HER Side of the Story: Love Lines, Life Lines and Everything In Between

Send us Fan MailMother’s Day felt like the perfect day to have this conversation. In this episode of Her Side of the Story, we unpack the complicated, beautiful, and sometimes painful reality of blood family versus chosen family. We talk honestly about the people we were born connected to, the people we found along the way, and how both have shaped who we are today. From childhood memories and family dynamics to the friendships and communities that became home for us, this episode is a reminder that love, support, and safety can come from many different places.We also explore the guilt, freedom, and growth that can come with choosing distance, choosing closeness, or redefining what family looks like on your own terms. Whether your strongest bonds are with relatives, lifelong friends, mentors, or the family you are building for yourself, this conversation is about honoring what truly pours into you.This episode is vulnerable, reflective, and deeply human because, at the end of the day, family is not always just about blood. Sometimes it’s about who shows up, who stays, and who helps shape the kind of love we want to give to future generations.📲 Don’t miss a moment—follow us on Instagram, Twitter, and Facebook @hersideofthestoryra! Be the first to hear powerful new episodes dropping every month on the 19th!

Send us Fan MailEvery great thing has a starting point… and ours didn’t happen overnight.It started with a decade of friendship and two career paths that look completely different on the surface, but are rooted in the same purpose: helping women build the lives they truly deserve.In this episode, we’re getting into all of it:• What psychology and real estate have taught us about how women think, build, and navigate life • The moment one of us almost walked away from everything she worked for • How our friendship became the foundation of this brand • The real reason HER Side of the Story existsBecause the truth is, a healthy mind and a solid foundation are not separate things.You can’t build a legacy on a shaky mental foundation. And you can’t think your way into a new life without taking the physical steps to claim it.This episode is a celebration of what happens when two women bet on themselves, bet on each other, and refuse to stop building.If you’re still becoming, still growing, still figuring it out, this one is for you.📲 Don’t miss a moment—follow us on Instagram, Twitter, and Facebook @hersideofthestoryra! Be the first to hear powerful new episodes dropping every month on the 19th!

Send us Fan MailLet’s be real—you don’t need a millionaire budget to live a luxury lifestyle. In this episode of Her Side of the Story, we’re getting into what it really looks like to be a “baddie on a budget.” From pulling together outfits that look expensive (without actually being expensive), to creating little everyday moments that feel elevated, we’re talking about simple, realistic ways to upgrade your life. It’s less about spending and more about how you carry yourself, the choices you make, and being intentional with what you have. If you’ve been wanting to step into your soft luxury era without stressing your bank account, this episode is definitely for you.📲 Don’t miss a moment—follow us on Instagram, Twitter, and Facebook @hersideofthestoryra! Be the first to hear powerful new episodes dropping every month on the 19th!

Send us Fan MailLast episode, we talked about your answered season versus your waiting season. But one of the hardest parts about waiting is knowing what you’re actually waiting for.Because sometimes what we call “potential” is really just a pattern — and patterns will keep you waiting for the wrong things and the wrong people.A pattern isn’t a one-time mistake. It’s consistent behavior over time. We rename it chemistry, confusion, or bad timing… but often, it’s just repetition.Today, we’re talking about how to recognize patterns early and protect your time.📲 Don’t miss a moment—follow us on Instagram, Twitter, and Facebook @hersideofthestoryra! Be the first to hear powerful new episodes dropping every month on the 19th!

Send us Fan MailThis conversation was inspired by the Ciara Prayer—but more specifically, the transformation behind it. We all remember the seasons that didn’t serve her, and now we witness the fullness of her life: a partner who loves her loudly, a home filled with joy, and a relationship rooted in honor.Today, we’re calling this Ash’s Prayer. It’s about that pivotal shift—from what you once believed you had to settle for, to the beauty of being chosen, cherished, and respected by a fiancé who truly sees and honors you. This episode is for anyone who’s ever had to let go of less to make room for more.📲 Don’t miss a moment—follow us on Instagram, Twitter, and Facebook @hersideofthestoryra! Be the first to hear powerful new episodes dropping every month on the 19th!

