Financially 4 Ever After: A Love and Money Podcast

Lindsey and Brett talk about phone privacy in relationships and whether not letting your partner see your phone is a red flag. They get into transparency, trust, boundaries, passcodes, deleted messages, and why the bigger issue is often the relationship itself, not just the phone. They also answer financial questions about hiding purchases from your spouse, common money habits that can backfire, and what a financial advisor actually does on a daily basis. Questions for future episodes? Submit them on our website.

Lindsey and Brett talk about the pressure to look financially okay, even when the reality may be very different behind the scenes. They unpack common money mistakes, explain interest in simple terms, and get into the kinds of financial decisions that can quietly create long-term stress, from overspending to debt to timeshares. They also take on a few big marriage myths, including whether love is enough, whether couples should never go to bed angry, and whether your partner is supposed to complete you. It is an honest mix of practical money talk and real relationship conversation that feels relatable, thoughtful, and easy to follow.Visit financially4everafter.com to ask questions for future episodes!

Little things can turn into big relationship issues fast, especially when tone, stress, hunger, and money all get involved. In this episode, Lindsey and Brett talk through common communication struggles in marriage, why “I’m fine” never really means fine, whether couples should combine finances, the biggest money fights they see, and how to think about debt, investing, and diversification.Submit a question for upcoming episodes at financially4everafter.com.

Why do couples communicate so differently, and why do money conversations feel so intimidating sometimes? Lindsey and Brett talk through relationship communication quirks like fixing vs listening, texting fights, tone, and their “orange rhino” safeword, then shift into simple, real-world answers to questions about financial stability, the stock market, the S&P 500, and where your 401(k) money actually goes. If you have ever wondered why your partner wants to solve the problem when you just want to talk, or why finance terms can feel confusing if you did not grow up learning them, this episode is for you. It is honest, funny, practical, and designed to break down both marriage dynamics and money topics in a way that actually makes sense.

Friendships can change over time, and that does not always mean someone did something wrong. In this episode, Lindsey and Brett talk about what it looks like to outgrow friendships without turning anyone into the villain, why friendship breakups can feel like a real loss, and how relationships sometimes shift as life moves into new seasons.They also dig into common life insurance myths couples still believe, including being too young to need coverage, assuming it is too expensive, and thinking all policies are the same. It is a real conversation about changing relationships, protecting the people you love, and planning ahead for the unexpected.

Are boomers too strict? Are millennials too soft? Or are we just parenting in different times?In this episode, we talk generational parenting — authority vs collaboration, mental health awareness, discipline changes, and what social media has done to raising kids today.Then we switch gears to retirement planning. We break down:The Rule of 72The power of compoundingWhy starting at 30 vs 50 makes a massive differenceRoth vs traditional retirement accountsWhy “I’ll figure it out later” can cost youIf you want help building your retirement plan, visit:👉 www.financially4everafter.comSchedule a 15-minute consultation or submit a question for upcoming episodes.

Women often outlive their spouses by 20 to 30 years, yet many still leave financial decisions to someone else. In this episode, Lindsey and Carina talk about why financial confidence matters for women, what documents you need in place, and how to prepare for retirement, widowhood, or unexpected health challenges.They also discuss power of attorney, organizing financial information, and how to plan for the long game so your money lasts as long as you do. Questions for Lindsey or Carina? Submit them here.

Lindsey and Brett start with funny “you know you’re getting old” moments, from chaperoning middle school dances to broken fingers and aging joints. They then talk about the movie People We Meet on Vacation and explore what makes relationships last, including friendship, commitment, and choosing your person through life’s messy seasons.Brett closes the episode by explaining why timing the stock market is so hard, how fear and greed influence decisions, and why a balanced portfolio based on the Rule of 100 can be a smarter long term approach.Questions for Brett and Lindsey? Submit them here.

Lindsey and Brett talk about the parts of marriage people rarely warn you about, from seasons of disconnection to recurring arguments, resentment, and the ongoing work of choosing each other. They share real examples from their own relationship and why healthy marriages are not conflict free but repair rich.Brett then breaks down large cap investing and explains what market capitalization means, how growth and value stocks differ, and why diversification across company sizes plays an important role in long term investing.Submit your questions for a future episode here.

