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How We're Doing It
by How We're Doing It | Yazmin & Tijani Musa
Children of immigrants often arrive in the U.S. without their consent, embarking on a journey shaped by their parents' pursuit of the American Dream, often at great risk and without guarantees. How We’re Doing It is the #1 podcast for first-generation immigrants, guiding their path to success and serving as a beacon on the journey to achieving the American Dream.
Episodes
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What Happened to the Musas? Listen to find Out!
Friends of the How Were Doing It podcast have been reaching out to the Musas because it has been quite some time since the Musas released a new episode. Because of the genuine concern from friends of the podcast, the Musas decided to record a quick life update as to what has been going on since…
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529 College Savings Plan Made Easy To Understand
Planning for college? In this episode of How We're Doing It, first-gen parents Tijani and Yazmin break down 529 plans, explaining tax benefits, savings options, and strategies for maximizing education funds. Get clear, practical advice to secure your child’s future! Previous Question: Can U.S...
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Millennials vs. Gen Z: Navigating Technology, Family, and Responsibility
In this episode, Tijani and Yazmin are joined by Yazmin's sister, Yeni, an army sergeant, to explore the generational differences between Millennials and Gen Z. Together, they dive into how technology shapes the younger generation’s approach to convenience, responsibility, and family dynamics,...
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Therapy Saved My Life - A Soldier's Story with Sgt. Yeni Dzib
In this powerful episode, Tijani and Yazmin discuss the importance of therapy and mental health, inviting Yazmin's sister, Sergeant Yeni Dzib, to share her courageous journey. From the challenges of military life to personal struggles, Dzib opens up about her experiences with therapy, the…
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What To Know About The Second Trimester Of Pregnancy
In this episode, Tijani and Yazmin share their candid second trimester updates, diving into the emotional and physical changes experienced during this unique phase of pregnancy. Whether you're an expecting parent or simply curious about the ups and downs of pregnancy, this episode provides an...
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Single Mom's Guide to Crushing Debt With Army Sgt. Yeni Dzib
In this episode, Tijani and Yazmin sit down with a special guest, Yazmin's sister, Yeni, to discuss her journey towards financial freedom. Yeni, a single mom and army sergeant, shares her candid experiences of living a carefree financial life, accumulating debt, and the pivotal moment that made…
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How Premarital Counseling Could Change Your Marriage
Whether you're considering premarital counseling, are newly married, or simply curious about how to strengthen your relationship, this episode offers valuable insights and practical advice. Yazmin and Tijani's honest and heartfelt discussion underscores the benefits of investing in your...
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Money Dates: Strengthen Your Relationship Through Budgeting
In this episode, Tijani and Yazmin invite listeners into their home for an in-depth "money date," a candid conversation about their finances. They break down their budgeting process, sharing insights on how they manage their income, spending, and financial goals. From the importance of having…
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When Prayers Aren't Answered the Way We Expect
In this episode, Tijani and Yazmin explore the profound topic of trusting in God's plan, even when things don't go as expected. They share personal stories of how they prayed for specific outcomes and faced unexpected challenges, only to realize later that God's plan was indeed the best plan for...
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Saliva, Carpal Tunnel, and Puffy Gums: Pregnancy's Hidden Symptoms
In this episode, Tijani and Yazmin dive into the lesser-known and unexpected symptoms of pregnancy. From the discomfort of carpal tunnel syndrome to the surprising issue of excess saliva, they share personal experiences and practical advice for managing these unexpected challenges. Yazmin opens…
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Old Wives Tales: Fact or Fiction?
In this episode, Tijani and Yazmin went into the fascinating world of old wives' tales, particularly those predicting the gender of an unborn baby. They share their personal experiences and cultural insights, discussing various symptoms and methods said to indicate whether you're having a boy or…
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Sour Patch Toddlers Tantrums
In this episode, Tijani and Yazmin discuss the perplexing world of toddler behavior, especially when a new sibling is on the way. They explore whether their daughter's sudden tantrums and aggressive outbursts are a result of her age or a reaction to Yazmin's pregnancy. Sharing personal anecdotes...
