Fight For Together

Ben and Kami talk about what it was like to train for and run the Flying Pig marathon with a seven year old. They discuss the rules, hate, and controversy and share a touching story from the end. Kami also shares why she decided not to run. Marathon Boy Trailer https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Bwb2MYmXqcw Marathon Boy Documentary https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=o3Nrfw0jx9k&t=1256s

Ben and Kami talk about their biggest marriage conflict that has gone on for more than 20 years. They discuss Ben's depression, what a fight looks like, and Kami's secret notecards.   OUR BOOK on AMAZON: https://geni.us/2000MilesTogether  MERCH and SIGNED COPIES: https://fightfortogether.bigcartel.com  Date Filmed  March 14, 2023   Recommendations https://www.amazon.com/shop/fightfortogether  Thank you for supporting our work!  https://www.patreon.com/ fightfortogetherPaypal - paypal.me/fightfortogether  Venmo - @fightfortogether   PODCAST https://youtu.be/KeiL0YANv_w CONNECT    https://www.facebook.com/fightfortogether/  https://instagram.com/fightfortogether/ [email protected]   FIGHT FOR TOGETHER IS: Ben (DAD), Kami (MOM), Dove (21), Eden (20), Seven (18), Memory (16), Filia (12), Rainier (7)

Ben and Kami discuss Kami's process in finding her voice, the importance of giving someone space when they don't know what they want, and how it changed their sex life.   OUR BOOK on AMAZON: https://geni.us/2000MilesTogether  MERCH and SIGNED COPIES: https://fightfortogether.bigcartel.com  COUPON CODE: FIVEYEARS Date Filmed March 7, 2023  Recommendations https://www.amazon.com/shop/fightfortogether  Thank you for supporting our work!  https://www.patreon.com/fightfortogether Paypal - paypal.me/fightfortogether  Venmo - @fightfortogether   PODCAST YOUTUBE https://youtu.be/MFPAw514l6E CONNECT    https://www.facebook.com/fightfortogether/  https://instagram.com/fightfortogether/ [email protected]   FIGHT FOR TOGETHER IS: Ben (DAD), Kami (MOM), Dove (21), Eden (20), Seven (18), Memory (16), Filia (12), Rainier (7)

Good boundaries protect health and long term relationships. Ben and Kami discuss setting boundaries inside their family. Of all the boundaries they've set over the years with communities, friends and other toxic bullshit they feel like this is their masterpiece. OUR BOOK on AMAZON: https://geni.us/2000MilesTogether  MERCH and SIGNED COPIES: https://fightfortogether.bigcartel.com  Date Filmed February 21, 2023  Recommendations https://www.amazon.com/shop/fightfortogether  Thank you for supporting our work!  https://www.patreon.com/fightfortogether Paypal - paypal.me/fightfortogether  Venmo - @fightfortogether   PODCAST YOUTUBE: https://youtu.be/nnVm54-d6SQ  CONNECT    https://www.facebook.com/fightfortogether/  https://instagram.com/fightfortogether/ [email protected]   FIGHT FOR TOGETHER IS: Ben (DAD), Kami (MOM), Dove (21), Eden (20), Seven (18), Memory (16), Filia (11), Rainier (7)

Ben and Kami discuss the most important things they've learned from their children over 20 years of parenting and the secret for how to transform any frustration into growth and opportunity.   Coaching from Ben https://www.patreon.com/fightfortogetherPODCAST https://anchor.fm/fightfortogether MERCH https://fightfortogether.bigcartel.com/ OUR BOOK on AMAZON: https://geni.us/2000MilesTogetherFilmed Feb 1,  2022

Ben and, special guest, Tim Vogt talk about what Tim learned running a multimillion dollar non-profit that targeted people with disabilities. They discuss the problem with typical models of disability that separate the inconvenient and how this relates to parenting problem children. Tim also shares his secrets of how to create inclusion with anyone.    Tim Ferris Interviews Richard Schwartz  https://tim.blog/2021/01/14/richard-schwartz-internal-family-systems/  No Bad Parts by Richard Schwartz https://www.amazon.com/dp/1683646681/?ref=idea_lv_dp_ov_d  Coaching from Ben https://www.patreon.com/fightfortogether PODCAST https://anchor.fm/fightfortogether  MERCH https://fightfortogether.bigcartel.com/  OUR BOOK on AMAZON: https://geni.us/2000MilesTogether Filmed Jan 11,  2021

Ben and Kami answer questions from the audience about how to deal with unmotivated teens, dealing with parenting regret, and how to make kids in large families feel loved equally. We also share the reactions of our friends when we started our riskiest endeavors.    Coaching from Ben https://www.patreon.com/fightfortogether  PODCAST https://anchor.fm/fightfortogether   MERCH https://fightfortogether.bigcartel.com/   OUR BOOK on AMAZON: https://geni.us/2000MilesTogether  Filmed Jan 4,  2021

Ben and Kami discuss a fight they got in and how they learned they need to ask specifically and directly for support each other on their artistic endeavors. They discuss how to deal with feelings when your partner ignores you, the benefits of opening up a closed relational system, and how important support can be for creatives.    Coaching from Ben  https://www.patreon.com/fightfortogether PODCAST  https://anchor.fm/fightfortogether MERCH https://fightfortogether.bigcartel.com/  OUR BOOK on AMAZON: https://geni.us/2000MilesTogether Filmed Dec 28,  2021

