Finding New Waters

In this episode of Finding New Waters, host B. Reeves sits down with attorney and Crosstalk Podcast co-host Jim Boland (Jim B.). Celebrating 13 years of continuous sobriety, Jim shares his personal recovery journey from growing up in an Irish Catholic family in Chicago to navigating self-sabotage in college and law school, hitting an emotional rock bottom, and eventually rebuilding a life centered on deep fellowship and purpose.Jim and B. Reeves discuss what it truly means to break "crosstalk" rules for the sake of honest connection, the power of high-accountability step work, overcoming deep-seated resentments, and managing seasonal depression and emotional sobriety. Jim also reflects on how moving to Winston-Salem, North Carolina and launching his cloud-based law practice allowed him to build a thriving sober community and help others find their way.TIMESTAMPS00:00 Episode Intro & B. Reeves Introduces Jim Boland00:52 Jim Thanks B. Reeves for Crisis Help & How Crosstalk Podcast Started02:33 The Origin of "Crosstalk" & Breaking Traditional AA Meeting Rules03:40 High-Accountability Meetings & Monday Night Hazelden Action Groups06:36 Jim's Story: Growing Up Irish Catholic in Chicago & Family Addiction08:10 Early Sabotage, Panic Attacks, & Self-Destructive Patterns09:40 First AA Meeting at 24 & Going Back Out for 5 Years10:36 Success on the Outside, Crumbling on the Inside & Denver Law School11:09 Moving in with His Sober Brother & Realizing He Couldn't Stop Alone12:37 "He Could Hold a Grudge Worse Than Anyone": Resentments & Emotional Bottom13:17 Connecting with Co-Host Jake Kaufman & Throwing Himself into Fellowship14:22 B. Reeves on Crossing the "Rubicon of Fellowship" & Dropping the Ego17:09 Praying on Your Knees in Public & 10 Pushups on the Golf Course19:55 "It's Not for People Who Want It, It's for People Who DO It"21:48 "The Bottom is Wherever You Decide to Stop Digging"24:20 Emotional Sobriety, Hitting Rock Bottom Clean, & Seeking Therapy26:48 Facing Chicago Winters, Seasonal Depression, & Finding Purpose31:15 Running the Crosstalk Podcast & Connecting Sober Voices35:55 Traveling & Finding Fellowship in AA Meetings Everywhere36:54 Cloud-Based Law Practice & Moving to North Carolina39:10 Rebuilding Sober Community & Making Friends as an AdultCALL TO ACTIONIf Jim's story inspired you, please like this video, leave a comment below with your thoughts, and subscribe to Finding New Waters. Share this episode with anyone seeking hope and connection in recovery!#FindingNewWaters #JimBoland #CrosstalkPodcast #BReeves #NewWatersRecovery #Sobriety #AddictionRecovery #12Steps #EmotionalSobriety #RecoveryIsPossible🎙️ Watch & ListenWebsite: www.findingnewwaters.comSpotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4NOV2g85KExFWU5mTz5GjwApple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/finding-new-waters/id1684075608YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCjfAIXtiOgy1XFcwAduXgXwYouTube Music: https://music.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLuJOc6yLcjibGGAKgLYPCN47etJCY89mn

In this episode of Finding New Waters, host B. Reeves sits down with world-renowned ultramarathoner, author, speaker, and recovery advocate Charlie Engle. Celebrating 34 years of continuous sobriety, Charlie shares his incredible journey from a six-day crack cocaine binge that ended with bullet holes and handcuffs in Wichita, Kansas, to running across the entire Sahara Desert—completing two marathons a day for 111 days straight alongside film producer Matt Damon.Charlie and B. Reeves dive deep into how an obsessive personality can be transformed from a destructive force into a life-giving superpower. Charlie discusses using extreme physical endurance as a tool for catharsis and self-discovery, navigating the concept of "Anchors and Beacons" in relationships, making peace with past mistakes, and preparing for his most ambitious expedition yet: traveling from the lowest place on Earth (the Dead Sea) to the highest summit (Mount Everest). Plus, Charlie explains his work with Anonymous Health, leveraging AI technology so treatment centers never miss a call from someone seeking help.TIMESTAMPS[00:00] Episode Teaser & B. Reeves Introduces Ultramarathoner Charlie Engle[03:40] "My only goal was to not have a real job": Celebrating 34 years of sobriety[05:35] Wichita Rock Bottom: Bullet holes, handcuffs, and a crack pipe under the seat[09:30] Day One: Running two miles, puking in the bushes, and going to meetings with open ears[11:00] Running as fitness, wellness, and cathartic punishment[13:00] Putting your own oxygen mask on: Prioritizing recovery within family life[17:40] "You just switched addictions": Addressing critics and the "Anchors & Beacons" concept[25:00] Turning an obsessive nature into a recovery superpower[29:40] Running the Sahara Desert: 111 days, 2 marathons a day, and working with Matt Damon[35:20] North Carolina roots, UNC Chapel Hill days, Roy Williams, and Michael Jordan[45:00] Geographical escapes, hail damage businesses, and fear of a boring sober life[49:45] The Lowest to Highest Expedition: Swimming the Dead Sea to climbing Mount Everest[53:50] "Wish you were around more": Emotional honesty with his son and building a support team[55:50] Finding a way past the moment you want to quit[01:08:40] Anonymous Health: Using AI to ensure treatment centers never miss a call for helpLINKS & RESOURCES* Primary Website: newwatersrecovery.com* Charlie Engle Official Website: charlieengle.comCALL TO ACTIONIf Charlie's journey from rock bottom to extraordinary physical endurance inspired you, please like this video, drop a comment below, and subscribe to the channel. Share this episode with anyone looking to overcome adversity!#FindingNewWaters #CharlieEngle #BReeves #NewWatersRecovery #Ultramarathon #RunningTheSahara #Sobriety #AddictionRecovery #DoHardThings #Everest🎙️ Watch & ListenWebsite: www.findingnewwaters.comSpotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4NOV2g85KExFWU5mTz5GjwApple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/finding-new-waters/id1684075608YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCjfAIXtiOgy1XFcwAduXgXwYouTube Music: https://music.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLuJOc6yLcjibGGAKgLYPCN47etJCY89mn

In this episode of Finding New Waters, host B. Reeves and CEO Justin McClendon sit down with seasoned interventionist and recovery consultant Tara Cannon. Celebrating over 15 years of continuous sobriety, Tara shares her raw personal story—from growing up in New Jersey, getting sent to South Florida at 15, and managing her own apartment at 16, to facing jail stints and finally committing to a full continuum of care in 2009. Tara breaks down her decade-plus journey in the treatment field, starting as an overnight tech, working in corporate compliance, and running her own sober living program, A Design for Living Recovery. She dives deep into the ARISE intervention model—a strength-based, invitational, family-centered approach—and explains why treating the entire family system is critical for long-term success. Plus, Tara, B. Reeves, and Justin discuss the shifting landscape of addiction over the last 10 years, including high-potency cannabis psychosis, fentanyl contamination in stimulants, and the impact of young adults living at home longer.TIMESTAMPS[00:00] Episode Intro & Relocating from South Florida to Colorado[02:53] "This field picked me": Watching her father's arrest on TV at age 7[04:00] Moving to South Florida at 15 and living solo at 16[05:00] The turning point: 2009 treatment commitment and full continuum of care[06:00] Starting at the bottom: Working overnight tech shifts in residential treatment[08:30] "In detox, you're in the business of the problem": Managing burnout in direct care[12:15] Corporate treatment dynamics vs. mission-driven, heart-centered care[16:30] Opening A Design for Living Recovery: Choosing principle over profit[18:00] Discovering intervention work and training in the ARISE model with Jack Bloomfield[20:15] What makes ARISE different? Invitational, non-confrontational family healing[22:00] Redefining intervention success beyond just getting a person to treatment[25:08] How addiction has evolved over 10 years: Complex mental health, fentanyl, and high-potency cannabis[30:55] Case Study breakdown: Intervening on enmeshed parent-child dynamics and setting firm boundaries[37:00] The "Spaghetti on the wall" approach to behavioral and mental health careLINKS & RESOURCES* Primary Website: newwatersrecovery.com* A Design for Living Recovery: https://www.adesignforlivingrecovery.com/* Contact Info: 561-262-8219CALL TO ACTIONIf Tara's insights on family systems and recovery hit home for you, please like this video, drop a comment below, and subscribe to the channel. Share this episode with a family or professional who needs guidance today!#FindingNewWaters #TaraCannon #Interventionist #ARISEIntervention #AddictionRecovery #FamilyHealing #SoberLife #NewWatersRecovery #RecoveryJourneyWatch & ListenWebsite: www.findingnewwaters.comSpotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4NOV2g85KExFWU5mTz5GjwApple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/finding-new-waters/id1684075608YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCjfAIXtiOgy1XFcwAduXgXwYouTube Music: https://music.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLuJOc6yLcjibGGAKgLYPCN47etJCY89mn

In this episode of Finding New Waters, host B. Reeves and CEO Justin McLendon sit down with Adam Finley, co-founder of FCS Interventions (Family Centered Services). Adam shares his personal journey from medical device sales through severe addiction, homelessness, and rock bottom, to finding long-term recovery and building a clinician-led intervention model.He dives deep into how FCS Interventions uses custom modalities, ongoing clinical care, and radical honesty to help both the individual and the entire family system heal together.---In This Episode, We Cover:00:00 – Welcome and Adam Finley’s background with FCS Interventions02:59 – Adam’s personal story: Selling medical devices, hitting rock bottom, and losing it all05:13 – The turning point: Getting honest, manual labor, and rebuilding self-esteem08:39 – The moment that saved his life: "Get fucking honest and move on"11:55 – Transitioning into treatment work, admissions, and intervention training15:12 – Why family-centered interventions work better than one-size-fits-all models18:13 – Managing enablers and shifting from "enabling the disease" to "enabling recovery"21:34 – Long-term case management and working with families over months (or years)25:21 – Choosing the right intervention model: Invitational vs. Crisis interventions29:38 – Life-or-death realism: Why vulnerable, direct conversations save lives---Resources and Links:Learn more about FCS Interventions: [https://fcsinterventions.com](https://fcsinterventions.com)Connect with New Waters Recovery: [Insert Link]If you or a loved one are struggling with addiction or mental health concerns, reach out for support today. Recovery is possible.🎙️ Watch & ListenWebsite: www.findingnewwaters.comSpotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4NOV2g85KExFWU5mTz5GjwApple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/finding-new-waters/id1684075608YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCjfAIXtiOgy1XFcwAduXgXwYouTube Music: https://music.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLuJOc6yLcjibGGAKgLYPCN47etJCY89mn

In this episode of Finding New Waters, host B. Reeves and CEO Justin McClendon sit down with Ben Seymour, CEO of Southworth Associates. Ben shares his powerful personal journey through addiction and early recovery, the legacy of industry pioneer John Southworth, and how he came to lead one of the most respected organizations in intervention and monitoring. Ben also dives deep into how the behavioral healthcare landscape has shifted over his 26-year career—touching on the evolution of intervention, the pros and cons of Medication-Assisted Treatment (MAT), the impact of trauma-informed care, and why long-term forensic accountability is crucial for lasting recovery. Connect & Learn More:Southworth Associates: southworthassociates.net🎙️ Watch & ListenWebsite: www.findingnewwaters.comSpotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4NOV2g85KExFWU5mTz5GjwApple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/finding-new-waters/id1684075608YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCjfAIXtiOgy1XFcwAduXgXwYouTube Music: https://music.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLuJOc6yLcjibGGAKgLYPCN47etJCY89mn

Why are traditional parenting methods and standard therapies failing today’s teenagers? In this episode of Finding New Waters, host B.Reeves sits down with Michael Carroll, Director of Outreach at Family First Adolescent Services, to decode the neurological roots of adolescent trauma, severe behavioral dysregulation, and neurodivergence.Michael reveals how a teenager’s brain in survival mode stops processing executive decisions, why modern social dynamics (including cyber blackmail) are triggering acute nervous system responses, and how specialized clinical approaches like polyvagal theory and sensory regulation are successfully rewiring adolescent behavior when everything else has failed.Michael Carroll is the Director of Outreach for the Carolinas and Capital Region at Family First Adolescent Services. Driven by his own recovery journey and his experiences parenting a neurodivergent child, Michael has dedicated his career to helping families navigate complex developmental trauma and find life-changing clinical support.Learn more about Michael Carroll and his work: https://familyfirstas.com/team-member/michael-carroll/Explore Family First Adolescent Services: https://familyfirstas.com/0:00 - The Weakest Guest?1:22 - Finding Recovery in North Carolina3:30 - The Prayer That Changed My Entire Life5:13 - The Birth of Family First6:33 - My Son's Trauma & Learning Attachment Theory8:41 - Ditching a Big Paycheck for True Purpose11:00 - Treating a 16-Year-Old vs. a 30-Year-Old Man12:56 - Modeling Healthy Behaviors: "I Screw Up All the Time"14:27 - They Don't Have a Prefrontal Cortex Set Up Yet16:17 - How the Family Program Works17:40 - How Teens Handle Academics in Treatment20:13 - The Dark Reality: Online Blackmail & Trafficking of Girls22:04 - Dysregulated Behaviors: Hitting Your Parents at 1625:05 - Safe & Sound: How We Regulate the Vagus Nerve26:53 - Spiderman, Neurodivergence, & Teen Superpowers27:57 - The Train Expert: Unlocking Supernatural Abilities29:43 - Don’t Be Afraid of a Diagnosis31:23 - "I Wish It Wasn't True": How Schools Are Failing Kids32:14 - Two Hours on a Plane With Senator Thom Tillis34:58 - How to Reach Michael Carroll & Brent Care📄 YouTube Optimized Description👤 Meet Our Guest⏱️ Chapters (Timestamps)🎙️ Watch & ListenWebsite: www.findingnewwaters.comSpotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4NOV2g85KExFWU5mTz5GjwApple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/finding-new-waters/id1684075608YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCjfAIXtiOgy1XFcwAduXgXwYouTube Music: https://music.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLuJOc6yLcjibGGAKgLYPCN47etJCY89mn

In this episode of Finding New Waters, host B. Reeves and CEO Justin McClendon sit down in the studio with certified intervention professional John Furtmeier, founder of Torchlight Recovery Group. John pulls back the curtain on the hidden realities of addiction interventions, explaining why the old-school "ambush" models are being replaced by invitational strategies that focus on the entire family systemIf you have a loved one struggling with alcoholism or substance abuse, you cannot afford to ignore the family dynamics that support the disease. Discover how to look for exact windows of willingness, how to establish firm points of leverage, and why true recovery requires systemic change where everyone learns to speak the same languageLINKS & RESOURCES* Primary Website: https://www.torchlightrecoverygroup.com/team/* Email John Fertmayer: [email protected] / SUPPORTNot mentioned in transcript.CALL TO ACTIONIf your family is navigating the chaos of addiction, you aren't alone. Please like this video, leave your thoughts in the comments, and subscribe to Finding New Waters for more deep dives into professional recovery strategies.🎙️ Watch & ListenWebsite: www.findingnewwaters.comSpotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4NOV2g85KExFWU5mTz5GjwApple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/finding-new-waters/id1684075608YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCjfAIXtiOgy1XFcwAduXgXwYouTube Music: https://music.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLuJOc6yLcjibGGAKgLYPCN47etJCY89mn#FindingNewWaters #AddictionIntervention #FamilyRecovery #Interventionist #Codependency #Enabling #SupportSobriety #FamilySystem #SubstanceAbuse #TorchlightRecovery #SoberLife

