HS Brotherhood

In this powerful season finale of HS Brotherhood, hosts Parish and Joey sit down for one of their most honest conversations yet—opening up about how they each found their way into advocacy, what pushed them to share their HS stories publicly, and how their friendship has become a defining force in their lives and in the men’s HS community. Brotherhood AdvocacyTogether, they reflect on the moments that changed everything: • Joey battling fear and stigma before finally hitting “publish” on his first HS video • Parish uses music to cope with pain, then discovers the impact of telling his story • The burnout, the breakthroughs, and the unexpected opportunities that followed • The first time they met in person—and how that moment cemented the future of the Brotherhood • The responsibility and reality of being male advocates in a space where men are rarely visibleThis episode is full of gratitude, brotherhood, vulnerability, and real talk about what it means to carry this condition while trying to help others do the same. They give each other their flowers, honor how far they’ve come, and talk frankly about the emotional and physical weight of advocacy—reminding listeners that even patient leaders are still patients.If you’ve ever felt alone, misunderstood, or unsure where your story fits, this episode will remind you that your voice matters—and you don’t have to carry this alone.Explore HS resources, tools, and community support at hsconnect.org.This podcast was made possible by Moonlake. 

In this powerful and deeply honest episode of HS Brotherhood, hosts Parish and Joey sit down with Dr. Katelyn Baker for a conversation that every man needs to hear. Recorded during Men's Mental Health Awareness Month, this crossover-style episode dives into the emotional realities men face—especially those living with HS—around identity, relationships, vulnerability, and self-worth.The guys open up about the challenges of maintaining mental well-being, the pressure to “be strong,” and the lifelong habit many men develop of putting others first while silently struggling. With compassion and clarity, Dr. Katelyn helps them unpack patterns of overcompensation, masking, and losing yourself in relationships, reminding listeners that you don’t have to earn love through performance and that authenticity matters more than perfection.Together, they explore: • The emotional exhaustion of pretending to be “the strong one.” • Why many men feel unworthy of love—and how to challenge that belief • The fear of therapy and how to safely approach it • How partners and friends can support men without enabling codependency • The importance of reframing, emotional awareness, and slowing down • What it really means to be a “good man” when you're learning to prioritize yourselfThis episode is not just a conversation—it’s a mirror. Whether you’re navigating chronic illness, relationships, or your own mental health journey, this dialogue offers powerful reminders: you are worthy, you deserve support, and taking care of yourself does not make you any less of a man.For more HS resources, mental health tools, and community programs, visit hsconnect.org.This podcast was made possible by Moonlake. 

In this heartfelt and eye-opening episode of HS Brotherhood, hosts Parish and Joey dive deep into what true friendship — and true brotherhood — actually means when you’re living with HS. Using their own stories of losing friendships, gaining real ones, outgrowing old habits, and learning how to build healthier connections, they unpack the emotional reality many men with chronic illness silently navigate.Parish and Joey also share personal stories of the people who did show up — the ones who adapted, stayed, listened, and grew with them. They talk about building a new definition of brotherhood, one built not on drinking culture or shared distractions, but on vulnerability, honesty, and a mutual desire to become better men.This episode is a powerful reminder that losing friendships doesn’t mean you’ve failed — sometimes it means you’ve finally made room for the relationships you truly deserve.Find more support, education, and community for men with HS at hsconnect.org.This podcast was made possible by Moonlake. 

