PODCAST · leisure
I stayed too long.
by Alexis
The Truth Is is where real conversations meet real-life experiences. I dive into love, breakups, marriage, money, and everything life throws your way—with honesty, humor, and heart. As a couples relationship mentor, I bring insight, clarity, and positive vibes to help you grow through what you go through. Tune in for unfiltered truths, daily inspiration, and a safe space for both women and men to heal, laugh, and thrive.
Episodes
-
How Long Should a Girl’s Trip Be?”
How long should a girl's trip really be? Long enough to forget your routine, but short enough to remember who you are. In this episode of The Truth Is, we're diving into the real purpose behind a girl's trip — the laughter, the healing, the freedom, and sometimes…the drama. Whether it's a weekend...
-
How Long Should You Wait for a Proposal?
When you've been with someone you love, it's natural to wonder: When will they finally pop the question? But how long is too long to wait? In this episode of The Truth Is, we dig into the delicate balance between patience, pressure, and personal timelines. We'll talk about: ✨ The difference…
more -
The Truth Is… When the Secret Becomes Too Heavy
One of our listeners wrote in with a confession that left me speechless: she's been cheating on her husband with her father-in-law… and now she's pregnant. She wants to know what to do. In this episode, we unpack what happens when a secret becomes too heavy to carry, how lies can destroy...
-
“Do Pretty Girls Really Have It Easier?”
Society loves to believe that “pretty girls have it easier.” But the truth? Looks can open doors — and just as quickly close them. In this spicy and unfiltered episode of The Truth Is, I share a personal story about how being labeled “pretty” didn't guarantee me real love, respect, or happiness.…
more -
When Love Turns Spicy (and Messy)
In this raw and spicy episode of The Truth Is, I share a In this raw and spicy episode of The Truth Is, I share a personal story about being caught in a whirlwind relationship — full of passion, fire, and drama. The chemistry was undeniable, but the chaos was constant. It took me a while to…
more -
: “Unconditional Love Is the Only Love You Need.”
In this milestone episode of The Truth Is, we dive into the power of unconditional love — the kind of love that doesn't waver when life gets messy, and doesn't demand you earn it through perfection. I share a personal story of chasing conditional love that left me drained, and the breakthrough...
-
Be Grateful — Powerful Life Lessons on Perspective and Gratitude
Be Grateful — Powerful Life Lessons on Perspective and Gratitude Gratitude changes everything. In a world where it's easy to focus on what we don't have, sometimes life reminds us of just how much we already do. In this episode of The Truth Is, I share a personal story about how a simple moment...
-
You Will Have Three Loves in Your Lifetime
They say you'll fall in love three times in your life—each one teaching you something different, each one shaping the way you love forever. In this episode of The Truth Is, we break down the “three loves theory”: ✨ The first love — young, innocent, and often unrealistic. ✨ The second love — hard,...
-
What Happens When There’s No Father in the House?
A father's presence—or absence—can shape a family in powerful ways. When there's no father in the house, children, mothers, and even entire communities feel the impact. In this episode of The Truth Is, we dive deep into what happens when that role is missing: the emotional gaps, the extra weight...
-
Have You Ever Been Blindsided in a Relationship?
Episode 46: You thought everything was fine—then suddenly, it wasn't. Being blindsided is one of the most painful breakups because it doesn't just break your heart, it breaks your sense of reality. In this raw episode of The Truth Is, I share a personal story of being blindsided in love—the…
more -
The Most Expensive Thing We Really Spend Is Time
This episode is a dedication to my nephew Cory, who is bravely facing cancer. His journey has reminded me of one of life's greatest truths: the most expensive thing we really spend is time. In this heartfelt conversation, I share a personal story about Cory, the lessons he's taught me, and a...
-
“Who You Choose to Marry Matters”
Who You Choose to Marry Matters Marriage is bigger than love—it's about alignment, peace, and the life you're building together. Because the truth is, who you choose to marry can shape your happiness, your finances, your family, and even your future. In this episode of The Truth Is, I share a...
-
When a Man Is Dating Two Women — But Lies to One and Tells the Truth to the Other… Which One Does He Love?”
