Hookup Horror Stories with Demi Wylde
by Wylde Heart Media
Sex can be... complicated. Welcome to Hookup Horror Stories, a comedy podcast about horrible hookups and deviant dating disasters! Every week, author Demi Wylde, interviews sex experts, comedians, coaches, writers and more on sex, dating, and their wildest hookup horror stories.
Episodes
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"Sexual Anthropology" with Dr. Leanna Wolfe
This week's guest is sexual anthropologist and author of the new memoir 177 Lovers and Counting: My Life as a Sex Researcher, Dr. Leanna Wolfe. Purchase the book: https://rowman.com/ISBN/9781538174678/177-Lovers-and-Counting-My-Life-as-a-Sex-Researcher...
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"Sex & Psychedelics" with Leslie Draffin
This week's guest is Leslie Draffin, psychedelic guide, somatic womb healer, transformational coach & speaker as we discuss sexuality, trauma, and healing through the power of psychedelics. Follow Leslie: https://www.lesliedraffin.com/...
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"Hoarder" with Bari Beckett
This week's guest is Bari Beckett, the creative and the author behind the new erotica book, Big Love, which proves you are never too old for love and sex. Follow Bari: https://www.instagram.com/bbarilynn/ Buy Big Love: https://www.amazon.com/Big-Love-Bari-Beckett/dp/B0CH2CQQYX...
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"Dating With Disabilities" with Dale Allen-Rowse
This week’s guest is author, business coach and shamanic practitioner, Dale Allen-Rowse. We discuss his experience being diagnosed with Dystonia, dating with disabilities, flying to another state for a hookup, and so much more! Follow Dale: Instagram.com/daleallenrowse DaleAllenRowse.com...
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"We're All A Little Deviant Here" with Natalie Katona
This week’s guest is Natalie Katona, host of the To All The Men I’ve Tolerated Before podcast. We discuss dating while podcasting, feeling secure in relationships, rejection sensitivity, and so much more! Follow Natalie: Instagram.com/nataliek124 To All The Men I’ve Tolerated Before podcast:...
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"Wild West Courtesan MILF" with Liv LaRue
This week's guest deviant is Legal Madame and Courtesan, s*x work advocate and educator, Olivia LaRue! We discuss her background as "The Wild West MILF, " the legality of s*x work, and she shares a riotously funny Mrs. Robinson-esque tale! Find Olivia: www.livlarue.com...
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"Gay Matchmaking" with Daniel Cooley and Anthony Canapi
Happy Valentine’s Day, deviants! In this special episode Demi talks to celebrity gay matchmakers, Daniel Cooley and Anthony Canapi about what a matchmaker does, what makes a good dating profile, turning matchmaking into a business, the future of dating, and of course Daniel and Anthony share some...
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"Playing Rough" with Dana Shergill
In this episode Demi talks to kinky wellness coach, Dana Shergill. We discuss her love of “playing rough,” how BDSM is “playing rough,” common misconceptions of BDSM, basics of BDSM, owning your consent, what “aftercare” is in BDSM, we answer a Reddit question about how kink can go wrong, and…
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"A Victim of Obsession" with Robert Bigaouette
In this episode Demi talks to author of the book Twisted Love, Robert Bigaouette. Twisted Love is a story about a bizarre love triangle revolving around obsession. We discuss how he got started in writing, being a victim of obsession himself, having to file an Order of Protection, taking his...
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"Bedbugs at the Orgy" with Susan Bratton
In this weeks episode Demi talks to entrepreneur and intimacy expert Susan Bratton. We discuss communication skills in bed, male and female sexual responses, expanded orgasm meditation, the OneTaste sex cult, sexual biohacking, sex toy show & tell, and she tells a horror story about the time she...
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"Healing From Childhood Trauma" with Riana Milne, MA
In this episode Demi talks to author, licensed mental health counselor, and love and relationship coach, Riana Milne. We discuss how childhood traumas affect our relationships, common childhood traumas, common dating patters that emerge from traumas, cultural differences in choosing partners…
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"P*rn Addiction Reboot" with J.K. Emezi
Welcome to season 5, deviants! This season kicks off with p*rn addiction recovery specialist and CEO of Elevated Recovery, J.K. Emezi. We discuss why he prefers "reboot" to "recovery," challenges with 12 step programs, the cognitive science behind p*rn addiction, p*rn as intimacy replacement, and...
