advice they would give to other female Fives like them. Want to know what other Fives are saying about this episode? Visit enneagramfive.com/25 to join the conversation!TAKE THE FULLY FIVE QUIZ:A 5-minute clarity check-in for Enneagram Fives that gives you a precise snapshot of your inner landscape so you can track where you are and choose your next move intentionally.• Fast & free – 5 minute quiz, instant results.• Personalized for you – No generic advice.• Actionable & practical – Clear next steps.➡️ Tap here to take the quiz nowRECOMMENDED NEXT EPISODE:➡️ #27: Subtypes***CONNECT:📷 Connect on Instagram🧵 Connect on Threads💼 Connect on LinkedIn📹 Subscribe on YouTube***SAY THANKS:💜 Leave a review on Apple Podcasts🟢 Leave a rating on Spotify

Is life meaningless? Does anything matter?In this episode, we unpack why Type 5s tend to embrace nihilism and how we can live with the absurdity of our existence. Yay!Want to know what other Fives are saying about this episode? Visit enneagramfive.com/24 to join the conversation!TAKE THE FULLY FIVE QUIZ:A 5-minute clarity check-in for Enneagram Fives that gives you a precise snapshot of your inner landscape so you can track where you are and choose your next move intentionally.• Fast & free – 5 minute quiz, instant results.• Personalized for you – No generic advice.• Actionable & practical – Clear next steps.➡️ Tap here to take the quiz nowRECOMMENDED NEXT EPISODE:➡️ #27: Subtypes***CONNECT:📷 Connect on Instagram🧵 Connect on Threads💼 Connect on LinkedIn📹 Subscribe on YouTube***SAY THANKS:💜 Leave a review on Apple Podcasts🟢 Leave a rating on Spotify

Ever wonder what those lines are coming out of Type 5 on the Enneagram?In this episode, we share our experiences integrating to 8 and disintegrating to 7, as well as the pros and cons of each.Want to know what other Fives are saying about this episode? Visit enneagramfive.com/23 to join the conversation!TAKE THE FULLY FIVE QUIZ:A 5-minute clarity check-in for Enneagram Fives that gives you a precise snapshot of your inner landscape so you can track where you are and choose your next move intentionally.• Fast & free – 5 minute quiz, instant results.• Personalized for you – No generic advice.• Actionable & practical – Clear next steps.➡️ Tap here to take the quiz nowRECOMMENDED NEXT EPISODE:➡️ #27: Subtypes***CONNECT:📷 Connect on Instagram🧵 Connect on Threads💼 Connect on LinkedIn📹 Subscribe on YouTube***SAY THANKS:💜 Leave a review on Apple Podcasts🟢 Leave a rating on Spotify

Do you feel like you fit in anywhere as a Type 5?In this episode, we delve into what it means to have a community, why it's often so difficult to feel like we belong to any group, and how we've overcome the challenges of fitting in. Want to know what other Fives are saying about this episode? Visit enneagramfive.com/22 to join the conversation!TAKE THE FULLY FIVE QUIZ:A 5-minute clarity check-in for Enneagram Fives that gives you a precise snapshot of your inner landscape so you can track where you are and choose your next move intentionally.• Fast & free – 5 minute quiz, instant results.• Personalized for you – No generic advice.• Actionable & practical – Clear next steps.➡️ Tap here to take the quiz nowRECOMMENDED NEXT EPISODE:➡️ #27: Subtypes***CONNECT:📷 Connect on Instagram🧵 Connect on Threads💼 Connect on LinkedIn📹 Subscribe on YouTube***SAY THANKS:💜 Leave a review on Apple Podcasts🟢 Leave a rating on Spotify