Episode 44 When he's dating two women — but lies to one and tells the truth to the other — who does he love more? This week on The Truth Is, we break down the lies, the logic, and the game some men play with women's hearts. The one he lies to. The one he opens up to. Which one is the real one? Or...
-
Is It Insecurity If a Woman Dresses Sexy for Him… But He Won’t Make Her a Wife?”
Episode 43 She dressed sexy — but he never made her his wife. Was it insecurity? A double standard? Or just a man who never saw her value beyond her body? This She dressed sexy — but hehow She dressed sexy — but he never made her his wife. Was it insecurity? A double standard? Or just a man who...
-
The Mask of Strength
We all know what it feels like to wear the mask — smiling on the outside, holding it all together, showing up for work, kids, relationships, and responsibilities… while quietly crumbling inside. In this episode of The Truth Is, I'm pulling that mask off. I share my own journey of carrying pain in...
-
When a Guy Truly Gets Hurt… But It’s Too Late.”
Some men don't feel the weight of love until it's already gone. In this episode of The Truth Is, we're unpacking what happens when a woman finally walks away after being taken for granted. I share a personal story of loving, forgiving, and giving chance after chance—until I had nothing left to...
-
Is That the Woman You Want… or Just the Woman Who Validates Your Ego?”
Are you in love with her… or just addicted to how she makes you feel? In this episode of The Truth Is, we break down the difference between real connection and ego validation. It's time to have the uncomfortable conversation — because your future depends on it.
-
“There Is No Colder Than the Man Who Wishes to Be With Someone Else”
A man who has emotionally checked out is colder than any silence or absence. In this episode, we explore the painful reality of emotional abandonment, the signs that his heart is elsewhere, and the courage it takes to choose yourself instead.
-
“How a Trauma Bond Is Formed”
Episode 38 :Trauma bonds can feel like love, but they're really cycles of pain, fear, and relief. In this episode, we break down how trauma bonds are created, why they're so hard to leave, and what it takes to finally heal and reclaim yourself.
-
Is It Fair for a Cheater to Be Selfish?”
Cheating is already a selfish act. But is it fair for a cheater to continue centering themselves during the healing process? In this episode, we unpack the hard truths about accountability, emotional repair, and what it really means to rebuild trust.
-
“The One Who Challenges You Might Love You the Most”
The person who pushes you out of your comfort zone often loves you more than you realize. In this episode, we explore why loving challenge is so uncomfortable, how to tell the difference between control and support, and why growth can feel like conflict before it feels like love.
-
Why You Don’t Feel Close to Your Partner — And How To Fix It”
Feeling distant from your partner? In this episode, we explore the real reasons why emotional closeness fades and practical steps to rebuild connection and intimacy. Because love doesn't thrive on autopilot — it needs intention.
-
“How Does a Man Know He’s Ready to Be a Husband — Not Just Ready to Have a Wife?”
There's a difference between wanting a wife and being ready to be a husband. In this episode, we explore the emotional and spiritual readiness a man needs to step into true partnership — beyond titles and beyond ego. Because marriage isn't just about having someone… it's about being someone.
-
Can We Be a Safe Place for Each Other, Even If We Come From Two Different Worlds?
When two people come from different environments, love alone isn't always enough. In this episode, we explore what it really takes to create emotional safety in a relationship where backgrounds, love languages, and triggers don't match — but healing is still possible.
-
Do You Believe Love Is a Choice?
Is love just a feeling… or is it a choice? In this episode, we explore why real love is more than butterflies and chemistry, and how choosing love daily can transform your relationships. Because feelings are fleeting — but choices create lasting bonds.
-
“Your Child’s Behavior Is a Mirror of Your Home”
Episode 31: Your child's behavior isn't random — it reflects the energy and dynamics of your home. In this episode, we explore how children mirror what they see and feel, why “fixing” them often starts with healing ourselves, and how to create a safe, loving environment for them to grow and thrive.
