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Send us Fan MailNic & Dale are back in the studio this week after taking a short breath.  The Growing Together Podcast has covered a lot of ground this year and we look forward to finishing the year strong.  If there are any topics you would like Nic & Dale to cover, send us fan mail or leave it in the comments!  On this weeks episode we will be taking a look inward, asking a simple question we all can relate to:  What are you wrestling with?  Everyone has something they wrestle with on the daily.  For many of us, there is that one opponent we square up with time and time again.  It can be addiction, jealousy, personal abuse, our tongue, unforgiveness, etc.  Self-pity and shame can be two daunting opponents, like two 500 pound wrestlers seething and chomping at the bit to keep you in the middle of the squared circle with no way of escape.  Many times, we think we can grapple with these opponents on our own, never looking to our own corner.  Jesus is always there with his hand stretched out, waiting for that tag, ready to relieve us of our burden and finish the enemy off with his signature move.  Christians know better than anyone that personal battles do not have to be fought alone.  Nic has a deep and personal empathy for those that are facing the prospect of suicide without the proper Christian guidance and support; without a true relationship with Christ to lean on.  The world is a scary place to be left alone and without Jesus it can be hard to find hope and assurance in life situations that can be overcome without giving in to fear and defeat.  Jesus is the only one who will not abandon us in the middle of the match, he is always steadfast in his desire to help us achieve victory.  We have to choose to be in relationship with him.  It really is that simple.Take a look at at your struggles.  Are you holding your own, or do you need something greater to hulk up and put your enemy on its back for the three count?  Ask yourself, am I achieving victory over my adversary or just waiting to be counted out so I can breathe again?  There is a very fine line between victory and defeat in this world, but there doesn't have to be.  Lock hands with the one that will walk down that aisle with you every time, no matter the dangers ahead.  Put that gold around your waist, raise that crown to your head,  but do it with Jesus at your side.  Diamonds are forever, and so is Jesus Christ!  

Send us Fan MailHey everyone!  Life has its little bumps in the road and something extraordinary is always happening in God's world.  Dale is celebrating his wedding anniversary and Nic is getting ready to say goodbye to one home and move into another.  The last thing we want to do is leave our audience hanging, so here is a fond memory to tide you over until we return.  Consider this our All-Star break!  The following episode is our most popular, so we thought it was worth re-visiting for anyone who might have missed it.  See you soon!Meanwhile, we change lanes to untangle the web of worship music versus contemporary Christian tunes. What's the real difference, and does it matter if Montel Williams or Montel Jordan makes a surprise cameo in our memories? By dissecting songs like "Shake Heaven," we reflect on how music that stirs the spirit may not always suit a traditional Sunday service. Personal anecdotes and humorous mix-ups guide our exploration, all while we appreciate how platforms like Buzzsprout help us keep our podcast episodes neatly organized.As we journey through our favorite worship and gospel music, we savor the profound emotional connections forged by songs from "Oceans" to "Spirit in the Sky." A blend of nostalgia and humor paints our musical memories, celebrating artists like Elvis and Johnny Cash. The unexpected inclusion of "Good, Good Father" in a church service becomes a symbol of worship's spontaneous essence. Join us in this episode, where music's storytelling power brings shared cultural moments to life, and we share tips on remembering life's important dates with creative associations.

Send us Fan MailHappy 250th Birthday America!  This week, we pull out all the stops.  We roll out the big guns.  We unfurl the flags.  Pastor Michael and Syd return for this special edition of the Growing Together Podcast!  Pastor Michael and Syd show no signs of rust, their conversation with Nic & Dale is immediate and right to the point.  Well, that's not entirely true.  Loyal fans of the show are well aware of the good humor and tangents that abound when we get the band back together.  It's like old times here in the studio, therefore we can guarantee you will laugh out loud in the process of getting your fill of spiritual enlightenment.Nic is our history buff, and his excitement for the 250th anniversary of the Declaration of Independence guides the conversation this week.  Historian Timothy Snyder and Katie Couric support the idea that Christianity was not a founding principle of the United States.  Snyder claims that history is wrong, and there is nothing to support this misguided notion that the American people have relied on their Christian faith to grow and prosper as a nation.  Well, that will get Nic's dander up real quick.  Couric & Snyder find this idea alarming, but Nic is prepared to ring the bell (the Liberty Bell if you please) of truth to set the record straight.Pastor Michael proposes an interesting question.  At what point in America's history did we turn from being proud of our Christian values?  Was it the 1950's?  Was it the breakdown of the American family?  Has politics and social ideals become so divided over the issue that we feel like we have to leave God out of the equation in order to get along?  There are many symptoms, but the remedy seems illusive in our present world.  It's true, America was founded with the principle of freedom OF religion, but as Pastor Michael points out, people are becoming more concerned with the freedom FROM religion.   One final question puts it all in perspective.  Can American society survive without Christianity in place at the center of its guiding principles?  History perhaps provides the necessary answer.  If Abraham Lincoln fails to see the hand of God in the outcome of our great Civil War, does it last more than four years?  Does it ever come to an end?  Does slavery meet its rightful demise?  If FDR does not feel the conviction of God, that there is nothing to fear but fear itself, how much farther would Hitler's systematic means of world wide oppression and terror reach?  Might the outcome of the Cuban Missile Crisis been different had not President Kennedy considered God's council in making a decision that affected the fate of all humanity?  As a nation, could we have survived and found redemption in the wake of the terrorist attacks on 9/11?We here at the Growing Together Podcast wish you a Happy Fourth Of July.  Have fun, be safe, and stay cool.  God Bless America!      

Send us Fan MailEpisode 25 is here!  The Growing Together Podcast has covered a lot of ground this year, but we still have a long way to go in 2026.  Not to worry, Nic & Dale have your back, and will see to it that the rest of your year is filled with plenty of encouragement, guidance, and good laughs.  The America 250 celebrations are in full swing as we head into July, and we hope to have some exciting shows planned to put our own personal stamp on it.  Stay tuned, keep listening, and keep on sharing!This week, Nic & Dale discuss a topic that all of us can relate to.  If there is anything in life we can all agree on, it's that we do not like to be told we have to wait.  Whether it's on the phone with a sales representative, in line at the grocery store, or waiting for that raise you have been promised, waiting is not something we can find a lot of joy in doing.  Our society continues to grow on the very idea that everything we do must be done faster, information must be received the second it happens, and those that wait are way behind schedule.  We expect God to move when we say go, and like little children, we have a hard time accepting a different circumstance.To surrender to God's will, and be patient in the waiting, is a crucial part of our spiritual growth.  Surrender sounds like a bad word in our society, but when taken in the context of God's control in our lives, we can find strength and poise in giving it all up to Him.  There is inner peace when we allow God to work out the plan he has for our lives, which is a big deal, but also allowing him to tackle the small things gives us even more clarity to ensure we leave nothing untouched by his hand.  As Tom Petty once said, the waiting is the hardest part, but it doesn't have to be.  Learn to let it go, just this once, and you may be surprised just how much God can do if you get out of the way!

Send us Fan MailOkay folks, it's time to get real.  Each and every week Nic & Dale hit the mics and pronounce to anyone who will listen that God is good.  They preach it and they believe it.  They take a personal responsibility to spread the gospel and help others in need, yet this time it's different.  This week, Nic is the one in need of a spiritual boost.  The noise in his head is overwhelming, making it difficult to hear God's voice in a very tumultuous time.Rather than give up for the day and say he has had enough, Nic is willing to push on through and come to the studio.  His is spiritual enough to realize that if he is struggling, it can be used as a springboard to help others.  Dale came prepared with a perfect topic in perfect timing.  Submission to God's will.  Giving it all up to God in the most trying circumstances is easier said than done, but it is absolutely essential to seeing God's purpose when we fail to see how the pieces of our lives fit into his plans.  His plans..Let's face it.  We all have personal ambitions and dreams.  We do our best to make our plans come true.  When our situation is going well, we see the different parts of our plan coming together and we can convince ourselves that it must be His plan because it has taken on the look of destiny.  But what happens when life turns on a dime and we are faced with the possibility of a different outcome that doesn't line up with what we convinced ourselves is God's will?  So, the question has to be asked.  Are we truly submitting to God's purpose, or does he have to shake things up in order to get us to move in His direction?  Nic & Dale's friendship shines through as they discuss the difficulties of answering these and other heavy questions concerning what submission truly means.  Now, do not despair.  As heavy as this topic is, there is still humor to be found in this friendly yet spiritual conversation.  If you had any doubt, Nic is still capable of throwing out pro wrestling comparisons to Dale's keen insight and advice.  Dale's laughter is the perfect tonic needed to get a smile back on Nic's face and give him renewed faith that the noise will dissipate and be replaced by clear and concise wisdom.  We hope it will do the same for you.  Another week has come and gone, and what better way to start the weekend could there be than listening to the latest episode of the Growing Together Podcast?  

