The $luts Party Podcast
by by Jon and Nat
Welcome to "The $luts Party Podcast", formerly known as the 'Fun with $ex Podcast", the rebrand of this show is directly tied to $luts Party Chicago, a bi/pan-centered queer rave collective that meets at the intersection of play, dance, music, and counterculture.$luts party hosts jon and nat will sit down bi-weekly with special guests to discuss topics related to the $luts party community. The show will still cover all things $ex with a educational yet fun spin, but it will also hone in on intersecting topics such as nightlife discourse, k!nk, dating advice, non-monogamy, music and more!Guests include experts in the community such as therapists, enm & dating coaches, pro-dommes, djs, nightlife entrepeneaurs, etc.The focus of the podcast is to bring knowledge to our community, but similarly with the ethos of our previous podcast, the Fun with $ex podcast, it’ll focus on making gaining knowledge fun & accessible. With expert guests, interesting conversations, meaningful anecdotes, and
Episodes
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What's It Like to Club in Berlin?
So what's it *actually* like to club in Berlin? World traveler Dan, and host Jon McCray sit down for an enthralling conversation all about the club scene in Berlin. From how to not be "the annoying American tourist" to insights as to how this culture was shaped, you're sure to learn something new.
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The Life of a Pro-Domme
What's life like for a pro-domme? Come join host Nat and pro-Domme Ammo in this episode of the $luts Party Podcast where we cover a range of topics on pro-domming to give an overview of what it's really like. Learn about what a session is like, how to properly seek out a pro-domme, insights on…
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Attending Play Parties Solo
Ever attended a play party solo and felt unsure, nervous, or downright anxious? Here's your guide. Host Nat and guest Nicole sit down for a conversation on how to overcome that fear. With helpful advice, real-life tips, and fun anecdotes, this episode is the ultimate guide to being able to…
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The Intersection of Black Experiences, Masculinity, Nightlife, and Queerness
Host Jon McCray and Matt Cage sit down for an insightful episode on their experiences. From covering their lives as black queer men, to their impacts on nightlife, and how queerness has shaped their relationships to masculinity, the two share vulnerable insights, fun anecdotes, and more!
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All About Gender
Host Jon McCray and Devon Price sit down for a conversation on gender. With real-life insights, tangible examples, and explanations of gender theory, the two bring an educational and interesting discussion to the forefront. Devon Price (@drdevonprice) is a social psychologist and writer whose…
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Reacting to ENM Reddit Stories with Nicole
Today Nicole (@freeformcoaching) and I react to to questions Redditors have asked online about their ENM relationships. We share valuable insights that can be helpful whether you're new to ENM or not.
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Getting Your Sexual 'Spark' Back
Today we're joined by Elana Auerbach, author of The Sure Thing. Elana gives some great insights on what to do when the sexual spark is absent in a relationship. She goes over helpful strategies, how to create a 'sure thing' ritual, and how to re-spark curiosity. You can find her at…
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What is ENM Coaching?
Today we're joined by Nicole, creator of Freeform Coaching (@freeformcoaching). She gives the inside scoop on what coaching looks like, who it's for, how people can benefit from it, and how it differs from traditional therapy.
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Unpacking Religious Trauma
On this week's episode, we have on guest Ann Russo to discuss her experience as an author and therapist. We dive into the topic of religious trauma and how unpacking shame relates to various identities like ENM, queer, sex positive, etc.
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Dating and Having Sex While Trans and Nonbinary Part 2
On this week's episode we're getting into even more advice on dating and having sex while trans and nonbinary. Guest Valerie joins us to give helpful advice, validation, and remind everyone of the silver linings.
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Dating and Sex While Trans/Nonbinary Part 1
Today we are joined by psychologist Valerie to discuss advice on dating and having sex while trans and/or nonbinary. We cover topics like gender dysphoria, how to have open conversations with partners, and more. Come back for part 2!
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ENM Mistakes That Aren't Often Talked About
On this week's episode we're covering some common ENM mistakes that partners make that aren't often talked about. We have guest Ashley on to discuss these mistakes and give helpful advice on ENM.
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The Reality of Dom/Domme sub Dynamics
On today's episode of the Fun with Sex Podcast, we're covering the reality of Dom/Domme sub dynamics. Today we're speaking with Kitt about common themes in BDSM dynamics, how to practice in a healthy way, and more!
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Flirting in an Ethical Way
On today's episode of the Fun with Sex Podcast, we have guest Rachela on to discuss how to flirt in an ethical way. We cover how to flirt, things to avoid, consent, and more!
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Dating and Sex While Neurodivergent (Part 2 )
On this episode we cover emotional processing, sensory processing, and rejection sensitivity as it relates to sex and dating.
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Dating and Sex While Neurodivergent
Dating and sex can feel more complicated while dealing with neurodivergencies in a neurotypical world. Host Natalie and guest Donovan Eyre of the Radio Free Tote Bag Podcast discuss what aspects of relationships and play are impacted by neurodivergencies, share anecdotes, and give helpful advice.