Lindsey and Brett talk about mental load in relationships and what it really means to be the “manager” at home. They break down how invisible responsibilities build over time, why this dynamic often forms without intention, and how couples can start shifting from delegating tasks to sharing ownership.Brett then dives into portfolio diversification and explores nuclear energy as an emerging investment sector. He explains how nuclear fits into a diversified strategy, what investors should understand before jumping in, and why new sectors require both curiosity and caution.

Lindsey and Brett answer listener questions about communication, boundaries, and navigating early relationship challenges. From nicknames that miss the mark to trauma dumping and unexpected texts from exes, they talk through real scenarios couples face.Brett then explains how to organize financial goals into short, medium, and long term priorities and how to approach them using the SMART framework. He also shares a real example of how leaving money untouched can have major long term consequences, offering practical insight for anyone planning their financial future.Submit your questions for a future episode here: https://www.financially4everafter.com/contact-us

Lindsey and Brett start the new year by rethinking resolutions and shifting the focus from “I” goals to “we” goals. They talk about how shared intentions like date nights, gratitude, and learning something new together can strengthen a relationship long after the new year excitement fades.Brett also breaks down how to set realistic financial goals using the SMART method, with practical examples that help take the pressure out of planning for 2026. This episode is a grounded, honest reset for couples heading into the new year.Submit your questions for a future episode here.

Grief does not take a break for the holidays. In this episode, Lindsey and Brett talk about whether it is okay to skip holiday traditions after a loss, how grief shows up differently for everyone, and ways to navigate the season with less pressure and more support.They also cover the financial realities families face after losing a loved one. Brett shares a clear step by step overview of what to do next, including life insurance, beneficiary accounts, inherited IRAs, and common pitfalls. This episode offers both emotional reassurance and practical guidance for anyone walking through loss.Submit a question or request a 15 minute consultation at financially4everafter.com.

In this holiday themed episode, Lindsey and Brett answer listener questions about surviving the holidays with both relationships and finances intact. They discuss how couples can navigate family expectations, set boundaries, and keep long term relationships feeling connected during a busy season.Brett also shares practical tips for managing holiday spending, including budgeting for gifts, deciding when to use credit cards, and handling pressure to overspend. If the holidays bring financial stress or relationship tension, this episode offers simple and realistic guidance.Submit a question or request a 15 minute consultation at Financially4everafter.com.

Lindsey and Brett talk about the 3x3 Rule in marriage and why carving out intentional time both together and apart can make a meaningful difference. They share how the rule works, why it matters most in the busy seasons of parenting, and how routines, alone time, and planned connection hours can strengthen relationships.Brett then dives into common life insurance mistakes and what families need to understand before choosing a policy. From exclusions to lapses to choosing between term and whole life, he breaks down real examples and simple guidance to help you potentially avoid costly errors.Questions about relationships or life insurance? Drop them here.Follow us on Instagram and FacebookWatch full episodes on YouTube

Lindsey and Brett talk about something many couples face quietly. What happens when you care about each other, but the connection no longer feels alive? They break down the signs of growing apart, why it can happen even in strong relationships, and how to figure out whether it can be rekindled.They also cover:• How to recognize when your relationship has shifted• Why routines can replace connection• Ways to rebuild emotional closeness• When counseling or a neutral voice can help• How to decide if the relationship still has room to growThen Brett shares more tax strategies you can use before the end of the year, including how itemized deductions work and when bunching deductions can save money.Visit financially4everafter.com to send in a question or request a 15 minute consultation with Brett.

Feeling drained or disconnected from your partner? This episode is for you. Lindsey and Brett talk through emotional burnout, how it shows up in relationships, and simple ways to refill your cup without guilt. They also answer a listener question about seeming distant while simply being overwhelmed from work.Brett follows the conversation with practical year end tax strategies, including:• Using your 401(k) and Roth 401(k) wisely• Saving money through an HSA• What tax loss harvesting means• How charitable giving can reduce your taxable incomeSubmit a question or request a 15 minute consultation with Brett at Financially4everafter.com.