Send us Fan MailThe Chat Is Closed! isn’t about fixing, healing, or reinventing yourself—it’s about noticing.In this first episode of our rebrand, we talk about what it looks like to outgrow things silently: relationships, conversations, versions of yourself, and spaces that once felt familiar. Not every ending needs an announcement. Not every boundary needs an explanation. Some growth happens off-screen.This episode is an invitation to reflect, not react. To sit with what no longer fits. To honor the seasons you’ve moved through—and the ones you’re choosing to leave behind.No advice. No steps. Just perspective.Welcome to season three of Her Side of the Story. The chat is closed.📲 Don’t miss a moment—follow us on Instagram, Twitter, and Facebook @hersideofthestoryra! Be the first to hear powerful new episodes dropping every month on the 19th!

Send us Fan MailIn this season finale of Her Side of the Story, we dive into the transformative power of the people we surround ourselves with. From uplifting influences to negative energy, we explore how "iron sharpens iron" and shapes our journeys. As we wrap up this season, we want to wish you all a joyful and safe holiday season. We're incredibly excited for what’s coming in season 3! Don't forget to like, comment, and follow us on all major platforms to stay updated and connected.📲 Don’t miss a moment—follow us on Instagram, Twitter, and Facebook @hersideofthestoryra! Be the first to hear powerful new episodes dropping every month on the 19th!

Send us Fan MailIn this episode of HER Side of the Story, we’re getting real about what it looks like to uplift yourself by finally stepping out of your delusional girl era. We’ve all had moments where we convinced ourselves things would magically fall into place — the relationship would fix itself, the job would suddenly feel fulfilling, the habits would “kick in” on Monday. But life isn’t an Easy-Bake Oven, and nothing transforms just because we hope it will.Today, we’re breaking down how to reconnect with reality in a loving, honest, and empowered way. From calling yourself out gently, to rebuilding self-trust, to getting aligned with who you actually want to be — this episode gives you the clarity and confidence to move forward with intention, not illusion.If you’re ready to stop glazing over red flags, stop romanticizing struggle, and start showing up for the real you, this conversation is your wake-up call — delivered with compassion, humor, and of course, HER perspective.📲 Don’t miss a moment—follow us on Instagram, Twitter, and Facebook @hersideofthestoryra! Be the first to hear powerful new episodes dropping every month on the 19th!

Send us Fan MailIn this episode of Her Side of the Story, we’re diving deep into the world of love languages — but not just the romantic kind. We’re exploring how your love language shapes the way you connect with friends, family, and even yourself. From the ways we give and receive love to how our upbringing influences what we crave emotionally, this conversation is all about understanding love on every level. Tune in as we unpack how the love you grew up with can shape the love you give today — and how learning your own language can change the way you show up for yourself and others.📲 Don’t miss a moment—follow us on Instagram, Twitter, and Facebook @hersideofthestoryra! Be the first to hear powerful new episodes dropping every month on the 19th!

Send us Fan MailIn this month’s episode of HER Side of the Story, Raye and Ash are taking it back to when life felt simpler—slower days, lighter moments, and fewer distractions. We’re talking about how to bring some of that ease back into our lives while still staying focused on finishing the year strong. Think of it as a mix of nostalgia, motivation, and real girl talk. So pour your coffee (or that glass of wine) and settle in for a conversation that will leave you feeling grounded, encouraged, and ready to keep going. Be sure to follow us on social media, drop a comment, and like our posts—we love connecting with you and keeping the conversation going beyond the mic!📲 Don’t miss a moment—follow us on Instagram, Twitter, and Facebook @hersideofthestoryra! Be the first to hear powerful new episodes dropping every month on the 19th!