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Does the Leather Community Belong at Pride?
Today we cover the history of the leather community, how it came to be, their importance and integral position in queer history, and why we should not exclude groups from pride.
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The Problem with Banning Porn
A new bill is being introduced that would set even stricter guidelines of what can be banned under the guise of it being obscene. We discuss the bill, the deeper implications, and what everyone should be aware of.
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All About Anal
Today we have Alex on to discuss all their helpful advice on trying anal. We dive into finding the right partner, prepping, sexual health, and more!
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Why Do People Cheat?
Today we cover the question on everyone's minds... 'why do people cheat?' The answers are a lot more nuanced then you'd think. With scientific data, personal anecdotes, and a fun game, we cover everything about cheating.
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All About Sex Work Part 1
On this week's episode of the Fun with Sex Podcast we're discussing all thing sex work! We go over common misconceptions, the importance of decriminalization, and more from the perspective of two sex workers.
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Reacting to $ex Stories
On this week's episode we respond to sex questions on reddit! We share thoughts, advice, reactions, and more!
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Threesomes...Why Do They Always Go Bad?
In this episode, we dive into the complexities of threesomes and why they often don't turn out as expected. From mismatched expectations to communication breakdowns, we explore the common pitfalls that can derail the experience. We also discuss the importance of setting clear boundaries, consent,...
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Destigmatizing STIs
STIs are common, but the shame surrounding them shouldn’t be. In this episode of Fun with Sex, we break down the myths, tackle the stigma, and talk about how to approach conversations about sexual health with confidence and care. From the realities of transmission to the differences in ENM and...
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Inside the World of Sex Raves
This week on Fun with Sex, we explore the thrilling world of sex raves—where music, desire, and freedom collide. With insights from hosts, we delve into consent, community, and what makes these spaces so transformative.
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Inside the World of Sex Raves
This week on Fun with Sex, we explore the thrilling world of sex raves—where music, desire, and freedom collide. With insights from a seasoned organizer, we delve into consent, community, and what makes these spaces so transformative.
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Why Is Everyone so Bisexual Now?
Bisexuality is on the rise, especially among Gen Z and women, with more people identifying as attracted to multiple genders than ever before. In this episode, we explore why this shift is happening, from greater understanding and visibility to the breaking down of gender and sexual binaries. Are...
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Gen -Z: DId Dating Apps (Capitalism) Ruin Dating?
In this episode, we dive into the messy intersections of dating, social media, and capitalism. From the overwhelming choice paralysis on dating apps to the curated perfection of influencer relationships, we explore how modern technology both connects and isolates us. Why are relationships more...
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Unhealthy Boundaries Won't Save Your Relationship
In this episode, we explore the fine line between healthy boundaries and insecurity-driven restrictions in relationships. From veto power in polyamory to controlling friendships in monogamy, we unpack how fear-based rules can erode trust and intimacy. Learn how to set boundaries that prioritize...
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Your Body My Choices: Why Gen-Z Is Having Less Sex
In this thought-provoking episode, we dive into why Gen Z’s sexual activity is on the decline, uncovering the cultural and political forces at play. Starting with the widening gender divide, we discuss how the recent wave of conservatism among young men and anti-feminist sentiments are…
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Myths About Group Sex
In this episode of Fun with Sex, we break down the myths around group sex—covering everything from threesomes to orgies. We dive into communication, setting boundaries, managing jealousy, and creating safe, fun experiences. Whether you're curious or experienced, this candid chat makes group play...
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Is Kink Feminist?
Can kink and feminism align, or do power dynamics clash with feminist ideals? In this episode, we explore how consent, agency, and pleasure shape kink and power dynamics. We go over how kink being anti-feminist is a myth and what a healthy kink dynamic looks like.
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Non-monogamy in Pop Culture: The Ashley Madison Series
For this episode of Fun with Sex, we dive into the world of non-monogamy in pop culture by exploring The Ashley Madison Series. We discuss how the infamous platform, known for facilitating extramarital affairs, has impacted the conversation around non-traditional relationships. Is it just a hub…
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The Hidden Bi Community (1-20)
In this episode of Fun with Sex, we're shining a spotlight on bi visibility! We'll explore the unique challenges and joys of identifying as bisexual, from navigating misconceptions to finding community in a world that often sees sexuality as either/or. Join us as we dive into the complex…
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The Hard Truth About Penises
In this episode of Fun with Sex, we get real about penises and the pressure to always stay hard. From stress, sleep deprivation, and alcohol to unrealistic standards set by porn and patriarchy, there's a lot more to erection issues than you might think. We break down the stigma surrounding…
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The Hard Truth About Penises (1-18)
In this episode of Fun with Sex, we get real about penises and the pressure to always stay hard. From stress, sleep deprivation, and alcohol to unrealistic standards set by porn and patriarchy, there's a lot more to erection issues than you might think. We break down the stigma surrounding…
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Negotiating Casual Sex (1-17)
In this fun and sexy episode of, we explore the many flavors of casual sex and why we need more words to describe them! Casual sex is rarely as emotionless as it's made out to be—most of us crave some level of intimacy, even in our most fleeting connections. We'll dive into how straight, gay, and...
