Fairy Gaymothers Sorta

In the season finale of Fairy Gaymothers Sorta, Kat and Hunter complete their exam in the last instalment of their extremely rigorous (and completely self-appointed) curriculum of semester one: Know Thy Unknown. This week, they turn their attention to the things that simply refuse to make sense, and perhaps were never meant to.First on the agenda, Kat and Hunter report back with their recurring fieldwork segment: The Crash, Bit, Bang. In a special twist, the girls take turns crashing out over the many things in this world they just don’t understand. Some are sweeping, existential concepts, others are smaller, more niche curiosities… and a few are things they’ve decided they’re actually better off not knowing at all.Wrapping up their first semester at Fairy Gaymother Academy, Kat and Hunter reflect on everything they’ve learned (academically, spiritually, and emotionally, give or take), revisit standout moments, and take stock of how their worldview has shifted. They also offer a glimpse into what’s ahead for semester two, including new lessons, evolving perspectives, and, of course, continued unqualified guidance.Crash/Bit/Bangs? Feedback? Fan Mail? Dath Thrats? Send us an email @ mailto:[email protected] Us on Instagram: instagram.com/fairygaymotherssortaand TikTok: /fairygaymotherssortaOur website: https://kat-dj-and-hunHosted: https://rss.com/podcasEven More: https://linktr.ee/offi

In this episode of Fairy Gaymothers Sorta, Kat and Hunter enrol in another instalment of their extremely rigorous (and completely self-appointed) curriculum: Know Thy Shepherd. This week, they examine who we’re really taking advice from, and ask what happens when the loudest voices in the room are also the most misguided? First on the agenda, Kat and Hunter report back with their recurring fieldwork segment: The Crash, Bit, Bang. Hunter crashes out over St. Patrick’s Day and the alarming influx of women posting their deeply questionable boyfriends (be serious), while Kat finds herself endlessly entertained by men attempting (earnestly, yet unsuccessfully) to understand diva cups. Points for effort, perhaps. From there, we move into the main lecture: the manosphere. Inspired by Louis Theroux’s Inside the Manosphere documentary, Kat and Hunter unpack the rise of red pill content and the pipeline drawing young men into these digital echo chambers. What makes these spaces so enticing? Why are they resonating now? And more importantly, how do we begin to challenge and dismantle them without further alienating the very people caught inside? The girls explore the emotional undercurrents, cultural influences, and possible paths forward in a world where guidance is increasingly coming from questionable shepherds. Louis Theroux. (2024). Inside the Manosphere. https://www.unwomen.org/en/articles/explainer/what-is-the-manosphere-and-why-should-we-care https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2025/nov/02/teenage-radicalised-manosphere-young-men-masculinity Crash/Bit/Bangs? Feedback? Fan Mail? Dath Thrats? Send us an email @ mailto:[email protected] Follow Us on Instagram: instagram.com/ fairygaymotherssorta and TikTok: http://www.tiktok.com/@fairygaymotherssorta Our website: https://kat-dj-and-hun (https://kat-dj-and-hun/)... Hosted: https://rss.com/podcas.... Even More: https://linktr.ee/offi....