Send us Fan MailWe all know how easy it can be to accept accolades.  Compliments make us all feel good about ourselves, and love is divine.  We all want what we think we have coming to us, and many times we want it without overcoming hurdles or putting in the work.  Think back to when you were young.  If you experienced love from your parents, there was nothing that could make your day better, nothing to make your little world an amazing place.  But let's be honest, we all had to face justice from a parent's hand as well; and as much as we didn't like it, it was that justice that truly forged us into respectable human beings.  God carries that responsibility for each and everyone of us, and it is his perfect combination of love and justice that keeps us on the road to glory.  Dale brings this idea to the table on this week's episode of the Growing Together podcast.  It might not be a revelation, but it certainly is an inspired choice.  Many of us look to God as our Father, but sometimes we fail to realize just what that title carries with it when it comes to our relationship with him.  We crave his love, his blessings, and the miracles he can perform in our lives.  We always ask of him, plead with him, and have the expectation that he will be there for us when we fall.  We expect God to listen when we speak, to love us unconditionally.  He most certainly will do all of these things, because he loves us like no human being ever could.  However, just like when we were young, we are not always so willing to listen ourselves when it doesn't fit into our plans, when it might be painful to admit we have some growing left to do.Dale begs us to consider this crucial part of our relationship.  Owning up to mistakes and shortcomings with an attitude that promotes growth tells God that we are sincere about submitting to God's will and purposes.  Facing God's justice with truth and maturity will assure that we learn something from our shortcomings.  We will continue to give ourselves up to God and allow him to work in each and every one of us.  Honesty is the best policy.  He already knows what you are going to do, what you have done.  He is the only one that can provide the love and justice necessary to elevate us from our troubles and rebuild a broken relationship.The Growing Together podcast welcomes all.  New Christians, seasoned Christians.  Those that have been sitting on the fence, not sure if they are ready to begin their journey.  Those that may have said they will never give their life to Christ.  No matter what your situation is, we welcome you to give the podcast a listen.  Every episode is a free download.  No subscriptions, no fees, no regrets.  So what are you waiting for?  Listen to the latest episode or choose one from over a hundred episodes in our history.  it just may ignite that spark you've been missing.  Have a great week and we will see you soon!  

Send us Fan MailThis podcast has wheels and we just keep turning the episodes out!  Speaking of wheels, Nic was blessed to go on a cross country road trip out west to Arizona and back.  Upon returning home, the word gratitude kept playing on his mind as he reflected upon his experiences.  Now, Nic & Dale are back to have a meaningful conversation about gratitude, life on the road, and giving it all to God when good things happen.Life is full of surprises, sometimes it leads to Surprise, Arizona.  Nic suggests everyone should take the opportunity to drive out west at least once in their life, for the possibilities are endless and the beauty of it all should not be missed.  Whether it leads to a ghost town in New Mexico that happens to be the final resting place of Billy The Kid, or the Indy car style traffic of Dallas, Texas, you can be sure that if your heart and mind are open to giving God praise for the opportunity your heart will be overflowing with gratitude.  Nic is grateful to God for giving him the opportunity , and for placing people in his his life that value his worth.  He is also grateful that he was able to take his wife along for the ride, making him realize perhaps more than he ever had, that God has placed the right partner in his life to share all the experiences this world has to offer.  Gratitude for travel mercy and the beautiful country to which he is blessed to live in are just a couple more reasons why Nic recognizes just how good God can be to us.  Dale adds his own unique perspectives, as he always does, offering deep insight into how gratitude can change our lives and keep our mind and body centered on God and his goodness.Nic & Dale are truly on a roll, and you are always welcome to come along for the ride.  Heart to heart conversation about God is one of the best ways to draw your spirit out and let the gratitude flow.  It provides insight, comfort, laughter, and peace of mind.  When something good is happening in your life, you have to share it with others.  In sharing gratitude, we are sharing God's goodness, and what better way is there to spread the gospel and bring others to the table?  Perhaps a road trip?  Get out there this summer and see what you can find.  God's beauty is everywhere, and he is waiting for you to discover it.  Let's go trippin' on gratitude!  

Send us Fan MailHey everybody!  Nic and Dale are back this week with a brand new topic that we are sure you are going to enjoy.  Have you ever been encountered by somebody that just refuses to see the benefit in what we do as Christians?  Has anyone ever accused you of believing in something that just isn't real?  Have you ever been asked to provide physical truth of the presence of God?  Sure, we all have experienced this a time or two in our Christian walk, and we think it's worth a discussion to put this foolishness to bed once and for all.People put faith in automobiles and the people who drive them.  People put faith in airplanes and the pilots who navigate them.  People put faith in their own hopes and dreams and declare that they will all come true with just a little hard work and perseverance.  Not that there's anything wrong with that.  Yet, so many Christians face criticism for putting their faith in a God no one can see.  Do Christians have blind faith?  Certainly not.  The written word of God provides us with all the knowledge and wisdom necessary for making the right decisions at the right time, while also teaching us patience and obedience.  The written word guides us in our daily lives, whether we are rejoicing over success or grieving over loss and disappointment.  Our faith is rooted in the promises our Lord makes; and his promises are the only ones not meant to be broken!Sure, everyone would like to win the lottery, but let's face it, that's just playing the odds.  Faith is not rooted in good luck.  It's not built on wishes and dreams.  Faith is built on trust, and that trust is the product of a relationship like no other.  Faith means you can hand over your troubles to a greater power and come out wiser on the other end.  Most importantly, faith promotes gratitude, which is essential for any one looking to better their daily lives and those around them.  Have a great week and please share with your family and friends!      

Send us Fan MailWe made it!  The location has been chosen, the soil has been prepared.  The seed has been planted and we have made the commitment to nurture and protect our investment.  There's only one thing left to do!  Enjoy the fruits of our labor!  God delights in our joy when we plant our garden in honor of our faithfulness to his kingdom.  That joy is returned to us abundantly as a reward for our hard work and dedication.  This week, Nic & Dale can pat themselves on the back for a job well done as they present the final episode of the Spring Into Spiritual Growth series.There's not much to add here, and we wouldn't dare brag about our accomplishments.  You just have to listen to this podcast.  If you have been putting off your own quest for spiritual fulfillment, do not despair.  There's always tomorrow.  But why wait?  Let Nic & Dale give you the jump start you need right now with some wise counsel and a few laughs to brighten your horizons.  There's no need to request a refund or speak to customer service, it's all free and it's all right here at the click of a button.  So what risk are you really taking?  The Growing Together Podcast has only one mission, and that is to bring people closer to our Lord, Jesus Christ.  Are you tired of listening to other podcasts with endless commercial interruption?  Are you discouraged that you usually have to pay extra to get all the goods?  Could you use a little more conversation and a little less of a sales pitch for merchandise?  Well, you wont find any of those distractions here.  If it says the episode is an hour plus long, the episode is just that;  all show and no filler.  We can't wait to have you along for the conversation.  Thank you for listening and have a blessed week!    

