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Found at 17
by Rosanna
You gave everything. They still left. You don't know why. Found at 17 is for anyone healing from abandonment wounds, anxious attachment, people pleasing, and patterns they can't break. For the late discovery adoptee. For the adult child of an emotionally unavailable parent. For anyone carrying something they were never given an explanation for. Real conversations about the abandonment wound, nervous system healing, and what emotional healing actually looks like. Found at 17. Where we name the wound, stop running, and finally start healing.New episodes every Tuesday.
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You've Done the Therapy. You're Still Triggered. Here's Why — Neuroemotional Technique With Dr. Kendall Ahrens
You have done the work. You have sat in the therapy chair. And something still won't let go. That is not failure — that is your nervous system holding a charge your mind never got to release.Dr. Kendall Ahrens is a Doctor of Chiropractic, certified Neuroemotional Technique provider, and intuitive healer with over a decade of experience helping people heal what talk therapy could not reach. She was my first NET provider — and this conversation is the one that started my healing in a completely new direction.In this episode we cover:— What Neuroemotional Technique actually is and what happens in a session— Why the body stores emotional pain long after the mind has moved on— What release actually feels like — physically and emotionally— How NET works virtually and who it is right for— What NET is not — and what people get wrong about itIf you have tried everything and still feel stuck, this episode is for you.Find Dr. Kendall Ahrens:Website: abundantlivingchiro.comInstagram: @dr.kendallahrensAbout Found at 17:Found at 17 is the podcast for everyone who was left without an explanation. We talk about abandonment wounds, adoption trauma, emotionally unavailable parents, and the relationship patterns that follow us into adulthood — and what it actually takes to heal them. Hosted by Rosanna.Listen on Spotify | Listen on Apple Podcasts | All Links: linktr.ee/unfinishedrewriteBook a coaching conversation: tidycal.com/foundat17
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Why It Won't Go Away — Triggers, Hidden Wounds, and Why You Keep Getting Pulled Back In
You thought you had healed it. And then one ordinary moment — a text, a song, a single word — and you are right back in it.You are not broken. You are not starting over. You just found another layer.This bonus episode opens the Beyond Talk Series — a deep dive into why healing requires more than understanding. Today: triggers, the onion, and the wound beneath the wound.🎙️ Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/found-at-17/id1893791096🎙️ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4eBLOSxvR2AUF3jPrN8CDw🔗 All links: https://linktr.ee/unfinishedrewrite📅 Free coffee chat with Rosanna: https://tidycal.com/foundat17Found at 17 — The podcast for everyone who was left without an explanation.
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Forgiveness Is Not a Permission Slip — What It Actually Looks Like When Nobody Is Watching
I did not forgive my ex-husband intentionally. I just woke up one day and the charge was gone.And the woman he had the affair with? I ran into her unexpectedly. And what came out of that conversation was not what I planned.This episode is about what forgiveness actually looks like. Not the version we were taught. The real one — messy, unplanned, and entirely for your peace.🎙️ Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/found-at-17/id1893791096🎙️ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4eBLOSxvR2AUF3jPrN8CDw🔗 All links: https://linktr.ee/unfinishedrewrite📅 Free coffee chat with Rosanna: https://tidycal.com/foundat17Found at 17 — The podcast for everyone who was left without an explanation.
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Grieving Someone Who Is Still Alive — Ambiguous Loss, Emotional Abandonment, and the Grief Nobody Gives You Permission to Feel
Nobody checked on you. Nobody brought flowers. Because the person you are grieving is still breathing.This episode names the grief the world has no ceremony for — and finally gives you permission to feel it.🎙️ Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/found-at-17/id1893791096🎙️ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4eBLOSxvR2AUF3jPrN8CDw🔗 All links: https://linktr.ee/unfinishedrewrite📅 Free coffee chat with Rosanna: https://tidycal.com/foundat17Found at 17 — The podcast for everyone who was left without an explanation.
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Bonus: The Abandonment Wound — Why It's Been Running Your Life and How to Finally See It
Something has been running your life. Your relationships. Your patterns. The way you love and leave.It has a name. And once you can see it — everything changes.In this bonus episode, we break down the abandonment wound — what it actually is, the six ways it shows up, and why most people are carrying more than one without knowing it.This is the root of everything.🎙️ Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/found-at-17/id1893791096🎙️ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4eBLOSxvR2AUF3jPrN8CDw🔗 All links: https://linktr.ee/unfinishedrewrite📅 Free coffee chat with Rosanna: https://tidycal.com/foundat17Found at 17 — The podcast for everyone who was left without an explanation.
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Ep 10: Dear 17 — A Letter to Every Adult Who Was Once Young and Carried Something Nobody Helped Them Name
This episode is a letter. Not to the teenager standing at graduation — but to the adult who was once 17 and stepped into the world still holding something nobody helped them name. I am proud of you. Not for what you accomplished. For who you are. For how hard you tried. For still being here. Topics: graduation, healing letter, abandonment wound, self worth, emotional healing, late discovery adoptee, women healing.