In this episode of Fairy Gaymothers Sorta, Kat and Hunter enrol in another instalment of their extremely rigorous (and completely self-appointed) curriculum: Know Thy Sparkle. This week, they take a look at what makes us shine, and ask why it feels like mayhaps we’ve collectively dimmed the lights?First on the agenda, Kat and Hunter report back with their recurring fieldwork segment: The Crash, Bit, Bang. Hunter absolutely loses it over the widespread theft of her texting lingo (and therefore, her rizz), while Kat steps into a new era, experimenting with styles that have her feeling fly, fresh, and frankly unstoppable. #styleiconFrom there, we move into the main lecture: sparkle (or lack thereof). Kat and Hunter unpack the rise of the “lobotomized chic” trend and why Gen Z seems slightly obsessed with numbness. Is it aesthetic or coping? What does it say about our collective desire to take the edge off? The girls investigate the cultural shift toward detachment, emotional minimalism, and what it means to feel nothing, but fashionably.Anderson TL, Valiauga R, Tallo C, Hong CB, Manoranjithan S, Domingo C, Paudel M, Untaroiu A, Barr S, Goldhaber K. Contributing Factors to the Rise in Adolescent Anxiety and Associated Mental Health Disorders: A Narrative Review of Current Literature. J Child Adolesc Psychiatr Nurs. 2025 Feb;38(1):e70009. doi: 10.1111/jcap.70009. PMID: 39739929; PMCID: PMC11683866.Rothman, L. (2022, April 13). It’s harder than ever to care about anything. Time. https://time.com/6160337/hard-to-care-about-anything/ https://www.tiktok.com/@whatzaraloves6/video/7614196285616164118https://www.tiktok.com/@therapyjeff/video/7612656180996934925https://www.tiktok.com/@sydneyyeds2/video/7510347827059445023Crash/Bit/Bangs? Feedback? Fan Mail? D*ath Thr*ats? Send us an email @ [email protected] Follow Us on Instagram: instagram.com/ fairygaymotherssorta and TikTok: www.tiktok.com/@fairygaymotherssorta Our website: https://kat-dj-and-hun... Hosted: https://rss.com/podcas.... Even More: https://linktr.ee/offi....

In this episode of Fairy Gaymothers Sorta, Kat and Hunter enrol in another instalment of their extremely rigorous (and completely self-appointed) curriculum: Know Thy Hobbies. Yes girls and gays, we’re getting introspective… but like, fun about it. This week’s syllabus tackles the age-old question plaguing our generation: do we actually have hobbies, or are we just scrolling with conviction? First on the agenda, Kat and Hunter report back with their recurring fieldwork segments: The Hinge Cringe and Crash / Bit / Bang. Hunter attempts to defend her matchmaking abilities (the evidence scarce), while Kat explains her deeply held philosophy of joy by proxy, specifically through the time-honoured practice of watching SMOSH videos like they’re prestige television. From there, we enter the main lecture: hobbies. Hunter and Kat unpack their own personal hobbies, the mysterious state of Gen Z hobbies as a whole, and why so many of us feel like we’re supposed to have enriching personal interests but instead just have… screen time reports. Does scrolling count as a hobby? Are we doomed to live hobbyless lives? It’s up to us to investigate. Plus, a surprisingly earnest exploration of something radical in the year of our lord 2026: being alone. What happens when you actually spend time with yourself? Is solitude scary, powerful, healing, or all three? Kat and Hunter discuss the quiet art of getting to know yourself, and why it might be the most important hobby of all. It’s hobbies. It’s existential. It’s extremely unserious self-improvement. 🧚‍♀️📓 Mahayosnand, P. P., & Sabra, S. M. (2024). Generation Z: Increasing self-perceived employability and well-being through serious leisure. GILE Journal of Skills Development, 4(3), 87-92. Yağmur, Y. (2024). An Exploratory Research to Reveal the Habits, Motivations, and Tendencies of Generation Z to Use Social Media Platforms as A Leisure Activity. Advances in Hospitality and Tourism Research (AHTR), 12(2), 172-199. https://doi.org/10.30519/ahtr.1452356 Crash/Bit/Bangs? Feedback? Fan Mail? D*ath Thr*ats? Send us an email @ [email protected] Follow Us on Instagram: instagram.com/ fairygaymotherssorta and TikTok: www.tiktok.com/@fairygaymotherssorta Our website: https://kat-dj-and-hun... Hosted: https://rss.com/podcas.... Even More: https://linktr.ee/offi....