Send us Fan MailWell folks, we have hit the home stretch, but don't go away just yet.  Our quest for spiritual growth continues this week as Nic & Dale provide more insight into what it takes to make sure all your hard work doesn't go for naught.  This week's episode is an essential part of the growing process.  Maintaining your spiritual growth can be a daunting task in the world we live in, therefore, it is important that your efforts to nurture and protect are supported by wisdom and fortitude.Can you ever be one hundred percent certain that your faith will never be tested once you proclaim yourself Christian?  Is there ever a time in your life when you can let your guard down and assume that the enemy will never cross your path in the attempt to shake up your roots?  The answer is positively, no.  As the old saying goes, this is not a race, but a marathon.  Our journey through life as an active Christian means challenges will always test our best laid plans, and we must have the proper response to all things at all times.The Book of Ephesians tells us that we must always put on the full armor of God, everyday.  We must put it on.  Just as we wake up everyday and clothe ourselves in our favorite sweatshirt or pair of shoes, so we must also make the effort to dress our mind and body in the armor God provides for us.  The written word, read daily, is a one size fits all application that guarantees our protection against the forces of darkness at work all around us.  Can you see it?Sounds pretty serious doesn't it?  Maybe so, but don't worry.  There will still be plenty of laughs to be shared.  You can count on Nic & Dale to keep the conversation light.  You just never know what you might hear on this show.  There's only one way to find out.  Become a listener, and help spread the word to all corners of God's kingdom.  Have a great week everybody!

Send us Fan MailThe Growing Together podcast continues to roll.   This week we celebrate our 150th episode as we expand our series on spiritual growth!  Join Nic & Dale as they discuss what is perhaps the most important step in the process.  You have found the right location and have prepared the soil well, now it's time to plant your seed.Dale is convinced his seed represents positive affirmation and self-worth; the realization that how you value yourself is rooted in God's wisdom and guidance, not on the superficial things we value in our early years.  Only the love of God can supply the growth necessary to transform the young self into a mature, productive adult capable of being an example for God's kingdom.  When others can see your light shine, it's because you have planted your seed well and have produced something pure and inspiring.  There's no shame that Dale cannot dunk a basketball, he's an all-star in God's kingdom.Nic believes his seed is that abiding faith one must possess that passes all other understanding in this topsy-turvy world we feel trapped in.  Fellowship is key, the word is truly essential, but faith is absolute.  Submitting to God's will is a by-product of understanding his word and applying it to our lives even in those times when we don't understand.  Faith is what makes that relationship a two-way street and lets God know you are truly invested in what he is trying to convey.  Faith holds strong when the storm is doing its worst to uproot everything you have worked so hard to create.This week's episode just might provoke some second-guessing; it may challenge you to look within yourself.  Is your relationship with God just a casual exchange when you need something to happen?  Do you only consider God when other people talk about him?  Are you satisfied to admire other people's work while your  garden lives only in your own mind?  Do other people see Jesus in your smile?  So many questions deserve appropriate answers.  God is waiting for you to plant that seed, for he is the vine and we are the branches!   

Send us Fan MailThe apostle Paul understood that, sometimes, you just have to get out there on your own and see what you can accomplish with only the Word to guide you.  On this edition of Growing Together, host Nicholas Affolter,  finds himself in a similar situation.  With no co-pilot available, he will have to rely on what has been stored up inside the spirit and go for it.  Fortunately, he knew right where to look for inspiration.  The Book of Romans is a great place to find solace in solitude and the result is a deep dive into the everlasting truth that Jesus Christ can free us all from our sin and the obstacles that hold us back.Have you been on a hopeless pursuit of happiness, finding yourself lost in the self-help section of your favorite bookstore?  Do you have a favorite chair or recliner that calls your name and suckers you in for a wasted night of death-scrolling or channel surfing?  Do you find that all the goals you set in your mind are sabotaged by the draw of more comfortable, yet pointless pursuits?  Paul covers this fatal flaw of mankind and explains to us that although we share these same weaknesses, they do not have to define us.  Christ is our one true solution to everlasting purpose and salvation.  The nature of sin that lives within us all is a powerful mixture of loathing, self-doubt, and overwhelming guilt that can control our body and mind to the point of a breakdown.  We can tell ourselves that we are unworthy of God's grace, so why bother?  It can reduce the self to mental and physical apathy, making even the most ordinary tasks seem insurmountable.  Have you ever been there?  Paul has.The Book of Romans reminds us that it is our spirit that decides our fate, not the sin forced upon us by a cruel and unfair world.  If our spirit is for the Lord then sin must retreat and die a slow death of its own.  Our natural bodies can never survive the harsh realities of this world, but our spirit will live on and on if it lives for the Lord.  It's time to tell sin to hit the road.  It has no place here.  It all starts with one simple statement: I choose to live for the Lord.  Paul was so confident in this belief that he was willing to travel thousands of miles to share it.  All it takes is one step for your journey to begin.  Let's go!   

Send us Fan MailLast week we discovered the ideal location to begin our quest for spiritual growth.  This week, the quest continues as Nic and Dale dive into the next vital step.  Preparing the soil is an essential part of the growing process, and we will see to it that you have all the vital nutrients stored up and ready to mix in so that your spiritual roots grow deep and strong.  Nic & Dale impress upon their listeners that the word of God, straight from the written word, is the first and main ingredient necessary for success.  Yes, your soil will need plenty of water. However, be sure that the way you choose to receive the word is not watered down just to make it pleasing to the ear.  Get to know the word before putting your trust in the sermon of someone standing three feet above you.  Along the way, Nic and Dale will share personal stories of their own experiences as youths learning to grow in their relationship with Jesus Christ, and what it meant to them when challenged as adults to be ever mindful of what enters the spiritual body and more important, keeping those things out that may contaminate the good soil we labor so hard for.  If you missed last week's episode, give it a listen, then jump right in to this one.  It's time to binge listen as they say.  It's all designed for one big hurrah.  We won't judge you; in fact, we encourage it.  Just this once.  And if you're feeling really spunky, please share our show with your friends and loved ones.  We are all growing together, and there's no better time to join what we've got going on here.  Thank you for listening!  We would love to hear from you in the comments!      

Send us Fan MailPastor Michael presented us with a profound question.  Easter season has come to an end.  What do we do now?  The fire and excitement we so much enjoy passes and what do we have to look forward to?  Yardwork?  The heat and humidity of a long summer?  Whatever the case may be, spring is here and and there's no excuse not to make the best of it.  That's where we come in.  Nic and Dale are here to keep your spiritual growth in full bloom as we dedicate ourselves to a series all about spiritual growth and commitment.As is said in the world of real estate, nothing is more important than location, location, location.  The decision to plant your feet and call it home is more important than any other, and wherever that may be it is vital to know that you have chosen a place where you can flourish and all the right elements are at the center of your world.  You want your home to be on solid ground.  You want your garden to be on fertile soil.  Therefore, you want your spirit to be centered on God so he can provide you with all the stability and vitality he has to offer.  Take a look at your surroundings.  What do you see?  Look down at your feet.  Are you rooted in God's grace and mercy?  Speak to those around you.  What do you hear?  Are you in fellowship with those that want to encourage your spiritual growth or are you feeling distracted and isolated?  Sometimes hard choices have to be made.  There is no growth without pain.  We certainly do not mean that you should lose valued friendships and family, but at some point a decision has to be made.  Are you going to live for God, or let others dictate how you worship?  Nic and Dale are here to encourage you to consider your spiritual growth.  If you came away from a passionate Easter message and are telling yourself you want more of that but just don't know what to do next.  This one's for you.  If you have  fallen away and need a little help getting back on track, have a listen.  Or, if you just need a little refresher to keep your growth on the right track, we got you.  Yes, growth is hard work, but it doesn't have to be a struggle.  It doesn't have to be a snooze.  You can have a good time getting your hands dirty, and we are proof of that.  Come along with us for the next five or six weeks and make your Spring a meaningful one.  You will not regret it.  Please don't forget to share with your friends and family.  They need a little love too.  Have a great week and keep your chin up!     

Send us Fan MailHave you ever considered the strength and fortitude it would take as a mother to follow a child to his appointed time of sacrifice and death?  Do you know what it's like as a mother to lose a child who's purpose in life was to risk their lives to protect others?  A woman's faith is embedded in her ability to bring life into the world and protect it with all the wisdom and power she can muster.  Perhaps there is no better example than Mary herself, the mother of The Savior of mankind.On this week's episode of Growing Together, we have a very special guest.  Our long time co-host and friend, Syd, returns to the show to join us on our last message for the Easter season!  Nic and Dale are getting a break this week, although still ever present, as Margie and Syd share their thoughts on motherhood and what it means to protect their children in the most extraordinary situations.  Their perspectives are deep and heartfelt, full of passion and fire as they share their love for their own children and what it would be like to have that relationship threatened.We learn that God's plan is never based on a whim.  Mary was chosen for her strength, wisdom, faith, and devotion.  Her qualifications did not rest on the simple fact that she was a virgin.  God knew his choice must be placed on a mother that could see the savior of the world through each stage of his life from beginning to end.  It had to be a woman who could not only nurse the child, but could stand up to him and voice her persuasion that the time was right for Jesus to reveal his purpose to the world.  She had to be able to set aside her own grief when the trial was upon him, and carry through by his side to his death on the cross.  Interesting questions are raised here.  Do women worship different than men?  Should women be appointed as pastors?  These and so much more are answered in this very important meeting of the minds on Growing Together.  Our mission is to bring people to Christ one episode at a time.  The great commission is a journey, and it doesn't have to be boring.  If you are looking for fresh perspectives with a down to earth feel, this is the show for you.  Give it a listen and we guarantee you will keep coming back to join us.  Have a great week!  Please share with a friend or loved one!  

