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Evan Swings
by Evan
A podcast about the swinger lifestyle! I'm Evan and my wife is Eva. We have been swingers since 2021. I'll tell you all about our adventures in the lifestyle: the ups and downs and everything in between! My hope is that hearing about our experiences will help others with their journey in the lifestyle! Happy swinging !Music: Island Breeze by Surf House Productions | https://surf-house-productions.bandcamp.comMusic promoted by https://www.free-stock-music.comCreative Commons / Attribution 4.0 International (CC BY 4.0)https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/
Episodes
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Ep. 79 Leaving Livid: A Club Tale (with co-host Eva)
You are allowed to change your mind about playing with someone at any point, for any reason in the lifestyle. But that doesn't make it any less frustrating when you are at a sex club and your expectations are high. Top it off with not respecting your dynamic, and you have a recipe for disaster.…
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Ep. 78: Blursed in the Lifestyle
After 5 years in the lifestyle, Eva and I know exactly what we want and we know exactly what we like when it comes to finding new spicy friends. That is a very good thing...but also, not a very good thing. In this episode I'll talk about why we consider ourselves "blursed."
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Ep. 77: Benefits with Friendliness
Eva and I usually say we prefer to find FWB's (friends with benefits) in the lifestyle. But is that accurate? Perhaps a better name for what we are looking for is appropriate. I'll discuss that and more (including what I think is a FANTASTIC, simple, respectful way to turn down couples in whom…
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Ep. 76: Birthday, Booty, Boobs, & BDSM
It was Eva's big birthday and we headed to the club to celebrate. A LOT of fun with some interesting circumstances. The highlight was Eva squirting in a BDSM room due to the actions of a woman (a first for her). Hear all about that and more in this episode!
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Ep. 75: Dodging Summer Bullets (with an unexpected guest host)
An unintended longer-than-usual episode. Summer started off slow for Eva and me...but then things picked up for the second half of it. Had some fun times...but also dodged a few bullets which I will talk about today. Eva heard me recording this episode and decided she wanted to pop on and give…
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Ep. 74: Parking Lot Pizza & the Eros Adventure (w/ co-host Eva)
Eva is back with me to discuss our recent trip to Club Eros in northeast Ohio where we met up with our friends Jack and Kate. We have not visited many clubs in our 5 years in the lifestyle, so it was interesting to try out a new one and see how it compares to others. We'll also discuss a new term...
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Ep. 73: Shallow Evan and the Flakes
No, it's not the name of a music band! But it could be someday! In this episode, I'll talk about two topics: 1. Flakes. One of the things that frustrates me most about the lifestyle. And for some reason, it seems like Eva and I run into more than our fair share. 2. I'll discuss a recent vanilla...
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Ep. 72: Just the Two of Us (with co-host Eva)
AUDIO APOLOGIES! Recording in a different location and with only one mic, this episode's audio did not come out well. We are learning and plan to upgrade to a better system. Very sorry that my volume is low. Eva joins me for today's episode and we talk about a recent trip to the club, just the…
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Ep. 71: Two Rounds at the Club
I was thinking the other day about what my biggest lifestyle pet peeve is. It is bad communication. I'll talk about that in this episode as well as share a sexy experience we had recently at a club.
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Ep. 70: Evan Chokes 2: The Chokening
Recognize the obscure Schitt's Creek reference? In this episode, I discuss: 1. What I would love our (Eva and myself) condom rule to be. 2. Sperm competition 3. A play date that reminds me there are still things to experience for the first time in the lifestyle, even after 5 years.
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Ep. 69: Will Power
What happens when you have a strict condom rule but find yourself in a hot tub with a woman begging you to break that rule? This is the second time in the last year that I have found myself in this sort of situation. In this episode I'll talk about having will power and staying honest to the…
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Ep. 68: Winding Down?
After I recorded this episode, I listened to it and realized my allergies affected my voice more than I thought! Apologies for my grogginess! In this episode, I respond to a listener question about breaking the ice. Then, I talk about how several factors are making it seem like our time in the...
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Ep. 67: St. Patty's Day O'rgy
What happens when there are two couples you want to play with at the club? How do you choose? Instead, how about you just play with both? That's exactly what happened when Eva and I attended a St. Patrick's Day event at a club. We had a great time and I'll tell you all about it in this episode!
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Ep. 66: Happy Valen-times
I have learned that going into an event with no expectations is often the best way to ensure I'll have fun. It was no exception on Valentines Day when Eva and I attended a club event, knowing full well ahead of time that we would not be playing with anyone that evening.
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Ep. 65: Reclaim Sex
Something that continues to be an absolute favorite of both Eva and myself: reclaim sex. In this episode, I'll discuss why it has become such an enjoyable and dare I say necessary part of our lifestyle adventures.
