I Only Kiss & Tell

This week, Taylor gets paid $30 by a man in Toronto for being intriguing, Zoe's dad commits grand larceny against her credit card at a sushi restaurant, and a casual night out in San Francisco turns into a full-blown espresso martini marathon.We're talking feral weekends, fictional hockey boyfriends, the situationship-to-cousin pipeline, accidentally making out with boring men, and why we're both seriously considering moving to Europe instead of finding partners.Also: career updates, identity shifts, quarter-life existential crises, and Taylor's realization that she's not asexual—she's just only attracted to men who exist exclusively on television.As always, we're oversharing and one impulsive international relocation away from solving all our problems 😉Rate the pod, and make it 5 stars while you're at it. Love you! Find us on IG! @ionlykissandtell @tayyham & @zorubens

This week we’re coming to you live from ✨technical difficulties✨ - Taylor sounds like she’s recording from the bottom of the ocean, which is exactly when we realize… we need a tech guy. Cue: JAMES, where are you??We may be glitchy, but we’re consistent and we’re back on Zoom like a long distance situationship. Zoe kicks things off with a recap of her Mexico bachelorette trip: think G.I. Jane energy, cenotes, unsolicited piggyback rides, foot massages from strangers, and quite possibly the best club of her life.Then Taylor drops a bomb: she’s leaving San Francisco. Yes, we’re unwell. It’s giving breakup and emotional damage. But also growth, new chapters, and a soft launch into whatever’s next!Then it’s Coachella, GLP-1 conspiracies, and a dive into the latest internet drama, because why is everything so messy right now??Rate the pod, and make it 5 stars while you're at it. Love you! Find us on IG! @ionlykissandtell @tayyham & @zorubens

This week we enter our crafty but chaotic era: leather goods, crocheting, and keeping our hands busy so we stay out of trouble. We romanticize the Amtrak like it’s a European summer, misidentify an antique Japanese hairpin with a tiny spoon on the end (it’s an ear pick, btw), and spiral through vintage shopping, parasites, wearing heels for no reason, big brain ambitions, and our sudden urge to become bilingual baddies. Also, Zoe blacks out at a dive bar with her family and gets hit on by men her brothers’ age. At our core, we’re completely different people with identical energy: curious, chaotic, and deeply committed to the bit.Rate the pod, and make it 5 stars while you're at it. Love you! Find us on IG! @ionlykissandtell @tayyham & @zorubens

Taylor enters her redhead era with bangs and a full alter ego—Morgan Renee—because nothing says “I’m stable” like feeling like a spy in your own life.Zoe, on the other hand, is fighting for her life (mentally) as we unpack hypochondria, intrusive thoughts, and the fine line between intuition and full-blown delusion. It’s giving therapy, but like… unlicensed and highly unqualified.Then it’s a full debrief of our unwell weekend in SF—running into past situationships (nightmare), staying out until 5am (concerning), and casually handing out our numbers like business cards. We also discuss a controversial truth: in San Francisco you’re either a 10/10 or dressed like you lost a bet… there is no middle ground. And while not everyone is born beautiful, everyone can be hot, it’s called effort, babe.Stay hot, stay single. Rate the pod, and make it 5 stars while you're at it. Love you! Find us on IG! @ionlykissandtell

We’re back in the USA and back in our old neighborhood—promenading around the marina in fur coats and getting plenty of double takes. After months abroad, we’ve landed just in time for a weekend packed with baby showers, 33rd birthdays, tea parties, party buses, and everything in between. Our friends are all in different stages of life, and we’re just along for the ride.Taylor recaps her Costa Rica rendezvous (think groomsmen drama, body shots with boat captains, and lots of friend time), while Zoe heads home to see family and recreates an iconic Wuthering Heights–style moment that deserves a spot on everyone’s bucket list. Anyways, we’re SO back and some might even say better than ever! See you next week xxRate the pod, and make it 5 stars while you're at it. Love you! Find us on IG! @ionlykissandtell @tayyham & @zorubens