Ben and Kami discuss surviving COVID, Ben communicating in a disrespectful way to Kami, and what their thoughts are on the latest Christianity Today series The Rise and Fall of Mars Hill. Ben proposes three things the podcast does not address and lessons he thinks could be learned from Mars Hill.    Coaching from Ben https://www.patreon.com/fightfortogether  PODCAST https://anchor.fm/fightfortogether   MERCH https://fightfortogether.bigcartel.com/   OUR BOOK on AMAZON: https://geni.us/2000MilesTogether  Filmed Dec 21,  2021

Ben and Kami talk about how they transitioned from public school to homeschool to unschool and the learning and financial benefits they have seen. They discuss practical ideas for inspiring your children to become life long learners.  LINKS Convergence Station Denver https://meowwolf.com/visit/denver Coaching from Ben https://www.patreon.com/fightfortogether PODCAST https://anchor.fm/fightfortogether Buy the Album and Book [cheapest and most helpful for us] https://fightfortogether.bigcartel.com/ OUR BOOK on AMAZON: https://geni.us/2000MilesTogether Date Filmed November 23,  2021

Kami and Ben talk about Kami's new pronouns and shared the story of the pain of her...uhhhh they's childhood and how they never quite fit in, what the transition has been like and how it leads to better sex.    Buy the Album and Book [cheapest and most helpful for us]  https://fightfortogether.bigcartel.com/   iTunes https://music.apple.com/us/album/the-real-me/1574796778  Spotify https://open.spotify.com/album/3RdkdjdcFmxUfRs2WOUxa2 More Music on IG @kamicrawford   OUR BOOK on AMAZON: https://geni.us/2000MilesTogether   MERCH and SIGNED COPIES: https://fightfortogether.bigcartel.com   Date Filmed November 16,  2021   Recommendations https://www.amazon.com/shop/fightfortogether   Coaching https://www.patreon.com/fightfortogether  Paypal - paypal.me/fightfortogether  Venmo - @fightfortogether   PODCAST https://anchor.fm/fightfortogether   CONNECT    https://www.facebook.com/fightfortogether/  https://instagram.com/fightfortogether/  [email protected]  

Ben and Kami discuss a conversation with their kids around the fire and how to create a space for kids to process trauma, change our views, and become better for the future.

Ben interviews Steve. A 6 figure banking executive who quit his job to follow his dreams.    OUR BOOK on AMAZON: https://geni.us/2000MilesTogether  MERCH and SIGNED COPIES: https://fightfortogether.bigcartel.com  Date Filmed February 14, 2021   Recommendations https://www.amazon.com/shop/fightfortogether  Thank you for supporting our work!  https://www.patreon.com/fightfortogether Paypal - paypal.me/fightfortogether  Venmo - @fightfortogether   PODCAST https://youtu.be/duU53xRo2KY CONNECT    https://www.facebook.com/fightfortogether/  https://instagram.com/fightfortogether/ [email protected]   FIGHT FOR TOGETHER IS: Ben (DAD), Kami (MOM), Dove (19), Eden (18), Seven (16), Memory (14), Filia (10), Rainier (5)

We discuss a controversial bumper sticker, why we chose unschooling, and the dangers of public schools on our children's financial future. OUR BOOK on AMAZON: https://geni.us/2000MilesTogether   MERCH and SIGNED COPIES: https://fightfortogether.bigcartel.com   Date Filmed January 26, 2021   Recommendations https://www.amazon.com/shop/fightfortogether   Thank you for supporting our work!  https://www.patreon.com/fightfortogether  Paypal - paypal.me/fightfortogether  Venmo - @fightfortogether   PODCAST https://youtu.be/hqAEZvoJy-s CONNECT    https://www.facebook.com/fightfortogether/  https://instagram.com/fightfortogether/  [email protected]  FIGHT FOR TOGETHER IS: Ben (DAD), Kami (MOM), Dove (19), Eden (18), Seven (16), Memory (14), Filia (10), Rainier (4)

OUR BOOK on AMAZON: https://geni.us/2000MilesTogether   MERCH and SIGNED COPIES: https://fightfortogether.bigcartel.com   Ben and Kami share about their experience learning that their child might have a learning disability, how they prepared and what they plan to do about it.   Date Filmed January 19, 2020   Recommendations https://www.amazon.com/shop/fightfortogether   Thank you for supporting our work!  https://www.patreon.com/fightfortogether  Paypal - paypal.me/fightfortogether  Venmo - @fightfortogether   PODCAST https://youtu.be/FZegrID2hkQ CONNECT    https://www.facebook.com/fightfortogether/  https://instagram.com/fightfortogether/  [email protected]   FIGHT FOR TOGETHER IS: Ben (DAD), Kami (MOM), Dove (19), Eden (18), Seven (16), Memory (14), Filia (9), Rainier (4)

OUR BOOK on AMAZON: https://geni.us/2000MilesTogether   MERCH and SIGNED COPIES: https://fightfortogether.bigcartel.com  Ben and Kami talk about what cancel culture looks like in families, the cost of excluding the most inconvenient voices, and how listening to their kids played into their most difficult and important decision on their 2,000 mile hike.  Cancel culture vs. toleration: The consequences of punishing dissent https://bigthink.com/institute-for-humane-studies/cancel-culture-vs-toleration?rebelltitem=2#rebelltitem2  Date Filmed January 5, 2020   Recommendations https://www.amazon.com/shop/fightfortogether   Thank you for supporting our work!  https://www.patreon.com/fightfortogether  Paypal - paypal.me/fightfortogether  Venmo - @fightfortogether   PODCAST https://youtu.be/SMcf0_NdFI4  CONNECT    https://www.facebook.com/fightfortogether/  https://instagram.com/fightfortogether/  [email protected]   FIGHT FOR TOGETHER IS: Ben (DAD), Kami (MOM), Dove (19), Eden (18), Seven (16), Memory (14), Filia (9), Rainier (4)

