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I Do, We Do

by Billy and Ashley

This podcast is hosted by Billy and Ashley Moyer, AKA Bashley, a millennial couple committed to their careers, lifelong learning, and philanthropy. Bashley believes that TOGETHER they can achieve more. This weekly show is about how they find success as a team of two in business and life in general, and how their differences make them stronger.

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Episodes

  1. EP 82: Energy Leadership Index with Claire Becker

    We love assessments over here. On past episodes we have discussed the DISC, Enneagram, Love Languages and Myers Briggs. In this episode, we dig into the Energy Leadership Index which enables leaders to hold up mirrors to their perceptions, attitudes, behaviors, and overall leadership…

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  2. EP 81: We Do Minimalism

    We recently moved into an RV full-time, as we continue to embrace a more minimalist lifestyle. In this episode, we share what minimalism is to us and how we are working be more minimal. We discuss how we have prioritized experiences in our lives. We are hoping to experience a lot of new…

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  3. EP 80: Baby Bashley One Year Later

    It has been a year since our little guy, Lincoln was born. In this episode, we reflect back on the episode we recorded in the delivery room as we waited to welcome Lincoln to the world. We shared our hopes and dreams for our son a year ago and now we share updates on how things have gone. We also...

  4. EP 79: Inspring Duos - Josh and Elisha

    Josh & Elisha are truly a couple who does it all. They run multiple side-hustles in addition to working full-time and parenting. There's nothing this couple can't do! Listen in as we chat with them about how they support one another in their businesses, the process they use for setting and...

  5. EP 78: On Different Pages

    The pandemic has caused some unusual things. Social distancing? Conspiracy theorists? The uptick in "uncoupling"? We've found ourselves on different pages in two major parts of our lives. With the extra time, we each invested it in different ways. For Billy, it has been his career. For Ashley, it...

  6. EP 77: Breaking the Golden Rule

    We have a bone to pick with the Golden Rule - treat others the way you want to be treated. It is a rule that is engraved in our brains from a young age, but we think it's wrong. ESPECIALLY in relationships. Listen to this episode as we upgrade to the Platinum Rule - treat others the way they want...

  7. EP 76: Introvert vs. Extrovert

    You may not know this about us, but we are COMPLETE OPPOSITES. Oh wait, we only constantly talk about that on this podcast. Nearly every assessment we've ever taken points out how different we are. Our Myers Briggs results point this out too. In this episode, we zero in on that first letter of…

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  8. EP 75: Being Vulnerable Together

    It has been a tough couple of weeks as we all learned about the deaths of Ahmaud Arbery, Breonna Taylor, and George Floyd. We need to have some tough conversations about race. But that requires vulnerability. We have to shed those layers and embrace imperfection. In this episode, we share a few...

  9. EP 74: Thriving Together

    We are often asked how we spend SO much time together without driving each other crazy. Right now, a lot of couples are spending more time together than usual, which is leading to conflict. In this episode, we chat about how we thrive together through communication, vulnerability based trust and...

  10. EP 73: Sheltering In Place Together

    It is a scary time for our world as we grapple with the reality that is COVID-19 and the impact is is having on our way of life. We are sheltering in place here in Austin, Texas and in this episode we share what are new normal looks like. We share what work is like for us now, what we are doing…

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  11. EP 72: Reintroduction

    It has been a hot minute since we last released an episode, so allow us to reintroduce ourselves! In this episode, we go back to the beginning. Who were are individually, who we are together. We chat about why we started this podcast and what it has become. If you're a new listener, hopefully…

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  12. EP 71: Bonding Over Goals

    Setting goals together did not always come easy for us. Billy had two decades of experience before meeting Ashley. Ashley had no experience. Billy remained persistent, but was patient as Ashley explored goal setting. And now it's become a way we bond and allow us to grow together. Listen in as we...

  13. EP 70: Flashback to Big Change

    A year ago our worlds were rocked with the news of our pregnancy. We immediately captured all those feelings (and more) in a podcast episode (EP 38) that later became our pregnancy announcement. Fast forward to now where we listen back on that episode. We reflect on where we were mentally, and...

  14. EP 69: Goals Journey

    In this weeks episode, we discuss why we are taking a different approach with our goals this year after struggling in 2019 to accomplish all we set out to do. We share a few goals and how they have a similar destination as last year, but how we plan to get there is different. We are focusing more...

  15. EP 68: Couple of Takes

    We share another couple of takes in this episode where each of us shares a take on something going on in the world. Our takes this episode are about people from across the pond. Ashley talks about Harry and Meghan making an important decision for their family. Billy talks about not understanding...

  16. EP 67: Looking Forward to 2020

    Last episode we looked back on 2019, which was a challenging year for us. It ended up being our best year ever. In this episode, we look forward to 2020, a new year and decade. We are in a much different place now. We answer some questions we reflected on during our planning retreat and share our...

