Gotta B Me

If you are in need of some soul food, nah not the kind that puts you into a food coma, I’m talking the kind that fills you up so good, you ain’t ever needa eat again! Ok but on a serious note, Pastor Woodgete gave us the WORD this week! We are still benefiting from the gems of wisdom that he spoke into us. Who are we to keep it to ourselves?! We trust you will be just as blessed, challenged, and awed as we were. Hear him out and you will not only receive a blessing of instruction and direction but your faith will be increased as you learn of the miracle that God performed in his family! ✌🏽❤️🪮

Welcome back everyone! These next episodes are not for the weak! If you a real one, join us as we open up about church fatigue, what it means to remain holy yet relevant, and redefining our relationship with God and people alike. It’s all about honesty in this space so sit back and enjoy the tea. Oh and any (honest) questions or contributions you have, leave in the comments and we may, someday, reply. But for real though, we love hearing from you!✌🏽❤️🪮

We’re back, and we are so excited to be here! In this episode, we’re breaking it all down—what’s coming in these next few seasons, why we’re doing things differently, and what you can expect from us moving forward. Real talk about faith, identity, community, and the beautiful chaos of life—no filters, no holding back. ✌🏽❤️🪮

This week, we couldn’t stay silent. What’s happening in Chicago right now — the ICE raids, the fear, the tension — has left us deeply disturbed. Under the false promise of “cleaning up” neighborhoods and making communities safer, families are being torn apart, and men, women, and children are too afraid to even step outside their homes.In this episode, we talk about what’s really going on — not from a distance, but from the perspective of people who live there, who see it, and who feel it. Payton and several of our friends are witnessing this firsthand, and it’s impossible to ignore the pain, confusion, and injustice that’s unfolding.Even if the end goal were safety, this is not the way to achieve it. We can’t claim to stand for truth, faith, or community and turn a blind eye to suffering.Curious about who we are and why we dress this way? Check out our videos where we cover those topics!   • Anti-Denominationalism Because…Anti-Racism     • Why We Dress Like This...AGAIN  

In this episode, we dive deep into the unseen — the countless spirits that move through our atmosphere, influencing our thoughts, emotions, and relationships. This isn’t just a mental or emotional struggle; it’s a spiritual one. Every day, we’re challenged to keep these spirits from entering our system — to resist the pull toward bitterness, division, and pride, and instead choose unity, understanding, and love. But we’re not meant to navigate this battle alone. It takes Godly, Spirit-led leadership to help us discern what’s of God and what’s not — to guide us through the noise without being overcome by it. Social media, especially, has become a powerful tool for both good and evil, amplifying voices that can either lift us or lure us astray. Together, we’ll unpack how to stay spiritually aware, guard your peace, and fight back with truth, humility, balance, and faith.

We’ve got a little treat for you today — something different, something special! 🎤Camille’s stepping out of her comfort zone and sharing her a piece of her slam poetry. She almost kept it to herself, but she felt a strong pull to share it — because honestly, it speaks to all of us in some way.It’s real, it’s raw, and it’s straight from the heart. So take a minute to listen in, feel it, and let it move you. And when you’re done, drop a kind word or two in the comments — Camille would love to hear your thoughts and encouragement as she begins this new creative journey. 💜

In this powerful episode, we dive into the truth that Jesus was not passive — He was a divine activist. When the temple was filled with money changers and corruption, He didn’t stand by in silence. He acted. With righteous authority, He turned chaos into cleansing, reminding us that God’s house — and our hearts — were created for prayer, justice, and worship.We’re called to that same higher standard. Christianity isn’t about comfort, compliance, or “good ole boy” traditions — it’s about conviction, courage, and holy disruption. As followers of Christ, we must engage our minds and hearts to discern where and how we can speak truth, confront injustice, and create change in alignment with God’s will.

In this episode, we confront a hard but necessary truth — the silence within the Church can be just as destructive as the sins it refuses to name. Ignorance, especially in a place meant to be led by truth, becomes a breeding ground for mistrust, division, and spiritual decay.If we truly claim to follow Christ, then we are called to seek wisdom, pursue understanding, and confront what’s wrong — even when it’s uncomfortable. Choosing silence in the face of injustice or ignorance is not holiness; it’s avoidance.The Church cannot heal what it refuses to see — and silence is not salvation.

Payton and Camille sit down to reflect on their summer — the highs, the hurdles, and the grit it took to make it through. From moments that tested their strength to the laughter that kept them grounded, this conversation is all about resilience, sisterhood, and growth.And of course, we couldn’t forget an exciting update on Sophia’s wedding! Tune in as we share the joy of her beautiful day, the love that filled the room, and how she’s been embracing married life ever since.

