From Chad

Instead of waiting for an adult to step in, take responsibility for yourself and step up. The adults you admire are flawed individuals, figuring out life, just like you.

Asking for help is a strategy, not a weakness. By being honest about your needs and making them visible, you allow others to support you. This involves sharing your current situation, being specific about what you need, and giving others permission to help.

The most important work is not the external project, but the internal transformation is facilitates. Sir Edmund Hillary‘s ascent of Mount Everest exemplifies this, as he focused on personal growth rather than the achievement itself. By viewing work as a forge for self improvement, individuals can find greater fulfillment and purpose.

Encouragement is a powerful tool, especially during times of doubt and failure. A story about Henry Ford and Thomas Edison illustrates how a few words of encouragement can fuel, perseverance, and lead to success.

Thomas Edison is often remembered as an inventor, but he was more accurately in improver. He built on existing ideas, refined them, and made them commercially viable, exemplified by his work on the lightbulb, photograph, and vote-counting machine. The key to his success was a system for improvement, not waiting for inspiration, but rather setting clear goals, running experiments, and shipping practical solutions.

Booker T. Washington, born into slavery, walked 500 miles to attend Hampton school. His entrance exam was to sweep a room, which he did impeccably, earning him admission and a job as a janitor. He used his education to build the Tuskegee Institute, focusing on training teachers to uplift their communities. This is the last installment of John Maxwell’s 15 Invaluable Laws of Growth.

The goal of life is not to avoid problems, but grow larger, so that problems become less overwhelming. As you grow, your capacity to handle challenge, challenges increases, leading to greater opportunities in a better life.

Smart people learn from others, a concept known as the law of modeling. Imitation is a foundational skill building stage that leads to innovation. Learning from mentors and models provides a shortcut to better thinking and faster progress.

Van Phillips, after losing his foot, asked why a better prosthetic couldn’t be made, leading to the creation of the cheetah flex foot. Curiosity, a trainable mindset, drives growth and improvement, as exemplified by Phillips question and subsequent innovation.

Diya Jolly has chosen to step back in rank or pay four times in her career to prioritize growth opportunities over status or salary. Her decisions, governed by the Law of Trade-offs let her from Microsoft to Freewill, Google, Okta, and now Xero. The key takeaway is to consider the best alternative when making decision decisions, as every choice involves an opportunity cost.

Brad Jacobs, who built eight billion-dollar companies, believes that engineered pressure enhances performance. He embraces the tension of being a public company, using quarterly earnings as a public report card to keep his management team Sharp. The key is to be comfortable with being uncomfortable into voluntarily stretch, oneself to draw out the best performance.

Sam Insull, Thomas Edison‘s right-hand man, built the centralized electric supply industry, but lost everything due to reckless borrowing. His story highlights the importance of character, as strong character, supports higher treatment and prevents failure. The message emphasizes the need to prioritize character growth over external success.

Pain, when managed well, can lead to growth. Cheryl McGuinness Hutchins, who lost her husband on September 11, 2001, chose to transform her pain into a platform, exemplifying the law of pain. The key to growth is not avoiding pain, but stewarding it effectively.

Growth is achieved through intentional design and scheduled routines, not sudden inspiration. The story of Dimitri men believe illustrates how constraints, like deadlines, can foster creativity and growth. By designing your days with intentional rituals for growth, you can maximize your potential and achieve results.

Mike Tyson‘s life changed when he met Cus D’Amato, who provided him with structure, discipline, and belief, ultimately saving his life and making him a champion. Surround yourself with people who lift you up and create environment that fosters growth.

Consistency is key to achieving elite performance and success. By establishing daily habits and routines, such as consistent, eating and exercise, individuals can experience significant transformations and their physical, mental, and spiritual well-being. The Law of Consistency emphasizes that small, daily disciplines lead to big results overtime.

Reflection is crucial for growth, as it allows us to turn experiences into insights. Gregg McKeown’s story illustrates this, as a moment of reflection after prioritizing work over his newborn daughter, let him to become an essentialist, focusing on what truly matters. The what, so what, so what now, reflection strategy can help us define reality meaning and action ultimately leading to wiser decisions.

A healthy self image drives performance and growth, as illustrated by the Evil Q’ueens obsession with her mirror in Snow White. Comparing oneself to others, like the queen, leads to insecurity and hinders personal development. Instead, one should focus on their own strengths and areas for improvement.

Self-awareness is the foundation for growth, as illustrated by the story of Chiracrates and his brother. Socrates helped Chiracrates realize his anger stemmed from his interpretation of his brother‘s actions, not the actions themselves. By becoming aware of his own story, Chiracrates was able to ship his perspective and take action towards reconciliation.

John Maxwell‘s journey to intentional growth began with a question from Curt Kampmeier in 1972, prompting him to invest in a personal growth program. This decision shifted Maxwell from accidental to intentional growth, emphasizing the importance of a deliberate plan for personal development.

Upgrade your thinking by becoming a coach, not a critic. Coaches pointed out flaws and provide solution solutions, building others up while correcting them.

Zoe Kaplowitz, who has lived with multiple sclerosis for 53 years, finished the New York City marathon in last place for 25 years. Her story illustrates that winning is about finishing, not finishing first, and that perseverance can inspire others. Focus on finishing your own marathon and inspire others to start theirs.

Susan Young Brown, who turned 108, exemplifies the importance of staying active and engaged. She believes that as long as she’s alive, she has work to do, and this mindset keeps her vibrant and purposeful.

