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Great Date Guy

by Rob Wang

How to find love even if you're the least social human on earth. Join me in learning how to date out of your league and find success...without needing to be a confident extrovert. Wannabe PUAs and Alpha bros, GTFO. This isn't for you.This is a living exploration of how to be honest and still get the woman (or man) you want. And what actually matters if you're looking to establish financial independence. Proven tools from the schools of psychology, counseling, neurology, CBT, IFS/partswork, shamanism, and more.New episodes every Thurs 8:00 am Pacific.

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  1. 178 - Why your relationships keep getting shorter...

    Every relationship starts the same way. And ends the same way. What if that's not a coincidence? In this episode, we cover why your relationships keep falling apart. What hidden habits keep that cycle going. And the very uncomfortable secret to erasing the storms that tear relationships apart.

  2. 176 - Asian and Dating: Dating apps different for minorities?

    Being an ethnic minority can come with extra dating challenges - from unfair stereotypes to plain old prejudice. But are those externally imposed hurdles really the key factor holding you back? In this episode... Why my race really WASN'T the issue with my dating struggles. The uncomfortable...

  3. 175 - These Mind Viruses Are Killing Your Dating Life - Here's How to Cure Them

    This episode is for anyone still struggling with those stubborn mental blocks to finding the partner they desire and deserve. The 9 mind viruses that made me undatable (and how I cured them) Why you need to stop consuming dating advice. The 5-minute face meditation that removed my anxiety around...

  4. 173 - If I had to start dating all over again, this is what I'd do.

    Candid insights and practical strategies for anyone seeking a fresh perspective on revamping their dating life. Tune in to uncover the secret to a game changing dating reset. The #1 thing I'd do before dating again (hint: most guys don't do this and it's not good) Why social shotgunning is better...

  5. 171 - How to stop being unattractive

    Where she's actually looking at when she sees you Why you keep getting ghosted How to become 2x more attractive without changing anything about yourself The little known secret that makes men more attractive to single women. The real reason it feels like all the dating advice you're getting...

  6. 170 - Signs You're Dating the Wrong Girl (Or Guy)

    Not sure you're supposed to be with the person you're dating? Here are some major signs you need to gtfo. Why it's so hard to leave abusive relationships (and what actually qualifies?) Signs your partner is never going to change (even if they keep promising you that they will) Why liars lie, and...

  7. 169 - How to stop going on tilt (dating apps)

    This is why you keep getting worse and worse results on that dating app you love/hate. (Hint: it doesn't have shit to do with your rizz) Been awhile, gang. But we're back. In this episode... The real reason why you're still single (and hating it) The sinister design of dating apps, how that makes...

  8. 168 - What I wish I'd been taught about dating [Final Episode For Now]

    Thought about just leaving the podcast as it was, but that woulda been wierd. Leaving without saying goodbye. As a special thank you for listening, I thought I'd record a podcast where I taught everything I wish I'd learned the moment I hit 18. Inside... The difference between a steamy vs.…

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  9. 167 - How to go from Scrub to Seductive

    In this episode: 1. The no. 1 reason you aren't getting better with women. 2. Why most men get stuck settling for less and how to stop the cycle. 3. How to know if you're thinking like a boy vs. thinking like a man. 4. The biggest thing you need to change today if you're still taking rejection...

  10. 166 - Blow Her Mind - 5 Rules For Better, Hotter, and MORE Sex

    In this episode... She wants sex! We talk about how to create conversations and environments that help her have sex with YOU. What to do when sex starts to feel like WORK and STRESS Why your fear of rejection is running the show in the bedroom (in the worst possible way) and how to erase it How…

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  11. 165 - Ten Commandments For Dating 10s

    You want to date out of your league? This is everything I've learned in the past month about attracting and dating gorgeous women. Once you've listened to this podcast you will understand... The optimal way to structure your profile Absolute dos and don'ts when writing your "about me" The types…

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  12. 164 - This is why she's crap at texting you back

    Welcome to the horror show that is online dating. Today we cover off on why so many women seem to be so damned skittish and unavailable (there's actually a good reason for that. Surprised? I was, too). And maybe more importantly, what we can do about that. If you're tired of feeling rejected,...