Send us Fan MailDo you feel spiritually sound within yourself until the moment arrives when you feel confronted to share your faith and choose to stay silent?  When God is calling on you to act, are you willing to be bold and proclaim your faith or let the opportunity pass you by?  Denial is something we can all struggle with, and nobody knows that better than Peter and his fellow disciples.Join Nic & Dale this week as they discuss all the pains and pitfalls of being weak in the flesh which often times can result in the denial of our most basic Christian principles.  Peter proclaimed he was willing to die beside Christ, and the other disciples were quick to second the emotion.  However, when faced with the harsh reality, they all chose to scatter and deny their Savior.  yet, they were not beyond reproach, and neither are we.  It is our desire to continue to move toward God despite our missed opportunities that makes us true followers of The Cross.  In this modern world we live in, surrounded by social media and the acceleration of AI, our independent thoughts are being exercised less and less.  We deny Christ our hearts and minds by filling it up with non-sense that keeps our brains on auto-pilot.  Mindless gratification prevents us from getting out there and fulfilling the great commission.  Denial can become a tool for self-worship, and whether the enemy is working on you or not, it's all the same to him that your treasured time on Earth is wasted and God's mission is put on hold in your life.  If you need some assurance that life doesn't have to be this way, that life is truly well spent when you are bold in Christ, this is a conversation you need to be a part of.  There is no better time than right now to re-examine your approach.  Are you an ambassador for Christ when given the opportunity, or will you deny Him at every hard turn?   Let us know what you think in the comments and please like and share.  Help us spread the word and become a part of the great commission!   

Send us Fan MailWhat do you do when faced with an insurmountable situation that requires intensive prayer and obedience to God's calling on your life?  On this week's episode, Nic Affolter and Dale Walker sit down for a one on one conversation about the journey of Jesus and his disciples to the garden of Gethsemane.The Final hours of his ministry reveal a Jesus we can all relate to.  He was filled with emotions of anguish, fear, doubt, and physical pain.  A deep feeling of isolation took over as his disciples fell asleep when Jesus needed them most.  We have all been there at one time or another, praying to God to spare us from a situation we would rather not come face to face with.In this moment, our Lord's example reveals to us that no matter what the situation, it is total obedience to God's will and giving it all to him in prayer that gets us through.  Not just a quick plea to God to spare us, but discerning prayer that desires to reveal God's true purpose for our lives in any situation, no matter how long it takes.  Ultimate obedience is achieved when we submit our hearts to his true purposes, and battle through the pain and suffering as long as  it takes until He gives us victory over our enemies.  If you find yourself struggling to commit to God's word, this one's for you.  If you have doubts that Jesus can relate to your fears and doubts, give this one a listen.  Hang out with us for just a short while and be prepared to be in awe of His love for us.  His sacrifice was our gift, and he doesn't ask for anything in return notwithstanding our love and obedience.  Please share our podcast with a friend, a co-worker, or a loved one.  Help us spread the word of God's great calling on our lives!    

Send us Fan MailThirty pieces of silver sounds like a payday until you realize what it bought: a kiss in the Garden of Gethsemane and a choice that still shakes people today. We go straight at Judas Iscariot, not to sensationalize betrayal, but to understand the slow drift that can happen when money, pride, and disappointment start steering the heart.We talk through what Scripture does and doesn’t say about Judas, including the meaning of “Iscariot,” why he may have been the outsider among the disciples, and the early red flags that show up long before the Last Supper. Along the way we wrestle with a question that hits modern life hard: is Jesus only a wise teacher we can quote when it’s convenient, or is He Lord and Savior who gets to confront what we want to keep?From there we compare Judas with Peter and Doubting Thomas, because both men fail, yet neither man stays in despair. That contrast opens up the bigger theme of spiritual warfare: Satan doesn’t need you to worship him, he just needs you to believe you can’t go back to God. We also tackle the question people keep asking around Easter and Holy Week: if prophecy foretold betrayal, is Judas punished for fate, and what does repentance really require?If you’ve ever felt “too far gone,” or you’ve been sitting on the fence with faith, this conversation is for you. Subscribe, share this with a friend who needs hope, and leave a review so more people can find Growing Together, then tell us: when you mess up, what helps you run toward God instead of away?

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Send us Fan MailEver planned for smooth sailing and got a squall instead? We open with a cruise that starts rough—cold wind, rocking decks, and dashed expectations—before sun finally breaks through in Nassau and Bimini. Back home, the week tightens: a beloved cat’s sudden illness and looming vet bills, a make-or-break home appraisal that lands in our favor, and leadership changes at work that unsettle the routine. It’s the perfect storm for a bigger question: can faith stay steady when life won’t?We dig into what “faith like a mustard seed” really means, not as a slogan but as a way to stand when the deck tilts. Matthew 17 and Mark 11 become more than verses; they become a map for speaking to real mountains—health worries, financial strain, job uncertainty—without pretending they aren’t there. We talk hope versus faith, why quick wishes often miss the mark, and how God’s timing accounts for more than our wants. If a mountain moves, something else shifts too, and a wise God holds the whole picture.This conversation gets practical. We unpack the power of witness through behavior: staying kind at a counter when tensions rise, holding a young employee accountable with standards and care, and choosing words and symbols that speak life instead of glamorizing negativity. We confront modern overload—apps we never use, sports we can’t watch without three subscriptions, the fatigue of endless choice—and how it dulls purpose. Faith pushes back by simplifying focus: honor God, serve people, build character, act with integrity.What emerges is a grounded, human portrait of trust. Not a highlight reel, but a steady drumbeat: count blessings without denying pain, do everything as unto the Lord, and keep your ask aligned with His will. If your week looks like ours—some sun, some chop, a few unexpected invoices—this one will meet you where you stand and give you words for the mountain ahead.Enjoy the episode, share it with a friend who needs encouragement, and if it helped you, follow, rate, and leave a review so others can find it too. What mountain do you want us to pray about this week?

Send us Fan MailEver feel your heart lift during a hymn while your hands stay at your sides? We unpack the many shapes of worship—joyful shouts, quiet tears, and the steady listening that honors God as much as any chorus. Our talk moves from light banter about cruises and hockey to a deep dive on why some songs hit like a prayer and others fade like background noise, and how the sermon can refill an empty week when worship first sets the table.We share personal stories of being moved by CeCe Winans’ Come Jesus Come and Charity Gayle’s anthems, and the way Johnny Cash’s Were You There carries a lived-in ache that feels like standing at the foot of the Cross. Hymns come up again and again because they strip the music down to truth and let reverence lead; modern worship can carry the same fire when it’s sincere, Scripture-rich, and sung for God rather than charts. We explore inward worship versus outward expression, the freedom to praise without performance, and how God meets us in both the roar and the whisper.What emerges is a simple pattern: worship primes the heart, the word sharpens the mind, and community binds it together so Monday doesn’t feel so heavy. Miss a Sunday and you notice it by midweek. Show up and you leave with fuel, a melody, and a verse that carries you. If you’ve ever wondered whether your quiet counts or why certain songs undo you, this conversation will feel like home.If this resonated, follow the show, share it with a friend who needs encouragement, and leave a quick review to help others find us. Tell us: which song or hymn draws you closest to God?