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Prom, FAFSA, and Graduation: A First Gen Immigrant Student's Guide
Tijani and Yazmin traveled back in time to reveal essential tips and survival etiquettes for first-generation kids navigating through different stages of life. From high school challenges like prom and graduation to college life and beyond, they share invaluable advice to help first-gen students...
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Traveling With A Baby? Here's What You Need To Know
In this episode, Tijani and Yazmin share their personal experiences and practical tips on traveling with a baby. From planning the first flight to dealing with unexpected challenges, they cover everything you need to know to make your journey smoother. Whether it's packing essentials…
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First Trimester Challenges And What To Expect
Tijani and Yazmin discusses the challenges and experiences of the first trimester of their second pregnancy. They discuss the emotional and physical hurdles, including persistent nausea, unexpected bleeding, and the importance of having a support system. They also touch on the differences between...
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How You Set Boundaries With Family With Guest Army Sgt. Yeni Dzib
In this engaging episode of 'How We're Doing It,' Tijani and Yazmin dive into the crucial topic of setting boundaries with family. They share personal anecdotes, including a memorable instance where they had to refuse a request to buy alcohol due to their religious beliefs. With their special...
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Essential Questions for a Serious Relationship
Tijani and Yazmin introduce their first product: an ebook designed to help couples navigate essential conversations. They discuss the importance of premarital counseling and share their journey of compiling questions that have strengthened their relationship over five years of marriage. These...
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Ways That Having Children Can Change Your Marriage
In this heartfelt episode of 'How We're Doing It,' Tijani and Yazmin discuss how having children has transformed their marriage. They share candid experiences of navigating parenthood's challenges, including stress, exhaustion, and sleep deprivation, and emphasize the importance of mutual support...
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Joint vs. Separate Bank Accounts: Finding What Works for You
In this episode of 'How We're Doing It,' Tijani and Yazmin delve into the pros and cons of joint versus separate bank accounts. They share their journey, discussing how different financial strategies impact relationships, from fostering transparency to maintaining autonomy. Tune in for valuable...
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First-Time Homebuyer Tips: Lessons We Learned the Hard Way
In this insightful episode of 'How We're Doing It,' Tijani and Yazmin reflect on their first year of homeownership as first-generation immigrants, sharing lessons learned from maintaining a new build home to navigating homeowners insurance and HOA regulations. They offer practical advice on...
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Avoid Forcing Your Kids on Unloving Relatives
Tijani and Yazmin dive into the emotional journey of navigating genuine care for their daughter, from friends and family. They discuss setting boundaries, showing empathy, and teaching independence while highlighting the importance of genuine connections. And how they avoid forcing their child on...
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A Big Surprise Announcement: Leo’s Predictions
In this heartfelt and joyous episode of 'How We're Doing It,' Tijani and Yazmin share the exciting news that they are expecting their second child! The Musas take us through the emotional journey of discovering their pregnancy, from the early symptoms to the creative way Yazmin revealed the news…
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Budgeting and Debt Management While Supporting Family
In this eye-opening episode of 'How We're Doing It,' Tijani and Yazmin discuss the significant money lessons they've learned through personal experiences and the challenges they've faced as first-generation immigrants. From navigating hefty medical bills to the pitfalls of co-signing loans, the...
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Tiny Toilets, Big Steps: Conquering Potty Training Toddler
Are you ready to tackle the potty training challenge? Join Tijani and Yazmin in this relatable and insightful episode of 'How We're Doing It' as they share their experience transitioning their two-year-old daughter from diapers to potty independence. Discover the signs that your toddler might be...
