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Forget Them Kids

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When you have kids, you are forced to put them first. At some point, you need to say FORGET THEM KIDS! Live your life learning who you are outside of your kids, because being a parent does not define who you are. We will talk about our experiences and various topics related to young parenting. Connect with the Podcast on Instagram at @forgetthemkidspodcast and on Facebook at “Forget them Kids”We have merch! Check out our store at bonfire.com/forget-them-kids

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Episodes

  1. Episode 70: What do you call a parent that's not a dead beat but not great either?

    In today's episode we want to know...what do you call a parent that's not a dead beat, but not great either? Let us know. We have realized lately that there is a lot of parents that fall into that grey area.

  2. Episode 69: Dealing with changes in our kids

    It's a mommy vent session! I know we aren't the only ones dealing with kids who are going through change in life. From the influence of social media to attitudes and mood swings...we are discussing it all. How do other moms parent with understanding? Let us know, because we're all in this together.

  3. Episode 68: BD's are bitter too

    The title speaks for itself. This isn't a bash session, but we're saying everything baby moms want to say!

  4. Episode 66: Raising a child I didn't create

    In this episode, we are joined by Alexis' sister-in-love Shauntay. They are both in the "Step Mom Club", as well as raising their own kids with a man who isn't their children's father. We discuss: Did helping our fiancé's with their kids come natural? How their step kids feel about them being in...

  5. Episode 65: My man gonna hear it from me

    We Wanna Know: Are you telling your significant other about your past? All of it or just some of it? Why or why not? We wanna know…

  6. Episode 64: "I got college experience"

    How many of you have a college degree? And how many of you are actually using the college degree that you got? We talk the college experience and career jobs.

  7. Episode 63: Is there something going on with my child??

    In today's episode, Alexis reveals her son's recent diagnosis, the red flags she saw, and how she feels his teachers are handling him. Chate opens up about how being the "passenger seat" parent has created a communication barrier between her and her son's school. I know we preach f*ck them kids,...

  8. Episode 62: We're back to cutting up!

    Y'all miss us? We're officially back. Find out why we had a random hiatus and what we've been up to! Just know...we picked up where we left off with our usual jokes and BS.

  9. Episode 61: Never let someone tell you that the DMs don't work

    Happy Valentines Day! This is a "love day" special by Alexis and her fiancé Manny. Find out how they met, the engagement, and how wedding planning is going.

  10. Episode 60: What do you bring to the table?

    The question itself is triggering, but have you ever wondered what YOU bring to the table? This episode got more heated than we anticipated. (We are also joined by Tati from our last episode)

  11. Episode 59: Make a friend to be a friend

    Today we are joined by creative and CEO of Brunch Me Please Tatiana. Brunch Me Please is a brunch event for people to network and make new friends. We wanted to focus on women empowerment and Tati creating a safe space to get comfortable with the uncomfortable is just that! We discuss why she...

  12. Episode 58: That's OUR baby mom now

    In this episode, we sat down with Brittney, Alexis' boyfriend's oldest daughter's mother. We discussed what we think about our baby dad's being in different relationships after us and how we feel about our child(ren) being around other women. Brittney shares her initial impression of Alexis, how...

  13. Episode 57: Top 5 Red Flags

    I know you have seen all of the hype about different red flags. Listen to us talk about our Top 5 red flags and if we think we are red flags, too.

  14. Episode 56: MENTAL HEALTH MATTERS

    In this episode, we brought back Aaris, previously introduced as DJ Showtyme, to discuss mental health. We discuss the importance of being aware of your mental health and realizing that you might need some extra help. Most of us grew up not having a space to freely talk about our thoughts and…

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  15. Episode 55: You's a f*ck boy f*ck boy

    We've all been there. Some of us still are. Listen to us talk about how to point out a f*ck boy and how we've dealt it. Story time gets juicy!

  16. Episode 54: Open up the mosh pit!!!!

    This is the Rolling Loud episode! Find out the highs, lows and everything in between from our excursion to Miami with Manny and Tye'r.

  17. Episode 53: An open letter for Rhonda Marie Brown

    Today makes 2 years since the passing of Alexis' mother. She made this episode to talk about her grief, how this loss affected her, and to let her mom know she's okay. For the first time ever, she talks about her mom's final days as a form of therapy to appreciate all that she has been through.…

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  18. Episode 52: Back to school madness

    Everyone knows that back to school time is a hot a** mess. Find out how hilarious ours went. Hopefully we all can make it through this school year happy and healthy.

  19. Episode 51: We're backkkk!

    Welcome back everybody! This episode is about finding out what we have been up to during the break and what you can expect for Season 2.