Send us Fan MailEver felt like faith got quiet while the world got loud? We lean into a bold idea—faith with intensity—by pairing the fire of old-school wrestling promos with the unflinching clarity of the prophet Isaiah. Not for shock value, but because Isaiah’s words cut through performance, call out empty rituals, and chart a path from judgment to grace with a force that still shakes hearts today.We unpack Isaiah speaking truth to kings and nations, showing how God rejects hollow offerings and demands justice, mercy, and honest worship. From “stop bringing meaningless offerings” to “though your sins are like scarlet,” the book pairs a necessary sting with a healing promise. We explore how that pattern maps onto modern life: the subtle idols of distraction, the social media pull toward self-promotion, and the way convenience can hollow out conviction. Along the way, we talk courage—how ancient believers paid with their lives, and how our moment calls for integrity over performance, obedience over optics, and prayer over noise.History adds bite to the message. Empires that enthroned pride and sidelined God flame out—Egypt, Babylon, Rome—and that storyline warns any nation tempted to worship power or novelty. We reflect on America’s cultural crossroads and argue for a return to first things: humility, wisdom, the defense of the vulnerable, and worship centered on the living God. If zeal feels far away, we offer simple starting points to reawaken it—Scripture before screens, small daily practices, honest self-examination that aligns the heart with truth.Lean in for a charged, hope-filled conversation that refuses cynicism. If you’re longing for a faith that stands firm and loves deeply, this one’s for you. Subscribe, share this with a friend who needs courage today, and leave a review to help others find the show.

Send us Fan MailEver feel like your relationship is a flight that hits sudden turbulence, and you’re not sure who’s flying the plane? We get honest about love that starts with a spark and survives with a spine—how shared faith, daily grace, and practical habits turn romance into resilience. With Nick, Margie, and Dale at the table, we move from grocery hauls and wind-tunnel parking lots to the real work of being equally yoked. Attraction may open the story, but unity of spirit keeps it from falling apart when life gets loud.We unpack the difference between infatuation and covenant, why “unequally yoked” is broader than believer vs. nonbeliever, and how mismatched fire—one spouse blazing, the other cautious—can still form a strong team. Dale shares how Connie’s bold gratitude nudged him to speak faith out loud, while Nick and Margie explore their opposite coping styles: steady calm versus big feelings, both anchored by prayer. Along the way, we visit biblical couples—Joseph and Mary, Ruth and Boaz, Adam and Eve, and the cautionary tale of Samson and Delilah—to pull out patterns that fit modern pressures: reputation, waiting, blended roles, and temptations that test trust.This conversation stays practical. We talk about keeping God in the cockpit through simple, shared habits: a weekly family Bible study, short prayers over meals, and handwritten notes that outlast flowers. We make a case for words on paper—because when emotions surge, a thoughtful line can land the plane faster than another store-bought card. If Valentine’s Day feels like a script you’ve read too many times, try this version: honest faith, patient listening, and a pen that says “I see you.”If this resonates, follow the show, share it with a friend who needs hope, and leave a review with your favorite takeaway. Your story might be the nudge another couple needs to keep flying together.

Send us Fan MailWhat do you do when compassion collides with conflict? We dig into the real tension between our call to share the gospel and the moments when people resist, test boundaries, or demand help on their terms. A vivid story from our church sets the stage: a young man asks for aid, rejects prayer, and later calls for money, forcing a choice between kindness and enabling. From there, we get honest about how often this same tension shows up at the family cookout, on the job site, and anywhere faith meets everyday life.We talk through the Great Commission as a shared calling and how Jesus’ instruction to shake the dust off protects us from burnout and bitterness. You’ll hear practical ways to be a calm, visible Christian presence without preaching at people: small signs of faith that invite conversation, a steady spirit when others spiral, and a willingness to pray or listen without making the moment about you. We also tackle church hurt and the myth of perfection, reminding each other that God uses imperfect people now. Finding purpose doesn’t always mean doing more; it means doing the right thing for the right reasons, even when it’s quiet, unglamorous work.Along the way, we press into accountability as love. Saying no to manipulation isn’t hard-hearted; it honors dignity and truth. We explore how to avoid denying Christ under pressure, how to set wise boundaries, and how to keep showing up with humility when doors open. If you’re wrestling with where to draw the line, how to stand firm without becoming harsh, and how to keep your witness strong in messy places, this conversation will help you move forward with courage and clarity.If this resonated, subscribe, share the show with a friend who needs encouragement, and leave a review to help more people find the conversation. Tell us: where do you draw the line between helping and enabling?

Send us Fan MailOne hour on a Monday night changed the rhythm of our home. We set out a simple spread, opened Matthew, and let everyone read: the overworked, the on-fire convert, the skeptic twin, the quiet absorber, the mom who learns by asking out loud. What started as an awkward experiment became a steady ritual that softened anxiety, rebuilt old bonds, and made room for messy, honest questions about God without anyone feeling small.We talk about how to create a safe space for doubt, why interior change is the miracle most of us miss, and how to translate theology into the everyday—money habits, forgiveness, grief, and the slow work of healing family fractures. Timmy’s plainspoken faith helps reframe “prove it” questions into lived witness: would anyone suffer for a lie? We sit with Spencer’s fear of death and the hard question of grace for the worst among us. We remember a pregnancy scare that ended in a healthy child, and a home project that came in far under budget—not trophies, but quiet signs that provision often arrives without fanfare.This is a field guide to starting your own faith night at home: keep it small, read aloud, welcome every question, share the meal load, and change the setting when you need fresh air. Church and home feed each other—worship carries us, sermons spark study, and the kitchen table becomes the place where truth lands. Imperfect people reading a perfect Savior is exactly the point. If you’re craving calmer hearts, deeper bonds, and a tradition your kids will remember, this hour might be the seed.If this resonates, follow the show, share it with someone who needs a nudge to start, and leave a review telling us your best tip for making faith a household habit.

Send us Fan MailWhat holds a family together when the ground keeps shifting? We sit down with Margaret for a raw, generous conversation about marriage dynamics, mother-hearts, and the faith that steadies a growing, blended household. Our story opens with honest contrasts—one of us overthinks, the other gets things done—and moves into the real-life pressures of expanding holidays, new marriages, and the daily choice to love in the middle of complexity.We anchor the talk in Abraham and Sarah, not as distant saints but as a couple who knew waiting, jealousy, and impossible promises. Margaret shares candidly about the ache of infertility and why Sarah’s laughter hits so close to home when hope has aged past reason. We explore Hagar’s wilderness moment and the comfort of the God who sees, Ishmael’s blessing, and the tension that rises when Isaac arrives and inheritance shifts. The text’s quiet spaces—how Hagar entered the home, what Sarah felt on the day Abraham walked with Isaac—invite us to consider the emotions behind obedience and the cost of trust.From there we lean into the altar on Moriah and what faith looks like when the knife is raised. Abraham’s words, the ram in the thicket, and Mary’s grief at the cross frame a deeper look at how mothers and fathers often carry sacrifice differently. We don’t reduce roles to clichés; instead we talk about presence, provision, discipline, prayer, and the mentors who call us toward better futures. Along the way we share practical takeaways for blended families and busy homes: protect what matters, slow down anger, name each person’s strengths, and make room for worship that shapes the week.If your family feels complex, you’re not alone—and you’re not without a map. Press play, share this with someone who needs hope, and leave a review to help others find the show. Then tell us: where have you seen the God who sees show up in your home?

Send us Fan MailThe room is different, the roles have shifted, and the question hangs in the air: do we keep going when the team changes? We open up about that moment—how doubt crept in, how an honest conversation reset the course, and why we chose to carry the mission forward anyway. What starts as a behind-the-scenes reset grows into a deeper exploration of standing alone, anxiety in a loud world, and the kind of prayer that sounds like talking to a loving Father.We look at solitude not as isolation but as a sacred practice. Jesus meets us here: alone in the wilderness, in Gethsemane, and on the cross. Peter steps onto water and holds for a breath before the waves steal his gaze. David faces a giant without armor. These scenes aren’t distant myths; they’re maps for modern courage. We talk about resisting slick distortions by knowing Scripture, how gratitude for small gifts—a warm bed, a found nail—recalibrates the heart, and why serving the Word beats merely observing it.Anxiety threads through the conversation, not as a label but as a human reality. The counterweight is rhythm: step away, breathe, pray simply, and listen. We wrestle with moments when truth might strain relationships and how to speak gently without hiding what matters. From church hurt to boldness with friends, from everyday pressures to end-of-life peace, the through-line is steady: you may be called to stand alone, yet you’re never truly alone. God meets you in the hallway, on the job, at the bedside, and gives words, wisdom, and calm.If this resonates, share it with someone who needs courage today. Subscribe for more thoughtful, faith-filled conversations, and leave a review to help others find the show. Your one share might be the nudge someone needs to stand firm.