OUR BOOK on AMAZON: https://geni.us/2000MilesTogether   MERCH and SIGNED COPIES: https://fightfortogether.bigcartel.com   Ben and Kami discuss how you can prepare for a thru-hike, how to overcome the fear of making mistakes, and how much preparation you need before you embark on your next adventure.   Date Filmed December 29, 2020   Recommendations https://www.amazon.com/shop/fightfortogether   Thank you for supporting our work!  https://www.patreon.com/fightfortogether  Paypal - paypal.me/fightfortogether  Venmo - @fightfortogether   PODCAST https://youtu.be/I56SJzdbNRg CONNECT    https://www.facebook.com/fightfortogether/ https:// instagram.com/fightfortogether/  [email protected]   FIGHT FOR TOGETHER IS: Ben (DAD), Kami (MOM), Dove (19), Eden (18), Seven (16), Memory (14), Filia (9), Rainier (4)

OUR BOOK on AMAZON: https://geni.us/2000MilesTogether  MERCH and SIGNED COPIES: https://fightfortogether.bigcartel.com  Date Filmed 12/22/2020   Ben and Kami share about how their book changed completely at draft 9 be sharing the story that was the scariest to tell, how they found their audience and how you can walk away from the people that are holding you back.    Recommendations  https://www.amazon.com/shop/fightfortogether  Thank you for supporting our work!  https://www.patreon.com/fightfortogether Paypal - paypal.me/fightfortogether  Venmo - @fightfortogether   PODCAST https://youtu.be/luOQD4fhuRY CONNECT    https://www.facebook.com/fightfortogether/  https://instagram.com/fightfortogether/[email protected]   FIGHT FOR TOGETHER IS: Ben (DAD), Kami (MOM), Dove (19), Eden (18), Seven (16), Memory (14), Filia (9), Rainier (4)

OUR BOOK: https://amzn.to/2X2gNHV  MERCH: https://fightfortogether.bigcartel.com/  Get an email when our AT book is finished: https://bit.ly/2000Together   Ben and Kami share about why they used to give advice to their kids and why it didn't work. They tell the stories of how they learned to listen and why this is important to maintain a long-term relationship with your kids into adulthood.    Date Filmed May 28, 2020   Recommendations  https://www.amazon.com/shop/fightfortogether   Thank you for supporting our work!  https://www.patreon.com/fightfortogether  Paypal - paypal.me/fightfortogether  Venmo - @fightfortogether   PODCAST https://anchor.fm/fightfortogether   CONNECT    https://www.facebook.com/fightfortogether/  https://instagram.com/fightfortogether/  [email protected]   JOIN THE DISCUSSION ON FACEBOOK:  https://goo.gl/THhxCF   FIGHT FOR TOGETHER IS: Ben (DAD), Kami (MOM), Dove (19), Eden (17), Seven (15), Memory (13), Filia (9), Rainier (4)

OUR BOOK: https://amzn.to/2X2gNHV  MERCH: https://fightfortogether.bigcartel.com/  Get an email when our AT book is finished: https://bit.ly/2000Together   Ben and Kami share about how they shifted their life from primarily finding fulfillment in business to finding and creating it at home. They share why you should consider this and  three things you can do to make it happen.    Date Filmed May 18, 2020   Recommendations https://www.amazon.com/shop/fightfortogether   Thank you for supporting our work!  https://www.patreon.com/fightfortogether  Paypal - paypal.me/fightfortogether  Venmo - @fightfortogether   PODCAST https://youtu.be/4Ud1oUl2d58 CONNECT    https://www.facebook.com/fightfortogether/  https://instagram.com/fightfortogether/  [email protected]   JOIN THE DISCUSSION ON FACEBOOK: https://goo.gl/THhxCF   FIGHT FOR TOGETHER IS: Ben (DAD), Kami (MOM), Dove (19), Eden (17), Seven (15), Memory (13), Filia (9), Rainier (4)

Ben and Kami share about how to help kids deal with addictions and boredom. They discuss how it is better to spend our energy making activities interesting and available and some ways you can do this in your home.   Unleash Your Family: https://amzn.to/2X2gNHV  Boy in a Band - Don't Stay in School: https://youtu.be/8xe6nLVXEC0   OUR BOOK: https://amzn.to/2X2gNHV  MERCH: https://fightfortogether.bigcartel.com/  Get an email when our AT book is finished: https://bit.ly/2000Together   Date Filmed May 25, 2020   Recommendations  https://www.amazon.com/shop/fightfortogether   Thank you for supporting our work!  https://www.patreon.com/fightfortogether  Paypal - paypal.me/fightfortogether  Venmo - @fightfortogether   PODCAST https://anchor.fm/fightfortogether   CONNECT    https://www.facebook.com/fightfortogether/  https://instagram.com/ fightfortogether/ [email protected]   JOIN THE DISCUSSION ON FACEBOOK: https://goo.gl/THhxCF   FIGHT FOR TOGETHER IS: Ben (DAD), Kami (MOM), Dove (19), Eden (17), Seven (15), Memory (13), Filia (9), Rainier (4)

