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Getting Intimate

by Azaria Menezes

It’s your Sex, Intimacy and Relationship, Coach Azaria Menezes. I'm also known as "The Pussy Fairy" and my greatest passion is to bring you small doses of ways to bring more pleasure into your body, relationships, and sex life.

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Episodes

  1. The secret key to anal sex

    Listen, I know its been a minute but this episode was TOO good to leave in my drafts from a few months ago. Have you wanted to know the secrets of mindblowing anal sex, surrender and what it means to call in more connectedness during penetration? Tune into this 15 min riff on everything NOT...

  2. Feeling disconnected from your sensuality?

    Listen, we all need a good reminder every once in a while; myself included. This is for you if you want to reconnect to your sensuality, your feel good place or just feel re-inspired about how easy it can be to build intimacy with your self or your lover. If you want to create deeper intimacy…

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  3. Kinky birthday party? Yes please

    Don't listen to this if you don't want to know what could happen at a kinky birthday party! Meg and I sit down for a slightly chaotic and engaging chat about a juicy event I hosted for Meg's kinky birthday. Meg shared their favourite and sexiest moments from the party, what it was like to be...

  4. The wild ride: medication and libido

    If you have ever noticed the subtle or not so subtle changes that come with taking anti depressants or ADHD medication and your libido this episode is for you. I share my experience of my plummeting libido on some of these medications and how things are affecting me today. You'll also get to hear...

  5. Something triggered me during sex..

    I was triggered hard during sex, and I wanted to share (after processing) how I navigate a trauma response showing up in my own personal sex life. I've done tons of work on my sexuality - and there are always new ways my body integrates things on deeper levels. Some things I share out of this...

  6. Lessons from taking space

    An update on the Italy trip, why I didn't really miss anyone at home and what it means to take space away from the hustle and bustle. In this episode I share about my struggle of slowing down, what it means to learn enjoying time with myself and the way I honor my identity outside of being a…

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  7. From dislike to love - Ry and I's relationship

    Drop into this episode where I share the beginnings on how Ry and I met. When I tell you I spent the majority of the first year of our relationship crying you might not believe me. I share about how we went from disliking each other to having a hot secret office romance all the way to what I wore...

  8. So; your libidos aren't matching up?

    Have you ever wondered WHAT you can do about different levels of desire? How to actually navigate those times when you're feeling low/high desire and your partner is feeling the opposite? In this episode you'll learn How to communicate effectively about this, what to do to navigate the…

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  9. What does amazing aftercare look like?

    For all of you baddies who want to create amazing aftercare for yourselves or the lover/s in your life. If youre wondering if you even need to know about aftercare or need it in your life, the answer is always YES. In this episode I dive into what the whole point of aftercare is, how we can make…

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  10. 5 Tips for the hottest midnight sex

    In this episode I'll share with you not only 5 core tips on how to increase the pleasure factor during your midnight sex adventures. I also share my most recent experience, how to navigate not being in the mood for it and ways you can tap into your intuition and discern between routine and…

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  11. The 1 thing that will suck the fun out of your sex life

    If you drop this one thing, I can almost guarantee you'll have more fun in your sex life. There is a place and a time for it though.. In this episode I drop some gems on how you can make your sex life + the rest of your life a little easier by taking inventory of this 1 thing. We all need these...

  12. Ancestral work, motherhood + sexual healing with Mina Aidoo

    After a week off I'm back and with a real special conversation around ancestral healing with Mina Aidoo. Tune into this conversation that sparked so many aha moment's and brings the real honest truth about how sometimes we need to go deeper in our healing through ancestral healing, the sexual...

  13. Bad Bitch Affirmations: Empowered AF

    Start your day feeling like the confident bad bitch you are. Need a little pick me up and feeling low on confidence? Need to remember your power and who the fuck you are? These Affirmations will get you back in your groove baby. 8 minutes of high-dose empowerment coming your way. This is all you...

  14. New Update: Intimacy Made Easy couples course

    Incase you haven't heard; I created an online course for couples and shared about it on Instagram live. If you are desiring to spice up you sex life, intimacy and have FUN! Tune in to get all the info and click the link to check out the course. This online couples experience will change the way…

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  15. THE ultimate anticipation tool, edging!

    Do you like edging? Edging alone vs. partnered, what are the best things about it and what are the things that aren't that great? I sit down with my friend Anna + my partner Ry to talk about our experiences edging and offer 4 hot tips on how YOU can make your edging experience soo much more fun!…

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  16. Fantasies, why I love them and why you should too

    The stories around fantasy's can be varied, but in this episode I share why I love them so much and why they can be such a powerful way of connecting in your relationships. What do they show us? How can we make them fee more expansive? Do we have to live them out? How can we use them to our...

  17. Parent Tell interview: The roller coaster that is sex after baby

    If you've ever wanted to hear stories about my sex life after having a baby here you have it! I was invited on the Parent Tell podcast and I'm pretty sure my most awkward post-baby sex story lives on that podcast and now I'm letting you hear it. Kaila and I talk about all the ups and down's that...