In this milestone episode of Finding New Waters, host B. Reeves and CEO Justin McClendon sit down with a true legend in the addiction treatment space, Terry Shapiro. Celebrating an incredible 42 years of continuous sobriety on the exact day of this recording, Terry shares his riveting journey from a passionate left-handed college pitching prospect in Chicago to crashing and burning on a baseball road trip in Joplin, Missouri. After his actions shut the door on his dreams of being drafted, he found recovery, earned his master's degree in counseling, and unexpectedly found his way into the major leagues anyway—scouting international talent for the Atlanta Braves, Cincinnati Reds, and Chicago Cubs.Terry details what it was like maintaining a 12-step program while scouting in Colombia during the turbulent Pablo Escobar era, and how he eventually merged his two passions to help pro athletes struggling with addiction. Now serving as the Director of Strategic Alliances for Banyan Treatment Centers, Terry discusses Banyan's massive expansion to 19+ programs across 9 states, their mission to accept state Medicaid and HMOs, and why a long-term structured continuum of care is vital for true neurological healing.TIMESTAMPS[01:00:03] Approx. The mental game of baseball and family dynamics[01:01:06] Approx. Introducing industry legend Terry Shapiro in Boca Raton[01:02:05] Approx. The philosophy of "Say Yes to Life"[01:03:51] Approx. Left-handed pitching and altering the mind in college[01:05:04] Approx. Truth Bomb: The Joplin motel room crash that ended his draft dreams[01:06:50] Approx. From derailed prospect to Master’s degree in addiction studies[01:07:09] Approx. International scouting for the Atlanta Braves in South America[01:08:15] Approx. Scouting for the Chicago Cubs during Colombia's Pablo Escobar era[01:09:43] Approx. Bringing 12-step recovery frameworks to Spanish-speaking countries[01:12:40] Approx. Behind the scenes: Using baseball to connect with men in extended care[01:13:57] Approx. Pre-game panels at the Marlins Stadium for Recovery Awareness Day[01:16:02] Approx. The history and clinical purpose of anonymity in the fellowships[01:19:01] Approx. Deep diversity and the World Baseball Classic (WBC) phenomenon[01:21:03] Approx. How modern MLB teams utilize mental skills coaching departments[01:22:37] Approx. Protecting young athletes from online financial scams[01:23:42] Approx. Inside Banyan Treatment Centers: Expanding networks across 9 states[01:24:37] Approx. Breaking barriers: Accepting HMOs and state Medicaid for accessible care[01:26:07] Approx. Neurological healing: Why the brain needs a long continuum of care[01:28:41] Approx. Corporate leadership: Helping high-level executives return to the workforce[01:29:46] Approx. Archival history: A cherished autograph from Bill W.[01:32:34] Approx. Commending Dr. Harold Hall and the New Waters Recovery teamLINKS & RESOURCES* Banyan Treatment Centers: banyantreatmentcenters.com* Connected Organizations: Comprehensive Wellness, Pure Life Counseling, Resilience Recovery ResourcesCALL TO ACTIONIf you're inspired by Terry's incredible 42-year journey of recovery, make sure to hit that subscribe button, leave a comment celebrating his milestone, and share this video with a sports fan who needs to hear this message. Let's keep reducing the stigma together!HASHTAGS#FindingNewWaters #TerryShapiro #BanyanTreatment #SobrietyAnniversary #42YearsSober #MLBScouting #AddictionRecovery #SoberAthlete #ContinuumOfCare🎙️ Watch & ListenWebsite: www.findingnewwaters.comSpotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4NOV2g85KExFWU5mTz5GjwApple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/finding-new-waters/id1684075608YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCjfAIXtiOgy1XFcwAduXgXwYouTube Music: https://music.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLuJOc6yLcjibGGAKgLYPCN47etJCY89mn

"We have to turn deep personal desperation into long-term purpose."In this powerful episode of Finding New Waters, host B. Reeves and CEO Justin McClendon sit down with Glynis Franz, the inspiring Co-Founder of Peak Path Health and host of The Peak of Possibility podcast. Glynis opens up about her raw, deeply moving journey through teenage heroin addiction, juvenile detention, and serving time in federal prison. After overcoming massive legal obstacles and personal trauma, Glynis completely transformed her life. Today, she channels her experiences into providing elite clinical support for high-functioning professionals and executives at her premier residential facility in the Hollywood Hills. In this conversation, Glynis dives deep into the specific challenges women face regarding trauma and shame in recovery, why authentic fellowship must come before standard institutional approaches, and how to build a community that helps individuals rediscover their true purpose.TIMESTAMPS[00:00] Episode Teaser & Intro[03:15] Growing up fast: Teenage addiction and juvenile detention[12:40] Hit rock bottom: Facing federal prison and legal battles[22:10] The turning point: Finding clarity and a path to true recovery[31:45] Overcoming the specific layers of trauma and shame faced by women[42:15] Co-founding Peak Path Health: Bringing clinical excellence to the Hollywood Hills[53:10] Treating high-functioning professionals, executives, and public figures[01:05:30] Why grassroots fellowship beats a clinical-only institutional approach[01:14:20] Turning past desperation into a powerful lifelong purposeLINKS & RESOURCES* Peak Path Health: peakpathhealth.com* Glynis’s Podcast: The Peak of Possibility https://www.youtube.com/@UC3hd2l7YKPwLZIUCnonhbRA CALL TO ACTIONIf Glynis’s story of resilience inspired you, please hit that subscribe button, drop a comment below, and share this video with someone who needs to hear that it's never too late to rebuild. KEYWORDSglynis franz, b reeves, justin mcclendon, finding new waters, peak path health, the peak of possibility, hollywood hills rehab, executive burnout recovery, women in recovery, heroin addiction survival, federal prison to business owner, trauma and shame recovery, elite addiction treatment, high functioning alcoholic professionalHASHTAGS#FindingNewWaters #GlynisFranz #PeakPathHealth #WomenInRecovery #AddictionRecovery #TraumaHealing #FromPrisonToPurpose #ExecutiveWellness #SoberLife🎙️ Watch & ListenWebsite: www.findingnewwaters.comSpotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4NOV2g85KExFWU5mTz5GjwApple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/finding-new-waters/id1684075608YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCjfAIXtiOgy1XFcwAduXgXwYouTube Music: https://music.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLuJOc6yLcjibGGAKgLYPCN47etJCY89mn

What does it take to move from hitting rock bottom at a Big 10 university to saving lives as a certified clinical interventionist? In this episode of Finding New Waters, hosts B. Reeves and Justin McClendon sit down with licensed therapist and expert interventionist Andrew Rintels to explore the reality of addiction, the mechanics of a successful family intervention, and his own journey into long-term sobriety.Andrew unpacks the clinical philosophy of the "Love First" model, the critical role of family boundaries, and how true recovery requires more than just cleaning up in a short-term medical detox. Whether you are navigating a loved one's substance abuse or seeking to understand the deep connection between mental health and trauma, this conversation offers actionable insights and clinical wisdom.TIMESTAMPS[01:03:29] Approx. Introduction of Andrew Rintels[01:04:56] Approx. College Days and Red Solo Cup Memories[01:06:13] Approx. Academic Rock Bottom and Leaving Iowa[01:07:54] Approx. Fatherhood, Hitting a Wall, and the 28 Day Vacation[01:10:05] Approx. The Turning Point: Witnessing a Roommate Pass Away[01:11:36] Approx. Going Back to DePaul University at 34 Years Old[01:12:39] Approx. The Service Commitment and Shifting to Clinical Therapy[01:15:21] Approx. Why Medical Detox Alone Fails: The Maladaptive Solution[01:16:59] Approx. Shifting into Love First Intervention Training[01:19:51] Approx. How Love First Differs From the Reality TV Show[01:23:52] Approx. Mental Health Interventions vs. Substance Abuse Models[01:25:27] Approx. Redefining Success: Why Intervention Is a Process, Not an Event[01:28:32] Approx. The Levy Metaphor for Sustained Family Recovery[01:30:52] Approx. What True Leverage Looks Like (Financial, Emotional, Legal)[01:33:42] Approx. Guilt vs. Shame: Debunking Inherently Bad People[01:37:39] Approx. How to Find Andrew Rintels and AR InterventionLINKS & RESOURCE* AR Intervention Website: www.arintervention.com* AR Intervention Email: [email protected]* Jeff Jay and Deborah Jay Book: Love First* Author Mentioned: Brene Brown* Author Mentioned: Johann HariDONATION / SUPPORTNot mentioned in transcript.CALL TO ACTIONIf you found value in this clinical look at addiction and recovery, please subscribe to Finding New Waters, leave a comment with your thoughts, and share this episode with a family who needs to hear it.KEYWORDSAndrew Rintels, B Reeves, Justin McClendon, Finding New Waters, AR Intervention, Love First intervention, clinical interventionist, family intervention training, medical detox limitations, addiction recovery, substance abuse therapy, LCSW, licensed therapist Chicago, mental health intervention, family system boundaries, guilt vs shame, Johann Hari connection, Brene Brown shame, trauma and addiction, intervention process, addiction leverage, how to stage an intervention, New Waters Recovery#FindingNewWaters #AddictionRecovery #Intervention #LoveFirst #MentalHealthMatters #FamilyBoundaries #SobrietyJourney #TherapyTalk #LCSW #OvercomingAddiction🎙️ Watch & ListenWebsite: www.findingnewwaters.comSpotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4NOV2g85KExFWU5mTz5GjwApple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/finding-new-waters/id1684075608YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCjfAIXtiOgy1XFcwAduXgXwYouTube Music: https://music.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLuJOc6yLcjibGGAKgLYPCN47etJCY89mn

In this episode, host B. Reeves and CEO Justin McClendon sit down with John Griffin, the founder of Time for Sober Living in Raleigh. After decades of watching family members struggle with addiction and hitting a breaking point with constant enabling, John took matters into his own hands. He breaks down why traditional peer-led models often fail, the vital role of live-in house managers, and the strict boundaries required to keep a recovery house safe.If you are a family member trying to navigate the recovery space, or someone looking for a true step-down environment after treatment, John’s raw perspective on accountability is a must-watch.TIMESTAMPS[00:00] Welcome to Finding New Waters with John Griffin from Time for Sober Living[01:16] What does "sober living" actually mean? Structure vs. independence[04:29] The reality of Oxford Houses and why modern sober living had to pivot[06:34] Why the Live-In House Manager is the ultimate anchor for recovery[08:46] What inspired John Griffin: Family addiction, tragedy, and stopping the enabling[11:18] The brutal truth about treatment success rates and navigating the system[13:05] Hard conversations: Telling residents to stop talking and start acting[17:17] Removing the "cancer" from a house without causing a physical confrontation[21:49] Keeping the ship running: Why 5 good guys beat 9 knuckleheads[23:09] Being the best neighbor on the block and breaking the flophouse stereotype[28:38] Mental safety and the reality of keeping the house secure[30:04] Location details and capacity of the Raleigh houses[31:10] Ownership and obligation: "There is no shame in recovery"LINKS & RESOURCES* Time for Sober Living (Raleigh, NC): https://www.timeforsoberliving.com* Fellowship Hall (Greensboro, NC): https://www.fellowshiphall.com* Sauna House (Charlotte, NC): https://www.saunahouse.com* Oxford House: https://www.oxfordhouse.orgCALL TO ACTIONIf this conversation helped shed some light on what real recovery looks like, please subscribe to Finding New Waters, hit the like button, and drop a comment below. Let’s work together to eliminate the stigma.🎙️ Watch & ListenWebsite: www.findingnewwaters.comSpotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4NOV2g85KExFWU5mTz5GjwApple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/finding-new-waters/id1684075608YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCjfAIXtiOgy1XFcwAduXgXwYouTube Music: https://music.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLuJOc6yLcjibGGAKgLYPCN47etJCY89mn#FindingNewWaters #SoberLiving #AddictionRecovery #RecoveryCommunity #TimeForSoberLiving #RaleighNC #StepDownTreatment #RecoveryBoundaries #EndTheStigma #SobrietySupport

When a loved one is in an addiction crisis, the first thing most families do is search Google for help. In this hard-hitting clip from Finding New Waters, Josh Miller (Founder of Walk Again Restore) exposes the dark reality of online rehab marketing. He breaks down why the top search results rarely represent the best care, and how deep pockets beat clinical quality every single time.Don't let algorithms dictate a life-or-death decision. Learn how to look past the shiny websites and find specialized, honest programs that actually stay in their lane of integrity.NOTABLE QUOTES* "Stop looking at the internet. It's a bad place to find treatment."* "What's going to appear on Google has more to do with like the money that people have invested to rank in Google, not necessarily the best program."LINKS & RESOURCES* Primary Website: https://www.newwatersrecovery.com* Guest Link: Josh Miller - Founder of Walk Again Resources (website under construction) - https://www.linkedin.com/in/josh-miller-4b346a32/* Walk Again Resources Website: http://www.walkagainresources.comDONATION / SUPPORTNot mentioned in transcript.CALL TO ACTIONThe internet shouldn't be the gatekeeper to recovery. Subscribe to Finding New Waters for more raw truths about navigating the treatment landscape. Drop a comment below if you've encountered these shady marketing tactics.KEYWORDSaddiction treatment traps, finding a rehab on google, rehab marketing secrets, walk again resources, josh miller, b reeves, finding new waters, ethical addiction recovery, deceptive drug rehabs, how to choose a treatment center, long term rehab quality, google maps rehab scamHASHTAGS#FindingNewWater #AddictionRecovery #RehabTruth #StopScrolling #MentalHealthMatters #WalkAgain #Sobriety🎙️ Watch & ListenWebsite: www.findingnewwaters.comSpotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4NOV2g85KExFWU5mTz5GjwApple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/finding-new-waters/id1684075608YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCjfAIXtiOgy1XFcwAduXgXwYouTube Music: https://music.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLuJOc6yLcjibGGAKgLYPCN47etJCY89mn

In this episode of Finding New Waters, hosts B.Reeves and Justin McClendon sit down with Klay Weaver, CEO of LifeSkills. With nearly 40 years of experience in behavioral health, Klay shares insights on expanding access to care, bypassing organizational red tape during acute mental health crises, and the crucial differences between primary addiction and primary psychiatric treatment.Klay also dives deep into a massive national trend mental health professionals are witnessing: a significant uptick in cannabis-induced psychosis among young adults. He breaks down how modern-day marijuana interacts with underlying psychiatric vulnerabilities, its intersection with Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD), and why clinical reality paints a very different picture than public perception.TIMESTAMPS[01:00:03] - The Importance of Direct Access to Care in Behavioral Health[01:02:29] - LifeSkills Regional Footprint and Facilities in South Florida[01:04:01] - The Story and Metaphor Behind "Finding New Waters"[01:06:31] - From Teaching Philosophy to 40 Years in Group Homes and Care[01:11:46] - The Evolution of LifeSkills and Purchasing Eric Clapton's Sanctuary Homes[01:14:11] - Exposing the History of South Florida's Care Communities[01:24:08] - Overcoming Clinical Stigma and Red Tape for Acute Patient Admissions[01:28:52] - The Massive Uptick in Cannabis Induced Psychosis and Marijuana Misconceptions[01:31:03] - Treating Marijuana Abuse and Psychiatric Conditions on the Autism Spectrum[01:34:43] - The Chronic Sub-Acute, Residential, and Outpatient Models at LifeSkills[01:41:49] - Post-COVID Expansion of Mental Health Services NationwideNOTABLE QUOTES* "In our smaller private systems, interesting access to care is still a critical thing, but from a different angle, you get a very needing a lot of very fast moving work." - Klay Weaver* "The young adults in today's world think just because something's legal, that it's okay. Well, it may be legal, but medically it is not your friend." - Klay Weaver* "What we're seeing on the mental health side is an overabundance of individuals coming into our facilities with cannabis-induced psychosis." - Klay Weaver* "It triggers an underlying psychiatric issue, and then the individual can't pull themselves out of it. They become psychotic, paranoid, hallucinatory, and delusional." - Klay Weaver* "I like finding answers and not having discussions." - Klay Weaver* "When you say you're doing behavior against vulnerable people, like, you know, that just makes you bristle all over. That is the wrong population." - Klay WeaverLINKS & RESOURCES*Lifeskills South Florida Official Website: http://www.lifeskillssouthflorida.comDONATION / SUPPORTNot mentioned in transcript.CALL TO ACTIONIf you or a loved one are searching for new paths to recovery, remember to subscribe to Finding New Waters. Leave a comment below with your thoughts on today's episode, and like this video to help spread these critical mental health insights to those who need them most.#MentalHealth #BehavioralHealth #FindingNewWaters #NewWatersRecovery #LifeSkills #CannabisInducedPsychosis #PsychiatricCare #TraumaRecovery #SoberLiving #DelrayBeach #CrisisIntervention🎙️ Watch & ListenWebsite: www.findingnewwaters.comSpotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4NOV2g85KExFWU5mTz5GjwApple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/finding-new-waters/id1684075608YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCjfAIXtiOgy1XFcwAduXgXwYouTube Music: https://music.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLuJOc6yLcjibGGAKgLYPCN47etJCY89mn