In this episode of Fairy Gaymothers Sorta, Kat and Hunter enrol in a brand-new instalment of their self-imposed curriculum: Know Thy News. Yes, girls and gays, we’re getting journalistic (loosely). This week’s syllabus includes the most pressing events in pop culture right now, from baffling celebrity discourse to the stories that have taken over everyone’s timelines. As always, we report back with our crashes, bits, and bangs of the week, because staying culturally literate is a full-time job. We dive into the newest Wuthering Heights adaptation starring Margot Robbie and Jacob Elordi (our personal enemy), unpack the unexpected fan fiction ecosystem emerging around The Pitt, and attempt a groundbreaking academic exercise: using the Lesbian Web™ to properly place the chaotic characters and actors of Hulu’s Tell Me Lies. Naturally, things only get more unhinged from there. Plus, a deep dive into the internet’s favourite pastime: celebrity conspiracy theories, including the strange and suspicious online narratives swirling around Selena Gomez. Are these theories based in fact, fiction, or pure chronically-online energy? The girls investigate. It’s news. It’s nonsense. It’s cultural reporting of the highest (and lowest) order. 🧚‍♀️📰 Mentioned Links: https://www.tiktok.com/@oldfashonedhussleCrash/Bit/Bangs? Feedback? Fan Mail? D*ath Thr*ats? Send us an email @ [email protected] Follow Us on Instagram: instagram.com/ fairygaymotherssorta and TikTok: www.tiktok.com/@fairygaymotherssorta Our website: https://kat-dj-and-hun... Hosted: https://rss.com/podcas... Even More: https://linktr.ee/offi...

In this episode of Fairy Gaymothers Sorta, Kat and Hunter enrol in a brand-new instalment of their self-imposed curriculum: Know Thy Crime or Do Thy Time. Yes, girls and gays, we’re getting investigative. This week’s syllabus includes cold cases, serial murderers, and the ever-growing cultural obsession with true crime. They dig into the ethics of it all: Who gets centred in these stories? Is consuming true crime a form of advocacy, or are we all just a little too comfortable treating real tragedy like prime television?It’s camp. It’s crime. Plus: we premiere a brand-new segment, The Hinge Cringe, where the girls bravely (and foolishly) read the most horrifying dating app messages they’ve ever received — digital artifacts so unsettling they deserve to be sealed in a vault beneath the earth. Consider this your formal warning.Please note: Unfortunately, there was some technical difficulties with the microphones towards the end of the video (homophobic, we know) and we apologize in advance if it disturbs the listening experience!Resources mentioned in the episode below: Available on Google Scholar; Gray, H. Obsessed with Murder: True Crime and Gender.Dhaliwal, M. (2025). CONSTRUCTIONS OF SERIAL KILLERS AND VICTIMS: ANALYSIS OF TRUE CRIME DOCUSERIES.Links: https://daily.jstor.org/bloody-history-of-true-crime-genre/https://crimereads.com/a-brief-history-of-the-rise-and-evolution-of-true-crime-books/https://creativenonfiction.org/writing/our-long-standing-obsession-with-true-crime/https://www.unc.edu/posts/2024/01/11/why-are-we-fascinated-by-true-crime/https://www.thecollector.com/what-are-the-origins-of-the-true-crime-genre/Janelle Monáe’s Dirty Computer Emotion Picture: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jdH2Sy-BlNECrash/Bit/Bangs? Feedback? Fan Mail? D*ath Thr*ats? Send us an email @ [email protected] Follow Us on Instagram: instagram.com/ fairygaymotherssorta and TikTok: www.tiktok.com/@fairygaymotherssorta Our website: https://kat-dj-and-hun... Hosted: https://rss.com/podcas.... Even More: https://linktr.ee/offi....

