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GETSOME
by Michelle Fischler
This season on GETSOME, we're creating a space where sexuality thrives, stopping shame at its root and holding open conversations about sex, sexuality, gender, and pleasure. Join us as we nurture understanding and end the shame spiral once and for all. It's time to see sexuality flourish, free from stigma.
Episodes
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Rethinking Porn Addiction with Dr. Nicole Prause
Neuroscientist Dr. Nicole Prause grew up in Texas, where sex education served up a platter of abstinence garnished with jump-scare photos of untreated STIs. Now, she runs a basement lab where people masturbate... for science! Michelle and Nicole talk about why porn doesn't meet the scientific bar...
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Is What I Did Creepy? With samantha bitty
How do you flirt without being creepy? Why do men skip sex ed and consent talks, and where do they learn about sex instead? Sex and consent educator samantha bitty on rejection, the manosphere, and the questions men are too embarrassed to ask out loud. samantha bitty is a sex and consent educator...
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We All Deserve to Feel Sexy and Free with Mel Woods
Mel Woods is a trans nonbinary journalist (they/them) who grew up outside Red Deer, Alberta, next door to a semi-truck driver named Todd. Five years ago they started testosterone, and they think about that choice every week. Mel shares what reality TV taught a generation of queer kids, what...
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Hot People Get Herpes with Courtney Brame
Hot people get herpes. So why can a diagnosis make you feel like nobody will want you? Courtney Brame remembers worrying that his sex life was over. In this episode, he joins sex therapist Michelle Fischler to talk about what happened after his diagnosis, the support that helped him, and learning...
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The Sex Question You Swallow in the Waiting Room with Dr. Sheila Wijayasinghe
Take two sex questions and call me in the morning. If only talking to your doctor about sex felt that easy. You rehearsed the question in the waiting room. Then the doctor walked in, and you swallowed it. Maybe it was about STI testing. Pain. Pleasure. A change in your body. Something you worried...
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Does Your Dick Need Rehab? with Dr. Susie Gronski
You went to the doctor. The bloodwork was fine, the scans were fine, and you were told to live with it. So you assumed the problem must be you. But what if the pain, the softer erections, the coming sooner than you want were never in your head? What if the part of your body nobody named has...
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Why Men Choose Porn Over Partnered Sex with Lisa Etherson
You promised yourself you'd stop. You didn't. And then you took that as proof of something about you. But what if the porn and masturbation weren’t the whole story? What if they were the strategy quietly keeping something much scarier in place? A man reaching for porn instead of his partner may...
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Why Sexual Shame Needs a Witness with David Bedrick
Shame doesn’t care how much it’s ruining your sex life. It just wants an audience. But instead of hitting up the concession stand, what if you sat in the front row and got curious? You might be surprised at what you learn (and how your body responds afterwards). David Bedrick is the founder of…
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The Professional With a Kinky Side
LITTLE MISS BEE IS LIVING A DOUBLE LIFE. By day, she’s a high-powered working professional proudly shattering glass ceilings and climbing the corporate ladder. But off the clock, she’s a kink-positive, active member of the rope bondage community. In the final episode of the 3rd season of the...
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The Perks of Being a Bi Guy
Imagine being stuck in the “in betweens” of your sexuality. You’re not “gay enough,” but you’re not “straight enough.” Your sexuality is constantly oversimplified, or oversexualized. You’re stuck wondering… “Am I bisexual enough???” Though that may not be the reality for all bisexual men, it...
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Sex After Having Kids
As a sex worker, Shannon Ariel, founder of Pink Banana Sparkles, always had a strong relationship with sex & her body. …but after her first child, she felt something shift. With a changing body and changing needs, Shannon had to rebuild her relationship with herself, her sex life, and her career....
