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How Not To Suck At Divorce
by Morgan Stogsdill and Andrea Rappaport
Action steps that save you money. Humor that saves your sanity. Honesty that helps you heal.How Not to Suck at Divorce is the divorce podcast for people who want clear answers, smart strategy and support through life before, during and after divorce.Hosted by family-law attorney Morgan L. Stogsdill and comedian and marketing expert Andrea Rappaport, we break down the parts of divorce that can feel impossible to navigate — divorce preparation, high-conflict spouses, narcissistic behavior and manipulation, child custody, co-parenting and parallel parenting, money and property, legal strategy, negotiation, divorce anxiety and life after divorce.You’ll hear practical advice from leading divorce attorneys, therapists, financial professionals and other experts, along with honest conversations about what divorce actually feels like.Our goal is simple: help you avoid expensive mistakes, understand your options and make decisions you’ll still feel good about years from now.You don’t have t
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Small Wins in Divorce Count More Than You Think
Get prepared with our Divorce Crash Course. Typically priced at $150, available now for $50, thanks to our angel underwriters OurFamilyWizard and Soberlink. Get the private podcast and guidebook to help you understand the process, ask better questions, and avoid expensive mistakes. Your divorce…
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Divorce: Will Going Back to Work Cost You Spousal Support?
Get prepared with our Divorce Crash Course. Typically priced at $150, available now for $50, thanks to our angel underwriters OurFamilyWizard and Soberlink. Get the private podcast and guidebook to help you understand the divorce process, ask better questions, and avoid expensive mistakes. You’ve...
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How Divorce Changed My Life in 3 Unexpected Ways
Get prepared with our Divorce Crash Course. Typically priced at $150, available now for $50, thanks to our angel underwriters OurFamilyWizard and Soberlink. This private podcast and guidebook help you understand the divorce process, ask better questions, and avoid expensive mistakes. Can life...
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Divorce Problem: What to do if Your Spouse Won’t Accept That the Marriage is Over.
Thinking about divorce? Get prepared with our Divorce Crash Course. Typically priced at $150, available now for $50, thanks to our angel underwriters OurFamilyWizard and Soberlink. Get the private podcast and guidebook to help you understand the process, ask better questions, and avoid expensive...
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Divorce Questions Answered: A Stalling Spouse & a Lawyer Who Won’t Call Back
Get the Divorce Crash Course for $50 Get practical divorce guidance with our private podcast and companion guidebook. Typically priced at $150, available now for $50, thanks to our angel underwriters OurFamilyWizard and Soberlink. https://www.hownottosuckatdivorce.com/divorce-crash-course Your...
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Divorce & Co-Parenting Conflict: When to Call Your Lawyer or GAL
Going through divorce? Get the Divorce Crash Course before you make an expensive mistake. Our Divorce Crash Course includes a private podcast and printable workbook with parenting agreement guidance, questions to ask your attorney, and communication templates to help you get organized. Typically...
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Divorce & Co-Parenting- Holidays: What Your Parenting Plan Is Missing
Going through divorce? Start with the Divorce Crash Course. Before you agree to a parenting schedule, make sure you understand what you’re agreeing to. Our Divorce Crash Course includes a private podcast and printable workbook with parenting agreement guidance, questions to ask your attorney, and...
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Divorce: How to Take Your Power Back From a Controlling Ex
Need help getting through divorce right now? 🎧 Start with our Guided Divorce Meditations If your nervous system is completely fried, your thoughts are racing, or you feel like your ex has way too much control over your emotional state, start here. Our guided divorce meditations were created...
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Divorce Advice Nobody Wants to Hear: 10 Unpopular Opinions
Divorce comes with a lot of advice. Andrea has some opinions about that advice. Get the Divorce Crash Course Get the Guided Divorce Meditations In this mini episode of How Not to Suck at Divorce, Andrea shares 10 of her most unpopular divorce opinions—the ones that might make your lawyer raise an...
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7 Divorce Mistakes That Make Your Case More Expensive
Divorce Crash Course If you want more help understanding the divorce process, avoiding expensive mistakes, and knowing what to expect before you make major decisions, check out the Divorce Crash Course. Guided Divorce Meditations For the moments when you’re about to send the email, respond to…
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High-Conflict Divorce Survival Story: The Biggest Lessons Learned
Going through a high-conflict divorce can make it feel impossible to imagine a life where your phone isn’t constantly lighting up, your nervous system isn’t on high alert, and every day doesn’t bring another crisis. But this episode is proof that there can be an after. Get the Guided Divorce...
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Divorce: The Petty Fights That Cost You Thousands. What Top Attorneys Want You to Know...