  18. "How do I talk about my desires with my partner?"

    This is one of the biggest questions I get - "How do I talk to my partner about my desires" and also "How do I convey a feeling that I want". In this episode I'll share with you a really simple way to look at this, something that will really change the way you approach the conversations you have...

  19. Learn the art of surrender and receiving in the bedroom

    If you've ever been curious how to tap into deep surrender in the bedroom, this practical episode will give you the tips! I share: What happens in the mind-body connection when it comes to surrender? Whats the damm thing that stops us from surrendering? The one big thing you need to know about...

  20. We didn't have sex for almost 4 weeks.... tips for you too!

    OMG, the sex coach isn't having sex wtf? What our most recent dry spell looked like and how you can get out of yours. This episode was as long awaited as the sex we weren't having! I go over : What happens when you have a dry spell and what causes them? How can you have bad ass intimacy with out...

  21. How I feel about my Ex's partner!

    This episode might surprise you a little! I spent the weekend celebrating pride with my hubby, my ex and her partner and I felt really called to get up-close and personal with you all about how I feel. We have a choice in how we show up in the relationships in our life. Sometimes just sometimes,...

  22. What's that thing blocking your pleasure and intimacy?

    If you want to know what that thing is thats often blocking you from greater pleasure + intimacy, or what that thing is that totally stops you from doing the things you KNOW would be the game changer in your sex life... tune in. We all have this in one area of our lives or more. When it comes to...

  23. Boundaries, self trust and self love with Veronica Puryear

    Let's unpack all the ways you can use boundaries, self love and self trust for your relationships with yourself and others. Veronica a Somatic Sex, Intimacy, and Relationship Guide sits down with the Pussy Fairy to chat about all the ways we can celebrate all of our parts so we can show up…

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  24. Why do couples fight? An instagram live quickie!

    What's the real reason couples get into arguments? Why do these arguments even start? How is it that one small thing can turn into a silly debate? What is the thing that triggers an argument in couples? This instagram live was too good not to share on the podcast! This has been a common theme...

  25. A past client shares all the tea about the work we did

    We want the real tea from real people. I caught up with Sky, a previous client of mine and she shared all the HOT details of her dating life, how our work together has changed and shifted how she feels about herself and her open relationship. What it means to see the results and how the tools…

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  26. So you want more orgasms? Listen to this episode

    You want more orgasms? This episode will give you everything you need to know! Allow The Pussy Fairy to blow your mind, because I'm about to tell you the opposite about everything you may have learned orgasms to be. I dropped all the goodies in this one, and you might be surprised at how much is...

  27. Healing heartbreak with Lucy Price

    Do you want all the deets on how to move through heartbreak? Well, this week you're in luck because Lucy Price - The heartbreak expert, is in the house. We dive deep into what it looks like to tend to your heart during a break-up, how to navigate finding empowerment in the healing stages, how to...

  28. Menstrual Magic and Blood Rituals with Laura Carmody

    Have you ever wondered what rituals you could do with your menstrual blood? Maybe you've been curious as to what sacred menstruation means or even how to create your own blood magic ritual. In this episode, we dove deep into menstrual magic with my special guest Laura Carmody, who is a menstrual...

  29. The practice that showed me the shame and judgment my pussy held

    I share how one powerful practice showed me all the judgment and shame I had around my pussy. I thought I loved the way she looked, but what I didn't know is what she felt. I honestly assumed this would be the most amazing spiritual practice ever until I was met with a shit ton of BIG emotions....

  30. From monogamy to non-monogamy with Carla Crivaro

    Have you ever wondered what it would be like to consciously transition from monogamy to non-monogamy? In this episode Carla Crivaro a sex, love, and relationship coach, spills it all. We talked about the hard conversations that had to happen, the incredible growth that came from them, and the...

  31. 5 journaling prompts for thriving sexuality

    5 journaling prompts for your sexual thriving. Who doesn’t love a little potent quickie? xo The Pussy Fairy If you want to create deeper intimacy NOW, go grab the 14 days to hotter intimacy E-book Come find me in the Getting intimate Facebook group! Subscribe to my email list for a juicy gift or...

  32. Fertility Cycles and Hidden Ovulation with Elsa Marie

    This is an episode I was soooo curious to explore because I have never heard about hidden ovulation. In this episode, I dive into it with Elsa and she shares how astrology plays into fertility and the possibilities of hidden ovulation. If you're anything like me you're always looking to expand…

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  33. Want more pleasure? Think about these things

    Eyyy, This week we are dropping into all the richness of what pleasure has to offer us. IF you're craving more pleasure in your life or you just wish your partner could give you more pleasure in the bedroom; tune in. I share some really practical and simple ways to get in touch with your own well...