  20. Episode 50: Can you explain why you're single without blaming men?

    In this episode, we are discussing Kevin Samuel's video about "sexual marketplace value". According to him, a woman's value is based off of her face and body. If you rate yourself too high, you're asking for too much and if you rate yourself too low, then you aren't asking for enough. We had ALOT...

  21. Episode 49: The worst of the worse

    Yo, you ever have a bad date? Yeah...us either. SIKEEE! Today we brought back one of your favorites, Manny, for story time! Can you guess who had the worst date? Follow Forget them Kids on IG @forgetthemkidspodcast Like us on Facebook "Forget them Kids" We have new t-shirts!!...

  22. Episode 48: It's a hot girl summer

    In this episode, we are discussing how crazy this summer is going to get. Follow Forget them Kids on IG @forgetthemkidspodcast Like us on Facebook "Forget them Kids" We have new t-shirts!! https://www.bonfire.com/forget-them-kids-podcast/

  23. Episode 47: Moms need a break, too

    We're super blah today! Reality is...everyone gets tired and everyone needs a break. In this episode, we discuss life pressures, pandemic pressures, and the need for a break. We also get into the "mom guilt" that's brought on by taking a necessary break. Whew...this is a real, raw episode.…

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  24. Episode 46: Girl Code

    We're talking girl code today! Joined by Alexis' long time friend Naterra, we got into the ins and outs of girl code. We break down what girl code means to us, some examples of girl code, and what happens when a friend violates that girl code. Connect with us on Instagram @forgetthemkidspodcast…

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  25. Episode 45: Black men DO cheat

    Sorry black men, but blame Derrick Jackson for why we are bashing yall today! Something is not adding up. This self proclaimed relationship expert who preaches about healthy relationships and "black men don't cheat" is actually a serial cheater. We discuss the tea of what happened and being a…

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  26. Episode 44: A dad about his business

    In this episode, we have one of Harrisburg's favorite rapper Mazon talking with us today. We discuss dad life, coparenting, his new album "Clarity", his sneaker line Novique, and his freestyle Friday videos he's been dropping since the pandemic started. Alexis also shares how she got into an...

  27. Episode 43: Can you put a dollar amount on peace?

    Can an alpha male and alpha female actually make a relationship work? In this episode, we unpack that question. We have commentary from two unofficial guests about this topic and it actually turns into a mild debate. We learned that men might be more willing to put a price on their peace and…

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  28. Episode 42: Babymommas no drama

    If you recall, on Episode 38 we briefly discussed the highs and lows of coparenting with Dalton. Well now we're back with his wife and daughter's mother to get the scoop on the real highs and lows of their coparenting relationship and how they created a great relationship themselves. This episode...

  29. Episode 41: Mind the business that pays you

    In this episode, we are discussing Boosie's interview about Lori Harvey. We get into the difference of respectfully dating vs being a hoe, poor pussy management, and who is stronger? A woman who stays or the woman that moves on? Connect with us on Instagram @forgetthemkidspodcast and like our…

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  30. Episode 40: Everyday isn't Valentine's Day

    HAPPY VALENTINE'S DAY! Today we did things a little bit different. While Chate held it down for all the singles for Valentine's Day, Alexis brought in her boyfriend for a Couples Quiz to see how well he knows the basics about her. We also discuss the high expectations of the holiday and our ideal...

  31. Episode 39: Hey Mr.DJ

    On today's episode, we have Mike and Aaris as guests, our favorite Hypeman and DJ. We discuss what made them get into entertainment and how they juggle being dads while working non-traditional hours. They also share the craziest thing they've seen while working an event. We realize we are at that...

  32. Episode 38: I survived being Trained by Dalton

    In today's episode we are joined by Dalton, fitness trainer of Baugh's Gym. We discuss health and fitness, as well as the co-parenting turbulence while you have a significant other. You can contact Dalton via his website trainedbydalton.com Connect with us on Instagram @forgetthemkidspodcast and…

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  33. Episode 37: You are the baby dad, I am the black mother

    Question of the day: When was the last time you told yourself that you are a good mother? In today's episode, we try to de-stigmatize "the baby momma" and the "single mom". We remind people that single moms are doing the job of two and that is something that should be respected and not shamed. We...

  34. Episode 36: Married to the Contract

    Question of the Day: Instead of marriage, would you sign a 4 year contract with your significant other, then sign an extension or new contract when it's up? We give you our stand points and discuss why so many people are getting engaged during this pandemic and why so many marriages are ending...

  35. Episode 35: Business, Bullshit & B*tches: Part Two

    In today's episode, Chase Craig, one of your favorite podcast guests is back! He tells us how his company American Roofing and Renovations has been surviving the pandemic and what he has learned about himself and his business during quarantine. He also gives us his keys to being an entreprenuer.…

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  36. Episode 34: I don't want my kids to "get it out the mud"

    Question of the Day: Should you kick your kids out when they turn 18? Find out what we think and why. In today's episode we discuss how we were raised, the difference between teaching responsibility and exploiting your kids, and our thoughts on whether or not parents should be charging their kids...