  17. EP 66: Looking Back on 2019

    Welcome to 2020! It's a new year and a new decade! We know you are excited. We are too! But before we officially look forward to the next year that we know will be amazing, we look back on 2019. We answer the questions we shared in Episode 64 and guess what? It gets a little emotional because…

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  18. EP 65: Reflection Part 2

    Last episode we shared questions to reflect on when looking back on a year. In this episode, we share questions to reflect on when looking forward to a new year. The questions will set you and your partner up for success when setting your goals for next year! Questions We Shared: What do we/I…

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  19. EP 64: Reflection

    Can you believe there are only two weeks left in the year… scratch that - THE DECADE! Coming off the #10yearchallenge and the end of the year/decade in sight, everyone is feeling very retrospective. In this episode, we take all that introspection and take it to reflection. We share the...

  20. EP 63: Our Worst Year

    Time to take a trip back in time to our worst year together as a married couple. We have shared a lot on this podcast about how we are better together, that we often collab and how we are great communicators. We have an awesome partnership, but year one of our marriage was not great. It was…

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  21. EP 62: Attitude of Gratitude

    In this special Thanksgiving episode, we chat about how we have tried to have an Attitude of Gratitude in 2019 even with the curveball we were thrown at the beginning of the year. We are thankful for each other, our families, our jobs and our new son, Lincoln. We hope to continue having an…

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  22. EP 61: Couple of Takes 2

    We are back with a couple more takes on topics that have caught our attention around the world. We are a couple and we each have one take on something to share in this episode. We get pretty deep as we talk about the NCAA and playing college athletes and the Rodney Reed case in Texas. Essentially...

  23. Collabing as Parents

    We are two months into parenthood and have learned a lot about our ourselves and how we make a powerful team of two. There have been a few bumps in the road of parenthood because we have no clue what we are doing… but who does?! In this episode you'll hear a short update on how we are handling…

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  24. EP 59: Q3 Goals Check-In

    We love setting goals. For 2019, we set some lofty goals for our new business together. We have been checking in on our progress every quarter of the year. In this episode, we chat about our progress through the 3rd quarter. We have been thrown some curveballs this year, but we have made...

  25. EP 58: Connecting To A City

    We are lucky to live in the great city of Austin, Texas. People often ask us about Austin so we decided to dedicate an episode to the city. But the episode turned into one about how to get connected in a new city after speaking to a friend who is struggling to connect with people after moving…

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  26. EP 57: Birth Story

    Life has gotten real over here! Our son is now 4 weeks old! This is our first time recording an episode since he was born. In this episode, we share the birth story of Lincoln Foles Alaniz-Moyer. We begin at our 38 week doctors appointment and end with a baby! There is lots that happens in between.

  27. EP 56: Dreams For Our Child

    This is a very special episode as it was recorded straight from the delivery room on the day our first child was born. We thought we would share our hopes and dreams for our little guy who entered the world about 10 hours after this was recorded. We never wanted kids, but this is our reality and...

  28. EP 55: 5 Dysfunctions of our Relationship

    It should come as no surprise that we love professional development books around here. And a favorite we have in common is Five Dysfunctions of a Team by Patrick Lencioni. While many of these apply directly to relationships, we modified the dysfunctions to our relationship in this episode. Tune…

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  29. EP 54: Couple of Takes

    Get to know us in a different way as we sound off on a particular issue or event. We each bring up a topic that the other has no idea about and have a free flowing conversation around it. Join us this week as we chat about Andrew Luck doing "such a millennial thing" by retiring at 29 years old…

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  30. EP 53: Making Each Other Better

    In a previous episode (EP 50), we laughed our way through our pet peeves with each another. We often don't take the time to sit back and appreciate one another. So this week we are switching it up and chatting about the ways we make each other better. Listen in as we each list off 4 ways we have...

  31. EP 52: Passion and Purpose

    We often talk about our shared passion for education and learning. But finding your passions and purpose isn't always easy. In this episode, we share our four steps for uncovering your passions & purpose. We discuss how going through these steps has helped us discover our own purpose that we are...

  32. EP 51: Pet Peeves

    We're getting a bit personal this week! We all have pet peeves about the people we love the most and we are opening up about our biggest annoyances with each other. Luckily, we both took the conversation in good stride and giggled our way through this episode. Music "Sunny" by Bensound.com. What…

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  33. EP 50: When You Don't Hit a Goal

    It's our 1 year podcast-iversary! One goal we succeeded with was keeping up with this podcast- yay! Some other goals did not fare as well. In this week's episode, we chat about not hitting goals and what to do when this happens. Grab our download to guide you through this process at...