This episode is all about the rise of quiet luxury date nights and why staying in can feel more meaningful than going out. We talk about choosing connection over cost, how simple nights can feel special, and how to be intentional with spending as a couple.We also answer listener financial questions including how much to put toward retirement savings, when to prioritize debt payoff over investing, and how to balance lifestyle expenses with long-term goals.A mix of real-life relationship talk and practical money conversations.Submit your questions for a future episode here.

Answering Listener Questions: When Love Languages, Husker Football & Inflation CollideWhat happens when your love language doesn’t match your partner’s? Or when your paycheck doesn’t stretch quite as far as it used to? In this week’s episode of Financially 4 Ever After: A Love & Money Podcast, Lindsey and Brett Shunkwiler get real about relationships, finances, and everything in between.💬 In this episode:• Listener questions on love languages, communication, and quality time• How to stop keeping score in arguments (and actually keep the peace)• Real talk about budgeting when prices go up but paychecks don’t• Discussion about about AI stocks, crypto, and whether it’s too late to invest• Nebraska football heartbreaks and why the volleyball team still gives us hope🎧 Listen & connect:Ask your own questions at Financially4EverAfter.com or follow us on Instagram, Facebook, TikTok, and YouTube for more episodes.

Ever tried to have a serious conversation with your partner only for it to spiral into frustration? In this episode of Financially 4 Ever After: A Love and Money Podcast, Brett and Lindsey share how to approach difficult topics without starting a fight, plus how understanding your money can strengthen your relationship.💛 Relationship takeaways:• Choose the right time for hard talks and avoid moments of stress or distraction• Use “I feel” statements instead of “you always” or “you never”• Focus on connection, not being right• Learn how validation can calm tension and rebuild trust💰 Financial takeaways:• Why Roth accounts are often best left to grow tax-free• The “Rule of 100” and what it means for your investment balance• How to find the right mix of safe versus risky investments• Why diversification and timing matter for long-term growthThis episode is packed with relatable stories, practical communication tools, and financial tips that help you grow together in love and money.🎧 Listen now on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or YouTube to learn how better communication and smarter investing can transform your relationship.Submit your questions for a future episode here.#Financially4EverAfter #LoveAndMoney #MarriageAndMoney #RothIRA #RelationshipAdvice #InvestingTips #Podcast

Lindsey and Brett sit down with financial advisor Carina to talk about parenting, family communication, and financial preparedness. They share how to stay connected as your kids grow, build healthy independence, and keep your household organized financially.The conversation moves from parenting lessons to practical money tips. Learn how to create a simple “death document,” get both partners involved in finances, and teach teens about investing and compound interest.💬 Topics in this episode:👨‍👩‍👧 Strengthening your relationship with your kids as they grow🗣️ Listening instead of preaching during the teen years📋 Organizing family finances with a “death document”💰 Teaching teens to save and invest early📈 How compound interest builds lifelong wealthIf you want real conversations about parenting, marriage, and money, like and subscribe to join the discussion each week.Do you have real questions about finances and relationships for future episodes? Submit them here.#parentingpodcast #familyfinance #financialadvisor #moneytips #financially4everafter

Brett and Lindsey Shunkwiler unpack the lighter side of love and the reality of rising costs. From relationship “icks” to inflation, they share what makes couples cringe, laugh, and grow together.This episode covers:💬 The most common relationship icks (and the ones they’ve had about each other)💡 How to reframe your partner’s habits to stay connected📈 Which U.S. sectors saw the biggest jump in inflation💰 Simple strategies to protect your income and savings in retirementHave questions for Brett and Lindsey? Submit them on financially4everafter.com

Brett and Lindsey talk about the Netflix documentary Unknown Number and how catfishing is an issue in online relationships. They unpack what these fake connections reveal about trust, communication, and how technology is shaping the way we connect.The conversation then turns to artificial intelligence and money. From the jobs AI is taking over to the best ways to invest in the growing AI market, your hosts share real examples and practical advice for keeping your finances future-ready.💬 Topics in this episode:🎭 How catfishing is putting pressure on modern relationships🤖 Jobs AI is replacing and how to stay competitive in your career💹 AI stock categories and sectors to keep on your radar💰 Strategies to lower your tax burdenIf you want real conversations about money, marriage, and mindset, follow us to join the discussion each week.