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"A Charmed Intervention" with Heather Claus (Bonus Episode)
Another bonus episode, deviants! This episode I talk to author Heather Claus. We discuss being a pioneer of the internet, being "heteroflexible," joining the carnival as a teenager, alternative and k!nky lifestyles, surviving emotional abuse, setting proper boundaries, and so much more! She also...
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"My Best Friend's BJ" with Krista Melanson (Bonus Episode)
In a special bonus episode of Hookup Horror Stories, I am joined by dating coach Krista Melanson! We discuss previously working at a p*rn shop, the conection between food and s*x, the evolution of the adult industry, watching the original Pam & Tommy video, dating with yoour kids' approval, the...
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"Vampire Threesome" with Ryan Winter - Halloween Bonus
It's spooky season, deviants, so this week I am joined by true crime author and novelist, Ryan Winter. We discuss being "New Orleans Mother Goose," his books "Ravish" and "Wake the Devil," living and dating in New Orleans, the queer history of the French Quarter, writing horror and true crime…
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"Street Smart Safety" with Joy Farrow & Laura Frombach
In the season 4 finale, this week I have a double interview with co-authors of the book "Street Smart Safety for Women" Joy Farrow and Laura Frombach. We discuss the helping role Joy played in the 2017 mass shooting at Fort Lauderdale airport, Laura's history as a survivor of domestic violence…
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"Pity Handjob" with Melanie Curtin
This week I sat down with men's dating coach Melanie Curtin! She and I discussed sex abuse in the Jewish community, survivor resilience, why representation matters, "Nice Guys" versus "Bad Guys," plus so much more. Plus she shares the story of a time a time for her when a hookup didn't go quite…
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"Ghost Stories" with Rosemary from The Ghost Podcast
This week I'm joined by the host of The Ghost Podcast: Rosemary! We discuss how dating apps date your brain, swipe culture, how app culture changed dating relationships, avoidant attachment, and so much more. Plus she shares a personal ghosting story. Find Rosemary/The Ghost Podcast:...
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"2 Guys in the Bathroom" with Davi Stefond
This week I'm joined by my friend actor and model Davi Stefond! We discuss his model/actor trajectory, dating in LA, hookup culture and dating mentality, and we play an XXX rated game! Plus he shares a story of a hookup that had 2 more guests than was mentioned. Find Davi:...
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"Nosaphilia" with Edward Miskie
This week I'm joined by actor, singer, and author of the book Cancer, Musical Theatre & Other Chronic Illnesses Edward Miskie! We discussed, being outed, his love of musical theater, being the survivor of a rare form of Non-Hodgkins Lymphoma, sex and cancer, and so much more! Plus he tells the...
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"Sneaky Link" with Cindy Luquín
In this episode I am joined by holistic practitioner, writer, and sex educator, Cindy Luquin! We discuss her pathway to becoming a sex educator, cultivating pleasure principles, queer spiritual wellness, consensual nonconsent, Gen Z, and so much more! Plus she shares a story of a boyfriend she...
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"Sexstrology" with Nadége
In this episode I am joined by author of the book "Sextrology: Astrology of your Sexual Subconscious" and CEO of Pleasure Science, Nadége! We discuss being hard on yourself, minority stress, the universal subject, and intersectionality in sex, the true history of the fertility goddess; Virgo…
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"Surprise Stealthing" with Lindsay Rosales
In this episode I'm joined by sex blogger, Lindsay Rosales (@sacinthesheets), and we discuss sex blogging, Sacramento's Syphilis epidemic, the importance of sex education, tarot and spirituality, marriage, sex toys, and so much more. She also tells the story that involved condom stealthing and an...
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"The Switcheroo" with Dustin Rybka
This week host of the SexParty.fm podcast Dustin Rybka to discuss a wide variety of topics such as his experience in Chicago club promotion and radio, being in love for the first time, guilty pleasures like MTV's Catfish and Cheaters, staying safe in club settings, Chicago's Smiley Face Killers,...