Ben and Dove talk about a year with no rules and what Dove learned by watching her teenage friends with strict parents sneak around.   Filmed February 2020   Unconditional Parenting by Alfie Kohn and  The Drama of the Gifted Child by Alice Miller  https://www.amazon.com/shop/fightfortogether?listId=38GPWZDV1I6F3   We're writing a book (get updates) https://goo.gl/wfaEaY   JOIN THE DISCUSSION ABOUT THIS VIDEO ON FACEBOOK: https://goo.gl/THhxCF   Our book, coffee, and camera recommendations  https://www.amazon.com/shop/fightfortogether   Thank you for supporting our work!  https://www.patreon.com/fightfortogether  Paypal - paypal.me/fightfortogether  Venmo - @fightfortogether   PODCAST https://youtu.be/l16tPZVFYMo CONNECT    https://www.facebook.com/fightfortogether/  https://instagram.com/fightfortogether/  https://twitter.com/ fight4together [email protected]   FIGHT FOR TOGETHER IS: Ben (DAD), Kami (MOM), Dove (18), Eden (17), Seven (15), Memory (13), Filia (9), Rainier (3)

Ben and Kami talk about their most embarrassing moments and beliefs from their past. They share 7 things that help them to accept past realities and how it affects our children and others who are still in that same place.    Filmed February 3, 2020   PODCAST YOUTUBE https://youtu.be/EowNeRD3CQY Unconditional Parenting by Alfie Kohn and The Drama of the Gifted Child by Alice Miller  https://www.amazon.com/shop/fightfortogether?listId=38GPWZDV1I6F3   We're writing a book (get updates) https://goo.gl/wfaEaY   JOIN THE DISCUSSION ABOUT THIS VIDEO ON FACEBOOK: https://goo.gl/THhxCF   Our book, coffee, and camera recommendations https://www.amazon.com/shop/fightfortogether   Thank you for supporting our work!  https://www.patreon.com/fightfortogether  Paypal - paypal.me/fightfortogether  Venmo - @fightfortogether   CONNECT    https://www.facebook.com/fightfortogether/  https://instagram.com/fightfortogether/  https://twitter.com/fight4together  [email protected]   FIGHT FOR TOGETHER IS: Ben (DAD), Kami (MOM), Dove (18), Eden (17), Seven (15), Memory (13), Filia (9), Rainier (3)

Ben and Kami share the story of how they started their podcast, what they've learned, the biggest challenges, and what the future looks like. They also tell a story and let you vote about who is the bigger dick: Ben or Kami? Leave us a message: (206) 651-5744 Discuss on FB: https://goo.gl/THhxCF We're writing a book (get updates) https://goo.gl/wfaEaY YouTube: https://goo.gl/Uwo9wb Vlog: https://www.youtube.com/c/FightforTogether Our book, coffee, and camera recommendations https://www.amazon.com/shop/fightfortogether Thank you for supporting our work!  https://www.patreon.com/fightfortogether  paypal.me/fightfortogether Venmo - @fightfortogether CONNECT   IG: https://instagram.com/fightfortogether/ FB: https://www.facebook.com/fightfortogether/ TW: https://twitter.com/fight4together [email protected] RECORDED September 30, 2019

Kami and Ben talk about 3 lessons they learned while running the 24-hour race with kids. Leave us a message: (206) 651-5744 Discuss on FB: https://goo.gl/THhxCF We're writing a book (get updates) https://goo.gl/wfaEaY YouTube: https://goo.gl/Uwo9wb Vlog: https://www.youtube.com/c/FightforTogether Our book, coffee, and camera recommendations https://www.amazon.com/shop/fightfortogether Thank you for supporting our work!  https://www.patreon.com/fightfortogether  paypal.me/fightfortogether Venmo - @fightfortogether CONNECT   IG: https://instagram.com/fightfortogether/ FB: https://www.facebook.com/fightfortogether/ TW: https://twitter.com/fight4together [email protected] RECORDED September 24, 2019

Leave us a message: (206) 651-5744 Discuss on FB: https://goo.gl/THhxCF We're writing a book (get updates) https://goo.gl/wfaEaY YouTube: https://goo.gl/Uwo9wb Vlog: https://www.youtube.com/c/FightforTogether Our book, coffee, and camera recommendations https://www.amazon.com/shop/fightfortogether Thank you for supporting our work!  https://www.patreon.com/fightfortogether  paypal.me/fightfortogether Venmo - @fightfortogether CONNECT   IG: https://instagram.com/fightfortogether/ FB: https://www.facebook.com/fightfortogether/ TW: https://twitter.com/fight4together [email protected] RECORDED September 17, 2019

2019 Stranger Sex Survey  http://bit.ly/2Mv8nU4 Recommended Sex books: https://amzn.to/313hfo7 Leave us a message: (206) 651-5744 Discuss on FB: https://goo.gl/THhxCF We're writing a book (get updates) https://goo.gl/wfaEaY YouTube: https://goo.gl/Uwo9wb Vlog: https://www.youtube.com/c/FightforTogether Our book, coffee, and camera recommendations https://www.amazon.com/shop/fightfortogether Thank you for supporting our work!  https://www.patreon.com/fightfortogether  paypal.me/fightfortogether Venmo - @fightfortogether CONNECT   IG: https://instagram.com/fightfortogether/ FB: https://www.facebook.com/fightfortogether/ TW: https://twitter.com/fight4together [email protected] RECORDED  July 11, 2019

Ben and Kami celebrate their 19th anniversary by talking about the biggest change that happened in their relationship but it took 11 years.  The War of Art https://www.amazon.com/dp/1936891026/?cv_ct_id=amzn1.idea.28NNHRN4Y4NWJ&cv_ct_pg=storefront&cv_ct_wn=aip-storefront&ref=exp_cov_fightfortogether_dp_vv_d Leave us a message: (206) 651-5744 Discuss on FB: https://goo.gl/THhxCF We're writing a book (get updates) https://goo.gl/wfaEaY YouTube: https://goo.gl/Uwo9wb Vlog: https://www.youtube.com/c/FightforTogether Our book, coffee, and camera recommendations https://www.amazon.com/shop/fightfortogether Thank you for supporting our work!  https://www.patreon.com/fightfortogether  paypal.me/fightfortogether Venmo - @fightfortogether CONNECT   IG: https://instagram.com/fightfortogether/ FB: https://www.facebook.com/fightfortogether/ TW: https://twitter.com/fight4together [email protected] RECORDED July 9, 2019