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Onesies and Outfits: Packing Your Hospital Bag Checklist
Embarking on the journey of parenthood? Dive into today’s episode of ‘How We’re Doing It’ where hosts Tijani and Yazmin share their personal experiences and practical tips for packing the essential hospital bag. From choosing the right onesie size for your newborn to ensuring mom and dad have...
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A Journey of Resilience From War-Torn Sierra Leone
Tijani shares his harrowing journey from Sierra Leone to the United States, highlighting survival, resilience, and triumph. Despite facing homelessness and financial struggles, Tijani overcame obstacles with determination and mentorship, achieving academic and financial success. His story…
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From Veracruz to Virginia: Yazmin's Immigrant Story of Courage and Cultural Pride
In a candid conversation, Yazmin recounts her childhood in Veracruz, Mexico, her family's humble beginnings, and the poignant moment of crossing the border to reunite with her father in pursuit of the American Dream. She shares the challenges of assimilating into a new culture, the struggle with...
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First-gen Immigrants & Life Insurance
Discover the importance of life insurance with Tijani and Yazmin Musa as they explore this critical safety net for families. In this episode, they discuss the cultural taboos, financial implications, and the peace of mind that comes with being insured. Their conversation is a mix of valuable...
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How To Come Up With Your Core Family Values
In this engaging episode, we shared tips on how you can create your own family's core values. We do so by offering insights into navigating life as first-generation college graduates and parents. We discussed the importance of service and community engagement, the role of faith in our daily…
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Valuing Time with Loved Ones at Every Stage
In this enlightening episode of How We're Doing It, hosts Tijani and Yazmin got into the ever-changing dynamics of our relationships throughout life. They explored a series of thought-provoking data points that reveal how the time we spend with family, friends, coworkers, partners, children, and...
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From Donor Milk to Pumping Queen
In this heartfelt and empowering episode of How We're Doing It, Tijani and Yazmin Musa share their intimate journey through the challenges and triumphs of exclusive pumping. Yazmin opens up about her unexpected path to becoming the "thick, mean milk making machine," a title she wore with pride as...
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Audience Appreciation: How We're Doing It, Together
In this engaging episode of How We're Doing It, hosts Tijani and Yazmin extend a warm thank you to their listeners for the incredible support since the show's inception in August of 2023. They discuss the importance of audience interaction and how it fuels their passion for podcasting. The duo...
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Embracing Postpartum: Rejecting the Bounce Back Myth
In this candid episode, we tackle the pervasive and often damaging "bounce back culture" that pressures new moms to rapidly return to their pre-pregnancy bodies. Tijani and Yazmin share personal anecdotes and the emotional toll such expectations can have. They dissect the double standards between...
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Exclusive Pumping Basics: Tips for New Moms
In this informative episode, we explored into essential breastfeeding tips and techniques. Yazmin starts by dispelling the myth that breast size affects milk production, emphasizing that successful breastfeeding is more about technique and commitment. She highlights the importance of skin-to-skin...
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From Labor Delivery to Love: Our Birth Story
In this episode, we explore Yazmin's emotional labor and delivery journey, navigating the challenges of Cholestasis of Pregnancy and the decision for a C-section. Yazmin shares her unexpected experiences and emphasizes the need for support and validation in the journey of becoming a new parent.…
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Love, Debt, and Dreams: Our Story
In this engaging episode, we delve into the journey of Tijani and Yazmin as a married couple with a two-year-old daughter, exploring their growth together. Starting with their college days, where Yazmin found Tijani loud and obnoxious, attributing it to his extroverted nature, while Tijani…
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Breaking Barriers: Men, Women, and Success
In this episode, we delve into a thought-provoking discussion: "Are men intimidated by successful women?" We explore how cultural norms and upbringing contribute to this dynamic, as men may feel challenged by women who excel. Rather than viewing successful women as competition, we advocate for...
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How to Live Peacefully with In-Laws
In this episode, we delve into the art of harmonious cohabitation with your in-laws. Our decision to live with them stemmed from a desire to save money during Tijani's schooling. Key tips include setting clear boundaries, effective communication, timely rent payments, mutual respect, conflict...
