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Ethical Seduction
by Steven with Ethical Seduction
Ethical Seduction is a show designed to help you learn to flirt and connect easily, naturally, and authentically. We want to change the perception of what flirting and seduction are and how they can be used to benefit everyone. The time and effort you put into flirting should be seen as a positive experience that demonstrates who you are and what you have to offer. Our approaches to flirting are authentic, sex-positive, inclusive, and for all genders and orientations. So please, come flirt with us!
Episodes
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Ethical Seduction #084 - Ethical Seduction Update
Ethical Seduction will be taking a break for the next season. We want to step back and re-analyze our focus and so that the content we provide you really helps give you a direct path for finding the partners you want in your life - be that for casual sex, romantic interests, or simply to be…
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Ethical Seduction #083 - How to Spot Inauthentic People.
Just about everyone has some experience about being misled or tricked because the other person they met wasn’t honest or upfront about who they were or what they wanted. People lie about their appearances, age, what they want, how they feel, and what their intentions actually are! At the very…
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Ethical Seduction #082 - The Secret to Getting What You Want!
Everyone has wants and needs which is why this whole Ethical Seduction Podcast was created. Specifically, to help you meet and connect with the people you are attracted to! However once you know what it is that you want, how do you go about getting it? Well don’t worry because we walk you through...
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Ethical Seduction #081 - How to successfully make adjustments in your current relationship.
Relationships need to change over time. But how can you do this successfully once that relationship is established? When you make changes, it is always risky, but there are some ways you can manage those risks and have better, more successful communication with your partners. Steve and Brandie...
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Ethical Seduction #080 - How to be more intriguing (An analysis of how Steven and Brandie play and interact sexually.)
While most people have heard the advice that being intriguing or a little mysterious is super attractive, most people don’t know how to playfully do this with their interactions. Or worse, they force it and it comes across as being disingenuous and actually turns people off. So this episode is a...
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Ethical Seduction #079 - Learning how to be more intimate (featuring Kim Holden).
Intimacy is that feeling we get where we feel connected, validated, and safe. Learning how to be more intimate with partners can be difficult for many of us, however it is probably the most important thing we can learn in order to form deeper connections. In this episode intimacy coach Kim Holden...
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Ethical Seduction #078 - The Single Best Way to Build Attraction
There are several specific ways to generate feelings of attraction in other people. If you flip these switches, they will be drawn to you! However if you approach and communicate poorly, such as bragging about how awesome you are, you will accidentally turn people off. This episode will give you...
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Ethical Seduction #077 - Bad Boy / Bad Girl Attraction Style Breakdown: Use their best traits for yourself!
Nothing helps us understand how attraction works better than examining the bad boy / bad girl attraction styles. We examine what badass traits are attractive and turn us on, as well as noticing which aspect are negative turn-offs! By separating these out and only incorporating the positive ones,...
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Ethical Seduction #076 - Using BDSM negotiation skills to create deeper, more personal conversations.
BDSM scene-negotiation has a general set of questions that you and your partner should discuss before choosing to play together. But did you know you can apply a lot of this process to regular conversations to help make them much more personal and connecting? This episode starts with an overview…
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Ethical Seduction #075 - Beating the Competition
With dating and relationships, competition is real. However there is a healthy, positive way to approach competition that will easily help you stand out from the crowd, boost your attractiveness, and keep you in the forefront of the person’s mind. This episode will help: Reduce fears you may have...
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Ethical Seduction #074 - Attraction Tip: Embrace and Harness Your Quirkiness
We all have our own unique quirks about us, but we don’t usually think of our quirks as something we can use to attract other people! However the fact is, if we want to stand out from the crowd, it’s our quirks, uniqueness, and authenticity that will really amp up how attractive we are perceived…
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Ethical Seduction #073 - Building Confidence
People often give dating advice saying “just be confident”, but they never tell you HOW to do this! The secret is learning to take small risks, knowing that if you make a mistake, you can admit it and not be worried about it. So this episode teaches you: What confidence is and ways you can…
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Ethical Seduction #072 - Seduction secrets from the Kink Community - Recorded at Candyland
What can you learn from a kink/bdsm party? This episode is about breaking out of our routines, experiencing something new, and stealing ideas that will help us be more authentic and stand out from the crowd - the key things that press our attraction/desire buttons! Education is a HUGE focal point...
