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Fleekazoid
by fleeksie
Topics on life, dating, scams, created by Fleeksie, inspired by current events, your questions and requests on Fleeksies social media accounts.
Episodes
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Healthy men vs. Fake nice guys
All healthy guys are nice but not all nice guys are healthy (as my bf so lovingly put it). A break from the cautionary content, but with a dash of what a green flag looks and feels like in real time, sprinkled in with some personal anecdotes and male perspectives. To help those who struggle with...
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Breakups are like quitting a substance: how breakups mimics withdrawals and grief
he worst part about ending a relationship is all the f*ck *ss advice handed around by people who say people should simply “just move on” and “just let it go” without acknowledging the actual turmoil that is the way your brain has changed while in the relationship. The tea is that breaking up and...
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Breaking the dating rules? Story time + Vetting in dating
When to break the rules in dating without losing yourself and centering men in the process, and a story time on how I got back into dating (in a non toxic, non angry way) after being boy sober for 10 months. Spoiler: If you're scared to lose a man because you have "too many rules", you probably…
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Emotionally Unavailable Men - Reading "What Men Dont Want Women To Know" + Why men like when you're mean to them.
Emotionally unavailable men, through the lens of a verbal reading of “What men don’t want women to know”. For the woman who ever wondered why being mean made him text more, come closer, and why men enjoy “mean women” who “treat them badly”. The way dealing with these men can come with physical…
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The Boys Club - Reading “What men don’t want women to know”.
Can you tell when someone has a premium membership to the boys club? This episode contains a reading of the chapter “Men protecting men” written by Smith and Doe in 1998. Opening up a sociocultural conversation on what the boys club looks like in 2025 in the military, your work place, your...
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You don't love the man, you love the lie.
Loving the lie and not the man means the guy you created in your head, the version he showed himself early on to be (the classic first 2-3 weeks), or the person he tries to tell you he is, but actively shows you he isn’t. The lie hits like a drug whether we’re believing it, reliving it, or…
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People pleasing pushes people away
Yes, people pleasing has the opposite effect you think it has. If you call yourself a people pleaser as a badge of honor, this is an episode on why you're not having the impact you want to have. A honest look at how people pleasers are perceived, avoiding being passive aggressive, why healthy...
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Career insecurity - What it looks like, corporate pick me's and toxic bosses who sabotage you.
Are we allowed to admit on the internet that we’ve been insecure at any point about our academic and career experiences? Today’s episode is about what career insecurity looked like within me, what fueled it externally, how it symptomatically presented itself to others, as well as the stressors…
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Men who suck don't change, they rebrand. [Speaking to the woman he "changed" for]
If you ever wondered if the guy who treated you like shit went on to become the dream man for the next woman - today’s special guest is the woman the Scorpio “changed” for 👀 “Strawberry” joins us today to tell us all about his new sugar daddy + financially generous approach to dating since…
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Losing Friends Because You Decentered Men
Whether you were the one who centered a man and drifted from your friends OR your friends disappeared so they could center a man in peace (it happens, y’all). This is a firsthand perspective on what it feels like to be that friend who let men disrupt her circle, and how that isolation either...
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Surviving the friend that hates you: Jealousy in friendships
For the naive who may not understand what insecurity and malignancy shows up as in friendship dynamics - this episode is about how being a “girls girl” will be weaponized by friend collectors and women aiming to level you with them. This is about friendships in adulthood, why you can’t take on...
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How toxic work places and toxic relationships are the same
Walking you through the eerie, dead-on parallels between toxic relationships and toxic workplaces. Check out my FDS collaboration episode on this topic here! How they both love bomb, devalue, and try to drain you dry. If you’ve ever questioned why you feel like you’re working harder just to be...
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Being Addicted to Love - What centering men steals from you
If you’ve been centering men to the point where you’ve lost yourself, this is a walk through of symptoms, signs, and what the other side looks like when you made it all the way out (no judgement zone). I talk about the signs you might be a love addict, what it’s actually stealing from you, and…
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When you're in a slump from hell - body in total shut down
Why you’re not lazy or broken, and how to gently pull yourself out of task paralysis and flight mode after a nervous system shut down. This one’s for anyone who’s been deep in the slump from hell and is ready to feel human again.
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Decentering Work - Detaching from your job
For those who get the scaries before work (toxic work environment vibes) and feel genuinely guilty or like they’re doing something wrong by not centering work - let this episode be your reminder. Not making your work your entire personality is a normal thing to do, and will save you from pain and...
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The new year glow up is decentering men
The ultimate glow is the one that comes from within. That's the one that doesn't involve the external validation that we've been socially nudged to seek out. A New Years special, this episode covers topics about how men center other men, dating apps being a trap for women who center men, and...