In this special World Afro Day episode, we celebrate the beauty, power, and boldness of the fro — a crown that represents freedom, heritage, and unshakable pride. The Afro is more than a hair-do; it’s a movement, a statement, and a story of resilience woven into every curl and coil.Join us as we embrace the beautiful chaos of the Afro — its unapologetic volume, its symbolism of solidarity, and its deep connection to identity and empowerment.Let this episode remind you to celebrate your roots, wear your crown proudly, and stand tall in the fullness of who you are.

We’ve got our little cousins on the mic this week! They’re in their teen years, figuring out life, family, and all the ups and downs that come with it. It’s real, it’s funny, and trust me—we laugh LOUD. This one feels just like sitting in on family time.

Introducing Zion Strong, a young entrepreneur from our very own community whose vision is to build unity and create spaces that bring people together. Through his business, 4everlasting, Zion is helping to lead an important and revolutionary work to strengthen the love and purpose in our community.

In this episode, we sit down with author Keichelle to celebrate the release of her brand-new book Title. She shares the heart behind her writing—exploring the power of knowing and embracing your true place in the world, no matter the cost. We dive into her grand imagination, the wisdom woven throughout her work, and her journey of finding the strength to write through her unique lens of life. Tune in for inspiration, insight, and a glimpse into the treasures within her pages.

In this episode, we uncover the disturbing link between school literacy rates and the prison pipeline that continues to plague our nation. This system, designed to profit a wealthy few, mirrors the destructive “spirit of Cain” in the Bible—brother against brother, community against community. Together we discuss how breaking this cycle requires unity, vision, and a new system built on wisdom, strength, and shared purpose.

One year ago, our family’s world shifted with the news of our mom’s stage 4 rectal cancer diagnosis. In this heartfelt conversation, she shares her harrowing yet hope-filled journey through a year marked by faith, love, and the unwavering support of friends, family, and God. Together, we reflect on the lessons learned, the strength found, and the power of trusting that everything unfolds just as God wills.

Today, we’re spotlighting a remarkable young author, Tyler the Reader, a 4th grader who went from learning how to read to publishing his own book—all within a single year. His journey is a powerful example of what’s possible when acknowledgment, love, engagement, and cultivation meet community. Surely this could not be possible without the ALECtion method implemented by the Real Black Excellence Intervention Program and the support of his other school teachers, parents, and many other members of the community. This episode is a celebration of literacy, mentorship, and the brilliance of our youth. You’ll want to hear how Tyler’s story unfolded!

In this episode, we sit down with Marquel—a young man whose passion for community and purpose is reshaping the lives of the next generation. Once a young boy searching for his place, Marquel was guided by men who poured into him and helped him discover his value. Now, he’s paying it forward by leading his own young men’s meetings, creating safe spaces for boys to grow, heal, and step confidently into manhood. Tune in as we explore his journey, the power of mentorship, and the importance of helping young men find their voice, vision, and village.

In this episode, we dive into Jane Elliott’s groundbreaking “Blue Eyes/Brown Eyes” experiment and the profound effect it had on the children and young adults who experienced it. What began as a classroom exercise became a powerful demonstration of how quickly people can internalize superiority or inferiority based on arbitrary traits. We explore how this social experiment exposed the raw truth about prejudice, privilege, and the ease with which society builds—and believes in—destructive constructs.

In this heartfelt episode, we sit down with our Uncle Muncle as he reflects on growing up as the youngest of three brothers—our dads included—and what it meant to find his voice and calling among two larger-than-life overachievers. We also explore a deeper conversation on the tension in the Black community between outward confidence and inner self-worth, and how that disconnect impacts our ability to build, sustain, and access resources. It’s personal, powerful, and deeply necessary.

In this episode, we challenge the misconception that acknowledging our history means adopting a victim mentality. We unpack why telling the truth about the past—through the correct narrative—is not weakness, but a vital step toward healing, identity, and progress. It’s not about blame; it’s about clarity, context, and reclaiming our story.

In this episode, we’re joined by two of our youngest brothers, Isaac and Jesse—the passionate, rough-and-tumble, competitive duo who love to think deep, speak loud, and lead strong. From hilarious childhood memories to serious reflections on finding their voice as young African American men, we dive into what it means to grow up, speak up, and stand up for the next generation.

