HELP! I Suck at Dating

Things get spicy as Salley and Hunter get SERIOUSLY REAL about Sorority Rush, the whole TOP house thing, and the drawbacks of “sisterhood”!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

A fascinating article in the New York Times this week featured an in depth conversation with the author of “The Art of Fighting.” Priya Parker is a conflict resolution facilitator who believes we could all use a little more conflict in our lives, but we need to be a lot better about how we go about it. Parker says relationships often fall apart because we are afraid to fight.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Famously Available is back! DeAnna Pappas, Kathy Swarts, Annaliese Puccini, and Cindy Cullers are putting their hearts on the line for love. The ladies catch up on their dating lives, and some relationships have crashed and burned since we last heard from them! Plus, our newbies get honest about the kind of men they are hoping to attract!One thing's for sure...dating isn't easy at ANY age! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

It is time to peel back the curtains on the madness that is taking place in college dorm room design and decor. Is it five-star chic? Or girls gone wild? Should a dorm room break the bank?See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

We did not see this one coming, but Buckingham Palace has announced that Prince Harry and his family will be moving back to the United Kingdom, and soon. The children, 7-year-old Archie and 5-year-old Lilibet are reportedly already enrolled in school beginning in the fall. Now speculation is brewing why this is occurring now and what life will be like for the family who originally fled because of privacy and security concerns.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

10000s of women join sororities every year… but why!?See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

TikTok is going crazy over a voice memo posted to the social media site, purportedly sent from a man ahead of a planned second date with a woman he just met. T.J. questions the validity of the voice memo, but regardless of its validity, it’s sparked an interesting debate online. While having someone disclose their sexual intentions in advance is generally regarded as a good thing, it was presented as an ultimatum rather than a conversation, and that’s been the big issue. Was he manipulative and disrespectful, or was he just replaying a refreshing directness we’re not used to hearing in the dating world. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Divorcée Kate Gosselin is reacting to fans inquiring about her son’s upcoming tell-all memoir…and her feelings might surprise you.  Plus, Jennifer Garner is praising her ex Ben Affleck and how their co-parenting experience has helped them. Email us at: [email protected] or call us at 844-4-I Do Pod (844-443-6763)Follow I Do, Part 2 on Instagram and TikTokSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

What begins with a shared outcome during Rush, quickly turns into sharing a room and clothes in the sorority house. But, will the friendships last? See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

We are all guilty of using passive aggressive phrases and behaviors, and we’ve all experienced them too. We break down why we are passive aggressive and name some of the worst phrases out there.  The best part of the episode, we give you the alternative phrase to say and we are willing to bet, if you can make the switch to directly communicate your feelings, it will improve every relationship in your life. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dear Brian Austin Green, I need help! Email us at: [email protected] or call us at 844-4-I Do Pod (844-443-6763)Follow I Do, Part 2 on Instagram and TikTokSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

You’ve survived rush, you got a house, you found your sisters, and now you’re about to be on the other side… See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

We were all hoping it wouldn’t come to this, K.C. leaving Aniya, in tears for another woman. And not just any woman, Titi is in the villa now, and she seems ready to leave her mark. Amy asks T.J. on behalf of all the confused women watching Love Island, why in the hell would K.C. dump beautiful, sweet, smart Aniya for a sassy woman he just met three days ago?  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Just when it didn’t seem possible that Love Island producers could sexualize the Islanders any more, they introduced another challenge that quickly divulged into a barely clothed orgy on national television. One contestant even apologized to her parents afterwards…. We’re really hoping for their sakes, they fast forwarded through the segment. Looking beyond the growing ick factor of the show, there were some incredibly interesting developments in several relationships, with a couple of the boys continuing to pine away for their girls back home. And then there’s Corbin and Kenzie, who seem very satisfied in their new couples, with poor Caleb, who once again finds himself in a love triangle with Corbin. Who will recouple with someone new, and who will stay in their original couple? We make our predictions. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This is the evil twin of kittenfishing, globintamacy involves showing up to first dates as the authentic real you, flaws out and all. The idea is you let your goblin flag fly high and reveal your baggage from the beginning. Spawned as a reaction to all the curated content and artificial intelligence fakes, daters hope to weed out partners who would never be right for you in the long run. Dating experts have STRONG reaction to this trend that you will want to hear before giving it a try. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This one hurts. It was just a few months ago we heard Jelly Roll praise his wife of 10 years in his Grammy acceptance speech, crediting her with changing and saving his life. Bunnie XO had been talking about surrogates, IVF and growing a family with Jelly Roll and his two children from different relationships. Now, we’re hearing Jelly Roll filed for divorce more than a month ago, citing irreconcilable differences. Meantime, Bunnie XO has posted on both Tik Tok and instagram. sending cryptic messages to fans.  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Say it ain’t so, but this episode ends with possibly the end of Aniya and KC! Meantime, Kenzie and Corbin say “F*ck it” and secretly resume their makeout sessions, but first swear each other to secrecy, so Mel and Caleb won’t get upset. Still, poor Caleb is left questioning his status at the villa, while Mel and Sincere take baby steps back towards one another. There is so much to unpack and so many relationship lessons to learn, as we lean in to all the unfolding drama.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Celebrities know stuff and these reality stars were in top houses and are giving you the real deal.  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