-
“Are You Held Back By Where You Are? The Truth About Reaching Your Full Potential”
Do you feel like you're not living up to your potential because of your environment? In this episode, we explore how the spaces and people around you can limit your growth — and why choosing to move, shift, or evolve might be the key to stepping into your true power. It's time to stop shrinking…
more -
7 Rules You and Your Partner Should Agree On.
Love isn't just about chemistry — it's about agreements. In this episode, we break down 7 essential rules every couple should agree on if they want to build something real. From how you fight to how you grow, these are the unspoken contracts that make or break your bond.
-
“The Quality of Life You’re Living Depends on What You’ve Been Saying”
Your words shape your world. In this episode, we explore how what you speak — over yourself and others — builds the life you're living. Are your words creating love and abundance or feeding cycles of pain and doubt? It's time to take your power back, one sentence at a time.
-
“Insecurity Isn’t the Enemy of Love — Silence Is.”
Insecurity is human. It doesn't destroy love — silence does. In this episode, we unpack why voicing your fears builds intimacy and how staying silent only creates distance. Because real love can handle your doubts — but it can't heal what you refuse to reveal.
-
“The Truth Is: Insecurity Doesn’t Disappear in a Good Relationship — You Learn to Manage It Together”
Even in the healthiest relationship, insecurity still shows up. The difference is — you don't have to hide it. You manage it together. In this episode, we break down what real partnership looks like, how to communicate through self-doubt, and why true love doesn't expect perfection — it embraces...
-
“When the Illusion Fades: The True Test of Love”
In the beginning, we fall for the fantasy. But when the illusion fades, we're left with the real person — flaws, wounds, and all. That's when love is truly tested. In this episode, we talk about moving from idealized love to authentic connection and choosing each other even when the highlight…
more -
“Emotional Intelligence Is Knowing How to Respond”
Episode 24: “Emotional Intelligence Is Knowing How to Respond” Emotional intelligence isn't about being perfect — it's about knowing when to pause, breathe, and choose your response over your reaction. In this episode, we break down the difference between reacting from pain and responding from...
-
“What If Your Partner Loves Oral Sex… But You Hate Giving It?”
Sexual compatibility is more than just chemistry — it's communication. In this episode, we dive into what happens when your partner craves something you can't or won't give. What if they love oral sex, but you hate doing it? From setting boundaries to exploring compromises, we're talking…
more -
“Your Wedding, Your Circle — Why Choosing You Means Choosing Who Comes”
Episode 22: “Your Wedding, Your Circle — Why Choosing You Means Choosing Who Comes” Planning your wedding? This episode is your reminder that your peace matters more than other people's expectations. Just because they're family, or you've known them for years, doesn't mean they deserve a seat at...
-
“Why Should a Man Be Required to Pay Your Bills Before You’re Married?”
Is it about money — or meaning? In this episode, we unpack the hot-button question: should a man be required to pay your bills before marriage? I break down the emotional, cultural, and practical layers of this debate — from provision vs. entitlement, to standards vs. survival. If you've ever…
more -
What They Lack, They’ll Take From You”
In this episode of The Truth Is, we talk about what happens when you let emotionally unstable, financially unprepared, or insecure partners into your life. From peace to power, confidence to currency — what they lack, they'll take. Let's talk about protecting your energy, setting boundaries, and...
-
“The Difference Between Living Together and Loving Together”
Just because you share a space doesn't mean you share a connection. In this episode, we unpack the quiet truth so many couples face: the difference between co-existing and truly loving each other. From emotional intimacy to intentional effort, I break down what it means to love together — not…
more -
“Losses, Lessons, and Blessings”
The 3 stages that shape every season of your life. Life will humble you, teach you, and bless you — sometimes all at once. In this episode of The Truth Is, we break down the 3 stages of life we all experience: losses that break us open, lessons that reshape us, and blessings that remind us why it...
-
Friendship Trauma
We always talk about heartbreak in romantic relationships — but what about the pain that comes from losing a friend? In this episode of The Truth Is, we're getting real about friendship trauma. The betrayal. The silence. The shift from “everyday” to strangers. If you've ever had to grieve a...
-
Their Consistency Is Your Clarity.
They said all the right things… but their actions told a different story. In this episode of The Truth Is, we're talking about how consistency is the clearest form of communication — and why you don't need to keep decoding mixed signals. If their patterns leave you guessing, that is your answer....