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Dating scam: the golden deceiver - a cautionary story time for women who love love
Even the best get got. And you know it’s never on any shame here. This is a 2 hour, cautionary dating story-time about a man with dirty-john motivations, lying, deceptive tendencies, fake-charming qualities and scamming ways. Honestly? This story could have stopped one date in, so you know the...
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Things hot girls just know ft. Fendi Faith
Not knowing that you're perceived as a hot girl doesn't stop other people from thinking it about you, unfortunately. And there are some things hot girls just know after a life that's been well lived. If you're new to being attractive or are on the path of going there (plot twist, we're all…
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Toxic Households: Surviving and why you're not stuck.
Toxic households can make you feel stuck, stagnant, and held back. Listen to this when you need to hear that you're not stuck, and why taking the first steps to get out and reclaim your individuality are the best immediately affirming actions you can make in leaving- and not just escaping, but...
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The Life and Misogyny of Kevin Samuels - Ft. Fendi Faith
Ever wondered where phrases like "High value woman", and narratives of women *Having* to settle after arbitrary ages in their early mid 20's came from? Meet Kevin Samuels, the now late youtuber who used his platform of over 1.4 million youtube and Instagram followers to spread these messages and...
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Feeling Safe: I'm gonna be ok no matter what
For large transitions, and when you're scared you're not going to be ok. This episode recounts the events I mentally went through when moving out, and how I came to develop my sense of "I'm gonna be ok no matter what" over a 2 year time span, after moving out of my moms house. Follow me…
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The art of being alone - Enjoying your own solitude
While I’ve always had an inclination for solitude, I still found myself occasionally buying into the narrative, during my youth and adulthood, where I believed it was one of the worst things that could ever happen to me. Today’s episode is about acceptance of isolation, whether it was…
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Hate is heavy to live with: when you cant stop ruminating
Listen to this when you can't get over how much you hate a person, place or thing and want to take your mind back.
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Re-Romanticizing your life: yeah, it's gonna take a few tries.
Re-romanticizing is the name we’re going with today because this shit is a life practice that never stops. Today’s topic covers 11 talking points of how to treat it like one. Whether you arrived at this place from heartbreak, job woes, toxic circles and surroundings, or just pure ennui. This is…
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When they wont let you move on
Nothing I say can ever prepare you for the logic that will inevitably fly out the window if you feel even a slither of emotion for someone you’re trying to move on from. Let’s start there. However, I am not going to make you feel bad about it. Here’s my indepth thoughts on how to deal, heal and...
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Deciding who you are after the breakup: Alone at last
So you went through a breakup. Now what? Well, it’s time to decide who you are (you know, after you peel away from all the parts of you that you became while dating that person). No, this isn’t a long episode about how you need to “just love yourself”. Infact, I didn’t even say that phrase once…
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When you just dont want to move on - but how to get there
You don’t want to move on, but everyone around you is telling you it’s been time to. And yet, here we are. I’m not here to shame you, because I’ve been you. Outer circle of people begging me to move on and all. Here’s an understanding take on how to move on when you secretly don’t want too, and...
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Ghosting: Why they do it, How to deal with it and Bounce back
The infamous topic of ghosting has arrived. Ghosting sucks and you’re totally normal for being affected by it. In today’s episode, I attempt to address the need for feedback, closure, answers, an apology, and how to make sense of it all and bounce back when you’re sitting in the feeling of...
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Stop identifying with the anger and pain of a unfortunate moment, bad event, and separation
In today's episode we discuss making an identity out of pain and how we end up letting moments of rejection, separation or unfortunate situations unnecessarily define us. How this can be harmful to us, why we shouldn't do it, and allowing ourselves to move forward with self forgiveness and...
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Audio Version - Moving out for those who never left their parents - A guide on getting your first place/apartment - Video Edition
Moving out of your parents for the first time? This video podcast starts with financial expectations and the general amount to have saved. We discuss moving (getting boxes, moving companies vs task rabbits and renting a van). The topic then expands into requirements to anticipate based on…
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Video Version - Moving out for those who never left their parents - A guide on getting your first place/apartment
Moving out of your parents for the first time? This video podcast starts with financial expectations and the general amount to have saved. We discuss moving (getting boxes, moving companies vs task rabbits and renting a van). The topic then expands into requirements to anticipate based on…
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How to know you are in a situationship
You might not even realize you're in one. You might be thinking "he said he likes me" or "he said he loves me", and you might think that situationships are only for the people in one sided dynamics. Well my friend, I'm here to expand your view. I'm also here to explain how situationships exist on…
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Why I don't like dating apps
So many reasons to dislike them, where does a girl even start? Today's episode is a rant styled list of reasons of why I dislike dating apps and have discontinued my use of them.