Send us Fan MailWhat does it really mean to be feminine today? In this episode of Her Side of the Story, we’re peeling back the layers of modern femininity—the myths, the shifts, and the truths we’re reclaiming.From the power in accepting help without losing yourself, to redefining what it means to be strong and soft, this conversation challenges the old rules and reimagines the new.If you’ve ever wondered how to embrace your edge while living your best soft life, this episode is your blueprint.📲 Don’t miss a moment—follow us on Instagram, Twitter, and Facebook @hersideofthestoryra! Be the first to hear powerful new episodes dropping every month on the 19th!

Send us Fan MailIn this episode, we’re unpacking the complicated world of frenemies—the ones who smile in your face but secretly compete, compare, or tear you down. We’re breaking down how to spot the red flags early, what true friendship (aka green flags) actually looks like, and how to tell when it’s time to stop holding on to relationships that no longer serve you. This one’s all about choosing peace over pretending. Tune in—your circle might need a little audit.Special thanks to Chicago Podcast Studios for providing the space to bring these stories to life.📲 Don’t miss a moment—follow us on Instagram, Twitter, and Facebook @hersideofthestoryra! Be the first to hear powerful new episodes dropping every month on the 19th!

Send us Fan MailWe’re diving into summertime energy, fresh vibes, and that unbothered attitude we’re claiming all season long. In this episode, it’s all about the girl chat—what we’re excited for, the joy of not having to explain ourselves anymore, and how we’re preparing for this new season with more fun, intention, and ease.Join us as we unpack it all, laugh a little (okay, a lot), and lean into what it means to fully show up—just as we are.Thank you for all the love, shares, and support so far—it means everything to us. This community is growing because of YOU, and we’re so grateful you’re part of it.We’ll see you next episode!📲 Don’t miss a moment—follow us on Instagram, Twitter, and Facebook @hersideofthestoryra! Be the first to hear powerful new episodes dropping every month on the 19th!

Send us Fan MailBirth is more than a moment—it’s a journey. And in this episode, we explore the hands and hearts that help guide it. We're joined by the amazing Leah Hairston, founder of Sweet Bee Services, who brings both expertise and compassion to every birth space she enters.Leah is a certified birth and postpartum doula, lactation counselor, and fierce advocate for maternal wellness—especially for women of color. With years of experience serving families during their most intimate and transformative moments, she’s built her practice on nurturing, educating, and empowering birthing people through every phase of their journey.Together, we explore:What exactly is a doula and what role do they play in the birth experience?The critical importance of having support during labor, delivery, and postpartum.The shocking statistics surrounding maternal mortality rates for Black women and other women of color—and what we can do about it.Why choosing a doula can be a radical act of self-care, advocacy, and survival.This episode is for every woman who's ever given birth, is preparing to, or simply wants to understand the deeper layers of what birth work truly entails. It's about reclaiming power, restoring trust, and being fully supported—emotionally, physically, and spiritually.💛 Whether you’re curious, preparing for your own journey, or simply standing in solidarity—this episode is a must-listen.Connect with Leah Hairston and Sweet Bee Services:🌐 Website: sweetbeedoula.com📸 Instagram: @sweetbeeservices📘 Facebook: Sweet Bee Services💼 LinkedIn: Leah Hairston👉 Don’t forget to like, comment, subscribe, and share this episode with a friend, sister, or mama-to-be. Your support helps us continue telling stories that matter.📲 Don’t miss a moment—follow us on Instagram, Twitter, and Facebook @hersideofthestoryra! Be the first to hear powerful new episodes dropping every month on the 19th!

Send us Fan MailIn this heartfelt episode, we’re talking about the journey after the heartbreak. Season 2, Episode 4 is all about healing, letting go, and learning to stand tall again after a breakup. We dive deep into the emotions that come with the end of a relationship—the confusion, the grief, the silence—and how those moments can become the beginning of something powerful.Whether you’re fresh out of love or finally feeling the shift, this one’s for the woman who’s ready to rediscover her voice, her joy, and her power. Because healing isn’t just about moving on—it’s about coming home to yourself.Tune in for real talk, reflection, and a gentle reminder: you’re not broken—you’re becoming.📲 Don’t miss a moment—follow us on Instagram, Twitter, and Facebook @hersideofthestoryra! Be the first to hear powerful new episodes dropping every month on the 19th!