It’s our last night in Asia and we’re not handling it well. After four months of sharing a bed, a bank account, stomach problems, and an alarming number of 7-11 runs, we’ve realized we’re basically platonically married. We talk cheaters, why men are never nicer than when they’re trying to hook up, and why a boyfriend only sounds useful when we’re carrying heavy bags or something in the car starts blinking.Taylor says she’s swearing off dating for a year (we’ll circle back) and Zoe wants her forever person but is currently committed to herself. We get into healthy masculine energy, gender roles (we’re not buying drinks with $200 nails), and what we’re actually excited to go home to: closets, home-cooked meals, our people, and a sunset smoke sesh. Asia changed us. The 7-11 shaped us.Rate the pod, and make it 5 stars while you're at it. Love you! Find us on IG! @ionlykissandtell @tayyham & @zorubens

We’re back and have absolutely seen better days. Taylor is relentlessly sassy, Zoe is relentlessly horny, and we’re once again asking: where do you find a shadow daddy in real life and why is everyone a performative nice guy?? Heated Rivalry, Rhysand, and other fictional men have us spiraling into our 14-year-old selves, obsessing over boys we’ve never met but are spiritually convinced will one day be in our orbit. Less than 5 hours after landing in Vietnam we’re locking lips with Kiwis, and doing our civic duty to address the male loneliness epidemic. Turns out it has nothing to do with women and everything to do with their own antics… but we digress. We’re officially bringing back kissing for fun in 2026—friends, threesomes, boys, girls, whoever.Then it’s four life-changing days on the back of motorcycles in Ha Giang—and honestly, nothing has been the same since.Rate the pod, and make it 5 stars while you're at it. Love you! Find us on IG! @ionlykissandtell @tayyham & @zorubens

After three weeks apart, we’re back in Vietnam comparing notes, and the whiplash is real. Taylor went full island fantasy in the Philippines—bikinis 24/7, whale sharks, scuba dives, food poisoning, and a short-lived but intense romance with a surfer-sailor-skater boy on a million-dollar catamaran—while Zoe chose family time, city hopping, and A5 wagyu across South Korea, Japan, and Hong Kong. Same exhaustion, wildly different realities.Come back next week to dive into our four-day motorcycle journey and an unexplained obsession with kiwis ;)Rate the pod, and make it 5 stars while you're at it. Love you! Find us on IG! @ionlykissandtell @tayyham & @zorubens

This week the girls are in Koh Tao. And if you don’t know what Koh Tao is, it’s basically if Love Island and Temptation Island had a baby. Zoe swears she wants an Asian boyfriend, but finds a blonde haired, blued eyed devil everywhere she goes. Dare we say colonizing the colonizer?? Taylor’s new type is Flemish, and let’s just say she keeps running into these fuckers everywhere. This episode is sponsored by Trojan… JK we wish but stay safe out there. Find us on IG! @ionlykissandtell @tayyham & @zorubens

This week’s episode is brought to you by: Thailand, trickery, and two handsome Belgian boys… who just so happen to be engaged. Plot twist? They’re in an open relationship where one dates girls and the other dates boys — and somehow Taylor ends up kissing the one who’s “not gay but also… kinda gay?”Unfortunately, we trusted a man we shouldn’t have — a local in Bangkok who we believed to be true of heart… turns out the only thing true was his commitment to running our pockets. Iconic behavior, honestly. Thailand did not come to play — and neither did we 😉 Rate the pod, and make it 5 stars while you're at it. Love you! Find us on IG and Tiktok@ionlykissandtell @tayyham & @zorubens

Taylor’s in her sleepy girl era (mono vibes but make it chic), Zoe dropped racks to frame her vintage poster, and somehow we ended up on a beach drive that gifted us two very unsolicited penises. From there, the chaos unfolds—nude beaches, Prince Alberts, nipple piercings, boob luges well into our 50s, and why we’re officially declaring a celibate summer (boys, it’s not you, it’s… actually, it’s you). We touch on eating ass, when situationships become besties, our celeb crush line-up, and a brand new “Would You Rather” featuring skinny vs short kings. Buckle up, it’s messy in the best way.Rate the pod, and make it 5 stars while you're at it. Love you! Find us on IG and Tiktok@ionlykissandtell @tayyham & @zorubens