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"Sexual Trauma Release" with Te' Youngblood
This week author and reiki practitioner Te' Youngblood joins the show to discuss healing your sexual trauma through spiritual practices, her story of a first date when a man who she just met made way too many demands, and we play a game of red flags! Find Te'…
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"Used For A Ride" with Dr. Vernon Scott
This week's guest is host of the Heauxliloquy Podcast, teacher, writer, and author: Dr. Vernon Scott! We discuss the Heuxliloquy podcast, side projects, video games, being a heaux, and so much more! Plus he shares the time he got tricked by a hookup into giving him a ride. Find Dr. Vernon Scott:...
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"Weed Woes" with Lucy Wood
This week's guest is host of the Working Under Pleasure podcast, Lucy Wood! We discuss our shared passion for podcasting, key themes in dating conversations, how to not be a "fixer," getting mistaken for an escort, how to identify a fuccboi, and so much more. Plus Lucy shares the story of when…
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"Tragic Blowjob" with Jeneka Jool
This week's guest deviant is the Nomadic Nympho herself, Jeneka Jool! We discuss her dual love of travel and sex education, the lack of taboo topics in Germany, "how to eat ass," creating educational content around sexuality, poetry, and so much more! Plus she tells the story of a time she ran…
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"How To Be a Footpig" with James T. Medak
This week's guest is author of "Hot To Be a Footpig" and "Roommate. Master. Footgod. King." James T. Medak! We discuss becoming a published author and our love of books, writing erotica, the science behind foot fetishes, and so much more! Plus he tells a horror story that included the tying down...
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"Runnin' Trains" with Steve Matos
This week's guest gay men's self-help coach, Steve Matos! We discuss growing up in New York City, music tastes, issues in the gay community, using sexuality in place of intimacy, and so much more! Plus he tells the story of he and his buddy's notorious heydays of runnin' trains on guys! Find…
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"Sex and Death" with Dr. Victoria Hartmann
This week's guest is sex scholar and Executive Director of the Erotic Heritage Museum in Las Vegas, NV, Dr. Victoria Hartmann! We discuss Germanic approach to sex and how that influenced her area of expertise, the duality of sex and death and why people are attracted to serial killers, plus she...
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"When Your Partner Says #MeToo" with Shaun Hamilton
April is Sexual Assault Awareness Month, and this week's guest is ex-navy veteran and author of the book "When Your Partner Says #MeToo: Your Role and Responsibility in Their Recovery Process" Shaun Hamilton. Find Shaun, pick up his book: https://shaunhamilton.com/ * Share your stories…
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"Toxic Friends" with Lee Hopkins
It's me, hi, I'm the problem it's me! This week's guest deviant is platonic friendship coach, Lee Hopkins. We discuss being authentic in your relationships, his work as a platonic relationship coach, how his corporate job paid for his transition (FTM), how to make friends as an adult, secret...
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"Where Are The Balls?!" with Ann Bell
This week's guest deviant is love and life coach, Ann Bell! We discuss massage table talk, first period experiences, processing your emotions, losing a partner to tragedy, ghosting, and much more! Plus she shares a story of a hookup who had no balls, and a date with a amn who we will call "Dirty...
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"Dating App Torturer"
End of season 2, deviants! This week I went live on MŌN to discuss the latest "Hot Headlines:" a dating app torturer's police standoff, a s*x trafficking kidnapping from a Maverick's game, The Satanic Temple's abortion clinic, and we learn what "figging" is. We also react to some Reddit threads,...
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"F*ck Yo Valentine's Day" (A #HookupHorrorStories X Earplay Crossover)
Love is in the air! No... fuck that! Sapphire and Demi got together IRL to talk about why V-day is so overrated. Also thanks to our friends on MŌN for joining us. Grab a drink, puff a little something, and get ready for an Eargasm! Want more Ms. Sapphire? https://linktr.ee/msradiosapphire Help…
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"Stalker Stories" with Auntie Vice
Back with another interview, deviants! This week I sit down to talk with kink writer and educator, (and Demi's spiritual auntie?) Auntie Vice. We discuss her work as well as her vices, sketch comedy troupe: Trans Sketchual, and her podcast: Fat Chicks on Top. She also tells a couple stories of...