How do Type 5's handle grief?In this episode, we bring professional therapist Liz Landry back onto the show to unpack how we grief, why grief should be understood outside the context of death, what to do when people around you are grieving, and whether or not it's weird that death doesn't bother Josiah.This conversation is comprised of segments originally recorded as a live video stream for our Enneagram Five: After Hours podcast.To view the unedited live stream, as well as the rest of our After Hours podcast, become a premium member today at enneagramfive.com/premium. Want to know what other Fives are saying about this episode? Visit enneagramfive.com/21 to join the conversation!TAKE THE FULLY FIVE QUIZ:A 5-minute clarity check-in for Enneagram Fives that gives you a precise snapshot of your inner landscape so you can track where you are and choose your next move intentionally.• Fast & free – 5 minute quiz, instant results.• Personalized for you – No generic advice.• Actionable & practical – Clear next steps.➡️ Tap here to take the quiz nowRECOMMENDED NEXT EPISODE:➡️ #27: Subtypes***CONNECT:📷 Connect on Instagram🧵 Connect on Threads💼 Connect on LinkedIn📹 Subscribe on YouTube***SAY THANKS:💜 Leave a review on Apple Podcasts🟢 Leave a rating on Spotify

What do Type 5's think about death?In this episode we delve into our personal experiences dealing with death and the thought of dying ourselves, and dig into why death bothers some of us more than others.Want to know what other Fives are saying about this episode? Visit enneagramfive.com/20 to join the conversation!TAKE THE FULLY FIVE QUIZ:A 5-minute clarity check-in for Enneagram Fives that gives you a precise snapshot of your inner landscape so you can track where you are and choose your next move intentionally.• Fast & free – 5 minute quiz, instant results.• Personalized for you – No generic advice.• Actionable & practical – Clear next steps.➡️ Tap here to take the quiz nowRECOMMENDED NEXT EPISODE:➡️ #27: Subtypes***CONNECT:📷 Connect on Instagram🧵 Connect on Threads💼 Connect on LinkedIn📹 Subscribe on YouTube***SAY THANKS:💜 Leave a review on Apple Podcasts🟢 Leave a rating on Spotify

How do Type 5's feel about sex?In this season finale episode, we get real vulnerable with the Enneagram Sexpert, Sam E. Greenberg, to deep dive on:What a Five is like as a sexual partnerHow Five subtypes and wings differ sexuallyNavigating sexual relationships with other typesHow to transcend sexual hangups as a FiveAchieving your ecstatic sexual potentialIf you've ever had difficulty navigating sexual relationships as a Five, or you have a Five partner you've struggled to connect with, you'll definitely want to listen to this episode.And be sure to follow Sam on Instagram at @ennea_gasm!This conversation is comprised of segments originally recorded as a live video stream for our Enneagram Five: After Hours podcast.To view the unedited live stream, as well as the rest of our After Hours podcast, become a premium member today at enneagramfive.com/premium.Want to know what other Fives are saying about this episode? Visit enneagramfive.com/19 to join the conversation!TAKE THE FULLY FIVE QUIZ:A 5-minute clarity check-in for Enneagram Fives that gives you a precise snapshot of your inner landscape so you can track where you are and choose your next move intentionally.• Fast & free – 5 minute quiz, instant results.• Personalized for you – No generic advice.• Actionable & practical – Clear next steps.➡️ Tap here to take the quiz nowRECOMMENDED NEXT EPISODE:➡️ #27: Subtypes***CONNECT:📷 Connect on Instagram🧵 Connect on Threads💼 Connect on LinkedIn📹 Subscribe on YouTube***SAY THANKS:💜 Leave a review on Apple Podcasts🟢 Leave a rating on Spotify

Why do Type 5's seem so private?In this episode we delve into how we balance the tension between gating what personal details others get access to and being vulnerable with those we feel have earned our trust.And we learn that after a couple of glasses of wine Josiah can't pronounce the word 'anonymity'.Want to know what other Fives are saying about this episode? Visit enneagramfive.com/18 to join the conversation!TAKE THE FULLY FIVE QUIZ:A 5-minute clarity check-in for Enneagram Fives that gives you a precise snapshot of your inner landscape so you can track where you are and choose your next move intentionally.• Fast & free – 5 minute quiz, instant results.• Personalized for you – No generic advice.• Actionable & practical – Clear next steps.➡️ Tap here to take the quiz nowRECOMMENDED NEXT EPISODE:➡️ #27: Subtypes***CONNECT:📷 Connect on Instagram🧵 Connect on Threads💼 Connect on LinkedIn📹 Subscribe on YouTube***SAY THANKS:💜 Leave a review on Apple Podcasts🟢 Leave a rating on Spotify

