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Fear It Goes

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Fear It Goes explores the hidden patterns shaping high performers from the inside out — nervous system regulation, leadership, authenticity, emotional resilience, relationships, legacy, and the psychology behind how we think, lead, love, and live. Hosted by Brandi Taylor, this podcast challenges the conditioning that keeps people successful on the outside but disconnected within — uncovering the subconscious wiring, survival patterns, and emotional imprints silently driving performance, burnout, communication, and fulfillment. Because true leadership isn’t built through performance. It’s built through alignment. This is the deeper conversation behind sustainable success, authentic power, and the legacy we leave behind. No holding back. What you can expect: This podcast publishes every Friday @ noon. Episodes will cycle through one w Brandi and the next episode with a guest interview What we want from you:<

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  1. Living as Yourself

    Season 5 Finale | With BJ Slager What if the person you've spent your life becoming isn't necessarily who you are? We've spent this season exploring the patterns we develop, the roles we assume, the expectations we inherit, and the ways our nervous systems influence how we experience ourselves…

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  2. Epi 79 ~ When you Change

    What happens when you change… and the relationships around you don’t? We talk a lot about healing, growth, finding our power, changing our patterns and remembering who we are. But we don't talk nearly enough about what happens when we actually do. Because transformation doesn't happen in…

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  3. Epi 78 ~ Capacity

    What can you hold now? What if your capacity isn't measured by how much you can carry? High performers are often praised for handling pressure, solving problems, pushing through exhaustion, leading through crisis, and keeping going long after everyone else has stopped. We call that strength. But...

  4. Epi 77 ~ There I Am

    Remembering who you are What if some of the things you've spent your entire life calling your personality... were actually strategies? The independence. The need to achieve. The way you take care of everyone. We tend to think of these things as identity. That's just who I am. But what if some of...

  5. Epi 76 ~ When Your Boundaries Change Your Relationships

    When Your Boundaries Change Your Relationships Why knowing your limits is easy. Holding them when belonging is at stake is something else. Most of us think boundaries are about telling other people what they can and cannot do. Don't speak to me that way. Don't cross this line. Don't treat me like...

  6. Epi 75 ~ Standards You Live By

    You demand excellence from yourself... And yet still accept far less than you would ever tell someone you love to accept. That's the uncomfortable contradiction of standards. High performers often have extraordinary standards for achievement, discipline, responsibility, and performance. But what...

  7. Epi 74 ~ Power

    Power Why owning who you are isn't arrogance. Have you ever met someone who walks into a room and you feel their presence before they ever say a word? They don't need to announce themselves. They don't need to be the loudest. They don't need everyone to agree with them. They don't need to prove…

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  8. Epi 73 ~ Being Seen

    Being Seen Why visibility isn't about confidence Have you ever wondered why you pull back just as you're getting closer to what you want? The bigger opportunity. The difficult conversation. The next level of leadership. The deeper relationship. The success you know you're capable of... but you…

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  9. Epi 72 ~ When I Can No Longer See You

    Have you ever wondered how you can understand someone so well in one moment... and completely lose the ability to see their perspective in another? The spouse whose reaction suddenly makes no sense. The employee you immediately decide has a bad attitude. The child whose behaviour feels…

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  10. Epi 71 ~ Protecting The Life You've Already Outgrown

    Have you ever wondered why change can feel so hard? The business you've always wanted to launch. The difficult conversation you've been avoiding. The boundaries you know you need to set. The visibility you've been working toward. The peace you've been longing to feel. The life you know you're...

  11. Epi 70 ~ Life Beyond Survival

    Life Beyond Survival The moment your survival strategies no longer define who you are. Have you ever wondered why you keep repeating patterns you desperately want to change? The overthinking. The perfectionism. The people-pleasing. The constant need to stay in control. The relationships that…

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  12. Epi 69 ~ Leadership Is Measured by What You Can Stay Present With

    Have you ever noticed that the moments which define you as a leader are rarely the ones you prepared for? They're the difficult conversations. The unexpected criticism. The employee who's struggling. The child who keeps pushing your buttons. The success that suddenly feels heavier than you...