This episode dives into the Wilmington Massacre of 1898 — when armed white supremacists stormed a thriving Black community, burned it down, and overthrew a legally elected government. It was the only successful coup in U.S. history — and yet, most of us never heard a word about it in school. That’s not by accident. We’re calling out the systems that whitewash history and digging into the truth they don’t want taught. Buckle up — this is the history lesson they never wanted you to hear.Link to the Wilmington Massacre Documentary    • American Coup: Wilmington 1898 | Full Docu...  Curious about who we are and why we dress this way? Check out our videos where we cover those topics!   • Anti-Denominationalism Because…Anti-Racism     • Why We Dress Like This...AGAIN  

In this episode, we girls sit down to unpack the powerful messages and emotional moments from the movie Sinners. We share how it challenged our perspectives, stirred our hearts, and sparked meaningful conversations. Join us as we reflect on what Sinners meant to us—and maybe, what it could mean for you too.

In this episode, we share how we wrote our life stories in just three days—not to impress, but to prove our calling to teach through the transformative process of ALECtion. More than a clever play on “the chosen one,” ALEC stands for Acknowledgment, Love, Engagement, and Cultivation. Join us as we break down each step, reflect on our breakthroughs, and motivate you to step into your own chosen path.

In this heartfelt episode, we sit down with our Auntie as she shares the powerful story behind founding her business, Negasi. Through deep personal loss, a path of healing, and an unwavering hope for the future, she transformed pain into potential and purpose. Tune in to hear how resilience, faith, and vision led to the birth of a brand rooted in legacy and love, and oh so much food.

In this episode, we dive into the transformative value of leaving your comfort zone as a young person and stepping into the world. We explore the impact of working abroad, immersing yourself in new cultures, and experiencing life through the lens of others. Whether you go to be of service or simply to expand your life experience, you’ll often find that you’re the one who grows the most. From expanding your worldview to challenging your assumptions, this conversation unpacks how foreign experiences can shape your identity, relationships, and sense of purpose.

Join us three girls as we spill all the wild, hilarious, and life-changing moments from our intense 3-week boot camp! From sweat and struggle to growth and grit, we’re sharing the real, unfiltered journey—because every crazy minute was absolutely worth it.

In this episode, we dive into the importance of stepping out in faith and boldly running with the blessings God has bestowed on us from day to day. Not surprisingly, we got pretty animated and passionate about our respective stories 😁, but at least you know we mean it. We would love if you felt free to share your testimony, inspiring others, and reminding us all that our journeys—no matter how different—can be powerful tools of encouragement and hope.

In this heartfelt episode, Gotta B Three — Sophia, Payton, and Camille — break down each other’s personalities and look back on the wild, emotional, and unforgettable ride of the past few years. From tears to laughter, this conversation dives deep into the bonds of family, growth, and the stories that shaped them. Expect raw emotion, inside jokes, and moments that’ll make you feel like you’ve known them forever.

In this episode, we dive into the uncomfortable but essential truth: conflict is necessary for progress, for honesty, and for resolution. But in many spaces—especially ones shaped by white supremacy—conflict is seen as dangerous, divisive, or even unnecessary. We explore how the fear of conflict is not just personal discomfort but a systemic tool to maintain control, silence dissent, and uphold the status quo. We break down how running from conflict is a subtle yet powerful manifestation of white supremacy culture—and what it looks like to choose the harder path of truth, discomfort, and real change.Curious about who we are and why we dress this way? Check out our videos where we cover those topics!   • Anti-Denominationalism Because…Anti-R...     • Why We Dress Like This...AGAIN  00:00-3:15 Conflict: Good or Bad? 3:15-7:15 Human Reaction to Conflict7:15-9:52 Conflict in Relation to America9:52-13:06 Refuse to Separate13:06-17:58 Selling out & White Supremacy17:58-19:33 SHOUTOUT Top Commenters!!

In this episode, we meet Sophia’s fiancé and discover what makes him the one. Sophia opens up about her journey to love, why she chose him, and how they plan to navigate the beauty and complexity of marriage. From preserving her cultural identity to building bridges in her community, she shares how love, faith, and purpose intertwine in their story.

We’re talking identity—what it means to be Christian first, African American second, and part of a family third. In that order. This podcast is all about real talk on faith, culture, and the everyday balance of staying grounded in who we are and whose we are.

In this episode, we dive into the pros and cons of private schooling versus public education. From class sizes and curriculum flexibility to social experiences and various diversities in concepts, we break down how each system shapes students’ learning and their present and future opportunities.

In this episode-“Marriage Without Dating”-we explore cultures, beliefs, and personal convictions behind skipping dating and going straight to courtship and marriage. Is it risky or rewarding? Let’s dive in.

