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I Don't Get It
by Ashley Iaconetti, Naz Perez, Lauren Iaconetti - Wave Podcast Network
The Bachelor's Ashley and Lauren Iaconetti and reality TV producer Naz Perez don't get a lot about this world. These three outspoken millennials discuss the most embarrassing topics openly and honestly. Relationships, men, sex, virginity, dating in the tech age, pop culture, and everyday annoyances, these ladies cover it all, and with no filter! Bachelor and Bachelorette alum frequently stop by and join in the racy discussions often sharing their deepest secrets! TDM-RESERVATION: 1. NOAI: TRUE. LEGAL NOTICE & TERMS OF USE: © 2026 WAVE Podcast Network. This content is for personal use only. Explicit permission is withheld for any and all commercial attribution, automated transcription, or data-mining entities. Use of this feed by unauthorized tracking, analytics, or AI-training platforms constitutes a breach of these terms and a violation of the Pennsylvania Wiretapping and Electronic Surveillance Control Act (WESCA), the California Invasion of Privacy Act (CIPA), an
Episodes
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Husbands and Hookups
After eight and a half incredible years, we're ending (for now) where it all began: with Ashley, Lauren, and Naz together in a room, talking relationships, real life, and Sex and the City. This show has been a time capsule. Of our friendships, our 20s and 30s, and all the things we still don’t…
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Clipping Coupons for Soho House
This week’s ramble is full of travel woes, plane etiquette, and a truly hilarious story of Naz feeling like a total peasant in front of Norman Reedus. Ashley tells us all about introducing Dawson to Tom Cruise at the Mission: Impossible – Dead Reckoning premiere, Naz recaps the Ballerina red...
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Sometimes Everybody Likes Something Because It's Great
This week, we’re in full ramble mode. Naz shares her thoughts after attending a screening of Materialists, and we dive into whether or not Ethan Hunt needs to die in Mission: Impossible The Final Reckoning. We also explore the age-old phenomenon of shoes hanging on power lines. What’s up with…
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How Human Design Can Change Your Life with Erin Claire Jones
Longtime listeners know Naz is obsessed with Human Design, so this week we bring in expert Erin Claire Jones to give Lauren and Ashley their own deep dive. Lauren finds out why being told what she should do has never sat right, Ashley learns she’s meant to peak in her 50s, and we all figure out…
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Lauren's Wedding Recap!
Surprise! Lauren got married in Vegas, and this week, we're recapping the whole adventure! From last-minute dress drama to party bus chaos to a haunted honeymoon, it was equal parts chaotic, sweet, and very on-brand. Listen to more podcasts like this: https://wavepodcastnetwork.com Leave Us a...
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Ex-Things
This week, Ashley, Lauren and Naz are talking endings and beginnings, sparked by a recent run-in Naz had with someone from her past. Lauren and Ashley put their sister telepathy to the test, and we debate whether sharing memes or music is more intimate. Plus, we dive into Disney cruises (still...
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Everything Is a Butt Clench
This week, Ashley, Lauren, and Naz are back with a major ramble: starting with the new season of Black Mirror. They get into the frustration of people not respecting your time, why men seem to have fewer words for their emotions, and the importance of letting yourself feel (and express!) anger....
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White Lotus Finale & Naz’s Tramell Tillman Interview
This week on I Don’t Get It, Lauren, Ashley, and Naz break down the White Lotus Season 3 finale, from the chaos and jaw-dropping twists to the moments that made us squirm. Then, Naz shares highlights from her sold-out live interview at 92NY with Severance star Tramell Tillman, aka Mr. Milchick…
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Your Hot Shallow Room: Cartoon Crush Edition
Ashley, Lauren, and Naz are back in the Hot Shallow Room, diving into another batch of your voicemails. This time, it’s all about cartoon crushes. Tune in to find out which Disney prince reigns supreme, how many animated creatures made the cut, and which cartoons are bringing the most swag.…
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Maiden Voyage: The Ride
It’s time for a ramble! This week, Ashley, Lauren, and Naz talk Severance and White Lotus. Ashley and Lauren fill us in on their family trip to Orlando (where Lauren won “Aunt of the Century”), Naz gives us all the details of her birthday festivities, and Ashley breaks down what we know about the...