  13. Epi 68 ~ Who Were You Before the World Told You Who to Be?

    Somewhere along the way, many of us stopped becoming ourselves and became who we thought we needed to be. We learned to please, perform, adapt, and survive. We chased approval, achievement, and belonging—often without realizing we were slowly disconnecting from who we truly are. In this episode,...

  14. Epi 67 ~ The Ghost In My Own Life

    Have you ever looked around at your life and realized you have everything you worked so hard to build… but somehow it feels empty, or like you're asking yourself "Is this all there is?" In this deeply personal episode, I share the season of my life when I became a ghost in my own life. From the...

  15. Epi 66 ~ Why You Love the Way You Do

    You don't love the way you do because that's who you are. You love the way you do because that's how your nervous system learned to survive. Why do some people overthink every conversation? Or pull away the moment things become emotionally close? Or check out completely? Why does one person fear...

  16. Epi 65 ~ The Obstacle Isn't the Problem

    Every obstacle in your life is trying to tell you something. The relationship that keeps ending the same way. The burnout that keeps returning. The business challenge you can't seem to solve. The fear that won't let go. What if the obstacle isn't standing between you and the life you want? What…

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  17. Epi 64 ~ What Happens When Success Stops Being Enough

    For years, success gave Kwesi something many people spend their lives chasing: stability, security, achievement, and a life he genuinely loves. So why walk away? In this deeply personal conversation, Kwesi shares what happens when the external markers of success stop answering the internal...

  18. Epi 63 ~ What If You're Not Broken?

    Most people think perfectionism is about having high standards. Most people think control is power. Most people think people-pleasing is kindness. But what if these patterns are actually survival strategies? In this deeply personal episode, I share a moment that stopped me in my tracks while...

  19. Epi 62 Have Faith In Your Own Goodness

    What creates a young person who trusts themselves? In this deeply honest and refreshing conversation, I sit down with 19-year-old Genevieve Gault to explore the lessons that shaped her perspective on life, leadership, relationships, self-trust, and personal growth. From moving to Germany at 18…

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  20. Epi 61 When Life Interrupts

    This week, life interrupted my plans in a way I never expected. After a health challenge involving my son landed us in the hospital for the second time this month, I found myself face-to-face with something every leader eventually encounters: a moment where the usual strategies stop working. In...

  21. Epi 60 Why High Performers Shut Down

    This episode marks the return of Fear It Goes — and the beginning of a deeper conversation around the nervous system, leadership, authenticity, and what really happens beneath high performance. In this raw and honest episode, Brandi opens up about her own experience with freeze, burnout, trauma...

  22. Epi 59 - How Core Values Play Into All You Experience

    What's the big deal about Core Values? Why are they important and how do they affect you? They are your underlying driver and steer you where you are most connected. Here's how... Are you ready to have a life that greats you jumping out of bed with excitement every day? Ready to clear anything...

  23. Epi 58 - Business Tools for Success

    What actually creates success? There are numerous factors that make or break success but there is ONE that has the most significant impact. Mindset. It allows us the ability to pivot, tweak, and stay on task without giving up our goals and dreams. Today I give 3 tools that will help you readjust...

  24. Epi 57 - Getting Back On The Horse - James Steinhubl

    What would it be like to be at the peak of your career and loss it all? Today, our guest has an incredible lesson about perseverance and viewpoint that really exemplifies the human spirit. Meet James Steinhubl. His many involvements now drive forward an initiative for better humans, better...

  25. Epi 56 - It's All About Safety w Lorna Selig

    Safety in the world today is multifaceted. It isn't just about defense. Today we talk about the things you can do to keep safe. Our guest today is Lorna Selig with Self Defense and Personal Safety Training Company, Safe4Life. Lorna has been teaching self-defense for nearly 16 years. Humor, facts,...

  26. Epi 55 - Leadership w Alian Hunkins

    What does it take to make a great leader? Is it within you? Today's guest talks about what it takes to be a great leader. ALAIN HUNKINS is a sought-after leadership speaker, consultant, trainer, and coach. His recent book, CRACKING THE LEADERSHIP CODE: Three Secrets to Building Strong Leaders...