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Micropenis, Macro Sex Drive
At a young age, Chris was diagnosed with a medical micropenis. For years, he struggled with sex and dating until he discovered two kinks that fueled a macro sex drive – Small Penis Humiliation and Cuckolding. Talking about shame, sexuality, and penis size is particularly challenging for cis men…
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Seniors Seeking Friends With Benefits
Finding a friend with benefits can be hard at any age. But today’s guest, Cynthia, faced the daunting task of finding a sexual partner at the age of 78 and following the loss of her husband. She knew that she wanted a friend with benefits, and she even had her eye on someone specific. But the...
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Alphas Who Love Anal Play
On the surface, Bill is your everyday blue collar man. But a back-breaking injury led him down the unexpected path of sexual enlightenment. Bill takes us along on his journey from discovering Kundalini rising to being catapulted into a world where the lines between pleasure, pain, and awakening…
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Sex & Money: When $$$ Met XXX
Money is a major source of stress for so many people. We’re always thinking about it, talking about it, and worrying about it. But it’s rare that we think about the way that money affects our sexual relationships. Listen in to our conversation with Master Certified Ontological Coach, Tracey…
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The Woman Born Without A Vagina
Ready for an Unforgettable Journey of Strength and Resilience? We’re kicking off season 3 with a conversation with Ally Hensley, a woman who was born with a rare condition called Mayer-Rokitansky-Küster-Hauser (MRKH) Syndrome, resulting in the absence of a vagina and reproductive organs. Our...
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How To Send Nudes [Quickie]
In this episode, we delve into the hot topic of sending nude pictures in the digital age. Responding to a listener's question, we unpack the risks involved and explore five key strategies to minimize potential harm: consent, self-awareness, anonymity, trust, and legal considerations. Whether…
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The Boy in the Tighty Whities
Chances are, if you have a unique sexual turn-on, there are many others with the exact same inclination. So many, in fact, that you might just be able to make a career out of it. That's what Milo Miles did. We met Milo last winter at the Dan Savage Amateur Erotic Film Festival, Humpfest. Milo...
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Ending Dates Well [Quickie]
Ever found yourself on a date, debating between leaving on a high or just gritting your teeth to the finish? In this episode, we're uncovering the art of gracefully wrapping up dates, with a spotlight on our comfort and safety. Let's navigate the intricacies of those initial encounters. Eager to...
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Jewish Orthodox Sex
Guess what? Even 'Curb Your Enthusiasm' missed the mark on Orthodox Jewish sex! I've got Shely Esses on the show today—a Sex Therapist from Toronto, Canada. With her expertise in Jewish healing, she's here to bust myths and shine a light on the cultural nuances surrounding intimacy within the...
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Sexual Intuition [Quickie]
Today we're diving deep into the nuances of initiation. We'll discuss sexual initiation, its dynamics, and why understanding our preferences is more crucial than we might think. If you've ever felt a little out of sync with your partner or just curious about how to create a bridge to sexual...
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Sex After FGM
In this evocative episode, Toronto-based Rahat Pye, MSW, RSW — an adolescent, individual, family, and couples therapist — unravels the deeply personal story of her mother, a Female Genital Mutilation (FGM) survivor from Bombay, India. Diving deep into the trauma, defiance, and resilience, Rahat...
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That's Handi
We're excited to share a recording of the Sex in Space podcast interview with Andrew Gurza and Heather Morrison, co-founders of Handi. Handi makes sex toys designed by and for disabled people. The mission behind Handi is that everyone should be able to ‘get off’. Listen in to hear about how Handi...
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The Flirting Files [Quickie]
Ever wondered how to flirt or wished someone would teach your partner? Michelle dives into the question "How do you flirt?" in today's episode. Flirting is all about personal attraction, confidence, playful gestures, and engaging body language. Michelle reminds us to pay attention to the other...
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Mindfulness and Supercharged Sex
This is a story about how one couple embarks on a journey of rediscovering their sexual chemistry after 15 years, employing mindfulness, cannabis, and flowstate. Listen as host, Certified Sex Therapist Michelle Fischler, interviews Ellevan and Winny Clarke, hosts of the Disciplined Stoners on how...