How do Type 5's navigate our education system?In this episode we share our education journeys as Fives and the various challenges of growing up homeschooled vs public schooled.Want to know what other Fives are saying about this episode? Visit enneagramfive.com/17 to join the conversation!TAKE THE FULLY FIVE QUIZ:A 5-minute clarity check-in for Enneagram Fives that gives you a precise snapshot of your inner landscape so you can track where you are and choose your next move intentionally.• Fast & free – 5 minute quiz, instant results.• Personalized for you – No generic advice.• Actionable & practical – Clear next steps.➡️ Tap here to take the quiz nowRECOMMENDED NEXT EPISODE:➡️ #27: Subtypes***CONNECT:📷 Connect on Instagram🧵 Connect on Threads💼 Connect on LinkedIn📹 Subscribe on YouTube***SAY THANKS:💜 Leave a review on Apple Podcasts🟢 Leave a rating on Spotify

Join us as we chat with Cody's brother, Jesse, about science as a career path, growing up as a Five, how we can actually know anything, and how to use curiosity to connect with others.This conversation is comprised of segments originally recorded as a live video stream for our Enneagram Five: After Hours podcast.To view the unedited live stream, as well as the rest of our After Hours podcast, become a premium member today at enneagramfive.com/premium.Want to know what other Fives are saying about this episode? Visit enneagramfive.com/16 to join the conversation!TAKE THE FULLY FIVE QUIZ:A 5-minute clarity check-in for Enneagram Fives that gives you a precise snapshot of your inner landscape so you can track where you are and choose your next move intentionally.• Fast & free – 5 minute quiz, instant results.• Personalized for you – No generic advice.• Actionable & practical – Clear next steps.➡️ Tap here to take the quiz nowRECOMMENDED NEXT EPISODE:➡️ #27: Subtypes***CONNECT:📷 Connect on Instagram🧵 Connect on Threads💼 Connect on LinkedIn📹 Subscribe on YouTube***SAY THANKS:💜 Leave a review on Apple Podcasts🟢 Leave a rating on Spotify

Have you ever wondered if you might be a sociopath?In this episode, we chat with Liz Landry, a clinical psychologist, about what it really means to be a sociopath and whether Cody fits the bill.This conversation is comprised of segments originally recorded as a live video stream for our Enneagram Five: After Hours podcast.To view the unedited live stream, as well as the rest of our After Hours podcast, become a premium member today at enneagramfive.com/premium.Want to know what other Fives are saying about this episode? Visit enneagramfive.com/15 to join the conversation!TAKE THE FULLY FIVE QUIZ:A 5-minute clarity check-in for Enneagram Fives that gives you a precise snapshot of your inner landscape so you can track where you are and choose your next move intentionally.• Fast & free – 5 minute quiz, instant results.• Personalized for you – No generic advice.• Actionable & practical – Clear next steps.➡️ Tap here to take the quiz nowRECOMMENDED NEXT EPISODE:➡️ #27: Subtypes***CONNECT:📷 Connect on Instagram🧵 Connect on Threads💼 Connect on LinkedIn📹 Subscribe on YouTube***SAY THANKS:💜 Leave a review on Apple Podcasts🟢 Leave a rating on Spotify

Ever wonder what it's like to be in a relationship with a Type 5?In this episode, Cody and Josiah turn the tables and interview their significant others, Madison and Amy, to find out what are the biggest advantages and challenges of being with a Five.Want to know what other Fives are saying about this episode? Visit enneagramfive.com/14 to join the conversation!TAKE THE FULLY FIVE QUIZ:A 5-minute clarity check-in for Enneagram Fives that gives you a precise snapshot of your inner landscape so you can track where you are and choose your next move intentionally.• Fast & free – 5 minute quiz, instant results.• Personalized for you – No generic advice.• Actionable & practical – Clear next steps.➡️ Tap here to take the quiz nowJoin the FREE Community!Become a part of our exclusive community for Enneagram Type 5s to learn and grow together.Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you.RECOMMENDED NEXT EPISODE:➡️ #27: Subtypes***CONNECT:📷 Connect on Instagram🧵 Connect on Threads💼 Connect on LinkedIn📹 Subscribe on YouTube***SAY THANKS:💜 Leave a review on Apple Podcasts🟢 Leave a rating on Spotify