Send us Fan MailThe room feels different this season—and that’s exactly the point. We’re stepping into a new format with Dale joining the mic, trading comfort for curiosity, and turning the page toward a year of intentional faith. From small-town Ohio to ancient Mesopotamia, we draw a straight line between everyday choices and one of Scripture’s boldest acts of trust: Noah building a massive ark on dry land because God said so.We start with the practical—goals over resolutions, water over soda, the kind of health and habit shifts that last longer than January. That sets the stage for a deeper dive into obedience. Noah wasn’t perfect; he was responsive. Over and over, the text repeats a simple pattern: God commands, Noah acts. We explore how that pattern translates into modern spiritual life: sustainable disciplines, courage under ridicule, and the quiet work of perseverance when no one is clapping. Along the way, we connect Jesus’ words in Matthew 24 about staying ready with the urgency to act today, not “someday,” when it comes to faith, family, and character.There’s more here than ancient history. We talk about the flood as both judgment and mercy, a kind of baptism that cleanses while God’s rainbow seals a promise. We tackle generational patterns—how families pass down scripts and how anyone can break a harmful cycle with truth, boundaries, and a God-first direction. Dale shares a formative boot camp story where fear met structure and brotherhood, echoing the way spiritual practices rebuild confidence over time. And we circle back to community: small-town life, shared traditions like Christmas lights, the simple ways we can pull people out of their phones and into each other’s presence.If you’re craving real change, this is your invitation to act on the nudge you already feel. Subscribe, share this with someone who needs encouragement, and leave a review telling us the one step you’re taking this week. Let’s aim our lives at God and build before the rain.

Send us Fan MailEver felt like you need to “get your life together” before you can approach God? We’ve been there. We start light—snow days, sleep struggles, and the comfort of old radio voices—then head straight into the heart of it: why so many people stall out spiritually because they don’t feel good enough, smart enough, or clean enough to belong. We share real stories of showing up to church in work gear, hats, and messy moods, and why a culture of belonging beats a culture of performance every time.From there, we dig into honest questions about faith and reason. What if you’re wrestling with the virgin birth, the Big Bang, or the existence of God at all? We talk through design, history, and testimonies, and we land where transformation always lands: the deepest evidence is the change you see in yourself when you start to seek. The Bible is a living word; the same passage can cut a new path in your life ten years from now. That’s how faith matures—through daily trust, not perfect answers.We also tackle the habit of Googling our fears. Instead of spiraling through worst-case scenarios, we practice pausing for prayer, asking for peace and wisdom, and letting Scripture steady our steps. Come as you are doesn’t mean stay as you are; growth follows relationship. The disciples weren’t polished—they were called. So are you. Take one step: open the Word, ask your question, and let God meet you where you actually are.If this conversation encouraged you, follow the show, share it with a friend who’s on the fence, and leave a quick review to help others find it. What honest question are you bringing to God this week?

Send us Fan MailWhat if the season that promises wonder is actually training us to want more and feel less? We dive into the quiet tug-of-war between expectation and faith, starting with the relatable mess: kids firing off Amazon lists like invoices, adults exchanging gift cards out of obligation, and algorithms turning whispers into must-buys. It’s funny until it isn’t—because that same cycle can hijack prayer, family rhythms, and our sense of what truly matters.Together we map a different way. We talk about praying for God’s will instead of predictable outcomes, and why that shift doesn’t kill hope—it strengthens it. We wrestle with sin beyond culture-war headlines, naming anything that edges God out as a barrier to real life. From Job’s endurance to Advent’s active waiting, we make the case that faith sustains what expectation keeps breaking. You’ll hear candid stories about lost recordings and found perspective, kids and screens, collecting for the thrill of completing sets, and the strange economics of holiday giving.We don’t stop with big ideas. We share practical, human steps: swap some stuff for experiences, protect one meaningful tradition, limit the algorithm’s reach, bring surprise back into gifts, and reframe prayer as alignment rather than leverage. Along the way we explore why kindness needs an anchor, how moral claims require roots, and why Scripture still offers that steady ground, even with translation challenges. If your December feels transactional, you’re not alone. Let’s release the brittle grip of “more” and recover a hope that can carry real life.If this resonated, follow the show, share it with a friend who needs a reset, and leave a review to help more people find these conversations.

Send us Fan MailWhat if the quickest way to steady your heart is to change the voices around you and the words that leave your mouth? We start with real life—hikes that humbled our lungs, caves that tested our preparation, and job shifts that revived old anxieties—to show why encouragement and discernment are survival skills, not side quests. From there, we open Scripture and get practical about how to build a life that resists panic, tempers frustration and speaks life when it’s hardest.Hebrews challenges us to keep meeting and encouraging daily so our hearts do not harden. Ephesians teaches us to let our words build rather than corrode. James confronts the split stream of praise and cursing, pushing us toward a single, clean source. Along the way, we share field-tested ways to reset your mindset: pray before your thoughts wake up, tape verses where your eyes land, treat mistakes like incomplete passes rather than doom, and choose friends who pull you toward wisdom. We talk about finishing what matters, letting go when it can wait, and refusing the temptation to perform anger as courage.You’ll hear simple, repeatable practices to encourage coworkers, kids and friends: name growth early, celebrate character, interrupt negativity with a blessing, and keep humor clean. We also talk about when to bite your tongue, how to invite God into your headspace, and why iron only sharpens iron when we actually show up. If your week has felt heavy or your words have been running ahead of your heart, this conversation will help you slow down, breathe deep and choose a better sentence.If this resonates, follow the show, share it with someone who needs a lift, and leave a review telling us your go-to verse for encouragement. Your words might be the nudge someone else needs today.

Send us Fan MailWe swap beloved Thanksgiving dishes, laugh about cranberry sauce wars, and share the rituals that keep the peace when families gather. The talk widens to seasonal blues, year-round generosity, and the parenting choices that make holidays kinder for kids.• favorite Thanksgiving foods and recipe memories• cranberry sauce opinions and stuffing preferences• family boundaries for holiday travel and hosting• gratitude rituals that deepen meaning• seasonal depression and practical coping• generosity beyond December and who gets help• gift equity, Santa strategy, and kid expectations• screen rules, safer phones, and hard talks• cruise food adventures, budgets, and Buc-ee’s detour

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Send us Fan MailA gold “ticket to hell” bumper sticker shouldn’t be profound, but it jolted us. That small joke pulled a thread that led to bigger questions: Why do so many people shrug at hell? How did music, media, and memes convince us that darkness looks brave and light looks boring? And what if the truth about hell isn’t camaraderie in the flames, but isolation, misery, and the absence of God’s presence?We dig into how culture sells a counterfeit of strength—loud, edgy, and always self-led—while the gospel invites us into real strength in Jesus. We talk candidly about heavy metal imagery, “choose death” slogans, and why we often accept spiritual poison on our radios yet push back when someone mentions Scripture. Then we flip the script: what if we led with love, patience, and small daily choices that point to God’s goodness? From calming an angry customer to simply saying “God’s been good to us today,” we share practical ways to witness without preaching.Along the way, we explore why Gen Z may be turning to the Bible in a world crowded with AI, deepfakes, and constant noise. We share a better vision of faith as purpose, joy, and courage, not a last-minute escape plan. Don’t wait for a deathbed turnaround—this life is a gift meant to be lived with God’s grace now. If you’ve ever wondered how to talk about hell without fear tactics, how to help friends who think it’s all a party, or how to embody Christ in ordinary moments, this conversation is for you.If this resonates, share it with a friend, subscribe, and leave a review with the biggest idea that challenged you today. Your words help others find real hope.