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Does Sex Therapy Work?[Quickie]
Is sex therapy really effective? In this episode, Michelle tackles common questions she gets asked before potential clients decide if sex therapy is the right fit. She emphasizes the importance of finding a good fit and comfort level before diving into therapy. With a solid therapeutic alliance…
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Sexuality After Trauma
Today, I had the incredible opportunity to speak with the remarkable Marlee Liss. Marlee is a somatic educator, award-winning speaker, author, restorative justice advocate and lesbian Jewish feminist. Marlee made history in the justice system when her sexual assault case became the 1st in North...
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Sex With Sue Legacy [Quickie]
Where were you when you heard that Sue Johanson had died? Did you text someone with the news, or did someone text you? Today's episode is about grief. Host Michelle Fischler, who has openly credited her career as a certified sex therapist to sex educator Sue Johanson, recounts the moment she…
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She's Hungry For Sex [Quickie]
We've heard countless tales of sex-starved married men, but have you ever wondered about the untold stories of sex-starved married women? We're delving into the unique challenges faced by women in this predicament. Show Notes 00:00 She wants more sex than him and he thinks something is wrong with...
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Sex in Space
Zero gravity does what to erections?! We were fortunate to be joined by the crew of the Sex in Space podcast, which includes Dr. Jane Harrington, Toshiko Frederickson, and Tim Blower, all the way from New Zealand, to take us on an intergalactic sexual adventure through the cosmos and back. We…
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Offline Matchmaking [Quickie]
Does the thought of online dating stress you out? Are you looking for a more traditional dating approach? Do in-person matchmaking evenings still exist? If they don't, they should. Michelle recalls a brief yet hilarious encounter from her younger days when she was asked to fill in as the missing...
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Sex, Drugs and Masculinity
Have you ever found yourself curious about the unique experiences of being gay in today's world? Join us as we dive into the vibrant, nuanced realm of gay dating, sex, drugs, and masculinity with board-certified sexology educator and host of the Sex Ed With Tim Podcast, Tim Lagman. Known for his...
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Dating At Home Depot [Quickie]
Show Notes 00:55 Dating is a hot topic in my practice 01:01 Where were people going on dates during Covid? 01:04 Shame and secrecy around dating during covid and fear around being judged. 02:04 Sex did not stop during Covid 02:15 The best idea for a dating spot during covid 02:57 The plant…
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Erectile Disappointment
Show notes: 00:07 90% of people with a penis who are between 35 and 55 have struggled to get an erection firm enough for intercourse 03:17 What is Erectile Self Efficacy? 03:40 Autonomous sexual erections aren’t realistic 04:42 The alternative to panicking and apologizing 04:52 The "Good Enough...
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GETSOME's Birthday [Quickie]
Who's leveling up in the game of life? Raise a toast and light some virtual candles because GETSOME turns one today! Listen to the three knowledge bombs dropped over the past year that expanded our minds like cosmic jelly beans. Disclaimer Help bring GETSOME to more people I’m in the Top Host...
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First Time Doing Oral Sex? [Quickie]
How would you answer "How do you do oral sex?" without going into graphic detail about how you actually do oral sex? We came up with the best analogy. Tune in to feel all warm and fuzzy. Also, if you are looking for great oral sex tips and tricks check out; Coral: https://getcoral.app/ OMGyes:...
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Eating Disorders And Sex
Today, we are going to take you on a journey exploring the intersection of eating disorders and sexuality. This episode will not only be helpful for clinicians but also for people who have struggled to experience pleasure in their body stemming from complicated relationships with food and body...
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Sex Work-Life Balance
Ever wondered how sex workers balance personal and professional lives? Are you curious about their clients and partners? Our highly-anticipated guests Elizabeth Weisz and Katherine Van Meyl from Season 1 are back and ready to get personal. Ever heard of the term Internalized Whorephobia? You're...