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Ep. 64: An Enjoyable but Unusual Solo Adventure
In this episode you'll hear about a solo adventure that was not only enjoyable, but unusual...at least for me. I'll tell you all about it and reinforce how respecting the dynamics of other couples is important in the lifestyle.
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Ep. 63: Baffled by a Back Out
There are plenty of pet peeves I have but one related to the lifestyle is flaky couples. In this episode, I answer a few listener questions and then discuss a baffling situation involving a couple that suddenly changed their minds about meeting Eva and me for a play date.
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Ep. 62: Power Through it?
I often do this podcast with the hope that my stories, rantings, ramblings, and ravings are relatable to others and help them navigate the lifestyle. But the two topics I discuss today left me with more questions than answers. - Are Eva and I at fault for a miscommunication involving a couple we...
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Ep. 61: Neutral New Years
Our New Years celebration was "neutral." A very enjoyable evening with plenty of disappointment. Also: how something as simple as wearing a fedora could be a catalyst for fun with another couple. Plus: Evan Swings gets a not-so-great review!
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Ep. 60: What Money Can't Buy
I have some brief updates from previous episodes and then I dive in to what money can't buy in the lifestyle. Spoiler alert: it's confidence.
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Ep. 59: Interesting & Infuriating Interactions Pt. 4
My fourth episode in a seemingly endless series! Eva and I are kind of shy when it comes to in-person meetings. While some prefer going to clubs and events to meet new couples, we prefer to stick to lifestyle sites and apps to initiate conversations with potential matches. That unfortunately…
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Ep. 58: I'll Ask Again. Do We Suck?
We have had a lot of good luck meeting awesome, compatible couples in the lifestyle. But lately, our luck has been awful. Today's episode is a story about a couple who seemed so perfect for us it was almost too good to be true. We hadn't met any new couples in almost a year so this was a breath…
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Ep. 57: Cat Out of the Bag?
Discretion seems to be a very important part of a couple's involvement in the lifestyle. Most couples say their vanilla friends and family are unaware (based on my experience of course). But what happens what happens when a family member discovers the secret...and tells others? In this episode…
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Ep. 56: No Expectations (a club story)
Going to a lifestyle club is something Eva and I love to do. It's a judgement-free environment where we can dance, drink, and be ourselves. We never go with the expectation that we will be hooking up with a couple. We have found that if you go with no expectations (except to enjoy the company of...
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Ep. 55: Let's Get Uncomfortable!
There are some lifestyle topics that some people (not all) find uncomfortable to talk about. I feel it is important to address topics like these. It helps to "tear down the walls" and erase negative stigmas. That's what this episode is all about. In this episode I tackle some topics that some…
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Ep. 54: No English, No Problem
What happens when Eva and I meet a sexy couple who don't speak our language? Find out in this episode. I'll tell the story of how we met a couple from "Colombia" at a club and how, although language was a barrier, we eventually met them for a very fun play date. Some other updates as well.
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Episode 53: Quick Bits
I keep notes regarding topics I wish to discuss on this podcast. Well, sometimes the things I wish to talk about do not warrant an entire episode's time. So in this episode, I will talk about a few different topics about which I had been hoping to dedicate some time to. I call them "quick bits."...
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Ep. 52: Intimidation Factor
There are several factors that can cause what I call "selective ED." In this episode I discuss those factors and how my brain is often my worst enemy when it comes to play dates.
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Ep. 51: Poison Ivy (Part 2) (with special guest Eva)
If you did not listen to Episode 50, please do so before listening to this episode. It is part 2 of my story of Ivy and our hotel adventure...as well as Eva's adventure at the same hotel that very night. Eva joins me in the second part of this episode to tell you all about it! Apologies if Eva's...
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Ep. 50: Poison Ivy (Part 1)
After many, many experiences with fakes, flakes, scammers, and sextortionists, this episode is all about an experience with a single lady...who was actually REAL. Fair warning: this episode is part 1 of 2. I have never ended an episode on a cliffhanger before...until now. But I had a lot to say...
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Ep. 49: Wife Poaching
In this episode I'll talk about something of which I just learned the meaning: wife poaching. I did not learn from experience, thankfully! So even though Eva and I have not been victims of wife poaching, I wanted to discuss it and give my take on it. I also share a couple of short annoying…
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Ep. 48: Evan Chokes
*Back after an extra week hiatus due to a family vacation. In this episode I discuss taking chances and trying something new in the lifestyle. Sometimes it works out, sometimes it does not.
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Ep. 47: Do We Suck?
Kind of a bummer (sometimes a HUGE bummer) when you think things are going well with another couple and then they unexpectedly end things. In this episode I talk about a recent experience with this.
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Ep. 46: The Quest for a New Symbol
The upside-down pineapple. The most common, well-known symbol associated with the lifestyle. Four years ago when Eva and I first started our lifestyle journey, we had no idea of its significance. It was like a well-guarded secret. Now, it seems like the cat is out of the bag. Everyone, whether...