In this episode, Brett and Lindsey Shunkwiler dig into a few big topics:🚩 Red flags in famous TV/movie couples and why some iconic pairs seem romantic but are actually unhealthy💳 Mistakes most people make with their first credit cards and what we wish we had known sooner🏠 Leasing vs owning and when it makes sense to rent or lease and when it is better to own📈 What really goes into planning for retirement and how much you need saved, what your standard of living costs, and what kinds of assets matterThey name eight TV/Movie couples and unpack what makes their behavior toxic. They share real stories about credit-card slipups, compare lease vs buy scenarios, and walk through how to estimate what you really need to retire well.🔑 What you will take away from this episode:How popular media misrepresents relationships and how to spot red flagsWhat first credit card experiences can teach you about discipline, credit and debtThe pros and cons of leasing vs owning (cars or homes) in your financial lifeHow to estimate your retirement needs factoring in income, assets, standard of living and lifestyle📲 Got a question about relationships, credit cards, leases or saving for retirement? Drop it here ahead of future episodes: https://www.financially4everafter.com/contact-us#Toxic #CreditCards #Leasing #Homeowner #RetirementPlanning #Twilight #SavedByTheBell

In this episode, Brett and Lindsey Shunkwiler welcome Lexi, a college student and finance major, to talk about financial firsts and how pets can strengthen relationships. Their dog, Honey, also makes an appearance, reminding us how much joy (and lessons) pets bring into family life.🐾 How dogs boost your mood and connection💵 The reality of first jobs and paychecks📚 Building money habits in collegeFrom detasseling to budgeting in your twenties, this conversation blends real-life stories with practical takeaways on love, money, and the role pets play in both.🔑 What you’ll learn in this episode:-How first jobs shape financial confidence-Easy money habits for young adults-The emotional and financial impact of pets📲 Ask your financial or relationship question for our upcoming episodes: ⁠https://www.financially4everafter.com/contact-us#FinancialFirsts #CollegeFinance #BudgetTips #PetsAndRelationships #LoveAndMoney #Financially4EverAfter

In this episode of Financially 4 Ever After: A Love & Money Podcast, Brett and Lindsey explore how politics, religion and marriage connect and whether couples need to align on these values to make a relationship work. They also break down why lowering interest rates matter and what they mean for your financial future.🔑 In this episode, we cover:How politics and religion affect marriage and long-term compatibilityShould couples share the same political or religious views in marriageRelationship advice for navigating differences in core valuesWhy interest rates are dropping in 2025How lower interest rates affect mortgages, refinancing, and the housing marketWhat declining rates mean for loans, credit cards, and investmentsFinancial planning tips during a falling interest rate environmentThis conversation brings together real-life relationship dynamics with practical financial insights, giving you perspective on both love and money.👉 Don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more honest conversations about marriage, family, and finances.#Politics #Religion #Marriage #InterestRates #FinancialPodcast #LoveAndMoney

Ego can quietly cause tension in any relationship. It shows up when you want to be right, when pride takes the lead, or when vulnerability feels too hard. In this episode of Financially 4 Ever After: A Love and Money Podcast, Brett and Lindsey get honest about what it takes to step back, let go of ego, and create stronger connection with your partner.You will learn: How ego sneaks into everyday conversations Practical ways to “de-ego” your relationship Stories from Brett and Lindsey about catching themselves in prideful moments Simple shifts that bring more teamwork and less conflict In the second part of the episode Brett explains: How to figure out the right amount of life insurance for your family The risks of being underinsured or overinsured Guidelines that make the decision easier to apply to real-life situations Why thoughtful planning now can protect the people you love later This conversation blends real relationship talk with clear financial guidance. By the end you will feel encouraged to approach love with a fresh mindset and confident in making smart choices for your financial future.🎧 Listen now, subscribe so you never miss an episode, and share this with a couple who could use both encouragement and clarity.Questions? Submit them here to be featured in upcoming episodes.

