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First Born Wahala

by Bukky & Debbie

First Born Wahala podcast is led by 2 vivacious Nigerian-Italian women living in London, where they discuss the highs and lows of being a first born! Nothing is off limits and the various cultural influences make for some great listening; from the unfiltered realities of being Nigerian Millennials to the belly hurting banter.Join them as they navigate through everyday life experiences AKA wahalas.

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Episodes

  1. EPISODE 62 - Bowing out!

    🎙️ A Farewell... For Now Hey, lovely listeners! This episode is a mix of emotions as we dive into some deep waters of discussion. From shedding light on a recent scandal rocking the wedding community to delving into the core value of integrity, we're covering it all. But wait, there's more! We...

  2. EPISODE 61 - The Theme is Be Careful!

    Buckle up, because on today's episode of Kilonshele, we're serving up the juiciest topics from around the world! From the halls of politics to the beats of the latest music hits and the binge-worthy TV shows everyone's talking about, we're diving headfirst into the hottest trends and…

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  3. EPISODE 60 - Shake The Breast and Scatter The Bumbum

    🎉 Join us for an episode that's equal parts laughter and contemplation! 🚀 In this installment of we take you on a journey through heartfelt surprises, candid rants, and an insightful exploration of what's in and out in the ever-evolving landscape of 2024. Brace yourself for our bi-weekly dose…

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  4. EPISODE 59 - You proposed just so you could dump me!

    Join us for an unforgettable episode that's part matrimonial madness, part moral conundrums, and all-around laughter! 🤣🔔 In this special edition, we dive headfirst into the wild world of 'Am I the Asshole?' (AITA) Reddit posts, where the age-old question of morality meets the chaos of wedding...

  5. EPISODE 58 - We Are Back Again!!!

    HAPPY NEW YEAR OUR PEOPLE!!! We are back, back, back... Back again, gain, gain!!! Your wait is over guys, we are here talking about the big headlines of 2023 that we weren't able to speak on and we also update you on the big milestones that we have achieved and experienced during our break!…

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  6. EPISODE 57 - We Are Grown A** Adults!

    Firstly, we apologise for the lateness of this episode. As the title says we are adults and life was hectic but here we are!!! On this episode we speak about what markers in life made us realise that we have become adults; is it being able to drive, having a mortgage, having worked for over 10...

  7. EPISODE 56 - Chef Hilda vs Chef Dami; Inspiration or Envy?

    The topics are just making themselves recently! On today's episode we, once again, veer off into discussion from our kilonsele; the news is just too juicy! we talk about bare presidents, from Mr Trump getting indicted to Mr Berlusconi dying at 86 and Mr Tinubu suspending the govenor of central...

  8. EPISODE 55 - Burna did his THANG!!!

    Bukky is back y'all and in today's episode we bring each other and you up to date with our latest escapades and latest kilonseles. World news was packed with information from Africa and what's pop-ping took us on a deep dive of different topics; from being on the phone during your wedding to...

  9. EPISODE 54 - Communication is Key!

    Long distance relationships are not for the faint of heart! On today's episode we discuss the key components of what it takes to uphold a long distance relationship and ways to spice things up. Join us as we talk about luurrvvvvv!! #FBWPod is fronted by 2 vivacious Nigerian-Italian women living…

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  10. EPISODE 53 - Nigerians > BeyHive

    Hey FBW fam!! Debbie is back! and in today's episode, she's giving us all the juice from her trip to Nigeria - the gbegborun is sweet. Join us as I bring her up to speed with what's been happening in the UK and navigate through the latest headlines: from the Coronation of Charlie, the Little...

  11. EPISODE 52 - SHE IS A WITCH! SHE DON'T LOVE HIM

    We're back with another episode of 'Am I the Asshole?' where we read out some interesting dilemmas and give our FBW take! Get ready for some shockers and make sure to tune in! #FBWPod is fronted by 2 vivacious Nigerian-Italian women living in London where they discuss the highs and the lows of...

  12. EPISODE 51 - WHY ARE YOU COLLECTING A WHINE?

    It is popping off at FBWahala Studios, so much so that we had to dedicate this whole episode discussing all the kilonseles! In today’s episode we navigate through all the latest news and headlines the only way we can, by laughing and doing enjoyment!! Tune in and get ready to enjoy a news…

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  13. EPISODE 50 - Reverse UNO

    Today's episode is all about divorce; the whys and the hows! We discuss the reasons why a couple would get divorced and how reconciliation may occur. As usual we put our #FBW twist on it with our beautiful grammar lool. Join us on this marital (or not) journey!! S'o Ti Gbo: Serie: Unseen National...