  27. Epi 54 - Looking for Money - Daniel Morrow

    Going from a chef to a financial advisor to an entrepreneur was quite a journey. Daniel specializes in business consulting with a focus on clarity and alignment across body, mind, spirit, and business with extensive experience in marketing, sales, and all things business loans. To reach Daniel...

  28. Epi 53 - Getting To Know You - Mads Singers

    Understanding people's deeper characteristics will lead you to the greatest successes in business and in life. Today's guest is Mads Singers, a management expert, an expert on growing and scaling an online business, and he is one of the industry experts in the DISC methodology, which is a...

  29. Epi 52 - Authentic You: Your Giant Wants Out

    The Authentic Self. Do you know who this is? Have you met yours? Not the Ego. Your true self. Authentic Self: Is being true to yourself through your thoughts, words, and actions, and having these three areas match each other unapologetically. Its the ultimate joy, creativity, happiness, love and...

  30. Epi 51 - Schools Out - Lani Donaldson

    Struggling with the kids at home, work, and just how you are going to manage the schedule? This episode is all about putting a few things into play that will help immensely. Our guest is Lani Donaldson founder of the NAS Project and Engaged Educators. Her thirty plus years in education have given...

  31. Epi 50 - Reframing to Get What You Want

    Our minds are our garden and need to be planted well and nourish for them to flourish. We are in the midst of many pandemics, not just the health pandemic on everyone's mind. We are facing crises of mental health, financial health and relationship/marital health. Being in isolation puts existing...

  32. Epi 49 - Your Superhero on the Way

    Have you thought about your inner superhero? Yes - you have one. Who is that? What stage of the journey are you at? This week we explore the power within you and the opportunities that sit before us while we sit in isolation. This time offers us many opportunities to grow, advance and evolve.…

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  33. Epi 48 - Staying Sane Through Covid

    COVID-19 is everywhere today. And mental health is just as important right now as your physical health. How are you looking after both? This episode discusses and offers tools to help mitigate some of the issues you are facing. Staying healthy and building your immune system is vital. I have a...

  34. Epi 47 - Bring on Sexy Time

    Were you thinking I'd leave this one out? No way. Our sexual energy is a huge part of healthy living so be prepared to find out why. This episode discusses all things that sex, sexual release create for us physically and mentally too. You'll want to know why incorporating a bit more 'Sexy Time'…

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  35. Epi 46 - Fatten UP to get lean! What?

    What are the key factors to great health, weight maintenance, and a powerful productive mind? Our intake of foods creates the conditions from which we survive or thrive. In today's episode, we discuss the use of a very specific fat that will not only help you lean out but can give you an...

  36. Epi 45 - Please Forgive Me

    Forgiveness - not always the easiest thing to do. Sometimes it feels like a giant weight sitting on us, this horrible experience and we just don't know how to let it go or to even begin to release the torment we are still sitting in. Today, we discuss what is driving the actions of the other…

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  37. Epi 44 - Caregivers

    Caregivers are one of the most beautiful roles and amazing people that give without taking. However, often caregivers will live shorter lives because they don't know how to give back to themselves and end up so depleted they are doing physical damage to themselves. Self-Love and Self-Care are...

  38. Epi 43 - Energy - Scott Hutchison

    Have you ever wondered why you can walk into a room and feel immediately awesome? Or have you ever thought maybe your thought is not really yours but more a collective? How is energy affecting us both internally and externally? Today's guest is Scott Hutchison of Energy Rich Day. Massage…

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  39. Epi 42 - Funk You Up - Functional Medicine w Vincent Esposito

    What is Functional Medicine? In this episode, we discuss functional medicine, how to approach one of our easiest ways to not only improve our health but to reverse some chronic health issues. Our guest today is Dr. Vincent Esposito. He is a board-certified chiropractor in New York and has a...