How do we view romantic relationships as Fives?In this episode we delve into our journeys of learning how to navigate personal relationships when we're so apt to push people away.Want to know what other Fives are saying about this episode? Visit enneagramfive.com/13 to join the conversation!TAKE THE FULLY FIVE QUIZ:A 5-minute clarity check-in for Enneagram Fives that gives you a precise snapshot of your inner landscape so you can track where you are and choose your next move intentionally.• Fast & free – 5 minute quiz, instant results.• Personalized for you – No generic advice.• Actionable & practical – Clear next steps.➡️ Tap here to take the quiz nowJoin the FREE Community!Become a part of our exclusive community for Enneagram Type 5s to learn and grow together.Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you.RECOMMENDED NEXT EPISODE:➡️ #27: Subtypes***CONNECT:📷 Connect on Instagram🧵 Connect on Threads💼 Connect on LinkedIn📹 Subscribe on YouTube***SAY THANKS:💜 Leave a review on Apple Podcasts🟢 Leave a rating on Spotify

What do Type 5s think about religion and spirituality?In this conversation, we share our stories of growing up in religion, leaving the church, and how we've dealt with life thereafter as Fives.Whether you're religious, spiritual, or none of the above, if you've ever contemplated what it means to engage (or disengage) with faith as Five then you'll definitely want to listen to this episode.Want to know what other Fives are saying about this episode? Visit enneagramfive.com/12 to join the conversation!TAKE THE FULLY FIVE QUIZ:A 5-minute clarity check-in for Enneagram Fives that gives you a precise snapshot of your inner landscape so you can track where you are and choose your next move intentionally.• Fast & free – 5 minute quiz, instant results.• Personalized for you – No generic advice.• Actionable & practical – Clear next steps.➡️ Tap here to take the quiz nowRECOMMENDED NEXT EPISODE:➡️ #27: Subtypes***CONNECT:📷 Connect on Instagram🧵 Connect on Threads💼 Connect on LinkedIn📹 Subscribe on YouTube***SAY THANKS:💜 Leave a review on Apple Podcasts🟢 Leave a rating on Spotify

Can Fives ever be truly happy?In this conversation, we talk about what it means to be happy as a Five and whether that's a state of being that is attainable and sustainable for us.If you've ever questioned your ability to be a happy person, you'll definitely want to listen to this episode.Want to know what other Fives are saying about this episode? Visit enneagramfive.com/11 to join the conversation!TAKE THE FULLY FIVE QUIZ:A 5-minute clarity check-in for Enneagram Fives that gives you a precise snapshot of your inner landscape so you can track where you are and choose your next move intentionally.• Fast & free – 5 minute quiz, instant results.• Personalized for you – No generic advice.• Actionable & practical – Clear next steps.➡️ Tap here to take the quiz nowRECOMMENDED NEXT EPISODE:➡️ #27: Subtypes***CONNECT:📷 Connect on Instagram🧵 Connect on Threads💼 Connect on LinkedIn📹 Subscribe on YouTube***SAY THANKS:💜 Leave a review on Apple Podcasts🟢 Leave a rating on Spotify

How do we care for ourselves as Type 5s?In this conversation, we explore the habits and activities we can do to energize us as Fives and maintain a more balanced, healthy life.If you've ever felt burned out as a Five, you'll definitely want to listen to this whole episode.Want to know what other Fives are saying about this episode? Visit enneagramfive.com/10 to join the conversation!TAKE THE FULLY FIVE QUIZ:A 5-minute clarity check-in for Enneagram Fives that gives you a precise snapshot of your inner landscape so you can track where you are and choose your next move intentionally.• Fast & free – 5 minute quiz, instant results.• Personalized for you – No generic advice.• Actionable & practical – Clear next steps.➡️ Tap here to take the quiz nowRECOMMENDED NEXT EPISODE:➡️ #27: Subtypes***CONNECT:📷 Connect on Instagram🧵 Connect on Threads💼 Connect on LinkedIn📹 Subscribe on YouTube***SAY THANKS:💜 Leave a review on Apple Podcasts🟢 Leave a rating on Spotify