Carl Gruber ran 52 marathons in 52 weeks to raise money in awareness for leukemia, inspired by a young boy named Glen. Despite the physical and emotional Toal, Carl persevered, driven by a purpose greater than himself. His story highlights the transformative power of suffering for a cause.

The people you spend the most time with influence who you become. Surround yourself within individuals who share your goals and values to achieve success.

Struggles are opportunities for success, not failure. Embracing challenges reveals one’s true potential and leads to growth. Wherever you find greatness, you will find obstacles that were overcome.

Memorial Day is a time to reflect on legacy. The story of the Tomb of the Unknown Soldier in Arlington Cemetery, where a Sentinel stands, watch year-round, exemplifies the profound respect for those who served and died for freedom. The example we set today, through our actions and sacrifices, will shape how we are remembered tomorrow.

Constraints, not unlimited freedom, drive breakthrough and innovation. By embracing limitations as opportunities for self discovery and problem-solving, individuals can unlock their full potential and achieve excellence.

Blake Johnston, a former professional surfer, turned his pain into a platform by setting a world record for surfing 707 waves in 40 hours to raise money for mental health and suicide prevention. He continues to break records and organize events, using his platform to encourage others to share their struggles and find strength and community.

Moe Berg, a major league catcher, learned Japanese in three weeks, demonstrating that skills and abilities are not fixed. The story highlights the importance of a growth mindset, emphasizing that individuals have control over their future selves and can achieve transformation through consistent action.

Preparation, not just Tallent, determines who shows up and wins. To perform your best, prepare physically, mentally and emotionally at your best.

When dealing with negative self talk, create psychological distance by speaking to yourself in the second person or using your own name. This shift helps you observe emotions rather than being consumed by them, improving performance, and reducing anxiety.

A Polish influencer, Piotr Hancke, used a single rap song to raise $67 million for cancer research. His visible act of caring inspired others to contribute, demonstrating the power of simply stepping forward.

Red Smith, a Pulitzer Prize-winning sportswriter, hated writing, but consistently produced high-quality work by tricking himself into believing each column was for a single, discerning reader. This mindset elevated his craft and made his work feel important. You can adopt a similar approach, treating every task in interaction as if it matters.

Dawn Craft pursued her childhood dream of becoming a doctor at 69. Despite her age, she graduated from medical school at 72 and is beginning her residency in Michigan. Her story is an example of it never being too late to pursue a dream.

Instead of waiting for perfect conditions, like a cow commit to the next step, like a rhino. Charge forward, even if you can’t see the whole path, and the even if the path doesn’t reveal itself, it doesn’t matter because you’re making your own.

Sam Walton, after being kicked out of Newport, Arkansas, found a new opportunity in Bentonville, where he built Walmart. His rejection from Ben Franklin executives led him to create his own successful discount store concept.

The value lies in what you do with your resources, not just the resources themselves. The story of the McCain family in Florenceville, New Brunswick, illustrates this concept. They recognize the value in processing potatoes into fries and build a successful business, keeping the value at home.

The most reliable path to success is avoiding standard stupidity, rather than trying to be exceptionally intelligent. Charlie Munger emphasize the importance of avoiding obvious dangers. By converting the problem and asking how to fail, one can avoid these pitfalls.

Instead of believing that important work must be hard, ask yourself, “What is the result trying to create? And is there an easier way?” Simplicity is often more effective than complexity.

Angel Fux, a Swiss Astro photographer, endured extreme conditions to capture a rare triple arc of starlight. Despite the high cost and risks, she valued the pursuit and achieved a unique glimpse of the universe.

On Mother’s Day, Jodi felt the absence of her mother and daughter. After a day of small joys, but an empty heart, an unexpected moment brought her comfort, suggesting that her mother’s love transcended time and distance.

Jamie Siminoff, founder of Ring, was rejected on Shark Tank for his doorbell idea, which later sold for $1 billion at Amazon. The key to his success was identifying and solving an obvious problem, a lesson that applies to all endeavors. Fix the problems you notice, because they are often overlooked.

You are not limited by your current circumstances; you have the power to move beyond them and grow to your full potential. Your fear may not be you are too small, but you are bigger than you imagine.

Astronaut Clayton Anderson, who applied to the astronaut corps 15 times before being selected, emphasizes the importance of preparation. He believes that the most important story you tell yourself is that you were born to be in the moment you’re in, a belief earned through planning and training.

Oregon State University football coach JaMarcus Shephard emphasizes the importance of helping others, regardless of personal struggles. His daily mantra, “Someone needs you today,” encourages showing up for others and serving them with care and love.

Maxwell Maltz, a plastic surgeon, observed that some patients lives improved after surgery, while others remain unchanged. He discovered that self image not physical appearance, determines success and happiness. By changing our self image, we can change our outcomes.

The Kentucky Derby winner, Golden Tempo, came from last place to first, a rare feat in the race. This story serves as a reminder to keep going, even when feeling behind, as success as possible.

Don’t let past failures determine your future success. Focus on your potential and capacity for growth. Do not underestimate what you are capable of.

Alex created a “touchpoint practice” to nurture relationship relationships, treating it like exercise. He engaged with friends through comments, social media, public praise, introductions, life, event, acknowledgments, opportunity sharing, and off-line meetings. This consistent, low drama approach prevent prevented relationship relationships from withering and resulted in a life rich with connections.