Overpack your bags and light your cig because we’re taking you on our 2-week French fever dream. From late-night burlesque shows, to the wedding of the century, to dance floors we barely remember, our livers and lungs have never worked harder. By the numbers? 8 cities, 30 Aperol spritzes, 10 bottles of rosé, 40 “cultural, they don’t count in Europe” cigarettes, 3 makeouts, 2 shroomy adventures, 1 jellyfish sting, 1 yacht, and an “it’s always been you” declaration. 14 days of pure, unadulterated bliss in ballgowns and bikinis. Like seriously, are we in a movie or just main characters in our own chaos?Rate the pod, and make it 5 stars while you're at it. Love you! Find us on IG and Tiktok@ionlykissandtell @tayyham & @zorubens

Zoe’s deep in her feels flipping through 1800s family photos of people she’s never met (hello, historical hotties), and we’re obsessed with anemoia—a word we can’t pronounce but deeply feel.Meanwhile, Taylor got laid off and honestly? Blessings in disguise. She's free from corporate chaos and packing bikinis for France. We’re asking the real questions: Why did we choose college majors at 18? Is social media turning our minds into soup? Are we losing vocab or just evolving into chaotic geniuses?Also: AI takeover, memory loss, and the eternal debate—zombies or aliens. Who’s the real threat... and who would we flirt with first?Write in your stories or ask questions @ionlykissandtell on IG. Find us on IG and Tiktok! @ionlykissandtell @tayyham & @zorubens

We took molly once and never shut up about it—so here we are, reminiscing about nights in the club and rolling to Flume like every other chaotic twenty-something in 2016. We compare Euro clubs to U.S. ones (spoiler: Europe wins), discuss our imminent return to the dance floor, and plan our very French summer.Our Venus's are in Leo which means Zoe's into mesh toe shoes (help) and Taylor's either in a dramatic fit or boy-core. Send us your wildest vacation stories - we'll be reading them poolside with Rosé in hand. Find us on IG and Tiktok! @ionlykissandtell @tayyham & @zorubens

Zoe’s made the leap to San Francisco—and narrowly dodged sharing a bed with her brother?? Now Zoe and Taylor are cohabiting like feral, spiritual roommates: tan, topless, and thriving. This episode is a cocktail of chaos and clarity, covering everything from SF hotness inflation (a San Diego -11 becomes a SF 9) to bender energy, type A vs. type C dynamics, and why the coworker-on-a-business-trip is the most dangerously single demographic alive.We dive into the “Taxi Cab Theory,” cheating epidemics, Mormon reality TV, and the existential spiral of wondering if we’ll ever get married—or if that even matters. Through all the madness, one thing is clear: we’re here to explore, stay open, and trust the universe (even if we’re hungover doing it).Write in your stories or ask questions @ionlykissandtell on IG. Find us on IG and Tiktok! @ionlykissandtell @tayyham & @zorubens

This week Taylor shares her latest stats (3 kisses, 1 week, zero regrets), and discusses pegging with 8 CMOs, CEOs, and whatever other acronym. Then we critique casual dating, and why hook-up culture is so freaking exhausting. Like—how are you forehead kissing me, taking me on dates, saying you like me… then acting confused when I think you like me??We’ll be brave and just say it. Dating with intention is hot! Respect, curiosity, and emotionally intelligent conversations are sexy! And finally, we ask the hard question: did dating apps and social media ruin romance or are we just dopamine junkies with commitment issues?Write in your stories or ask questions @ionlykissandtell on IG.Find us on IG and Tiktok!@ionlykissandtell@tayyham & @zorubens

You asked for a sexy episode–and we delivered, you curious little freaks. Ever felt stuck in a rut with your partner? Craving something new in the bedroom? Wondering if your fantasies are “normal”? (Spoiler: they probably are.) This week, we dive into kink, communication, and keeping things spicy with topics like eating ass, sexting, and solo play—plus a few taboo treats you’ll have to hear to believe. Write in your stories or ask questions @ionlykissandtell on IG. Find us on IG and Tiktok! @ionlykissandtell @tayyham & @zorubens