What does a real behavioral health crisis look like, and how do families navigate the confusing road to recovery? In this episode of Finding New Waters, hosts B Reeves and Justin McClendon sit down with Henry Maxwell of Maxwell Recovery Services to discuss the reality of modern case management, the dangers of high-potency cannabis, and why the old narrative of confrontational interventions needs to change.Henry shares his personal journey from surviving severe adolescent heroin addiction to founding a concierge crisis management and long-term case management firm in Carbondale, Colorado. The conversation dives deep into the rising acuity of mental health issues, dealing with family dynamics, and the critical importance of long-term support systems.TIMESTAMPS[01:00:00] Finding New Waters Welcome and Guest Introduction[01:00:57] What is Concierge Crisis Management and Long-Term Case Management?[01:01:34] Defining a Crisis: Suicidal, Homicidal, and Acute Substance Risks[01:03:43] Reality Testing: How to Slow Down a Dysregulated Family System[01:05:20] Debunking the Television Myth of "Intervention"[01:07:43] Reframing "Tough Love" vs. Structured Family Conversations[01:09:24] Why Families Know What to Do But Can't Do It Without Support[01:11:46] The Primary Role: "Being the calmest person in the room."[01:12:39] Cultivating Resiliency and Navigating a Fragmented Healthcare System[01:14:53] Henry Maxwell's Story: Severe Adolescent Heroin Addiction to Recovery[01:16:05] Getting Started in Community Mental Health and Detox Centers[01:20:07] Navigating Complex Dynamics and Divorced Parents in a Crisis[01:22:12] The Changing Drug Landscape: Fentanyl vs. the Rise of Cannabis Calls[01:24:38] The Evolution of Modern Cannabis: Potency Increases and Parental Blindspots[01:27:23] Vapes, Gummies, and Continuous Ingestion Hazards[01:28:33] Understanding Cannabis Induced Hyperemesis and Cyclical Vomiting[01:29:26] How to Connect with Maxwell Recovery Services[01:31:40] Closing Remarks and Future CollaborationNOTABLE QUOTES* "Essentially we, we support families in going from the initial crisis stage of, you know, a behavioral health issue to thriving at the end of that." - Henry Maxwell* "When families in particular are, are really dysregulated, they're, they're having a very hard time... I consider that crisis too" - Henry Maxwell* "When we're showing up, when we're offering support and we're also saying, we are not going to continue to support you harming yourself. That's not tough. That's just love." - Henry Maxwell* "I think a lot of people know what to do. They just can't do it. Right. And that speaks to, I think, the nature of relationship and support" - Henry Maxwell* "Relationship is the name of the game. Right." - Henry Maxwell* "Cannabis potency on average has gone up something like 400% over the last 20 years. And it is a different, a different game these days." - Henry MaxwellLINKS & RESOURCES* Maxwell Recovery Services Website: https://maxwellrecoveryservices.com🎙️ Watch & ListenWebsite: www.findingnewwaters.comSpotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4NOV2g85KExFWU5mTz5GjwApple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/finding-new-waters/id1684075608YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCjfAIXtiOgy1XFcwAduXgXwYouTube Music: https://music.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLuJOc6yLcjibGGAKgLYPCN47etJCY89mnCALL TO ACTIONIf you or a loved one are walking through a behavioral health crisis, don't navigate it alone. Subscribe to Finding New Waters for more insights from recovery experts, like this video, and share your thoughts in the comments below.#FindingNewWaters #AddictionRecovery #MentalHealthCrisis #Intervention #CaseManagement #CannabisAwareness #ToughLove #RecoveryJourney #SubstanceUseDisorder #BehavioralHealth #HealingFamilies

On this episode of Finding New Waters, hosts B Reeves and Justin McClendon sit down with legendary singer-songwriter Edwin McCain. Best known for his massive hits "I'll Be" and "I Could Not Ask For More," Edwin opens up about a side of his life rarely seen in the spotlight.From his early days in Greenville, South Carolina, and his adoption journey, to the high-stakes pressure of the music industry and his personal path through recovery, Edwin shares a raw and honest look at what happens when the music stops. He discusses the intersection of ADHD and addiction, the "protocol" of 1970s adoption, and why he feels he is simply "paying the wage" to his 15-year-old self.**Chapter Timestamps**00:00 - Intro: Welcome Edwin McCain01:02 - The "Orphanage Protocol" and adoption story01:03 - Growing up with ADHD and dyslexia in the South01:06 - Finding an aptitude for music01:10 - Living the 15-year-old dream01:13 - The "Sellout" trap in the jam band scene01:16 - Life on tour with Bob Weir01:20 - The ADHD treatment paradox and early substance use01:22 - Why the music industry won't "clean you up"01:24 - The crossroads: No one is coming to save you01:26 - "Welcome to the club": Finding community in treatment01:35 - Reclaiming "Analog Peace" in a digital world01:54 - Hopes for the next generation and closing thoughts#EdwinMcCain #FindingNewWaters #Recovery #MusicIndustry #AddictionRecovery #ADHD #MentalHealth #IllBe #Podcast #HealingJourney🎙️ Watch & ListenWebsite: www.findingnewwaters.comSpotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4NOV2g85KExFWU5mTz5GjwApple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/finding-new-waters/id1684075608YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCjfAIXtiOgy1XFcwAduXgXwYouTube Music: https://music.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLuJOc6yLcjibGGAKgLYPCN47etJCY89mn

In this episode of Finding New Waters, B Reeves and Justin McClendon sit down with Evan Jarschauer, a licensed psychotherapist and mental health intervention specialist with nearly two decades of experience helping families navigate crisis, treatment, and recovery.Evan explains what makes mental health interventions different from traditional substance use interventions, why gambling and online gaming are becoming more difficult to detect, how families can take action when a loved one refuses help, and why intervention work must be done with compassion, dignity, love, and a firm backbone.TIMESTAMPS[00:00:00] Welcome to Finding New Waters with Evan Jarschauer[00:01:18] What mental health interventions actually are[00:02:38] Helping families when the message is not being received[00:03:59] Evan’s background as a licensed psychotherapist[00:05:08] What a gambling intervention can look like[00:06:21] Why online gambling is making addiction harder to see[00:07:36] “I’m not drinking. I’m not drugging”[00:08:28] Why Evan says his world has exploded with mental health, gaming, and gambling cases[00:09:34] Why interventionists should connect with casino management first[00:11:50] Why there is no cookie cutter answer for gambling treatment[00:12:53] Gathering collateral information before an intervention[00:14:25] Timing a gambling intervention[00:15:47] Why the family’s readiness matters[00:16:10] Comparing crisis response to any other serious disease[00:17:14] Respectful, dignified, supportive, loving, firm intervention[00:17:38] Evan’s television work and public awareness[00:18:31] Demystifying what interventions look like[00:19:42] Standing in front of the Kardashians house in Calabasas[00:20:56] “If you can just touch one family”[00:21:39] Mental health struggles can be hidden in plain sight[00:23:31] Treating every family like they matter deeply[00:25:24] Reducing stigma and helping people access care[00:25:50] How to find Evan Jarschauer[00:26:31] Closing thoughtsLINKS & RESOURCESBehavioral Help: https://www.behavioralhelp.comNew Waters Recovery: https://newwatersrecovery.comCALL TO ACTIONIf this conversation helped you better understand mental health interventions, gambling addiction, family crisis, or how to support someone who refuses help, subscribe to Finding New Waters for more honest conversations about recovery, mental health, treatment, and hope.Like this episode, leave a comment with what stood out to you, and share it with a family who may need to hear it.#FindingNewWaters#NewWatersRecovery#MentalHealth#MentalHealthIntervention#AddictionRecovery#GamblingAddiction#OnlineGambling#FamilySupport#BehavioralHealth#RecoveryPodcast#DualDiagnosis#CrisisIntervention#MentalHealthAwareness#TreatmentWorks#ReduceTheStigma🎙️ Watch & ListenWebsite: www.findingnewwaters.comSpotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4NOV2g85KExFWU5mTz5GjwApple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/finding-new-waters/id1684075608YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCjfAIXtiOgy1XFcwAduXgXwYouTube Music: https://music.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLuJOc6yLcjibGGAKgLYPCN47etJCY89mn

Nick Slovak, the Chief Operating Officer of Advaita Health, joins the Finding New Waters podcast to discuss the critical evolution of behavioral health care. He shares his personal journey of finding sobriety at age 21 and how that experience shaped his mission to create more accessible treatment systems in North Carolina.The conversation explores the transition from high-end private pay models to an integrated, insurance-based system of care that addresses the crisis of psychiatry wait times. Justin and Nick dive into the importance of supporting healthcare providers and why building a genuine community remains the most vital component of long-term recovery.TIMESTAMPS[00:00:00] Introduction to Nick Slovak and Advaita Health[00:02:10] Nick Slovak's personal recovery story[00:05:07] Moving from private pay to insurance models[00:07:36] The feedback that changed their business model[00:08:55] Scaling care and working with insurance payers[00:13:26] Defining the integrated model of care[00:15:28] Solving the crisis of psychiatry wait times[00:16:48] The courage required to ask for help[00:20:02] Prioritizing provider support and staff wellbeing[00:23:16] Why community is central to the recovery process[00:27:18] Emotional health as a lifelong journey[00:29:18] How to contact Veda Health and Advaita HealthNOTABLE QUOTES* "I got sober when I was 21 years old."* "The gene of addiction, I think runs, fairly deep."* "You just run a very expensive sober living."* "It remains accessible to get the help that you need."* "Access, um, is really an important piece."* "Community is central."LINKS & RESOURCES* Primary Website: newwatersrecovery.com* Advaita Health: vedahealth.com* Aim Wellbeing: aimwellbeing.com* Green Hill Recovery: greenhillrecovery.comDONATION / SUPPORTNot mentioned in transcript.CALL TO ACTIONSubscribe to the Finding New Waters podcast for more episodes on recovery and mental health. Please like this video and comment below to let us know your thoughts on the integrated model of care.KEYWORDSAdvaita Health, Nick Slovak, Justin McClendon, Finding New Waters, addiction recovery, mental health North Carolina, behavioral health, psychiatry wait times, insurance based treatment, Raleigh recovery, substance use, integrated care, recovery journey, sobriety, mental health stigma, healthcare operations, Veda Health, Aim Wellbeing, Green Hill Recovery, substance use provider, PHP, IOP, outpatient care, medication management, provider burnout, healthcare culture, behavioral health home, adolescent mental health, young adult recovery, North Carolina healthcare.HASHTAGS#NickSlovak #AdvaitaHealth #FindingNewWaters #Recovery #MentalHealth #Sobriety #NorthCarolina #BehavioralHealth #AddictionRecovery #HealthcareReform #Psychiatry #MentalHealthAwareness```🎙️ Watch & ListenWebsite: www.findingnewwaters.comSpotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4NOV2g85KExFWU5mTz5GjwApple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/finding-new-waters/id1684075608YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCjfAIXtiOgy1XFcwAduXgXwYouTube Music: https://music.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLuJOc6yLcjibGGAKgLYPCN47etJCY89mn

"I help people find freedom in their system by getting out of freeze." Brooke Powers joins Finding New Waters to discuss somatic coaching and nervous system regulation.In this episode, we explore how your body stores trauma and why "our state of our nervous system tells our story." Brooke explains her four part framework: Acclimate, Incorporate, Rediscover, and Embody to help clients shift into a connected, regulated state.TIMESTAMPS[01:00:09] Introduction to Brooke Powers and Wellness Assist[01:00:47] What is a somatic coach?[01:01:41] The four part somatic framework[01:02:00] Understanding the "freeze" state: activation and shutdown[01:03:34] How to do the "Huberman breath" for regulation[01:05:22] Why we pick up our caregiver's nervous system state[01:06:46] Scanning the world for danger: hypervigilance[01:07:27] Finding moments of safety as anchors[01:08:46] Post traumatic growth and health scares[01:09:54] Explaining the Ventral Ladder and Polyvagal Theory[01:11:38] Dissociation: being a "fly on the corner" of your life[01:13:14] Ice baths: getting back into your body[01:15:19] Using infrared saunas and vibration plates to build resilience[01:18:32] PTSD and how the body stores trauma[01:21:02] Re parenting the younger self through "parts work"[01:23:06] Is trauma the real gateway drug?[01:26:34] Why we should teach kids regulating resources[01:28:20] The link between dehydration, sleep, and anxiety[01:31:46] Logistics: How to find and work with Brooke PowersLINKS & RESOURCESPrimary Website: newwatersrecovery.comBrooke Powers Website: somaticcoachingnc.comWellness AssistInstagram: @be_your_oasisBook: "The Body Keeps the Score" by Bessel van der KolkTheory: Polyvagal Theory by Deb DanaResource: Tim Fletcher YouTube ChannelLocation Mentioned: Grove Park Inn, Asheville.CALL TO ACTIONSubscribe to Finding New Waters for more insights into recovery and wellness. Like this video if it helped you understand your nervous system better and comment below with your favorite regulating resource.#SomaticCoaching #NervousSystem #TraumaRecovery #TheBodyKeepsTheScore #PolyvagalTheory #VentralLadder #PostTraumaticGrowth #IceBaths #MentalHealth #AnxietyRelief #HealingTrauma #Wellness🎙️ Watch & ListenWebsite: www.findingnewwaters.comSpotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4NOV2g85KExFWU5mTz5GjwApple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/finding-new-waters/id1684075608YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCjfAIXtiOgy1XFcwAduXgXwYouTube Music: https://music.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLuJOc6yLcjibGGAKgLYPCN47etJCY89mn

In this episode of Finding New Waters, B Reeves sits down with Dr. Yesenia Almaguer and Andrew Ditts, the husband and wife founders of SOHL.Dr. Almaguer explains SOHL as “the mental health SWAT team,” built to support worried families who are in crisis and do not know where to start. They break down what SOHL actually does, including interventions, case management, and coaching, and why there is no “cookie cutter approach” when the situation involves multiple layers like addiction, trauma, and personality disorders.Andrew shares why having a psychiatrist who is also an interventionist changes everything in complex cases, from recognizing the difference between “manic” and emotional dysregulation, to identifying signs that could suggest a thought disorder. Dr. Almaguer also shares why her experience working in a mobile crisis unit in the Bronx prepared her for in-home crisis work, and why SOHL is focused on ethics, training, and working themselves out of a job.CHAPTERS[01:00:14] Welcome back, introductions, Dr. Yesenia Almaguer and Andrew Ditts[01:01:01] “mental health SWAT team” and what SOHL is[01:02:30] Andrew defines SOHL: complex in-home crisis cases, building and removing the team[01:04:48] What an intervention is, and why it is a process[01:06:14] Why a typical sit-down model can fail in complex mental health cases[01:08:42] Why having an MD involved in interventions matters[01:10:10] Why going into the home changes what you can assess[01:11:26] Black Swan training and Harvard negotiation training[01:12:50] Andrew on “manic,” assessment, and why medical training changes the questions[01:16:00] Example: details that can point to a thought disorder presentation[01:18:10] Dr. Almaguer New York case example: asking the right questions to build trust[01:20:05] B Reeves on “mania” being thrown around and why it matters[01:23:12] Andrew’s path: USC acting conservatory, addiction, and 12 Step in Los Angeles[01:26:35] Program junkie, early industry “wild wild west,” and why case management matters[01:32:02] Dr. Almaguer background: Mexico, Miami, Bronx residency, Dallas fellowship[01:34:40] Why they started SOHL and changing the culture for clients and companions[01:36:36] Why it is spelled SOHL, “human connection to heal the soul”[01:37:30] Andrew on connection, attachment, and why relationships drive change[01:40:37] How to find SOHL, monthly trainings, Companion Circle, supervision group[01:42:22] Contact emails and closingGUEST AND ORGANIZATION LINKSSOHL Websitehttps://www.thesohl.comCustomized Care for Substance Use Disorder & Mental Illness | SOHLhttps://www.instagram.com/thesohl?igsh=MWlzY2t5bDh1cXFyaw==https://www.facebook.com/share/1KqcSVjCqZ/?mibextid=wwXIfrhttps://www.linkedin.com/in/sohl-enterprises-a40873211?utm_source=share_via&utm_content=profile&utm_medium=member_iosSOHL LinkedInSoul Enterprises IncorporatedSOHL Instagram@thesohlSOHL [email protected]@thesohl.comJump to:[01:01:01] What SOHL is[01:04:48] What an intervention really is[01:12:50] Why having a psychiatrist in the full process changes outcomes[01:36:36] Why it is spelled SOHLWebsite: https://thesohl.com/Instagram: @thesohlInstagram Business - thesohlLinkedIn Business - SOHL Enterprises Andrew's Personal LinkedIn - Andrew Dits Dr. Almaguer's Personal LinkedIn - Yesenia Almaguer, M.D. Watch & ListenWebsite: www.findingnewwaters.comSpotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4NOV2g85KExFWU5mTz5GjwApple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/finding-new-waters/id1684075608YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCjfAIXtiOgy1XFcwAduXgXwYouTube Music: https://music.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLuJOc6yLcjibGGAKgLYPCN47etJCY89mn#FindingNewWatersPodcast #NewWatersRecovery #MentalHealth #Intervention #CaseManagement #Coaching #DualDiagnosis #AddictionRecovery #CrisisIntervention #FamilySystems #Psychiatry #TraumaInformed #BorderlinePersonalityDisorder #EthicsInCare #SOHL

In this episode of Finding New Waters, B Reeves and CEO Justin McClendon sit down with Jesse Quam, an educational consultant and therapist based in Black Mountain, North Carolina.Jesse shares how a friend’s wilderness job in Utah “changed my life,” what it actually means when people say “wilderness,” and why getting outside and away from technology can reset the nervous system and the family system. He breaks down how therapeutic wilderness evolved from early programs like BYU 480, why outcome data matters, and what he believes will bring wilderness back in a big way as phone use and modern distractions keep climbing.Jesse also pulls the curtain back on what a therapeutic educational consultant does: how the first call works, why the whole family has to join the process, and how he helps families make the right “chess moves” across a full year of treatment and aftercare.Subscribe for more recovery conversations from Finding New Waters.Like the video, leave a comment with your biggest takeaway, and share this episode with someone who needs hope.CHAPTERS[01:00:35] Introductions: B Reeves, Justin McClendon, Jesse Quam[01:01:57] Jesse’s background: pastor’s kid, Chicago, Utah wilderness, Boston College[01:03:35] Educational consulting: visiting 305 programs, supporting families through the year[01:04:48] What “wilderness” actually means in this field[01:05:40] BYU 480 and the roots of wilderness programs[01:06:31] Safety, outcomes, and what the data says[01:07:49] Why wilderness programs declined and why they may come back[01:10:47] Phones, modern life, and why a detox matters[01:17:35] What Jesse does when a family calls: first call process[01:19:40] Family system buy-in, boundaries, and using leverage when needed[01:22:54] What changed over 30 years: internal kids, isolation, social skills, fentanyl risk[01:27:02] Community connection and longevity[01:30:30] Outward Bound influence and experiential learning[01:34:46] Jimmy and Rosalynn Carter Outward Bound story[01:35:35] Wrap-up and closingGUEST AND ORGANIZATION LINKSJesse Quam and Dr. John Huie (Quam & Huie: Educational Consultants)http://johnhuie.com/about-us/RESOURCES MENTIONEDOutward Boundhttps://www.outwardbound.org/NOLShttps://www.nols.edu/Montreat Collegehttps://www.montreat.edu/Boston College School of Social Workhttps://www.bc.edu/bc-web/schools/ssw.htmlThe Carter Centerhttps://www.cartercenter.org/🎙️ Watch & ListenWebsite: www.findingnewwaters.comSpotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4NOV2g85KExFWU5mTz5GjwApple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/finding-new-waters/id1684075608YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCjfAIXtiOgy1XFcwAduXgXwYouTube Music: https://music.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLuJOc6yLcjibGGAKgLYPCN47etJCY89mn#FindingNewWatersPodcast #NewWatersRecovery #Recovery #AddictionRecovery #WildernessTherapy #TherapeuticWilderness #OutdoorTherapy #FamilySystems #TeenRecovery #YoungAdultRecovery #MentalHealth #DigitalDetox #PhoneAddiction #ExperientialTherapy #OutwardBound