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Your Hot Shallow Room
Ashley, Lauren, and Naz are back with a listener voicemail episode. You called in with your ultimate celebrity crush lineups, and we’ve got thoughts. Paul Walker vs. Timothée Chalamet? Zac Efron vs. Harry Styles? Channing Tatum vs. . . . Channing Tatum? Let the woo-off begin. Strong opinions…
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Boobs Are Back!
This week, Ashley and Naz kick things off with a voicemail from a listener sharing a movie pet peeve that inspires a huge conversation about authenticity in movies, tv, and even influencer ads. Lauren gives us the scoop on Timothée Chalamet and Kylie Jenner at the BNP Paribas Open. She and Naz…
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Permission to Be Vain and Shallow
The Oscars? Yeah, we chat about it, but things take a fun turn when Ashley poses this question: If you were on The Bachelorette, but all of your contestants were your lifetime celebrity crushes, who would win in a woo-off? Does The Notebook’s Ryan Gosling stand a chance against Titanic-era Leo?...
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This Is MY Swamp!
Ashley, Lauren and Naz kick this one off with one of your voicemails that sparked some big discussions about male friendships and social anxiety. How can guys get comfortable getting real? How can the rest of us get comfortable calling our dentists? Plus, we weigh in on Chris Hemsworth as Prince...
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No "G" in Orangutan?
Ashley, Lauren, and Naz are back with another Ramble, covering everything from cooking for a crush to whether music or TV sets the right vibe for a social gathering. We dive into the recent conversation around Brian Littrell’s voice—obviously we’ve got nothing but love for Brian—while Ashley…
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Signs from the Universe: Listener Synchronicity Stories
This week, we’re diving into the kind of stories that make you believe in the universe. You guys called in with your wildest synchronicities—messages from lost loved ones, freaky perfect timing, and even the universe speaking through 80s New Wave artists. Some will give you chills, some will make...
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My Sandwich Knowledge Was Completely Inaccurate
This week, Naz shares a story involving an unexpected text from someone from her past. Then it’s full-on ramble mode: pros and cons of new beauty treatments, the ongoing debate about hot dog and bun packaging, generational language differences, GLP-1s, and whether or not a hoagie has chili, we’re...
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Zero Eggs in Sight
This week on I Don't Get It, it’s a classic ramble! Ashley, Lauren, and Naz dive into tracking menstrual cycles, weird cravings, and synced periods before spiraling into conspiracy theories involving the military and telepathic autistic children, and Naz shares a personal story about a truly wild...
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It's Literally in Our DNA to Keep the World Alive
This week, Hayden crashes the podcast in a Burberry outfit, sparking a real motherhood-focused ramble where Ashley, Lauren, and Naz cover everything from middle-of-the-night childcare duties, to potty training chaos, and literally everything in between. Plus, Naz shares her latest movie...
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Checking in From LA: Naz's Update
This week on I Don’t Get It, Naz checks in from LA to share what it’s been like living through the wildfires. She talks about everything from the unexpected challenges to how her community has been pulling together and what it’s really been like day-to-day. If you want to help, here’s some info…
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Maybe It Was Ruth's Chris
Ashley, Lauren, and Naz are back with a jam-packed ramble covering everything from awards season glam to holiday family antics. We kick things off with a Golden Globes recap—Naz shares some insider insight, and we share their favorite (and least favorite) looks. Plus, we play a little at-home...
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Diet Coke Cult
Happy New Year! We’re back, and of course, we start by spending an absurd amount of time talking about Diet Coke. Like, we really go deep—don’t ask how we got here, just go with it. Then, Naz shares a story about a real-life Helga Pataki moment that has Ashley literally falling out of her chair....
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Camera Courage
It’s our last episode before the holidays, and we’re going out with an end of year Ramble! Lauren has discovered the magic of heated blankets. Ashley shares her two favorite thrifty finds of the week. Naz dives into the fascinating difference between how influencers and TV hosts talk about red...
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A Podcast of Any Consequence
It’s a post-holiday ramble! Ashley catches us up on some painfully cute Dawson developments. Naz reminds us that organizing your space can help you organize your mind. We break down the intricacies of mug curation and why the perfect mug is essential. Lauren and Ashley share a hysterical moment...
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Mercury Retrograde, Millennial Ghosts, and Calling Harry Styles
Mercury is retrograde, and Naz has the craziest travel story to prove it! Wait ‘til you hear this one. Ashley doesn’t get why some people say “school teacher,” and we get into the differences between college and university. We get back to our conversation about Ariana Grande, and Ashley has to...