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Ethical Seduction #071 - Desires: Uncovering what you both want to explore together.
When two people meet up or go out on a date, they are often searching to find common interests. But more importantly, they are usually looking for that special connecting thing they want to team up and explore together. This podcast episode helps walk you through ways to make this a fun…
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Ethical Seduction #070 - Learning how to express your interest in someone
If you are ever going to have the sexual or romantic relationships that you want, you have to figure out how to express your desires. In this episode we cover several different ways to not only show that you are interested in someone, but to do so in ways that are attractive. ------------ Ethical...
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Ethical Seduction #069 - Realistic Expectations with Dating
Most people complain about dating and how hard it is. Perhaps this is because what we often hope will happen is not representative of how flirting, dating, and connecting actually work. In this episode we have a round-table discussion to figure out realistic expectations to have around dating, in...
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Ethical Seduction #068 - Choosing the Best Dating Apps
Kimberly has hit the dating scene and been trying out, comparing, and using the latest dating apps. Here we will discuss the differences between the top dating apps, plus cover what approaches work best for each one. This way you can choose and focus on the one that best suits your dating style....
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Ethical Seduction #067 - How Validation and Qualification help create Trust and Attraction - Part 2: Qualification
This is part 2 of our two part series covering validation and qualification for dating and relationships. Part 1 covered the validation portion and this episode, Part 2, focuses on the process called “Qualification”. Qualification is a term for determining if someone is worthy of you. The dangers...
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Ethical Seduction #066 - How Validation and Qualification help create Trust and Attraction - Part 1: Validation
This is part 1 of our two part series covering validation and qualification for dating and relationships. Part 1 focuses specifically on the validation process. We all want others to value and appreciate us, but it’s got to be done for legitimate reasons or else it feels manipulative and creepy....
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Ethical Seduction #065 - Turning dating “mistakes” into positive, attractive, trust-building moments.
In this episode we will show you how mistakes, accidents, and problems that arise can turn out to be something positive, helping to establish trust and strengthen your relationship. We will give you tips for figuring out what to do in these critical moments, so you can correct the issue and...
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Ethical Seduction #064 - Initiating Touch and Physical Contact on a Date
This episode explores everything related to touch and physical contact for when you are on a date. What signs should you look for before you reach for their hand? When should you make the first move and what do different forms of touch imply? And how exactly does one escalate that physical…
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Ethical Seduction #063 - Making Yourself More Approachable
In this episode we cover multiple things you can do to help attract other people so they approach you, so you become more approachable! Before you start any conversations, we want those around you to notice who you are, to feel a sense of curiosity, and to want to get to know you better! This way...
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Ethical Seduction #062 - Sexy Play Ideas from A to Z!
Eva and Brandie take over this episode and lead us on a journey of sexy play ideas! They cover 26 easy and fun ways you can be a more interesting, playful lover in bed, AND be set up up for making real intimate connections. Because flirting and seduction are not just about getting into the…
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Ethical Seduction #061 - Top 3 Flirting Mistakes to Avoid
In this episode we cover three big flirting mistakes that everyone should avoid, yet somehow these are super common and tend to plague and cripple people constantly. Accidentally misrepresenting yourself, being perceived as creepy, or getting excited and trying to make things happen too quickly…
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Ethical Seduction #060 - Sex or Romance, what should come first?
This episode tackles the question of what should come first, Sex or Romance? Many people have opinions on how chemistry, or sexual attraction, should fit in with compatibility, but is there a real answer to how you should do this? We think so but it also depends on what exactly you are after and...
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Ethical Seduction #059 - Best Oral Sex Tips
Everyone wants to please their partners sexually and knowing how to give good head is a must! Blow jobs, cunnilingus, and rimming (yes rimming!) all have some things you need to learn if you are going to do these well to arouse your partner! Plus many people have questions about what is sanitary…
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Ethical Seduction #058 - Five Flirting Styles: Which is yours?