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Situationships end when you stop asking how they feel and start asking how you feel
In today's episode, we talk about how we find ourselves in situationships. How they thrive under our noses, and how we can either push them forward or keep it pushing all together. The main theme: it's not about how they feel about you, it's about how you feel about you and what you feel like...
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Having expensive energy and protecting yourself from energy vampires
No, we're not just talking about a dollar value and who you date. This is about the intrinsic value of your time and mental energy and being intentional with it across the board of whoever you deal with, and how to recognize when it's being drained or even exploited. This is meant to hype you up…
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The "need" behind the meaning (recognizing your needs)
That tense, heightened, intense feeling that makes you wonder if you're crazy? Yeah, that’s your needs and emotions demanding to be recognized. Today we break it down, and talk about how you can recognize yours.
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Cut throat attitude towards disrespectful people (negging and flaw exploiters)
What they said was kinda mean, but that’s just how they are… SIKE! They’re a**holes. Today’s episode is talking about negging, and people who use flaw finding and flaw exploiting as a conversational device. This addresses a range of people, i.e; those who you just met, long term relationships,...
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If you love them let them go (real talk)
Ok, literally *everyone* says this. But seriously, a large part of moving on is acceptance, and today’s episode is a walk down the brutal streets of acceptance lane. Why leaving someone alone who doesn’t want you in their life is the nicest thing you can do for them, and why you can’t love…
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Being a Doomer (why you should stop)
It’s a trying *ss time to be a positive person. Is this what living through history feels like? Today we’re talking about spiraling into a doom mindset and being a doomer. Making doom your identity and the center of all your conversations (without dismissing the times).
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Girl where have you been? A personal upload
Today's episode is answering FAQ and is a pre-episode as an intro to season 2 of the Fleekazoid podcast. We discuss where I've been, where I'd like to go, and give an update on my personal life (trigger warning: scorpio mention jump scare alert). The purpose is to set the mood for what's to come...
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Safety in sugaring - scams, red flags, what to look out for.
This episode discusses scams, red flags, and things to look for when dating beneficially and sugaring. These are things that cross over into vanilla dating and can be helpful in scenario's outside of just regular sugaring.
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Blocking and unblocking: Breaking the cycle
So you blocked and unblocked him? Maybe you've done this more than once. Maybe you've even done it over the course of years. Whether you did it unprompted or if he resurfaced and elicited you to do it, today's episode is for the girls who are stuck in this pattern, and we talk about how to break…
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No man = No value? Why this isn't true.
Today's episode addresses the topic of feeling like we don't have value until a man decides to see it in us by dating, or committing to us. This episode fights back against the idea that you can't have excitement, purpose, and fulfillment in your world without a man in it. Why you CAN have all...
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Block him and never look back
Debating on if it's time to block that man? Today's episode will push you over that cliff you're staring down. But first, two personal story times by Fleeksie! One based off a man from a previous podcast episode (Limerence and emotional dysregulation ft. the felon) and a second story time that...
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Defining "dusty": What even is a dusty?
The word dusty gets thrown around so often, but what does it even mean? It seems like the ultimate insult, but is it an actual archetype? Today's episode defines dusty in the way fleeksie uses it and the ways it can be embodied by a man. We also discuss how these various embodiments of a dusty…
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Emotionally unavailable men
Today's episode discusses emotional unavailability in dating! How it can be socially ingrained, and why it's not your job to make a man who's emotionally unavailable, to available.
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Confidence: why you should be feral and ruthless
In todays episode, we discuss why you should operate ruthlessly in favor of yourself and make it everyone else's problem! How this mindset plays into dating, self validation, and sense of self worth. We also discuss being judged, how you will never be able to avoid it, and why trying to mitigate...
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Confidence: where does yours come from?
Today's episode addresses the highly sought out question of "Where did you get so much confidence?". We discuss misconceptions of confidence and self esteem, knowing who you are, defining yourself, and addressing the topic of putting yourself online on a social media platform when you have people...
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Can men ever do anything with good intentions?
Has a man ever seemed like they were doing something kind, thoughtful, and in your favor, only for you to find out it was an action that secretly benefited him? Or worse, was being done to facilitate a false sense of trust, closeness, or to make himself seem more likable than he actually is?...
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Entitled Trifling Dusties
Ever wondered if the man you're entertaining on a dating app is a dusty minded man who's entitled, before deciding to meet him? Today's episode looks at tell tale signs and nuances that give away when a man is approaching you with a self serving attitude, who could potentially be a thirsty MF who...
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Topics on life, dating, scams, created by Fleeksie, inspired by current events, your questions and requests on Fleeksies social media accounts.
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