Send us Fan MailSuccess isn’t just about reaching the top—it’s about owning your journey, pushing past fear, and staying true to yourself. In this episode of HER Side of the Story, we dive deep into what it really takes for women to break barriers, overcome doubt, and stay consistent in their goals. Whether you're battling imposter syndrome, struggling to stay motivated, or unsure of your next step, this conversation is here to remind you: You are capable, you are worthy, and your path is yours to define.Tune in for real conversations, practical strategies, and the inspiration you need to move forward with confidence—on your own terms. 💫✨ #HerSideOfSuccess #FearlessWomen #StayTheCourse #podcast #women #applepodcast #spotifypodcast Keep up with us on IG: hersideofthestoryra Keep up with us on Facebook: HER Side of the Story Want to collab?! Email us at [email protected] Raye's IG: @raye_reflectionsAshley's IG: @igboprincess_Thank you to Transcend Media Agency Raye's Outfit Details:- Dress: FashionNova -Jewelry: Khoi - www.shopkhoi.com - Hair: Gracefultouchbeautybar -Make Up: Krystal_Klear_facesAshley Outfit Details:- Shirt: Zara - Jewelry: Boho Gal Jewelry- www.boho-gal.com -Hair: zenisbraids.com -Make Up: Krystal_Klear_faces 📲 Don’t miss a moment—follow us on Instagram, Twitter, and Facebook @hersideofthestoryra! Be the first to hear powerful new episodes dropping every month on the 19th!

Send us Fan MailWinter's Tough, But So Are You: Beating Seasonal DepressionAs the seasons change, so do our moods—but for many women, the winter months bring more than just chilly weather. In this episode of HER Side of the Story, we sit down with the compassionate and insightful Dr. Anyi Atabong, a doctorally prepared and dually board-certified Psychiatric Mental Health and Family Nurse Practitioner, to unpack the realities of seasonal depression in women.From understanding the science behind seasonal affective disorder (SAD) to practical ways to reclaim joy during the colder months, Dr. Atabong shares expert advice, personal insights, and real solutions. Whether you struggle with the winter blues or want to support a loved one, this conversation is a must-listen.Tune in as we shine a light on mental health, self-care, and the power of embracing every season—inside and out. 🌿✨🔊 Listen now and let’s navigate this journey together! #HERSideOfTheStory #SeasonalDepression #WomensMentalHealthFor more information visit https://www.capitalmhg.com/📲 Don’t miss a moment—follow us on Instagram, Twitter, and Facebook @hersideofthestoryra! Be the first to hear powerful new episodes dropping every month on the 19th!

Send us Fan MailWelcome to episode one of season two! In this episode, we dive deep into the transformative power of self-care as a tool for reinvention. As women, we often find ourselves stuck in roles, routines, and expectations that no longer serve us. But what if self-care isn’t just about rest and relaxation? What if it’s the first step toward rediscovering who you truly are and becoming the woman you’ve always wanted to be?📲 Don’t miss a moment—follow us on Instagram, Twitter, and Facebook @hersideofthestoryra! Be the first to hear powerful new episodes dropping every month on the 19th!

Send us Fan MailIn this uplifting episode of HER Side of the Story, we’re diving into the art of setting it and getting it—how to define your goals and create a plan to make them a reality. With the holiday season in full swing, we’ll also explore strategies for staying grounded amidst the chaos, cultivating gratitude, and savoring the season’s magic. Plus, we’re looking ahead to 2025 with an optimistic lens, sharing tips on how to set meaningful intentions for the year to come. Whether you’re feeling overwhelmed or inspired, this episode is here to help you navigate the season with grace and purpose.Tune in for actionable advice, heartfelt reflections, and a dose of holiday cheer!📲 Don’t miss a moment—follow us on Instagram, Twitter, and Facebook @hersideofthestoryra! Be the first to hear powerful new episodes dropping every month on the 19th!

