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How To Date Men

by Gareth Johnson

A podcast exploring the world of dating, relationships, hook-ups, and intimacy.

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Episodes

  1. Mark Schwab - Cutaways

    In this episode we're joined by filmmaker Mark Schwab - the writer and director of Cutaways. In the conversation, we talk casting, compromises, and his respect for the world of adult entertainment. Host: Gareth Johnson (www.gtv.blue) How To Date Men is presented by Gaydar.net - the online dating...

  2. Will Hughes - artist

    A multidisciplinary artist, Will Hughes is currently showing work at MIMA - the Middlesborough Institute of Modern Art. The show is Desire Lines: Art, Place & Possibilities - it will be on view at MIMA until April. In the conversation, we talk creating moments, exploring intimacy, and taking...

  3. Jon Bradfield - Beauty and the Beast

    In this episode we’re joined by Jon Bradfield - writer and lyricist of the pantomime, Beauty and the Beast: A horny love story. In the conversation we talk tropes, community, and bringing to life the world of Lickmanochers. Host: Gareth Johnson (www.gtv.blue) How To Date Men is presented by...

  4. Sadiq Ali - Tell Me

    The new production from Sadiq Ali Company is Tell Me - a circus and dance show reimagining the HIV narrative. We talk storytelling, stigma, and life-changing moments. Host: Gareth Johnson (www.gtv.blue) How To Date Men is presented by Gaydar.net - the online dating specialists that have been...

  5. Patti Boo Rae - Little Miss Christmas

    In this episode we're joined by Patti Boo Rae who is bringing her show - Little Miss Christmas - to London for the festive season. We talk pageants, guest stars, and the emotional complexity of the festive season. Host: Gareth Johnson (www.gtv.blue) How To Date Men is presented by Gaydar.net…

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  6. Marcelo Caetano - Baby

    In this episode we're joined by Marcelo Caetano for a behind-the-scenes look at his film, Baby. In the conversation, we discuss movement, age-gaps, and the challenges of filming on the streets of São Paulo. Host: Gareth Johnson (www.gtv.blue) How To Date Men is presented by Gaydar.net - the…

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  7. Grahame Robertson and Daniel Griffin - We Are Survivors

    In this episode we caught up with Grahame Robertson and Daniel Griffin from We Are Survivors to talk about how the organisation's new app aims to support male survivors of sexual harms. We talk about the power of AI, how the law keeps up with developments in technology, and why it may not always…

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  8. Crayola The Queen - Wicked Witches

    In this episode, we're joined by Crayola The Queen for a behind-the-scenes look at Wicked Witches: A Popular Panto. We talk battle-cries, dating drama, and knowing when to filter yourself. Host: Gareth Johnson (www.gtv.blue) How To Date Men is presented by Gaydar.net - the online dating…

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  9. Stacey Cullen - Overwhelm

    In this episode we're joined by Stacey Cullen for a behind-the-scenes look at her play, Overwhelm. In the conversation, we talk the problem with patriarchy, lessons from intersectional feminism, and why we all need to have a bit more empathy. Host: Gareth Johnson (www.gtv.blue) How To Date Men is...

  10. Dario - coaching queer men searching for love.

    In this episode we're joined by Dario - a life coach who specialises in helping queer men to create deep, fulfilling, loving relationships that are safe, stable, and last. In the conversation, we talk the importance of knowing yourself, the need to be date-ready, and the challenges of searching…

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  11. David - Gay Men's Therapy

    In this episode we’re joined by David from Gay Men’s Therapy - a specialist psychotherapy and counselling service for gay and queer men and men attracted to men. In this conversation, we're discussing the challenges associated with navigating an open relationship. We talk consensual non-monogamy,...

  12. Jan Sport - Oscar at the Crown

    In this episode we're joined by Jan Sport for a behind-the-scenes look at Oscar at the Crown - an immersive musical in which Jan plays Oscar Wilde. In the conversation, we talk theatre aspirations, the power of community, and giving Oscar Wilde the Jantasy. Host: Gareth Johnson (⁠⁠www.gtv.blue⁠⁠)...

  13. Sam Danson - Daddy's First Gay Date

    In this episode we're joined by Sam Danson to talk about his new play, Daddy's First Gay Date. In the conversation, we talk dating differences, universal queer experiences, and the unique perspective of bisexual fathers. Host: Gareth Johnson (⁠www.gtv.blue⁠) How To Date Men is presented by...