  13. 163 - Attractive Leadership - Here's Where Most Men F*ck Up

    By now you've probably had it drilled into your skull that as a man you need to be more dominant in the bedroom, boardroom, and apparently everywhere else you're expected to show up. While dominance is an important thing, most experts never bother explaining that dominance is what naturally…

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  14. 162 - A Therapist Teaches Us How To Date Better

    If you've ever wanted to talk to someone absolutely gorgeous only to choke and have the whole thing go down in flames moments later...this is for you. In this episode... Mary walks us through how to stop self sabotaging (and why it happens) when the stakes are high... A quick, 3 minute exercise…

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  15. 161 - How to Break up Without Living to Regret It

    Today we talk about breaking up with honor. In a world of ghosting and silent resentment, this is how you show up as a goddamn warrior. This is how you break up without living to regret it - AND we'll show you how to do it with the utmost compassion and love for yourself, the other person, and…

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  16. 160 - Conflict Breaker: A 45 Min Guide On Keeping Your Cool

    In this episode, we share the exact step by step method to become a conflict breaker. Someone who can halt big ugly fights and confrontation in their tracks - before they cross the point of no return. This is among one of the most attractive skills you can ever learn as a romantic partner. Today…

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  17. 159 - She Doesn't Actually Want a Badboy, Here's Why...

    I think by now, most men have learned that being told they're *nice* is the kiss of death. It's almost worse than being told you aren't tall enough... But what does it actually mean to be a "nice guy" and is being a bad boy actually any better? As ye olde adage goes, "women love a**holes"...but…

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  18. 158 - Men, when life is intent on putting you down...STOP! Do this.

    This episode is for you if… Life feels like Groundhog Day. The problems and challenges won’t stop coming, and worst of all, it feels like they’re on repeat. You keep dating the same horrible people. You keep getting steamrolled or taken advantage of at work. You keep trying to start a business…

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  19. 157 - (Interview) Breaking The ‘Nice Guy’ Curse w/ Ashley Cox, founder @NiceGuyReformSchool

    What's up baddies. Got a sizzling hot take from our guest today Ashley Cox. In this episode: What keeps nice guys trapped in a cycle of endless painful relationships? How this relationship dynamic forces women to occupy a masculine role (that they hate!) How to stop your partner from…

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  20. 156 - Mixed Signals & You: What to do when they're hot and cold?

    Welcome to the sh*tty part of dating. Where we've built up this story in our head of how things are ending happily ever after, only to be greeted by silence, loss of communication, and pain. One moment they're in love with us. The next, they won't call us back. In this episode we discuss exactly...

  21. 155 - How to chat up your gym crush

    In this episode, Scott gets interviewed on exactly how he gets so many dates just by talking with strangers. This is a skill that mystifies me, too - so we've got almost an hour of content here for you today on the step by step, how to cultivate the proper mindset, and a few examples of how a…

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  22. 154 - How to stop caring what your haters think about you...

    This is a big one for me. Any time I suspect someone might be upset at me it fucks me up in a big way. I’m talking about staying up late, not getting enough sleep, being distracted all day. So in this ep, I’ll be talking about how I got through caring too much what other people think – and by…

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  23. 153 - Help I'm taking things too personally!

    And this podcast we run through one very simple exercise that will help you stop reacting with anger, hurt, or feelings of rejection when things go wrong. If you've noticed that you've been getting into arguments or very weird head spaces more often than you like, this is the one for you.

  24. 152 - The New Years Ritual You Cannot Afford To Ignore

    Clean your space. Look at the areas in your home and in your life you have been consciously or unconsciously avoiding. And start feeling everything that comes up. An important distinction here. What do we mean by feel your feelings? Emotions always come with a sensation in the body. That's why we...

  25. 151 - Introvert Problems: How do I approach attractive women?