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Ep 9: National Adoption and Foster Care Awareness Month--What Every Adoptee and Foster Child Need to Hear
I did not know May was National Foster Care and Adoption Awareness Month until I walked into a Wendy's and saw it. And I smiled — because God always has perfect timing. This episode is an honest conversation about what this month actually means to a late discovery adoptee who spent decades unable to say those words out loud. For the adoptee who never needed a month to know their story. And for the one who did. Topics: National Adoption Awareness Month, late discovery adoptee, foster care, abandonment wound, adoptee healing.
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Ep. 8: Why You Keep Falling for the Same Person in a Different Body--Imago Theory and Toxic Relationship Patterns
It is not bad luck. It is not bad taste. And it is not a coincidence.There is a reason you keep ending up in the same place — and I found the answer in a bookstore. This episode will change the way you understand every relationship you have ever been in.SHOW NOTES:📄 Free Values Worksheet☕ Book a Free Coffee Chat🔗 All Links✉️ Email Me🎧 Apple Podcasts🎧 Spotify
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Ep 7: People Pleasing Is Not Kindness — It Is Fear. Here Is What It Is Really Costing You
You know the feeling. You see exactly what is happening but you say nothing. You absorb it. You cover for it. And somewhere in the process — you lose a piece of yourself.This episode is about people pleasing, what it actually costs you, and why being direct is not the same as being unkind.SHOW NOTES:📄 Free Values Worksheetfoundat17.gumroad.com/l/iafumy☕ Book a Free Coffee Chattidycal.com/foundat17🔗 All Linkslinktr.ee/unfinishedrewrite✉️ Email [email protected]🎧 Apple Podcastspodcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/found-at-17/id1893791096🎧 Spotifyopen.spotify.com/episode/6XlCg9KM1ku3EjJzXhhs0q
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Ep. 6: Healing the Abandonment Wound- What 16 yrs of Healthy Love Actually Looks Like
This is where it all comes together.In this final episode of the first arc, I show you where the road leads. Not the highlight reel version. The real one.I talk about the stranger who accidentally changed my life with four words. The fear I had been outrunning for years. The work that made everything after it possible. And the man who showed me what it feels like to finally be heard.But most importantly — I want to leave you with this:The love you are longing for is not the destination. You are the destination.Everything else flows from that.
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Ep. 5: Anxious Attachment vs Avoidant Attachment- Why You Push People Away and Cannot Stand Alone
Sometimes the wound isn't running your life loudly. Sometimes it's quiet. Familiar. And completely invisible — until you stop running long enough to see it.If you have ever been stuck between desperately wanting love and being terrified of choosing wrong again — this episode is for you.
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Ep 4: Why You Keep Choosing the Wrong People — The Wound You Don't Know You're Carrying
Free Core Values Worksheet — linked below Download your free values worksheet — Do You Know Who You Are? https://foundat17.gumroad.com/l/iafumy☕ Book a free coffee chat with Rosanna:tidycal.com/foundat17🎙️ Found at 17 on Apple Podcasts:podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/found-at-17/id1893791096
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Ep. 3: The Night My Entire Identity Changed — And What Silence Does to a Person
Sometimes the wound is running the show long before you even know it's there.January 1st finally arrives. And what happens in the days that follow — the silence imposed, the truth nobody helped carry — will change the way you understand everything that came before it.Plus the coaching truth that will stop you in your tracks: your mind, body and spirit are not three separate things. And what you refuse to feel — your body will say for you.If you have ever gone numb because there was nowhere else for the pain to go — this episode is for you.
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Ep. 2: Growing Up in a Loving Family and Still Feeling Like Something Was Missing
You can be loved well and still feel like something is missing. That's not ingratitude. That's human.She shares the coaching truth that changed everything: their decisions are not your definition. And introduces the in-utero wound that adoptees carry long before they have words for it.Plus — the jaw-dropping cliffhanger that sets up everything coming next week.If you grew up feeling like you had to earn your place in your own family — this episode is for you.
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I Found Out I Was Adopted at 17 — And Nobody Asked If I Was Okay
🔗 Connect with me & find all resources here: https://linktr.ee/unfinishedrewriteYou gave everything. They still left. You don't know why.In this first episode, Rosanna introduces herself — not through her resume, but through her wound. She speaks directly to the person who feels so unloved, whose biggest desire is simply to be loved. She shares the coaching insight that will run through every episode — the wound you don't name will name you.If you have ever felt like you belonged to a story that wasn't fully yours — this episode is for you.Follow Found at 17 so you never miss an episode. And if you know someone who needs to hear this — don't wait. Send it to them.
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ABOUT THIS SHOW
You gave everything. They still left. You don't know why. Found at 17 is for anyone healing from abandonment wounds, anxious attachment, people pleasing, and patterns they can't break. For the late discovery adoptee. For the adult child of an emotionally unavailable parent. For anyone carrying something they were never given an explanation for. Real conversations about the abandonment wound, nervous system healing, and what emotional healing actually looks like. Found at 17. Where we name the wound, stop running, and finally start healing.New episodes every Tuesday.
HOSTED BY
Rosanna
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