  14. Ken Krell - Pride Nomad

    In this episode we’re joined by Ken Krell - the man behind Pride Nomad. In the conversation, we talk queer travel requirements, lessons learned, and the power of a borderless mindset. Host: Gareth Johnson (www.gtv.blue) How To Date Men is presented by Gaydar.net - the online dating specialists…

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  15. Philippe and David - MSTER

    In this episode, we're joined by Philippe and David from MSTER - an underwear and fetish brand from Birmingham. We talk kinks, unexpected challenges, and the importance of a comfortable penis. Host: Gareth Johnson (www.gtv.blue) How To Date Men is presented by Gaydar.net - the online dating...

  16. David - Gay Men's Therapy

    In this episode we’re joined by David from Gay Men’s Therapy - a specialist psychotherapy and counselling service for gay and queer men and men attracted to men. We talk open relationship, chemsex, and why queer men have specific needs in terms of counselling and therapy. Host: Gareth Johnson...

  17. Lewis Bear Brown - Love Quirks

    In the latest episode, we’re joined by Lewis Bear Brown for a behind-the-scenes look at the musical Love Quirks. In the conversation we talk influences, dream roles, and why you need to invest time into finding love. Host: Gareth Johnson (www.gtv.blue) How To Date Men is presented by Gaydar.net -...

  18. Ken Page - Deeper Dating

    In this episode we’re joined by Ken Page - the man behind Deeper Dating, helping people navigate the search for love. We talk learning the skill of intimacy, navigating a culture of unkindness, and our longing for community. Host: Gareth Johnson (www.gtv.blue) How To Date Men is presented by...

  19. Jonathan Berman - filmmaker

    In this episode, we’re joined by Jonathan Berman to talk about his documentary, Commune - re-released to mark the 20th anniversary of the film. We talk counter-culture, challenging gender roles, and history repeating, Host: Gareth Johnson (www.gtv.blue) How To Date Men is presented by Gaydar.net…

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  20. Trevor - Love Daddy

    In this episode we’re joined by Trevor from Love Daddy - a relationship and love coach for queer men. We talk peer pressure, the importance of confidence, and the power of future focused dating. Host: Gareth Johnson (www.gtv.blue) How To Date Men is presented by Gaydar.net - the online dating...

  21. Duncan Craig - We Are Survivors

    In this episode we're joined by Duncan Craig - chief executive officer of We Are Survivors. Based in Greater Manchester, We Are Survivors is a survivor-focused voluntary sector organisation that aims to create and facilitate safe spaces for male survivors of sexual abuse, rape and sexual...

  22. Anthony Schatteman - Young Hearts

    In this episode we’re joined by Anthony Schatteman - the writer and director of the film, Young Hearts. We talk coming-of-age, searching for innocence, and why queer kids need fairy-tale princes. Host: Gareth Johnson (www.gtv.blue) How To Date Men is presented by Gaydar.net - the online dating...

  23. Paulus the Cabaret Geek - Looking for Me Friend

    In this episode we’re joined by Paulus the Cabaret Geek - returning to the stage with his show Looking for Me Friend: The Music of Victoria Wood. We talk favourite characters, growing up in the 80s, and our need for nostalgia. Host: Gareth Johnson (www.gtv.blue) How To Date Men is presented by...

  24. Kuan-wen Huang - Andrews Are The Worst

    In this episode we’re joined by Kuan-wen Huang who is taking his show - “Andrews Are The Worst” - to the Edinburgh Fringe. We talk red flags, inter-racial couples, and the patron saint of Scotland. Host: Gareth Johnson (www.gtv.blue) How To Date Men is presented by Gaydar.net - the online dating...

  25. Simon Haines - actor and filmmaker

    In this episode we're joined by actor and filmmaker, Simon Haines. We talk Tolkien rabbit-holes, the power of representation, and his insights into the profession of acting. Host: Gareth Johnson (www.gtv.blue) How To Date Men is presented by Gaydar.net - the online dating specialists that have…

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  26. Allegra Rosenberg - the Terra Nova expedition

    In this episode we're joined by Allegra Rosenberg, bringing a queer perspective to the exploration of the Antarctic through her research on the diary of Harry Pennell of the Terra Nova expedition. We talk adventure, bromances, and the complexities of Edwardian sexuality Host: Gareth Johnson...