  34. A full guided practice for you and your lover - Inspired by my 14 Days to hotter intimacy ebook

    Okay, I am soooo excited about the launch of my new 14 days to hotter intimacy E-book, that I am sharing a connecting practice from the ebook with you here. BUT you know I love you, so I am dropping a FULL guided audio practice for you to tune into. I share all the juicy info about my new eBook…

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  35. 2 things that contributed to having the best sex ever last weekend

    Yall, you know this podcast is gonna be good because this week, ya girl had the best sex ever! I'm talking like out of this world, into a different dimension, multiorgasmic, blackout sex. Now you might be wondering HOW, and I always like to rewind the process and think on: What actually was it…

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  36. Role play; how do you really get into it?

    Let's talk about my favorite thing ever: Roleplay! If you are one of those people who think role play is super awkward or maybe you just really want to be inspired and bring a little role play spice into your life... this episode is for you. This isn't just your 101 roleplay episode, I talk about...

  37. How I deal with my low libido when my anxiety hits hard

    OMG yall, when that anxiety hits my libido and desire to be intimate go straight out the window. I mean obviously, I wouldn't expect a different response! The body is prioritizing and just trying to get by during survival mode. In this episode, I share why we shouldn't run from connecting with…

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  38. Would you take your Pussy on a date?

    Everyone loves date nights, guess what? So does Pussy! This episode is going to be a little different than all the usual ones. It's time to take a little action and take your Pussy on a date. We know that it can feel really hard to connect with our bodies through all the rush and hurry of the…

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  39. Workshop : How to love your breasts

    This was a recording of a juicy workshop I did for all the honey's in my "Getting Intimate" Facebook group. Pull up a chair and pull up your boobs because this workshop is dedicated to THEM. Do you want to cultivate more self-love? Feel more confident? Connect to your source of power? In this...

  40. "Okay, how do I tell my partner exactly how I like it in bed?" How to ask for what you want

    This is for my Pussy owners who are never quite sure how to explain how or what they like in the bedroom. Have you ever struggled with the pressure of how to say exactly what you like or maybe even just abandoned ship and pretended to like something when you damn well know you didn't but you...

  41. An Intimate reflection on new years rituals and our sex life in 2021

    Damm okay well I guess we are welcoming 2022! I wanted to do an episode that was a little more intimate than I usually do aka. I have a very special guest where we talk about our sex life and intimacy in 2021. I also share some things around new years rituals and if you listen all the way to the...

  42. Feeling triggered or activated? Let's regulate together

    Feeling triggered, activated, or feeling like your nervous system is taking you for a ride can be overwhelming. I know personally how scary it can feel to be in this state of activation. The more tools we have to support our nervous systems to find back to balance the better. Tune into this…

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  43. "I want deeply connecting sex" 3 non-sexual things to cultivate this

    This is the one I hear the most " I wish I could just feel more deeply connected during sex" because FUCK yes we all want to feel this. I mean sex is good but have you ever had deeply connected, present, totally in your body + pleasure sex? That shit is next level baby. The three things I share...

  44. The one thing people are forgetting about their sexuality

    OOOO Okay, so this one is a juicy one. I share the one thing that people easily forget about their sexuality. Have you ever found yourself in the post-honeymoon phase of your relationship, wondering where the hell your sex life went? Or wondering why your connection to your own sexuality is…

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  45. 5 ways you can increase your wetness factor in the bedroom

    Okay, soo this is a juicy little quicky I took from the Getting Intimate Facebook group because it was too good not to share on here. Have you ever wanted to know what supports your personal wetness factor in the bedroom? Do you ever wonder if there's any way you can increase it? Of course, a...

  46. The one thing you can do to feel alive and connected with your sexuality

    Have you ever felt like you wanted to maintain that connection to your sexuality + aliveness? You know you see these women just oozing in their sexuality and you're like " Shit, I want that". Well, guess what, I have the damm secret for you. In this episode, we go over the one thing you can do to...

  47. "I feel awkward initiating sex with my partner" How to feel more at ease initiating sex

    Oooo Okay I know there are some people out there that this might benefit. If you've ever felt like initiating is awkward, you resist it because maybe you fear getting rejected or you just don't even think about initiating because you don't think about sex this is for you. In this episode, we go...

  48. Are you sitting in the passenger seat of your sexuality?

    Have you ever wondered how you can shift your perception of sex? Ask yourself this: Are you sitting in the driver's seat or the passenger seat of your sexuality? In this quick little episode, I go over what that looks like and how you can shift it. Sometimes we just need those good little…

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  49. A quick 10min practice to start your morning feeling juicy and grounded

    Trick or Treat - Always treat. Happy Halloween, I have a treat for you. Pussy owners! A Juicy morning practice to start your day. This one is best done before you start your morning, still in bed, your eyes barely open and you're still snuggly in your sheets. You can do this practice every…

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  50. Want to have great sex? Do these things

    Yalll, I know you want to have great sex because; same. In this episode, I drop my favourite ways to shift mediocre sex into great sex. Now we know that sex isn't mindblowing all the time, but we can definitely shift into having great sex A LOT of the time. There are a million ways to have great...

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It’s your Sex, Intimacy and Relationship, Coach Azaria Menezes. I'm also known as "The Pussy Fairy" and my greatest passion is to bring you small doses of ways to bring more pleasure into your body, relationships, and sex life.

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