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Her Turn
by Dani Hanlon
Her Turn is the podcast for women navigating life after divorce, who know there's more to this chapter than simply healing, rebuilding and getting through. Hosted by life coach and mentor, Dani Hanlon, each episode explores the conversations that too often get overlooked after divorce: identity, confidence and mindset, recognising what fits in your life now – and what doesn’t, saying ‘yes’ to all the right things, and intentionally creating a future that feels exciting to wake up to. If your divorce is behind you, life is finally feeling stable again, and you've caught yourself wondering, ‘What do I want more of now?’ – you’re absolutely in the right place. Because moving on isn’t where your journey ends. It's where everything starts to get interesting again. New episodes each week. Connect with Dani Follow Dani on Instagram @coached.by.dani <a href="https://w
Episodes
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What no-one prepared me for in life after divorce
Life after divorce can look very different from how we first imagine it and some of the biggest surprises usually aren't the typical ones - they're the things you discover about yourself, your independence and what you actually want from life once you have the time and breathing space to plan...
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What if you don't need to know how it all works out?
What if the thing holding you back from your next chapter isn't a lack of confidence, but the need to know exactly how it's all going to work out? When you've spent years building a life, taking another chance on yourself can feel like a big ask. But what if you already have more evidence,...
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How much of your life did you actually, consciously choose?
What if some of the choices you've made throughout your life were never really choices at all? Not because you made bad decisions or because there's anything wrong with the life you've built. But because you followed the next logical step without ever stopping to ask whether it was actually what...
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The reason you’re still waiting to change your life
In this episode of Her Turn, Dani explores why women can stay with people, in places and careers, routines and versions of their lives long after they know they want something different - particularly when life feels 'good'. What if you didn’t have to be unhappy to want more and you didn’t need a...
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Stop making your life make sense to everybody else
In this episode of Her Turn, Dani explores what happens when we stop needing our choices to be understood by everyone around us - and start backing ourselves to make them anyway. It's a conversation about self-trust, people pleasing, the invisible ‘shoulds’ that shape women's lives, and the…
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Expanders: What are they, why you need one, and how to find them
Have you ever looked at another woman and thought, 'If she can do that, maybe I can too'? That's an expander. In this episode of Her Turn, Dani explores the idea of expanders - people who expand your perception of what's possible simply by living it themselves. They don't necessarily teach you…
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No-one's coming to make your life more interesting
What if one of the secrets to loving your life isn't waiting for something exciting to happen - but deliberately creating things to look forward to? In this episode of Her Turn, Dani explores the role of anticipation and desire in creating a life you genuinely love after divorce and why waiting…
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The trap costing you the good life you've built
You can build a really good life after divorce - and still end up resenting it. In this episode of Her Turn, Dani explores the less obvious side of creating a great life after divorce: what happens when you're so busy keeping everything running that there's very little of you left to actually…
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The work I had to do, to do the work I was born for
This week's episode of Her Turn is a little different. It's more personal, vulnerable and, if I'm honest, a conversation about things I’ve been sitting with for a while now. I've spent a lot of time this year questioning the work I do coaching and mentoring women after divorce and what it really...
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Why some women keep reinventing themselves (and others never do)
Why do some women seem to become more confident, more alive and more fulfilled with every passing year, while others have convinced themselves they've already become all they're ever going to be? In this episode of Her Turn, Dani explores the one trait she's noticed in the women she admires most…
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HAPPILY EVER AFTER DIVORCE SERIES | Ep 4: Protecting your happily ever after
You've rebuilt your life after divorce, found your feet, created new routines and started feeling like yourself again. But creating your next chapter is only part of the story. How do you protect the woman you've worked so hard to become? In this final episode of the Happily Ever After Divorce...
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HAPPILY EVER AFTER DIVORCE SERIES | Ep 3: The life you're waiting for doesn’t build itself
What if you're not actually waiting for your next chapter...what if you're already creating it? In episode three of the Happily Ever After Divorce series, Dani explores why the future you're hoping for isn't something you stumble across - but build through the decisions you make every single day....
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HAPPILY EVER AFTER DIVORCE SERIES | Ep 2: You didn't come this far to stop at 'good'.