Finding the one is about more than just romance — it is about building a life together that blends love, money, and long-term goals. In this episode of Financially 4 Ever After: A Love and Money Podcast, we dive into what it really means to choose the right partner and how to nurture that connection through every stage of life. Along the way, we also explore smart strategies for keeping more of your hard-earned tax dollars in your pocket. You will learn how alternative investments can open the door to new opportunities, why traditional approaches do not always maximize your financial potential, and how couples can use creative planning to strengthen both their relationship and their finances. Whether you are looking for practical money advice, new ideas for reducing your tax burden, or inspiration for growing closer as a couple, this episode brings together the heart and the numbers. Questions for Lindsey and Brett? Submit them here to be featured in upcoming episodes.

Every couple argues, but the way you handle those moments can shape the future of your relationship. In this episode, we dive into why couples argue, the most common reasons for conflict, and how you can evolve in your relationship by learning from those challenges. Listen for relationship advice that helps you turn arguments into opportunities for growth, strengthen communication, and build a deeper connection with your partner.Have financial questions? Submit your questions for a future episode ⁠here: https://www.financially4everafter.com/contact-us#relationshipadvice #relationships #podcast

In this episode of Financially 4 Ever After: A Love & Money Podcast, Brett and Lindsey dive into modern dating and family finances.It all starts with the question: situationship or nah? Brett has never heard the word before, but his first guess is spot on. From there, they break down what makes a situationship, the red flags to look for, and why so many people find themselves in one today.Then the conversation shifts to a heartfelt listener question about caring for aging parents. Brett and Lindsey share practical ideas for preparing financially, gathering the right documents, and having important conversations before it is too late.🎙️ In this episode we cover:What really defines a situationship and how it differs from casual datingWhy situationships are becoming more common in today’s cultureRed flags that signal you might be in oneA real listener’s story about her mom in memory care and planning for the futureFinancial steps to prepare for long-term care needsHow to gather documents, set up power of attorney, and avoid financial confusionThe emotional impact of both relationships without clarity and finances without a plan👉 Got a question for Brett and Lindsey? Visit: https://www.financially4everafter.com/contact-us📞 You can also apply for a free 15-minute financial consultation here: https://toolkit.lincolnfinancialadvisor.com/financial-coaching-session.html#Situationship #Podcast #Relationships #FinancialPlanning #AgingParents

In this episode, Brett and Lindsey Shunkwiler dive into two major topics affecting modern relationships and money habits:📱 How phones and social media are reshaping real-life human interaction 🧠 The psychology behind overspending and instant gratificationFrom 18–24-year-olds eating all three meals alone to couples scrolling during dinner dates, the way we connect is shifting, and not always for the better. Brett and Lindsey share their own stories, discuss parenting in a digital age, and offer simple changes to reconnect as a family.Then, they break down the real reason we overspend: dopamine hits, lifestyle creep, social comparison (hello, Instagram), and clever marketing tactics. You'll learn how to set spending boundaries as a couple and why a simple conversation about money can save your budget and your relationship.🔑 What you’ll learn in this episode:Why smartphones are eroding face-to-face connectionWhat social media is doing to empathy and attention spansThe rise of “dopamine spending” and emotional shoppingSmart boundaries for married couples around financesPractical tips to break phone addiction and spending habitsReal talk about budgeting (and why weekly money talks don’t always work)📲 Ask your financial or relationship question for our upcoming episodes: https://www.financially4everafter.com/contact-us#SmartphoneAddiction #PsychologyOfSpending #MarriageAndMoney #SocialMediaEffects #Overspending #BudgetTips #DigitalDetox #Financially4EverAfter #FamilyFinance #RelationshipAdvice