In this episode of Fairy Gaymothers Sorta, Kat and Hunter enroll in a brand-new installment of their self-imposed curriculum: Know Thy Slur. Yes, girls and gays, we’re getting academic. This week, the syllabus includes curse words, cultural context, and the ever-evolving perception of “bad language” in society. What makes a word scandalous? What makes it reclaimed? What makes it… absolutely not fit for human consumption?The Fairy Gaymothers dive into the delicate art of discernment: which slurs are camp, which are c*nty (complimentary), and which ones should stay locked in the dusty archives of 2007 Twitter discourse where they belong. It’s a playful (and mildly chaotic) exploration of linguistics, power, and knowing when a word slays… and when it nays. Kat delivers a passionate update on Canada’s iconic bronze medal moment for Piper and Paul, and takes us on a scenic tour through Lady Gaga’s discography like the pop scholar she is. Hunter, on the other hand, fully crashes out over memories she has apparently erased from her own hippocampus, prompting an investigation into whether nostalgia is real or just gay propaganda. Class is in session. Grab your notebooks and watch your mouth. Crash/Bit/Bangs? Feedback? Fan Mail? D*ath Thr*ats? Send us an email @ [email protected] Us on Instagram: instagram.com/ fairygaymotherssortaand TikTok: www.tiktok.com/@fairygaymotherssortaOur website: https://kat-dj-and-hunter-vern.comHosted: https://rss.com/podcasts/fairy-gaymot...Even More: https://linktr.ee/officialfairygaymot...

This episode of Fairy Gaymothers, Sorta is brought to you by multiple organ failure, mysterious vitamins, and the horrors that visit you at 3 a.m. Kat and Hunter crash out about the chaos of their bodies slowly breaking down and the absolute confusion that is the supplement industrial complex - b12? metamucil? lexapro? Who knows. Listen as they discuss and nominate Meghan Trainor and Tom Sandoval as the official sleep paralysis demons of the week, because some images simply cannot be unseen. They also unpack the cultural moment we’re trapped in, from the “skinny epidemic” and the renewed pressure on women to shrink themselves (both literally and metaphorically) to the oppressive resurgence of body standards we thought we left in the 2000s. Come for the cultural commentary, stay for the bodily decay, existential dread, and whatever other lessons we manage to learn along the way.Crash/Bit/Bangs? Feedback? Fan Mail? D*ath Thr*ats? Send us an email @ [email protected] Us on Instagram: instagram.com/ fairygaymotherssortaand TikTok: www.tiktok.com/@fairygaymotherssorta Our website: https://kat-dj-and-hunter-vern.comHosted: https://rss.com/podcasts/fairy-gaymot...Even More: https://linktr.ee/officialfairygaymot...Vogue Business Reports: https://www.vogue.com/article/the-vogue-business-spring-summer-2025-size-inclusivity-reporthttps://www.vogue.com/article/the-vogue-business-spring-summer-2026-size-inclusivity-reporthttps://closeronline.co.uk/celebrity/news/thighbrow-top-10-pictures-latest-celebrity-body-trend/?utm_source=Pinterest&utm_medium=organic#image-9https://www.papermag.com/kim-kardashian-1427448936Ayo Edebiri SNL: https://youtu.be/mbOYSKH8Sjk?si=hFGVZ6x_J2KpM_xZSorority Study: https://www.researchgate.net/publication/19963644_Social_Contagion_of_Binge_EatingMedia Representation: https://therepproject.org/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/2022AllBodies_FatWomenInHollywood_Report_V2_TypoFixed.pdf

In this episode of Fairy Gaymothers Sorta, Kat and Hunter share their take on popular romance tropes and what your trope of choice can say about you. Coming from the perspective of two women who don’t date men, they evaluate how they’d approach different romance tropes, which tropes they avoid, and how tropes can teach you what you want in a relationship. Plus, they play a fun game where Hunter explains the main conflict in a popular book, and Kat reacts with the appropriate amount of concern for straight people. This week’s lesson in the self-imposed curriculum is Know Thy Trope. Tune in to hear us crash out over the devastating loss of Catherine O’Hara, recount the fun that was had on Hunter’s champagne birthday, and more.Crash/Bit/Bangs? Feedback? Fan Mail? D*ath Thr*ats? Send us an email @ [email protected]: http://www.youtube.com/@FairyGaymothersSortaFollow Us on Instagram: instagram.com/ fairygaymotherssortaand TikTok: www.tiktok.com/@fairygaymotherssorta

