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Explicitly Speaking

by Explicitly Speaking

A tell all conversation dissecting our sex lives. Each week Connor and Janice sit down to chat about their sex lives. We discuss some of the different experiences, roadblocks and conversations they have along the way. With very different views and experiences with sex, it can make for some very comical and interesting debate.

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Episodes

  1. Not the End... Just the Start of a Different Beginning

    Hey lovelies, Thanks for being patient. It's been a hot sec :) In this episode we dive in to what Connor's journey has looked like, and what's next for Explicitly Speaking. This is not the end, just the end of a pretty great beginning. xx Janice

  2. Ep. 47 The Importance of Equality - Ladies... we've all been there

    Soooo.... Did you come?? How many of us have said yes to this question... even if it's a hard lie??? We've all been there - but how do we make sure that if the answer to this question is no we can be empowered to say NO. It's definitely a journey but how do we get there as quickly as possible??

  3. Ep. 46 How Important is Sex in a Relationship??... Turns out VERY

    Apologies for the drag in content. We've been figuring a few things out and have some very exciting stuff to share soon. BUT getting on to this week... Have you ever altered who you are or what you need so that you could be in a relationship? I know I have. Why is this a thing??

  4. Ep. 45 Vagina Confidence - What came out of Janice's holiday Sexpactations

    Janice is back - and Bali was incredible. We chat about what happened (or didn't) on her holiday versus what her expectations were, and what came out of it. Enjoy x

  5. Ep. 44 What Does Normal Mean Anyways? What is a 'normal' sex life and how does it show up in relationship?

    What does 'normal' look like? It's going to be different for everyone and we just share what's normal for us. :) Enjoy

  6. Ep. 43 Janice Goes to Bali - and her expectations around sex on holiday

    We're back - apologies for the week off. It was a big one. This week we have a little chat about what Janice is expecting when it comes to what she wants to get out of her trip. It's a much needed holiday and hopefully she'll get EXACTLY what she wants from it.

  7. Ep 42. Know What You Need: 5 things we can't live without

    Welcome to Wednesday! What do you need when it comes to sex? Do you have a list of things that you absolutely can't live without? Well we do. I don't know why we haven't done this before but this week we have a good old chat about the things we can't live without when it comes to our sex lives.

  8. Ep. 41 The Birds and the Bees - A guide on how NOT to talk about sex

    Happy Hump Day - AKA the new Podcast Day! This week we have pretty frank conversation around sexual education. How were you educated about sex? Did your parents ever talk to you about the birds and the bees? Was it your teacher? Or even a group of your friends laughing in the back seat on the way...

  9. Ep. 40 Ghosts of my Past - What happens when someone disappears? They all come back around

    So we're switching it up - Hump day is the new Podcast Day - We thought it was fitting with the theme ;) Literal ghosts that have come back to haunt me. We all get ghosted, that's just life these days. But these 3 guys have come back from the dead. It's never too late to apologise for something...

  10. Ep. 39 Practice Makes Perfect - Communicating Even When It's Hard To

    Sometimes communicating is hard. We've all been there, and even though we talk about this stuff every week, and look in to what we "should" do, sometimes we take the easier route too. We're all human and this week we dive in to what to do when you actually don't want to talk about it. Enjoy.

  11. Ep. 38 Lunch Bag Letdown

    Sorry Everyone - we were a little late posting this week! But here it is. Episode 38 where we dive in to the downs of online dating. Has anyone ever showed up to a date and the person standing in front of you wasn't quite what you were expecting? Let's talk about that. How do we navigate around...

  12. Ep. 37 The Art of Contraception

    Just wanted to flag - We are not medical professionals. We simply share what our experience has been with contraception. You need to find what works for you, no matter what that may look like. If you have no idea where to even start, book in with a medical professional and find out your options…

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  13. Ep. 36 Dick Pics - Enough Said

    How good are Dick Pics? You all know I love them but we get in to why. Enjoy x

  14. Ep. 35 Shames On You

    This week we chat about a couple conversations that we've had. We look in to shame and what it means to us, how we can potentially overcome things that we might be ashamed of, and how we feel about breaking a few stigmas.

  15. Ep.34 I Came So Hard I Almsot Cried

    Yup - you didn't read it wrong. I actually almost cried. This week we chat about why not masturbating also pays off (something that I never thought I'd say) Stay tuned :) x

  16. Ep.33 Drunk Sex. Enough Said.

    And just after this long weekend with all the beers being consumed we thought it was the perfect time to chat about something that always seems like the best idea at the time. haha Drunk Sex Tune in to hear about what we think and what we've had :) x

  17. Ep.32 I Think I Did Something Bad

    Have you ever liked someone a bit more than they like you? Or have you ever got the vibe that someone is vibing you a bit more than your vibing them?? Would you still have the sex?? Is it worth the orgasm?? This week we get in to how to combat this, and what NOT to do. Enjoy xx

  18. Ep. 31 His Penis Just Fits In Me

    How good are orgasms!? This week we had some fun chatting about the different types of orgasms we've had. Remember - having multiple orgasms is a practise. It won't happen over night (well, it will if you're lucky). So, practise, practise, practise!!! x

  19. Ep.30 Holy Shit. We Have a Sex Podcast

    Happy New Year! Hope everyone had a break full of love, laughter, and of course - all the sex that you desired. We're back from our little break and thought we'd take the time to reflect on the year we've had. We look in to what we've learned and how we've changed. Would love to hear resolutions...