  37. Episode 33: That's it for 2020!

    Last episode of the year! In this episode Alexis finally finishes her thoughts about the girlfriends on Girlfriends. We discuss Christmas preparation, what "race" we think our puppies are, and the highs and lows of 2020! Lesson of the Day: Don't put unnecessary pressure on yourself for your 2021...

  38. Episode 32: Cannabis Conversation

    It has been 2 weeks, but we are back! We are catching up and discussing how Alexis ended up with COVID and Chate got a dog. We talk about the girlfriends from "Girlfriends" and how we miss pre-COVID and having a clique to do things with. Chate shares her "goodies" and the conversation goes all…

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  39. Episode 31: My Mama told me

    Remember all of the crazy things your mom said to you over the years? A lot of them didn't make sense then, but now we're recycling some of them and saying them to our own kids, ironically. This episode we reminisced "don't let your mouth write a check your ass can't cash", "you got McDonald's...

  40. Episode 30: WHAT IS 2+2 ?!?!

    Today we are talking about virtual learning; something all moms are struggling with one way or another. We talk about our virtual learning schedules, why we thought our kids would be okay going back to school, and our motivation to making this virtual learning thing work. Ever wonder how our...

  41. Episode 29: How's Life?

    Today we are giving you a Life Update. What have we been up to? We discuss: the struggle of losing weight all over again now that the world is semi open our kids and their Christmas lists Alexis started therapy Chate is finally getting her quarantine break Veterans Day and the appropriate tip…

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  42. Episode 28: You're my little secret

    We had some fun with this episode! S/o to the City Girls for giving us the inspiration. We give our feedback to Yung Miami's video of why she can't be anybody's side chick. We acknowledge that there are levels to being a side chick, side chick perks, and we want to know why men confide in their...

  43. Episode 27: Even family can get the cold shoulder

    Chate is back! In this episode, Alexis is catching her up on things that she has missed and realized it all boils down to having a dysfunctional family. Chate gives the real definition to dysfunctional and we get into our own view of what it is. We discuss why dysfunction in family occurs and if...

  44. Episode 26: My baby isn't a baby anymore

    In this episode, Alexis is sharing how she was hit with the harsh reality that her 9 year old son just isn't getting any younger and how she was constantly reminded of it all week. Her son, Tamir, also makes a quick guest pop in to talk about his experience at the doctor office and his thoughts…

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  45. Episode 25: Whew Chile, I found out my son watches porn

    Alexis brought on another mom named Miriam, to discuss the traumatic realization that our boys have been caught watching porn. We will discuss: the backstory of how we caught our sons their father's reaction how we reacted what you should say if you catch your young child watching porn virtual...

  46. Episode 24: Take care of your kids!

    In today's episode, I brought Kiyana, owner of Candid Candles, on to talk about the importance of taking care of your kids. When I say "take care of your kids", I don't mean in just the way everyone thinks. Acknowledge that you need some help and if that means sacrificing primary presence of your...

  47. Episode 23: One monkey don't stop no show!

    Today, Alexis is all by herself talking about self happiness and poses the question: Do you even know what truly makes you happy? Most people don't. She didn't until life happened. She speaks on her journey of getting from being happy on the surface to truly being happy. Follow Forget them Kids…

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  48. Episode 22: Girl...save your money

    Today is all about them coins! Alexis invites her friend Stephanie on the podcast to give her expertise on budgeting, saving money and paying off debt. We get into ending the check to check cycle most of us are used to, teaching our kids about money earlier than we were taught, the importance of...

  49. Episode 21: Not so rapid fire

    In this episode, Alexis and her best friend Keonah bring their "Bookie Talk" to the Podcast. This time...with rapid fire questions. Turns out, we are not that great at answering questions rapidly. This episode also features a couple appearances from Alexis' son Tamir. Connect with us on Instagram...

  50. Episode 20: I chose my country over my kid

    On this episode, Alexis invited her son’s father back on the podcast to talk about what it is like to be a parent in the military. We discuss: why we joined the military a typical drill weekend the events you miss because of the Army the military benefits and perks the quick military…

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ABOUT THIS SHOW

When you have kids, you are forced to put them first. At some point, you need to say FORGET THEM KIDS! Live your life learning who you are outside of your kids, because being a parent does not define who you are. We will talk about our experiences and various topics related to young parenting. Connect with the Podcast on Instagram at @forgetthemkidspodcast and on Facebook at “Forget them Kids”We have merch! Check out our store at bonfire.com/forget-them-kids

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