figuring out my 20s

In this episode, I get really vulnerable about navigating friendships in your 20s — the growing pains, the loneliness, the friendship breakups, and the reality of outgrowing people you once thought would be in your life forever. I open up about my own experiences with feeling disconnected, maintaining friendships while changing as a person, and learning the difference between healthy connections and draining ones.Your 20s can feel confusing and isolating when it comes to friendships, and I wanted this conversation to feel honest, comforting, and real. If you’ve ever felt left behind, misunderstood, or unsure where you stand with the people around you, this episode is for you.-Brooklyn ♡

In this episode of Figuring Out My 20s, I talk about learning how to be alone without feeling lonely. Your 20s can feel isolating sometimes—friendships change, life gets busy, and it’s easy to feel like everyone else has it figured out. I open up about the difference between solitude and loneliness, learning to enjoy my own company, and finding peace in being by myself instead of constantly needing distractions. If you’ve been feeling lonely, lost, or in-between lately, this episode is for you.-Brooklyn ♡

In this episode of Figuring Out Your 20s, we’re talking about something no one really prepares you for: how expensive it actually is to move out. From rent deposits and grocery bills to furniture, utilities, and all the “small” costs that add up fast, moving out can feel overwhelming even when it’s exciting.I break down the real costs behind living on your own, what catches most people off guard, and how to mentally (and financially) prepare before you take the leap. Whether you’re planning to move soon or just curious about what it really looks like, this episode keeps it honest about the reality of independence in your 20s.

In this episode, I’m talking about something I think a lot of us feel—but don’t always say out loud: the pressure of having everything together.It can feel like there’s this invisible timeline we’re all supposed to be following—having your career figured out, making money, looking put together, and somehow being happy through all of it and if you’re not there yet, it can feel like you’re falling behind.I open up about how this pressure shows up in my own life, how comparison (especially on social media) can make it worse, and why the idea that everyone else has it all together isn’t actually true.This episode is a reminder that you can be ambitious and still figuring things out. You can be working toward your goals and still feel unsure. And that doesn’t mean you’re behind—it means you’re human.If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed, stuck, or like you’re not doing enough, this one’s for you. We’re all just figuring it out, one step at a time - Brooklyn ♡

In this first episode, I’m talking about why I started this podcast and what it really means to be figuring out life in your 20s. I don’t have everything figured out, but I’m learning as I go and sharing it in real time. If you’ve ever felt lost, behind, or unsure about where you’re going, this is for you—we’re figuring it out together - Brooklyn ♡