  34. EP 49: Q2 Goals Check In

    Despite some big life changes, we impressed ourselves with our Q1 progress towards our goals. But how did we do in Q2? In this week's episode, we look back at April, May, and June and our progress towards our goals and we update you on those big life changes. Music "Sunny" by Bensound.com. What…

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  35. EP 48: Spouse to Partner

    Strong marriages come down to great partnerships. But since starting our business, we've noticed a few things we do differently as partners in business in addition to being partners in life. Join us as we talk through a few instances where we have noticed ourselves operating differently than...

  36. EP 47: Our FAV Books

    Ask and you shall receive - This week is a listener request! We are a little surprised it took us this long to dedicate an episode to our favorite personal & professional books. This week, we share each of our 3 favorite books, when we first read them, and the impact they have left on us. What...

  37. EP 46: Recognition

    Thank you notes, awards, and words of affirmation. All of them are various forms of recognition. But what do you do when you feel undeserving or oppositely, when ego gets inflated? Listen in as we chat about the various forms of recognition, how we handle it, and how we make sure we give it right...

  38. EP 45: Routines

    Routines. When we are following them, life is good. Right now our life is chaos and we are making it worse because we have not routines. In this episode, we discuss some of the causes for this, the areas of our life most needing a routine, and our solutions and some new routine ideas. Music…

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  39. EP 44: Rejection

    Turn-down. Brush off. Nix. No matter how you say it, rejection is never a fun thing to experience. Sometimes you can control it and other times you cannot. In this episode, we share some of our first experiences with rejection, some recent ones and our ways to try and overcome it. Music "Sunny"…

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  40. EP 43: Working Marriage

    Working with your spouse is not something to take likely. There's seeds that get planted along the way. And a strong foundation can lead to a successful business and marriage. In this episode, we reflect on the seeds that were planted that set us up to want to jump into business together. Music...

  41. EP 42: Our Ego Is Showing

    Ego is a dirty little word and we are dedicating an entire episode to it. We recently noticed others disguising their self-serving actions as the acts of a servant leader. We then challenged ourselves to look inward and determine how our egos affect us. In this episode, we discuss the dirty side…

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  42. EP 41: Struggling To Be Our Best Selves

    We talk a lot about goals, action, and achievement on this podcast. But we are human. There are things that hold us back from being our best selves. Rather than pointing the finger at external obstacles, we are looking inwards and sharing the ways we hold ourselves back. There is lots of...

  43. EP 40: Q1 Goals Check-In

    Back in episode 38, we discussed some changes with our plans for 2019. But just how much did those changes affect our progress on our 2019 goals? In this week's episode, we take you through each of our joint goals & action steps and grade our progress over the last quarter. Music "Sunny" by...

  44. EP 39: We Re-Do Dreams

    In this episode of I Do, We Do, we re-do one of most popular episodes. We each share and discuss 10 new dreams and work them out together in order to add to our official combined Dream List. We love dreaming and setting goals. Hopefully hearing us go through this process will show you just how...

  45. EP 38: Change of Plans

    We put together our best plan ever for 2019. We got off to a great start crossing off action items for our most important goals. We were holding each other accountable. We were communicating. We were collaborating. We knew for sure 2019 was our year. And then our plans changed. In this episode…

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  46. EP 37: We Re-Do Goal Setting

    In this episode, we do a re-do of one of our most popular episodes. Goal Setting! We share why we set goals and how. We believe setting goals together ensures that we are always growing together rather than apart. Billy has a long history with goal setting. Ashley drank the kool-aid and together…

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  47. EP 36: Self Care, Together Care

    Mental-health day or self-care? We millennials love to develop our own phrases for everything. Either way you call it, it is something we practice regularly. In this episode, we discuss what self care is and what it isn't, what we do separately to practice self-care, and what we do together to...

  48. EP 35: Rejecting Gender Norms

    We just celebrated International Women's Day, so we're approaching everyone's favorite topic… gender norms. Before we met, there's so many norms we fought. But once we got married, we took this to another level. We love identifying as a modern couple, but we are not perfect. In this episode, we...

  49. EP 34: Becoming

    They are the ultimate #relationshipgoals (even if they hate the title)... Michelle and Barack Obama. We are feeling very inspired after seeing Michelle on her Becoming book tour. In this episode, we provide a recap on her book tour, why we find this couple so inspiring, and how we are BECOMING...

  50. EP 33: Married and in Business

    It is official, we have a newborn business! When we started this podcast, we had no plans that this collab would turn into a business centered on collaboration. In this episode, we discuss what inspired us to start a business together, give a short update on where we are in our business, and some...

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This podcast is hosted by Billy and Ashley Moyer, AKA Bashley, a millennial couple committed to their careers, lifelong learning, and philanthropy. Bashley believes that TOGETHER they can achieve more. This weekly show is about how they find success as a team of two in business and life in general, and how their differences make them stronger.

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