Send us Fan MailA totaled car, every airbag deployed, and a calm voice over OnStar. That’s how our conversation opens—and the shock, gratitude, and timing of what followed become a surprising doorway into a bigger question: how do we hold joy, safety, and faith as Halloween rolls around?We trace the tangled roots of the season—from Salem’s tragic trials and the unfair seizure of women’s property, to older European customs meant to ward off evil ahead of All Saints Day. Along the way, we talk about what makes someone “a witch” in today’s culture and why turning a historical injustice into a fashionable identity can miss the point. We also get honest about media: when a horror story redeems courage, and when it just glamorizes harm. If a show numbs our compassion, it deserves a hard pass.Then we get practical. Is it possible to trick-or-treat without bowing to darkness? We think so—if you treat conscience as a compass, not a sledgehammer. Scripture doesn’t name Halloween, but it does call us to avoid idols, protect the vulnerable, and consider weaker consciences. We share ways to light up your block with warmth, pass out candy with meaning, pray over kids, skip the gory houses, and still make memories that last. And we admit our own blind spots—how phones, football, and binge-watching can quietly become idols that steal our best attention from God.If you’ve wrestled with Christians and Halloween, this conversation offers history, nuance, and hope. You’ll leave with a simple framework: examine intent, honor conscience, choose what builds love, and let Scripture guide without becoming a weapon. If it draws you closer to God and your neighbor, you’re on the right path.

Send us Fan MailWe look at crisis through faith—what it is, how it feels, and how putting Christ at the center changes our choices. Real stories of work stress, grief, gratitude, and prayer show a practical path from impulse to peace.• defining crisis across daily stress and deep loss• boundaries, work ethic, and being the “go‑to” person• doing hard tasks for God’s glory instead of approval• why anger isn’t a tool that builds anything• praying first and trusting God over impulse• Exodus, gratitude, and spiritual amnesia• grief, community support, and surrender• money’s limits versus God’s comfort• perspective on reach, impact, and faithful serviceYou can always send a text in if you’re listening from Buzzsprout, or message us on Facebook, comment on Facebook, call us, email us, whatever

Send us Fan MailWe swap stories about moving worship into the gym and use that change to open a deeper talk on discernment—what it is, what it isn’t, and how Solomon’s prayer still shapes how we lead, speak, and listen. We keep it practical: separating emotion from wisdom, rooting in Scripture, and letting community and spiritual gifts be guided by truth and love.• why the gym transformation tested our trust and imagination• Solomon’s request for a discerning heart before wealth or power• how drift happens when wisdom is not tended• standing on Scripture in conflict without fueling outrage• emotion versus discernment and the cost of online noise• daily practices that grow wisdom: prayer, Scripture, worship, community• testing teachings and gifts with biblical guardrails• encouragement for anyone starting over with the Word• the difference between checkbox faith and a seeking life

Send us Fan MailEver wondered how to sneak past those pesky service cancellation fees? Join us as we unravel a clever personal strategy that might just save you some cash and discuss how faith and values influence our TV habits. We also take a fascinating detour into the dark world of true crime, pondering the chilling realities behind infamous figures like Jeffrey Dahmer and John Wayne Gacy. Through the eyes of devoted investigators, we seek a sliver of positivity within these grim tales, while balancing the darkness with recommendations for lighter, quirky historical podcasts to cleanse the palate.Our conversation then meanders through the heartfelt and humorous pathways of family life, touching on everything from addiction recovery to the amusing chaos of planning family vacations. Stories of children’s innocent questions about the world around them provide laugh-out-loud moments, while highlighting the importance of teaching inclusivity and understanding. As we reminisce about old Westerns and classic TV shows, we reflect on how these cultural staples have shaped and shifted societal norms over the years, offering a warm dose of nostalgia and cultural insight.For those bitten by the travel bug, our episode wraps up with tales of adventure from airport escapades to the thrill of planning a first-time cruise. We even toss around some lively discussions about changing geographical names and the hilarity such changes might incite in future generations. As technical glitches slip in, we smoothly transition to a reflective moment of gratitude and prayer, hoping to leave you with a smile and a newfound appreciation for the twists and turns of everyday life.

Send us Fan MailThe spiritual battlefield demands proper protection, and the breastplate of righteousness serves as our shield against the enemy's most cunning attacks. Discover how this crucial piece of God's armor guards your heart and mind—the most vulnerable parts of your spiritual being.Drawing from Ephesians 6, we explore what it truly means to stand in righteousness before God. This isn't about perfect behavior or religious performance; it's about embracing your position in Christ through faith. Romans 3:22-24 reminds us that righteousness comes as God's gift, not through our striving but through Christ's sacrifice.The power of this teaching becomes vividly clear as we journey through Psalm 106, examining Israel's cycle of rebellion and God's unfailing mercy. Their story mirrors our own struggles and reveals the devastating consequences of abandoning righteousness while highlighting God's enduring grace toward those who return to Him.Satan's ambush tactics take center stage as we uncover how the enemy targets believers through fear, accusation, and discouragement. His primary goal? To prevent effective prayer and keep us bound by shame. But James 4:7 provides our counter-strategy: "Submit to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you." This two-part approach—humble submission followed by active resistance—forms the foundation of spiritual victory.Pride emerges as one of our greatest vulnerabilities, creating openings for spiritual attack while humility positions us to receive God's grace. Through practical examples and scriptural wisdom, you'll learn to identify prideful behaviors before they compromise your spiritual protection.Whether you're facing intense spiritual warfare or simply seeking to strengthen your daily walk with God, this teaching equips you with practical tools for standing firm against the enemy. Remember—your righteousness is already within you through Christ. It's time to walk confidently in that truth and experience the protection God has provided.

Send us Fan MailThe tragic events that unfolded last week have shaken our nation and confronted Christians with a profound question: How do we respond when violence strikes? This episode dives deep into the spiritual implications of these tragedies beyond the political headlines.We explore the concept of sin's "ripple effect" – how like stones thrown into water, our actions create waves that extend far beyond ourselves. While social media overflows with conspiracy theories and calls for retribution, we confront the challenging truth that vengeance only creates more destructive ripples. Through scripture and personal reflection, we examine how justice differs from retribution, and why subordinating ourselves to God's will matters more than ever in times of crisis.The conversation takes a revealing turn as we consider today's youth – constantly bombarded by social media, lacking meaningful guidance, and desperately searching for identity. We reflect on how Charlie Kirk's mission to bring young people to Christ stands in stark contrast to a culture that offers them little spiritual nourishment. Stories from our own experiences highlight how even small acts of kindness create positive ripples that counter darkness.

Send us Fan MailWhat happens to faith when it collides with the brutal realities of war? In this powerful episode, we're joined by Rich, a 27-year military veteran who listens to our podcast and brings a perspective we've never before explored on the show. He also happens to be Pastor Roger’s son! Rich’s story takes us from his early enlistment in the Air Force to his decades of Army service across multiple combat deployments. With refreshing candor, he shares how witnessing violence and death transformed his relationship with God: "You go to war and you kind of rethink your life... you see all those things and you're like, is there somebody who's looking out for you letting all these people die?"The conversation dives deep into moral injury – the spiritual wounds that come from experiences that violate one's core moral beliefs. Unlike many faith discussions that offer neat answers, this episode sits comfortably in the questions. We explore how combat veterans reconcile their duties with their faith, how they carry survivor's guilt, and the ongoing battle with PTSD that follows them home.Richard reveals the challenges of reintegration after deployment: "When you come back, you have to figure out where you fit in this puzzle anymore." We discuss the failures of veteran healthcare systems and how military families shoulder burdens civilians rarely see. His perspective on today's youth lacking awareness of sacrifice sparks a broader discussion about empathy in our digital age.Throughout this raw, honest dialogue, Richard demonstrates extraordinary resilience while acknowledging his continued struggles. His testimony reminds us that faith journeys aren't always straightforward, especially for those who've witnessed humanity at its darkest.Whether you're a veteran, know someone who served, or simply want to understand the complex relationship between faith and suffering, this episode offers profound insights into carrying burdens, finding meaning amid pain, and the ongoing spiritual journey after trauma. Listen and gain a deeper appreciation for those who serve and the invisible battles they continue to fight.