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Ep. 45: A Long Con Thwarted
Has anyone had success with finding a unicorn? A single lady willing to play with you and your significant other? That is something that still alludes us in the lifestyle. It seems LOTS of couples are interested in finding a unicorn...and the scammers know it. And they are getting better and…
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Ep. 44: The Worst Kissers Ever
There's nothing really more to write. This is all about the worst kissers ever. Eva and I feel that kissing is an important part of play. So if you suck at it, it ruins the whole play date. We had the unfortunate experience of playing with the worst kissers...maybe on the entire planet.
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Ep. 43: Just the Two of Us
Eva and I are shy when it comes to meeting people in person. We find it difficult to walk up to new people and introduce ourselves. Therefore, when we go to clubs, we like to attend with other couples...so we're sure to have others to talk to! But in this episode, find out what happens when we…
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Ep. 42: FWB Downfalls
Episode 42: Eva and I love the Friends With Benefits dynamic of the lifestyle. But sometimes, that leads to unexpected feelings.
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Ep. 41: Operation FOGC
If you are in a strictly monogamous relationship, your chances of hooking up with a hot co-worker are 0%. But if you are a swinger...it's not out of the realm of possibility. In this episode I talk about taking a risk, exposing myself as a swinger to a very attractive co-worker, in hopes that one...
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Ep. 40: Hotel Takeovers 101
Never been to a hotel takeover? Hear all about them in today's episode. Eva and I have been to somewhere between 5 and 10 takeovers since joining the lifestyle. I'll talk about what to expect (including cost and themes) and discuss the pro's and con's. One thing is for sure: if you have never…
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Episode 39: Interesting & Infuriating Interactions Pt. 3
Will they ever stop? Part three of my (I guess) ongoing series of stories of our online interactions with couples. I can't make these up. These are all real stories. Eva and I love being in the lifestyle. But sometimes you run into people that make it less than fun.
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Ep. 38: A Solo No-Go
Eva and I have discovered that we love occasional solo play. It is exciting for both of us. Sadly, it has been almost a year since I have been able to experience it due to a lack of options. Eva has had several opportunities with more on the horizon. A bit frustrating when you are eager to...
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Ep. 37: The Slapper
Have you ever been threatened with public physical assault in lifestyle? I have. In this episode I tell the tale of a dude who threatened to slap me the next time he saw me at a club or event. This is what happened when I tried to call someone out on their BS and it went badly.
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Ep. 36: Our First MFM (with co-host Eva)
After a long time, Eva finally joins me for again as co-host! In this episode we will talk about our very first MFM threesome we had recently. Please note: Eva and I have not done this together very often. We are still trying to figure out the best setup (mic position, seating arrangement,...
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Ep.35: First Date Fun
Eva and I have a rule: we don't play with a couple the first night we meet them. But it HAS happened (earlier) in our lifestyle journey. This is the story about one of those rare occasions.
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Ep. 34: What I Haven't Figured Out
Eva and I have been in the lifestyle for three and half years now. One might think we would have it all figured out at this point. Not the case! We are still learning. Still discovering. This episode is all about the stuff I/we haven't figured out in the lifestyle.
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Ep. 33: Sextortion
What is sextortion? As a member of the lifestyle, you probably have a profile on a lifestyle app or site. What if your profile was hacked? What if the hacker threatened to make your profile and pics public? Or what if you were tricked into sending someone photos by someone with devious ulterior...
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Ep. 32: Evan Plays...at a Club!
Episode 32: I didn't think it was possible due to my anxiety about playing at a sex club. But thanks to an amazing couple and a super fun evening, I overcame my inhibitions. I can now officially say I have had sex at a club...and would probably do it again! So this episode is all about that...
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Ep. 31: Compelled to Tell
With so much negative stigma surrounding the lifestyle (in the vanilla world), our involvement in the lifestyle is a secretive one. But that doesn't stop me from WANTING to talk about it with some of my closest vanilla friends. I am "compelled to tell" them about it...but I can't. In this episode...
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Ep. 30: Failure to Launch
Episode 30. I take pride in discussing all lifestyle topics on this podcast. Even sensitive ones. This episode is all about a hotel takeover experience Eva and I had in August 2024. We had a fantastic time with two fantastic couples. But there was just one protagonist in this story: ED. I had a…
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ABOUT THIS SHOW
A podcast about the swinger lifestyle! I'm Evan and my wife is Eva. We have been swingers since 2021. I'll tell you all about our adventures in the lifestyle: the ups and downs and everything in between! My hope is that hearing about our experiences will help others with their journey in the lifestyle! Happy swinging !Music: Island Breeze by Surf House Productions | https://surf-house-productions.bandcamp.comMusic promoted by https://www.free-stock-music.comCreative Commons / Attribution 4.0 International (CC BY 4.0)https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/
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