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How To Not Marry A Jerk

Nate & Rachel Swanson, of New City Church, lead a counterculture conversation about preparing for and embracing God’s best version of your future marriage. Although quite intentional and insightful, the chat often wanders into humorous and ridiculous moments, just enough to maintain the attention of those leading it. Listen for every hint of love, because it kinda gets intense!

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    15 SEASON FINALE

    This episode might be proof that we should have ended earlier! Ok there are probably some good things worth hearing - but there is also a lot of rambling and some very pathetic improvised fake outtakes. That was the low point. But here’s to Season 2! Thanks for listening! We’re praying for you!

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    14 IT’S ABOUT TIME

    Timing is everything! When should you start dating? What about getting engaged? And is there any guidance for setting the wedding date? We dive into all of that in this episode and

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    13 WATCH YOUR STEP!

    Nothing will threaten a good relationship more than than the temptation to get physical before marriage. In this episode we get specific about how to combat those temptations while dating so your relationship can stay healthy and godly.

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    12 THANKS FOR ASKING!

    We didn’t have time to answer all your questions last time so we’re back at it! Here are some we’ll be addressing in this episode: Should I be dating if I still struggle with porn? What’s an appropriate age to let my kids date? What’s the worst piece of advice you received when you were dating? What are some clues that a guy is a legitimate Christian and not just putting on a show? Send in more questions if you have them!

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    11 INSIDE OUT

    In episode four, we listed six values that make a difference in marriage, encouraging you to become (and not merely search for) the person who possesses them. In this episode we conclude our examination of those six values. Listen in and learn more about how vital it is for you to live with personal integrity and transparency. It matters for your present life as well as your future marriage, and we will give you practical coaching if this value is still developing in your life.

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    10 WHY CHURCH MATTERS

    In episode four, we listed six values that make a difference in marriage, encouraging you to become (and not merely search for) the person who possesses them. In this episode we are continuing our examination of those six values, describing in greater detail why our committed connection with a local church family is relevant for marriage, as well as offering practical guidance for those who aren’t currently living out this value.

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    09 SISTERS, BROTHERS, AND BOSSES

    In episode four, we listed six values that make a difference in marriage, encouraging you to become (and not merely search for) the person who possesses them. In this episode we begin taking a closer look at each of those six values, describing two more of those values in greater detail. Listen in and learn more about why your peer relationships, and your attitude toward figures of authority in your life, really matter. As usual we’ll offer practical guidance for those who haven’t yet developed these values.

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    08 YOU ASKED FOR IT

    It’s a Q&A episode! Among others, here are some questions we tackle in this episode: Is flirting to convert wrong? What if my family doesn't like my boyfriend? If I’m dating a jerk, how can I dump him in a healthy way? Do I tell my girlfriend about my raunchy past? And how? Listen in and let us know what else you’re wondering!

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    07 BETTER RICHES ARE WAITING

    In episode four, we listed six values that make a difference in marriage, encouraging you to become (and not merely search for) the person who possesses them. In this episode we continue taking a closer look at each of those six values, describing in greater detail why good financial stewardship is relevant for marriage, as well as offering practical guidance for those who struggle in this arena.

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    06 RESIST THE URGE TO JUST BANG ON YOUR DRUM ALL DAY

    In episode four, we listed six values that make a difference in marriage, encouraging you to become (and not merely search for) the person who possesses them. In this episode we begin taking a closer look at each of those six values, describing in greater detail why a strong work ethic is relevant for marriage, as well as offering practical guidance for those who struggle in this arena.Check out this sermon series!A Little Bit Of Wisdom Goes A Long Way

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    05 A NEW DEFINITION FOR “DATING”

    In our last episode, we scratched the surface about “who” you should marry. Now we’re taking to a super quick stab (to be deepened later) about “how” to go about it. Yes, we’re talking about dating. And what is dating exactly? We’ll try to convince you of a new way to approach it – because it will save you a ton of heartache. And, no, we’re not just talking about a new word for the same idea. It’s about your motivations more than your vocabulary. We’ve said too much already. Maybe just listen to the episode.

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    04 FINALLY STARTING TO TALK ABOUT WHO YOU SHOULD BE LOOKING FOR

    This episode might lose some of you. We'll give the quick rundown of several traits that your "non-jerk" love interest might possess. We'll later go into more detail for each trait but this will give you an idea of how we approach the overall subject. Spoiler alert: there's a twist at the end of the episode.

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    03 RECIPE FOR DISASTER (NATE’S MOLE)

    Baking a cake and finding a spouse don’t have much in common – but there are some similarities. We’ll discuss the parallels and talk about Nate’s nose in the process. It will make more sense by the end of the episode. We hope. The Swansons are joined by Aaron & Megan Sybrant.

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    02 GOD’S ULTIMATE DESIRE FOR MARRIAGE

    What is marriage? Is a wedding necessary? A ring? A celebration? We’ll take a look at the Biblical description of marriage and how it stands alone among all other relationships. We’ll also give you some practical pointers for your wedding day - as well as some wedding fails - that part was unexpected! The Swansons are joined by Aaron & Megan Sybrant.

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    01 EENIE, MEENIE, MINEY, MO (FOUR WAYS THIS CAN GO)

    This is a vital topic because so much is at stake. Depending on your frame of mind, your past track record, and the condition of your heart, you will hear things in this discussion that will either bother you or really encourage you. All that we share will be from a motivation to help you – sharing truth to the best of our ability, but it might not always feel that way. The Swansons are joined by Aaron & Megan Sybrant.

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ABOUT THIS SHOW

Nate & Rachel Swanson, of New City Church, lead a counterculture conversation about preparing for and embracing God’s best version of your future marriage. Although quite intentional and insightful, the chat often wanders into humorous and ridiculous moments, just enough to maintain the attention of those leading it. Listen for every hint of love, because it kinda gets intense!

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New City Church

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