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"Dating In The Psych Ward" (Live on MŌN)
Welcome back, deviants! I chatted with my friends on MŌN to discuss the weeks Hot Headlines: a woman stabbing her boyfriend for not helping with the bills, The Chainsmokers Eiffel Tower moment, A Tennessee police sex scandal, and Johnson & Johnson discontinuing their HIV vax study! We also react…
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"No Use Crying Over Spilled Poppers" with Stephan Horbelt
Back with another interview, deviants! This week I sat down with my new friend, Executive Editor for Hornet & Queer Spaces - Stephan Horbelt. We discuss the ins and outs of his very queer career, the magic of 'zines, how the app Spaces will revolutionize queer social media, and later on he tells...
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"Blood Orgy" (Live on MŌN - 1/11)
Welcome back, deviants! This week I went live on MŌN to discuss the weeks headlines; OF tax evasion, dominatrixes at city hall, Louisiana's new adult content law, and tramp stamps are back! We also answer some love and relationship questions from Reddit, and play a live game of Red Flags! Special...
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"The Gun" with Kory Pernell
This week I talk to my friend, host of The Gayted Community podcast and blogger Kory Pernell! We talk about the dating struggle in LA, f**king on the first date, partners meeting you halfway, taking too long to make a move, "boyfriend dick," plus so much more! Help get this show seen! Please…
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"2022: A Sexy Year In Review" (Live 12/30)
Slight trigger warning in this week's episode, a few topics discuss themes of violence and s__cide. Listener discretion is advised. Welcome back, deviants! This week I went live on MŌN to discuss the weeks headlines; Andrew Tate getting arrested, a s_x ed bomb threat, online "sextortion," and...
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"Cat Shit Guy" with Sassittarius
Back with another interview, deviants! This week I sit down and talk to kink and phone seggs operator, Sassittarius! We discuss her moonlighting as a call girl, clients who only want to play games, chemical play, the ins and outs of content creation on OF, rating dick pics, and safety in seggs...
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"The Unholy Trinity" (Live on MŌN - 12/16/2022)
#HookupHorrorStories with Demi Wylde live on MŌN on 12/16. Headlines include Antonio Brown, NYC serial killings, Oklahoma woman's r*pe charges, Florida Ex-priest sentenced. Reddit topics include bi-phobia, a trans woman's sexuality shift, being dominant in the bedroom, and a gay couple face...
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"The Date From Hell" with Catherine Berra
Back with another interview, deviants! This week I sit down and talk to author of the book These Stories Are True... I Sh*t You Not: A Humorous Look at Online Dating for the Unsuspecting Older Human, Catherine Berra! We discuss her previous career and living in D.C. and the whole process of…
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"How It Feels For A Cuck" (Live on MŌN - 12/2/2022)
Welcome to the live episode, deviants! This week we were live on MŌN to discuss the latest scandals and news stories, dish some sexy advice to some Redditors, and we played a live game of Red Flags with other MŌNers. Some things we discussed were the recent Club Q shooting, Balenciaga's latest...
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"The Truth About Sex Trafficking" (Solo)
Welcome back deviants! This week I've got another solo episode on the topic on Sex Trafficking. I discuss how human trafficking happens, it's myths the realities, misinformation about it on social media, facts and statistics, and sex trafficking Red Flags. Plus throughout the episode, I share the...
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"Scammer Sleuth" with Ash Periseau
This week's special guest deviant is writer and relationship consultant: Ash Periseau! We discuss our Carrie Bradshaw fantasies, helping others through writing, the fundamentals of relationships, the impact of Mae West and owning your sexuality, navigating abusive relationships as a concerned...
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"Pyramid Scheme Prince Charming" with Dating Coach, Charlene Byars
This week's special guest deviant is relationship coach and dating expert: Charlene Byars! We discuss where all the good men are, limiting belief systems, early childhood experiences in love, being born "golden buddhas," surface level relationships, how we show up in our lives, and Charlene's…
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"Blood Piñata" with Daniel Huecias
Welcome to season 2, deviants! This week's special guest is my good judy: production coordinator for KCBS Santa Barbara and professional podcast producer, Daniel Huecias. In this episode we talk about "chi-mos," living in the Inland Empire, unpacking religious trauma, viking funerals, channeling...
About this show
Sex can be... complicated. Welcome to Hookup Horror Stories, a comedy podcast about horrible hookups and deviant dating disasters! Every week, author Demi Wylde, interviews sex experts, comedians, coaches, writers and more on sex, dating, and their wildest hookup horror stories.
Hosted by
Wylde Heart Media