Guided Divorce Meditations If you’re stuck in a divorce fight that is making you anxious, angry, or completely unable to think clearly, start here. Our Guided Divorce Meditations are designed for the moments when you need to regulate your nervous system before you respond, negotiate, argue, or…
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Divorce & Narcissistic Manipulation: How to Stop Taking the Bait
Need Help Calming Your Nervous System? Try our Guided Divorce Meditations, created specifically for the moments when divorce anxiety, anger and overwhelm are taking over. Use them before responding to a triggering text, before a difficult conversation, before court, before mediation—or anytime…
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Divorce and Emotional Endurance: 3 Special Tips to Survive a High-Conflict Divorce
Divorce and Emotional Endurance: 3 Ways to Survive a High-Conflict Divorce Guided Divorce Meditations for When You’re About to Lose Your Sh$t For the moments when you can’t sleep, when you miss your kids, when you’re worried about money, or just need to get through the next ten minutes. 👉 GET…
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Divorce Stories That Will Make You Feel Better About Your Own Divorce
🧘 DIVORCE MEDITATIONS Divorce can make your nervous system feel like it’s running a marathon with no finish line. Our Divorce Meditations are here when you need to calm your brain, stop the spiral, and give yourself a few minutes to breathe. 👉 Listen to the Divorce Meditations here:...
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Divorce and Hidden Money: What to do if You Suspect Hidden Crypto?
Divorce and Hidden Cryptocurrency: How to Find Crypto Your Spouse May Be Hiding 🧘 DIVORCE MEDITATIONS Divorce can make your brain feel like it’s running 24/7. Our Divorce Meditations were created to help calm your nervous system, quiet the spiral, and get you through the moments when everything...
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Divorce Anxiety: How to Stop Treating Everything Like an Emergency...at 2am
Divorce Keeping You Up at Night? How to Stop the 2 A.M. Spiral DIVORCE CRASH COURSE: Divorce is expensive. Making avoidable mistakes makes it even more expensive. Our Divorce Crash Course gives you the information we wish every person had before and during divorce—from choosing an attorney and...
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Divorce Anxiety Keeping You Awake? A Guided Meditation for Sleep
Divorce Anxiety Keeping You Awake? A Guided Meditation for Sleep Get the complete Guided Divorce Meditation collection here. Can't sleep because of your divorce? This episode is for you. When you're going through a divorce, nighttime can be brutal. The house gets quiet, the distractions stop, and...
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Divorce Myths That Could Be Costing You Thousands
🎧 Divorce Crash Course (DCC) Thinking about divorce or already in it? Before you make a decision that could cost you thousands, get the information you wish someone had given you from the very beginning. Get the Divorce Crash Course (DCC) today. Typically priced at $150, available now for just...
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Divorce Co-Parenting: Want a Better Relationship With Your Ex? Do This.
Want Your Ex to Behave Better? Try This Instead 🎧 Divorce Crash Course (DCC) Thinking about divorce or already in it? Before you make a decision that could cost you thousands, get the information you wish someone had given you from the very beginning. Get the Divorce Crash Course (DCC) today....
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Divorce: When Being Too Nice Can Cost You Everything
🎧 Divorce Crash Course (DCC) Thinking about divorce or already in it? Before you make a decision that could cost you thousands, get the information you wish someone had given you from the very beginning. Get the Divorce Crash Course (DCC) today. Typically priced at $150, available now for just...
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Divorce: The Most Expensive Word You Can Say to Your Lawyer Is "Okay".
🚨 Before You Spend Thousands More on Your Divorce... If you're navigating divorce and want to avoid the costly mistakes so many people make, grab our Divorce Crash Course today. Typically priced at $150, available now for just $50, thanks to our angel underwriters, Our Family Wizard and…
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My Divorce Secret: The Shame I Carried About My Marriage (And Why Pretending Made Everything Worse)
🎧 Divorce Crash Course Before you hire an attorney—or if you're already in the middle of your divorce—don't miss our Divorce Crash Course. Learn how to avoid the costly mistakes that can impact your finances, custody, and future. Typically priced at $150, it's available now for just $50, thanks…
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Divorce: Why Smart, Successful People Stay in Toxic Marriages
🎧 Before You Continue… Don't Navigate Divorce Alone The Divorce Crash Course If you're thinking about divorce, in the middle of one, or trying to rebuild your life afterward, our Divorce Crash Course can help you avoid the mistakes that cost people thousands of dollars—and months (or years) of...
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Divorce Regrets: Celebrity Divorce Mistakes You Need to Learn From
Divorce Crash Course Thinking about divorce or already in the middle of one? Don't make expensive mistakes before you understand your rights. Our Divorce Crash Course gives you practical guidance on attorneys, finances, custody, parenting agreements, and the biggest mistakes people make during...