In this episode of Fairy Gaymothers Sorta, Kat and Hunter share their top-secret intelligence on dating apps. Coming from a generation that hasn’t known dating without app-based mediation, they weigh in on everything from algorithms to “talking stages” to love letters. Plus, they share their tips for using the apps and actually dating without wanting to pull your hair out. This week’s lesson in the self-imposed curriculum is Know Thy Matchmaker. Tune in to hear us crash out over the recent loss of Marbles, rave about the masterpiece that is One of Them Days, divulge our dating app experiences, and more. Crash/Bit/Bangs? Feedback? Fan Mail? D*ath Thr*ats? Send us an email @ [email protected] Follow Us on Instagram: instagram.com/ fairygaymotherssorta and TikTok: www.tiktok.com/@fairygaymotherssorta Our website: https://kat-dj-and-hun... Hosted: https://rss.com/podcas.... Even More: https://linktr.ee/offi.... Tinder announced that they were expanding their protections for trans users in 2019, but it’s difficult to find any specific evidence of this. While they have introduced a feature that notifies LGBTQ+ people if they are entering a country where the LGBTQ+ community may be penalized, this does little to help queer people in their everyday lives attempting to use the app.Study on Queer Canadian Adults’ experiences using dating apps here: https://2slgbtqhealthhub.ca/research/dating-app-use-and-wellbeing-among-queer-adults-in-canada-a-mixed-methods-studyFurther reading: https://www.concordia.ca/cunews/main/items/the-conversation/2025/more-than-just-a-bad-date--navigating-harms-on-lgbtq--dating-app.htmlJenna Marbles: https://www.youtube.com/@JennaMarbleshttps://www.instagram.com/juliensolomita/?hl=enTiny Horse: https://youtu.be/z53ZoWGZtyw?si=Me0WLYKtyE74WdJU

In this episode of Fairy Gaymothers Sorta, Kat and Hunter delve into the hit Crave show, Heated Rivalry. They discuss everything from Ilya’s gluteus maximus routine to the nuances of the NHL’s supposed “support” of the show and the LGBTQ+ community. The only thing longer than the situationship between Ilya and Shane is how long Kat and Hunter can talk about this show. This week’s lesson in the self-imposed curriculum is Know Thy Frenemies. Tune in to hear us crash out over the masterpiece that is Heated Rivalry, the incredible cast, horrible men with podcasts, and more.Crash/Bit/Bangs? Feedback? Fan Mail? D*ath Thr*ats? Send us an email @ [email protected] Us on Instagram: instagram.com/ fairygaymotherssortaand TikTok: www.tiktok.com/@fairygaymotherssortaOur website: https://kat-dj-and-hun...Hosted: https://rss.com/podcas....Even More: https://linktr.ee/offi....Tell The Bees: https://tellthebeees.substack.com/ and TikTok: www.tiktok.com/@tellthebees Nico Carney: https://www.instagram.com/nicocarney/ https://www.nicocarney.com/Sinai Health Foundation: https://www.sinaihealth.ca/foundationWeston and O’Born Centre for Mature Women's Health: https://www.sinaihealth.ca/areas-of-care/wih/mature-womens-healthVanessa Oly Wellness Instagram Account: https://www.instagram.com/vanessaolywellness?igsh=aWZxdWtnbGU5emVlOfficial Heated Rivalry Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/heatedrivalrycrave?igsh=MWJ5OHNtZXY0NjFzaw== 