Caught on camera. Exposed on the Jumbotron. The internet dubbed it #ColdplayGate, but what really happens when an affair goes public?In this episode of Financially 4 Ever After: A Love and Money Podcast, Brett and Lindsey Shunkwiler explore the emotional and financial ripple effects of infidelity, using the viral Coldplay scandal as a jumping-off point. They reflect on 17+ years of marriage, what leads couples to cheat, and how to protect your relationship through better communication and connection.Then, Brett breaks down one of the most powerful (and least known) tax strategies for high-income earners: Opportunity Zones. Learn how alternative investments can help you reduce or eliminate capital gains taxes — and why ultra-high-net-worth investors use them to grow wealth outside the stock market.🔑 In this episode we cover:What really leads to affairs (and how to talk about it with your spouse)Why cheating impacts more than just the coupleHonest advice on how to rebuild connection in a long-term marriageWhat are Opportunity Zones and how do they help you avoid taxes?How alternative investments fit into a diversified, high-net-worth portfolioStarting a business as a couple: what we got right (and what we didn’t)📲 Ask your financial or relationship question for our upcoming episodes: https://www.financially4everafter.com/contact-us#ColdplayGate #OpportunityZones #MarriageAndMoney #TaxStrategies #AlternativeInvestments #InfidelityPodcast #CouplesInBusiness #Financially4EverAfter #RelationshipAdvice #HighNetWorthPlanning

In this special episode of Financially 4 Ever After, we welcome retired Air Force veteran Joel to the podcast! 🎖️ Hosts Lindsey and Brett Shunkwiler sit down with their lifelong friend to talk about military life, the power of friendship under pressure, and what really happens behind the scenes, including pranks, deployments, and financial transitions.🎙️In this episode:What it's really like to build trust in the militaryHow military friendships become familyFinancial tips for active-duty and retired service membersTSP, pensions, GI Bill, and transitioning to civilian financesChildhood stories, couching, and 90s nostalgia 😂Why communication is critical in every kind of relationship👉 Got a question for Joel or the hosts? Click here.📞 You can also apply for a free 15-minute financial consultation here.🛸 Bonus Question: What does Joel know about Area 51? Stay till the end to find out... #Podcast #Military #FinancialAdvice

In this episode of Financially 4 Ever After, hosts Lindsey and Brett Shunkwiler dive into two big topics: the newly passed “One Big Beautiful Bill” that could change your finances—and the 5 habits that the happiest couples do every week. 💰💑🎙️ We’re breaking down:What’s really in the “One Big Beautiful Bill” (and who it actually helps)Tax deductions for servers, seniors, and overtime workersAuto loan interest deductions and income phase-outs5 daily habits that strengthen your relationshipWhy working out won’t make your teenager taller 😂Whether you're planning for retirement or just trying to be more intentional with your spouse, this episode brings a lighthearted but practical approach to money and marriage.💬 Ask us a question at https://www.financially4everafter.com/contact-us#FinancialPodcast #MarriageAndMoney #TaxUpdates2025 #RelationshipAdvice #BigBeautifulBill  #CouplesFinance #MoneyTips

We’re talking friendship, finances, and future plans in this week’s episode. Lindsey and Brett dive into the question: Should your partner be your best friend? They share their own experiences, unpack common relationship myths, and explore how emotional closeness shapes long-term connection.Then, they turn to early retirement. What does it really take to walk away from work sooner? From setting shared goals to creating a sustainable plan, they break it all down in a clear, practical way.Whether you're planning for the future or figuring things out as you go, this episode offers real conversations and helpful takeaways. 🎧 Subscribe for weekly episodes on love, marriage, and money 📩 Submit your questions for a future episode: ⁠https://www.financially4everafter.com/contact-us⁠

We’re switching it up this week with a fun and honest “sister” episode.Lindsey is joined by her sister for a heartfelt (and hilarious) conversation about the real-life tension between career moms and stay-at-home moms, the emotional load of parenting, and why kids are so expensive—even when they’re just eating snacks. Plus, they swap a few ghost stories and nostalgic childhood memories that’ll make you laugh out loud.Whether you’re managing a career, staying home, or just trying to keep snacks stocked, this episode offers some laughs, support, and plenty of “me too” moments.🎧 Subscribe for weekly episodes on love, marriage, and money📩 Submit your questions for a future episode: https://www.financially4everafter.com