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Divorce: What to Do When the Outcome Doesn't Feel Fair
Divorce Isn't Fair: How to Stop the Negative Spiral and Move Forward 🎧 Divorce Crash Course – Just $50 (Limited Time) Before you spend thousands on avoidable divorce mistakes, invest in yourself. Our Divorce Crash Course walks you through the biggest legal, financial, and emotional mistakes…
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Divorce Cyberstalking: How to Prevent it and What to do If You Think Your Ex is Watching You Online
Divorce Cyberstalking: What to Do If You Think Your Ex Is Watching You Online Divorce Crash Course: Don’t make expensive divorce mistakes. Our Divorce Crash Course walks you through the biggest legal, financial, emotional, and co-parenting mistakes people make during divorce — and how to avoid...
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Divorce: How to Remain Strong When it Feels Impossible
Divorce: How to Stay Grounded When Everything Feels Unsteady Divorce Crash Course: Don’t make expensive divorce mistakes. Our Divorce Crash Course walks you through the biggest legal, financial, emotional, and co-parenting mistakes people make during divorce — and how to avoid them. Typically...
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Divorce SOS: What to Do When You’re Panicking
Divorce issue:When you don't agree with your attorney and Why Going Rogue Can Cost You Thousands 🎧 Before You Listen... Don't make expensive divorce mistakes. Our FREE guide, The 5 Divorce Mistakes That Cost People Thousands, will help you avoid some of the biggest legal, financial, and…
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Divorce Custody: What a Guardian ad Litem Is Really Looking For
Divorce: How to Talk to a Guardian ad Litem Without Hurting Your Custody Case 🎧 Before You Listen... Don't make expensive divorce mistakes. If you're navigating divorce, custody, or co-parenting, our Divorce Crash Course can help you avoid the mistakes that cost people thousands of dollars—and...
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Divorce and Children: The Parenting Mistakes That Can Increase Your Child's Anxiety
Divorce and Children: The Parenting Mistakes That Can Increase Your Child's Anxiety | Featuring Retired Judge Michele Lowrance 🎧 Divorce Crash Course – Save Thousands Before You Make a Costly Mistake Before you spend thousands on attorney's fees or make decisions you'll regret, check out our...
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Divorce: What to Do When Your Entire Life Feels Out of Control
The Divorce "to do" list will kill you. 🎧 Divorce Crash Course: Avoid Costly Mistakes Before They Happen Link to the Divorce Meditations waitlist: click me! Thinking about divorce? Already in the middle of one? Our Divorce Crash Course gives you the information we wish everyone had before they...
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Divorce and the Stay-at-Home Parent: How to Leave an Unhappy Marriage When You Don't Have Your Own Income
Stay-at-Home Parent and Divorce: How to Leave an Unhappy Marriage When You Don't Have Your Own Income Thinking about divorce is hard. Thinking about divorce when you're a stay-at-home parent can feel impossible. How do you afford an attorney? What happens if your spouse controls the finances?…
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Divorce: The Fear Keeping You Stuck (And How to Break Free)
Fear Is the Quiet Devil in Divorce (Here's How to Stop Letting It Run the Show) Divorce is scary. Not because every fear is true, but because fear has a way of convincing us that the worst-case scenario is right around the corner. In this mini episode of How Not to Suck at Divorce, Andrea…
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Divorce and The Biggest Mediation Mistakes to Avoid with Mediator and Former Judge Hon. Michele Lowrance
Biggest Mediation Mistakes to Avoid: After decades on the bench, retired Judge Michele Lowrance has seen firsthand what truly destroys families during divorce—and it isn't always what you think. Don't miss out on the $50 Divorce Crash Course In this powerful episode of How Not to Suck at Divorce,...
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Divorce Mediation: Why Preparation Matters More than You Think (Mini Episode)
Divorce Mediation: Why Preparation Matters More than you Think Most people approach divorce mediation with one thought: "I have to do this." But what if that's the wrong mindset? Make you check out the $50 Divorce Crash Course. In this mini episode of How Not to Suck at Divorce, Andrea Rappaport...
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Divorce Anxiety Relief: A 5-Minute Guided Meditation for When Everything Feels Like Too Much
Divorce Anxiety Relief: A 5-Minute Guided Reset for When Everything Feels Like Too Much If you're listening to this episode, chances are something happened. Maybe you received a text from your ex. Maybe your attorney sent an email. Maybe you're feeling overwhelmed by co-parenting, custody issues,...
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Divorce: How to Handle the Rejection When You Didn't Want the Divorce
***Link to the Guided Meditation for Divorce Anxiety** How Not to Suck at Divorce YouTube Divorce: How to Handle the Rejection When You Didn't Want the Divorce Divorce is painful no matter what. But when you're not the one who wanted it? It can feel like so much more than a life change. It can…
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Divorce and AI: The Smartest Ways (and Most Dangerous Ways) to Use ChatGPT During Divorce
People are already using AI during divorce whether attorneys like it or not. They’re asking ChatGPT to: analyze texts from their ex explain legal documents help write co-parenting responses build parenting schedules organize timelines prepare for mediation and sometimes… emotionally spiral at 2am...