  20. Ep. 29 Well I'm Probably Gonna Put It In My Butt

    Happy Holidays everyone! Thought this was the perfect time to enter the wonderful world of sex toys. We have them. We Love them. We want more! Let us know what you asked for ;) We won't tell xxx

  21. Ep. 28 The Things We Do (or don't) for Love

    Have you ever made a life decision based on where you were at in your relationship? We've all been there - how to we make these decisions, and how do we ever know if it actually is going to be the best thing for us?? This week we take a look in to making those big decisions based on our partners....

  22. Ep.27 The Different Kinds of Sex - Let's Define Them ;)

    How many types of sex is there?? Let's try to define the different kinds of sex... From 1 nighters to sex in relationships - we chat about what these look like for us, and how different they are. Enjoy this one :)

  23. Ep. 26 Me and All My Sex Friends

    Sex Friends... Do they work? Are they a thing?? They always seem like a good idea at the time... But why - more likely than not - do they always eventually breakdown? This episode we try to figure this out. What's worked for us, what hasn't, and why!

  24. Ep.25 Our Obsession with Perfection

    Episode 25! Welcome :) This week we change up the tone a bit and try to work out why relationships are how they are today. Props to Steve Bartlett for his Video "THE SINGLE BIGGEST KILLER OF RELATIONSHIPS IN 2018" that prompted this conversation - check him out @Steven And thanks again to Nik…

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  25. Ep.24 - Put Me In Coach

    And we're back! We so enjoyed the last 3 weeks with Tommy (if you haven't tuned in to those would recommend!) but we're so excited to be back. This week we update you guys around where we're at - sexually of course - and what we're thinking, and how some of us have practised what we preach :)

  26. Ep.23 Pt3 with @Tommymisa - A Few Golden Nuggets

    Well we hope you've enjoyed our first ever guest! We sure did :) This week there's no holds back. We touch on a few topics here - Spontaneous Anal being one of them. We loved having Tommy on and be prepared to hear a lot more from him.

  27. Ep.22 Our Time With Tommy pt.2 - A Few Firsts

    Welcome back :) Tommy Misa is back and we're diving in to first times, and what his experience was when trying to navigate through that whole sex thaaang. So many laughs!

  28. Ep.21 Pt. 1 - Let's Meet Tomasi

    You asked - we delivered. Mr. Tommy Misa everyone - Artist; Actor; Model; Muse and Bartender extaordinaire - among all the other wonderful things. Tune in to part one of 3 - we get to know Tommy as the fabulous being that he is. We take a look in to how his life has evolved and how his pilot...

  29. Ep.20 Or Is There Room For My Head Between Your Legs??

    But is there?? Ya...there's plenty ;) This past weekend Janice went to her 2nd sex party. And spoiler: it was a COMPLETELY different experience to the last one. We look in to what life was like leading up, and what exactly happened there. Enjoy :)

  30. Ep.19 He's Hit a New Box... Pun Intended

    But what has Connor's journey been thus far?? This week we look into where Connor started vs. where he is now, and what he's learned along the way. Does age really matter? And, what is the real difference in experience?? Stay tuned :)

  31. Ep.18 Orgasm City

    Orgasms are a journey, and the road to them looks completely different for everyone. Listen in to hear what the journey was like for Janice and how long it's taken to keep orgasms consistently great... 10 years in the making :)

  32. Ep.10 Part 2 - Orgy on my Mind

    Ok so here it is. If you haven't listened to Ep. 9 we suggest you do!! Find out exactly what happened the night of the sex party. Don't worry, no details were spared.

  33. Ep.9 Pt 1 - Orgy on my Mind

    Episode 9 - Part 1 of 2. Janice recalls and conversation she had in the lead up before she decides about potentially going to her first Orgy. We look into how she feels, what's coming up, and what the night could look like. Take a listen and see what she decided to do :)

  34. Ep.8 My Snapchat Boyfriend

    Let's talk about Snapchat. Janice shares why she loves this app and why it can be something used with your sexual partner. **Literally all the nudes were sent during the recording of this episode :)

  35. Ep7. Most of my Dates End in Sex

    This week we dive in to the ins and outs of online dating. We get a good idea of what works and what does for both Janice and Connor, and go in to a couple pretty funny disaster stories. Enjoy, and don't be afraid to put yourself out there!

  36. Ep.6 My Sexuality is Only Mine

    This week we've changed up the tone a bit. In episode 6 we take a look at a few conversations that we've heard and had in the last couple weeks. What do the words that you say actually mean? Your words have power, take a second to think about who and what you are talking about! Enjoy :)

  37. Ep. 5 The Just Jerk Off Guy

    This week we look in to an experience that Janice had that opened up the conversation around STI's and sexual health. We chat about what makes these conversations so difficult to have. And that experience we are talking about... might have left Janice in some what of a 'sticky' situation.

  38. Ep.4 Masturbation - You Hump that Pillow

    In this episode we hear all about Janice and Connor's journey with masturbation! They share a couple hilarious stories and tell us why masturbating is so very important :)

  39. Ep.3 Sex Club Guy

    Holy... Hang on to your undies for this one. Here, Janice shares about her first experience having sex with more than one person.... oh ya, at the same time.

  40. Ep.2 All about the Oral

    Episode 2 and we're all about the oral. Here we learn a couple of Janice's go to moves! So listen in for a few tips around communicating your needs in between the sheets.

  41. Ep.1 Carpark Guy

    Episode 1! Welcome to Explicitly Speaking. This week we dive in to sex in public. Janice tells us a story where she ends up doing something on a roof top carpark that isn't exactly parking her car.

  42. Intro

    Welcome to Explicitly Speaking - the Podcast, where we have a tell all conversation dissecting our sex lives.

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A tell all conversation dissecting our sex lives. Each week Connor and Janice sit down to chat about their sex lives. We discuss some of the different experiences, roadblocks and conversations they have along the way. With very different views and experiences with sex, it can make for some very comical and interesting debate.

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