In this unfiltered episode of HS Brotherhood, hosts Parish and Joey dive into some of the biggest misconceptions, myths, and home remedies circulating in the HS community — especially those that impact men. From the false belief that HS is caused by weight, to the widespread (and damaging) idea that HS only affects women, the guys break down what the science actually says and share real-life experiences of living with HS as men.They also tackle home remedies head-on — the helpful, the questionable, and the downright wild. From hot compresses and meditation to onions, Vicks, garlic cloves, celery juice, and crushed ibuprofen “pastes,” nothing is off-limits. With honesty and humor, they discuss where these ideas come from, what can actually support healing, and why so many people in pain are drawn to “miracle cures.”This episode also includes a conversation about snake oil salesmen — those who prey on the HS community’s vulnerability and desperation by selling fake cures and unproven treatments. Parish and Joey explain how to spot red flags, protect your wallet, and make informed decisions about your health.Whether you're newly diagnosed or have been living with HS for years, this conversation offers clarity, validation, and a reminder that men with HS deserve representation, compassion, and real information.For trustworthy HS education, resources, and support, visit hsconnect.org.Medical DisclaimerThe information provided by HS Connect (“we,” “us,” or “our”) on this website HSConnect.org] (the “Website”) is for general informational purposes only. All content, including text, graphics, images, and information, is presented as an educational resource and is not intended as a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment.Please consult with a qualified healthcare provider before making any decisions or taking any action based on the information you find on this Website. Do not disregard, avoid, or delay obtaining medical or health-related advice from your healthcare provider because of something you have read on this Website.This Website does not recommend or endorse any specific tests, physicians, products, procedures, opinions, or other information that may be mentioned on this website. Reliance on any information provided on the Website, its content creators, or others appearing on the website is solely at your own risk.If you think you may have a medical emergency, call your doctor, go to the nearest emergency department, or call emergency services immediately. We are not responsible for any adverse effects resulting from your use of or reliance on any information or content on this Website.By using this Website, you acknowledge and agree to this disclaimer in full.This podcast was made possible by Moonlake. 

In Season 2, Episode 6 of HS Brotherhood, hosts Parish and Joey get real about what it means to be an HS warrior both in and out of the workforce. This honest, vulnerable, and deeply relatable conversation explores the challenges men face when trying to balance chronic illness, work responsibilities, financial pressures, and personal identity.Joey shares what it’s like to continue working full-time while managing unpredictable HS flares, the mental load of staying focused in a public safety role, and how supportive coworkers and accommodations have helped him keep going. Parish opens up about the emotional and financial reality of having to leave the workforce due to HS—and what it took to rebuild his confidence, rediscover purpose, and transition into advocacy.Together, they unpack: – The pressure men face to “push through” even when their bodies are struggling – Embarrassing moments, stigma, and the fear of being misunderstood at work – How to communicate with supervisors and advocate for accommodations – The mental health toll of lost income, isolation, and identity changes – The hope found in community, purpose, and reclaiming your storyThis episode is for every man who has ever felt torn between showing up for others and taking care of himself, and for anyone who wants to better understand the reality of HS in everyday life.🔗 Listen, share, and find community resources at: hsconnect.orgThis podcast was made possible by Moonlake. 

Parish and Joey join Brindley and Cyd for a deep, unfiltered conversation about what it means to be a man living with Hidradenitis Suppurativa. This crossover episode pulls back the curtain on the experiences most men carry silently—including the pressures of dating, showing up in relationships, managing health setbacks, and redefining what strength really looks like.Inside this conversation, they dive into: • The truth about dating with HS and deciding when to disclose • Intimacy struggles men rarely admit—including fear, shame, and ED • Losing independence and learning to accept help • Challenging the idea that “providing = masculinity” • Why the HS Brotherhood group matters—and how it’s creating a safe space for men to finally talk openlyIf you’ve ever felt isolated or like no one understands what you’re carrying, this episode is a reminder: you’re not alone, and your story matters.Learn more about HS Brotherhood and community resources at hsconnect.org.This podcast was made possible by Moonlake. 