In this episode of Finding New Waters, B Reeves sits down with Dr. Kate Truitt, clinical psychologist and neuroscientist, for a conversation that moves from survival to real tools. Dr. Kate shares what it was like to be hit by a drunk driver, the identity shift of “self” coming back online, and why even experts struggle to use their own tools at first.They break down trauma through a brain-based lens: safety, belonging, and agency. You’ll also hear the clearest explanation of grief as a learning process, what “traumatic grief” looks like, and why forgiveness is not a mandate. Dr. Kate also teaches a simple “moving hug” mindful touch practice and explains why “we can’t think our way through” the parts of the brain that hold trauma.CHAPTERS / TIMESTAMPS[01:00:00] Welcome and introduction[01:01:05] Hit by a drunk driver: broken neck, brain injury, crushed spine[01:02:32] “Not so well at the beginning”: the pressure of being an expert[01:03:56] Writing a book during recovery: burnout + self-compassion[01:05:16] Milwaukee → Kansas City → Los Angeles: the road to her work[01:05:22] Scholarship and a modeling contract[01:05:31] Modeling, anorexia, and the pivot into academia[01:07:17] Burnout in helping professions and boundaries[01:09:09] The Brain Partnership Toolbox: why she wrote it[01:10:17] Self-compassion: “It’s a skill. It’s not innate.”[01:13:13] Goldie Hawn’s MindUP and trauma-informed work in schools[01:16:35] Mindful touch: “moving hug” and C-tactile fibers[01:18:28] “We can’t think our way through it.”[01:20:02] Trauma and grief: what she focuses on[01:21:06] Big T vs small T trauma: why she takes it off the table[01:22:09] The amygdala’s three core values: safe, belong, agency[01:23:16] Trauma as threat + survival encoding[01:25:40] Her clinic model: specialists + neurobiology training[01:26:20] “Shame goes down, opportunity goes up.”[01:27:44] Grief as learning: what the brain has to update[01:28:42] Traumatic grief: when grief gets paralyzed[01:29:39] Substances and pain: “turn the volume down”[01:31:08] One person can change the trajectory[01:32:22] Widowed before her wedding: trauma vulnerability[01:33:25] Forgiveness after trauma: where to start[01:34:20] “Forgiveness is not a mandate.”[01:36:41] When forgiveness becomes toxic and boundaries get blurry[01:39:06] Finding help as a trainer: dual relationships and privacy[01:44:18] Patterns, burnout, and getting curious about the sprint[01:44:51] How to find Dr. Kate Truitt + free resourcesNOTABLE QUOTES“almost a year ago to the day… I was hit by a drunk driver… broke my neck, brain injury, crushed my spine.”“The, there's a little tidbit about self-compassion is that it's a skill. It's not innate.”“our thinking brain is a pretty new to the game… We can't think our way through it. Just can't.”“And those values are first and foremost, am I safe?”“Forgiveness is not so it's not a, it's not a mandate. It's not a requirement.”LINKS & RESOURCES MENTIONEDDr. Kate Truitt website: https://www.drkatetruitt.com/Free resources page: https://www.drkatetruitt.com/freeresourcesDr. Kate Truitt YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/DrKateTruittMindUP (Goldie Hawn Foundation): https://www.mindup.org/The Brain Partnership Toolbox (Amazon): https://www.amazon.com/Partnership-Toolbox-Addiction-Mental-Professionals/dp/B0FYNNKH4C🎙️ Watch & ListenWebsite: www.findingnewwaters.comSpotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4NOV2g85KExFWU5mTz5GjwApple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/finding-new-waters/id1684075608YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCjfAIXtiOgy1XFcwAduXgXwYouTube Music: https://music.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLuJOc6yLcjibGGAKgLYPCN47etJCY89mn

In this episode of Finding New Waters, B Reeves and Justin McClendon sit down with Bogie Bowles, Clinical Director at Ascend Recovery in Utah, with deep North Carolina connections and a story rooted in early sobriety.Bogie shares what it was like getting sober at 18 as a freshman at Carolina, navigating recovery while still living a musician’s life, and building a career in the field. The conversation also gets real about what has changed in treatment and culture since the 90s.They take a hard look at today’s high-potency THC landscape, the false sense of safety around “it’s just weed,” and the unregulated Delta and THCA products that are showing up everywhere. If you have a teen, work in the field, or have ever minimized cannabis because of what it used to be, this episode will shift your perspective.Subscribe for more recovery conversations from Finding New Waters.Like the video, leave a comment with your biggest takeaway, and share this episode with someone who needs hope.Timestamps[01:00:00] Welcome back + Bogie Bowles intro (Ascend Recovery, Utah)[01:01:00] North Carolina connections + music background (Knockdown Smilin)[01:02:26] Getting sober at 18 as a freshman at Carolina[01:11:12] “One and done from treatment” and trying to stop but not being able to stop[01:11:44] Treatment then vs now (two-week model, 35 years ago)[01:22:01] Music, recovery, and professional life now[01:24:16] Staying close to recovery while traveling as a musician[01:31:42] How “weed” changed from the 90s to now[01:33:47] Delta / THCA products and the unregulated chemical problem[01:34:26] The “blueberry muffin” analogy and what families are missing[01:37:32] Reefer madness, cultural backlash, and why the warning signs got ignored[01:38:41] “Desperate Lives” and the scary stuff that is not a joke anymore[01:39:03] Wrap-up + how to find Ascend RecoveryBogie Bowles, LCSWClinical DirectorBogie graduated in 2015 from the University of North Carolina with a Masters of Social Work. A former professional musician, Bogie expanded his perspective of the connection between mental health and addiction while working at the psychiatric unit at Duke Hospital. Following his time at Duke, he then worked with a large addiction treatment facility using his unique musical background to co-create a program specifically designed to treat music industry professionals. Bogie is the newest on our team and is seeking to further his experience in treating co-occurring disorders, and to continue pursuing his passion for music and service. Additionally, he co-wrote a curriculum for an Extended Care Program focusing on the challenges of recovery in everyday life. Bogie has been with Ascend since 2018.Bogie entered his own recovery from addiction at the age of eighteen. He has toured and recorded with various artist for over twenty years. In his personal life, he continues to play and record music, enjoys being in nature, engages in the recovery community, and practices meditation.Guest and Organization LinksAscend Recovery: https://ascendrecovery.com/Ascend Recovery Team: https://ascendrecovery.com/inpatient-drug-rehab-staff/Ascend Recovery Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ascendrecovery/🎙️ Watch & ListenWebsite: www.findingnewwaters.comSpotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4NOV2g85KExFWU5mTz5GjwApple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/finding-new-waters/id1684075608YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCjfAIXtiOgy1XFcwAduXgXwYouTube Music: https://music.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLuJOc6yLcjibGGAKgLYPCN47etJCY89mn

In this episode of Finding New Waters, B Reeves and Justin McLendon sit down with Rick Hubbard in Fort Worth with Constellation Behavioral Health.Rick shares how he went from retail banking to finding himself in a treatment center in West Texas, losing “everything that was dear to me,” and then being asked to come work for the very place that helped him. He talks about what he has done since 2002, connecting professionals, families, and individuals to the help they need, often referring people to services outside of the company he represents.This conversation goes deep on purpose, service, and availability in the recovery field. Rick explains why he answers the phone when it rings, why “the disease of addiction does not take PTO,” and how the 12 step process is about learning “just trying to be a better human.” He also shares a powerful personal story about discovering he has a son later in life, and how that discovery changed everything.Timestamps[01:25:43] Welcome back + introductions (B Reeves, Justin McLendon, Rick Hubbard)[01:26:35] Rick’s background: retail banking, starting in 1976[01:27:06] Late 90s detour: treatment center in West Texas[01:27:16] “I had lost everything that was dear to me”[01:27:57] Starting the work in 2002: connecting people to help[01:30:13] Perspective at 71, recovery, and living differently[01:33:16] “This is the best life I’ve ever lived” and the 12 step process[01:36:56] Why Rick answers the phone: “the disease… does not take PTO”[01:40:43] “It’s the work that we’ve been chosen to do”[01:43:19] Discovering he has a son later in life[01:49:31] Meeting Kirk Franklin and the story going public[01:51:58] 23andMe and Ancestry revealing family connections[01:54:58] Rick’s professional timeline: West Texas, Florida, Origins, Hanley, Constellation[01:59:29] Constellation transition and rebrand under Sero Mental Health[02:01:38] How to contact Rick (phone + email)#FindingNewWatersPodcast #Recovery #AddictionRecovery #Sobriety #TwelveStep #12Step #Treatment #MentalHealth #RecoveryCommunity #ServiceWork #CrisisSupport #FamilyReunion #KirkFranklin #ConstellationBehavioralHealth #SeroMentalHealth🎙️ Watch & ListenWebsite: www.findingnewwaters.comSpotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4NOV2g85KExFWU5mTz5GjwApple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/finding-new-waters/id1684075608YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCjfAIXtiOgy1XFcwAduXgXwYouTube Music: https://music.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLuJOc6yLcjibGGAKgLYPCN47etJCY89mn

In this episode of Finding New Waters, B Reeves and Justin McLendon sit down with Matt Nannis, founder and executive director of PIVOTPoint WNCn Asheville.Matt opens up about feeling like an “outsider” and dealing with “imposter syndrome,” and he shares why he started Pivot Point after moving into a sober home in Asheville in 2013. He talks candidly about the guilt and shame he carried in that season, and why Sundays on the trail became the one time he didn’t feel “failure, shameful, degenerate.”You’ll also hear how PIVOTPoint WNC supports adolescents through extended Saturday programming and school partnerships, including how referrals work, why the approach is non-coercive, and what it looks like to build individualized plans that get “to that thing under the thing, under the thing.” Matt breaks down how the organization stays adaptable, how they expand intentionally, and why small habits and discipline can change how we show up in everyday life.Subscribe for more recovery conversations from Finding New Waters. Like the video, leave a comment with your biggest takeaway, and share this episode with someone who needs hope.Timestamps[01:16:59] Welcome back + hosts intro + Matt Nannis introduction (PIVOTPoint WNC)[01:17:59] How B Reeves and Matt first met[01:18:19] Expanding Recovery for Young People conference (Hendersonville)[01:19:11] “Imposter syndrome,” “outsider,” and why Pivot Point started (Asheville 2013)[01:19:35] “Man, I hated it” + guilt and shame in the halfway house[01:20:31] Sunday hikes and not feeling “failure, shameful, degenerate”[01:35:42] Pivot Point model: Saturday program, afterschool program, referrals, non-coercive approach[01:46:45] Where the name “Pivot Point” came from (opportunity and willingness)[01:50:10] Serving families outside Buncombe County + adaptability + school partnerships[01:58:06] Small habits and self-talk: “make your bed,” “brush your teeth”[01:59:17] How to find PIVOTPoint WNC (website + contact info)Guest and Organization LinksPivot Point WNC: https://pivotpointwnc.org/Pivot Point WNC Team (Matt): https://pivotpointwnc.org/the-team/Finding New Waters / New Waters RecoveryNew Waters Recovery: https://newwatersrecovery.com/Finding New Waters: https://www.findingnewwaters.com/#FindingNewWatersPodcast #MattNannis #PivotPointWNC #Recovery #AddictionRecovery #Sobriety #SoberLiving #EarlyRecovery #OutdoorTherapy #TherapeuticAdventure #AshevilleNC #RecoveryCommunity #MentalHealth #Discipline #ShameToHope

Most people know AA. Almost nobody knows the real story of NA. From arrests and raids to meetings on the Staten Island ferry, this episode traces how the NA message survived and spread worldwide. Chris Budnick (Healing Transitions) and Boyd Pickard walk through the chronology and history of Narcotics Anonymous, including early roots connected to the US Public Health Hospital in Lexington, Kentucky (the “narcotic farm”), and the evolution from Addicts Anonymous into Narcotics Anonymous. You will hear how early members faced stigma and real pressure from authorities, why the wording of Step One became a defining innovation, and how the fellowship grew into a global force, including the surprising reality that “one third of all weekly Narcotics Anonymous meetings in the world occur in Iran.” Subscribe for more recovery conversations from Finding New Waters.Like the video, leave a comment with your biggest takeaway, and share this episode with someone who needs hope.TIMESTAMPS (copy/paste)[01:05:53] Introductions and opening[01:06:10] Healing Transitions tough stretch and honoring Byron [01:10:14] Why people know AA but not NA [01:10:52] Boyd’s curiosity about NA roots [01:12:02] Chris’s background and recovery path [01:13:33] Slaying the Dragon and the page and a half on NA history [01:15:02] Narcotic farm and the Lexington story [01:16:33] If you know your history why this matters [01:18:28] Stigma segregation and threats in the early era [01:18:48] Arrests and Staten Island ferry meetings [01:19:51] When did NA officially start [01:21:40] Preserving the Message and why archives matter [01:22:37] Harrison Act and addiction trajectory [01:24:33] Dr Tom Shelby and early AA influence in NC [01:29:52] February 1947 Addicts Anonymous begins [01:32:11] Houston at long last I learned to hope [01:34:14] Danny Carlson coins Narcotics Anonymous [01:34:36] Women’s House of Detention Salvation Army early locations [01:41:52] Danny’s death and stability [01:46:09] Was Bill W helpful to NA [01:48:33] Step One shift changed everything [01:51:01] Total abstinence and modern NA challenges [01:55:03] Nobody believed that addicts could recover [01:59:51] AA vs NA explained [02:03:01] Iran and global NA growth [02:03:19] Recommended resources [02:06:13] Wrap-up and closing GUEST LINKS Chris Budnick (Healing Transitions bio)https://healing-transitions.org/about/leadership/chris-budnick-executive-director/ Healing Transitions (official website)https://healing-transitions.org/ Healing Transitions (mission/about)https://healing-transitions.org/about/ Healing Transitions (services)https://healing-transitions.org/recovery-services/ Boyd Pickard (Preserving the Message bio)https://preservingthemessage.org/about/boyd-pickard/ Preserving the Message (official site)https://preservingthemessage.org/ Healing Transitions (donate page, if you want to include it)https://healing-transitions.org/donate/ FOLLOW NEW WATERS RECOVERYInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/newwatersrecoveryFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/newwatersrecoveryLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/new-waters-recoveryTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@newwatersrecovery_nc⸻WATCH AND LISTENPodcast Website: https://www.findingnewwaters.comSpotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4NOV2g85KExFWU5mTz5GjwApple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/finding-new-waters/id1684075608YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCjfAIXtiOgy1XFcwAduXgXwYouTube Music: https://music.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLuJOc6yLcjibGGAKgLYPCN47etJCY89mn

