Fierce Men

Today we are covering the Ordo Amoris, a traditional Christian teaching that causes men to trust God and love rightly. We cannot love everyone, so who should we love first? This episode explores biblical answers to make us wiser and sharper with our love.Join the Fierce Men Brotherhood!Connect with Christian men (ages 20-60) at https://fiercemen.us to grow in faith and leadership for your heart, household, and homeland.Subscribe on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@Fierce_MenListen Anywhere!Follow Fierce Men on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and more.Follow My Personal Socialshttps://instagram.com/ryan_fredhttps://x.com/ryanfredhttps://facebook.com/ryanfred

Today, we break down the three offices of Christ—Prophet, Priest, and King—and how these roles serve as the ultimate template for masculinity in the home.Join the Fierce Men Brotherhood!Connect with Christian men (ages 20-60) at https://fiercemen.us to grow in faith and leadership for your heart, household, and homeland.Subscribe on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@Fierce_MenListen Anywhere!Follow Fierce Men on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and more.Follow My Personal Socialshttps://instagram.com/ryan_fredhttps://x.com/ryanfredhttps://facebook.com/ryanfred

What, actually, does "biblical masculinity" mean? What does it mean to be a Christian man? In this episode I'll open the conversation and hopefully get past the platitudes.Join the Fierce Men Brotherhood!Connect with Christian men (ages 20-60) at https://fiercemen.us to grow in faith and leadership for your heart, household, and homeland.Subscribe on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@Fierce_MenListen Anywhere!Follow Fierce Men on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and more.Follow My Personal Socialshttps://instagram.com/ryan_fredhttps://x.com/ryanfredhttps://facebook.com/ryanfred

How do you know with certainty the state of your marriage? Today I encouraged men to ask six diagnostic questions to help them gauge the health of their marriage and take action to make improvements fast.Join the Fierce Men Brotherhood!Connect with Christian men (ages 20-60) at https://fiercemen.us to grow in faith and leadership for your heart, household, and homeland.Subscribe on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@Fierce_MenListen Anywhere!Follow Fierce Men on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and more.Follow My Personal Socialshttps://instagram.com/ryan_fredhttps://x.com/ryanfredhttps://facebook.com/ryanfred

Is your wife resistant to your leadership, leaving you feeling disrespected in your own home? Today, I sit down with John Michael Clark who is the founder of The Family Captain to break down exactly how to reclaim your God-given authority without becoming a tyrant or a pushover. You will learn the three essential pillars of biblical headship.Join the Fierce Men Brotherhood!Connect with Christian men (ages 20-60) at https://fiercemen.us to grow in faith and leadership for your heart, household, and homeland.Subscribe on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@Fierce_MenListen Anywhere!Follow Fierce Men on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and more.Follow My Personal Socialshttps://instagram.com/ryan_fredhttps://x.com/ryanfredhttps://facebook.com/ryanfred

Today, I sit down with Infantry Officer and father of eight, Ian McGregor, to discuss the "Covenantal Household." We uncover common misconceptions about legacy and discuss how to build a family dynasty that survives for centuries.Join the Fierce Men Brotherhood!Connect with Christian men (ages 20-60) at https://fiercemen.us to grow in faith and leadership for your heart, household, and homeland.Subscribe on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@Fierce_MenListen Anywhere!Follow Fierce Men on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and more.Follow My Personal Socialshttps://instagram.com/ryan_fredhttps://x.com/ryanfredhttps://facebook.com/ryanfred

If you are wondering why society feels like it is in a freefall, the answer is shockingly simple: we are being ruled by unruled men. Today we dive into the biblical mandate of self-control and self-leadership (Galatians 5), exploring how Christian men must harden their resolve, kill their secret sins, and lead their families and homelands. It is time to stop being a casualty of culture and start becoming a threat to the enemy.Join the Fierce Men Brotherhood!Connect with Christian men (ages 20-60) at https://fiercemen.us to grow in faith and leadership for your heart, household, and homeland.Subscribe on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@Fierce_MenListen Anywhere!Follow Fierce Men on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and more.Follow My Personal Socialshttps://instagram.com/ryan_fredhttps://x.com/ryanfredhttps://facebook.com/ryanfred

Today I dive into the staggering statistic that 94% of Christian men have no written vision statement and why this passive approach to headship is a direct threat to your family. I then share a biblical framework to craft a vision statement for your family.Join the Fierce Men Brotherhood!Connect with Christian men (ages 20-60) at https://fiercemen.us to grow in faith and leadership for your heart, household, and homeland.Subscribe on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@Fierce_MenListen Anywhere!Follow Fierce Men on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and more.Follow My Personal SocialsIG: https://instagram.com/ryan_fred  X: https://x.com/ryanfredFB: https://facebook.com/ryanfred  