Ben and Kami share about why to stop trying to change your kids and instead focus on how they can change you so that you never have to be embarrassed again. They also answer questions about guest celebrities, sex resources, and Peter, Paul, and Mary getting canceled because of #metoo.  Book recomendations: Passionate Marriage:  https://amzn.to/2G6rM9Q Beyond the Birds and Bees   https://amzn.to/2NJyqJH A performance by Peter Yarrow, of Peter, Paul, and Mary fame, has been canceled from an arts festival  https://nyti.ms/2LcmOMX United Airlines put an underage passenger on a plane to the wrong country, prompting a panicked mother to beg the airline to keep the plane from taking off http://bit.ly/2LJCKpv Leave us a message: (206) 651-5744 Discuss on FB: https://goo.gl/THhxCF We're writing a book (get updates) https://goo.gl/wfaEaY YouTube: https://goo.gl/Uwo9wb Vlog: https://www.youtube.com/c/FightforTogether Our book, coffee, and camera recommendations https://www.amazon.com/shop/fightfortogether Thank you for supporting our work!  https://www.patreon.com/fightfortogether  paypal.me/fightfortogether Venmo - @fightfortogether CONNECT   IG: https://instagram.com/fightfortogether/ FB: https://www.facebook.com/fightfortogether/ TW: https://twitter.com/fight4together [email protected] RECORDED July 6, 2019

Ben and Kami talk about the biggest money decisions you can make. They discuss the sex pay gap, how awareness of negative emotions can decrease depression, and talk about the ereasing history Anchor sues news station for $10M over pay inequality https://yhoo.it/2XQzlff Teenagers’ ability to describe negative emotions protects against depression http://bit.ly/2KVdTiO San Francisco Will Spend $600,000 to Erase History The school board has voted to destroy public murals by a New Deal-era Communist. https://nyti.ms/2RUSOpC Leave us a message: (206) 651-5744 Discuss on FB: https://goo.gl/THhxCF We're writing a book (get updates) https://goo.gl/wfaEaY YouTube: https://goo.gl/Uwo9wb Vlog: https://www.youtube.com/c/FightforTogether Our book, coffee, and camera recommendations https://www.amazon.com/shop/fightfortogether Thank you for supporting our work!  https://www.patreon.com/fightfortogether  paypal.me/fightfortogether Venmo - @fightfortogether CONNECT   IG: https://instagram.com/fightfortogether/ FB: https://www.facebook.com/fightfortogether/ TW: https://twitter.com/fight4together [email protected] RECORDED July 1, 2019

 Ben and Kami share about the bravery of excluding people. Who do you say “no” to and how does this help you focus on your people? THIS IS MARKETING  https://amzn.to/2XIpJ60 New York decriminalizes prostitution  http://bit.ly/2xqKlBa Bride's Dad Stops Wedding So Stepdad Can Walk Down The Aisle Too http://bit.ly/2Ys5uqf High school teacher asked to resign for teaching about female circumcision http://bit.ly/2RN3KWe Leave us a message: (206) 651-5744 Discuss on FB: https://goo.gl/THhxCF We're writing a book (get updates) https://goo.gl/wfaEaY YouTube: https://goo.gl/Uwo9wb Vlog: https://www.youtube.com/c/FightforTogether Our book, coffee, and camera recommendations https://www.amazon.com/shop/fightfortogether Thank you for supporting our work!  https://www.patreon.com/fightfortogether  paypal.me/fightfortogether Venmo - @fightfortogether CONNECT   IG: https://instagram.com/fightfortogether/ FB: https://www.facebook.com/fightfortogether/ TW: https://twitter.com/fight4together [email protected] RECORDED June 27, 2019

Ben and Kami discuss creating an environment where our kids can be themselves and not have to hide or leave to adopt new beliefs. We discuss new articles about a 10-year-old climbing El Cap, pot being legalized in Cincinnati, and a woman dying while climbing Mount Washington and answer a question about New York’s new immunization bill. The Divine Magician https://amzn.to/2HSanDo Create a world at home that is big enough for our kids to bring back the lessons they learn in the outside world.  Too often the lessons our kids learn don’t fit at home. They are forced to go outside of the home to be themselves. To fit in. To feel valued and to engage all their faculties. Returning home becomes an exercise in mask-wearing and playing a part of a static environment. What a shame when an opportunity for an environment to develop and evolve instead gets turned into an opportunity to fortify and exclude.    10-year-old girl becomes the youngest person ever to climb El Capitan https://yhoo.it/2FPceXZ MOUNT WASHINGTON HIKER DIES http://bit.ly/2NtfMWi Cincinnati passes marijuana ordinance http://bit.ly/2FPckPl Leave us a message: (206) 651-5744 Discuss on FB: https://goo.gl/THhxCF We're writing a book (get updates) https://goo.gl/wfaEaY YouTube: https://goo.gl/Uwo9wb Vlog: https://www.youtube.com/c/FightforTogether Our book, coffee, and camera recommendations https://www.amazon.com/shop/fightfortogether Thank you for supporting our work!  https://www.patreon.com/fightfortogether  paypal.me/fightfortogether Venmo - @fightfortogether CONNECT   IG: https://instagram.com/fightfortogether/ FB: https://www.facebook.com/fightfortogether/ TW: https://twitter.com/fight4together [email protected] RECORDED June 20, 2019