-
“Stop Calling It Closure”
Stop Calling It Closure We love to say we need “closure” to move on — but what if that's just another way of staying stuck? In this episode, we break down the truth behind why we chase closure, how it keeps us tied to situations and people that no longer serve us, and what we really need to truly...
-
Healing After a Situationship.
It wasn't official, but it felt real. So why does it hurt so much? In this episode of The Truth Is, we're talking about the quiet heartbreak that comes from situationships — the emotional investment without a title, the confusion without closure, and the healing that feels invisible to everyone…
more -
Love Bombs & Red Flags — When Too Much Love Is a Warning Sign
It starts with grand gestures, constant attention, and fast-paced intimacy—but is it real love or manipulation? In this episode, we unpack the dangers of love bombing and the subtle red flags that often follow. If you've ever questioned whether someone's love was genuine or just a performance…
more -
“The Pain That Changes You”
Episode 12: The Pain That Changes You Some pain doesn't just hurt — it transforms you. In this episode of The Truth Is, we're talking about the kind of heartbreak, loss, or betrayal that cracks you open and forces growth. This is for the ones who had to rebuild from the ground up. The ones who…
more -
What’s Worse — Loving Someone You Can’t Have or Having Someone You Can’t Love?
Some heartbreaks come from longing… others from guilt. In this episode of The Truth Is, we're exploring the emotional weight of two very different kinds of pain: loving someone who isn't yours, and being with someone your heart just can't connect to. Which one hurts more? Which one leaves deeper...
-
They Love You, But Do They Like You?
Episode 10: They Love You, But Do They Like You? Love isn't always enough. In this episode of The Truth Is, we're breaking down the difference between being loved and actually being liked. Because the truth is — someone can say they love you and still not respect you, support you, or enjoy who…
more -
“Friendship Must Be Mutual”
Let's talk about it — friendship isn't one-sided. If you're always checking in, always showing up, always being the bigger person… this episode is for you. The Truth Is, real friendships should feel safe, mutual, and supportive — not draining. This is your reminder that you deserve connections…
more -
“They Were Just Too Little”
Have you ever felt like you were “too much” for someone? Too emotional, too passionate, too real? In this episode of The Truth Is, we're flipping that narrative. The problem was never you — it was their inability to receive your fullness. This is your permission to stop shrinking, stop…
more -
Some Girls Preach Sisterhood But Practice Competition..
They post quotes about unity, empowerment, and women supporting women—but behind closed doors, it's a whole different story. In this episode, we're diving into the truth behind fake sisterhood. Why do some women wear the mask of friendship while secretly competing, gossiping, or undermining?…
more
We're indexing this podcast's transcripts for the first time — this can take a minute or two. We'll show results as soon as they're ready.
No matches for "" in this podcast's transcripts.
No topics indexed yet for this podcast.
Loading reviews...
ABOUT THIS SHOW
The Truth Is is where real conversations meet real-life experiences. I dive into love, breakups, marriage, money, and everything life throws your way—with honesty, humor, and heart. As a couples relationship mentor, I bring insight, clarity, and positive vibes to help you grow through what you go through. Tune in for unfiltered truths, daily inspiration, and a safe space for both women and men to heal, laugh, and thrive.
HOSTED BY
Alexis
CATEGORIES
Loading similar podcasts...
Frequently Asked Questions
How many episodes does I stayed too long. have?
I stayed too long. currently has 56 episodes available on PodParley. New episodes are automatically indexed when they're published to the podcast feed.
What is I stayed too long. about?
The Truth Is is where real conversations meet real-life experiences. I dive into love, breakups, marriage, money, and everything life throws your way—with honesty, humor, and heart. As a couples relationship mentor, I bring insight, clarity, and positive vibes to help you grow through what you go...
How often does I stayed too long. release new episodes?
I stayed too long. has 56 episodes. Check the episode list to see recent publication dates and frequency.
Where can I listen to I stayed too long.?
You can listen to I stayed too long. on PodParley by clicking any episode. We provide an embedded audio player for direct listening, and you can also subscribe via your preferred podcast app using the RSS feed.
Who hosts I stayed too long.?
I stayed too long. is created and hosted by Alexis.
URL copied to clipboard!