"Servant leadership" is often taken to mean you act more out of pragmatism or preference. Instead, biblical heads are not called to BE servants in marriage and family, but rather to serve by leading. Join the Fierce Men Brotherhood!Connect with Christian men (ages 20-60) at https://fiercemen.us to grow in faith and leadership for your heart, household, and homeland.Listen Anywhere!Follow Fierce Men on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and more.Follow My Personal SocialsIG: https://instagram.com/ryan_fred  X: https://x.com/ryanfredFB: https://facebook.com/ryanfred  

Why aren’t men praying? And why does it matter so much that we do? Today we confront this issue in the lives of Christian men. Discover how to build prayer into your life and household.Join the Fierce Men Brotherhood!Connect with Christian men (ages 20-60) at https://fiercemen.us to grow in faith and leadership for your heart, household, and homeland.Listen Anywhere!Follow Fierce Men on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and more.Follow My Personal SocialsIG: https://instagram.com/ryan_fred  X: https://x.com/ryanfredFB: https://facebook.com/ryanfred  

Two things changed everything for our family: embracing biblical headship and starting daily Family Worship.In this foundational episode, Ryan Frederick issues a clear, unapologetic call to Christian men: Family Worship is the lifeblood of every Christian home, and leading it is the central, defining outworking of biblical headship.In this episode you’ll discover:Why there will never be revival in the church until there is revival in the home—and why that revival, at scale, begins with men leading worship in their living roomsThe biblical case from Deuteronomy 6 and Joshua 4 that Family Worship is not optional, not a suggestion, but a direct command to fathers as the priest-prophet-pastor of their covenantal householdHow Family Worship tangibly connects your marriage and children to the covenant-keeping God who redeemed youWhy skipping it is functionally choosing the idols of busyness, screens, and distraction over the jealous God who delivered you from slaveryA simple, battle-tested framework we use in the Frederick home: Read → Sing → Pray (with practical tips you can start tonight—even if you feel awkward or inadequate)Powerful quotes from Spurgeon, Matthew Henry, and Howard Hendricks that will light a fire under youIf you’ve ever prayed for your family to love Jesus more but felt stuck… if you know you’re called to lead but don’t know where to begin… this episode is your wake-up call.Leading Family Worship isn’t one more thing on the to-do list.It’s the one thing that orders everything else.Stop drifting. Start leading.Your wife is waiting. Your kids are watching. And your God deserves it.Resources mentioned:Family Worship by Donald WhitneyFamily Worship Bible Guide by Joel BeekeThoughts on Family Worship by James W. AlexanderDon’t finish this episode without gathering your family tonight. The most fierce thing you’ll ever do is open the Bible at the dinner table and say, “Let’s worship the God who saved us.”Your home will never be the same.

Worship is what we were designed to do. Now, and forever. In this episode of Fierce Men, I talk with pastor, author, and theologian Dr. Matthew Everhard to unpack his bold yet hopeful critique of modern church trends in his book Worshiptainment: The Modern Church's Golden Calf.Dr. Everhard speaks with clarity and grace about how entertainment-driven worship can unintentionally sideline reverence, doctrine, and the fear of God—especially among men. Together, we explore what biblical worship truly calls men to: leading in prayer, anchoring in Scripture over spectacle, and cultivating humility in the pews and at home.If you’re weary of fog machines and feel-good sermons but longing for worship that forms fierce, faithful men—this conversation will both challenge and inspire you.Discover practical, joyful steps to recover God-centered worship in your church, family, and personal life.Required listening for any man serious about honoring God in the assembly.Visit https://amzn.to/4qZ9cW0 to pick up a copy of the book.

Fathers, the energy you bring home is the nuclear reactor of your family’s atmosphere. One exhausted Monday night, I looked around the dinner table—whining toddler, cranky 6-year-old, worn-out teens, and my wife’s face mirroring it all. I realized: I was the problem.Instead of clearing plates, I grabbed my ukulele and belted out the silliest song I know. Within seconds, laughter erupted, kids ran circles, older ones sang while doing dishes, and the entire evening flipped."Joy should be the default setting for your home. Be the thermostat." – JM ClarkIn this episode:Why headship = responsibility for the emotional temperature (Voddie Baucham: "As the father goes, so goes the home.")The fire-in-the-woodstove analogy for warming a cold house (and why your wife’s help keeps it steady)5 actionable steps to reclaim the thermostat:Talk to your wife first (unity, not weakness)Call a family meeting & own your failuresCast vision for a joyful, peace-filled homeExecute consistently (smile, laugh, dad-joke with confidence)Enforce with love—call out grumbling, celebrate delightExamples in action:Countenance: Smile first, even when tired.Playfulness: Brazen dad jokes = self-unseriousness + leadership.Persistence: Check in with your wife naturally; remind kids by modeling.Cold homes don’t warm instantly—but consistent fire-starting changes everything.Fierce Men is about becoming better men and doing more for God’s Kingdom. If that’s you—like, subscribe, and turn on notifications.