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Parenting with Screen Time, Family Time, and Partner Support
In this episode of the How We're Doing It podcast, we dive into effective parenting strategies for the digital age as a First-Generation Immigrant parents. We explore the importance of experiential learning in parenting and how it shapes our understanding of parenthood. From adapting to your...
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Challenges You’ll Face When Moving To A New State
Embark on our latest episode as we delve into the daunting challenges of relocating from one state to another. From navigating the logistics of renting moving trucks to deciding on shipping belongings or opting for a road trip, we cover the spectrum. Tune in for insights on managing moving...
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How to Prepare for Your First Pregnancy (What to Expect)
In this captivating episode of the How We're Doing It podcast, we openly share our personal pregnancy journey. Delving into the concerns that often occupy the minds of first-time parents, we touch upon pivotal moments, from the initial nerve-wracking appointments at 8 or 9 weeks to verify the...
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How To Prepare Bringing A Newborn Home As New Parents.
Get ready for the newest addition to your family with our latest episode! We're sharing essential tips on bringing a newborn home, covering everything from pediatric visits and lactation consultants to baby formula and crib safety. Tune in for our take on creating a cozy and safe environment for...
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Conversation On Marriage And Pre-Marital Counseling
Embarking on the journey to forever? Listen to our latest episode where we dive deep into the crucial topics to discuss with your potential fiancé – from pre-marital counseling to finances, kids, generational traumas, and beyond! Get ready for a thoughtful exploration that sets the foundation for…
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Living Consumer Debt-Free (Update to Debt-Free Journey)
Join us on “How We’re Doing It” Podcast as we dive into our latest story, "Living Consumer Debt-Free” Discover easy strategies for financial freedom. Budgeting tips Define large purchases Eliminating unnecessary expenses Delay instant gratification Limit buyer's remorse Savor moments with loved...
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Being The First In Your Circle To Have A Baby. Help!
Join us on the "How We're Doing It" Podcast as we explore valuable tips on supporting friends entering parenthood! Learn practical ways to lend emotional support, provide assistance with errands, offer babysitting help, thoughtful gifts, and be a compassionate listener. Tune in for insightful...
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Conceiving; Embarking On The Journey To Parenthood
Join us on the How We're Doing It podcast as we delve into the profound journey of parenthood, conceiving! Discover insightful tips and the essential 'Do's for first-time parents aiming to conceive. Tune in to explore our personal experiences and gain valuable insights into the path of…
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How We Conquered $34,917.40 in Debt in Just 8 Months (Debt-Free Journey)
Join us on the How We're Doing It Podcast as we share our empowering journey towards financial freedom! Discover our strategies, including Dave Ramsey's Baby Steps, that helped us become debt-free and build a solid financial foundation. From creating an emergency fund to paying off debts and...
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Introduction; Meet The Hosts of How We're Doing It Podcast
Welcome to "How We're Doing It" Podcast! Meet our hosts from Veracruz, Mexico, and Sierra Leone, West Africa. Join us in our debut episode as we share our proud, multi-ethnic, and inclusive journey, celebrating diversity and cultural richness. #FamilyPodcast #ImmigrantStory #CulturalDiversity…
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Do THESE! Before Moving to a new State
Join us on the "How We're Doing It" Podcast as we delve into our cross-country move from Virginia to Dallas, Texas! Discover essential tips and steps to ease your decision-making process for a successful relocation. From researching your new area to committing to the move, we've got you covered....
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ABOUT THIS SHOW
Children of immigrants often arrive in the U.S. without their consent, embarking on a journey shaped by their parents' pursuit of the American Dream, often at great risk and without guarantees. How We’re Doing It is the #1 podcast for first-generation immigrants, guiding their path to success and serving as a beacon on the journey to achieving the American Dream.
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How We're Doing It | Yazmin & Tijani Musa
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