In Episode 2 of the Happily Ever After Divorce series, Dani explores why creating a successful life after divorce doesn't automatically create a life that feels exciting to live. Discover the difference between building a life that looks good on paper and intentionally creating one that feels…
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HAPPILY EVER AFTER DIVORCE SERIES | Ep 1: The hidden ways women settle after divorce
You've rebuilt after divorce. Life is good. So why does it still feel like something's missing? In episode one of the Happily Ever After Divorce series, Dani unpacks the ways women often settle after divorce without realising it, how ‘unconscious maintenance’ quietly keeps you playing small, and...
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What if the life you’re waiting for isn’t actually waiting for you?
In this week’s Her Turn episode, Dani explores a subtle but powerful pattern many women experience after divorce or a major life shift - when life feels stable, but something still feels slightly out of alignment. The kids are okay. Work’s okay. Life has found its rhythm again. And yet, there’s a...
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Why patterns from your marriage are still shaping your life after divorce
In this episode of Her Turn, Dani explores the subtle ways old dynamics continue shaping your life after divorce. Because while life may look different externally, many women find themselves still operating from the same emotional patterns they carried inside their marriage - often without...
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Raise your standards to meet the vision for your life
In this episode of Her Turn, Dani explores the connection between identity, self-leadership and the standards shaping your future. Often, the issue isn’t that your vision is too big - it’s that your habits, environments, relationships and behaviours reflect, and were built within, a smaller life....
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The uncomfortable middle of reinvention
There’s a version of you that can feel her life expanding, even if she hasn’t fully figured out what that looks like yet. In this episode of Her Turn, Dani explores the uncomfortable middle of reinvention: the season where you’ve outgrown old versions of yourself, but the woman you’re becoming...
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You’ve outgrown the old version of you – now what?
In this episode of Her Turn, Dani explores identity shifts after major life transitions - and what it really takes to outgrow the roles, patterns and coping strategies that once kept you safe, but no longer fit the life you’re trying to build. This episode is for the woman who knows she wants…
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You CAN have the life of your dreams - so why don’t you?
You can have the life you want - but first you need to get radically honest about what your current reality is reflecting back to you. In this week’s episode of Her Turn, Dani unpacks the uncomfortable truth most women avoid: your life isn’t just happening to you, it’s responding to what you...
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Three hidden energy leaks keeping you from your next chapter
Most women think the reason they feel stuck after divorce, burnout, or a major life shift is a lack of clarity, motivation, or the ‘right’ plan. But what if that’s not the problem? In this episode, Dani looks at the quieter, often overlooked patterns that could be draining your energy behind the...
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Being the ‘capable one’: superpower or what’s holding you back?
You’ve built a life where things work. You’re the one people rely on, the one who figures it out, the one who keeps everything moving - especially after a major life shift like divorce. But at some point, what once felt like a strength can start to feel heavy. In this episode of Her Turn, Dani...
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Are your triggers trying to teach you something?
After divorce or a major life shift, it’s easy to assume you’ve ‘done the work’ - so why do certain things still hit? In this episode of Her Turn, Dani unpacks the real reason triggers don’t just disappear… and why they’re not a sign something’s wrong. Because you aren’t lacking ambition or...
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The real reset after divorce: why healing isn’t enough
If you’ve been through a divorce, separation, redundancy or any major life shift - this episode will change the way you think about what comes next. Because rebuilding your life isn’t just about healing, stabilising or ‘moving on’, it’s about something far more important. In this episode, Dani...
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THIS is the trick to believing your next chapter is not only possible - but 100% inevitable
Rebuilding your life after divorce, burnout or a major shake-up isn’t just about what you do. It’s about what your mind believes is possible for you. In this episode of Her Turn, Dani shares a simple but powerful shift that changes the way you approach your next chapter - and why most women...
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Finding the power in being alone
The quiet after divorce or a break-up can feel confronting. The nights when the kids are with their dad, the stillness in a house that used to be full of movement, noise and responsibility. For many women rebuilding life after separation, this is when loneliness hits the hardest. But what if…
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3 mental shifts I made post-divorce not enough people talk about
Divorce isn’t just a legal process - it’s an identity shift. In this episode of Her Turn, Dani shares three powerful mental shifts that helped her rebuild after divorce - especially during those early months of separation, co-parenting and starting over. These aren’t the typical “glow up” or...
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Mind The Gap; navigating the space between now and your ‘what’s next’
If you’re rebuilding after divorce, navigating single motherhood, questioning your career, or starting over in your 40s - this episode is for you. Today we’re talking about The Gap - the space between who you were… and who you’re becoming. It’s the messy middle after: • Divorce or separation •...