Fierce men don’t just lead at home—they reform the household of Christ. This episode exposes the drift toward entertainment-driven, irreverent, and doctrinally shallow worship in Western churches. From dancing skeletons to pop-song theology, we diagnose the problem and prescribe biblical solutions: exegetical preaching, reverent liturgy, masculine hymns, and a return to historic Christian doctrine.Inspired by Ezekiel, Luther, and Hebrews 5, we call men to mature beyond spiritual milk, speak boldly against sacred cows, and build churches that glorify God—not culture. Practical steps included.Subscribe for more Fierce Men episodes on leadership, faith, and cultural renewal.Join the brotherhood: FierceMen.us/bandVisit FierceMen.us

Every man dreams of coming home to a house filled with joy, laughter, and true peace—but for many, it’s a battle against constant bickering, disobedience, or emotional chaos. In Episode 3 of Fierce Men, Ryan breaks down why peacekeeping never works and how Christian men can rise as peace makers in their homes and homelands. Drawing from Scripture (Matthew 5:9, John 14:15–27, Jeremiah 6:13–15), Ryan exposes the dangers of counterfeit peace and equips you with three powerful steps to build lasting peace through God’s truth.What You’ll Learn:Why peacekeeping leads to "smoothed-over chaos" and how to avoid it.How to stand steadfast as a leader in your home, even under resistance.The biblical truth that true peace comes from knowing and living God’s Word.Why syncretism and idolatry threaten peace in our homes and nation.Join the Mission:Visit FierceMen.us and click the green button to join the Band of Brothers for exclusive conversations.Mark your calendar for our next Zoom call: Monday at 5 PM Pacific! Connect with other men shaping the Fierce Men movement.Subscribe and hit the bell to never miss an episode! Share this video with men ready to lead with strength, truth, and courage. Let’s be peace makers, not peacekeepers. Gird ‘em up and keep ‘em lit!#FierceMen #ChristianMen #PeaceMakers #BiblicalManhood #LeadYourHome

In this episode of Fierce Men, host Ryan explores the biblical truth of headship and why it’s essential for every Christian husband. Learn how to take responsibility for your marriage and family, lead with godly conviction, and avoid the pitfalls of passivity. Drawing from Scripture (Ephesians 5:23, Genesis, Romans 5), this video offers practical steps to strengthen your marriage and lead as God intended.What You’ll Learn:Why headship is key to a thriving Christian marriage.How to take accountability before God, even when it’s not your fault.Steps to repent, rebuild trust, and lead your household with love.Biblical foundations for godly manhood and leadership.Join the Fierce Men Brotherhood!Connect with Christian men (ages 20-60) at https://fiercemen.us to grow in faith and leadership for your heart, household, and homeland. Join our Band app group for updates and details on our next Zoom call in two weeks!Listen Anywhere!Follow Fierce Men on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and more. Share this episode with other men to build a community of faith-driven leaders!Subscribe & Share!Hit the subscribe button and share this with men seeking to grow in biblical manhood. Let’s inspire each other to lead well!#ChristianMen #BiblicalHeadship #ChristianMarriage #GodlyHusband #FierceMen #MensMinistry #ChristianLeadership #MarriageTips #BiblicalManhood #FaithfulHusbandsVisit https://fiercemen.us to join our community and lead your family God’s way!Gird ‘em up, keep ‘em lit!

In this, our first episode, I introduce the Fierce Men movement is and talk about who you will become as a man if all goes to plan.Fierce men are courageous, strong, and take responsibility for their own heads, hearts, households, and homelands. This is just the beginning, and all Fierce Men content will be aimed to help you become the man God is calling you to be so we can build a future for our great grandchildren in America. Christ is Lord over *everything*. Let's live like it. Join the movement. Make sure to: 1: Subscribe here on YouTube2: Find the Podcast and make sure you get the latest audio3: Join the Fierce Men Band on https://Band.us/@fiercemenEvents coming soon. You can also connect with Ryan on socials: X: @ryanfredIG: @ryan_fredFB: /ryanfred