We review the book called “The Five Flirting Styles: Use the Science of Flirting to Attract the Love You Really Want” by Author Jeffrey Hall. The author has created labels and a framework for better understanding flirting styles, which is bound to help listeners better understand themselves and...
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Ethical Seduction #057 - Porn Star Ivy Minxxx on being Seductive!
Those in the sex work business see and learn things about sex, seduction, human nature, and intimacy that many of us outside the adult business are not privy to see. So we asked our friend Ivy Minxxx, who is thriving in the adult industry and does wide variety of “sex work”, to share her thoughts...
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Ethical Seduction #056 - Neediness, what is okay and what is not?
Everyone has certain needs and so there is definitely a positive and healthy place for getting our needs met. The flip side can be when someone comes along and asks you to give more of yourself than you really want - which doesn’t feel good at all. So where is the balance and how can we get our…
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Ethical Seduction #055 - Fun with Masturbation and Self Love
We explore some best practices for Masturbation and Self Love. We talk about the health benefits, ways to become more comfortable with masturbating, and we suggest new things for you to try! Set time aside, experiment with touch and sensation, practice new techniques and try one of the toys we...
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Ethical Seduction #054 - Dropping bombs like “I love you.”
When is the right time to tell someone that you love them? Some people say it early on and it feels easy for them to say. Others, like Brandie and Steven, hold on to it for dear life because they don’t want to say it until they are really, really, really sure! Also, how do you respond when…
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Ethical Seduction #053 - Easy Indirect Flirting Methods
Not everyone likes walking up and directly approaching someone who they are interested in. Many of us prefer a more subtle and potentially safer “indirect” approach to flirting. One where we don’t come across as potentially pushy, but that feels more natural, comfortable, and flows easily.…
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Ethical Seduction #052 - I used to like you… but now I don’t.
Why do some people act super affectionate at first and then suddenly ghost on us? Why do we develop a crush on someone only to later find it evaporates overnight? Sexual and romantic desire is rather fickle and always changing, but we can learn to go with the flow in a way that both protects...
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Ethical Seduction #051 - Flirting Mixed Signals
A listener writes in asking how to navigate situations where someone isn't really into them but likes to flirt nevertheless? Also asking why people behave this way? So we deep dive into flirting mixed signals, how they may be interpreted, what they may mean, and why someone may choose to do this....
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Ethical Seduction #050 - Bedroom Rope Bondage with Nurse Jane
Nurse Jane teaches us a few simple bedroom rope bondage ideas to help heighten your partner's arousal. First she covers a few easy to learn ties and then demonstrates the more complex and creative ways you can bind and position your partner! Nurse Jane has something sexy for all you riggers and...
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Ethical Seduction #049 - Establishing Healthy Boundaries
Ever had someone overstep your boundaries and felt the pressure because of it? Ever not taken care of yourself as well as you know you should? Eva gives us suggestions for establishing healthy boundaries to help keep us in the sweet, happy spot of life. Learn more about creating the sex and...
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Ethical Seduction #048 - Shyness and Getting What You Want!
There is nothing wrong with being shy, however some people may find they hold themselves back because of it. It often takes a bit of risk to put yourself out there and ask for what you want. Today we offer some suggestions to help make it easier with getting what you want in a relationship, in…
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Ethical Seduction #047 - Submission and the Ecstasy of It!
In BDSM, what exactly is submission or “being submissive” and why do people like this? We explore all the positive, strong, and freeing aspects of submission and why it’s so rewarding for so many people. We dispel the myths about submission implying someone is weak and instead find out what’s…
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Ethical Seduction #046 - Ethical Seduction Update
This episode is intended to give listeners an update on some of the future things we want to focus on, such as potential class ideas in the area of dating, relationships, and sex education. But it's also to let people know that in order to do that we need to change to bi-weekly shows, at least…
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Ethical Seduction #045 - Tips for Reviving a Dry Sex Life
It can be normal to go through a period of time where your sex life is not where you want it to be. Today we are going to give you ideas for spicing things up, bringing back the sexy, AND for connecting or reconnecting with your partner! Learn more about creating the sex and relationships you…
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Ethical Seduction #044 - Amping Up Your Partner’s Orgasms
There are some fun things you can do to arouse your partner, amp things up, and increase the orgasmic sensations! How you touch, when you touch, and fondling both the mind and body can have huge impacts on the intensity of an orgasm. Learn more about creating the sex and relationships you want at...