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Call Us! 609-365-1885!
Ashley, Lauren, and Naz are diving into a big pop culture roundup this week! They share their thoughts on the Martha documentary and why they think Martha Stewart didn’t get a fair shake. Naz makes the case for Lauren and Ashley to embrace Ariana Grande and the Wicked movie, while also venting…
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Melancholic Macaulay Culkin
First thing you need to know, this episode is quite unsafe for work. Ashley, Lauren, and Naz are rambling about everything from Martha Stewart and period woes to signature fast food items and Agatha All Along. They reflect on Colin Farrell’s journey from Hollywood bad boy, revisiting the infamous...
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What Are You Having for Dinner?, Part 2
In this week's episode, we continue the conversation with our amazing listeners for round two of our show-within-a-show, What Are You Having for Dinner? Once again, we asked you all to share what was on your Monday night menu, and like last time, you came through with some delicious and creative...
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400 Episodes of I Don't Get It!
Happy 400th episode! This week, we're celebrating by doing what we do best, rambling. We dive into whether Halloween has lost its charm thanks to social media, reflect on our early podcast days, and talk about why hearing your own voice in videos is the worst. Lauren reviews a local walking taco...
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Unfriending the Geico Gecko
It’s a full-on ramble with Lauren, Naz, and Ashley who cover it all, from water fasts and colonic cleanses to Halloween planning, Naz’s recent Instagram unfollow spree, and the complex drama of Hollywood sequels including Joker: Folie à Deux and Gladiator II. Plus Lauren reviews Terrifier 3 and...
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Did You Survive Eclipse Season?
Happy Monday! (Not really. Don’t you hate when people say that?) This episode is all about beginnings, closures, and full circle moments. Naz catches us up on some recent guy stuff, including an impressively bad text, and then, Ashley finally met Justin Timberlake, and she’s sharing every detail...
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Of Course We Watched Nobody Wants This
Okay, we have to talk about Nobody Wants This. Sisters with a girl talk podcast? Come on. We also check in on Lauren’s Halloween decorations, Ashley catches us up on some kitchen appliance revelations, and Naz asks for some thrifty advice. But mostly, we’re talking about Nobody Wants This. Listen...
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Rachael Dunville: Naz's Jedi
This week, Naz sits down with someone you’ve heard her mention often: Rachael Dunville, a self-described catalytic conversationalist, sensory sommelier, and renowned intimacy coach—who Naz affectionately calls her Jedi. They dive into the transformative power of the Law of Attraction, with…
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Was This The Last Time?
Ashley, Lauren, and Naz are back with another ramble! This week, they’re covering everything from the ideal forehead size, to caricature art and who should and shouldn’t be wearing hats. Ashley shares an odd visual she had and Lauren and Naz ponder its deeper meaning. They also reminisce about…
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How Do You Guys Say Calamari?
Get ready for a Ramble full of real-life chaos on this episode of I Don't Get It! From invisible mom tasks, to spray tan side hustles, and an accidental Zara heist, Lauren, Naz, and Ashley are diving in. Plus, we’re talking Emily in Paris, Golden Bachelor, and Monsters: The Lyle and Erik Menendez...
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Camp Rock Lore
At long last, Lauren, Naz and Ashley are back together for a classic ramble. We’re covering it all this week: past makeup trends, recent examples of the Mandela Effect, what was really going on behind-the-scenes of Camp Rock, what to do when your ex shows up in unexpected places, how John Mayer...
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Model Behavior, Manifesting Paris, and Letting Go
Naz is back and catching Ashley up on where she’s been. It’s an intense story, and if you’re also at a point of growth and transition in your life, you’re absolutely going to relate to this one. But this is I Don’t Get It, so of course there’s some rambling, too. We reminisce about some early…
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PR Disasters with Feminist Liz
The past few weeks have been hectic in pop culture, with several top celebrities facing what some might call PR disasters. To navigate through it all, Lauren and Ashley have enlisted our go-to expert and your favorite fill-in co-host. Feminist Liz is here to unpack the latest drama involving…
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The Smelly Red-Headed Queen
It’s sister, sister time on I Don’t Get It! Lauren and Ashley just caught a New Kids on the Block concert and dive into whether music hits differently live or recorded. We take a trip down memory lane with yard sales and debate if they’re still a thing or if Facebook Marketplace has taken over....