  14. EPISODE 49 - I Go Chop, I Go Chop oo!

    Today’s episode is full of laughter. We go back to our roots and navigate through some first born dilemmas, all parent related. Join us on this sugar high episode!!! S'o Ti Gbo: Movie: Gangs of Lagos Laughs of the Week: Bukky: Older Generation GRWM Content Debbie: Videos of Babies Laughing…

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  15. EPISODE 48 - Physical Touch Is a MUST!

    Today’s episode is taken from the book of TikTok lol and we discuss what touch starvation is and it's effect on the body. As usual there are laughs and songs so join us on this informative journey! S'o Ti Gbo: Musician: Lagbala Brunch Spot: Bobochacha Hair Care: Virgin Hair Fertilizer Laughs of…

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  16. EPISODE 47 - But...Should He Cheat Tho?

    Today's episode we deep-dive into our Kilonsele news; from Love is blind to cheating! Join us as we serenade your ears with our beautiful singing voices! S'o Ti Gbo Musician: Segun Johnson TikTok: @tanaradoublechocolate Laughs Of The Week: Bukky: Bottle Game Debbie: Piers Morgan #FBWPod is…

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  17. EPISODE 46 - After God, Fear Men!!!

    Today’s episode is a howler! Be ready to laugh PLENTY! Today we took some Reddit posts and gave our 'Big Sis' opinions on them and in usual FBW manner, we went off the rails lol. From culture to childbirth; join us on this abdominal workout of an episode... The way we laughed eh!! S'o Ti Gbo…

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  18. EPISODE 45 - We Have Arrived!

    On today's episode we talk about how we speak about our parents in public; do we speak about them based on our lived experiences or do we (sorta, kinda) make them the butt of our jokes? Join us as we discuss this parenting conundrum! S’o Ti Gbo: Hair Product: Virgin Hair Fertiliser Lidl: Focaccia...

  19. EPISODE 44 - Back Like We Never Left... Kinda!

    WE'RE BACK BABY!!! What's up FBW Fam, it's been a hot minute. Have you missed us??? Well, miss us no more because here we are with our first episode of the year and we come with a big catch up, both personal and with what's going on in the world! First of all, forgive us for the late upload as...

  20. EPISODE 43 - Izzz Christmas!!

    Merry Christmas FBW Fam!!! Whether you're chopping Joloff rice, seasoned turkey, brussel sprouts or more, we hope you're having an incredible time with your loved ones! We recorded a surprise Christmas Special episode for you to tune into! We cover all the headlines we've missed during our break,...

  21. EPISODE 42 - That's All Folks!

    Here we are guys... Can you believe we are doing our end-of-year wrap up episode already??? Yes, FBW has been singing in your ears for nearly a year and on this nugget of an episode we go down memory lane to our humble beginnings and talk about our favourite episodes. Now it's time for us to take…

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  22. EPISODE 41 - Innocent Till Proven Guilty ft. Louisa

    Today we have no choice but to be law abiding citizens as we have a solicitor in our midst; friend of the pod and sister Louisa who also has an amazing platform @ghanacentric! On todays episode we discuss law, being diasporans and of course go on massive tangents as usual! Join us on this lawful...

  23. EPISODE 40 - These Wild Dating Streets…

    On today's episode we talk everything dating; the online and the offline. We give you tips on how to navigate these wild streets so join us as we show you how to let somebody's son/daughter find you!!! S'o Ti Gbo: Beverage: Merlot Jack Rabbit Advice: DO NOT cheat on your barber! #FBWPod is…

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  24. EPISODE 39 - Introvert vs Extrovert

    On todays episode, we deep dive into our psychology bag and discuss the different characteristics of introverts and extroverts. Which one are you? Join us as we self diagnose ourselves!!! S'o Ti Gbo: Netflix Serie: From Scratch Netflix Serie: Love is Blind Book: Half of a Yellow Sun by Chimamanda...

  25. EPISODE 38 - No But…Kilonsele?

    In today's episode, we discuss the current news and latest topics and really wonder kilonsele!? TRIGGER WARNING: this episode is morbid and there is talk about death. S'o Ti Gbo: Serie: 60 Days In Dessert: Baklava Netflix Serie: Dubai Bling #FBWPod is fronted by 2 vivacious Nigerian-Italian women...