    In this episode... How to rapidly advance your social skills with attractive women What pitfalls to avoid if you want to learn to be good as quickly as possible The secret to minimizing your discomfort while maximizing your growth What I do with my eye contact to completely avoid coming across...

  26. 150 - This Is How I Annihilated My Social Anxiety Around Women

    How come it's so hard to talk to women I'm really attracted to? How do I stop coming across weird and nervous? How can I get her to chase me, instead of spending all my time trying to convince her that I'm the right choice? How do I stop needing so much social validation from women? In this bonus...

  27. 149 - Here's what everyone gets wrong about making BIG money...

    In this episode… What mindsets increase your worth? What mindsets are secretly setting you back? Increasing your earning potential through non-neediness and a step by step on how that’s done How to self diagnose (and fix) your money wounds. How much happier does money make us anyway? The real...

  28. 148 - How We Break Addictive Patterns (and How You Can Too)

    Sup brotherhood, Welcome back to the fold. Today we shed some light on the following: 1. Why our brains get stuck repeating harmful behaviors, even when we know they're bad for us. 2. 3 simple ways to break free the next time you're in a self destructive loop. 3. One thing you absolutely should…

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  29. 147 - We Asked A Woman To Critique Our Flirting

    What is flirting? When is it okay to simply tell a woman you're attracted to her? What does good flirting look like? How can you tell a woman isn't interested in your advances? When does flirting become creepy? Today, Scott & I answer all these questions (and more) and Joanne keeps us honest.

  30. 146 - I Asked 4 Love Coaches What They're Currently Learning About Dating & Love...

    The Questions: What's the most embarrassing thing you've ever believed about dating? What lesson are you currently learning about love? What's your greatest dating tip? The Coaches: Liv Pavlov: Liv is a sex and intimacy coach who supports men women and couples to have relationships and love that...

  31. 145 - Do these 5 things for better conversations with women

    For most of my life I was terrible at conversation with women. This is how I fixed that.

  32. 144 - This Will Make Her Into a Dripping Puddle

    In this unironically longest episode we've ever done, Scott & Rob talk about what it actually takes to become absolutely masterful in bed and how to become to best she's ever had, without having any technique or being hung like a damn horse. We talk about why porn can actually make you worse in...

  33. 143 - The 34 Min Guide To Masculinity & Dominance

    Masculinity lately is almost a 4 letter word. Triggering to many and with every passing day, the rules feel harder and more complicated to navigate. Who are we as men? How do we reclaim our masculinity powerfully? What does it take to respect women, without losing ourselves in the process. We...

  34. 142 - How to Stop Lashing Out - A 30 Min Guide to Conflict.

    Back from the dead. I needed to take some time off from this podcast to deal with the other things happening in my life. Among many other things, I was given a chance to deliver a TEDx talk and I took it. That led to some MASSIVE stress and anxiety. With that complete, I've invited my good friend...

  35. 141 - How to stop putting her on a pedestal

    This one's for you if... You find yourself instinctively, or reflexively avoiding women who are "too attractive" You find yourself getting shy, robotic, shut down, or trying too hard when you run into someone you're actually interested in dating You have ever struggled with your worth as a man…

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  36. 140 - Make Her Laugh - Everything You Were Never Taught About Humor

    In this podcast... Hacking the rule of 5 to effortlessly become funnier How to stop coming across like you're trying too hard When you should NEVER text her And a secret bonus tip that I typically only give to my private coaching clients

  37. 139 - Interview: The Magic Of Ghosting👻 (feat Macy Matarazzo of SuperLOVED)

    In this final episode of Season 6, we dive into why ghosting can be the greatest boon you get to experience in your dating life - AND how you can get this mindset for yourself without needing to fake it. What does it take to not only shrug off ghosting like it doesn't matter, but actually feel…

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  38. 138 - How Psychedelics Made Me A Better Date (And Increased My Income)

    In this episode I break down what psychedelics and other substances I've tried, how the process looks, what to expect on your first experience, and what each substance can/should be used for. Inside, we cover... Cannabis DMT/Ayahuasca Mushrooms & Acid Kambo And how to use these ingredients to…