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Divorce Manipulation: How to "Out-Manipulate" the Manipulator
Manipulation during divorce can make you feel like you’re constantly reacting, constantly defending yourself, and constantly emotionally exhausted. One minute you’re calm… and the next, you’re spiraling because your ex sent another manipulative text, guilt-inducing email, or chaotic late-night...
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Divorce, Stepparents, and the Emotional Reality No One Talks About
Nobody really prepares you for the moment your ex moves on romantically. You may think you’re okay… until suddenly there’s another person around your children, sitting at school events, helping with bedtime routines, or becoming part of your kids’ everyday lives. And that can feel incredibly...
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Divorcing an Attorney, CEO, or Powerful Spouse: What You Need to Know
Divorcing someone who feels smarter, wealthier, more connected, or more powerful than you can feel incredibly intimidating. Whether your spouse is an attorney, business owner, CEO, doctor, or high-income professional, many people enter divorce already convinced they are going to lose. But here’s...
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Divorce Attorneys: Should You Hire a Shark? What No One Else Will Tell You..
Should You Hire a “Shark” Divorce Attorney? Here’s What No One Tells You When you’re preparing for a difficult divorce, it’s tempting to think you need the most aggressive divorce lawyer money can buy. A “pit bull.” A “shark.” Someone who promises to destroy your ex in court. But is hiring a…
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The Divorce Timeline Strategy: Win Your Case and Save Money in Attorney’s Fees
One of the biggest mistakes people make during divorce is showing up emotionally overwhelmed and completely unorganized. If you want to save money on attorney’s fees, strengthen your divorce case, and stop wasting time reacting emotionally, you need one thing: a timeline. 👉 Before you take your...
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Divorce Inspo: 5 Positive Surprises in Divorce
The Happy Surprises in Divorce No One Talks About Divorce is painful, overwhelming, and emotionally brutal—but there are also surprising parts of the divorce process that can be unexpectedly healing, empowering, and even beautiful. If you’re in the thick of divorce and struggling to see beyond…
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Divorce: The Hidden Factor Affecting Your Biggest Decisions- Even GETTING a Divorce..
Divorce and Big Decisions: How Your Hormones May Be Affecting Your Divorce More Than You Think Perimenopause and hormonal changes can impact your mood, anxiety, emotional regulation, and even your ability to make major life decisions—especially during divorce. If you’re wondering whether your...
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Divorce Question Answered: Why Your Attorney Might Not be Fighting For You...
Why Your Divorce Attorney May Not Be Fighting for You (And What You’re Missing About Divorce Law) Feeling like your divorce attorney isn’t fighting hard enough for you? In many divorce cases, the issue isn’t that your attorney is failing you—it’s that family court only allows attorneys to fight…
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5 Years After Divorce: What Life Can Look Like on the Other Side
Five years after your divorce, your life will look completely different—and not in the way you’re probably imagining right now. Divorce recovery, life after divorce, and rebuilding your identity can feel overwhelming in the moment, but the long-term outcome might surprise you in the best way. 👉...
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Divorce Mistakes That Cost Thousands and How to Avoid Them
Divorce Mistakes That Cost Thousands: What NOT to Do Before You File Divorce mistakes can cost you thousands, especially when you don’t understand the divorce process, hiring a divorce lawyer, or how parenting agreements and legal decisions actually work. 👉 Before you take your next step, grab…
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Is Your Divorce Lawyer Making Your Case More Expensive? What's Really Going On Behind The Scenes of Your Divorce...
If you're really concerned about saving money in your divorce, then you need The Divorce Crash Course- it will save you THOUSANDS. Get it here. This episode is sponsored by Worthy: the smarter way to sell your jewelry. Get started by heading to Worthy.com/divorcepod and lock in an extra $100 when...
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ABOUT THIS SHOW
Action steps that save you money. Humor that saves your sanity. Honesty that helps you heal.How Not to Suck at Divorce is the divorce podcast for people who want clear answers, smart strategy and support through life before, during and after divorce.Hosted by family-law attorney Morgan L. Stogsdill and comedian and marketing expert Andrea Rappaport, we break down the parts of divorce that can feel impossible to navigate — divorce preparation, high-conflict spouses, narcissistic behavior and manipulation, child custody, co-parenting and parallel parenting, money and property, legal strategy, negotiation, divorce anxiety and life after divorce.You’ll hear practical advice from leading divorce attorneys, therapists, financial professionals and other experts, along with honest conversations about what divorce actually feels like.Our goal is simple: help you avoid expensive mistakes, understand your options and make decisions you’ll still feel good about years from now.You don’t have t
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