  26. EPISODE 37 - Naija Ain't just Yoruba ft Yetti

    This episode is officially the LONGEST episode EVER and it's an educational one, so get your notebooks out and take notes! Yes, we are giving you a history class with our good sis, friend of the Pod and YouTuber Yetti (@seoulconnection)...FBW is all about bants and laughter but we also want you…

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  27. EPISODE 36 - Journey to Marriage ft. Milaana

    Can you hear the wedding bells?? We certainly can!!! Today we are joined by another guest and friend of the pod Milaana, who takes us down memory lane to when she got engaged. We discuss about the waiting period and how hard it is to keep hopeful at times and of course there is a lot of laughter....

  28. EPISODE 35 - Generation 1.5, Stand Up!

    We've told you for day one that first borns are special and todays episode re-enforces said statement... We Are Bridges!! On todays episode we deep dive into a topic that stems from a clip we saw on TikTok by @thatsnotmynameltd which spoke about immigrants and generations. We are sure many of you...

  29. EPISODE 34 - Post Panoramic Life ft. Jite

    First of all, let us begin with a volume warning!!! The sound on this episode is a bit of a mazza and we apologise; please be careful. Make we no kill your ears abeg. On this episode, featuring our lovely sister Dr. Onajite, we speak on mental health and how the pandemic aka panoramic has…

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  30. EPISODE 33 - That's Really the One Gan Gan!

    Permissive, authorititive, authoritarian or neglectful... What kind of parent do you think you'll be in the future? On this episode we discuss the different types of parenting; what we will be and what our parents were and are to us now. As usual, bring your dancing shoes!!! S'o ti gbo…

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  31. EPISODE 32 - MEGA KILONSELE

    Your favourite big sisters have kept to their word and have given you the kilonsele of all kilonseles!!! On this episode we navigate through all the major kilonseles from when Debbie went to Nigeria till now... There is laughter, ranting and would this be a normal episode without a bit of…

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  32. EPISODE 31 - Best Two Weeks Ever!!!

    Debz is back and Nigeria was nothing but INCREDIBLE!!! On this episode we ask Debbie how her long awaited trip to Nigeria went. We got you guys involved by getting you to ask her question through Instagram and of course, paying respect to Iya Charlie the Queen of England. #FBWPod is fronted by 2...

  33. EPISODE 30 - Sọ̀rọ̀ sókè!!: Unlucky for some, but lucky for you

    We are back with another episode of Sọ̀rọ̀ sókè! This is where we turn the mic over to you and read through your wahalas, thank you notes and tributes as well as give you our 'expert' advice & opinions as egbons (big sisters). Get your tissues out, this episode is about to get all into your…

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  34. Episode 29 - Progress Check

    Who says we need to wait until the end of the year to revisit our goals? Biko, It’s time for a progress check! In this episode, we ask ourselves if we’re still on track to achieving some of the personal goals we set ourselves earlier this year! In between a #Nigerian-style quiz and a Ciara...

  35. EPISODE 28 - Letter To My Younger Self

    If you could turn back the hands of time and give your younger self some advice, what would it be? Todays episode is just that, we dive in and discuss what we would tell our younger selves: from taking our time to enjoying being kids. S'o ti gbo: Music: Vanilla by BurnaBoy, Produced by atgmusick...

  36. EPISODE 27 - Are Influencers Influencing?

    In todays episode we nagivate through the influencing world and discuss whether we are still being influenced by them or not, our favourite influencers and favourite type of content... Would it be a FBW episode without a bit of music lol come and dance with us!!! S'o ti gbo: Movie: The Green Book...

  37. EPISODE 26 - Just Good Enough Is Ok Sometimes

    Faith is the key word of todays episode!Today we talk about our faith and our relationship with our Heavenly Father; the good, the bad and the tough... It even ends up being a little bit of a therapy session! Join us as we spread the word of the Lord and bask in His love! #FBWPod is fronted by 2...

  38. LOVE ISLAND SMALL CHOPS - PART 4 (FINAL)

    Bonus last episode!! Live-ish! Tune in! Are you a Love Island UK fan? then join us for an uncut debrief with your favourite First borns! #FBWPod is fronted by 2 vivacious Nigerian-Italian women living in London, where they discuss the highs and lows of being a first born! Hosts: Bukky: Twitter:...