Ben and Kami discuss Meryl Streep’s views on toxic masculinity, the parents who had an emergency at sea, and the Texas Megachurch Sex Scandal.  Links Parent-Shamed When We Had An Emergency At Sea https://www.huffpost.com/entry/rebel-heart-mom-charlotte-kaufman_n_5cf13c36e4b0e346ce7d123e Megachurch Was Her World. Then Her Daughter Said She Was Molested https://www.nytimes.com/2019/06/10/us/southern-baptist-convention-sex-abuse.html MERYL STREEP DOESN’T AGREE WITH THE TERM ‘TOXIC MASCULINITY ’https://www.independent.co.uk/life-style/meryl-streep-toxic-masculinity-big-little-lies-season-2-qa-talk-a8936156.html Leave us a message: (206) 651-5744 Discuss on FB: https://goo.gl/THhxCF We're writing a book (get updates) https://goo.gl/wfaEaY YouTube: https://goo.gl/Uwo9wb Vlog: https://www.youtube.com/c/FightforTogether Our book, coffee, and camera recommendations https://www.amazon.com/shop/fightfortogether Thank you for supporting our work!  https://www.patreon.com/fightfortogether  paypal.me/fightfortogether Venmo - @fightfortogether CONNECT   IG: https://instagram.com/fightfortogether/ FB: https://www.facebook.com/fightfortogether/ TW: https://twitter.com/fight4together [email protected] RECORDED June 20, 2019

Ben and Kami talk about the nuances of porn and discuss what they learned in therapy about how to create real change and listen to your kids   Links James Altucher Podcast http://bit.ly/2RydcwC Maybe You Should Talk to Someone by Lori Gottlieb https://amzn.to/2J4U3OX Leave us a message: (206) 651-5744 Discuss on FB: https://goo.gl/THhxCF We're writing a book (get updates) https://goo.gl/wfaEaY YouTube: https://goo.gl/Uwo9wb Vlog: https://www.youtube.com/c/FightforTogether Our book, coffee, and camera recommendations https://www.amazon.com/shop/fightfortogether Thank you for supporting our work!  https://www.patreon.com/fightfortogether  paypal.me/fightfortogether Venmo - @fightfortogether CONNECT   IG: https://instagram.com/fightfortogether/ FB: https://www.facebook.com/fightfortogether/ TW: https://twitter.com/fight4together [email protected] RECORDED June 20, 2019

Kami and Ben discuss a cop arresting a mom for leaving her kids in the car for 10 minutes, Facebook’s nudity guidelines, the Catholic church spending $10 million against sexual abuse victims, and Ben getting sexism hate.   Links Cop Arrests Mom for Letting Kids Wait in Car During 10-Minute Errand http://bit.ly/2WNV47Q Facebook will reconsider nudity guidelines http://bit.ly/2WIO2Mt Catholic Church spent $10.6 million to lobby against legislation that would benefit victims of child sex abuse https://cbsn.ws/2FcCdZa Leave us a message: (206) 651-5744 Discuss on FB: https://goo.gl/THhxCF We're writing a book (get updates) https://goo.gl/wfaEaY YouTube: https://goo.gl/Uwo9wb Vlog: https://www.youtube.com/c/FightforTogether Our book, coffee, and camera recommendations https://www.amazon.com/shop/fightfortogether Thank you for supporting our work! https://www.patreon.com/fightfortogether paypal.me/fightfortogether Venmo - @fightfortogether CONNECT   IG: https://instagram.com/fightfortogether/ FB: https://www.facebook.com/fightfortogether/ TW: https://twitter.com/fight4together [email protected] RECORDED June 13, 2019

Ben and Kami discuss respond to comments about Ben taking over, Youtube’s censorship, inclusive labels and an emotional action of an amusement park worker. They also answer a phone call about how to deal with kids who don’t want to hike.  Links YouTube is deleting videos on Nazi history https://www.technologyreview.com/f/613644/youtube-is-deleting-videos-on-nazi-history-as-part-of-its-hate-speech-crackdown/?utm_campaign=site_visitor.unpaid.engagement&utm_medium=tr_social&utm_source=facebook My Daughter Won’t Be Signing Any Purity Pledge https://goodmenproject.com/featured-content/my-daughter-wont-be-signing-any-purity-pledge-kpkn/?fbclid=IwAR1TiFcGy_x14CKM7TfsIepzKFpK5Qkuqu963Z7I7ieyjVCp5sAPHAsYTO0 Donuts With Dads and Muffins With Moms https://schoolleadersnow.weareteachers.com/inclusive-school-events/?fbclid=IwAR2_GoSnuOEHQiF_oeurbteUs0g5xiN5iVIb-K-9hbipX9n8XbwaLDdzJtA#.XPhIvJpULXM.facebook Autistic boy meltdown https://www.washingtonpost.com/lifestyle/2019/06/07/theme-park-employee-lay-down-ground-next-an-autistic-boy-having-meltdown-her-act-solidarity-went-viral/?utm_term=.904a4b1a2caf Leave us a message: (206) 651-5744 Discuss on FB: https://goo.gl/THhxCF We're writing a book (get updates) https://goo.gl/wfaEaY YouTube: https://goo.gl/Uwo9wb Vlog: https://www.youtube.com/c/FightforTogether Our book, coffee, and camera recommendations https://www.amazon.com/shop/fightfortogether Thank you for supporting our work!  https://www.patreon.com/fightfortogether  paypal.me/fightfortogether Venmo - @fightfortogether CONNECT   IG: https://instagram.com/fightfortogether/ FB: https://www.facebook.com/fightfortogether/ TW: https://twitter.com/fight4together [email protected] RECORDED June 8, 19

