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Hotter Than Ever

by Erin Keating

Why are we so scared of change? The second half of your life can be happier, sexier and more fulfilled, but you may need to blow some stuff up. To find out how, we're bringing you interviews and frank, irreverent, inexpert advice on everything from career and aging to sex and body image in what used to be called "middle age." Laugh, get honest, break the rules and stop caring what other people think. Join us, and we can be hot together!

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Episodes

  1. What It Takes to Feel Hotter Than Ever

    What is the one pivotal change that would make your life feel hotter than ever? As we arrive at episode 135 of Hotter Than Ever, we’re inviting you into an intimate and powerful reflection, marking both the close of 2025 and a new chapter for the show. As our beloved host, Erin, sets out to build...

  2. Starting Your Own Business(es) with Sarah Gallagher Trombley

    We talk a lot on Hotter Than Ever about midlife reinvention and the courage it takes to listen to your intuition, even when the outside world tells you to play it safe. Starting this podcast was a powerful turning point for Erin, but one of the best parts of reinvention? It doesn’t stop at just…

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  3. Ancient Sexual Wisdom with Leah Piper and Dr. Willow Brown

    For so many women, sexuality and intimacy feel like the missing piece in living a fully embodied life, especially as we age. Our culture rarely teaches us how to move past the superficial and toward deeper pleasure, healing, and connection. In this episode, longtime teachers and practitioners of...

  4. Radical Self Love and the Power of Sisterhood with Natty Frasca

    Culture tells women over 40 that midlife is a time of decline: hot flashes, lost libido, and fading from relevance. But what if midlife is actually your portal to power, pleasure, and self-ownership? In this episode, we’re joined by Natty Frasca, a feminist coach, rebel rouser, and the founder of...

  5. Regenopause and Sex Magic: Crone Wisdom with Melissa Louise

    “Your birthright is pleasure.” What if everything you’ve been taught about aging, sexuality, and womanhood is not only outdated, but completely wrong? Joining us to challenge all of it is Melissa Louise, a pleasure advocate and erotic blueprint coach whose perspective on midlife, menopause (or as...

  6. Crushing Your Couple Goals with Rono + Sierra

    Ever wonder what it takes to create not just lasting love, but a partnership that feels intentional, exciting, and alive, even years in? Join us as we sit down with Rono and Sierra, lifelong friends turned business partners turned romantic couple, to peel back the curtain on what it means to make...

  7. What if Wonder Woman Was 66? with Susan Guidi

    What does reinvention really look like when life keeps throwing curveballs? For Susan Guidi, it’s a story packed with twists, pivots, and badass comebacks. An ultrasound pioneer, mother of three, grandmother of seven, improv performer, stand-up comedian, and award-winning bodybuilder, Susan’s…

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  8. How To Have an Amazing Marriage with Gabriela Embon

    What does it really take to create a love that feels both grounded and expansive? A relationship where two whole people choose to grow together? In this week’s episode, we sit down with relationship coach and author Gabriela Embon to explore how to build a thriving partnership that balances...

  9. Cultivating a Life Packed with Pleasure with Dr. Diane Mueller

    “We have this capacity to create our love life, our pleasure life in any way we want.” What if pleasure wasn’t something to chase, but something to come home to? In this episode, we sit down with Dr. Diane Mueller, sexual wellness expert, naturopathic doctor, and founder of MyLibidoDoc.com, to...

  10. Dating after Divorce is Hilarious with Julie Golden

    “There’s a freedom in not auditioning for your life anymore.” What happens when you’re no longer living by someone else’s playbook and finally start telling your own story? This week on Hotter Than Ever, we sit down with Julie Golden, reality TV producer, screenwriter, stand-up comedian, and...

  11. Rethinking Relationship Rules with Ally Iseman

    Have you missed us? We’re thrilled that Hotter Than Ever is back after an unplanned summer hiatus. Not only did Erin sell her house and move, but she’s also in the midst of launching a new business while solo parenting—no big deal. We’re returning with a bang and more real talk than ever, as Erin...

  12. How To Have a Truly Intimate Relationship with Dr. Alexandra Stockwell

    “Having a fantastic relationship is a learnable skill.” So many of us crave deeper connection, more spark, and a sense of feeling not just content, but truly alive, decades into love and relationships. But what if your desire has dulled, your partnership feels stuck on autopilot, or you’re no...