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The co-parenting taboo no-one talks about
Most co-parenting advice out there assumes two emotionally regulated adults - but many women are navigating a very different reality. When you’re the one holding the emotional stability, managing communication, and absorbing the ripple effects of another adult’s behaviour, the load becomes far...
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What I'm building in my 40s (and why it's different)
In this episode, Dani shares what she’s building in her 40s - and why this season of life calls for a very different approach. She talks about rebuilding after big change, letting go of hustle and survival mode, and choosing to build from self-trust, calm, and intention instead. If you’re...
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Lessons from last year and my word for 2026
If you’ve come through a big year of growth and change, only to find yourself in a quieter season wondering who you’ve become and what you’re stepping into next, this episode is for you. In this episode of Her Turn, Dani reflects on the lessons 2025 shaped in her - the kind that don’t come from…
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Why starting over doesn't have to mean hustling hard
In this episode of Her Turn, Dani shares how to rebuild your life after a major shift - without the pressure to hustle, push, or have it all figured out. You’ll learn why the 'hard rebuild' is overrated, what a soft rebuild actually looks like, and the practical tools to move forward with clarity...
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The question that changes everything: What. Do. You. Want?
If you’ve ever sat in the quiet after a big life shift - kids grown, a relationship ended, a career change behind you - and realised you don’t even know what you want anymore, this episode is for you. In this episode of Her Turn, Dani dives into the question that feels simple but can stop a woman...
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Why you can't manifest your way out of burnout (and what to do instead)
Are you feeling beyond tired - mentally drained, emotionally flat, and spiritually disconnected? You might be dealing with something much deeper than just needing a good night’s sleep. In this episode of Her Turn, we’re getting real about burnout - the kind that vision boards and positive vibes...
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Is it selfish to want more? Let’s talk about the guilt that comes with growth
Have you ever felt a quiet tug for more - more space, more meaning, more time for you - only to be hit with a wave of guilt for even thinking it? If you’ve ever caught yourself wondering, “Shouldn’t I just be grateful?” or “Who am I to want more when others have less?”, this episode of Her Turn…
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The stories we tell ourselves (and how to rewrite them)
Are you stuck in a loop of self-doubt, burnout, or feeling like you’re never enough - no matter how hard you try? You’re not alone. In this powerful episode of Her Turn, we’re diving deep into the silent stories that shape your inner world and your outer reality. Whether it’s “I’m too much,”…
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The lie about clarity, and the truth that’ll set you free
You’ve read the books. Listened to the podcasts. Talked it out with your best friend (more than once). And you still feel stuck. If you’ve ever said “I just need clarity before I take the next step” - this episode is your permission slip to stop waiting. Because the truth is: clarity doesn’t come...
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No one's coming to save you, give yourself the damn permission today
You’ve got dreams on your heart, ideas that won’t leave you alone, and a quiet knowing that you’re meant for more. But still… you wait. For permission. For the right time. For someone to say, “Go for it.” In this episode of Her Turn, Dani delivers a truth bomb you might not be ready for - but...
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Balance is a scam, here's what ACTUALLY works instead
Feeling like you're constantly juggling, but still dropping the ball? In today’s episode of Her Turn, Dani is blowing up the myth of ‘balance’ that’s quietly burning out smart, capable women everywhere. You’ve probably been told to chase perfect work-life balance - flawless career, thriving kids,...
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Her Turn | An introduction
Welcome to the pilot episode of Her Turn, the podcast for women who want to break up with burnout, reclaim their happiness and create a life they love. Get to know your host, Dani - coach, girl-mum and recovering perfectionist - on this first episode of many, dedicated to real talk about the…
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ABOUT THIS SHOW
Her Turn is the podcast for women navigating life after divorce, who know there's more to this chapter than simply healing, rebuilding and getting through.
Hosted by life coach and mentor, Dani Hanlon, each episode explores the conversations that too often get overlooked after divorce: identity, confidence and mindset, recognising what fits in your life now – and what doesn’t, saying ‘yes’ to all the right things, and intentionally creating a future that feels exciting to wake up to.
If your divorce is behind you, life is finally feeling stable again, and you've caught yourself wondering, ‘What do I want more of now?’ – you’re absolutely in the right place.
Because moving on isn’t where your journey ends. It's where everything starts to get interesting again.
New episodes each week.
Connect with Dani
Follow Dani on Instagram @coached.by.dani <a href="https://w
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