There were a few solo ladies at last night’s Met Gala: Blake Lively sans Ryan Reynolds, Zoe Kravitz without Harry Styles, but it was no mystery where Kylie Jenner’s beau was when she was photographed alone! Timothée Chalamet was spotted courtside at the Knicks game. A lot of folks weighing in on whether it’s OK to go your separate ways when you’re in the same city, a few blocks away, on fashion’s biggest night. Some have even suggested it was strategic, apparently there’s a “met gala curse” with a long list of couples who have broken up within months of attending the gala together.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Birthrates have been declining for years here in the U.S., but for those 45 and up they’re increasing by double digits. Actress Cameron Diaz and her husband, 47-year-old Benji Madden just announced the birth of their son, Nautus. The couple has been very private about the details of their growing family, but they are on a sizable list of notable, older parents. While some people may have negative comments about the impact to the child, many recent studies have found that having children later in life, thanks to modern technology, has increased health benefits for both the parents and the child. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Join Dean, Caelynn and Jared for some hot dogs, fireworks, and more!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

We’re getting real about being “needy”! Jared, Dean and Caelynn reveal who is the “neediest” in their relationships, and Jared shares how he handles Ashley when her needs get… excessive. Plus, we discuss the substantial age gap in former Patriots coach Bill Belichick’s new relationship. How does Jared REALLY feel about it???See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dean proves that when he sets his mind to it, he can be romantic! Caelynn shares all the details from her birthday celebration with Dean! Jared reveals the due date for baby number 2! And fresh from Father’s Day, Jared opens up about some of the biggest challenges he’s faced since becoming a dad. Plus, find out why a mistake from years ago in Dean’s past stopped him from making a return to TV!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

If your partner idolizes a celebrity… should you feel the same way?? Jared went to Tom Brady’s retirement ceremony and it leads the question of the extent we share our passions with our partners! But Jared might be alone on this one. Caelynn gives us a full recap on her time in Cabo, which unfortunately reminds Jared of how the unpleasant aromatic experience Dean gave him on a recent trip. Plus, find out how things are going for Dean’s “smell good era”.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Are people getting “softer”?? Dean and Jared have a one-on-one episode about what life will be like for Jared’s kids growing up and how to raise a well-rounded child.  Plus, Jared opens up about parent shaming, if Dawson is a “cool” kid, and the transition from a crib to a bed!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dean and Caelynn take us through their 2020 trip to Oregon right at the start of the COVID lockdown!  While sharing some of the natural beauty and splendor of the Beaver State, they also explain why it was one of the creepier trips they’ve ever been on… with some stories straight out of a horror movie.  Plus, they address the gatekeeping you might experience in the photography community and how to make photos an inclusive space for everyone. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

The age old question… who gets better with time? Men or women?? Jared, Dean and Caelynn debate the realities of getting older and we discuss the strategies to hang on to your youth. Jared opens up about his struggles with bullying when he was growing up and he lets us in on how he hopes to send Dawson into the world with the confidence to stand up for himself.  Plus, find out why you should be using something called “Bro Glo”. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dean is back from a golf trip with Wells Adams and Ben Higgins and he has a few revelations to share. Why do guys “need” to go on trips without their partners? What goes on during a guys trip?? And why is Dean so concerned with Ben’s bathroom habits?? Plus, find out if Jared is going on a babymoon for before the birth of his second child!  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

If you’ve ever thought about taking a trip to Greece, Dean and Caelynn have everything you need to know!  Find out why Greece is on of their favorite European countries, and hear the story of why they got kicked out of a restaurant in Santorini!  Plus, Caelynn has some tips on what clothes to pack that you NEED to hear before you travel! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