  13. The Surprising Thing Your Teen Actually Needs From You with Megan Saxelby

    “Adolescence isn’t the end of your close relationship with your child, it’s the beginning of the best one you’ve ever had.” For so many parents, the teenage years loom like a storm cloud, fraught with anxiety, conflict, and the fear of losing connection. But what if everything you think you know...

  14. Matchmaking Secrets from LGBTQ Dating Guru Dr. Frankie

    Dating in today’s world can feel confusing, lonely, and (thanks to the apps) a lot like a part-time job with no benefits. But what if finding a connection isn’t about chasing elusive chemistry, endlessly scrolling, or pretending to be someone you’re not? Enter Dr. Frankie Bashan: a clinical...

  15. How To Co-Parent So You Don't F*ck Up Your Kids with Christina McGhee

    Divorce is often treated as the end of the story, but what happens after the separation, when the real work of navigating co-parenting begins? In this episode, we sit down with Christina McGee, renowned divorce parenting expert and author of Parenting Apart: How Separated and Divorced Parents Can...

  16. Diving Deep Into Intimacy and Desire with Danielle Harel and Celeste Hirschman

    “ We don't choose what turns us on… but we get to play with it.” Too often, women move into adulthood (and even marriage) without a real roadmap for understanding their own desires, let alone the conversations that bring intimacy to life. In this episode, we’re exploring how putting yourself at…

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  17. Telling The Truth of Women's Lives with Jessica Zucker

    “You are not alone.” We hear this phrase often—but truly feeling less alone is something else entirely. Real connection begins when we share our stories, speak our truths, and let ourselves be seen. Few people champion this idea more powerfully than today’s guest, Dr. Jessica Zucker. Jessica is a...

  18. Joyful Dating with Feminist Dating Coach Lily Womble

    “ You can't say the wrong thing to the right person.” Modern dating can feel like a chaotic mess—swiping fatigue, societal pressures, and outdated patriarchal norms make it seem more like a minefield than a path to love. But what if dating could actually be joyful, empowering, and aligned with…

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  19. Planning Ahead for Being an Empty Nester with Jodi Silverman

    "Our intuition does speak to us—it screams at us, if we really let it listen." For many women, motherhood is the most rewarding, purpose-driven, and all-consuming role we take on. But what happens when the kids grow up and fly the nest? How do you figure out what’s next for you? Turns out, this...

  20. Are You Overfunctioning In Love? with Dr. Ashley Southard

    Do you ever feel like you're doing all the emotional heavy lifting in your relationship? Constantly managing your partner’s feelings, smoothing over conflicts, and wondering why you're always the one trying to "fix" things? You might be over-functioning—taking on more than your fair share of...

  21. The Spicy Years of Perimenopause with Carin Luna-Ostaseski

    “Is it hot or is it just me?” It’s a question many women find themselves asking as they navigate perimenopause and menopause—often without fully understanding what’s happening to their bodies. Despite affecting every woman, perimenopause remains widely misunderstood, rarely discussed, and...

  22. People Pleasing and Overachieving with Amy Wilson

    "Getting things done": it's a mantra for many, but what happens when it becomes a burden? In this episode, we sit down with author, performer, and self-proclaimed overachiever Amy Wilson to untangle the messy web of perfectionism, people-pleasing, and the endless pursuit of "more." Drawing from…

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  23. Marriage, Monogamy, Dating + Divorce with Producer Erica

    “Is monogamy normal? Is it our default? Is it healthy?” Have you ever had a conversation stop you in your tracks because it hits so close to home? That’s exactly what happened to Erin and producer Erica after our episode with Dr. Joli Hamilton late last year. Dr. Joli’s work to help people open...

  24. Looking Back at 2024 and Hell Yes to 2025!

    Happy 2025, Hotties! 🍾✨ We made it through 2024, and it's time to reflect on what a transformative year it has been. Did you lean into the intentions you set for yourself? Spark connections that brought joy and meaning? Tune into your intuition and embrace the power of saying no? Join Erin in…

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  25. Your Body Image Has Something Deeper to Tell You with Deb Schachter

    “ Body image is an individual sport and it's healed in connection.” If you’re a woman, chances are you’ve had a moment (or many) of negative self-talk about your body. We’ve all been there. But what if the issue wasn’t actually our bodies at all? What if it’s a deeper emotional or psychological...