In this episode of Finding New Waters, B. Reeves and New Waters Recovery CEO Justin McClendon sit down with Ronan O’Loughlin, founder and owner of Peace and Purpose Sober Living in Asheville, North Carolina, for a deeply honest conversation about recovery, humility, fear, and the spiritual foundation of long-term sobriety.Ronan shares his personal journey through addiction, immigration, bartending, and eventual recovery, including his path into opening a sober living rooted firmly in 12-step principles. With candor, humor, and wisdom, he reflects on desperation, ego, fear, and what it truly means to live with peace and purpose.This episode explores:Ronan’s recovery journey and early sobrietyAddiction, desperation, and the gift of not wanting to useBartending, ego, and identity in active addictionWhy Peace and Purpose Sober Living was createdThe role of legacy, loss, and service in recovery workFear as the root of anger and ego-based thinkingInfantile expectations and the bondage of selfWhy 12-step foundations still matterHumility, vocation, and doing recovery work for the right reasonsThis is a grounded, reflective conversation about what sustains recovery over time and why authenticity, humility, and spiritual growth remain at the core of lasting change.YOUTUBE TIMESTAMPS00:00 Welcome to Finding New Waters01:00 Introducing Ronan O’Loughlin02:20 Ronan’s addiction and recovery story04:30 Desperation, heroin detox, and early sobriety06:40 Bartending, ego, and identity09:00 Work, immigration, and addiction11:30 The meaning behind Peace and Purpose13:40 Why sober living and how it began16:20 Legacy, loss, and continuing the mission18:50 Service, humility, and recovery as vocation21:30 Fear as the root of anger24:00 Ego-based fear and infantile expectations26:40 The bondage of self29:00 Faith, fear, and spiritual growth31:00 The enduring role of 12-step recovery33:30 Partnering, community, and closing reflectionsGUEST LINKS – RONAN O’LOUGHLIN / PEACE AND PURPOSE SOBER LIVINGWebsite: https://www.peaceandpurposeavl.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/peaceandpurposeavlFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/peaceandpurposeavlFOLLOW NEW WATERS RECOVERYInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/newwatersrecoveryFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/newwatersrecoveryLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/new-waters-recoveryTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@newwatersrecovery_ncWATCH AND LISTENPodcast Website: https://www.findingnewwaters.comSpotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4NOV2g85KExFWU5mTz5GjwApple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/finding-new-waters/id1684075608YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCjfAIXtiOgy1XFcwAduXgXwYouTube Music: https://music.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLuJOc6yLcjibGGAKgLYPCN47etJCY89mn

In this episode of Finding New Waters, B. Reeves and New Waters Recovery CEO Justin McClendon sit down with Will Crosswell, therapist, clinical interventionist, and founder of Crosswell Interventions in Austin, Texas, for an honest and wide-ranging conversation about recovery, mental health crises, and the evolving landscape of substance use.Will shares his personal recovery story, his path from residential treatment work to clinical interventions, and why he was drawn back into high-intensity crisis work after years in private practice. Together, the group explores how modern interventions require a trauma-informed, clinical lens, especially as substances like Delta-8, kratom, and other gas-station products drive increasing rates of psychosis and severe mental health instability.This episode explores:Will’s journey into recovery and clinical social workWhat a clinical interventionist is and why it mattersDifferences between substance-use and primary mental health interventionsThe rise of psychosis linked to synthetic and unregulated substancesDelta-8, kratom, kava, and gas-station drugsWhy some people do not fully “come back” after prolonged useFamily systems, healing, and preventing further ruptureFinding joy, music, and freedom in sober livingBuilding a life that no longer requires escapeThis is a powerful conversation about responsibility, honesty, and what it truly means to help families through their darkest moments while protecting long-term recovery.YOUTUBE TIMESTAMPS00:00 Welcome to Finding New Waters01:00 Introducing Will Crosswell02:40 Will’s background and work in mental health and addiction04:30 Will’s recovery story06:30 From treatment centers to clinical interventions08:40 What a clinical interventionist does11:00 Mental health vs substance use interventions13:40 Trauma-informed and family-centered approaches16:00 The rise of psychosis linked to Delta-8 and gas-station drugs18:30 Kratom, kava, and unregulated substances21:00 The danger of normalization and misinformation23:40 Long-term consequences and “not coming back”26:00 Recovery, neutrality, and no longer needing escape29:00 Music, concerts, and sober living32:00 Finding joy and freedom without substances34:30 How to contact Will Crosswell36:00 Final thoughts and closingGUEST LINKS – WILL CROSSWELLWebsite: https://www.crosswellinterventions.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/crosswellinterventionsLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/crosswell-interventionsPhone: 830-992-5836FOLLOW NEW WATERS RECOVERYInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/newwatersrecoveryFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/newwatersrecoveryLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/new-waters-recoveryTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@newwatersrecovery_ncWATCH AND LISTENPodcast Website: https://www.findingnewwaters.comSpotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4NOV2g85KExFWU5mTz5GjwApple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/finding-new-waters/id1684075608YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCjfAIXtiOgy1XFcwAduXgXwYouTube Music: https://music.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLuJOc6yLcjibGGAKgLYPCN47etJCY89mn

In this episode of Finding New Waters, B. Reeves and New Waters Recovery CEO Justin McClendon sit down with Kelly Scaggs, CEO of Fellowship Hall in Greensboro, North Carolina, for a powerful conversation about recovery, legacy, and the responsibility of caring for people at their most vulnerable.B. shares his personal recovery story and his own experience as a former guest at Fellowship Hall, reflecting on what it means to walk into treatment for the first time, the fear of staying, and the life-changing impact of choosing to participate.Kelly shares the history of Fellowship Hall, now in its 55th year, including how it became North Carolina’s first licensed residential treatment facility, the collaborative spirit that shaped its founding, and why community, humility, and service remain central to its mission today.This episode explores:What it feels like to enter treatment for the first timeThe power of participation in early recoveryFellowship Hall’s origins and 55-year legacyWhy collaboration, not competition, strengthens the recovery fieldThe importance of family programming in treatmentLeadership rooted in clinical experience and humilityAlumni connection, long-term recovery, and paying it forwardYOUTUBE TIMESTAMPS00:00 Welcome to Finding New Waters01:00 B. Reeves shares his Fellowship Hall recovery story03:40 Fear, resistance, and deciding to stay in treatment05:30 Participation as the turning point in recovery07:40 A spiritual experience and finding hope09:30 The privilege of witnessing recovery firsthand11:00 Fellowship Hall’s 55-year history12:30 North Carolina’s first licensed treatment center14:20 Alumni network and community impact16:00 The collaborative nature of the recovery field18:30 Referring clients to the right program20:20 Kelly Scaggs’ path to becoming CEO22:50 Clinical leadership and healthcare administration25:10 Balancing mission and business in treatment27:00 Recovery principles applied beyond addiction29:00 The importance of family programs31:30 Families healing alongside their loved ones34:00 Lifelong connections formed in treatment36:30 How to find Fellowship Hall38:00 Final thoughts and closingGUEST LINKS – KELLY SCAGGS / FELLOWSHIP HALLWebsite: https://www.fellowshiphall.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/fellowshiphallFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/FellowshipHallLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/fellowship-hallFOLLOW NEW WATERS RECOVERYInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/newwatersrecoveryFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/newwatersrecoveryLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/new-waters-recoveryTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@newwatersrecovery_ncWATCH AND LISTENPodcast Website: https://www.findingnewwaters.comSpotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4NOV2g85KExFWU5mTz5GjwApple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/finding-new-waters/id1684075608YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCjfAIXtiOgy1XFcwAduXgXwYouTube Music: https://music.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLuJOc6yLcjibGGAKgLYPCN47etJCY89mn

In this episode of Finding New Waters, B. Reeves and New Waters Recovery CEO Justin McClendon sit down with Dr. Chantelle Thomas, clinical director at Windrose Recovery and The Manor in Wisconsin, for a deep and honest conversation about trauma, addiction, and healing.Dr. Thomas shares her extensive experience working at the intersection of trauma treatment, substance use recovery, and clinical research. She explains why addiction is often rooted in unresolved trauma, why emotional numbness is common in early recovery, and how true healing requires more than just stopping substance use.This episode explores: • Why trauma reprocessing is essential for long-term recovery • Emotional numbness, dissociation, and “thawing out” in sobriety • How ketamine-assisted psychotherapy is used ethically and responsibly • The difference between dissociative dosing and relational therapeutic dosing • Who ketamine therapy is and is not appropriate for • Why relief does not equal recovery • The risks of underground or unsupervised psychedelic use • How moments of clarity show what’s possible, not the finish lineThis is a grounded, thoughtful discussion that emphasizes safety, ethics, continuing care, and long-term recovery over quick fixes.Timestamps00:00 – Welcome to Finding New Waters01:05 – Weather check and introduction with Dr. Chantelle Thomas03:00 – Windrose Recovery and The Manor overview05:00 – Trauma and its connection to addiction07:10 – Emotional numbness and early recovery09:15 – Introduction to ketamine-assisted psychotherapy11:30 – How ketamine supports trauma reprocessing14:10 – Feeling emotions without judgment17:00 – Dissociation, numbness, and reconnecting with the body19:40 – Dosage, safety, and why context matters22:20 – Who ketamine therapy is not appropriate for24:40 – Why ketamine is not a quick fix27:10 – Why six weeks of treatment matters30:10 – Relief vs recovery and false confidence32:30 – “This is what’s possible” and sustaining progress35:00 – Recovery communities and evolving treatment approaches38:20 – Risks of underground psychedelic use42:00 – Protecting the psyche and ethical responsibility45:00 – Where to find Dr. Chantelle Thomas and her work46:30 – Final reflections and closing⸻🔗 Learn More • Windrose Recovery • The Manor • Integra Healing (Ketamine-Assisted Psychotherapy) • Blind Spots: Exploring What We Cannot See Podcast📱 Follow Us: • Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/newwatersrecovery • Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/newwatersrecovery • LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/new-waters-recovery • TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@newwatersrecovery_nc⸻▶️ Watch & Listen: • Podcast Website: https://www.findingnewwaters.com • Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4NOV2g85KExFWU5mTz5Gjw • Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/finding-new-waters/id1684075608 • YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCjfAIXtiOgy1XFcwAduXgXw • YouTube Music: https://music.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLuJOc6yLcjibGGAKgLYPCN47etJCY89mn

In this episode of the Finding New Waters Podcast, host B. Reeves is joined by New Waters Recovery CEO Justin McClendon and special guest Jesse McCraw, Director of Business Development at Driftwood Recovery, for one of the most powerful and emotionally honest conversations in the show’s history.Jesse shares his deeply personal story of addiction, incarceration, loss, and accountability following a tragic drunk-driving accident that changed his life forever. He walks listeners through his journey into recovery, finding Alcoholics Anonymous while incarcerated, and how service, structure, and humility became the foundation of a life rebuilt with purpose.This episode explores the mental reality of addiction, the concept of responsibility versus victimhood, and the transformative power of surrender. Jesse also shares how recovery behind prison walls shaped his approach to leadership, connection, and helping others, and how those experiences continue to guide his work at Driftwood Recovery today.This conversation is raw, reflective, and profoundly human. It is an episode about consequences, grace, forgiveness, and what it means to truly change.⸻⏱️ Chapters00:00 Introduction02:30 Meeting Jesse McCraw and Driftwood Recovery05:00 Jesse’s early sobriety and entry into recovery work08:00 Baseball, identity, and addiction12:00 The night that changed everything18:00 Loss, incarceration, and denial23:00 Addiction and the mental obsession27:00 Hitting bottom while incarcerated31:00 Discovering AA in prison36:00 Working the steps behind bars41:00 Release, reintegration, and early recovery45:00 Building a life of service49:00 Working in treatment and finding purpose54:00 Driftwood Recovery’s philosophy and continuum of care58:00 Accountability, humility, and long-term recovery⸻🔑 Key Topics Covered• Addiction and accountability• Recovery in prison• Alcoholics Anonymous and the 12 steps• Loss, grief, and responsibility• Service as a foundation for recovery• Reintegration after incarceration• Building a meaningful life in sobriety⸻🎧 Listen, Share, and SubscribeFollow Finding New WatersInstagram: www.instagram.com/newwatersrecoveryFacebook: www.facebook.com/newwatersrecoveryLinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/company/new-waters-recoveryTikTok: www.tiktok.com/@newwatersrecovery_nc⸻📌 Guest & Resource LinksJesse McCraw – Driftwood Recovery biohttps://driftwoodrecovery.com/our-team/jesse-mccraw Driftwood Recovery – Main Websitehttps://driftwoodrecovery.com/ Jesse McCraw LinkedInhttps://www.linkedin.com/in/jesse-mccraw-5a7114110 Jesse McCraw Instagramhttps://www.instagram.com/jesse.mccraw/ Jesse McCraw Facebookhttps://www.facebook.com/jesse.mccraw.5/ ⸻🎙️ Watch & ListenWebsite: www.findingnewwaters.comSpotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4NOV2g85KExFWU5mTz5GjwApple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/finding-new-waters/id1684075608YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCjfAIXtiOgy1XFcwAduXgXwYouTube Music: https://music.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLuJOc6yLcjibGGAKgLYPCN47etJCY89mn

In this episode of the Finding New Waters Podcast, host B. Reeves is joined by New Waters Recovery CEO Justin McClendon and special guest Colin Harris, founder of Longleaf Recovery & Wellness, for a powerful conversation about recovery, purpose, and building ethical treatment in an underserved state.Colin shares his deeply personal recovery journey, including years of addiction, repeated treatment attempts, and the moment everything changed. He opens up about how lived experience shaped his vision for Longleaf and why Alabama’s lack of quality behavioral health services inspired him to build something different.The conversation dives into the realities of addiction in underserved communities, the importance of outpatient and primary mental health care, and why environment, compassion, and individualized treatment matter. Colin also discusses Longleaf’s rapid expansion across Alabama and an exciting new residential treatment campus currently in development.This episode is honest, hopeful, and grounded in real-world experience, offering insight for professionals, families, and anyone impacted by addiction or mental health challenges.⏱️ Chapters00:00 Introduction01:30 Meeting Colin Harris and shared mission03:00 The need for recovery services in Alabama05:00 Colin’s personal recovery journey09:00 Addiction, treatment, and lived experience12:00 Why Alabama has been underserved15:00 Building Birmingham Recovery Center18:00 Outpatient care and primary mental health22:00 Environment and culture in treatment26:00 Motivation, purpose, and long-term recovery30:00 The Longleaf name and its meaning34:00 Trauma, addiction, and transformation38:00 Meeting people where they are42:00 Residential treatment plans in Alabama47:00 Vision for the future of Longleaf50:00 How to find Longleaf Recovery & Wellness🔑 Key Topics Covered• Recovery in underserved communities• Building ethical treatment programs• Outpatient and primary mental health care• Lived experience in leadership• Trauma and long-term recovery• Family involvement in treatment• Expanding access to care in Alabama🎧 Listen, Share, and SubscribeFollow Finding New WatersInstagram: www.instagram.com/newwatersrecoveryFacebook: www.facebook.com/newwatersrecoveryLinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/company/new-waters-recoveryTikTok: www.tiktok.com/@newwatersrecovery_nc⸻🎙️ Watch & ListenWebsite: www.findingnewwaters.comSpotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4NOV2g85KExFWU5mTz5GjwApple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/finding-new-waters/id1684075608YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCjfAIXtiOgy1XFcwAduXgXwYouTube Music: https://music.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLuJOc6yLcjibGGAKgLYPCN47etJCY89mn

In this episode of the Finding New Waters Podcast, host B. Reeves is joined by Michael Gilpin, alongside New Waters Recovery CEO Justin McClendon, for an honest and deeply reflective conversation about trauma, recovery, consulting, and the work that continues long after sobriety begins.Michael shares his journey through addiction, long-term recovery, and the moment he realized that being sober wasn’t enough. He opens up about hitting an emotional breaking point years into recovery, confronting unresolved trauma, and choosing to do the deeper work that ultimately reshaped his life and purpose.This episode dives into the realities of working in the mental health and recovery field, the importance of separating personal recovery from professional roles, and why families often need as much support as the individual struggling. Michael also explains what a treatment consultant actually does, how families get “unstuck,” and why long-term guidance can make all the difference.The conversation also explores trauma-informed care, adolescent and young adult treatment, and Michael’s work with The Guest House at Ocala, a nationally respected trauma and addiction program.This episode is thoughtful, raw, and deeply human, especially for anyone who believes sobriety is the finish line, rather than the beginning.⏱️ Chapters00:00 Introduction02:00 Early days in the recovery field05:00 Work identity vs personal recovery08:00 Helping others without losing yourself12:00 What a treatment consultant really does16:00 Family systems and long-term guidance20:00 Adolescents, young adults, and trauma24:00 When sobriety isn’t enough28:00 Hitting a breaking point years into recovery32:00 Trauma intensives and deeper healing36:00 Responsibility, purpose, and recovery40:00 The role of community and belonging44:00 The Guest House at Ocala explained48:00 Final reflections and connection🔑 Key Topics Covered• Trauma and long-term recovery• When sobriety isn’t the finish line• Treatment consulting explained• Family systems and support• Adolescent and young adult treatment• Professional recovery vs personal recovery• Community, purpose, and responsibility🎧 Listen, Share, and SubscribeFollow Finding New WatersInstagram: www.instagram.com/newwatersrecoveryFacebook: www.facebook.com/newwatersrecoveryLinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/company/new-waters-recoveryTikTok: www.tiktok.com/@newwatersrecovery_nc⸻🎙️ Watch & ListenWebsite: www.findingnewwaters.comSpotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4NOV2g85KExFWU5mTz5GjwApple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/finding-new-waters/id1684075608YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCjfAIXtiOgy1XFcwAduXgXwYouTube Music: https://music.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLuJOc6yLcjibGGAKgLYPCN47etJCY89mn

