兩個老公的文化課｜Husbands Abroad

結婚看似一樣，但其實完全不一樣。 在台灣，禮金、流程、習俗幾乎都有一套「既定規則」， 但在羅馬尼亞，婚禮可能是另一種完全不同的體驗。 這一集，我們從雙方的親身經歷出發， 聊聊台灣與羅馬尼亞在婚禮文化上的差異—— 從紅包文化、儀式流程，到賓客互動與整體氛圍。 到底哪一種比較合理？ 還是其實，每一種文化都有它存在的理由？ 如果你正準備結婚，或正在跨國關係中， 這一集你一定會很有感。 Weddings may seem similar on the surface — but in reality, they can be completely different. In Taiwan, weddings often follow a structured set of traditions, from gift money customs to detailed rituals. In Romania, however, weddings can feel like a totally different experience. In this episode, we share our personal experiences and explore the cultural differences between Taiwanese and Romanian weddings — from red envelope traditions and ceremony flow, to guest interactions and overall atmosphere. Which one makes more sense? Or does every culture have its own reason and meaning? If you're planning a wedding or in an international relationship, this episode will definitely resonate with you.

你以為婚紗照是結婚的標配嗎？ 對台灣人來說，婚紗不只是照片，而是一種儀式。 但當我把婚紗照給來自歐洲的兄弟看時，他的反應只有一個字：震驚。 這一集我們聊聊台灣為什麼流行「先拍婚紗」，以及在歐洲為什麼幾乎沒有這個文化。從婚禮準備、價值觀，到「這到底是不是必要的？」帶你看見兩種文化對愛與婚姻的不同想像。 Do you think pre-wedding photos are a must before getting married? In Taiwan, they’re more than just pictures — they’re a tradition, almost a ritual. But when I showed my wedding photos to my European friend, his reaction was simple: shock. In this episode, we dive into why pre-wedding photoshoots are so popular in Taiwan — and why they’re almost nonexistent in Europe. From wedding traditions to deeper values, we explore how two cultures see love, marriage, and what really matters. 很多歐洲地區有 "First Look" 的傳統，男生在婚禮儀式前是絕對不能看到新娘穿婚紗的（據說會帶來厄運）。 台灣習俗上，挑婚紗、試穿、外拍、修圖、做成大相本，老公全程參與，雖然沒有驚喜感，但換來的是絕美的作品，有個重要的點是要放在婚禮上播放的。 台灣習俗： 婚紗照是婚禮的門面。要有大相本、要有謝卡、要有開場影片，如果婚禮現場沒有照片，賓客可能會以為走錯棚。 歐洲觀點： 照片是婚後的紀錄。很多歐洲人是婚禮結束後幾週，才拿到攝影師拍的紀實照片。他們不需要在婚禮上「播照片」，因為主角本人就在現場社交、喝酒。

台灣的棒球充滿能量、色彩與歡樂，而羅馬尼亞的運動文化卻完全是另一個世界！在這一集中，我兄弟分享他第一次接觸台灣棒球的震撼體驗——從整場不間斷的啦啦隊，到彷彿置身音樂祭般的球場氣氛。接著，我們把這些經驗拿來和羅馬尼亞的足球、手球以及其他運動做比較，從球迷的應援方式到球場美食，一起探索兩種文化在運動上的巨大差異。 Baseball in Taiwan is full of energy, color, and joy — while sports culture in Romania feels like a completely different world. In this episode, my brother shares his shock and excitement during his very first experience at a Taiwanese baseball game: nonstop cheerleading, passionate crowds, and a stadium atmosphere that feels more like a music festival than a sporting event. We then compare these experiences with football, handball, and other sports in Romania — from how fans show their support to the food you find in the stadium — as we explore the huge cultural differences in how sports are experienced in these two countries.