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  39. 137 - Interview: Exploring Tantra & Four Hour Orgasms (feat. KC Taylor)

    We've gone ahead and made the least appropriate episode of the podcast, yet. If you want to learn how to have energy orgasms that last for wayyy too long, if you want to learn how to have a happier, more pleasurable experience of life overall, if you just want to have really really great sex…

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  40. 136 - Learning To Erase My Neediness (Advanced)

    Neediness is based off a lack of fulfillment of needs (physical / emotional) In order to effectively combat neediness we need to notice the signs - nervousness, urgency, treating each interaction like it's going to be our last, etc. Understand too that neediness can show up in other areas of…

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  41. 135 - How To Stop Being Unattractive

    The truth here is that being attractive isn't terribly difficult. But in order to get there you have to understand a few things first. And, if you're an outsider, these are the kinds of things that no one teaches you. In this episode, we talked about what attraction actually is, why anyone can...

  42. 134 - How I Solved My Marketing Problem As A New Business

    A lot of the marketing information out there isn't terrible, but it is only applies to a very specific part of Business Development. If you're at the wrong stage of business, if you're listening to the wrong Guru talk about the wrong type of marketing for your business, then nothing that you do...

  43. 133 - Flirting: Everything You Weren't Taught About Seduction

    So, first things first, flirting isn't nearly as complicated as some of these experts would have you believe. Today I'm going to break down a very simple system that explains everything about how flirting works and how you can become excellent at it without being that creepy guy. This Theory will...

  44. 132 - Online dating is a clusterf***, here's how I'm gaming the system

    If you're not getting the results that you want with online dating, first of all that's completely normal. About 80% of men don't get the experience they wanted out of online dating. In general problems can be broken down into three categories. Problem 1: no matches. Problem 2: ghosting / convo...

  45. 131 - One Business Skill You *Need* To Succeed In 2021

    Starting up a new business and making it work is often messy at best So today we're going to be talking about the one skill you need in order to make your business work in 2021. Now this goes double if you're starting from scratch and the product or service that you're offering is essentially…

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  46. 130 - Settling in Dating? Here's How to Stop. (No Cold Approach Method)

    What if the secret to having an epic dating life...and all the success that you can manage... all comes down to just one thing. And what if that one thing, didn't involve pushing yourself to talk to people who scare the sh*t out of you, because they're 'out of your league'. What if the secret…

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  47. 129 - What to do when you lose someone you love (feat. Katie Strand)

    Loss is hard under any condition and the last year and a half have been filled with, and utterly defined by what was lost. Friends, family, relationships, jobs, homes... When loss comes, it takes away our sense of the world being a hospitable and welcoming place. And in my experience, simply…

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  48. 128 - Guys who don't do this are less attractive and earn less money

    A few years back scientist at MIT ran a study that allowed them to predict how much someone would be offered at an interview to within $1,000 of their actual offer. The same predictor was used to accurately assess which c-suite executive would win a business plan pitch contest in front of a panel...

  49. 127 - How I Finally Found $$ Success Outside My 9 to 5 (and how you can too)

    There are a few things you need to understand about success, especially when it comes to business. The first piece is understanding that what your brain believes will become the solution to all your problems, is actually just a gateway to new problems. Retiring early won't make you more…

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  50. 126 - The (hidden) unfair advantage of being in your darkest hour

    The truth is when things are dark it's hard to even get by, much less stay motivated. However what most people don't understand, is that when things get difficult, a hidden function of our brain gets unlocked. In this episode we talked about how to take advantage of it and what conditions are...

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ABOUT THIS SHOW

How to find love even if you're the least social human on earth. Join me in learning how to date out of your league and find success...without needing to be a confident extrovert. Wannabe PUAs and Alpha bros, GTFO. This isn't for you.This is a living exploration of how to be honest and still get the woman (or man) you want. And what actually matters if you're looking to establish financial independence. Proven tools from the schools of psychology, counseling, neurology, CBT, IFS/partswork, shamanism, and more.New episodes every Thurs 8:00 am Pacific.

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