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Your Workplace Horror Stories!
We asked you to share your workplace horror stories, and wow, did you all come through! From messy love triangles and attempts to frame coworkers for actual, literal crimes, to folks obsessively fixated on your babies, and heinous schemes to solicit nudes, you’ve lived through some truly wild...
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Small, Weak Esophaguses
Ashley’s back, and she’s here to fill us in on all the latest since she left–like, you know, the fact that she’s had a baby! She shares her birth story, breaks down all of the name debates leading up to the gametime decision, and explains why some people are pro-epidural and some people aren’t…
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Eating Fast Food Alone in Your Car
Ashley’s on her well-deserved new baby break, so this week, Lauren, Naz, and Producer Andrea are rambling in the most classic sense. We talk about everything from eating fast food alone in your car, to the difference between fear and intuition, to why Jersey gets such a bad rap, to the difference...
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Getting Your Dating Mojo Back
As you all know, Ashley had her baby last week, so Naz, Lauren, and surprise guest Hunter are checking in with a quick one! Naz just attended the Twisters premier, so she's giving you the recap, including whether or not she followed Lauren and Ashley's encouragement to ask out a certain star in…
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The Art of the Cheese
It’s time for a classic ramble! Lauren and Naz look back fondly on the days of Ashley’s neverending free fast food. We talk about the I Don’t Get It pilot we shot years ago. Ashley wonders what’s up with emojis lately, and we weigh in on a recent wedding faux pas. Naz talks about Twisters, and we...
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I Don't Get That I Get It
Naz is back home and sharing some major life changes she’s going through right now. Love, work, all of the big, messy stuff. She opens up about how she’s feeling, what she thinks the universe might be trying to tell her, and what she hopes is in store for her in the future. Lauren and Ashley…
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Understanding Your Enneagram with Beth McCord, Part 2
Welcome back to part two of our conversation with Your Enneagram Coach, Beth McCord. In this half, Beth gives us a breakdown of Enneagram types 8 and 9. She also describes how we can use the enneagram to understand and honor our inner child, and she tells us all about her new book The Enneagram…
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Understanding Your Enneagram with Beth McCord, Part 1
This week, join Ashley, Lauren and Naz for part one of our conversation with Your Enneagram Coach, Beth McCord. She walks us through the 9 enneagram types, their core fears and motivations, and how you can use your enneagram type to move toward your best, healthiest future. Come back next week…
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You Can't Measure Hurt
This week on I Don’t Get It, we’re picking up where we left off in our game of putting each of us in the fake-therapy hot seat, but this time, we’re focusing on Producer Andrea. We recently learned that she’s non-monogamous, and of course we had many questions about this. We talk about…
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Revisiting Calling Our Crushes
This week on I Don’t Get It, we’re pulling an episode out from our very early days. It’s one we reference all the time, and it was such a fun and vulnerable episode, so we wanted to share it with all of you in 2024. It’s from January of 2018, so basically a lifetime ago, episode 57: “Calling Our...
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Say More About That
We thought we were going to ramble this week, but instead, we ended up doing a round-robin therapy session, with Lauren, Ashley, and Naz each taking a turn on the proverbial therapy couch. Everyone spends some time drilling down on a early memory to see if we can figure out where it–whatever “it”...
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ABOUT THIS SHOW
The Bachelor's Ashley and Lauren Iaconetti and reality TV producer Naz Perez don't get a lot about this world. These three outspoken millennials discuss the most embarrassing topics openly and honestly. Relationships, men, sex, virginity, dating in the tech age, pop culture, and everyday annoyances, these ladies cover it all, and with no filter! Bachelor and Bachelorette alum frequently stop by and join in the racy discussions often sharing their deepest secrets!
TDM-RESERVATION: 1. NOAI: TRUE. LEGAL NOTICE & TERMS OF USE: © 2026 WAVE Podcast Network. This content is for personal use only. Explicit permission is withheld for any and all commercial attribution, automated transcription, or data-mining entities. Use of this feed by unauthorized tracking, analytics, or AI-training platforms constitutes a breach of these terms and a violation of the Pennsylvania Wiretapping and Electronic Surveillance Control Act (WESCA), the California Invasion of Privacy Act (CIPA), an
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