Send us Fan MailPicture this: You're facing a moment where your patience is threadbare, your emotions are surging, and the world seems determined to push all your buttons. What spiritual resources do you reach for first? In this candid conversation, we explore the must-have items in every Christian's spiritual toolbox—those go-to practices, verses, and mindsets that help us navigate both storms and smooth sailing.From the power of "heavenly language" that brings unexpected peace in tense moments to maintaining an open dialogue with God throughout your day (think of it as constantly texting your best friend), we unpack practical ways to access divine help when you need it most. We explore how specific scripture verses like 2 Corinthians 5:17 can transform your perspective, why putting on the full armor of God daily isn't optional, and how trusted friends who "sharpen your iron" make all the difference.The conversation takes fascinating turns as we discuss the challenge of leaving work stress at the door, finding the balance between patience and appropriate self-advocacy, and why God cares more about your heart attitude than your perfect performance. Whether you're a seasoned believer or just exploring faith, these practical spiritual tools offer real help for real life.

Send us Fan MailEver found yourself spiraling into a panic after a late-night WebMD session? We've all been there, and in this episode, we share some hilarious stories of self-diagnosis mishaps and unexpected podiatrist visits that prove foot doctors aren't just for the elderly. Join us as we explore the comedic side of bending over for shoes and how minor health hiccups can sneak into our everyday lives. It's a lighthearted reminder of the importance of professional medical advice and regular foot care, with a sprinkle of laughter to ease the tension.But wait, there's more! From teenage growth spurts to the ongoing battle with the scale, we humorously recount our love-hate relationship with late-night snacks—hello, peanut butter—and the peculiar dreams that follow. If you've ever woken up wondering why your dreams vanish with the morning light, you're in good company. These nocturnal adventures are a rollercoaster ride through stress eating and midnight cravings, offering a fun glimpse into our quest for balance in an unpredictable world.As we navigate the intricacies of family feuds, church attendance, and the quirks of neighborly relations, you'll find stories that resonate with everyday challenges. Whether it's guiding children through religious practices or facing the frustrations of customer service blunders, the journey through work ethics, community, and the unspoken rules of church life is both entertaining and enlightening. We wrap up with a nostalgic nod to the Jerry Springer show's wild ride and end with a heartfelt prayer, hoping to leave you with a sense of gratitude and the warmth of shared stories.

Send us Fan MailWhat drives people away from the churches they once called home? In this thought-provoking conversation, we dive deep into the complex reasons behind church departures - from self-centered expectations to legitimate concerns about teaching and community.The discussion reveals how our approach to church attendance often reflects our spiritual priorities. When we enter sanctuaries seeking recognition or validation rather than connection with God, disappointment becomes inevitable. As one host observes, "If you're making yourself the center of attention instead of that attention going to God," church will never satisfy. This misalignment between expectations and purpose creates a cycle of church-hopping that leaves many spiritually unfulfilled.We explore practical factors too - families seeking strong children's ministries, busy schedules competing with Sunday services, and the pain of church hurt. Each represents valid considerations that church communities must address with compassion. Whether you're a church leader seeking to understand attendance patterns, someone who has drifted from church, or a committed member wondering how to strengthen your community, this episode offers perspectives that transcend simple explanations and challenge us all to examine our motivations for gathering with fellow believers.

Send us Fan MailThe journey of reading the Bible begins with understanding your motivation and making practical steps to build a consistent habit rather than trying to tackle it like a novel.• Reading the Bible requires commitment and an understanding of why you want to start this journey• The Gospels (Matthew, Mark, Luke, or John) are the best starting place rather than beginning in Genesis• Motivation matters—reading to build a relationship with God rather than obligation will sustain your practice• Making time requires intentionality—start small with a few days a week and gradually build the habit• The Bible isn't meant to be read once but returned to repeatedly as it speaks differently in various life stages• Consider practical approaches like devotionals, study Bibles with footnotes, or audio versions while commuting• Young people are exactly who should be in Bible study as they are the future strength of the church• Community enhances Bible reading through accountability and shared insights• Personal struggles often strengthen faith rather than weakening it• Your relationship with God, like any relationship, requires time, communication, and commitment

Send us Fan MailWhat happens after we're saved? Is heaven the same experience for everyone, or are there different levels of rewards? We dive deep into the biblical concept of heavenly crowns – the rewards Christ promises to faithful believers who have run their spiritual race with perseverance and purpose.The conversation begins with an eye-opening comparison: salvation on your deathbed is like being rescued from a burning building with nothing but your life. Yes, you're saved – but you've missed out on accumulating treasures in heaven through a lifetime of faithful service. It's a sobering reality that our eternal rewards are directly connected to how we live our earthly lives.The question becomes not just "Are you saved?" but "What are you doing with your salvation?" These crowns await every believer, but they must be actively pursued through faithful service and spiritual discipline. Don't settle for merely being pulled from the fire when God has prepared crowns for you to wear for all eternity!

Send us Fan MailThe silent enemy creeping into our churches isn't hatred or rebellion—it's indifference. In this challenging message, we confront the comfortable apathy that has many believers stuck in spiritual neutral, neither fully committed nor openly opposed to Christ.Jesus's words ring with clarity: "Anyone who isn't with me opposes me." This leaves no room for fence-sitting or casual Christianity. The danger of spiritual indifference lies in its subtlety—it doesn't feel like rebellion, but Christ tells us in Revelation that He will "spit out" those who are lukewarm in their faith.Many of us have conditioned ourselves to respond "I don't care" to life's questions, and we've brought this same attitude into our relationship with God. We show up to church, perhaps even regularly, but leave unchanged. We become consumers rather than participants in the gospel, filling ourselves up but never pouring out.What makes this indifference so dangerous? As we explore key scriptures from Luke, Revelation, and Matthew, we discover that spiritual neutrality creates a false security. It lulls believers into thinking they're safe because they're not openly against God, when in reality, they're working against His kingdom purposes.The narrow gate demands decision. Joshua's challenge to "choose today whom you will serve" remains as urgent now as it was then. We must examine our hearts—are we truly with Christ, or are we simply going through religious motions? Every calling matters in God's kingdom, from preaching to serving behind the scenes, but indifference renders even great callings ineffective.With Christ's return drawing nearer each day, we can no longer afford spiritual apathy. It's time to wake up, make our choice, and recognize that indifference isn't safety—it's the exact opposition to Christ. Will you remain lukewarm, or will you choose today to serve the Lord with your whole heart?

Send us Fan MailWe've all been there—the carefully laid plans suddenly derailed by a flat tire, a work crisis, or an airport nightmare. In this candid and deeply relatable conversation, we explore how life's unexpected moments reveal our true character and faith.When things go sideways, our initial reactions often involve frustration, anger, or anxiety. But what if these disruptions are actually opportunities? Through personal stories—from workplace disasters described as "train wrecks with no survivors" to roadside tire changes with elderly parents—we unpack the challenging yet transformative nature of unexpected situations. The discussion takes a thoughtful turn as we consider how faith provides an anchor during turbulent times. As one participant notes, "Faith doesn't always take you out of the storm. Faith calms you in the midst of the storm." This perspective allows us to replace reactive emotions with more intentional responses, turning potential meltdowns into moments of growth and service.With refreshing honesty, we acknowledge the particular difficulty of maintaining patience with those closest to us. Why is it so much harder to control our reactions with family members than with strangers or coworkers? And how do we practice the humility to apologize when we inevitably fall short?Whether you're facing unexpected challenges or simply want to prepare for the curveballs life will inevitably throw, this episode offers practical wisdom for navigating life's unpredictable journey with grace, humor, and faith. Join us for a conversation that will change how you view life's inevitable disruptions.

Send us Fan MailJoin us this week during a thought-provoking exploration of the unique human qualities that connect us to our Creator. Whatever challenges you face, remember that your dreams, your body's healing, and your spiritual senses all reflect divine design working in your life.We dive deep into the biblical significance of dreams, examining how figures like Joseph and Daniel received pivotal communications through their nighttime visions. Daniel's apocalyptic dreams, recorded nearly 600 years before Christ, contained remarkable prophecies that would later align with New Testament revelations. The conversation expands beyond dreams to explore other uniquely human qualities that reflect divine design. We discuss the body's remarkable self-healing mechanisms—how a splinter works its way out, wounds form protective scabs, and cells regenerate without conscious effort. This innate healing ability parallels spiritual restoration and points toward intelligent creation.We also examine the concept of "spiritual ears"—our capacity to hear God's voice not through physical sound but through inner conviction, scripture, and circumstances. As Jesus said, "My sheep listen to my voice. I know them and they follow me" (John 10:27). This spiritual hearing requires attunement but allows divine guidance in our daily lives.