  26. How to Take a Career Break and Avoid Burnout with Laura Nguyen

    Have you ever felt the urge to hit pause on your career without walking away entirely? Or maybe you’re ready to quit but wondering how to plan a break that works financially while setting yourself up for what’s next? This week’s guest, Laura Nguyen, knows exactly how to navigate these crossroads....

  27. What It Takes to Open Your Marriage with Dr. Joli Hamilton

    “Release yourself from the idea that your relationship needs to fit into anybody's box.” Have you ever wondered if you and your partner are truly compatible? Or struggled to express your needs, feeling lost in a sea of unmet expectations? Whether you’re exploring non-monogamy, redefining...

  28. Saying Yes To Inspiration with Daily Show Co-Creator Madeleine Smithberg

    “Don't let fear put you out of reach of your dreams.” As the Thanksgiving and holiday season unfolds, it’s natural to focus on gratitude for the good things in life. But what happens when life’s transitions leave you feeling lost, isolated, or stuck in a downward slump? This week’s guest…

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  29. Getting Unstuck with Deanna deBara

    “A period of stuckness always precedes a period of serious growth.” So many of us find ourselves grappling with the overwhelming feeling of being stuck, especially as we navigate midlife. Weighed down by societal expectations and self-imposed narratives, we can struggle to align our lives with…

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  30. How To Manage Career & Personal Change with Dr. Keri Ohlrich & Kelly Guenther

    Is entrepreneurship truly a solo journey, or would you rather start a business with a friend? For Dr. Keri Ohlrich and Kelly Guenther, co-founders of the leadership and HR consultancy the Abbracci Group and co-hosts of “The Breakout” podcast, the answer is clear: collaboration is key. Together,...

  31. Nurturing Your Intimate Relationships with Vanessa & Xander Marin

    “Sex isn't really worth having without vulnerability.” Sexuality and intimacy can be sensitive topics, especially in long-term relationships. But what if these conversations could be transformed into pathways to deeper connection and more fulfilling, mutually satisfying sex? In this episode…

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  32. Producing Your Best Life: Movies and Motherhood with Feigco's Laura Fischer

    If you’ve ever wondered why stories of women in midlife are so rare in movies and TV, you’re not alone. In a landscape where male-centered narratives often take center stage, Laura Fischer (Co-President of director Paul Feig’s feature film company Feigco) stands out as a force for change. In...

  33. Straight Talk About Libido Over 40 with Dr. Maureen Slattery

    Ever wondered why some women experience low libido and what can be done about it? Or what orgasms look and feel like for different women? These questions often go unanswered, but Dr. Maureen Slattery—a board-certified OBGYN specializing in sex and menopause—is here to change that. A leading...

  34. How Do you Measure your Value?

    "I think our value and our values get all kinds of conflated and mixed up." We often hear about self-love and its pivotal role in creating a joyful life. But defining self-love is subjective and multifaceted. It involves caring, self-respect, boundaries, and counteracting our harsh inner critic....

  35. How Astrology Just Might Help You Succeed with AstroTwin Ophira Edut

    “Astrology is a tool, not a rule. And when you use it as a tool, it can expand your power, your consciousness, your awareness.” Long-time listeners of Hotter Than Ever know Erin tends to be a skeptic when it comes to anything ‘woo’ (remember the episode “Woo Adjacent”?). So, it might come as a...

  36. Exploring Non-Monogamy and Getting Kinky with CJ

    “How much fun can we have and what is that going to do for us as we age?” In this milestone 100th episode of Hotter Than Ever, we’re celebrating not only the podcast's journey but also the incredible community it has built around redefining midlife for women. To mark this special occasion, we’re...

  37. What The Golden Girls Teaches Us About Aging Well with Dr. Maria Carpiac

    It’s no secret that our culture often presents aging in a negative light, particularly for women, leaving many of us uncertain or even fearful about life beyond 40, 50 or (god forbid), 60. But one iconic sitcom has challenged these stereotypes with humor, heart, and authenticity: The Golden…

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  38. Getting Practical About Money

    As “Hotter Than Ever” nears its 100th episode, we’re reflecting on the impact this podcast has had since launching a year and a half ago, and the steps needed to elevate its vision to new heights. Join Erin as she candidly shares the realities of transitioning from a financially stable corporate...

  39. Finding Success in Business and Love in Your 40s with Osea's Melissa Palmer

    If you’re searching for proof that our most successful chapters can unfold in midlife, look no further than Melissa Palmer, co-founder and CEO of the skincare brand Osea. While Melissa and her mother launched Osea 28 years ago, it wasn’t until year 20 that their business truly skyrocketed. And as...

