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Fashionably Late
by Kirby & Ember
Two lesbians join the party to talk about all things coming out late in life after being married to men and raising a family. Learn about our struggles, loves, discoveries, and all the in-betweens that you might want to know when you decide to come out in your 30's and 40's.
Episodes
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Episode 127; Foreplay or Foulplay
In this conversation we explore our experiences and misconceptions surrounding foreplay, highlighting the emotional and physical aspects of intimacy - as well as the differences we've personally experienced in heterosexual relationships vs. a queer relationship. We dive deeper into the journey of...
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The Kennedy's
Kirby and Ember return after a two-month hiatus to share their journey of engagement, elopement, and the challenges of planning a wedding. They discuss the intricacies of the proposal, the magical moments of their engagement, and the fun-filled bachelorette party in Vegas. The couple reflects on...
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Recovering
We're back! 3 weeks post top surgery, and falling back into a normalcy. We've missed you all. As always, thanks for hangin' with us through all the adventures of life. Xo.
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Unpacking Hidden Emotions
We are just days away from Kirby getting top surgery and the emotions are HIGH. As the day approaches, feelings are coming to surface - and while this is an extremely exciting time, it is also a very vulnerable time. In this episode we both open up about where our heads are at and how we have...
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Just Checking In
Join us for a quick catch-up as we share our weekend events with you and touch on some of the most recent things we have learned as not only a couple but as two mothers raising sons together as well.
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Coming Out
National #comingout day has come and gone and we are here to re-surface some of what we navigated when coming out. How did we go from husband to wife - who did we tell first? What was our biggest fear in saying it out loud? These are just a few of the things we touch on in this episode. No matter...
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Pre-Top Surgery Q+A
Time for an intimate Q+A! As Kirby's surgery date inches closer, so do the big feelings and a good healthy check-in can be so beneficial.
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A Journey of Self Acceptance
The idea of using our sexuality, as lesbians, for the male "gaze" is no longer something we can stand behind - and in this episode we talk about our "graduation" process through understanding that the only person we need acceptance from is ourselves. When you can truly live a life for you - and…
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This or That
Join us for a game of THIS or THAT, queer edition, obviously.
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Future Plans.
Where do you see yourself in one year? Three years? Or 5? What type of picture would you paint for yourself and your relationship? In this episode we share all of our dreams, goals, aspirations and plans not only for ourselves but for and within our relationship as well because in the type of…
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Reconnecting. Reflecting. Re-Grounding.
Allow us to re-introduce ourselves. HI! We're back and better than ever. The month of August was just what we needed to fuel us back up after reaching a point that we were running on "E". Spend some time with us as we catch you up on what we've been up to! From chasing waterfalls and crossing...
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Managing our Mental Health
This will be our last episode for a while. Tune in to hear us discuss on ongoing struggles with mental health, the importance of communication in our relationship, and the complexities of blending our families. In this episode we share our personal insights on navigating chaos, the need for...
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Paving New Parental Paths
Being a parent is hard, no matter what. It's one of the hardest things someone will do- and summertime can be draining. As we are approaching the end of summer break we are here to check in and vent it out - all at once because there is no guide to being a parent, and sometimes we have to pave…
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No Ultimatums, Just US.
We finished The Queer Ultimatum - and we have opinions. Tune in to hear all the things we have to say regarding how our community has been represented and what we thought of the show. Plus! Find out about our newest exciting endeavors.. If you know us, you know we're always up to something. ;)
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Representing Queer Community
Who's watching #theultimatum queer love edition? In this episode we talk about our personal opinions towards the show - and how it really misses the mark on healthy representation of queer love. Tune in to hear about our volunteering experience at the Pride Picnic as well and how we are striving…
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Letting labels and identities BE.
Can trans men be lesbians? That's the "hot" topic all over social right now, and today we openly discussed where we are at surrounding the topic. We talk about how labels can be helpful and hurtful at the same time, and how we continue to learn more and more as we make our way deeper into this...
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Weekly Catch Up
In this conversation, Kirby and Ember share their recent experiences, including rescuing baby bunnies, navigating a name change, and managing family dynamics with their children. They reflect on the significance of Father's Day, discuss the differences in how men and women approach planning for...
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"I kissed a boy."