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Ethical Seduction #043 - Tips for Talking with Partners about Sexual Fantasies
Talking with partners about your fantasies can be super rewarding! They get a new perspective of who you are and that can bring you both closer. But sometimes the other person just doesn't get that fantasy you are into and it’s just not their thing. So then what do you do?! Often, even when your...
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Ethical Seduction #042 - Spanking and Impact Play
In this episode we help you understand how to spank or hit someone, where it’s okay to hit them, what areas to avoid, and what is going to make them want more. We cover everything you need to know to safely warm them up, build the intensity, and get them both squirming and wanting more! Learn…
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Ethical Seduction #041 - Sexual Tension - Creating It, Using It, and Enjoying It!
Podcast Episode #41 - Sexual Tension - Creating It, Using It, and Enjoying It! We discuss ideas for supercharging your bedroom experiences in ways many people never think of. Once you get this way of thinking, you will always hold your partner's attention sexually! And if someone does this for…
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Ethical Seduction #040 - Destigmatizing Sexual Health, STD’s, STI’s, and how to talk about it.
Just because you or a partner may have an STD or STI does not mean that your sex life is over! In this show we destigmatize the myths and many of the concerns around STDs and STIs, plus we have some tips to help make it easy for you to have your sexual health conversations. Because protecting...
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Ethical Seduction #039 - How to Tell Someone to Fuck Off! (and what men need to know!)
EP #39 - How to Tell Someone to Fuck Off! (And what men should know.) This episode as two parts to it. (1) It’s about women standing up and stating what they want and (2) men learning to avoid placing accidental (or purposeful) pressure on someone. This is a really important episode for...
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Ethical Seduction #038 - STD’s, STI’s, and what you should know!
Here is what you should know about STDs and STIs to protect both yourself and any partners! Plus tips on how to have “the conversation” with them in a way that’s easy and helps strengthen trust between you.
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Ethical Seduction #037 - Sexting Skillfully
Say the wrong thing when you try sexting and you could crash and burn! Saying the right thing at the right time takes skill. We cover getting started, how to recover if you mess up, how to amp up the sexual tension, and how to take it to that happy place! Learn more about creating the sex and...
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Ethical Seduction #036 - Favorite Fantasies
In today’s episode, Eva and Brandie are back and turn up the heat! They share their favorite fantasies, what’s so sexy about them, and which ones they want to make a reality. #turnon #fantasy #fetish #seduction #ethicalseduction #ethicalseductionpodcast #podcast #kink #bdsm
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Ethical Seduction #035 - Exploring Your Kinks and Fetishes!
Eva and Brandie share their kinkiest kinks, fetishes, turn ons, and what really gets their juices flowing! Get inspired and find your own things to try and explore! #turnon #kinky #fetish #seduction #ethicalseduction #ethicalseductionpodcast #podcast #kink #bdsm
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ABOUT THIS SHOW
Ethical Seduction is a show designed to help you learn to flirt and connect easily, naturally, and authentically. We want to change the perception of what flirting and seduction are and how they can be used to benefit everyone. The time and effort you put into flirting should be seen as a positive experience that demonstrates who you are and what you have to offer. Our approaches to flirting are authentic, sex-positive, inclusive, and for all genders and orientations. So please, come flirt with us!
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Steven with Ethical Seduction
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Ethical Seduction is a show designed to help you learn to flirt and connect easily, naturally, and authentically. We want to change the perception of what flirting and seduction are and how they can be used to benefit everyone. The time and effort you put into flirting should be seen as a positive...
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