Joey and Parish take listeners back to where it all started — the origins of The HS Brotherhood. From a simple idea sparked during an HS advocacy project to a thriving community of men supporting one another through honesty, humor, and healing, the brothers reflect on how this space came to life.They share the real story behind the vision — from Joey’s early dream of reaching men through barbershop talks to the creation of a safe, judgment-free community where men with Hidradenitis Suppurativa (HS) can speak openly about pain, resilience, and growth.This episode dives deep into:The birth of The Brotherhood and the passion behind its missionHow advocacy and mentorship transformed both hosts’ livesBreaking the stigma around men’s health and vulnerabilityWhat it means to lead with heart, honesty, and brotherhoodIt’s more than a conversation — it’s a look at how two advocates turned shared pain into purpose, creating a movement that’s helping men find strength in connection.🎧 Listen now, and join The Brotherhood at hsconnect.orgThis podcast was made possible by Moonlake. 

In this powerful episode of the HS Brotherhood, hosts Joey and Parish sit down with Barry from Ireland — a man whose decades-long journey with hidradenitis suppurativa (HS) reveals the pain, misdiagnoses, and perseverance it takes to find answers.Barry shares how he went nearly 20 years without a proper diagnosis, enduring countless surgeries and stigma, before discovering not only his condition but his purpose as an advocate. Together, they discuss resilience, the evolution of treatment, and how speaking out can inspire others still living in silence.For more resources, visit hsconnect.org  ✨ Thank you to Moonlake for sponsoring this season of the HS Brotherhood. This podcast was made possible by Moonlake. 

In Season 2, Episode 2 of The Brotherhood Podcast, hosts Parrish and Joey step into the kitchen with special guest Cristina, a nutritionist, chef, cookbook author, and HS warrior who brings her full story — and a full meal — to the table.This episode blends cooking, conversation, and real-world education as Cristina teaches the guys how to make a creamy, dairy-free, HS-friendly creamy crab chicken served over garlic cauliflower mash. Along the way, she breaks down the science of anti-inflammatory eating, digestive health, trigger foods, and how nutrition can be used as a powerful tool in managing HS flares.Cristina opens up about her own HS journey, diagnosed at just 13, navigating years of flares, postpartum challenges, and failed medications before discovering the role nutrition could play in healing. She shares how she went from struggling teen to professional chef, to now being in eight years of remission — all by understanding her body and building a personalized, sustainable nutrition lifestyle.The episode covers:• How to cook flavorful, anti-inflammatory meals without restriction• The truth about blood sugar regulation, metabolic issues, and HS• Intermittent fasting — how it affects men vs. women• Understanding digestion, hunger cues, and how stress impacts flares• Why food can make you tired, bloated, foggy… or energized• How to build a realistic, non-stressful nutritional plan• Healthy dessert ideas (yes, even a chocolate mug cake!)Cristina also shares practical strategies for:• Finding trigger foods• Balancing carbs with protein, fiber, and healthy fats• Supporting wound healing with nutrients like vitamin C, collagen, and zinc• Making nutrition a tool, not a punishmentThis episode is uplifting, educational, hilarious, and packed with actionable insight for HS warriors, caregivers, and anyone trying to understand how food and inflammation shape daily life.For more Hidradenitis Suppurativa resources visit: hsconnect.orgThis podcast was made possible by Moonlake. 

Welcome to Season 2, Episode 1 of HS Brotherhood! Your hosts Joey Torre and Parish Armstead are back and kicking off this season with a powerful conversation you won’t want to miss. This week, they’re joined by Stacey Haines, Patient Outreach and Social Media Manager at Rare Patient Voice — a company dedicated to empowering patients and caregivers from rare disease communities to make their voices heard. In this episode:Stacey opens up about her personal journey — from caregiver to patient-advocate — and how that experience shaped her work at Rare Patient Voice. She shares how Rare Patient Voice connects patients and caregivers with research opportunities (including paid surveys and interviews), helping bridge the gap between lived experience and medical development.This episode brings fresh perspective on giving voice to underserved communities. With Stacey’s lived perspective and Rare Patient Voice’s mission to uplift patient opinion in research, you’ll walk away with a deeper understanding of both the human side of rare disease and the strategic implications for ethical engagement.Connect & engage Check out Rare Patient Voice (https://rarepatientvoice.com) to learn more about how patients and caregivers can contribute to research and influence change.  Stay tuned for the rest of Season 2 of HS Brotherhood - subscribe so you get all the latest episodes. This podcast was made possible by Moonlake. 