Ben and Kami discuss a family reuniting through a DNA test, the latest MLK scandal and what it means to cancel culture and the problems with how liberals see white privilege.  Links I FOUND MY BIRTH FAMILY http://bit.ly/2JU1R8S The Disturbing Thing I Learned Studying White Privilege and Liberals http://bit.ly/2QBGlGu The MLK tapes https://dailym.ai/2HPPF6R The Divine Magician https://amzn.to/2HSanDo Leave us a message: (206) 651-5744 Discuss on FB: https://goo.gl/THhxCF We're writing a book (get updates) https://goo.gl/wfaEaY YouTube: https://goo.gl/Uwo9wb Vlog: https://www.youtube.com/c/FightforTogether Our book, coffee, and camera recommendations https://www.amazon.com/shop/fightfortogether Thank you for supporting our work!  https://www.patreon.com/fightfortogether  paypal.me/fightfortogether Venmo - @fightfortogether CONNECT   IG: https://instagram.com/fightfortogether/ FB: https://www.facebook.com/fightfortogether/ TW: https://twitter.com/fight4together [email protected] RECORDED June 1, 19

Ben and Kami discuss Kami's sexual history and the shame and difficulty in their marriage and do a book review on Linda Kay Klein's book: Pure.  PURE by Linda Kay Klein https://amzn.to/2K26lcO Leave us a message: (206) 651-5744 Discuss on FB: https://goo.gl/THhxCF We're writing a book (get updates) https://goo.gl/wfaEaY YouTube: https://goo.gl/Uwo9wb Vlog: https://www.youtube.com/c/FightforTogether Our book, coffee, and camera recommendations https://www.amazon.com/shop/fightfortogether Thank you for supporting our work!  https://www.patreon.com/fightfortogether  paypal.me/fightfortogether Venmo - @fightfortogether CONNECT   IG: https://instagram.com/fightfortogether/ FB: https://www.facebook.com/fightfortogether/ TW: https://twitter.com/fight4together [email protected] RECORDED May 23, 2019

Ben and Kami share about lessons they've learned from running 7 marathons with children and answer questions about physical boundaries in marriage, porn, and swinging.  Leave us a message: (206) 651-5744 Discuss on FB: https://goo.gl/THhxCF We're writing a book (get updates) https://goo.gl/wfaEaY YouTube: https://goo.gl/Uwo9wb Vlog: https://www.youtube.com/c/FightforTogether Our book, coffee, and camera recommendations https://www.amazon.com/shop/fightfortogether Thank you for supporting our work!  https://www.patreon.com/fightfortogether  paypal.me/fightfortogether Venmo - @fightfortogether CONNECT   IG: https://instagram.com/fightfortogether/ FB: https://www.facebook.com/fightfortogether/ TW: https://twitter.com/fight4together [email protected] RECORDED May 28, 2019

The Loneliness Epidemic: https://youtu.be/m3aIQuMWJCA Leave us a message: (206) 651-5744 Discuss on FB: https://goo.gl/THhxCF We're writing a book (get updates) https://goo.gl/wfaEaY YouTube: https://goo.gl/Uwo9wb Vlog: https://www.youtube.com/c/FightforTogether Our book, coffee, and camera recommendations https://www.amazon.com/shop/fightfortogether Thank you for supporting our work!  https://www.patreon.com/fightfortogether  paypal.me/fightfortogether Venmo - @fightfortogether CONNECT   IG: https://instagram.com/fightfortogether/ FB: https://www.facebook.com/fightfortogether/ TW: https://twitter.com/fight4together [email protected] RECORDED May 9, 2019

Ben and Kami discuss reddit hate about the child that is the hardest to love. IG Mommy Cusses: https://www.instagram.com/mommycusses/ Leave us a message: (206) 651-5744 Discuss on FB: https://goo.gl/THhxCF We're writing a book (get updates) https://goo.gl/wfaEaY YouTube: https://goo.gl/Uwo9wb Vlog: https://www.youtube.com/c/FightforTogether Our book, coffee, and camera recommendations https://www.amazon.com/shop/fightfortogether Thank you for supporting our work!  https://www.patreon.com/fightfortogether  paypal.me/fightfortogether Venmo - @fightfortogether CONNECT   IG: https://instagram.com/fightfortogether/ FB: https://www.facebook.com/fightfortogether/ TW: https://twitter.com/fight4together [email protected] RECORDED April 1, 2019

Ben and Kami respond to a question about why they're ok with porn? Then they discuss a child reading romance novels and how Kami navigated the scenario.  Bible for Normal People (Peter Rollins): https://peteenns.com/bible-sacred-object/ Come as you are [book]: https://amzn.to/2ILSAPQ Sex Tweet: http://bit.ly/2vlPwkF Leave us a message: (206) 651-5744 Discuss on FB: https://goo.gl/THhxCF We're writing a book (get updates) https://goo.gl/wfaEaY YouTube: https://goo.gl/Uwo9wb Vlog: https://www.youtube.com/c/FightforTogether Our book, coffee, and camera recommendations https://www.amazon.com/shop/fightfortogether Thank you for supporting our work!  https://www.patreon.com/fightfortogether  paypal.me/fightfortogether Venmo - @fightfortogether CONNECT   IG: https://instagram.com/fightfortogether/ FB: https://www.facebook.com/fightfortogether/ TW: https://twitter.com/fight4together [email protected] RECORDED: April 25, 2019