  39. LOVE ISLAND SMALL CHOPS - PART 3

    Are you a Love Island UK fan? then join us for an uncut debrief with your favourite First borns! #FBWPod is fronted by 2 vivacious Nigerian-Italian women living in London, where they discuss the highs and lows of being a first born! Hosts: Bukky: Twitter: @sheilatalks Debbie: Instagram…

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  40. EPISODE 25 - Black, Blessed & Highly Favoured

    Today’s episode is all about celebrating our melanin!!! We discuss what it means for us to be Black, the history that is currently being made and quite simply how great we are! If you like a bit of singing? We throw that in too! Make no mistake though, we love you all (heart emoji)! S'o ti gbo:...

  41. LOVE ISLAND SMALL CHOPS - PART 2

    Are you a Love Island UK fan? then join us for an uncut debrief with your favourite First borns! #FBWPod is fronted by 2 vivacious Nigerian-Italian women living in London, where they discuss the highs and lows of being a first born! Hosts: Bukky: Twitter: @sheilatalks Debbie: Instagram…

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  42. EPISODE 24 - Daddy's Girls

    From water vaporisers, road noises, children in the background and ice cream vans this episode takes the award for most chaotic! Regardless, we still delivered sha - join us as we explore and share our relationships with the first love of our lives, our fathers. As two self-confessed Daddy's…

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  43. EPISODE 23 - Let's Agree to Disagree

    When it comes to arguements, are you passive agressive, confrontational or do you just walk away?? Today we discuss the greatest 'end of arguement' one liners! Make sure to add your own in the comments!!! S'o ti gbo: The Boys - Amazon Prime Volume warning! Just an FYI guys, our mic decided to put...

  44. EPISODE 22 - Jillie Bean Is Not My Lover!

    We are back!!! Hope you didn't miss us too much last week! Miss Rona decided to show her unwanted face. In todays episode, we get carried away with the goings on of the world: from (trigger warning) abortions, Mr R. Kelly, to dancing in our cars. Join us as we let you know Kilonshele in the…

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  45. LOVE ISLAND SMALL CHOPS

    Are you a Love Island UK fan? then join us for an uncut debrief with your favourite First borns! #FBWPod is fronted by 2 vivacious Nigerian-Italian women living in London, where they discuss the highs and lows of being a first born! Hosts: Bukky: Twitter: @sheilatalks Debbie: Instagram…

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  46. EPISODE 21 - Sọ̀rọ̀ sókè!: Kilonshele Edition

    We are back with another episode of Sọ̀rọ̀ sókè! This is where we read through your wahalas and give your our 'expert' advice & opinions as egbons (big sisters) but today's edition is all about the Kilonsheles of the world. Tune in! #FBWPod is fronted by 2 vivacious Nigerian-Italian women living…

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  47. EPISODE 20 - How do others perceive you?

    It's our 20th episode!!!Thank you for helping us get to this mini milestone!!! In todays episode we talk about perception; how we perceive ourselves and how others perceive us. Do you care about how others see you? Join us as we answer that question. S'o ti gbo: Saamu Alajo: YouTube #FBWPod is...

  48. EPISODE 19 - Is Hate Taught?

    Today's episode is a serious one as we dive into the events that occured in Nigeria and whether 'hate' is an emotion we are born with or taught. Irish gospel band: Rend Collective #FBWPod is fronted by 2 vivacious Nigerian-Italian women living in London, where they discuss the highs and lows of...

  49. EPISODE 18 - Catchup, Sweden gate and iya Bukky!

    We are Back!!! Hope you didn't miss us too much last week! In today's episode we touch on so many different topics from reality shows to Sweden gate and life insurance! We are here to bring the fun but also the realities of life. S'o ti gbo: Colin in Black and White: Netflix Zecchino D'oro…

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  50. EPISODE 17 - Anime, Gaming and Soft Life ft. Tayo

    We have another guest y'all and it's our first male guest!!! Tayo is a friend of the pod and we took advantage of him and asked for a mans perspective on past topics like financing sissys soft life, gym antics and more. Tayos website: www.widb.io/www.whyididntbuy.com Tayos handles:...

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First Born Wahala podcast is led by 2 vivacious Nigerian-Italian women living in London, where they discuss the highs and lows of being a first born! Nothing is off limits and the various cultural influences make for some great listening; from the unfiltered realities of being Nigerian Millennials to the belly hurting banter.Join them as they navigate through everyday life experiences AKA wahalas.

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