The person who helps a couple say “I do” on their wedding day is an important role, but Jared has a harsh truth about how far down the officiant list Dean was in his wedding to Ashley. Jared shares his fears as the due date for baby #2 is fast approaching.   And Dean gets vulnerable and emotional around Mother’s Day, but Caelynn and Jared are here to listen and reassure him.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Jared gives us a full recap of Daisy Kent’s visit to Audrey’s, and we find out how Daisy might inspire Dean and Caelynn to become authors! Things get a bit tense when Dean looks back at his post-show fame, and Caelynn holds nothing back. Plus, Ashley joins to get into the details of Dawson’s sleep schedule, and Jared says something he might regret…See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dean and Caelynn look back on their trip to Mexico City and Zihuatanejo! The Bells get brutally honest with each other about their planning styles, and they have a few things they’d do differently when they return to Mexico City.  Hear all the secrets on how to get into the most popular tourist spots, find out if Michelin Star restaurants are worth it, and learn the all-important lesson on how to cruise around a foreign country without getting a boot on your car. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Jared is back from Nick Viall’s wedding and he’s ready to spill all the tea! Find out how Dean and Caelynn feel about sharing the “country chic” theme and Jared opens up about who from Bachelor Nation he was most excited to see!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dean and Caelynn have the details on their latest trip to Bend, Oregon! But things weren’t always the picturesque travel experience you might think.  They get honest about the real life challenges of traveling AND working together, and Caelynn has some feedback for Dean that might be tough to hear! Plus, we find out their biggest “icks” they have for each other and nothing is off limits!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dean and Caelynn hang out with another former Bachelorette, Rachel Recchia! She shares what it was really like working as a pilot after being on The Bachelor/Bachelorette, and she gives Dean some much needed advice on how he can earn his wings. Rachel reveals that every one of her exes has a break-up song, but what does that mean for the guys she dated on the show?? And… Rachel spills some secrets about her dating life!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

The Suckers hang out with former Bachelorette Hannah Brown! Caelynn can barely contain her excitement when Hannah spills everything about her new romance novel! We go behind the scenes of Hannah’s wedding planning and she drops some hints on how to tell WHERE she’s tying the knot. Plus… could Dean do “Special Forces”?? Hannah gives him the honest truth.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dean threw down the challenge that he could “easily” win a game of Jeopardy, so we’re testing his knowledge against Caelynn and Jared! Play along as we run a special version of Suckers Jeopardy, with categories specially tailored to each of our hosts! And don’t forget to download your podcast in the form of a question.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

It’s almost time for Jared to become a father of 2! He gets brutally honest with his hopes and fears as he transitions into life with a newborn. What’s left to do?? What should he expect?? What will life be like with 2 boys?? All this and more dad life with Jared on Suckers!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dean is back with a spicy meat-a-ball! He’s taking us through his trips to Italy and revealing the best, the worst and everything in between!  Hear all the highlights from his recent visit to Rome with Caelynn and discover the crucial tips for the best Italy vacation of your life! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dean and Caelynn are back from the iHeartRadio Music Awards and have all the backstage tea! Find out who they ran into on the yellow carpet and who secretly stole Dean’s heart.  Jared gets real about the challenges of running his own coffee shop and some plans might be in motion to see Dean whipping up some lattes behind the counter! Plus, find out why Dean expects to live to be 140 years old!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

It’s the first official episode of Caelynn’s Book Club! We’re starting off with The Nightingale by Kristin Hannah. Just a warning! You’ll enjoy the podcast much more if you read the book first! Find out what connected with Caelynn about the characters, and why she felt a strong Dean presence within the pages. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Jared gets deep when looking at how Dawson has influenced the way he thinks about his own life. Take a moment with Jared and think about all the little things in your world that might not be appreciated.  It’s a therapy session with Jared as he takes a long look at life as a father, right here on Suckers!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

After discovering which game show they’d love to be on, Dean, Caelynn and Jared discuss another competition… the Bachelor finale!  Find out why we think this is the season that could save the franchise, and Caelynn tries to figure out why Paradise was so helpful for Dean’s image and so hurtful for others.  Plus, Dean and Caelynn drop a major hint about when they might be expecting!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Caelynn is back with the latest in pop culture news and we HAVE to talk about the new Bachelorette! Dean and Caelynn share their honest opinions on the new lead, and why a past Bachelor might help us predict this season! Plus, we talk Summer House, Robert Pattinson and so much more!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dean breaks down his visit to China and shares some incredible tips on where to hike, how to beat the crowds, and some day tips in China that you can't miss!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Ever wonder what Dean, Caelynn and Jared were like before The Bachelor?? While sharing their reactions to a current contestant’s resurfaced music video, the gang shares some cringy memories from years before their limo entrances. Apparently The Bachelorette wasn’t Dean’s first reality dating show?? Jared reveals more of his plans to relocate from Rhode Island. And… Dean might finally be open to using soap.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dean and Caelynn recap their latest trip to Aruba! Hear all their adventures both on land and underwater, including one close call with a sunken ship that might turn Dean into a zombie.  Find out some local secrets about a haunted street, and hear about the food that transformed Dean into a full blown foodie!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

For some reason, Dean is very curious about… breast milk. We try to understand the facts, the myths, and the rules of breastfeeding. And, we try to correct some behavior by reading off the worst headlines that Dean inspired with quotes from the podcast… will this make him clean up his act??See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Jared is joined by Ashley I to share some important parenting advice to the new moms and dads in Bachelor Nation! We get a look at the debate over the name for their next baby, and Ashley reacts to the news that Dean has her muted on Instagram!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Caelynn and Dean are diving deep into their latest pop culture obsessions! We hear all their hot takes from the Academy Awards, including the best and worst dressed!  And… Caelynn shares everything she knows about the ongoing mystery of Kate Middleton!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.