Send us Fan MailIn this enlightening episode of HER Side of the Story, we explore the intricate relationship between self-acceptance and the pursuit of perfection. Delve into the myriad ways societal pressures shape our perceptions of ourselves, and discover the liberating power of embracing imperfection.We discuss the emotional landscapes of navigating expectations—from family and friends to social media. What does it mean to truly be yourself in a world that often demands flawlessness? Through candid reflections and relatable anecdotes, we examine the journey toward self-love and authenticity.This episode emphasizes the importance of vulnerability and connection, revealing how sharing our stories can foster a deeper understanding of ourselves and each other. Join us for an empowering conversation that reminds us that perfection is an illusion and that our real strength lies in embracing who we are, flaws and all. Tune in and celebrate the beauty of being unapologetically imperfect!📲 Don’t miss a moment—follow us on Instagram, Twitter, and Facebook @hersideofthestoryra! Be the first to hear powerful new episodes dropping every month on the 19th!

Send us Fan MailWelcome to episode five ! In this insightful episode, we’re joined by Dr. Geoff D. Green II to explore the critical topics of mental health, burnout, and stress management. Discover how to turn stress into a powerful tool for productivity, break free from the cycle of burnout, and find the balance you need in your life. We’ll also share eye-opening statistics on mental health in Black men and discuss the unique barriers they face when seeking help. Dr. Green will provide practical tips and insights to empower our listeners to prioritize their mental well-being. This is a conversation you won’t want to miss! Join us for a journey towards understanding and healing. 📲 Don’t miss a moment—follow us on Instagram, Twitter, and Facebook @hersideofthestoryra! Be the first to hear powerful new episodes dropping every month on the 19th!

Send us Fan MailWelcome to episode 4 of HER Side of the Stroy: Love Lines, Life Lines, and Everything In Between. On this episode, we sit down to hear two dynamic women She-Os - Latasha "Starr" Shelton of StarFaces and Jamilah Hakim of Herbal Empire as they share their side of the story related to business, sisterhood, and life. Follow them on their social media platforms at herbalempire_ and starfaces_. Stay up to date with all of our episodes at hersideofthestoryra ! 📲 Don’t miss a moment—follow us on Instagram, Twitter, and Facebook @hersideofthestoryra! Be the first to hear powerful new episodes dropping every month on the 19th!

Send us Fan MailWelcome to episode 3 of HER Side of the Story. In this episode, we discover what makes apologies effective and healing, and learn about the stages and benefits of forgiveness. 📲 Don’t miss a moment—follow us on Instagram, Twitter, and Facebook @hersideofthestoryra! Be the first to hear powerful new episodes dropping every month on the 19th!

Send us Fan MailWelcome to episode two of HER Side of the Story. In this episode, we explore the profound impact of relationships on our lives. Join us as we delve into the concept that everyone who enters our lives serves a purpose: whether to teach us a lesson (Reasons), accompany us for a period of growth (Seasons), or stay with us indefinitely (Lifetimes). Through stories, reflections, and insights, we uncover the transformative power of these connections and how they shape our personal journeys. Tune in to gain a deeper understanding of the dynamic nature of human relationships and discover how each encounter enriches our lives in unique and meaningful ways.📲 Don’t miss a moment—follow us on Instagram, Twitter, and Facebook @hersideofthestoryra! Be the first to hear powerful new episodes dropping every month on the 19th!

Send us Fan MailHave you ever thought about how friendships are made? In this episode, we discuss the way that Raye and Ash met. We also talk about our favorite findings for this week and how they can benefit you as well. 📲 Don’t miss a moment—follow us on Instagram, Twitter, and Facebook @hersideofthestoryra! Be the first to hear powerful new episodes dropping every month on the 19th!