  40. Epi 41 - Pour Some Sugar on Me - Cathy Ormon

    Let's talk sugar baby. The goods you need to really get a hold of sugar addiction. Cathy Ormon The Sugar Switch Podcast [email protected] http://www.cathyormon.com and http://www.thesugarswitchpodcast.com Yacon syrup - Now is YOUR time. Time to take charge, stand up for you and really thrive.…

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  41. Epi 40 - House Party - Microbiome

    Often when thinking about health it's easy to overlook the biggest player in the mix. We think our weight is about working out. We think our immune system is about avoiding being around others that are sick or having to get shots. We think our happiness is about us and others. We think our aches...

  42. Epi 39 - Getting Jiggy With It - Health Series

    Health Series As we get older it's not uncommon to put on a few extra pounds or is it? This series will give you what you need to live the best health of your life. Come along for a journey into what creates a healthy body and how you too can experience it. Now is YOUR time. Time to take charge,...

  43. Epi 38 - Frenemy...

    Frenemy... The internal one that takes you out of the game. Have they held you back from becoming the CEO of your life? Has your frenemy stopped you from getting everything you want and dream? Have you given up on your dream and settled for 'the reality'? Are you letting your frenemy take you…

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  44. Epi 37 - You Give Me Fever

    What is really going on when we get sick? Sometimes, it's not what you think. On the surface, it seems we are sick, however, often its where the mind has led us. Sometimes, we don't want to do something and a way out is to get sick. Sometimes, we don't want to face something and the body creates…

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  45. Epi 36 - Where is Buddha & Jesus - Get Real w Brandi

    This episode is the most exposed I've had to date. When a deep-rooted belief system comes up to the surface, we can choose to resist it or deal. Our human conditioning often leads us down the path of resistance. This lesson was tough and now... I'm so grateful for it. If we all chose our best…

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  46. Epi 35 - Can Separation Be Good? - Susan Dedeluk

    Divorce doesn't have to be horrible or scary. When we come to the table well educated on options, choices, and an open willingness for resolve, our approach can be both healthy and benefit all parties. Children and finances are the largest concerns with separation of partnership. Separation and...

  47. Epi 34 - Do you know YOUR value?

    Do you know your value? The success we bring to every experience, every relationship, and every business deal can be summed up with this question. Do you know your value and are you bringing it to the table? It is very hard for a client, a partner, a child or boss to get on board with our ideas…

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  48. Epi 33 - Let it Go. Let It Go - Letting go of Loss - Corrie Sirota

    What do we do when we've had a sudden loss? A death? A major career change? There are many degrees to which we experience loss and the process to move through that loss often requires assistance. It's difficult to see solutions when we are in the thick of the emotion or don't know how to release...

  49. Epi 32 - Judge, Jury, Convicted - What are we judging?

    When it comes to judgment, it's a natural response, right? Yes and no. There are other forces at play. Whether we judge someone behaving poorly or do something we aren't happy with therefore judging ourselves, judgment can be a very destructive cycle that leads us down a path to holding emotions...

  50. Epi 31 - Bubblebath, Spa & Wine? What is Self-Care Anyway - Christina Marlett

    Is self-care all about bubble baths, spa days and wine? In today's episode, we talk about what self-care truly is. Our guest this week, Christina Marlett, BKin, BMT, is on a mission to change the world, but first, she addresses the fact that we need to take charge of our own lives, by truly…

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ABOUT THIS SHOW

Fear It Goes explores the hidden patterns shaping high performers from the inside out — nervous system regulation, leadership, authenticity, emotional resilience, relationships, legacy, and the psychology behind how we think, lead, love, and live.

Hosted by Brandi Taylor, this podcast challenges the conditioning that keeps people successful on the outside but disconnected within — uncovering the subconscious wiring, survival patterns, and emotional imprints silently driving performance, burnout, communication, and fulfillment.

Because true leadership isn’t built through performance.

It’s built through alignment.

This is the deeper conversation behind sustainable success, authentic power, and the legacy we leave behind.

No holding back.

What you can expect:

This podcast publishes every Friday @ noon.

Episodes will cycle through one w Brandi and the next episode with a guest interview

What we want from you:<

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