  27. Eli Matthewson - Night Terror

    In this episode we’re joined by Eli Matthewson who is taking his show - “Night Terror” - to the Edinburgh Fringe. We talk long-term relationships, navigating anxiety, and negotiating who sleeps on which side of the bed. Host: Gareth Johnson (www.gtv.blue) How To Date Men is presented by…

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  28. Divina De Campo - The Diana Mixtape

    In this episode we're joined by Divina De Campo for a behind-the-scenes look at the upcoming show, The Diana Mixtape. We talk witches, Boudicca, and how to find intimacy in this crazy mixed up world we live in. Host: Gareth Johnson (www.gtv.blue) How To Date Men is presented by Gaydar.net - the...

  29. Will Owen - Looking Fab at Fifty

    In this episode we’re joined by Will Owen who is taking his show - “Looking Fab at Fifty” - to the Edinburgh Fringe. We talk Loose Women, navigating heteronormativity, and the allure of Love Island. Host: Gareth Johnson (www.gtv.blue) How To Date Men is presented by Gaydar.net - the online dating...

  30. Danny Becker - Operation Mincemeat

    Currently starring in Operation Mincemeat, we caught up with Danny Becker for a behind-the-scenes look at one of the biggest shows in London's West End. In the conversation we talk pre-show rituals, inspiring women, and why Mr Men have a lot to answer for. Host: Gareth Johnson (www.gtv.blue) How…

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  31. Sam Shahid - Hidden Master: The Legacy of George Platt Lynes

    In this episode we’re joined by Sam Shahid, director of the documentary, Hidden Master - The Legacy of George Platt Lynes. We talk falling in love, the vanity of beauty, and why Kinsey wanted photos of naked men. Host: Gareth Johnson (www.gtv.blue) How To Date Men is presented by Gaydar.net - the...

  32. Conor Murray - Don’t Tell Dad About Diana.

    In this episode we're joined by Conor Murray who is taking their show - Don’t Tell Dad About Diana - to the Edinburgh Fringe Festival. We talk growing up in Dublin, watermelon ice vapes, and the power of friendship. Host: Gareth Johnson (www.gtv.blue) How To Date Men is presented by Gaydar.net -...

  33. Alexis Sakellaris - A Stan Is Born

    In this episode we're joined by Alexis Sakellaris who is taking their show - A Stan Is Born - to the Edinburgh Fringe Festival. We talk Beyoncé in Paris, the doors opened by Soho Theatre, and why his heart will always go on for Celine Dion. Host: Gareth Johnson (www.gtv.blue) How To Date Men is...

  34. David John Phillips - “Oh! I Miss the War.”

    In this episode we’re joined by David John Phillips. His solo show - “Oh! I Miss the War” is part of the programme at the upcoming Toronto Fringe Festival. We talk monologues, accents, and the lost language of Polari. Host: Gareth Johnson Twitter: @gtvlondon How To Date Men is presented by...

  35. Emiliano Pena - How we eat

    In this episode we’re joined by Emiliano Pena - a dietician based in London. We talk diet, nutrition, and the power of eating together. Host: Gareth Johnson Twitter: @gtvlondon How To Date Men is presented by Gaydar.net - the online dating specialists that have been helping men come together for...

  36. Paul McGill - director of Midnight at the Palace

    In this episode we’re joined by Paul McGill - director of Midnight at the Palace, a musical that he’s taking to Edinburgh Fringe. We talk about the enduring cultural relevance of The Cockettes, casting unicorns, and how drag bans in the US have shaped the development of this production. Host:...

