Forge the Man

In this special episode, we remember the inspiring lives of Val Creus, Matthew Schoenecker, and Matthew Anthony, three numerary members of Opus Dei who tragically passed away on June 18th 2025 after attempting to save one another in the waters of Rattlesnake Falls. Listen as we explore their exemplified virtue, courage, dedication to their faith, and generosity for others. Through their lives, we learn how ordinary responsibilities can be transformed into acts of sanctity, service, and preparation for the heroic sacrifices God calls each of us to make.00:00 Introduction to Forge the Man and Guest Introduction02:06 The Lives and Vocation of Val Creus, Matt Anthony, and Matt Schoenecker10:09 Annual Courses and Community Life in Opus Dei10:41 The Tragic Accident at Rattlesnake Falls19:01 Processing Grief and Finding Hope24:38 Lessons from the Lives of Val Creus, Matt Anthony, and Matt Schoenecker30:54 Advice for Young Men on Discerning Vocation34:58 Closing Thoughts and Encouragement

In this insightful interview, Dominic Dizon shares his journey through medical school, the challenges faced, and the virtues essential for aspiring physicians. He emphasizes the importance of soft skills, faith, and purpose in a medical career, offering practical advice for those discerning their vocation.00:00Introduction to the Forge and Guest Background02:33Overcoming Personal Hurdles in Medical School05:08The Importance of Mentorship in Medicine07:54Essential Skills for Aspiring Physicians11:02Navigating Residency and Financial Challenges13:17Traits of Successful Medical Students16:17A Day in the Life of a Physician21:48Balancing Family Life and Professional Responsibilities27:39The Purpose Behind Medical Work and Vocation31:25Advice for Career Discernment

In this inspiring interview, Kirby Fike shares his journey of faith, family, and fatherhood, including how he supports a large family of 12 children while balancing career and faith. Discover practical insights on raising children, maintaining a strong marriage, and embracing a life of virtue and purpose.00:00 Introduction and Guest Background00:57 Meeting and Marrying His Wife01:41 Deciding on a Large Family02:50 Educational Background and Career Shift04:29 Financial Support and Family Life in California06:51 The Role of a Stay-at-Home Mom08:35 Children’s Responsibilities and Family Leadership10:00 The Joys of a Large Family13:12 Overcoming Social Pressure and Cultural Views16:20 Family Meals and Virtue Education19:27 Conflict Resolution in a Large Household21:34 Supporting His Children in Sports26:50 Life with Young Children and Twins29:53 Advice for Young Men Considering Marriage34:36 Prayers and Spiritual Practices for Future Families36:06 Closing Remarks and Inspiration Resources:Father the Family Protector by Jim Stenson

Dana Cruz, an attorney with extensive experience in government, policy, and military law, shares his inspiring journey from a working-class background to Harvard and his career in California's legal and legislative systems. He offers valuable insights on preparation, resilience, networking, and the virtues needed for success in law and public service.00:00 Introduction to Dana Cruz and His Journey02:51 From Aspirations to Reality: Dana's Career Path05:51 Academic Preparation for Law School09:03 The Importance of Discipline and Grit12:03 The Role of Mentorship in Career Development12:56 Embracing Failure as a Learning Opportunity15:34 Advice on Seeking Excellence Over Glory17:49 Networking Strategies for Aspiring Lawyers20:30 A Day in the Life of a Policy Lawyer22:22 Debunking Myths About Lawyers25:17 Actionable Steps for Aspiring Lawyers28:50 Closing Thoughts and Final Advice

In this introductory episode of the Forge the Man podcast, host Paul Ybarra, discusses the purpose and vision behind the podcast, which aims to mentor young men by sharing valuable life lessons and experiences from various role models. Paul shares his own background, the importance of mentorship, and the types of guests that will be featured in future episodes, emphasizing the need for positive male influences in today's society. This podcast is aimed at young men aged 18 to 30. There is a significant need for mentorship in today's culture. Paul's father played a crucial role in his upbringing. Mentorship can help young men avoid mistakes and build confidence. The podcast will feature stories from virtuous role models. Coaching and mentorship are essential for personal development. Paul emphasizes the importance of a good work ethic. The podcast aims to fill gaps in mentorship for young men. Listeners will gain hope and inspiration from the guests' stories. The podcast is part of a larger initiative to support family life.