In this episode of Fairy Gaymothers Sorta, Kat and Hunter introduce you to Old Yore’s Retributions. Fed up with all the “new year, new me” bs that happens every January, this week’s lesson in the self-imposed curriculum is Know Thy Errors. We crash out about Fascism and prescriptions, reflect on things we were punished for in 2025 and attempt to be optimistic about the year ahead! Spoiler alert, we plan to be even more gay and slightly less mentally ill. Happy New Year! Crash/Bit/Bangs? Feedback? Fan Mail? D*ath Thr*ats? Send us an email @ [email protected] Follow Us on Instagram: instagram.com/ fairygaymotherssortaand TikTok: www.tiktok.com/@fairygaymotherssorta Our website: https://kat-dj-and-hunter-vern.com Hosted: https://rss.com/podcasts/fairy-gaymot... Even More: https://linktr.ee/officialfairygaymot...Cole Escola Photo: https://www.facebook.com/enews/posts/cole-escola-wins-best-performance-by-an-actor-in-a-leading-role-in-a-play-at-the/1088699596463343/Deodorant/Anti-Perspirant Links: https://cancer.ca/en/cancer-information/reduce-your-risk/myths-and-controversies/do-antiperspirants-cause-breast-cancerDana K. Mirick, Scott Davis, David B. Thomas, Antiperspirant Use and the Risk of Breast Cancer, JNCI: Journal of the National Cancer Institute, Volume 94, Issue 20, 16 October 2002, Pages 1578–1580, https://doi.org/10.1093/jnci/94.20.1578Darbre PD. Underarm antiperspirants/deodorants and breast cancer. Breast Cancer Research 2009; 11 Suppl 3:S5. doi: 1186/bcr2424.Gabby Windey & Robby Hoffman Photos: https://www.instagram.com/gabby.windey/Mug: https://twitter.com/ddlovato/status/643016620953219072 Jonathan Bailey: https://people.com/jonathan-bailey-is-sexiest-man-alive-2025-11842000

In the Holiday Special episode of Fairy Gaymothers Sorta, Kat and Hunter are here to remind you what the holidays are really about: being merry and gay! We weigh in on whether a classic Christmas figure is a Fairy Gaymother, teach you about Holiday movies you didn’t know were gay, and help you prepare for those stressful family gatherings. This episode will have you ready to spin your dreidel and deck your halls! We’re here to make things holly-er, jollier, and most certainly gayer! Happy Holidays!Crash/Bit/Bangs? Feedback? Fan Mail? D*ath Thr*ats? Send us an email @ [email protected] Follow Us on Instagram: instagram.com / fairygaymotherssorta and TikTok: www.tiktok.com/@fairygaymotherssorta Our website: https://kat-dj-and-hunter-vern.com Hosted: https://rss.com/podcasts/fairy-gaymot... Even More: https://linktr.ee/officialfairygaymot...Eden Food for Change: https://edenffc.org/

In the second episode of Fairy Gaymothers Sorta, Kat and Hunter attempt to help the straights. Well… sorta. Inspired by the recent “Is Having A Boyfriend Embarrassing Now?” discourse, this week’s lesson in the self-imposed curriculum is Know Thy Desires. We crash out about the Louvre being robbed and Laika the space dog, attempt to define heteropessimism and more! Oh and we may sing a little too. Crash/Bit/Bangs? Feedback? Fan Mail? D*ath Thr*ats? Send us an email @ [email protected] Follow Us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/fairygaymotherssorta/and TikTok: www.tiktok.com/@fairygaymotherssortaOur website: https://kat-dj-and-hunter-vern.com Hosted: https://rss.com/podcasts/fairy-gaymot...Even More: https://linktr.ee/officialfairygaymothersChanté JosephIs Having a Boyfriend Embarrassing Now: https://www.vogue.com/article/is-having-a-boyfriend-embarrassing-nowThe Reaction to Is Having a Boyfriend Embarrassing Now https://www.vogue.com/article/on-the-reaction-to-is-having-a-boyfried-embarrassing-nowAsa SeresinOn Heteropessimism: https://thenewinquiry.com/on-heteropessimism/Jake Schroederhttps://www.tiktok.com/@jake_amazinghttps://www.instagram.com/frostedjakehttps://open.spotify.com/artist/55IyGmAlWS41w2r1g5W1pD?si=2qRlpnZMT3GlytHpWAsUCg

In the first episode of Fairy Gaymothers Sorta, Kat and Hunter walk you through what exactly it means to be a Fairy Gaymother and why we're only "Sorta" there. As the inventors of this term and the singular authority on who/what meets the criteria, we're making it all up! Each episode we'll highlight a Fairy Gaymother in the wild and explore a new piece of the self-imposed curriculum in our training. This week we crash out over our being in our mid-twenties, the concept of time, the colour cherry red and more!