🎙️ HS Brotherhood Podcast | Episode 7: Mario Otero’s Journey with Clinical TrialsJoin us for an inspiring conversation with Mario Otero (follow him on TikTok @motero8111 or Instagram @bama_mario) as he shares his courageous journey participating in clinical trials for Hidradenitis Suppurativa (HS). In this powerful episode, Mario opens up about the challenges, breakthroughs, and hope he found while contributing to advancements in HS treatment. As an advocate and warrior, Mario’s story sheds light on the importance of clinical trials in shaping the future of HS care. From navigating uncertainties to finding empowerment through advocacy, his experience is a testament to resilience and community strength. Tune in to hear how Mario is paving the way for others in the HS Brotherhood and beyond. Your journey matters, and so does your voice. 💪 🔗 Listen now on your favorite podcast platform.For clinical trial resources, visit hsconnect.org/clinical-trials/✨ Follow Mario for more of his story: TikTok | InstagramThis podcast was made possible by Moonlake. 

Hey fam! 💪 This episode is for anyone who’s ever side-eyed a treadmill or panicked about gym flares. Joey and Parish get REAL about their fitness journeys with HS. For HS-friendly exercises, check out HS Connect's Healing Space at hsconnect.org/healingspace. This podcast was made possible by Moonlake. 

In this deeply personal and empowering episode of The Brotherhood Podcast, Joey and Parish sit down for a candid, unfiltered conversation about body positivity, self-acceptance, and the lifelong journey of redefining their self-image. This podcast was made possible by Moonlake. 

In this compelling episode of The Brotherhood Podcast, hosts Joey and Parish dive deep into a topic close to their hearts—fatherhood. Join us as they candidly discuss how living with Hidradenitis Suppurativa (HS) has shaped their perspectives on becoming fathers and raising children.Subscribe to stay updated on upcoming episodes exploring various aspects of life, brotherhood, and living with HS.This podcast was made possible by Moonlake. 

In this raw and deeply personal episode, Joey and Parish peel back the layers of living with Hidradenitis Suppurativa (HS) to confront the silent battle so many warriors face: mental health. From the isolation of flare-ups to the crushing weight of stigma, they share their own journeys through depression, anxiety, and moments when hope felt out of reach. Trigger Warning: This episode contains candid discussions about mental health struggles, including mentions of suicidal ideation. Listener discretion is advised. You are not alone. Your story matters. Keep fighting.This podcast was made possible by Moonlake. 

Join hosts Joey Torre and Parish Armstead for a raw, unfiltered conversation about navigating life with Hidradenitis Suppurativa (HS) as men in a world that often misunderstands chronic illness. In this deeply personal episode, Parish opens up about: The early struggles of getting diagnosed and feeling isolated. Breaking the stigma of HS in male communities. How he transformed frustration into advocacy—and what keeps him fighting.💬 Join the Brotherhood:Have a question or story about living with HS as a man? Drop it in the comments—we’re all in this together. 💪 👇 RESOURCES & LINKS🔗 Follow Parish’s advocacy journey: @hsopenwounds🔗 Follow Joey's advocacy journey: @joeytorre718🔗 HS Brotherhood Support Group: https://zoom.us/meeting/register/d1fgOjAoTGOmmJDu9J9J8g#/registration🔗 HSConnect.org/healingspace: Free resources for HS warriorsThis podcast was made possible by Moonlake. 

In the premiere episode of the Brotherhood Podcast, Parish and Joey dive deep into Joey's inspiring journey living with Hidradenitis Suppurativa. Joey opens up about his personal experiences and the challenges he's faced. From navigating the complexities of daily life to seeking support from family and friends, Joey’s candid storytelling highlights the emotional and physical aspects of living with this chronic condition. Follow on your favorite podcast platform so you don’t miss the latest episode. This podcast was made possible by Moonlake.