In this conversation, Kirby and Ember discuss their experiences and thoughts surrounding Pride Month, personal updates, and the complexities of celebrity identities, particularly focusing on the recent news about Fletcher and Jojo Siwa. They explore themes of representation, the fluidity of...
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Pride Month + Summer Chaos
The summer has arrived. Full force. & so has Pride month! In this episode we talk about the transition into having all of the kids under one roof again and the chaos that comes with it. We're tired... but we're pushin' through! Like we always do.
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Navigating Identity and Community
In this engaging conversation, Kirby and Ember reflect on their journey over the past year, celebrating personal growth and the challenges they faced. They delve into a trending TikTok controversy involving a creator who shifted her identity from a lesbian to a religious perspective, sparking...
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Intimacy After Coming Out
** APOLOGIES FOR THE SOUND DISRUPTIONS** Most importantly - In this episode, we share Kirby's biopsy results before diving into a discussion surrounding intimacy as a lesbian couple, and how it compares to our history of dating men. We discuss PDA, the honeymoon stage and so much more.
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Highs + Lows
We're burnt out, to say the least, but wanted to take the time to share some updates surrounding Kirby's current health updates, the importance of using our voices in the healthcare system and the need for open communication throughout the journey. We share our plans for a special (and much…
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Your Journey is Your Journey
In this conversation, Kirby and Ember discuss personal updates, including health concerns and the complexities of relationships. They delve into themes of jealousy, bisexuality, and the challenges faced by individuals in straight relationships who identify as bisexual. The discussion highlights…
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Plot Twist
In this conversation, we discuss the challenges of balancing mental health, learning how to let thoughts and feelings float by without holding onto them, and the importance of knowing the difference between the end of the road and a bump in the road. We share the most recent update on Kirby's top...
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Disconnect & Reconnect
In this episode we share all the details of our weekend getaway where we shut down and disconnected from all socials. We intentionally focused on each other, our individual selves, our relationship and found our peace again. We talk about how important it is for couples to step away from the…
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Top Surgery Q&A
In this episode we discuss Kirby's journey towards top surgery, including the emotional preparation leading up to the consultation, the connection with the surgeon, and the impact of the surgery. We discuss the feelings of nervousness, research, and the importance of documenting the process.…
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Back To Life
Back on the grind of normalcy over here after a long spring break with the fam bam - and we're here to share all the updates with you! From the highlights, to the struggles, and everything in between. With Kirby's top surgery consultation right around the corner we touch on their excitement and...
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OUR 100th EPISODE!
We did it! In a little over a year we put out 100 episodes. We have not only learned so much but we have grown even more. We've had the pleasure of meeting and hosting many talented intriguing people, friends and even family. Sharing our love story with you all has been a pleasure, and we look...
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Embracing Change
In this episode Em shares her updates about her new career opportunity and how she got to where she is today. We also share news about our upcoming family spring break vacation and the steps we took in order to create a safe and comfortable environment for ourselves and our kids during travel....
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Top Surgery Updates + Discussions
In this episode Kirby gets more vulnerable and opens up about their journey into top surgery, mental health and how social perceptions of body choices have affected them directly. We discuss the importance of boundaries when navigating big life decisions and how crucial it is to have a support...
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Mental Health + Family Dynamics
We’rrrrre back! After taking a week off for mental health reasons, we are back! In this episode we talk about Em’s trip back to Colorado to see the kids - and share some breakthrough moments between her and her family. We talk about Kirby’s plans for top surgery and even share their new name now...
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Updates + Anxiety
Just a quick weekly update this time. We share a little about Em's birthday week, upcoming travel plans, divorce updates, etc. Thanks for always hangin' with us- and a special thank you to those of you that have been with us since episode 1- the real MVPs! We appreciate you all.
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Navigating Politics Within Family Dynamics
In this episode we had the opportunity to sit down with two of our closest friends, Ledgin and Blaine, and talk about how we have approached politics within family dynamics. As members of the LGBTQIA+ community it can be difficult when someone you love supports a movement that does not support…
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Power in Numbers
In this episode we welcome Lennox (formerly known as Leo) back to the show to discuss the importance of community, visibility, resistance and education at this time of uncertainty. We talk about how we as a community can get "loud" and feel seen while also remembering that our safety and mental...
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What's next?