In this episode of the Finding New Waters Podcast, host B. Reeves is joined by Patrick Balsley, founder of Sana Counseling, Sana House, and Sana Recovery Foundation, and Mike Gminski, former Duke and NBA basketball player turned recovery advocate and mentor.Together, they explore what recovery really looks like when it’s built on safety, humility, community, and purpose.Patrick shares how Sana has grown from a small counseling practice into a multi-phase extended care program for men, along with the launch of the Sana Recovery Foundation, a nonprofit created to support families, reduce stigma, and help communities navigate addiction and recovery.Mike opens up about his journey from elite athletics and broadcasting to deep personal loss, addiction, surrender, and long-term sobriety. He shares how recovery reshaped his faith, purpose, and identity, and why transparency and community are essential to healing.This conversation dives deep into surrender, humility, gratitude, family recovery, and why addiction is less about substances and more about the way we relate to life itself.⸻⏱️ Chapters00:00 Introduction02:00 Patrick Balsley’s return and the growth of Sana05:00 Sana Counseling and Sana House explained08:00 Psychodrama, safety, and clinical culture12:00 Sana Recovery Foundation and family support16:00 Mike Gminski’s athletic background (Duke & NBA)19:00 Alcohol, broadcasting, and gradual progression23:00 Loss, grief, and spiraling addiction27:00 Intervention, accountability, and entering treatment31:00 Recovery, faith, and public transparency36:00 Surrender, humility, and healing40:00 Community, safety, and long-term recovery45:00 Gratitude, purpose, and life after addiction49:00 How to connect with Sana⸻🔑 Key Topics Covered• Extended care and long-term recovery• Family healing and community education• Addiction beyond substances• Surrender and humility in recovery• Grief, loss, and relapse risk• Professional athletes and addiction stigma• Faith, gratitude, and purpose⸻🎧 Listen, Share, and SubscribeFollow Finding New WatersInstagram: www.instagram.com/newwatersrecoveryFacebook: www.facebook.com/newwatersrecoveryLinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/company/new-waters-recoveryTikTok: www.tiktok.com/@newwatersrecovery_nc⸻🎙️ Watch & ListenWebsite: www.findingnewwaters.comSpotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4NOV2g85KExFWU5mTz5GjwApple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/finding-new-waters/id1684075608YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCjfAIXtiOgy1XFcwAduXgXwYouTube Music: https://music.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLuJOc6yLcjibGGAKgLYPCN47etJCY89mn

In this episode of the Finding New Waters Podcast, host B. Reeves sits down with Kevin Bandy, co-founder of Voyage Recovery, for a powerful conversation about getting sober young, punk rock culture, family healing, and what real recovery actually looks like.Kevin shares his journey through early addiction, treatment as a teenager, Big Book studies, and finding sober community through straight-edge punk culture. Together, they explore why sobriety can be a radical act, how community saves lives, and why families must heal alongside their loved ones.This episode also dives deep into Voyage Recovery’s unique model, blending outdoor experiential therapy, honest clinical work, and intensive family involvement to help young men reconnect with life, purpose, and their families.Whether you’re in recovery, supporting a loved one, or simply curious about what meaningful healing looks like, this episode offers raw insight, hope, and perspective.⏱️ Chapters00:00 Introduction03:00 Getting sober young and early treatment06:00 Discovering Big Book studies09:00 Realizing addiction was driving every decision12:00 Punk rock, straight edge, and sober community15:00 Giving back through adolescent treatment18:00 Founding Voyage Recovery21:00 Outdoor experiential therapy25:00 Why family work is essential29:00 Radical access and transparency for parents33:00 Helping families heal together37:00 What long-term recovery really looks like41:00 How to find Voyage Recovery🔑 Key Topics Covered• Getting sober at a young age• Punk rock and straight-edge sobriety• Addiction as a power greater than self• Outdoor therapy and experiential recovery• Family healing and accountability• Building community in recovery🎧 Listen, Share, and SubscribeFollow Finding New WatersInstagram: www.instagram.com/newwatersrecoveryFacebook: www.facebook.com/newwatersrecoveryLinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/company/new-waters-recoveryTikTok: www.tiktok.com/@newwatersrecovery_nc⸻🎙️ Watch & ListenWebsite: www.findingnewwaters.comSpotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4NOV2g85KExFWU5mTz5GjwApple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/finding-new-waters/id1684075608YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCjfAIXtiOgy1XFcwAduXgXwYouTube Music: https://music.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLuJOc6yLcjibGGAKgLYPCN47etJCY89mn

In this powerful and deeply honest episode of Finding New Waters Podcast, host B. Reeves sits down with Chico West for a wide-ranging conversation about sobriety, faith, surrender, and what it truly means to do the work.With 36 years of sobriety, Chico shares his journey from early addiction, arrests, and spiritual emptiness to long-term recovery, counseling, and helping others step into what he calls the messy middle. Together, B and Chico explore how growth often happens not on the mountaintops, but in the valleys, and how peace comes from surrender rather than control.This episode blends recovery wisdom, biblical reflection, personal storytelling, and practical insight for anyone seeking a deeper, more grounded life, whether sober, sober-curious, or simply searching.⸻⏱️ Episode Timestamps00:00 – Welcome and introduction to Chico West02:00 – Finding joy in sobriety and living clean and sober05:00 – “Struggling in the right direction” and life’s worst hands08:30 – Peaks, valleys, and emotional balance in recovery12:00 – What Chico does today: counseling, coaching, and consulting14:30 – Getting sober at 21 and early addiction history20:00 – Doing the work beyond alcohol and addiction24:00 – Faith, brokenness, and true surrender30:00 – Me vs. we: getting out of self35:00 – Building cases in our heads and emotional sobriety41:00 – Returning to faith and a life-changing moment48:00 – Surrendering to win54:00 – How to find Chico West and final reflections⸻🔑 Key Takeaways• Recovery is about more than abstinence; it’s about transformation• Peace comes from surrender, not control• Growth happens in the messy middle, not just success• Faith and recovery can reinforce each other• Long-term sobriety requires daily maintenance and honesty⸻👤 About the Guest: Chico WestChico West is a Licensed Professional Counselor with over three decades of sobriety. He works in private practice, executive consulting, and coaching, and co-hosts the Filter Optional podcast with his wife. Chico specializes in helping people step into emotional honesty, spiritual growth, and long-term healing.📞 Contact: 214-384-7459🎧 Podcast: Filter Optional🎧 Listen, Share, and SubscribeFollow Finding New WatersInstagram: www.instagram.com/newwatersrecoveryFacebook: www.facebook.com/newwatersrecoveryLinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/company/new-waters-recoveryTikTok: www.tiktok.com/@newwatersrecovery_nc⸻Watch & ListenWebsite: www.findingnewwaters.comSpotify: open.spotify.com/show/4NOV2g85KExFWU5mTz5GjwApple Podcasts: podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/finding-new-waters/id1684075608YouTube: www.youtube.com/channel/UCjfAIXtiOgy1XFcwAduXgXwYouTube Music: music.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLuJOc6yLcjibGGAKgLYPCN47etJCY89mn

Exploring the Path to Recovery with Momentum Recovery's Rick Barney | Finding New WatersIn this episode of Finding New Waters, host B Reeves, Director of Business Development at New Waters Recovery in Raleigh, converses with Justin McClendon, CEO, and special guest Rick Barney, co-founder and co-owner of Momentum Recovery in Wilmington. Rick, a devoted recovery advocate, shares his personal journey and the genesis of Momentum Recovery while discussing the value of long-term treatment and the essence of community in recovery. Throughout the discussion, they delve into topics such as the importance of continuity of care, family support, and the innovative approaches at Momentum Recovery that help individuals navigate life post-addiction. Tune in to learn more about the impactful work being done at Momentum Recovery and how it’s transforming lives.00:00 Introduction and Guest Welcome00:38 Rick's Flight School Adventure01:07 Life in Recovery: Embracing New Passions02:16 Challenges and Misconceptions in Recovery03:36 The Importance of Community and Support09:33 Romantic Relationships in Recovery19:06 Rick's Personal Recovery Journey23:13 Momentum Recovery: A New Approach31:09 Conclusion and Contact InformationFollow Finding New WatersInstagram: www.instagram.com/newwatersrecoveryFacebook: www.facebook.com/newwatersrecoveryLinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/company/new-waters-recoveryTikTok: www.tiktok.com/@newwatersrecovery_nc⸻Watch & ListenWebsite: www.findingnewwaters.comSpotify: open.spotify.com/show/4NOV2g85KExFWU5mTz5GjwApple Podcasts: podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/finding-new-waters/id1684075608YouTube: www.youtube.com/channel/UCjfAIXtiOgy1XFcwAduXgXwYouTube Music: music.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLuJOc6yLcjibGGAKgLYPCN47etJCY89mn

In this powerful episode of Finding New Waters, B. Reeves and Justin McClendon sit down with Thatcher Shively, a clinical interventionist, recovery coach, and Director of Admissions at Feinberg Consulting, a nationally recognized concierge case-management and intervention firm.Thatcher shares openly about being a high-achieving kid whose emotional world collapsed in college. What started as a slow unraveling turned into full-scale addiction, isolation, and a crisis that forced him to confront the truth he’d been running from: his identity was built entirely on performance, perfectionism, and trying to stay “one step ahead” of his own pain.After entering treatment, Thatcher discovered something he never expected — the freedom of letting go. Today, years into recovery, he helps families navigate crisis, rebuild trust, and chart a path toward stability, structure, and long-term healing.This episode is rich with insight about masculinity, pressure, burnout, shame, parenting, and what happens when the life you built finally caves in. It’s a conversation that will resonate deeply with anyone who has struggled with identity, expectations, or feeling like they’re never enough.Learn more about Feinberg Consulting: www.feinbergconsulting.com⸻Timestamps00:00 – Welcome and introduction to Thatcher Shively02:00 – Thatcher’s childhood as a high achiever04:00 – When perfectionism becomes a coping mechanism06:30 – The first cracks showing during college08:30 – Emotional collapse and the spiral into addiction11:30 – Losing control and living in survival mode15:00 – Hitting the breaking point and accepting help18:00 – What treatment revealed about identity and self-worth21:00 – Why high performers struggle to admit they’re struggling24:30 – The role of shame in addiction and burnout27:00 – Rebuilding structure, trust, and emotional safety30:00 – Helping families navigate crisis at Feinberg Consulting33:00 – Masculinity, pressure, and unrealistic expectations37:00 – How to support a loved one without enabling40:00 – The importance of community and ongoing recovery43:00 – Where to find Thatcher and Feinberg Consulting⸻Powerful Quote“I built my identity on performance. Recovery forced me to build it on truth.” – Thatcher Shively⸻Guest BioThatcher ShivelyDirector of Admissions, Feinberg ConsultingThatcher Shively is a clinical interventionist, recovery coach, and the Director of Admissions at Feinberg Consulting, a national case-management and intervention firm helping families navigate mental health, addiction, and complex behavioral crises. Drawing from his own lived experience and professional training, Thatcher specializes in guiding families through chaos toward clarity, structure, and long-term stability. His work focuses on restoring trust, creating safety, and helping individuals reconnect with a healthier sense of identity and purpose.Website: www.feinbergconsulting.comLinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/company/feinberg-consulting⸻Resources Mentioned• Feinberg Consulting – www.feinbergconsulting.com• Recovery Coaching and Case Management• Family Systems and Crisis Support• Emotional Regulation and Identity Work⸻Follow Finding New WatersInstagram: www.instagram.com/newwatersrecoveryFacebook: www.facebook.com/newwatersrecoveryLinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/company/new-waters-recoveryTikTok: www.tiktok.com/@newwatersrecovery_nc⸻Watch & ListenWebsite: www.findingnewwaters.comSpotify: open.spotify.com/show/4NOV2g85KExFWU5mTz5GjwApple Podcasts: podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/finding-new-waters/id1684075608YouTube: www.youtube.com/channel/UCjfAIXtiOgy1XFcwAduXgXwYouTube Music: music.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLuJOc6yLcjibGGAKgLYPCN47etJCY89mn#ThatcherShively #FeinbergConsulting #AddictionRecovery #HighAchieversAndBurnout #IdentityAndRecovery #FindingNewWaters #MentalHealthJourney #RecoveryCoaching #FamilyHealing

In this heartfelt episode of Finding New Waters, B. Reeves and Justin McClendon sit down with Elizabeth Fikes, co-founder of Stonewater Adolescent Recovery Center in Oxford, Mississippi.Elizabeth shares her family’s deeply personal story — watching her younger brother, Brian, struggle with addiction as a teenager, the shock of realizing how serious it had become, and the heartbreak of sending him to treatment. What started as the worst day of their lives became the beginning of a new purpose. Today, Brian is more than 20 years sober, and together, the Fikes family built Stonewater: a nationally recognized residential treatment center helping adolescent boys heal through a holistic, family-based approach.Elizabeth explains the unique challenges of adolescent recovery, the importance of family involvement, and how Stonewater’s blend of clinical care, academics, structure, and purpose helps boys rebuild confidence and self-worth. She also discusses the upcoming Stonewater Summit Program, designed as a transitional space for graduates to continue growing before returning home.Learn more about Stonewater: www.stonewaterrecovery.comTimestamps00:00 – Welcome & introduction to Elizabeth Fikes03:00 – The origins of Stonewater and Brian’s story05:00 – Sending her brother to treatment: “The worst day of my life”07:00 – Why family healing became the foundation of Stonewater09:00 – What it was like to be the sibling during addiction12:00 – How fathers and mothers process addiction differently15:00 – Building confidence and purpose through structure and dress code18:00 – Teaching accountability and handling discomfort20:00 – Why adolescent treatment is different from adult recovery23:00 – The role of academics and emotional safety26:00 – Debunking the myth that a child must “want help”28:00 – The trauma siblings experience and how to heal it32:00 – Family groups and peer mentorship34:00 – The Stonewater Summit Program37:00 – How to reach Stonewater RecoveryPowerful Quote“The worst day of my life was the day my brother went to treatment. But it also became the best — because it saved his life and changed all of ours.” – Elizabeth FikesGuest BioElizabeth FikesCo-Founder, Stonewater Adolescent Recovery CenterElizabeth Fikes is the co-founder of Stonewater Adolescent Recovery Center, a residential treatment program for boys ages 12–18 in Oxford, Mississippi. Inspired by her family’s experience helping her brother overcome addiction, Elizabeth and her brother Brian founded Stonewater to provide a comprehensive, family-centered approach to adolescent recovery.Stonewater integrates evidence-based clinical care, academics, trauma-informed therapy, and spiritual development to help young men rebuild their lives. Under Elizabeth’s leadership, Stonewater continues to expand with new initiatives like the Stonewater Summit Program, supporting families through every stage of the recovery journey.Website: www.stonewaterrecovery.comResources Mentioned• Stonewater Adolescent Recovery Center – www.stonewaterrecovery.com• Stonewater Summit Program• Family Systems in Adolescent Treatment• Wellbriety Movement – www.whitebison.orgFollow Finding New WatersInstagram: www.instagram.com/newwatersrecoveryFacebook: www.facebook.com/newwatersrecoveryLinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/company/new-waters-recoveryTikTok: www.tiktok.com/@newwatersrecovery_ncListen & WatchWebsite: www.findingnewwaters.comSpotify: open.spotify.com/show/4NOV2g85KExFWU5mTz5GjwApple Podcasts: podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/finding-new-waters/id1684075608YouTube: www.youtube.com/channel/UCjfAIXtiOgy1XFcwAduXgXwYouTube Music: music.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLuJOc6yLcjibGGAKgLYPCN47etJCY89mn#ElizabethFikes #StonewaterRecovery #AdolescentRecovery #FamilyHealing #AddictionRecovery #FindingNewWaters #TeenSobriety #FamilySystems #Wellbriety #RecoveryJourney

In this powerful episode of Finding New Waters, hosts B. Reeves and Justin McClendon sit down with Jeff Georgi, one of the most respected voices in addiction treatment and co-author of Beyond Shame: Healing the Pain Beneath the Surface of Addiction.With over 40 years of clinical experience, including serving as the former Clinical Director of the Duke Addictions Program, Jeff shares his deep understanding of the emotional and spiritual roots of addiction — particularly the role shame plays in keeping people trapped. He opens up about his own journey into recovery, the programs he and his wife Becky have built to help families heal, and how their approach to modified interpersonal group psychotherapy helps patients find hope beyond their pain.Jeff discusses the origins of Bluefield, a program he and Becky developed for college students returning to school after treatment, and the incredible success stories that came from it. He also reflects on the closure of Duke’s addiction program, what it says about the stigma that still surrounds substance use, and why true recovery must address the biological, psychological, social, and spiritual dimensions of addiction.This is a deeply thoughtful, emotional, and inspiring conversation about healing, purpose, and rediscovering the power of hope.⸻Timestamps00:00 – Welcome and introduction01:00 – The origins of Bluefield and helping college students in recovery05:00 – Stories of hope: Bluefield’s first student success07:00 – What inspired the book Beyond Shame09:00 – Training clinicians across South Carolina12:00 – Jeff’s 40-year career in addiction medicine13:00 – Getting started in recovery work after personal sobriety15:00 – Founding the Duke Addictions Program17:00 – How stigma still shapes addiction treatment today20:00 – The myth of “choice” in addiction22:00 – Understanding the biology of addiction24:00 – How trauma and shame fuel substance use30:00 – Breaking the cycle: how families get caught in shame too33:00 – Jeff and Becky’s therapeutic approach to healing families36:00 – Why hope is stronger than shame39:00 – The spiritual side of recovery40:00 – How to contact Jeff and Becky GeorgiGuest BioJeff Georgi, M.Div., MAH, LCMHC, LCAS, CCS, CGPAuthor, Clinician, and EducatorWith more than 40 years in the field of addiction and mental health, Jeff Georgi has helped thousands of individuals and families find healing. He is the former Clinical Director of the Duke Addictions Program and has served in multiple departments at Duke University Medical Center, including Surgery, Obstetrics, and Psychiatry.Alongside his wife Becky, Jeff runs Georgi Educational and Counseling Services, where they offer therapy, training, and consultation to clinicians and families. His latest book, Beyond Shame, provides a framework for understanding addiction as a biopsychosocial-spiritual disease and helps clinicians and families address the pain beneath addictive behavior.Website: www.georgieducationalandcounseling.comBook: Beyond Shame: Healing the Pain Beneath the Surface of AddictionResources Mentioned• Beyond Shame – available on Amazon• Bluefield Program (for college students in recovery)• Modified Interpersonal Group Psychotherapy• Duke University Department of Psychiatry and Behavioral Sciences• Georgi Educational and Counseling Services – www.georgieducationalandcounseling.comFollow Finding New WatersInstagram: www.instagram.com/newwatersrecoveryFacebook: www.facebook.com/newwatersrecoveryLinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/company/new-waters-recoveryTikTok: www.tiktok.com/@newwatersrecovery_ncListen & WatchWebsite: www.findingnewwaters.comSpotify: open.spotify.com/show/4NOV2g85KExFWU5mTz5GjwApple Podcasts: podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/finding-new-waters/id1684075608YouTube: www.youtube.com/channel/UCjfAIXtiOgy1XFcwAduXgXwYouTube Music: music.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLuJOc6yLcjibGGAKgLYPCN47etJCY89mn