  40. Men, Divorce, Anger and Designing Our Ideal Lives with Producer Erica

    “I’m in a phase of my life where I want to f*cking shine. I do not want to shrink.” Sometimes we just need to admit we’re mad. While society may not always make space for women's anger, when we reflect on the challenges we face today, it can be hard not to feel it. Why do women still carry the...

  41. How to Light Your Brain Up with Pleasure with Dr. Nan Wise

    “We need to understand that pleasure is not a luxury—it’s a necessity for sending good signals back to the brain.” When Dr. Nan Wise had a panic attack at just 21 years old, it sparked her lifelong fascination with the brain. Today, as a seasoned behavioral neuroscientist and sex therapist, Dr.…

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  42. Making Room for Women's Voices in Hollywood with Melissa Silverstein

    If you’ve ever paid attention to female representation in Hollywood or the push for more women filmmakers in entertainment, you’ve likely encountered the work of Melissa Silverstein. As the founder of Women and Hollywood, one of the pioneering platforms advocating for gender diversity in the film...

  43. After The Rubble: Inventing Your Next Chapter with Producer Erica

    “I want you to know what your options are at this point in your life.” In this special episode, we’re breaking from our usual format to bring Hotter Than Ever producer, Erica, out from behind the scenes for a candid conversation with Erin about the podcast's journey and it’s future. Inspired by...

  44. Everything is a Love Problem and Only You Can Solve It with Sheri Salata (Re-Air)

    As part of our ‘slow roll summer’ on Hotter Than Ever, we’re revisiting one of our favorite early conversations with Oprah dynasty legend, author, producer and transformation doula Sheri Salata. In this episode, we explore self-love and renegotiating what life looks like after you’ve achieved…

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  45. Inner Beauty and Aging in Hollywood with Makeup Artist Molly R. Stern

    In a world where beauty standards are constantly evolving and societal pressures can feel overwhelming, makeup artist Molly R. Stern brings a refreshing perspective to the conversation. With a career spanning over two decades and a client list that includes some of Hollywood's most iconic faces,...

  46. Getting Good at Handling Change

    “The job of life is to get good at change, because it never stops.” Why do so many of us resist change instead of embracing it? For our host Erin, life over the past few years has become almost unrecognizable, but in the best way possible. In this episode, she takes us through her journey of...

  47. 4 Ways That Covid Changed Absolutely Everything with Lori Hamilton

    “I'm striving for excellence, but I'm not pretending to be perfect anymore.” The Covid-19 pandemic was a watershed moment of change for everyone, reshaping both personal and professional lives. For our host Erin, it catalyzed her divorce and sparked a career pivot that led to the birth of “Hotter...

  48. Juggling Creative Careers and Motherhood with comedian Ophira Eisenberg

    Navigating modern life as a working mother and a creative professional is no small feat. In this episode, we dig deep into comedian and Mom Ophira Eisenberg's journey through comedy, storytelling, and podcasting. Ophira, a multi-talented comic, storyteller, and host of the podcast "Parenting is a...

  49. Your Authenticity is Your Secret Weapon with Kim Rittberg

    “Every single person is special, but most of us are too afraid to show up in the world and let them see how special we are.” In a world that often values polished presentations and corporate facades, finding and maintaining authenticity in professional and personal settings can feel like a…

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  50. How To Attract Epic Love with Lilli Bewley

    "It's in vulnerability and self-love that we find our true strength." If you've been tuning into Hotter Than Ever, you know that while our host Erin offers plenty of dating advice, especially for those re-entering the scene after a marriage, her aim isn’t necessarily to find love herself. But...

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ABOUT THIS SHOW

Why are we so scared of change? The second half of your life can be happier, sexier and more fulfilled, but you may need to blow some stuff up. To find out how, we're bringing you interviews and frank, irreverent, inexpert advice on everything from career and aging to sex and body image in what used to be called "middle age." Laugh, get honest, break the rules and stop caring what other people think. Join us, and we can be hot together!

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Erin Keating

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Why are we so scared of change? The second half of your life can be happier, sexier and more fulfilled, but you may need to blow some stuff up. To find out how, we're bringing you interviews and frank, irreverent, inexpert advice on everything from career and aging to sex and body image in what...

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