This week, we get brainy. Taylor has a new dating theory called “the cup” and it explains why some people can only give a little while others can give a lot. Zoe has a new and exciting crush, he’s a bit older, like 3000 years older, but age is just a number. We also answer the age-old question - does size really matter? Write in your stories or ask questions @ionlykissandtell on IG. Find us on IG and Tiktok! @ionlykissandtell @tayyham & @zorubens

This week, we’re diving into a masterclass on yearning—Victorian-style. Nobody did longing quite like them: intense eye contact, sweetly stolen moments, and the guts to actually say how you feel. Fast forward to today, and it’s all “come over if you want,” which, let’s face it, I don’t... We’re breaking down what makes a makeout unforgettable (hint: dry humping is so back). Plus, we’re tossing in a bonus medical lesson on how to cure hysteria and give your insides the deep cleanse they desperately deserve. Tune in for some romance, health tips, and a dash of historical sass ;)Write in your stories or ask questions @ionlykissandtell on IG. Find us on IG and Tiktok! @ionlykissandtell @tayyham & @zorubens

Marrying stalkers, zodiac killers and dad lore. This week we talk about what's happening in the press and asking your parents about the serial killer they went to high school with. It’s a little all over the place, but so are we ;)Write in your stories or ask questions @ionlykissandtell on IG. Find us on IG and Tiktok! @ionlykissandtell @tayyham & @zorubens

Sometimes being ghosted is a true blessing. This week IOKT becomes a true crime podcast and it gets sick and twisted. On a scale from local douche to f-boy this guy comes in at a strong Joe Goldberg - compulsive lying, cheating, and master manipulation. We went true detective mode to uncover how dark this entanglement could have gone. The question we must all be asking ourselves is - is it love or is it love bombing? Tune in to find out. Write in your stories or ask questions @ionlykissandtell on IG. Find us on IG and Tiktok! @ionlykissandtell @tayyham & @zorubens

On this week’s minisode we couldn’t help but wonder... When men with girlfriends go out of town on business, are they really seeking pleasure? Does size matter? And if so, does being small make you act up in big ways?

We didn’t realize we had a bunch of overachievers for listeners. This week we asked for crazy dating stories and wow did you deliver! From signing celebrity NDAs to million-dollar penthouses to f*cking on yachts, this episode truly has it all. We also share some of our personal dating stories, and yes, we did match your freak. Write in your stories or ask questions @ionlykissandtell on IG Find us on IG and Tiktok! @ionlykissandtell @tayyham & @zorubens

This week we go over our 2025 ins and outs list. In: country club activities, tasers, and polyculesOut: hills, run clubs, and meetings before 9amWe also share our experience plugging in our metaphorical avatar hair with the tree of life when exploring the mystical world of plant medicines (think oiud, magic mushrooms, and mother Aya),Find us on IG and Tiktok! @ionlykissandtell @tayyham & @zorubens

Sometimes you have to go back in time to understand the context of the future. This week we tie a bow on the sexy British man, share our meet cute, talk about the craziest gift we have received post-breakup, and share the highlights from our weekend. Spoiler alert - DJs appear sexier on stage than they do in person and if you want your ex to text you back, send them a butt plug.Find us on IG and Tiktok!@ionlykissandtell@tayyham & @zorubens

This week we’re giving you a very special bonus episode because we can't stop thinking about the art of dating. We dive into some of our best and worst first dates and share those little details that make the difference. Remember kids - dating should be fun, splitting the bill at a boujee restaurant is not hot, and the post-date text is more important than you think.Find us on IG! @ionlykissandtell @tayyham & @zorubens

Hi it's Taylor and Zoe! This week it’s time to give you a peak behind the curtain and show you the personalities behind the mic. The pinnacle of oversharing is talking about losing our virginities 2 minutes in - before even introducing ourselves. We dive into the art of yearning, recent first dates, and witchcraft. We are not pros yet, and the audio still sucks until 5:28. We will get better and that’s a promise!Find us on IG! @ionlykissandtell @tayyham & @zorubens