Ben and Kami discuss how to raise your price on your time, how to say no, and how to be generous with your most valuable ideas.  LINKS YT Podcast http://bit.ly/2VUrTLB Tim's Podcast: http://bit.ly/2IuMtPE Why Sustainability is important: http://bit.ly/2Gw2kLD Leave us a message: (206) 651-5744 Discuss on FB: https://goo.gl/THhxCF We're writing a book (get updates) https://goo.gl/wfaEaY YouTube: https://goo.gl/Uwo9wb Vlog: https://www.youtube.com/c/FightforTogether Thank you for supporting our work!   paypal.me/fightfortogether Venmo - @fightfortogether CONNECT   IG: https://instagram.com/fightfortogether/ FB: https://www.facebook.com/fightfortogether/ TW: https://twitter.com/fight4together [email protected] RECORDED: April 18, 2019

Ben and Kami discuss Ben's psychological diagnosis, labels, who gets to choose them, and what happens when they're weaponized. Also, we talk about the new Instagram account that got 100k followers in a week by showing pictures of pastors next to the price of their shoes.  Leave us a message: (206) 651-5744 Discuss on FB: https://goo.gl/THhxCF We're writing a book (get updates) https://goo.gl/wfaEaY YouTube: https://goo.gl/Uwo9wb Vlog: https://www.youtube.com/c/FightforTogether Thank you for supporting our work!   paypal.me/fightfortogether Venmo - @fightfortogether CONNECT   IG: https://instagram.com/fightfortogether/ FB: https://www.facebook.com/fightfortogether/ TW: https://twitter.com/fight4together [email protected] RECORDED April 11, 2019

Ben and Kami discuss their biggest idea of parenting. How you see kids will change everything about what you DO. What are the pros and cons about seeing children as a gift vs a project, how do you know which you are doing AND how do you change?  Selfish Reasons to Have more Kids: http://bit.ly/selfishkids Youtube Talk: http://bit.ly/2Kdl6eG Leave us a message: (206) 651-5744 Discuss on FB: https://goo.gl/THhxCF We're writing a book (get updates) https://goo.gl/wfaEaY YouTube: https://goo.gl/Uwo9wb Vlog: https://www.youtube.com/c/FightforTogether Our only financial support for projects comes via donations.   paypal.me/fightfortogether Venmo - @fightfortogether CONNECT   IG: https://instagram.com/fightfortogether/ FB: https://www.facebook.com/fightfortogether/ TW: https://twitter.com/fight4together [email protected] RECORDED: April 4, 2019

What we learned from getting kicked out of Bible camp, how to include everyone in family, being ok with our kids having martial sex, and tips for starting a podcast or any other creative venture.  GaryVee IG: https://goo.gl/JvE7H3 The War of Art: https://goo.gl/NPKMFq Ira Glass the Gap: https://goo.gl/o26CcV Leave us a message: (206) 651-5744 Discuss on FB: https://goo.gl/THhxCF We're writing a book (get updates) https://goo.gl/wfaEaY YouTube: https://goo.gl/Uwo9wb Vlog: https://www.youtube.com/c/FightforTogether Our only financial support for projects comes via donations.   paypal.me/fightfortogether Venmo - @fightfortogether CONNECT   IG: https://instagram.com/fightfortogether/ FB: https://www.facebook.com/fightfortogether/ TW: https://twitter.com/fight4together [email protected] RECORDED March 27, 2019

Ben and Kami talk about Seven skipping chores and sleeping in and missing appointments to play video games. How much is too much? Also, how do they know that God exists? Leave us a message: (206) 651-5744 Discuss on FB: https://goo.gl/THhxCF We're writing a book (get updates) https://goo.gl/wfaEaY YouTube: https://goo.gl/Uwo9wb Vlog: https://www.youtube.com/c/FightforTogether Our only financial support for projects comes via donations.   paypal.me/fightfortogether Venmo - @fightfortogether CONNECT   IG: https://instagram.com/fightfortogether/ FB: https://www.facebook.com/fightfortogether/ TW: https://twitter.com/fight4together [email protected] RECORDED March 20, 2019

Ben and Kami discuss Casey's video essay and what rich people know that the rest of the world doesn't. We also answer questions about masturbation.  LINKS: Casey's Video: https://youtu.be/ROfBLx6bLZI NY Times Article: https://goo.gl/HPJpF4 Power of Now: https://goo.gl/TF9Kx9 Richard Rohr Podcast: https://goo.gl/RGsgSz Leave us a message: (206) 651-5744 Discuss on FB: https://goo.gl/THhxCF We're writing a book (get updates) https://goo.gl/wfaEaY YouTube: https://goo.gl/Uwo9wb Vlog: https://www.youtube.com/c/FightforTogether Our only financial support for projects comes via donations.   paypal.me/fightfortogether Venmo - @fightfortogether CONNECT   IG: https://instagram.com/fightfortogether/ FB: https://www.facebook.com/fightfortogether/ TW: https://twitter.com/fight4together [email protected] RECORDED March 6, 2019

Ben and Kami share what they have learned and the highs and lows of recording 25 episodes. We listen to listeners messages, respond to PureFlix fallout and discuss what's next.  Leave us a message: (206) 651-5744 Discuss on FB: https://goo.gl/THhxCF We're writing a book (get updates) https://goo.gl/wfaEaY YouTube: https://goo.gl/Uwo9wb Vlog: https://www.youtube.com/c/FightforTogether Our only financial support for projects comes via donations.   paypal.me/fightfortogether Venmo - @fightfortogether CONNECT   IG: https://instagram.com/fightfortogether/ FB: https://www.facebook.com/fightfortogether/ TW: https://twitter.com/fight4together [email protected] RECORDED March 6, 2019

Ben & Kami discuss the chaos of coming home after being gone for 6 months and the battle over Stranger Things. FB Discussion: https://goo.gl/9Exgiq Recorded September 20, 1018