In this episode of Finding New Waters, hosts B. Reeves and Justin McClendon sit down with Dan Gilmer, Director of Clinical Outreach for TNR Recovery Group, which operates programs including Cypress Lake Recovery and Origins in Texas.Dan shares his powerful story of getting sober at just 20 years old after years of addiction that began when he was 13. He opens up about discovering Oxycontin as a teenager, chasing that first feeling for years, and finally finding peace through treatment, faith, and service.From relapsing to rebuilding, Dan’s honesty and humility shine through as he reflects on what it means to truly trust God, maintain a daily reprieve, and find joy in helping others. He also shares how his journey led him to a meaningful career in recovery outreach and how accountability, family, and faith continue to shape his life today.Learn more about Dan’s work and TNR Recovery Group: www.tnrrecoverygroup.comTimestamps00:00 – Welcome & introduction to Dan Gilmer01:00 – Dan’s role at TNR Recovery Group03:00 – Discovering Oxycontin at age 1305:00 – Getting sober at 20 after multiple treatment attempts06:00 – Starting sober living homes in Baton Rouge08:00 – What it’s like to get sober young in Louisiana10:00 – Learning to trust God and rely on faith13:00 – The difference between believing in God and trusting God15:00 – Learning when to “end the day and go to sleep”17:00 – Daily reprieve and spiritual maintenance20:00 – Life in early sobriety and the power of community23:00 – Family, honesty, and doing a fearless inventory25:00 – Marriage, fatherhood, and trusting God’s plan28:00 – The gift of helping others in recovery31:00 – The power of accountability and service34:00 – Overview of TNR Recovery Group programs37:00 – What is the Wellbriety track?39:00 – How to connect with TNR Recovery and Dan GilmerPowerful Quote“The best things in my life are the ones I never planned. God’s plan is always better than mine.” – Dan GilmerGuest BioDan GilmerDirector of Clinical Outreach, TNR Recovery GroupBased in Baton Rouge, Louisiana, Dan Gilmer serves as the Director of Clinical Outreach for TNR Recovery Group’s Texas programs, including Cypress Lake Recovery and Origins. He oversees outreach, alumni, and aftercare operations, connecting individuals with life-changing recovery services.Having found sobriety at 20, Dan uses his personal experience to inspire others—especially young people struggling with addiction—to seek help and find purpose through recovery. A husband, father, and devoted member of his recovery community, Dan believes in living a life rooted in faith, service, and accountability.Website: www.tnrrecoverygroup.comLinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/in/dan-gilmerResources Mentioned• TNR Recovery Group – www.tnrrecoverygroup.com• Cypress Lake Recovery – www.cypresslakerecovery.com• Origins Behavioral HealthCare – www.originsrecovery.com• Sabino Recovery – www.sabinorecovery.com• Wellbriety Movement – www.whitebison.orgFollow Finding New WatersInstagram: www.instagram.com/newwatersrecoveryFacebook: www.facebook.com/newwatersrecoveryLinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/company/new-waters-recoveryTikTok: www.tiktok.com/@newwatersrecovery_ncListen & WatchWebsite: www.findingnewwaters.comSpotify: open.spotify.com/show/4NOV2g85KExFWU5mTz5GjwApple Podcasts: podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/finding-new-waters/id1684075608YouTube: www.youtube.com/channel/UCjfAIXtiOgy1XFcwAduXgXwYouTube Music: music.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLuJOc6yLcjibGGAKgLYPCN47etJCY89mn#DanGilmer #TNRRecoveryGroup #CypressLakeRecovery #AddictionRecovery #SobrietyJourney #FindingNewWaters #FaithInRecovery #YoungSobriety #Wellbriety #RecoveryCommunity

In this deeply emotional and inspiring episode of Finding New Waters, B. Reeves and Justin McClendon sit down with Jennifer Levi, founder of the Live Like Braun Foundation, to share the story of unimaginable loss, love, and legacy.Jennifer opens up about losing her 18-year-old son, Braun, to a drunk driver — just months after their family lost their home in the California wildfires. Rather than let grief consume her, she and her family chose action. The Live Like Braun Foundation was born to honor Braun’s life — one defined by kindness, compassion, inclusivity, and a magnetic spirit that inspired everyone he met.Jennifer discusses her mission to raise awareness about DUI reform, launch scholarships for students pursuing higher education or trade programs, and spread Braun’s message of living boldly and leading with love. She also shares her advocacy work with MADD and efforts to implement AI-powered car technology that could prevent impaired driving.This episode is both heartbreaking and hopeful — a reminder that even in the darkest moments, one person’s story can spark a nationwide movement for change.Learn more and support: www.livelikebraunfoundation.orgFollow on Instagram: www.instagram.com/livelikebraunfoundationTimestamps00:00 – Welcome & introduction to Jennifer Levi01:30 – The California wildfires and family displacement03:00 – Losing Braun to a drunk driver05:00 – Choosing action over isolation06:30 – “The worst day of my life became my life’s work”08:00 – How the Live Like Braun Foundation began10:00 – Scholarships, awareness, and impact12:00 – The problem with lenient DUI laws in California15:00 – AI and technology to prevent drunk driving18:00 – Education and defensive awareness for teens21:00 – Partnering with MADD and law enforcement23:00 – How Live Like Braun is inspiring kids nationwide25:00 – Scholarships for trade schools and college students27:00 – Healing through service and purpose30:00 – Where to follow and get involvedPowerful Quote“The worst day of my life has now become my life’s work.” – Jennifer LeviGuest BioJennifer LeviFounder, Live Like Braun FoundationJennifer Levi is the founder of the Live Like Braun Foundation, an organization created to honor her late son, Braun, who was tragically killed by a drunk driver at 18 years old. The foundation promotes kindness, inclusivity, and courage — values Braun embodied — while also raising awareness around impaired driving and providing scholarships for students pursuing higher education, trade, or vocational programs.Jennifer’s advocacy includes working with MADD and state leaders to strengthen DUI laws, introduce AI-powered prevention technology in vehicles, and provide educational programs in high schools. Through her work, she continues to turn unimaginable pain into a movement of hope and purpose.Website: www.livelikebraunfoundation.orgInstagram: www.instagram.com/livelikebraunfoundationResources Mentioned• Live Like Braun Foundation – www.livelikebraunfoundation.org• MADD (Mothers Against Drunk Driving) – www.madd.org• HALT Act & AI Vehicle Technology• “Defensive Living” Education Programs for TeensFollow Finding New WatersInstagram: www.instagram.com/newwatersrecoveryFacebook: www.facebook.com/newwatersrecoveryLinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/company/new-waters-recoveryTikTok: www.tiktok.com/@newwatersrecovery_ncListen & WatchWebsite: www.findingnewwaters.comSpotify: open.spotify.com/show/4NOV2g85KExFWU5mTz5GjwApple Podcasts: podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/finding-new-waters/id1684075608YouTube: www.youtube.com/channel/UCjfAIXtiOgy1XFcwAduXgXwYouTube Music: music.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLuJOc6yLcjibGGAKgLYPCN47etJCY89mn#JenniferLevi #LiveLikeBraun #DUIAwareness #AddictionRecovery #FindingNewWaters #GriefToPurpose #ScholarshipFoundation #ImpairedDrivingPrevention #BraunLeviLegacy #MADD

In this powerful episode, B. Reeves and Justin McClendon sit down with Brian Hughes, Regional Resource Director at Caron Treatment Centers. Brian shares his jaw-dropping story—rising through the beer industry at Sam Adams, spiraling into addiction, landing in federal prison, and ultimately finding purpose through recovery.Today, Brian helps others find their way out of the darkness. He walks us through Caron’s legacy, his work across the Northeast and Southeast, and how addiction doesn’t discriminate—whether you’re homeless or a CEO. This is a raw, redemptive conversation about second chances, humility, and the power of recovery.Follow Caron & Contact Brian HughesWebsite: https://www.caron.orgEmail: [email protected] Finding New Waters & New Waters RecoveryInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/newwatersrecoveryFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/newwatersrecoveryLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/new-waters-recoveryTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@newwatersrecovery_ncPodcast Website: https://www.findingnewwaters.comSpotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4NOV2g85KExFWU5mTz5GjwApple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/finding-new-waters/id1684075608YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCjfAIXtiOgy1XFcwAduXgXwYouTube Music: https://music.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLuJOc6yLcjibGGAKgLYPCN47etJCY89mnTimestamps00:00 – Meet Brian Hughes from Caron Treatment Centers01:15 – Caron’s legacy and history in addiction treatment03:00 – Brian’s background: Sam Adams, alcohol industry, and addiction05:00 – His rock bottom: FBI arrest and federal prison07:00 – First nudge from a judge: 40 days in prison08:30 – Starting an AA group while incarcerated09:30 – Why humility was the key to getting free11:30 – Re-entering the world and recovery work post-prison13:00 – Landing his first recovery job—while pleading guilty14:00 – Why his record is now his greatest asset16:30 – Sitting with people in crisis and offering hope18:00 – Getting hired by Caron and learning from leaders19:30 – Why lived experience matters in this field21:00 – The importance of dignity and respect in recovery23:00 – What Brian’s job looks like today: family navigation & advocacy25:00 – How collaboration beats competition in addiction treatment26:30 – Overview of Caron’s programs and campuses28:30 – Signature programs: Grandview, Monarch, and Ocean Drive30:00 – Caron’s neurocognitive treatment approach31:00 – Admitting younger clients (as young as 17)32:00 – Final thoughts on humility, service, and second chances33:00 – How to connect with Brian and learn more about CaronHashtags#BrianHughes #CaronTreatmentCenters #AddictionRecovery#FindingNewWatersPodcast #RecoveryStory #SecondChances#FromPrisonToPurpose #NeurocognitiveTherapy #SubstanceUseHelp#ReentrySupport #SoberLeadership #MentalHealthAwareness#AlcoholRecovery #12StepRecovery #RedemptionThroughService

In this episode, B. Reeves and Justin McClendon sit down with Drew Horowitz, founder of Drew Horowitz & Associates, to break down what interventions are—and what they aren’t. Drew shares his personal story of recovery, his own intervention in NYC, and how that experience led him to a career helping families navigate addiction, mental health, and crisis with professionalism and heart.They explore the misconceptions around interventions, the role of sober transport and companions, and how families can better understand the emotional and financial costs of untreated addiction. Whether you’re a loved one trying to help someone take the first step or a professional in the field, this episode is a must-listen.Follow Drew Horowitz & AssociatesWebsite: https://www.drewhorwitzassociates.comFollow Finding New Waters & New Waters RecoveryInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/newwatersrecoveryFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/newwatersrecoveryLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/new-waters-recoveryTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@newwatersrecovery_ncPodcast Website: https://www.findingnewwaters.comSpotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4NOV2g85KExFWU5mTz5GjwApple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/finding-new-waters/id1684075608YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCjfAIXtiOgy1XFcwAduXgXwYouTube Music: https://music.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLuJOc6yLcjibGGAKgLYPCN47etJCY89mnTimestamps00:00 – Intro: Meet Drew Horowitz01:00 – What Drew Horowitz & Associates does03:00 – Drew’s personal intervention story and path to recovery05:30 – What a compassionate intervention really looks like07:00 – Misconceptions from pop culture and TV09:30 – The four models of intervention12:00 – Common barriers to treatment (work, fear, control)15:00 – The difference between persuasion and empowerment17:00 – Why shame never works19:00 – The manipulative patterns of addiction21:00 – Why families get stuck in the same cycle23:00 – Navigating overwhelming treatment options25:00 – Talking finances: reality vs emotional cost27:00 – Sober transport: getting people safely to care28:30 – Companion services explained32:00 – Smoothing the landing post-treatment35:00 – What recovery actually costs when left untreated37:00 – Additional consulting services39:00 – Why their team stays focused on what they do best40:00 – How to find and contact Drew Horowitz & AssociatesHashtags#DrewHorowitz #InterventionSupport #AddictionRecovery#FindingNewWatersPodcast #SoberTransport #SoberCompanion#FamilyRecovery #MentalHealthIntervention #RecoverySupport#SubstanceUseHelp #CrisisIntervention #TreatmentNavigation#NewWatersRecovery #AddictionResources #CompassionateCare

In this powerful episode of Finding New Waters, B. Reeves and Justin McClendon sit down with Carl Radke, entrepreneur, reality TV star from Bravo’s Summer House, and founder of Soft Bar, a new alcohol-free café and social space in Brooklyn.Carl opens up about his public battle with addiction, the tragic loss of his brother to overdose, and how hitting rock bottom led him to embrace sobriety in 2021. He reflects on his time in the alcohol industry, the challenges of getting sober in the spotlight, and how a community of support helped him rebuild his life.Now nearly five years sober, Carl shares how Soft Bar is redefining what it means to socialize without alcohol — offering premium non-alcoholic cocktails, coffee, and a welcoming space for everyone, whether sober, sober-curious, or just looking for balance.This episode dives deep into recovery, resilience, and Carl’s mission to break stigma and create connection.🌐 Learn more: https://radkeboys.com📍 Visit Soft Bar: Brooklyn, NY00:00 – Welcome & introduction to Carl Radke01:05 – Launching Soft Bar in Brooklyn04:15 – From Bravo to the alcohol industry06:30 – Losing his brother & hitting rock bottom09:45 – Getting sober in the public eye11:20 – Why Soft Bar is about more than recovery14:30 – Not feeling seen when choosing not to drink17:00 – Wearing sobriety on his sleeve19:00 – Building a team and a healthier culture22:30 – Creating connection & community through Soft Bar25:30 – Sobriety in New York City & thriving in meetings29:00 – Experiencing the city sober for the first time31:30 – Morning routines, running, and meditation36:00 – The Radke Boys website & resources42:00 – Impacting others through honesty and visibility46:00 – One day at a time: future plans for Soft BarCarl RadkeEntrepreneur | Reality TV Star | Founder of Soft BarCarl Radke is best known as a cast member on Bravo’s Summer House. After years of working in the alcohol industry and struggling with substance use, Carl embraced sobriety in 2021 following the loss of his brother to overdose. Nearly five years sober, he is now the founder of Soft Bar, a sober-friendly café and bar in Brooklyn that offers premium non-alcoholic cocktails and coffee. Carl also runs RadkeBoys.com, a resource hub created in honor of his brother to support those struggling with addiction.Soft Bar (Brooklyn, NY)RadkeBoys.com – Resources and supportRelease Recovery – Zach Clark’s nonprofitSummer House (Bravo TV)Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/newwatersrecoveryFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/newwatersrecoveryLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/new-waters-recoveryTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@newwatersrecovery_ncPodcast Website: https://www.findingnewwaters.comSpotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4NOV2g85KExFWU5mTz5GjwApple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/finding-new-waters/id1684075608YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCjfAIXtiOgy1XFcwAduXgXwYouTube Music: https://music.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLuJOc6yLcjibGGAKgLYPCN47etJCY89mn#CarlRadke #SoftBar #AddictionRecovery #SobrietyJourney #FindingNewWaters #SummerHouse #AlcoholFreeLiving #RecoveryCommunity #NonAlcoholicCocktails