This week, we’re talking love languages… but not the ones you’re expecting.In this episode, Brett and Lindsey explore the weird, unofficial ways couples show love—like cleaning whiskers out of the sink or locking the door at night. Then they break down what inflation really is, how it affects your long-term savings, and what you can do to stay ahead of rising costs.It’s a lighthearted and practical conversation about how emotional connection and financial awareness go hand in hand.🎧 Subscribe for weekly episodes on love, marriage, and money📩 Submit your questions for a future episode: https://www.financially4everafter.com

Marriage gets real—and hilarious—in this episode of Financially 4 Ever After.Brett and Lindsey break down their personal “Petty Olympics,” from thermostat wars to whiskers in the sink. If you’ve ever argued over how to load the dishwasher or who left the door unlocked, this one’s for you.Then they dive into a common myth: that financial advice is only for the rich. They share practical steps for getting started early—even if you’re just out of school, earning your first paycheck, or feeling stuck. Because smart financial planning doesn’t require a million-dollar portfolio—it just requires a plan.Whether you’re managing love, laundry, or long-term wealth, this episode offers laughs and real-life advice to help you grow together emotionally and financially.🎧 Subscribe for weekly episodes on love, marriage, and money📩 Submit your questions for a future episode: https://www.financially4everafter.com

We’re back with a new episode, combining marriage wisdom with practical financial guidance.In this episode, Brett and Lindsey talk about navigating change in marriage, how to keep your connection strong, and why it’s important to revisit what made you fall in love in the first place. Then, they dive into how to prepare financially in case one spouse passes away—covering digital vaults, important documents, and steps to take when the unexpected happens.Whether you’re newly married or thinking long-term, this episode offers down-to-earth advice to help you grow together emotionally and financially.🎧 Subscribe for weekly episodes on love, marriage, and money📩 Submit your questions for a future episode: https://www.financially4everafter.com

We're back with Part 2 of your questions, combining marriage wisdom with financial clarity.In this episode, Brett and Lindsey share 25 practical marriage tips they've learned through real-life experience, from how to argue better to how to stay on the same page financially. Then they answer more listener-submitted questions.Whether you're newly married or 20 years in, this episode offers relatable advice to help you grow together emotionally and financially.🎧 Subscribe for weekly episodes on love, marriage, and money📩 Submit your questions for a future episode

Brett and Lindsey share 25 practical tips for a stronger marriage, from better communication to everyday connection. They also answer listener-submitted financial questions about budgeting, credit, and building long-term wealth.Interested in a financial coaching session with Brett? Apply now.

Need new date night inspiration and a better grasp of your retirement plan? This episode covers both.💑 We’re diving into the 7-7-7 Rule for relationships—go on a date every 7 days, take an overnight every 7 weeks, and a getaway every 7 months. Try the ABC Date Night Challenge to spark some fun (A = Art show, B = Bowling, C = Concert… you get the idea).💸 Then we shift gears and break down RMDs (Required Minimum Distributions). You don’t need a financial degree to understand how they work, why they matter, and what they mean for your retirement income.

Your hosts, Brett and Lindsey Shunkwiler, open up about how career moves, travel, and parenting challenges can impact a relationship. They share lessons from their own experience and offer practical ways to stay connected as partners while pursuing your goals.Then they dive into seven financial myths that might be holding you back 💸:“Only wealthy people need a financial plan”“You need extra money to start saving or investing”“Investing is too risky”“Emergency funds aren’t necessary”“Scholarships and jobs will cover college”“Credit cards are bad for your score”“Your credit score doesn’t matter”🎙️ Subscribe for honest conversation, real-life advice, and a few laughs along the way.📍Available on YouTube, Apple Podcasts, and Spotify.Interested in a financial coaching session with Brett? Apply now.Catch up with recent episodes:Episode 24: The Art of Online Flirting & Can Debt Be a Good Thing?Episode 23: Supporting Your Partner's Mental HealthEpisode 22: Benefits Couples Gain from Working Out Together & What's Up with the Stock Market? Part 3