Anyone else have whiplash? Tune into today's episode to hear our outlook on the TT "ban" and what steps we are taking to ensure that we are still offering a strong community and support system for our friends and followers regardless of what happens. We share our opinions on the matter and laugh...
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Long Distance vs Living Together
In this episode we share what our top 3 favorite things about being long distance was vs. what our top 3 favorite things about living together are now. From "sexting" to "pexting" and more!
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Compassion over Comprehension
We made it through the holidays! In this episode we resurface conversation surrounding Em addressing Kirby as her "wife" and how that affects (or doesn't affect) their non-binary pronoun preferences. We chat about femininity vs. masculinity and where we categorize ourselves these days, and why!...
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Happy HoliDAZE
Holidays or HoliDAZE? Join us for our last little catch-you-up sesh of 2024.
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Alone Time vs Togetherness
Do you and your partner share a friend group? Do you sleep next to them at night? Do you spend 100% of your time together or do you each prefer alone time? These are things that we dive into in this episode and share our outlook on the subject. What works for us vs. what doesn't and what we have...
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LGBT...Dopplebanger
In this episode we discuss current lesbian terms and what they mean. With labels always evolving, we describe what we would “label” each other and ourselves and what terms like “dopplebanger” means in the WLW world!
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What is life?
We are... delusional. This week has been a whirlwind- but so worth it. After skipping last week's podcast we wanted to make sure we updated you on life's crazy adventures! Hang with us as we navigate the holidays, and learn how to create new family traditions while blending our family.
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Welcome to the Jungle
Just a little catch up episode! These next couple weeks will be a whirlwind with the holidays and we are doing lots of things behind the scenes to get ready for it. Thanks for hangin’ out with us through yet another #fashionablylate Monday.
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LGBTQQIP2SAA
In this episode we play a fun little game! Em quizzes Kirby on LGBTQIA+ terms. From slang words that were common "back-in-the-day" to terms currently being used by younger generations. Tune in to hear what Kirby's guesses were and learn with us!
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Election Week
In this episode we discuss how election week approaching has affected us as individuals, as members of the LGBTQ+ community and as a WLW couple. We talk about the importance of beliefs, communication, independence and growth. Most importantly, we encourage each and every individual to go out and...
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Cozy AF
In this episode we step back a bit and just simply have some genuine chats, with a sprinkle of vents. We share some of our seasonal updates and re-discuss boundaries we have put into place moving into the holiday season. Em also shares some big news regarding what her future holds moving forward!
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Seasons of Dating
In this episode we dig into the dynamics of dating while juggling life and parenthood, emphasizing the importance of spontaneity, creativity, and communication in maintaining a healthy relationship. Tune in to hear about our recent date nights, family traditions, etc as well as our take on…
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Interview with Kelly Campbell
Kelly L. Campbell (they/them) a Trauma-Informed Leadership Coach to emerging and established leaders who want to live, lead, and love with more confidence and freedom. They also do one-on-one Sacred Trauma Healing with those who have experienced trauma in childhood or adulthood. Kelly writes…
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Exploring Non-Binary Identity
This week we delve into the complexities of identity, particularly around pronouns and non-binary experiences, emphasizing the importance of communication in relationships. We also touch on the fluidity of gender, the challenges of transitioning, and the significance of emotional connections in...
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Interview with Margy & Jen
In this episode we spent some time chatting with Jen & Margy, a queer couple that came out late in life. We learn about how they met, how they have merged their lives and how coming out had/has an impact on their careers in education.
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FEM VS. MASC
Let's chat gender roles, shall we? You wouldn't think that a WLW relationship would have "gender roles", but oddly enough- there has been enough discussion surrounding this topic that in this episode we talk about it! How do gender roles, or the lack thereof, play a part in our relationship vs…
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ABOUT THIS SHOW
Two lesbians join the party to talk about all things coming out late in life after being married to men and raising a family. Learn about our struggles, loves, discoveries, and all the in-betweens that you might want to know when you decide to come out in your 30's and 40's.
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Kirby & Ember
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Two lesbians join the party to talk about all things coming out late in life after being married to men and raising a family. Learn about our struggles, loves, discoveries, and all the in-betweens that you might want to know when you decide to come out in your 30's and 40's.
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Fashionably Late is created and hosted by Kirby & Ember.
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