In this episode, B. Reeves and Justin McClendon sit down with Cini Shaw, Director at The Lighthouse in New Canaan, Connecticut. Cini shares her personal recovery journey and how it led her to help create one of the nation’s most respected recovery residences for executives, professionals, and families.From flexible, concierge-style sober living to coaching and family support, Cini explains how The Lighthouse provides an elevated, individualized path to long-term recovery. She also speaks candidly about the stigma women face when seeking help and why compassionate care is critical to lasting change.Whether you’re looking to understand sober living options, improve family support, or hear an inspiring recovery story, this episode is packed with insight, heart, and hope.Follow The Lighthouse & Cini ShawWebsite: https://www.thelighthousect.comEmail: [email protected] Laird Interview: Available on past episodes of Finding New WatersFollow Finding New Waters & New Waters RecoveryInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/newwatersrecoveryFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/newwatersrecoveryLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/new-waters-recoveryTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@newwatersrecovery_ncPodcast Website: https://www.findingnewwaters.comSpotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4NOV2g85KExFWU5mTz5GjwApple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/finding-new-waters/id1684075608YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCjfAIXtiOgy1XFcwAduXgXwYouTube Music: https://music.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLuJOc6yLcjibGGAKgLYPCN47etJCY89mnTimestamps00:00 – Welcome Cini Shaw from The Lighthouse01:05 – What is The Lighthouse recovery residence?03:00 – Expanding services: Coaching, sober apartments, and intensives05:25 – Balancing recovery with real life (work, travel, family)09:00 – Cini’s personal story of alcoholism, detox, and early recovery11:00 – The power of one act of kindness: her first meeting14:00 – Why it’s harder for women to ask for help18:00 – The myth of perfection and mommy wine culture20:30 – Helping women reintegrate with family while in care22:00 – Career transitions and building a life that lights you up24:00 – What is a recovery coach and how are they different from therapists or sponsors?27:00 – Real-life support: dating, airports, football games, and more29:00 – Why matching clients with the right coach matters31:00 – Family coaching and the Invitation to Change model34:00 – Healing the whole family: The Healing Forest metaphor36:00 – The meaning of “Wellbriety” and growing wellness37:30 – Fun, connection, and living a full life in recovery38:30 – How to get in touch with Cini and visit The LighthouseHashtags#CiniShaw #TheLighthouseCT #FindingNewWatersPodcast#WomenInRecovery #SoberLiving #RecoveryCoaching#ExecutiveRecovery #Wellbriety #AlcoholRecovery#FamilySupport #HealingForest #AddictionRecovery#MindfulLiving #SoberTransformation #MentalHealthAwareness

In this episode of Finding New Waters, B. Reeves and Justin McClendon sit down with Amber Hollingsworth, therapist, addiction recovery coach, and creator of the popular YouTube channel Put the Shovel Down.Amber shares her journey of becoming an addiction counselor “by accident,” how she built one of the first teen outpatient programs in her area, and the lessons she’s learned after 20 years working with families and individuals facing addiction. She explains her unique family lawyering model, why loved ones often get stuck playing the “villain” role, and how her method of “invisible interventions” helps families move someone from denial to change without ultimatums or blowups.From her candid reflections on marijuana addiction and cannabis-induced psychosis, to her strategies for family involvement, Amber brings practical wisdom, compassion, and humor to the complex challenges of recovery.📍 Learn more about Amber:YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@PutTheShovelDownWebsite: https://www.hopeforfamiliesrecoverycenter.com00:00 – Welcome & introduction to Amber Hollingsworth02:00 – How Amber accidentally became an addiction counselor05:00 – Building one of the first teen outpatient programs08:00 – Why relationships matter more than clinical techniques10:00 – The family lawyering model explained13:00 – How families unknowingly sabotage recovery efforts16:00 – Invisible interventions and building “credit” with loved ones20:00 – Content creation and Put the Shovel Down on YouTube24:00 – Trends in addiction: alcohol, opioids, and marijuana27:00 – Why cannabis addiction is often the hardest to treat30:00 – Cannabis-induced psychosis and its impact on teens and families33:00 – Why marijuana can cause aggression in adolescents36:00 – Final thoughts & how to connect with Amber“The formula for change is simple: natural consequences plus empathy equals movement. Families just need to stop playing the villain.” – Amber HollingsworthAmber HollingsworthTherapist | Recovery Coach | Creator, Put the Shovel DownAmber Hollingsworth has worked in addiction treatment for over 20 years, helping families and individuals break free from denial and build lasting recovery. Known for her innovative family lawyering model and her popular YouTube channel Put the Shovel Down, Amber equips families with practical strategies to support recovery without confrontation. She specializes in working with families affected by substance use, offering coaching, educational content, and compassionate guidance rooted in experience and connection.🌐 Hope for Families Recovery Center📺 Put the Shovel Down on YouTubePut the Shovel Down YouTube ChannelHope for Families Recovery CenterCircle of Security Parenting: https://circleofsecurityinternational.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/newwatersrecoveryFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/newwatersrecoveryLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/new-waters-recoveryTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@newwatersrecovery_ncPodcast Website: https://www.findingnewwaters.comSpotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4NOV2g85KExFWU5mTz5GjwApple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/finding-new-waters/id1684075608YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCjfAIXtiOgy1XFcwAduXgXwYouTube Music: https://music.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLuJOc6yLcjibGGAKgLYPCN47etJCY89mn#AmberHollingsworth #PutTheShovelDown #FamilyRecovery #AddictionRecovery #FindingNewWaters #InvisibleIntervention #CannabisAddiction #MarijuanaPsychosis #RecoveryPodcast

In this moving episode of Finding New Waters, B. Reeves and Justin McClendon sit down with Gregg Champion—entrepreneur, recovery advocate, and co-founder of Startup Recovery—to talk about his 30-year journey in sobriety and the devastating California wildfires that destroyed his home, schools, and 70% of his business in a single day.Gregg shares how recovery equipped him to respond with clarity, prioritize family and clients, and rally his community during an unthinkable disaster. He opens up about the creation of Startup Recovery, his belief that we should “shift addiction to passion,” and why he rejects the idea of “get well jobs” in favor of pursuing purpose from the start.From Hollywood to entrepreneurship to building sober living communities, Gregg’s story is one of resilience, innovation, and faith in humanity—restored in the aftermath of tragedy.📍 Learn more about Startup Recovery:Website: https://www.startuprecovery.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/greggchampionLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/greggchampion00:00 – Welcome & introduction to Gregg Champion02:00 – The story behind Gregg’s “Live Like Braun” hat05:00 – Discovering his “it factor” and the second definition of Champion07:00 – Sobriety, entrepreneurship, and founding Startup Recovery10:00 – Rejecting the “get well job” and choosing passion13:00 – The January 7th fires: losing his home, business, and schools17:00 – Keeping kids together to reduce trauma20:00 – Rebuilding Startup Recovery in Santa Monica23:00 – Addiction, divorce, and the fallout after disaster27:00 – Faith restored: strangers’ generosity after the fire30:00 – Gratitude, perspective, and resilience in real time35:00 – Startup 2.0 and what’s next40:00 – How to connect with Gregg ChampionGregg ChampionCo-Founder, Startup Recovery | Recovery Advocate | EntrepreneurGregg Champion has been sober for 30 years and is the co-founder of Startup Recovery, a unique program in Southern California combining mentorship, entrepreneurship, and clinical treatment. With a background in film, branding, and teaching entrepreneurship at USC, Gregg integrates his passion for innovation with his commitment to recovery. His mission is to help people “shift addiction to passion” and live with purpose.🌐 Startup RecoveryStartup Recovery: https://www.startuprecovery.comStartup Wellness: https://www.startupwellness.comStartup Apartments: https://www.startupapartments.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/newwatersrecoveryFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/newwatersrecoveryLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/new-waters-recoveryTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@newwatersrecovery_ncPodcast Website: https://www.findingnewwaters.comSpotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4NOV2g85KExFWU5mTz5GjwApple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/finding-new-waters/id1684075608YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCjfAIXtiOgy1XFcwAduXgXwYouTube Music: https://music.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLuJOc6yLcjibGGAKgLYPCN47etJCY89mn#GreggChampion #StartupRecovery #Resilience #AddictionRecovery #FindingNewWaters #RecoveryJourney #SoberEntrepreneur #Sobriety30Years #ShiftAddictionToPassion #RecoveryCommunity

In this episode of Finding New Waters, B. Reeves and Justin McClendon sit down with John Lieberman, CEO of Visions Teen Treatment Centers in California, a premier program for adolescents struggling with substance use and mental health.John shares his remarkable journey of getting sober at just 17 years old in 1985, entering treatment twice as a teenager, and finding hope that recovery could actually be fun. Now celebrating nearly 40 years in recovery and four decades working in the field, John reflects on how his early experiences shaped his lifelong dedication to adolescent treatment.He discusses his path from floor tech to national outreach director, the founding of Visions, and why he believes in meeting teens with honesty, authenticity, and family support. John also sounds the alarm about today’s challenges—social media, misdiagnosed mental health, and the dangers of THC and psychedelics for vulnerable youth.This conversation is raw, inspiring, and full of wisdom from someone who has dedicated his life to helping young people and families find healing.📍 Learn more about Visions: https://visionsteen.co00:00 – Welcome & introduction to John Lieberman02:00 – Getting sober at 17 in Pasadena, CA06:00 – Finding hope that recovery could be fun10:00 – Lessons from early treatment experiences15:00 – From floor tech to 40 years in adolescent treatment20:00 – Why authenticity matters in youth recovery24:00 – Visions Teen: dual diagnosis & family-focused programming29:00 – Why all-gender treatment environments matter33:00 – The rise of anxiety, OCD, and autism spectrum diagnoses38:00 – Social media’s devastating impact on kids44:00 – THC, psychedelics, and the reality of psychosis in teens50:00 – Why parents must get involved in recovery54:00 – A message of hope for familiesJohn LiebermanCEO, Visions Teen Treatment CentersJohn Lieberman has been working in the field of addiction and adolescent mental health for nearly 40 years. After getting sober at 17, John began his career as a floor tech and went on to become a leader, educator, and advocate in adolescent treatment. Today, he serves as CEO of Visions Teen Treatment Centers in California, widely regarded as the gold standard in adolescent care. John is passionate about authentic connection, family involvement, and raising awareness about the unique challenges facing today’s youth.🌐 Visions Teen TreatmentVisions Teen Treatment: https://visionsteen.com“The Anxious Generation” by Jonathan HaidtCircle of Security Parenting: https://circleofsecurityinternational.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/newwatersrecoveryFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/newwatersrecoveryLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/new-waters-recoveryTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@newwatersrecovery_ncPodcast Website: https://www.findingnewwaters.comSpotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4NOV2g85KExFWU5mTz5GjwApple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/finding-new-waters/id1684075608YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCjfAIXtiOgy1XFcwAduXgXwYouTube Music: https://music.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLuJOc6yLcjibGGAKgLYPCN47etJCY89mn#JohnLieberman #VisionsTeen #AdolescentRecovery #AddictionRecovery #FindingNewWaters #TeenMentalHealth #SubstanceAbuseTreatment #SobrietyAt17 #RecoveryCommunity #YouthRecovery

In this heartfelt episode of Finding New Waters, B. Reeves and Justin McClendon sit down with Tom Farley—speaker, author, recovery advocate, and brother of the late comedian Chris Farley.Tom opens up about his personal journey through addiction and recovery, the impact of his brother’s very public death, and how writing The Chris Farley Show helped him heal and see Chris in a new light. He reflects on growing up in Wisconsin, navigating sobriety after years of false starts, and finding purpose in working with teens, treatment centers, and now with Recovery.com.From stories of Wall Street and New York nightlife to insights on authenticity, grief, and fun in recovery, Tom’s story is equal parts cautionary and inspiring. He also shares the exciting news of an upcoming film adaptation of The Chris Farley Show—and why he hopes it will become a tool for the recovery community.📍 Learn more about Tom’s work: https://www.recovery.com📕 Book: The Chris Farley Show00:00 – Welcome & introduction to Tom Farley01:00 – Tom’s work with Recovery.com and Recovery Cast03:00 – How Chris Farley’s story first brought Tom into recovery work05:00 – Sobriety “attempts” vs. true recovery07:00 – The meeting that changed everything10:00 – Writing The Chris Farley Show and seeing Chris differently13:00 – The “mascot” persona and searching for authenticity16:00 – Growing up, prep school, and Georgetown years19:00 – Life in New York finance & Chris’s rise at SNL22:00 – News about The Chris Farley Show movie adaptation26:00 – Recovery.com’s mission & patient-first approach30:00 – Building healthy workplace culture rooted in gratitude34:00 – Belonging, connection, and living as one whole person38:00 – Lessons from recovery: action before results41:00 – Why fun in recovery is not only possible—but essential“I thought recovery meant no more fun—but I’ve had more fun sober than I ever did drinking. You’re not going to tell a Farley they can’t have fun.” – Tom FarleyTom FarleyTom Farley is a speaker, author, and recovery advocate. He wrote The Chris Farley Show, a New York Times bestselling oral history of his brother, the late comedian Chris Farley. Tom has spent years developing prevention and treatment programs for teens and young adults, and today works with Recovery.com, a patient-focused platform dedicated to connecting people with recovery resources and building community through podcasts, articles, and education.Recovery.comThe Chris Farley Show (Book)Recovery Cast PodcastGiving Voice to Depression PodcastInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/newwatersrecoveryFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/newwatersrecoveryLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/new-waters-recoveryTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@newwatersrecovery_ncPodcast Website: https://www.findingnewwaters.comSpotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4NOV2g85KExFWU5mTz5GjwApple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/finding-new-waters/id1684075608YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCjfAIXtiOgy1XFcwAduXgXwYouTube Music: https://music.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLuJOc6yLcjibGGAKgLYPCN47etJCY89mn#TomFarley #ChrisFarley #RecoveryPodcast #AddictionRecovery #FindingNewWatersPodcast #RecoveryCommunity #TheChrisFarleyShow #RecoveryDotCom #SobrietyJourney #FunInRecovery

In this episode of Finding New Waters, B. Reeves and Justin McClendon sit down with Ryan Soave, Licensed Mental Health Counselor, certified trauma therapist, and research consultant for Huberman Lab at Stanford University Department of Neurobiology.Ryan opens up about his journey from entrepreneur and world traveler to finding his true calling in the treatment of trauma and addiction. He shares insights from years of clinical practice, research, and personal transformation—exploring why we confuse discomfort with danger, how trauma builds over time, and why resilience requires learning to sit with the difficult emotions instead of running from them.Drawing on practices like meditation, Yoga Nidra, Somatic Experiencing, EMDR, and breathwork, Ryan offers both science and story to help us understand how to uncover our true selves through recovery and healing.📍 Learn more about Ryan: Guardian Recovery – Ryan Soave📲 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ryan.swa📺 YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@rjswa⸻⏱️ Timestamps:00:00 – Welcome & introduction to Ryan Soave02:00 – From entrepreneurship to trauma treatment04:00 – Research with Huberman Lab & VR experiments on fear07:00 – The barnacle boat: how trauma builds up over time10:00 – Early programming and its effects on relationships13:00 – Why we confuse discomfort with danger17:00 – Addictive behaviors and the search for relief21:00 – Meaning-making, worry, and fear of the future24:00 – Principles in action: practicing recovery in relationships27:00 – Sensitivity, stress, and self-regulation tools30:00 – Yoga Nidra and Non-Sleep Deep Rest explained34:00 – Breathwork, pausing, and the power of stillness41:00 – Practical tools for re-centering in stress44:00 – Final reflections & how to connect with Ryan⸻💬 Powerful Quote:“We often confuse discomfort with danger—and then react to it as if it’s life or death.” – Ryan Soave⸻👤 Guest Bio:Ryan SoaveLMHC | Certified Trauma Therapist | Program Developer | Research ConsultantRyan Soave brings deep experience as a Licensed Mental Health Counselor, certified trauma therapist, program developer, and research consultant for Huberman Lab at Stanford University Department of Neurobiology. After graduating from Wake Forest University and building a successful business career, Ryan faced personal and spiritual challenges that led him to pursue a Master’s in Mental Health Counseling.He has since worked with thousands of clients with complex PTSD, designed and facilitated large workshops, and spoken at national conferences as an expert in trauma and addiction treatment. Ryan has also been invited multiple times to lead meditations for members and staffers of the United States Congress. Trained in modalities such as yoga, Yoga Nidra, Somatic Experiencing, EMDR, and breathwork, Ryan approaches recovery with passion, commitment, and joy—believing that trauma treatment is an uncovering process that allows people to remember their true selves.🌐 Learn More – Guardian Recovery⸻📚 Resources Mentioned: • Yoga Nidra / NSDR guided practices • Breathwork and Somatic Experiencing • Guardian Recovery: https://www.guardianrecovery.com⸻📱 Follow Us: • Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/newwatersrecovery • Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/newwatersrecovery • LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/new-waters-recovery • TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@newwatersrecovery_nc⸻▶️ Watch & Listen: • Podcast Website: https://www.findingnewwaters.com • Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4NOV2g85KExFWU5mTz5Gjw • Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/finding-new-waters/id1684075608 • YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCjfAIXtiOgy1XFcwAduXgXw • YouTube Music: https://music.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLuJOc6yLcjibGGAKgLYPCN47etJCY89mn#RyanSoave #TraumaRecovery #AddictionRecovery #HubermanLab #FindingNewWaters #YogaNidra #NSDR #SomaticExperiencing #Breathwork #PTSDHealing