Conversations about mixed heritage and Black identity are never simple, and we’re not here to pretend we have all the answers. We may not have said everything perfectly. We didn’t say everything we wanted to say. But that’s the whole point—we’re here to talk, to articulate, to learn.We are Black. Full stop. Our “mixed” heritage isn’t outside of Blackness—it’s held within it. Blackness is broad and expansive and we exist fully within it. We are young, gifted, and Black, and we’re in constant motion—growing, progressing, and engaging with ourselves and each other.This is a space for honesty, for exploration, and for getting it right—eventually. And until we do, we’ll keep saying it again.

Some people claim we’re not African American because of our hair type or skin color—but history and identity aren’t that simple. In this episode, we discuss the misconceptions, challenge the gatekeeping, offer our personal views on what it really means to be African American.

Join us as our little brothers open up about the powerful influence of hip-hop culture on their lives—the good, the bad, and the struggles in between. From the music to the mindset, they discuss how they navigate its impact, challenge negative narratives, and fight to create radical peer pressure.

To all those who have made themselves a willing participant in "The Struggle" by stitching, commenting, reposting, and sharing our recent viral black girl magic video, we want to sincerely thank you for your interaction and part in making sure our video reached millions. Our response written, by Apostle Stephen Hargrave, is entitled "What is Black?" addressing who is black, how did the African American nation come to be, why is there confusion and contempt within the black community, and how we can unite as a people to reconcile this all under God. Please take a moment to listen to us tackle these issues, cause we ATE...and left no crumbs!🤌🏽

Why are we releasing another episode on why we dress this way…again???Why are people still asking? What impact does our dress have on the rest of the world? Does it have any impact at all? Is the way we dress an unspoken statement? Are we trying to make a statement by the way we dress?All valid questions that we can find the answers to on the inside. See you there! ✌🏽❤️🪮

Special episode coming out today! Tune in to Apostle Randall Hargrave explain his sentiments and express the lingering effects of the Half Time show with Kendrick Lamar! Let us know how you feel in the comments. See you on the inside! ✌🏽❤️🪮

Here is the link for more Revelation content dropping on February 22!https://youtu.be/rT9Pjf3NCUY

This podcast explores the biblical pattern of leadership, the role of apostles and prophets as our foundation, and the watchmen who see what we often fail to acknowledge. Truth dwells in men, and our leaders speak for and through us—ask yourself- “Why does that bother me?” Join us as we challenge the illusion of independence and embrace the structure God designed.

In this episode, we explore why speaking from a prophetic standpoint is essential and how prophecy is more than just foretelling the future—it’s our spiritual livelihood. Prophetic insight shapes our understanding, aligns us with divine purpose, and calls us to action in times of uncertainty. We’ll discuss the responsibility of prophetic voices, the impact of truth told through a prophetic perspective, and how living prophetically empowers us to navigate life with clarity and conviction. Tune in as we uncover why understanding prophecy isn’t optional—it’s vital.

In this thought-provoking episode, we sit down with the insightful and dynamic Judge Smith to discuss the evolving role of women in leadership. Together, we explore the challenges and triumphs women face in rising to positions of power and influence, the societal expectations they navigate, and the resilience required to break barriers. Join us for a candid, empowering conversation that blends history, prophecy, law, and leadership, forcing us to take a closer look at what it means to pioneer a path forward for present day women.

They go by Jael and Dooty! Two beautiful, down to earth, queens with a desire to share their young minds, learn new perspectives, and make a difference in the world. Join us as we get down to business discussing the good, the bad, and the ugly side of life. See you in the comments ❤️✌🏽🪮

We’re so honored to host one of our very own role models, teachers, counselors, friends, and singers extraordinaire, Sis. Roz Sims! For many years she’s been a faithful pillar in the community and proudly wears the crown of wisdom. One hour in her presence will yield you years of guidance. We hope you enjoy this episode as we explore the role of women within the body of Christ and the meaning behind our style of clothing. ✌🏽❤️🪮

Excited to release our next episode this weekend starring Simon Benion our big little brother! Simon is a music junkie, critical thinker, emotionally complex, artistic, and definite middle child. We really enjoyed filming this episode with him and look forward to hosting our other siblings if we get enough comments asking them on✌🏽❤️🪮

What do we think about the elections outcome? Is there an existing balanced perspective concerning politics that is available for us to ascribe to or must we decide for ourselves? Who is actually running the country now? Who will be running the country when Mr. Trump is in office? Tune in to discover our perspective and who we voted for…or if we voted at all. ✌🏽❤️🪮