This week, we explore how modern dating looks a little different than it used to—especially with the rise of AI tools that help people practice their flirting game. From awkward DMs to practicing with a judgment-free chatbot, we're covering how digital dating is evolving and share tips for making meaningful connections online.On the financial side, Brett breaks down:✅ Why the stock market dip might not be as scary as it seems✅ How debt can be used strategically to build wealth✅ The $3 purchase rule and how small habits can lead to big savings✅ A new perspective on financial advice from growing up in a "no debt" household🎧 Listen on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and YouTube💬 Ask us a question: https://www.financially4everafter.com/contact-us📱 Follow us on Instagram and Facebook @Financially4EverAfter

Mental health impacts every relationship, especially when one partner is struggling. In this episode, Brett and Lindsey open up about seasonal depression, emotional shifts, and how to be there for your partner in both the highs and the lows.

What do couples gain from working out together—and what’s going on with the stock market right now? Brett and Lindsey dive into physical wellness, emotional connection, and your financial outlook. 👇 Here’s what we cover:• How exercising as a couple can build trust, accountability, and connection• Why small habits matter more than big gestures in relationships• Brett’s take on the current state of the stock market and what smart investors should be watchingListen or watch on Spotify, YouTube, or Apple Podcasts

Red Flags 🚩, Green Flags ✅, and Making the Most of a Down MarketIn today’s episode of Financially 4 Ever After: A Love and Money Podcast, Brett and Lindsey get real about relationships—from the hilarious to the heartfelt—and dive into smart financial moves to make when the stock market isn’t doing so hot. Whether you’re seeing red flags in your relationship or in your portfolio, we’ve got you covered.👫 Relationship red flags and green flags:– Clinginess, gaslighting, and lack of respect– Healthy communication, emotional availability, and trust– Golden retriever energy vs. cat personality (yep, we go there)💰 Financial strategies when the stock market is down:– Increase contributions to your Roth IRA or 401(k)– Take advantage of Roth conversions while account values are lower– Rebalance your portfolio and don’t lock in losses– Understand the benefits of dollar-cost averaging– Learn from past market corrections like the “Lost Decade”🐓 Bonus: Should we be investing in eggs? (Don’t worry, it’ll make sense by the end.)🎯 If you’ve ever asked yourself:– "What do I do when the market drops?"– "How can I avoid major financial mistakes?"– "Are they a red flag or just a cat person?"Then this episode is for you.Apply for a financial coaching session with Brett: https://toolkit.lincolnfinancialadvisor.com/financial-coaching-session.html🗨️ Got questions? Ask them at financially4everafter.com📱 Follow us on Instagram, Facebook, Spotfy & YouTube💬 Drop your topic suggestions or love/money questions anytime!

We’re sharing honest thoughts on navigating breakups and the emotional rollercoaster that can follow. Brett also unpacks what’s been happening in the stock market, including how recent tariff news could be affecting your investments.

Love languages and financial smarts—both can make or break your future! In Episode 19 of Financially 4 Ever After, we're diving deep into:✨The Five Love Languages – How they shape your relationships and why knowing yours (and your partner’s) matters.📊 W2 Employees & 401Ks – Answering listener questions about:- Why getting professional help to review your 401(k) investments is key.- The real cost of leaving employer match money on the table.- Roth vs. traditional 401(k) options—how to make the right choice for your future.Tune in now and get the love & money conversation started!

First dates can be exciting, nerve-wracking—and sometimes downright awkward! In this episode, we share some funny and cringe-worthy first date stories while unpacking what really makes a great first impression.On the financial side, Brett breaks down: 💰✔️ How to determine how much money you need to retire comfortably✔️ The key factors that impact your retirement savings goals✔️ Common retirement planning mistakes and how to avoid them