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Christian & Pro-Sex
De-Andrea Blaylock-Solar is Missouri's first Black Christian AASECT Certified Sex Therapist, who helps clients navigate the intersection of faith and sexuality, particularly for those who may be struggling with guilt or shame around their sexual desires and behaviors. We talk about how De-Andrea...
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Sex With Sue Documentary
Lisa and Michelle play Six Degrees of Sue Johanson Sue’s first birth control clinic at Don Mills Collegiate was where Michelle went to highschool Michelle and Lisa reminisce about their personal sex education memories from high school Lisa meets the lovely and still spunky Sue Pregnancy and sex...
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Can Porn Be Ethical?
Curious about the difference between mainstream porn and ethical porn/feminist porn? Do you even know where to find it? Who better to ask than the engaging and dynamic Sonya JF Barnett, RP. It’s rare to find an ethical porn producer/director, turned intimacy coordinator, (yes, we’ll talk about...
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Season Two Trailer
Join Canadian Certified Sex Therapist, Michelle Fischler as she embarks on a mission to inspire humans to embrace their sexuality, igniting a sexual revolution that spans across cultures, belief systems, and lifestyles. Disclaimer Help bring GETSOME to more people I’m in the Top Host competition,...
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Sensate Focused Therapy
If you are having sex you should know about Sensate Focused Therapy, a widely used technique amongst sex therapists. This form of therapy helps support clients in getting out of their head and into their bodies when giving or receiving touch. It can be useful for a range of different…
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Selling Sex at a Cost
Various organizations across Canada are advocating for the decriminalization of sex work. This includes the Canadian Association of Social Workers, who’s code of ethics seeks to balance the protection of individuals and the principle of doing no harm with autonomy and self-determination. The...
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WOMEN in Iran
A revolutionary anti-government protest in Iran was sparked on Sept 16th, 2022, after 22-year-old Iranian woman Mahsa Amini was picked up and detained by Iran’s "morality police" for showing too much hair. About three months have passed, and innocent lives have been lost yet the people of Iran...
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Pelvic Floor Physiotherapy
Has anyone ever told you that your sexual concerns are all in your head? Well, that’s not always the case. There is another treatment option worth exploring. Pelvic Floor Physiotherapy can help treat sexual and pelvic concerns such as painful intercourse or penetration, early or delayed...
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More Than A Sex Club
Sexual liberation is not a fresh concept these days. But, when we mention a sex club, what comes to mind for you? A space that allows curiosity to unfold surrounded by like-minded people? This time we invited Fatima Mechtab (a.k.a. ‘Miss F’) to introduce us to the sex club, Oasis Aqualounge – a...
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Menopause and Pelvic Pain
Did you know that the average person will spend a third of their life in the menopause transition? We invite Certified Sex Therapist Nicole Schroeder this time to talk about ways to get comfortable with this stage of our life; How Generation X is pushing forward the conversation about menopause...
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Sensuality of a Burundian Woman
Fatima Kamenge (She/Her), an Auntie, Human, and Joybonbon, is the founder of Social Ausum, a consulting firm based in Toronto, Canada that helps business owners build more socially responsible enterprises. What does this business consultant do in their spare time you ask? A sensuality workshop of...
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Mexico's Sex Politics
The politics of sex in Mexico contradict its modern metropolis. I speak with Sexologist, Dr. Selfa González Gomar Montesano and Sex Therapist Dr. Maria de Lourdes Martínez Staines about how traditional religious and patriarchal belief systems in Mexico continue to reinforce the prevalence of…
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ABOUT THIS SHOW
This season on GETSOME, we're creating a space where sexuality thrives, stopping shame at its root and holding open conversations about sex, sexuality, gender, and pleasure. Join us as we nurture understanding and end the shame spiral once and for all. It's time to see sexuality flourish, free from stigma.
HOSTED BY
Michelle Fischler
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This season on GETSOME, we're creating a space where sexuality thrives, stopping shame at its root and holding open conversations about sex, sexuality, gender, and pleasure. Join us as we nurture understanding and end the shame spiral once and for all. It's time to see sexuality flourish, free from...
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