  37. Thomas Currie - Basically Nocturnal

    In this episode we’re joined by Thomas Currie - the creator of Basically Nocturnal, a show that he’s taking to the Edinburgh Fringe. We talk late night storytelling, insomniac remixes, and the raw-dogging Scotland. Host: Gareth Johnson Twitter: @gtvlondon How To Date Men is presented by…

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  38. Ryan Stewart - KINDER

    On this episode we're joined by Ryan Stewart - the creator of KINDER, a show that he’s taking to the Edinburgh Fringe. We talk drag story-time, navigating childhood, and the power of living by your own rules. Host: Gareth Johnson Twitter: @gtvlondon How To Date Men is presented by Gaydar.net…

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  39. Tom Goss - Bear Soup

    In this episode we’re joined by Tom Goss. Based in Los Angeles, Tom is a singer-songwriter - his latest single is Bear Soup. We talk twerking, beauty standards, and the sex-appeal of marmalade. Host: Gareth Johnson Twitter: @gtvlondon How To Date Men is presented by Gaydar.net - the online dating...

  40. Hugo Mega - deconstructing masculinity

    In this episode, we're joined by Hugo Mega - a transformative coach and the co-founder of Liminal, a project that focuses on deconstructing masculinity and holding men accountable. In the conversation, we talk virility, toxicity, and why the manosphere is having a moment. Host: Gareth Johnson...

  41. Sam Danson - BI-TOPIA

    In this episode we're joined by Sam Danson who is presenting his work BI-TOPIA at Seven Dials Playhouse in London as part of the theatre’s Pride season. We talk mental health, visibility, and finding the comedy in bisexuality. Host: Gareth Johnson Twitter: @gtvlondon How To Date Men is presented…

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  42. Adam Zane and David Paisley - Jock Night

    In this episode of How To Date Men we’re joined by Adam Zane and David Paisley from Jock Night - returning to Seven Dials Playhouse in London for Pride season. We talk cast changes, searching for intimacy, and the power of getting your clothes off on stage. Host: Gareth Johnson Twitter…

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  43. Sister Roma opens the Grabby Awards Europe

    A quick interview with the iconic Sister Roma as the men of the adult entertainment industry gather in Torremolinos for the Grabby Awards Europe. Host: Gareth Johnson Twitter: @gtvlondon How To Date Men is presented by Gaydar.net - the online dating specialists that have been helping men come...

  44. Devon Michael Sedrick - You Suck

    In this episode we’re joined by Devon Michael Sedrick - his latest single is “You Suck”. We talk breakups, toxic workplaces, and the importance of reclaiming control. Host: Gareth Johnson Twitter: @gtvlondon How To Date Men is presented by Gaydar.net - the online dating specialists that have been...

  45. Armand Botha - The Gay Men's Connection Group

    In this episode we're joined by Armand Botha, whose focus is on empowering gay men through therapy. We talk barriers to intimacy, navigating vulnerability, and making authentic connections. Host: Gareth Johnson Twitter: @gtvlondon How To Date Men is presented by Gaydar.net - the online dating...

  46. Nick Stracener - DJ

    In this episode we're joined by Nick Stracener - one of the DJs featured at Ultra Load: The Gay Village which is part of the EDC weekend in Las Vegas. We talk travel, pool parties, and why the men in Vegas are always up for a good time. Host: Gareth Johnson Twitter: @gtvlondon How To Date Men is...

  47. Edwin Buckley - People of Prominence

    In this episode, we’re joined by Edwin Buckley. Edwin is the founder of People of Prominence - a PR and talent management agency elevating queer voices. We talk visibility, representation and the how to find your audience. Host: Gareth Johnson Twitter: @gtvlondon How To Date Men is presented by...

  48. James Barr - UK standup tour

    In this episode we’re joined by James Barr - he’s about to start a UK tour of his standup show, Sorry I Hurt Your Son (Said My Ex to My Mum). We talk trauma, healing through humour, and why audiences love dick jokes. Host: Gareth Johnson Twitter: @gtvlondon How To Date Men is presented by...

  49. Gary Albert - Pleasure Medicine

    In this episode we're joined by Gary Albert - the creator of Pleasure Medicine, a community-led response designed to tackle the loneliness and sense of disconnection that many queer men are grappling with. We talk primal community, sensual versus sexual, and the power of dance. Host: Gareth…

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  50. Ben Fensome - BUFF

    In this episode we’re joined by Ben Fensome - the writer of the play BUFF which will be touring the UK from April. We talk representation, vulnerability, and the challenges of navigating online dating apps. Host: Gareth Johnson Twitter: @gtvlondon How To Date Men is presented by Gaydar.net - the...

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A podcast exploring the world of dating, relationships, hook-ups, and intimacy.

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Gareth Johnson

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