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Fixing the Orgasm Gap (1-16)
In this episode, we explore the orgasm gap and its impact on sexual satisfaction. Join us as we discuss the causes behind the disparity, and learn practical tips for enhancing communication and intimacy. Whether you're looking to boost your own satisfaction or support your partner, this episode...
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Yes Means Yes?: Making Consent Sexy and Safe
In a society that often shames us for our sexual desires and discourages open discussions about sex, communicating consent becomes even more crucial. In this episode, we explore the vital role of consent in fostering healthy and fulfilling sexual relationships. We begin by addressing the societal...
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Do Non-Monogamous People Get Jealous (1-14)
Jealousy is a powerful emotion that can impact both monogamous and non-monogamous relationships, often in unhealthy ways. In this episode of [Podcast Name], we dive deep into the complexities of jealousy, exploring its roots and how it manifests differently in various relationship dynamics. We...
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Navigating Threesomes pt 2 (1-13)
In this episode of "Fun with Sex," we delve into the delicate and exhilarating world of threesomes for couples. Whether you're a seasoned explorer or curious newbie, our discussion offers valuable insights on how to successfully navigate this intimate adventure. We start by addressing the...
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What You Get Wrong About Bisexuality. (1-12)
In this enlightening episode of "Fun With Sex," we tackle the many misconceptions surrounding bisexuality. Join us as we delve into the true meaning of the word "bi," exploring the fluid and inclusive nature of bisexuality as a spectrum, rather than a fixed point. We discuss the common struggle...
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Straight Men Do You Like Women? (1-11)
In this provocative episode of "Fun With Sex," we delve into a compelling question: Do straight men truly like women, or do they merely view them as sexual objects? We explore the challenging reality that many straight men struggle to form genuine, platonic friendships with women, and we examine...
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Taboo Together: Bringing Kink in Your Relationship (1-10)
Welcome back to the "Fun with Sex Podcast" for part two of our deep dive into the world of kink! In this electrifying episode titled "Taboo Together: Igniting Kink in Your Relationship," we pick up where we left off and explore the practical aspects of bringing kink into your relationship. We'll...
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Unlocking Taboo: Exploring the Depths of Kink (1-9)
In this riveting episode of the "Fun with Sex Podcast," we dive headfirst into the tantalizing world of kink. Join us as we explore the depths of consensual adult relationships, shedding light on the importance of mutual respect and clear boundaries. We break down the various types of dominant…
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Disco's Gay History: Liberation, Gentrification and Death (1-8)
In this special episode we take a poignant look at the final chapter of disco's story—the impact of gentrification on its vibrant, diverse community As the '70s roared to a close, disco faced mounting pressures from mainstream America. What began as a subversive movement rooted in the LGBTQ+ and...
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Unlocking Pleasure: Bridging the Orgasm Gap - A Guide for Men (1-7)
In this enlightening episode, we delve into the intricacies of sexual pleasure, focusing on how men can elevate their partners' satisfaction. We explore the concept of decentering the penis, shifting the narrative from a solely penetrative focus to a holistic approach that prioritizes women's...
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What is Consensual Non-Monogamy (1-6)
Welcome back to Fun With Sex Podcast, where hosts Jon and Nat delve into the fascinating world of intimacy, relationships, and everything in between. In this episode, we embark on an enlightening journey through the realms of non-monogamy. Join us as we navigate the intricate landscape of...
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What We Get Wrong About Stripping with Stripper Raven Rose (1-5)
This Conversations with Stripper Raven Rose delves deep into the often misunderstood world of stripping, challenging prevalent misconceptions and societal stigmas. Join Raven Rose, a seasoned stripper, as she candidly shares her experiences and insights, shedding light on the realities of the...
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How to Have Better Hookups and Casual Sex (1-4)
In this thought-provoking episode, hosts Jon and Natalie delve deep into the nuanced world of casual sex, shedding light on how to elevate these encounters from mere physical interactions to fulfilling experiences rooted in pleasure, consent, and introspection. Navigating the realm of casual sex...
About this show
Welcome to "The $luts Party Podcast", formerly known as the 'Fun with $ex Podcast", the rebrand of this show is directly tied to $luts Party Chicago, a bi/pan-centered queer rave collective that meets at the intersection of play, dance, music, and counterculture.$luts party hosts jon and nat will sit down bi-weekly with special guests to discuss topics related to the $luts party community. The show will still cover all things $ex with a educational yet fun spin, but it will also hone in on intersecting topics such as nightlife discourse, k!nk, dating advice, non-monogamy, music and more!Guests include experts in the community such as therapists, enm & dating coaches, pro-dommes, djs, nightlife entrepeneaurs, etc.The focus of the podcast is to bring knowledge to our community, but similarly with the ethos of our previous podcast, the Fun with $ex podcast, it’ll focus on making gaining knowledge fun & accessible. With expert guests, interesting conversations, meaningful anecdotes, and
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by Jon and Nat